Children hurt by parents words and actions
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
- I know seokyung wasn’t abused by her mother but the only reason I put her in was the point where shim su reyon said she no longer accept her as her daughter. The whole point of the viscose is where parents say stuff to their child which hurt them no platter if the child deserved it or not they still said it. I know she was a very nice mum to her and it was actually seokyung who deserved the slap…
Poeple who knows the name of the dramas please say that here in my comment (can you pin it)
I will say some:
00:00- penthouse
00:18- 18 again
00:30- penthouse
00:48- extraordinary you
00:55- extraordinary you
00:59- penthouse
1:05- so cold
1:07- penthouse
1:22- at a distance spring is green
1:29- ?
1:32- ?
1:34- penthouse
1:40- ?
1:44- ?
1:55- school 2017
2:06- ?
2:08- strong woman do bong soon
2:16- extraordinary you
2:22- penthouse
2:41- at a distance spring is green
2:48- ?
2:54- sky castle
3:04- penthouse
3:11- school 2017
3:26- penthouse
3:30- ?
3:33- cheer up/sassy go go
3:43- sky castle
3:52- 18 again
4:00- sky castle
4:17- penthouse
1:29- sky castle
1:32- penthouse
1:40- save me
1:44- at a distance spring is green
2:06- penthouse
2:48- penthouse
3:30- true beauty
1:29 - sky castle
1:32 - penthouse
1:40 - save me
1:44 - at a distance spring is green
2:06 - penthouse
2:48 - penthouse
3:30 - true beauty
Thank you
@@thv.1375 wht ep is 0:47 ?
@@_sportsnabzzz_5743 I’m not sure sorry but you should defo watch
Is it my fault that i can't reach their expectation? Is it my fault that i failed to make them proud of me? Is it my fault that i can't make them happy? Is it my fault that i was born?
It isn't your fault, please don't think like that
I am convinced that it's mine. My mom and dad said "people make children for taking care of the parents when they get old". After hearing this for so mamy times i thought that what i was thinking was just bullshit and this was reality.
They changed my thoughts about so many things and now i hope that i don't suffer because of that.
My mom is always like "i gAve biRth tO yOu!" Like I never wanted to be in this hell.
No No No and No!!!! Just screw it who cares don't think about that!!!
@@sweetpoison9454 no matter what happens , do not let go of your own beliefs . Don't let your parents or others force their opinions on you . I know it's hard... but hold on , for there's light at the end of this tunnel.... its not your fault at all. Just stay strong ... you will win for sure .
I hate the fact that I have to be dependent on my parents for my essentials. I want to leave them I want to run away but I can't. I can't I CAN'T
You know what's the worst part? I am not dependent on them. I've run away. Yet, they are there. They are there. In my head, In my head, living in my soul. They have traumatized enough to make sure our lives are fucked up, even away from them.
@@ananyamadhusudana9289 I am so sorry you have to go through it all but who am I to console you as we both are sitting in the same boat.
It literally made me cry seeing that i am not alone suffering through this
🤗🤗🤗
Same here
Just wait, time will save you, I Know It's easy to say it but it's just à few years and it will be over
@@san-mm8hx I believe you...
is everything okay now ?
I'm greatful my parents let me choose what I want they know me more then I know myself I feel Lucky to having them as my parents ❤️
I understand there pain because I feel it everyday
Are you OK?
Are you okay x ?
SEO KYUNG WAS NEVER ABUSED BY HER MOM❗❗❗❗❗❗more like the other way around💔
Read my other comment
But I do agree with you
Yeah she was so sweet and love both of her kids even after she came to know that they are the kids of her monster husband
I would say su ryeon (the mom) was already fed up with her shit in this case cause she always oppose and blames her ( after all the struggles she endured and giving her kids proper rights and needs that her husband restricted from them) and what she is trying to doing right for her without any force and I sadly can't blame seol-ah in my opinion for this case (but Ik she cares for seo-kyung its just that it was complicated for her to think properly at that time that she lost her mind with her daughter) because it felt like she was pestered by her daughter .
Edit : The mom’s name is su ryeon not seol ah (her dead and lost daughter ) my bad about it
Im crying so hard im not the only person in the world to feel like this and suffered so bad🥺
Don't worry you are not alone who suffered through this pain I am with you
Me now, my mom tried harder to makes me crazy.
Haah me too@@newsaehunnewsaehub5504
I am.with you
Even my parents is so abusive its hurt alot we just want that our parents proud of us we do everything for them but still they are unsatisfied from us wae waee whyyy I live in india and here many children's suffering from this we all are soo much depressed we have our own life to but maybe our parents never understand this they just want that their child do the things according to their parents and their rules if they say u have to grade good than we have to if they say u have to become a doctor engineer we have to cuz this like a order or something ik they care for us but this much pressurized, depression, stress, hurt alot, too much abusing, forced us, like we never had a dream to become something or live our life like we want that much abusive and depressed and the result is suicide like they never a feeling we're we all are just exhausted inside we're sooo much depressed from this and we can't handle this anymore that's the reason of many children's do suicide still they never understand we always cry inside feeling hurt alot lot of pain Still they never understand why idk I wish that not all parents are like mine one when it's over dk
It's my life I attempted suicide when I was 12 and now I am 16 and my 10tj boards got over and I am very nervous about my boards results I feel like I will kill myself if I don't get 90 up
@@aloise6575 yeah even me soo much tensed for my board results no matter what happens our parents want only 90 above they never feel or understand what we want what are we feeling from inside never ever
@@fanficjmin ikr we are in same situation they forget that we are humans too..... let's pray we get 90 up bro/sis
@@aloise6575 ya I wish to
umm I even attempted suicide ... they Don't care ... they said me " i should die the day i born " ..... they beat me etccc...
My parents even say " why don't you just die??", "You should die" and it will be peacefull for us"..it used to hurt a lot before but now i am used to it..i don't know if it's nice to be used to it..but i am trying, trying to survive, waiting for a day when can be free and happy.
*hugs* that's disgusting... why saying those words to sb even a child
_sigh_
I am so so sorry for you
Please keep fighting okii🥺❤
@@dreamworld387 thankyou dear :)
@@rhythmjain6407 I can relate to this so much !!! But we can't do or say anything, because of these lines I even think of dying!! I just want a happy and peaceful day , I just can't wait to become an adult .
Keep fighting yorobun!!
@Esba khan thanks alot!!
Anyone who feels you are nothing for anyone or even for yourself don't ever think you are not enough you are more than enough if we can tolerate till now we will come out from all one day I love you all you are not weak , not waste , not garbage , not ugly you deserve the world but the world don't deserve you
It's just that I am always there for them but no one is ever there for me. So I have decided to not care about anyone around me. Cuz the more I care the more I start to expect from them and when they don't reciprocate the same care back... it hurts. So I am going to stop caring about people so that I don't expect anything from them anymore.
My personality is made from pain sadness and abuse I'm broken dead on the inside but nobody can know of they will judge me and I will be the crazy person nobody can know noone at all
Every single dramas every lines is just explaing my life are you guyz trying to expose my life!
it will get better, just try to be financially independent and do what you really like
@@anuragpal8409 I'm just 14 what can I doo....🥺just die that the only way ....🙂having abusive parents anxiety problem this all really hurts it's not my fault thati. Was born dumb...😭
@@vkookvkook8420 It does get better, and I know that you will not believe me now. The dramas in the video also represent my life with only leaving out more pain. I know it seems like the world is falling apart around you, but just keep in mind that in a few more years, you can freely go and never have to speak to them again. Even if you believe you are not that smart, all what is required is to wait until you can claim your independence and then you can run. If you have already tried to go through the legal process to get away from them but nothing happened, remember you only have a few more years to deal with them. Things will get better, and my advice for you is to find an outlet to release the feelings inside (for me, I would write down what just happened and light it on fire or focus on music). Please believe when I tell you things will get better, even though it may not seem like it now, you will eventually not have to deal with them anymore.
There is a saying in India that almost all children in Karnataka, India have at least heard once. It has a general meaning that 'Only by hitting and chipping at a rock can a sculptor make a beautiful sculpture.' It is to tell us that a parent only scolds and hits their child to make them a better human in the future.
Of course, this does not mean that there are no cases in India seen as abuse, there are, but only really extreme ones.
I'm sorry to say this as I know this might be considered abuse in western countries, but in India this is mild (ignoring the last penthouse scene, where she's locked up).
Example 1:
My own friend got punished by her mom for lying to her. This was years ago, when we were about 11 or 12, so about 5 years ago, so I don't really remember what she lied abt. But her mom got so mad she heated a steel spatula on the fire and burnt a line onto her shin. It looked bad, really bad(it got infected and there was greenish-yellow pus leaking all over).
THIS IS NOT CONSIDERED ABUSE. SO SLAPS AND HITS WITH WOODEN STICKS AND LADLES ARE A DAILY ACTIVITY FOR US.
Example 2:
I read a news article recently about how a 6-year old girl was left on the roof with her hands and legs tied together behind her back and was left alone on the rooftop as punishment. The police investigated this case.
THIS IS ABUSE. BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE POLICE DID. NEVER GOT A FOLLOW UP ARTICLE.
I'm not trying to undermine the pain others feel or their pressure, because I understand it just as well. I just wanted to get a different point of view across, if that makes sense.
Sorry for rambling...
UR GRT, IF U READ THE WHOLE THING.
STAY STRONG!!!
BEING ABLE TO KEEP UR HEAD UP HIGH DURING HORRIBLE DAYS LIKE THIS, IS A STRENGTH U WILL APPRECIATE IN THE FUTURE. BELIEVE ME.
FIGHTING!!!
Extreme punishments are happened to be with parent's anger issues. What ever the reason I believed we should not harm some one extremely even they are our children. So about thing you said lying I think it is a abuse.
@@beginningofscienceclass1220 Thanks for that. But if that really were the case, CPS should have been called into every other house in the neighborhood. LOL
I'm so sorry. Keep going. You can life the life you want! My mother wants me to be baptized in a few months. The truth that I don't want to be part of her religion. She was abusive to me and never supported me. She doesn't care about my dreams she always says I will become a missionary. The abuse now made me want to die. My breath is taken away when I think what will happen when I tell her that I will not be baptized.
hi, I'm so sorry that you're going through this
@@thv.1375 woa. Thank you very much! A kind word always strengthens me. Hugs
Why do parents used to say that I have done everything for you i Mean isn't this there responsibility either i want to stay here they did
If this was we called parent abuse. As an Indian child we go through worse than that Indian parents beat their children with shoes 😂. But we take it not that seriously.we laugh it off 😂
Edit - sorry if anybody get hurt by my words . I am just saying that most of the people laugh it off. I know that hurts when our parents abuse us .
So again I say sorry to all 😔
Right 😂
Yes... Our Indian parents probably don't know its called abuse..we do laugh it off but it still hurts somewhere Deep inside..no one deserve to be abused by their parents..no one.
@@rhythmjain6407 yes you're right
Well I am an indian too but it's a lot here I can't take it lightly anytime being treated different than my siblings hurts and my mom is the reason
@@th_sm_shi true
my parents never hit me but my mother always says that i am the biggest mistake in hee life.somtimes i wished i was dead not for myself but for them i can never make them proud i hate myself.
I just want to run away from the hell called home..
i'm right now...everyday i want happy and i smile but my parents always angry to me when i not have do wrong...i thing i'm not them child
2:17 Stop. This face seems familiar to me. Ah, that's how my mother often looked at me. I'm traumatized by this look, when someone else does it I start crying like an idiot
Nice edit 👍😊
Thanks 😋
why don't you mention the drama name in the order of time lapse ? pls
Go to my comment
just ask in the comments if u want a drama name and then ill reply :)
Be grateful even you broken family but still have home and money, . Me nothing
My father loves me so much he want that i become police officer but i want to become dancer I do secretly dance from my father 😣😣😣😣😣😣
the penthouse mom looks young enough 2 b her sister
Fr
Could someone please tell me the name of the drama at 2:08?
Strong women do bongsoon
1:57 3:33 what the name of the drama thank you
1:57- school 2017
3:33- cheer up/sassy go go
@@thv.1375 what episode of school 2017?
@@safiyahxx6352 it’s ep 11 at 16.00 minutes
What episode cheer up/ sassy go go ?
@@safiyahxx6352 not sure but it’s in the middle of de series
3:30 penthouse
2:42 what k drama is it?
At a distance spring is green
0:59 what drama is it from?
Penthouse season 2 ep 10
Can you please post the song link?
ua-cam.com/video/FLUaunYQKuY/v-deo.html
@@thv.1375 thank you soo much 💕
@@mina.a0902 np☺️
2:48 penthouse
What’s the drama at 2:56 please?
Sky castle ep 14 I think
Does have a list of the drama show in this video
Go to my comment
can u tell me tha name of the drama at 1:05 plzzz
So cold
Penthouse or at a distance ,spring is green
penthouse
3:36 which drama please tell
Cheer up/ sassy go go
song name?
ua-cam.com/video/LHRgKU2Fjfk/v-deo.html
4:00 which drama?
Sky castle
real
What is the song name?
So cold
which drama is at 4:20 ? please tell
Penthouse season 3 ep 8 (it’s on Netflix)
Name of Music??
So cold
1:44 drama name pleasee??
At a distance spring is green
@@thv.1375 omg thx
3:26 name?
Penthouse 2
0:38 drama name
Penthouse season 3 ep 6 I think
What is the name of the song
so cold
🤣🤣🤣
Can someone please tell me the drama name 1:59
School 2017
Drama name 0:55?
Extraordinary you
1:8 which drama
pent house 1
Thanks
What drama is 0:48 plz
Extraordinary you
@@thv.1375 what episode (nice edit btw)
@@sophiayuhg can't really remember but in the middle I guess😭
@@princess_lookbook what's the drama name? 2:21 do u know?🥺
@@CallMeeZen it's penthouse😊❤ I encourage you to watch it. It's so good😭❗