Great video Yumay! I kept a diary for my exes "bad deeds", and that list helped me to leave him and be strong the moment I would think " I already invested in this marriage too much."
Thank you for sharing, this is a wise way to prevent euphoric recall. Euphoric recall is unfortunately is a big reason why people go back to abusive relationships, and prevention is key as you pointed out!
Wonderful and helpful video Yumay! I am 75 and my spouse is not going to change and I desire to end the marriage. The most difficult challenge for me is fear. The fear of starting over at this age. I have tried everything and she will not change. Do you have any suggestions in this type of situation on how to address and overcome fear??? thank you!!
I love all your videos thank you so much❤ My question is my boyfriend always shushing me when I speaks( something stupid according to him) I told him many times that I think it’s genuinely rude and sounds like I am an animal but he just wouldn’t stop even though last second he said he’s sorry wouldn’t do it anymore , what should I do.. thanks in advance x
Thank you for the feedback, Tom, I am happy to hear that you enjoyed my videos! In terms of your question, it's an involved issue that can benefit from a discussion, but a few things to consider are to 1) Watch their actions, not words. Words mean nothing if they are not followed up by actions 2) Get clear on what you can and cannon control. You cannot control what other people think, say, or do, but you can control how you respond. 3) Understand boundaries and how boundaries are not real unless enforced by actions. This graph may help you with #2. happydayot.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/control.jpg
Great video Yumay! I kept a diary for my exes "bad deeds", and that list helped me to leave him and be strong the moment I would think " I already invested in this marriage too much."
Thank you for sharing, this is a wise way to prevent euphoric recall. Euphoric recall is unfortunately is a big reason why people go back to abusive relationships, and prevention is key as you pointed out!
Great video. Thank you. Can you make a video about partners from different cultures and how to make that work? Tks
Wonderful and helpful video Yumay! I am 75 and my spouse is not going to change and I desire to end the marriage. The most difficult challenge for me is fear. The fear of starting over at this age. I have tried everything and she will not change. Do you have any suggestions in this type of situation on how to address and overcome fear???
thank you!!
I love all your videos thank you so much❤
My question is my boyfriend always shushing me when I speaks( something stupid according to him) I told him many times that I think it’s genuinely rude and sounds like I am an animal but he just wouldn’t stop even though last second he said he’s sorry wouldn’t do it anymore , what should I do.. thanks in advance x
Thank you for the feedback, Tom, I am happy to hear that you enjoyed my videos!
In terms of your question, it's an involved issue that can benefit from a discussion, but a few things to consider are to 1) Watch their actions, not words. Words mean nothing if they are not followed up by actions 2) Get clear on what you can and cannon control. You cannot control what other people think, say, or do, but you can control how you respond. 3) Understand boundaries and how boundaries are not real unless enforced by actions.
This graph may help you with #2.
happydayot.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/control.jpg