Loathe - Is It Really You? (OFFICIAL AUDIO STREAM)

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  • Опубліковано 30 жов 2024

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  • @raph9831
    @raph9831 3 роки тому +4307

    No joke, this is one of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard.

    • @paulloandre5929
      @paulloandre5929 3 роки тому +33

      E com razão

    • @nenxis7585
      @nenxis7585 2 роки тому +38

      Do you know any songs just as good as this one? Looking for new music

    • @iamalbarn
      @iamalbarn 2 роки тому +15

      @@nenxis7585 blanket almost the same

    • @alisya9117
      @alisya9117 2 роки тому +1

      agreed

    • @yoshh.
      @yoshh. 2 роки тому +29

      @@nenxis7585 whirr- younger than you

  • @mattfain9929
    @mattfain9929 4 роки тому +4573

    Finally a band that sounds like Deftones while having their own unique sound. I hope they make more songs like this one, A sad Cartoon, and Two-Way Mirror. Absolute masterpieces!

    • @cateatinrat78
      @cateatinrat78 4 роки тому +120

      I followed these guys since their heavier sound, But this album took my soul away!

    • @phylazen5649
      @phylazen5649 3 роки тому +68

      @@cateatinrat78 i also found them via New Faces in the Dark then heard the rest of that album and, being a huge deftones fan i couldn't believe my ears. So heavily inspired but so unique in their own way as well. I always save the heavy tracks for the last part of my playlist now just to get warmed up.

    • @eljavis5037
      @eljavis5037 3 роки тому +71

      My Deftones playlist took me here lol

    • @odralebazerimar9084
      @odralebazerimar9084 3 роки тому +101

      The riff in this song sounds like Pink Maggit by deftones.

    • @pkohalloran
      @pkohalloran 3 роки тому +21

      These guys are great. I don't find it unique though....sounds like Deftones to me lol.

  • @11cylynt11
    @11cylynt11 4 роки тому +1582

    After reading the lyrics while listening, I absolutely broke down in tears. I interpret this song as someone dealing with the death of a loved-one. Trying to deal with the sadness however he can. Going outside to gaze at stars to find their spirit. When he sings "is it really you?" I interpret that as him asking the sky if it's really his loved-one's presence he feels - as his gaze meets a particular set of stars that resemble their eyes. Then he just lays there letting himself be "crushed by silent snow," embracing his loved-one's spirit.
    The really sad part to me was when he sings, "I'm bleeding out, oh you know." That could mean that he cut his wrists so he can "collide like stars" to be with his loved-one again in the afterlife. The "silent snow" can be a metaphor for depression. The "ebb and flow" line could represent how depression tends to be chronic and intensifies when traumatic events happen. The "oh you know" could be him talking to his loved-one. Reminding them that they ”know" how devastating life changes can ruin him.
    More optimistically, one can interpret the "bleeding out" line as him feeling empty while letting out all his pain. Or that he feels completely alone without their company. Maybe that's why he sings "collide like stars for a while." Meaning he just wants to break down in tears for a while, let it all out. Embrace the pain and longing - to work through the trauma and start to heal from his loss.
    I couldn't help but think of my aunt Norma who passed away from brain cancer. She beat it with surgery and chemotherapy when she was in her 30's. Unfortunately, it came back in her 50's and she simply couldn't beat it again in her advanced age. She was the kindest and strongest person I've ever known. I miss her so much.

    • @OSK_MikaVista
      @OSK_MikaVista 3 роки тому +82

      Fun fact, you’ve describe this exactly how I interpreted it. The lines about bleeding out hit way to close to home. After all that’s what drove her away.

    • @joshuagreer8046
      @joshuagreer8046 3 роки тому +10

      Sorry about your aunt Norma but interpret this song as well me personally.Losing your partner or girlfriend and wondering really is it you whothat leaves me after everybody else that does. You end up falling into a cycle an eb and flow of self mutilation and hatred for yourself you are out of your mind and missing them so much and possessed with the idea of losing him or her

    • @11cylynt11
      @11cylynt11 3 роки тому +16

      Thank you all for letting me feel like I'm not alone in my interpretation. And thank you all for your sympathy. ❤❤❤

    • @SpicyGummyWorms
      @SpicyGummyWorms 3 роки тому +11

      are you going to leave this comment on every video with this song

    • @11cylynt11
      @11cylynt11 3 роки тому +15

      @@SpicyGummyWorms yes! if it bothers you then don't read it.😁✌

  • @filloneandonly
    @filloneandonly 4 роки тому +1949

    I'm from Russia, an old fan of Deftones and I don't understand why this magical track is viewed by so little ammount of people... In my opinion it's the best on a album. Forgive me my bad english.

    • @dmitryb09
      @dmitryb09 3 роки тому +69

      I forgive you! :)

    • @rvalle11
      @rvalle11 3 роки тому +61

      I sit here in california always dreaming with these style of songs on, and I apply it to my daily life and the culture that surrounds this area. I sit here now imagining how life is for you over there on that side of the world. If there are both happy and bad days to the songs. How you live your life and such is a fascination to me because I know we both live different lives, but the music is the same for us. I hope it is well my friend and I hope youre able to stay safe in these times!

    • @ugysoulreaverretro9756
      @ugysoulreaverretro9756 3 роки тому +12

      Damn .It Reminds Me The Good Old Deftones Too ... So We Are Not Feeling Wrong ABout This

    • @filloneandonly
      @filloneandonly 3 роки тому +52

      ​@@rvalle11 It is very pleasant to read your comment, thank you very-very much for kind words! I wish you well too, read and heard that cities/streets in America are mostly empty because of covid situation, hope that soon situation going to change.
      I live in Moscow and goverment has lowered the level of restrictions, it's even almost canceled. We wearing masks and maintaining a distance 1.5 meters in subway etc, but as example - cinemas are open and tomorrow i even planning to see "Nomad's land" movie =))
      In a big cities in Russia we are mostly going feet to feet (i mean - together) with other world, we listen to same music, watching same movies. And with such music as Loathe, i think we are even dreaming of same things =))
      I'm 38 and i got lucky to get a Nirvana "Bleach" album at my 7 birthday, at those times it was literally a miracle, comunism still was at rule, USSR and all that stuff, and my mate's parents brought me this cassette from their trip to America. It's changed my life forever.
      My dad was a professional musician, guitar player/vocalist. We lived apart till my 10 years, and then i moved to him from my mother, for another 10 years, and that years was my fantastic trip to the world of music, starting from "Yes", "Led Zeppelin", "Pink Floyd", "King Krimson" and to allmighty (in my opinion) music of the 90's. It is where i've become a great fan of electronic music like Massive Attack (and all ther triphop family), Chemical Brothers and Prodigy of course (it was a cultural phenomen here in Russia, i've started to listen them in 1992, and quit after they come to Moscow and it was 300.000 people concert almost on the Red Square, where many people got very hurt - not because of this i quit isten to them, i've jaus always liked a less popular bands =)))))) My love for them is eternal but for old Prodigy - mostly). After that my heart was destroyed (in a good way) by jungle / drum and bass, i lstill love that music and make steps to compose it by myself. So hard rock and powerful electronic music was always my very deep love.
      For last 20 years i'm a great fan of Deftones, and last 10-15 years two my favorite bands is "Cult Of Luna" and band called "Isis" (it is not exist anymore, but albums they released are fantastic. I was shocked that this new world plague also named "Isis", can't buy a t-short now =))))) )
      I've been on Deftones concert 3 times, even had a chance to shake Chi Cheng hand before a tragedy. So life here are not that special. We, a thinking amount of people, are very dissapointed by situation in our country, but in all other aspects of life - it's going on.
      Winters not that cold anymore, summers are pretty warm. Not everybody drinking vodka anymore too - new generation are great guys, they times are x10 lighter than ours =))
      Sorry for so many words and ammount of mistakes, i was so happy to read your comment so i decided to answer as wide as i can now =))
      Wish you all the best and i Hope that all your dreams will come true!

    • @brunopianodude9938
      @brunopianodude9938 3 роки тому +1

      Well the better, the less recognition it has.

  • @el_mal_de_ojo
    @el_mal_de_ojo 4 роки тому +1274

    At their heaviest, they are crushing; at their lightest, as soft as a whisper. This album slingshots you from one extreme to the other with truly mind-bending results. Brilliant album. Amazing, fucking amazing experience live.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate 4 роки тому +21

      Still equally crushing when silent

    • @nickslad3164
      @nickslad3164 2 роки тому +3

      Dig

    • @mcchickensandwiches2384
      @mcchickensandwiches2384 Рік тому +3

      my favorite album oat

    • @SpartanLaserCanon
      @SpartanLaserCanon Рік тому +1

      Some of their songs remind me of the Deftones. It would be sick to see a tour with both of them.

    • @Posirep
      @Posirep Рік тому +2

      Especially when you realize that "Gored" is the song right after this on the album lol

  • @Kalitayy
    @Kalitayy 3 роки тому +530

    My most played band on Spotify
    2019: Issues
    2020: The 1975
    2021: Loathe, for sure

    • @tiannaparker3187
      @tiannaparker3187 2 роки тому +7

      👀 friends??? Lmao you got great taste in music just from the 3 I can see 👍

    • @Kalitayy
      @Kalitayy 2 роки тому +6

      @@tiannaparker3187 Oof sorry for the late reply. And sorry, my most played artist of 2021 was Phoebe Bridgers 😅 But Loathe was like 3rd, 2nd being Spiritbox.

    • @dukkeoun_
      @dukkeoun_ Рік тому +20

      2022 - Sleep Token?

    • @kingdavidguitar
      @kingdavidguitar Рік тому +3

      Loathe and the 1975 are probably my favorite bands

    • @Kalitayy
      @Kalitayy 9 місяців тому

      @@dukkeoun_ Oof sorry, both 2022 and 2023 were won by Phoebe Bridgers lol. That's 3 years in a row. But Loathe came in 4th in 2023, 2nd being Deftones

  • @jhossuealban5633
    @jhossuealban5633 Рік тому +385

    I remember this album came out a year after my girlfriend passed away. Back then I still hadn't gotten out of that abyss. When I first heard this song I swear it was love at first sight; I still couldn't understand why, but when analyzing this lyrics it was inevitable to fall into tears. Even to this day, whenever I listen to it, it brings me chills and other sensations that I cannot describe.
    The memories, the lucid dreams I had and her last words before never seeing her again, I feel that everything is connected to this song; call me crazy, but my connection to this melody literally makes me sit next to her again.
    "Let's search the sky for a while, You and I, Collide like two stars, for a while, You and I..."

    • @younesmounir2679
      @younesmounir2679 Рік тому +3

      i Believe you

    • @vita3725
      @vita3725 Рік тому +17

      I understand your feeling. My first boyfriend passed away five years ago, and I've taken this song to his grave countless times. He, unfortunately, never heard this album in his life, but like the good metalhead that he was, he would have loved it. Hope you stay strong!

    • @jinboi8813
      @jinboi8813 Рік тому +4

      I feel you dude. I lost my girlfriend April.

    • @sadstoic
      @sadstoic 6 місяців тому +1

      Now amount of words will suffice but Iam truly sorry for your loss, I can't imagine the magnitude of pain it must be. May I ask how you pulled through because I'm currently struggling with a different type of grief

    • @DLewis-pn8yo
      @DLewis-pn8yo 5 місяців тому

      😭❤️✝️

  • @funnyperson4027
    @funnyperson4027 Рік тому +535

    This the kinda song that leaves you staring up at the ceiling

    • @北の王子-u8u
      @北の王子-u8u 9 місяців тому +2

      Me rn

    • @DevoidVoid
      @DevoidVoid 3 місяці тому +6

      4 years. My life has been absolutely dogshit for a consistent time despite my best efforts. This whole album remains as a timeless piece of art that is one of the only pieces left that can make me leave this earth for awhile without actually leaving 🖤

    • @SkaiiV
      @SkaiiV 2 місяці тому

      @@DevoidVoidI relate to this on a deep level. Hope you’re doing okay.

  • @oscaralas7971
    @oscaralas7971 4 роки тому +307

    Screaming - Is It Really You? - Two Way Mirror - A Sad Cartoon (Reprise) - A Sad Cartoon, in that order all these songs are perfectly connected :'D

    • @chevon7665
      @chevon7665 4 роки тому +45

      For as much as I was looking forward to the heavy tracks I find myself listening to theme 451 days plus the songs you listed way more than I thought I would. This is an important record for sure

    • @pewterschmidt23lord99
      @pewterschmidt23lord99 4 роки тому +10

      Plus I let it in is like the perfect finally for it

    • @snevarez31
      @snevarez31 4 роки тому +5

      @@pewterschmidt23lord99 I was just saying that. The killed it with the ending

  • @TacoCrisma
    @TacoCrisma 4 роки тому +261

    When I first heard the opening vocals I thought it was Chino.
    God this album is a masterpiece. I haven’t felt this way about new music since I was a teenager

    • @selenite3890
      @selenite3890 11 місяців тому +1

      i was listening to mother of pearl by melanie martinez, clicked on the wrong tab, started scrolling, read this and was SO confused

    • @skinnyexorcist
      @skinnyexorcist 2 місяці тому

      ​@@selenite3890gay

  • @92tilinfiniti
    @92tilinfiniti 2 роки тому +386

    This song is saving me right now from succumbing to a lifelong depression and struggle

    • @RedEyedEaglez
      @RedEyedEaglez 2 роки тому +19

      wish you the best brother, it will get better even when it seems like it wont.

    • @kevinmriggins
      @kevinmriggins 2 роки тому +8

      I feel this more than I'd like to admit. I hope you find light in this darkened world we live in.

    • @NK-bz9wb
      @NK-bz9wb 2 роки тому +2

      Sending you love ♥️♥️

    • @xgodzhiredgunx
      @xgodzhiredgunx 2 роки тому +2

      It's one of the few songs that saved me as well, stay strong

    • @angelopolo3761
      @angelopolo3761 2 роки тому

      Me 2

  • @catface
    @catface 4 роки тому +422

    I love how diverse and at the same time coherent this album is. incredible

    • @ShadowYoshi1302
      @ShadowYoshi1302 4 роки тому +12

      10/10 for me, I love it through and though. I have yet to thank those guys for their incredible work. (Even though I know obviously, they didn't make this Album FOR ME, but I can listen to it and thats enough!)

    • @kanenorris9164
      @kanenorris9164 Рік тому +3

      I guess you could say it’s ‘inconsistently concise’

  • @carolyns6105
    @carolyns6105 7 місяців тому +22

    How can a song be so brutally, crushingly painful yet so beautiful

  • @KardavoxAcademy
    @KardavoxAcademy 3 роки тому +491

    Hey dudes in Loathe. Just wanted to say how much I've needed this song lately. Life has been an insane coliseum of stress and nonstop work, but this song is one of the few things that can bring me back to earth and calm me down. Your music has been some of the best medicine for my mind lately, and I deeply appreciate you all for making it. Much love, much love.

    • @scottybaimu2041
      @scottybaimu2041 Рік тому +6

      I hope life is going well for you, take care heart❤

    • @adam4nt417
      @adam4nt417 Рік тому +4

      i sympathize with this so much

    • @sovverynn
      @sovverynn Рік тому +3

      So much need so..

  • @jill4911
    @jill4911 2 роки тому +141

    This song is so good when you have a crush on a person and feelings are so vulnerable.

  • @slavicharrystyles6914
    @slavicharrystyles6914 4 роки тому +413

    This song feels so nostalgic to me even though it's brand new. It feels like a breath of fresh air. I get flashes from my childhood listening to this. It's so strange... I just can't put my finger on it. But it's beautiful.

    • @jamiecasper8339
      @jamiecasper8339 4 роки тому +3

      YES

    • @ga8rielsMsg
      @ga8rielsMsg 4 роки тому +2

      Look behind you.... It's me.....

    • @nathanbonora7339
      @nathanbonora7339 4 роки тому +12

      Got that Deftones feel for me and I’m all about it

    • @rodolfo8355
      @rodolfo8355 4 роки тому +4

      Man I had exactly the same feeling, just like if this music was created to fill childhood memories ❤️😭

    • @tombook2155
      @tombook2155 3 роки тому +9

      gives me the vibes of "what i should've done instead of what i just did.." the what-ifs of my life.

  • @KesoUBEkerisik
    @KesoUBEkerisik 3 роки тому +108

    The fact that Deftones likes this band a lot, simply means that Chino and crew are just testing new waters with current releases.. They still, and will always be what (the white pony) they used to be

  • @BrendonhasBeard
    @BrendonhasBeard 4 роки тому +407

    This is my favorite track on “I let it in...” it takes me back to when I first met my husband and the happy memories with him. Not a lot of new songs do that to you. Loathe is a game changer. Come to the US 💚

    • @yearnpill
      @yearnpill 4 роки тому +29

      brendonhasbeard huh gayyyy 😂 jk bro I’m sorry I have v poor taste, and agreed, this is a beautiful track and it’s great that you can openly express your sexuality. Stay metal brother! \m/

    • @joelsolis1144
      @joelsolis1144 4 роки тому +14

      I thought you just had your boyfriends pic but nvm... 😂

    • @redt-rex3808
      @redt-rex3808 2 роки тому +1

      Seeing them this month and I cant believe it

    • @dustyplumbob
      @dustyplumbob Рік тому +2

      @@joelsolis1144No wayyy

  • @CDobbs05
    @CDobbs05 6 місяців тому +91

    Parents divorced for the second time, drove down a back road and sat in my car in a field and played this song. Doesn’t even match with the words, just felt right in that moment. Cried for the first time in 2 years

    • @davgeese
      @davgeese 5 місяців тому +5

      Hey- everything gets better.
      The entire album is truly a marvel of modern metal. I'm an older guy too.
      I highly suggest checking out Eternal Blue by Spiritbox if you haven't. That (and ILIIAITE from Loathe) are two of the best metal albums ever written and recorded. I know it's bold, but it's my old guy opinion. Modern metal hasn't sparked something in me like those two albums.
      Sending good vibes.

    • @Average_Joe_Voyage
      @Average_Joe_Voyage 4 місяці тому +1

      @@davgeese I agree with eternal blue, could I suggest you the last album of Knocked Loose ''you won't go before you're supposed to'' which is another well recorded metal album

    • @JustYourAverageMusicListener
      @JustYourAverageMusicListener 3 місяці тому

      Sending hugs 🫂 My parents divorced too

  • @dtt_loathe
    @dtt_loathe 3 роки тому +196

    Not exaggerating when I say this, but this is the most beautiful song I've ever heard in my entire life.
    Edit: The song saved me from losing someone that helped me build my self and turn into life 2 years ago, really glad it exist thank you so much Loathe!

    • @SlaytJ
      @SlaytJ Рік тому +4

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @trillionbrilliant928
    @trillionbrilliant928 4 роки тому +167

    Lyrics.
    Face away
    Deal with the pain
    Your own way
    How could they deal with the pain?
    I knew
    It was mine too
    And you?
    Is It Really You?
    Let's search the sky for a while
    You and I
    Collide like two stars for a while
    You and I
    Crushed by silent snow
    Not the first I know
    Caught in ebb and flow
    I'm bleeding out, oh you know
    Let's search the sky for a while
    You and I
    Collide like two stars for a while
    You and I

  • @WFangW
    @WFangW 4 роки тому +595

    Has anyone cried while listening to this song? :'(

  • @babyhandgrenade4004
    @babyhandgrenade4004 11 днів тому +3

    Who else is brought to tears by how beautiful this song is?

  • @tugkanardal
    @tugkanardal Рік тому +75

    My cat died yesterday unfortunately and this is the song where i am looping the whole day upon his grave while drinking and smoking to cope with the harsh reality of losing your friend/pet. From digging the hole to burying him, i am still crying as a guy who cried 4-5 times in a decade. it is still hard to accept it yet it is a must, i know, but I was a guy that does not like to create bonds to prevent emotional pain.. Then the cat came and was different that we clicked too well to make me reconsider and change my emotional behaviour. I made a 'bold' move to love again after my dog's departure when i was 11 about having a pet again then the same reality yesterday, my cat LILY.. The thing is, i met my girl and the cat in the same week where i felt emotionally complete and capable of love again, after the passing of my grandma who was my mother figure that left this material world in Valentines Day of 2016. We buried her beside my granddad who i never saw but heard of from people. I remember that I told her you can meet him again after spending almost half a century apart and loyal. Still today, i visit the grave in Valentines Day which puts me in a mood where i cant explain with words.
    The cat and I met while he was as little as my hand, struggling to walk. Now all the memories are going through my head, I listen to this song to remember our days together and the lyrics are exactly reflecting how i think, dream, hope and feel about my reality. I do not know if there is heaven or not but i hope there is one to see we all meet at the same time, spending time together. Now all i know is my boy is free of pain and limits and in a place where he loves to spend time, my garden, where i still feel close to him and feel his presence whenever I look out the window to his grave. I love you boy and will remember you forever.. We shall meet in my dreams until my day comes. To that day, take care LILY, remember how my love was pure for you, enjoy being free, I love you.

    • @AnimosityIncarnate
      @AnimosityIncarnate Рік тому

      Beautifully put. I lost the last childhood cat I had last year. losing an animal can be as bad as losing a close friend or family member. Take care, don't use the substances to much(I do the same and it always gets outta control with the weed especially lol) Take one day at a time, accept the feelings when they come, it's such a tough thing to go through but you'll be stronger when all is said and done. Good luck in life bro

    • @tugkanardal
      @tugkanardal Рік тому

      @@AnimosityIncarnate much appteciated, i planted a tree to his grave, marked his life in this world also to know we both grow together, i am feeling for you too, good luck for the future as well🙏🏻

    • @cookiepappa
      @cookiepappa Рік тому

      I’m not ready to go through this

    • @AM-vk7qx
      @AM-vk7qx Рік тому

      my cat is named lily 🥺 sorry for your loss and hope you’re doing good wherever you are

    • @Ma.tthew83737
      @Ma.tthew83737 11 місяців тому

      ​@@AM-vk7qxmy cat was named Lily 😭😭

  • @thefallofgenesis5303
    @thefallofgenesis5303 4 роки тому +100

    I cant stop listening to this song

  • @hansolzy
    @hansolzy 4 роки тому +190

    Beautiful and magnificent!

    • @staz3014
      @staz3014 3 роки тому +2

      I see you everywhere dude

    • @gabbeg7829
      @gabbeg7829 3 роки тому

      Fire mage fire taste

  • @omgitsrobsandy
    @omgitsrobsandy 4 роки тому +208

    This song makes me want to both sit and think about every past mistake I've made in life and find the one and fall deeply in love at the same time. God damn Loathe, right in the feels with this one!

  • @FrankRiver2000
    @FrankRiver2000 4 роки тому +248

    How can you not love this? This is beauty.

  • @vildhjarta
    @vildhjarta 4 роки тому +784

    thall

  • @m11nusbl1ndfold
    @m11nusbl1ndfold 4 роки тому +140

    I never thought I would find another band that resonates with my life like Deftones did. Deftones is my Heart but Loathe...I'm seriously crushing on.

    • @mattfain9929
      @mattfain9929 4 роки тому +4

      My same reaction. The two best bands out there.

    • @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh
      @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh Рік тому +6

      That’s kind of like saying “I love my wife but man, is her younger sister looking hot” lol

    • @CFChristian
      @CFChristian 6 місяців тому

      RIP CHI

  • @crimsonbat5000
    @crimsonbat5000 2 місяці тому +5

    this song found me at the perfect time in my life. 6 months after an attempt on my life when i felt like there was nothing left for me. that there was no purpose for me to exist. recovery was a journey within my psyche that led me to become a stoic shell of my former self. that i was just a body wandering aimlessly on earth. music was just music to me. over time there were sparks. i went to see knocked loose last month in june and LOATHE was the opener. i found myself impressed so i checked them out more. i found this song. i was hearing it but i wasn’t listening. recently i found loose aspects of the soul i felt like i lost. and i felt something. that’s when i listened to this song. i’ve had it on repeat the past week. it’s a message from me to myself. asking if this is really me. and it’s not. this song to me is a symbol to reconnect with the aspects of life that made it worth living. because feeling a loss of purpose means you had one at one point. a feeling of sadness means you were happy. feeling a loss of yourself means there was a you to begin with. face away. deal with the pain. search the sky. there is something out there for you. you are worth everything

  • @mackyisyourchance
    @mackyisyourchance 4 роки тому +85

    I love how every one of us experience the same thing about this song. thats the power of music

  • @mattdm82
    @mattdm82 2 роки тому +46

    This is one of the best albums I've heard in recent memory. A near flawless fusion of metal and shoegaze, it sounds like Deftones, Alexisonfire, My Bloody Valentine, and Dillinger Escape Plan all had a baby. Absolutely killer. One moment it's like something you'd put on your leg day workout playlist, the next you're misty-eyed remembering old loves and childhood friends, and somehow it all works together.

    • @BetaBreaking
      @BetaBreaking Рік тому +1

      YES ANOTHER ALEXISONFIRE FAN ❤️💀

  • @vtejjj
    @vtejjj 26 днів тому +2

    i remember having this playing on our first car ride and the feeling was so beautiful and pure, we felt so free and comfortable and genuinely happy for the first time, my stress was gone and i had no other thoughts in my head besides just us.

  • @spencerclemens7510
    @spencerclemens7510 3 роки тому +113

    I lost my mom back in 2016 due to alcoholism. It was hard on us, especially because our family has yet to cope with the fact that no one is to blame for addiction.
    I had a dream not too long after her passing, in which she was present and was asking how things were going in life. I told her that I missed her, and then she told me to "make sure I wake up for work in time". I had woken up a few minutes before my alarm was supposed to go off. Coincidence? Maybe. Ever since that dream, I've tried to dream about her again, to talk to her once more. I didn't have another dream with her in it. It breaks my heart, because I want to tell her how great life is going, and I wanted her to be in my life for the upcoming birth of my first child.
    This song helps me relive that moment, at least in my head, where I got to talk to my mother. Hopefully not for the last time, however.

    • @8JFJK8
      @8JFJK8 3 роки тому +3

      Thats beautiful man. Music is amazing.

    • @zot3078
      @zot3078 2 роки тому +2

      This makes you really strong, keep going, you deserve all the best

    • @tappai
      @tappai 2 роки тому +2

      ohhh this makes me tear up, hope your doing well!

    • @MRJL0001
      @MRJL0001 2 роки тому +5

      Spencer, I very rarely comment on UA-cam videos, but I found your beautiful post, relating to this beautiful song, and it truly moved me. Your words show me that you're a wonderful soul. Congratulations on your child. I wish you peace, love, and strength, brother. xx

    • @jonahspacejam
      @jonahspacejam Рік тому +1

      reading this brought tears to my eyes. thank you for sharing

  • @shquankinket8068
    @shquankinket8068 8 днів тому +1

    Loathe does something so special that makes it possible for me to listen to heavy music. I’ve never been the biggest fan of “screamo” metal but loathe makes it so melodic and I can’t get enough of it. Plus there softer songs are genuinely some of my favorite songs I’ve ever heard. Is it really you is in my opinion one of the best metal/shoegaze songs ever rewritten

  • @misterammaiu9157
    @misterammaiu9157 4 роки тому +616

    Ironically, it's pretty hard to loathe Loathe.

    • @freezingjazzy
      @freezingjazzy 3 роки тому +45

      Unless you're Melon head Fantano.

    • @user-ng2lk5wv4p
      @user-ng2lk5wv4p 3 роки тому +12

      @@freezingjazzy bro gave it a 6 wth???????

    • @pinkhimself
      @pinkhimself 2 роки тому +1

      @@user-ng2lk5wv4p he gave mbdtf a six too...

    • @kaizokuAUTO
      @kaizokuAUTO 2 роки тому +17

      @@user-ng2lk5wv4p Well he hates Deftones, so who is surprised

    • @kaizokuAUTO
      @kaizokuAUTO Рік тому +2

      @ImNeoFr agreed lmao, i watch his videos sometimes for a laugh.
      generally if he likes something its pretty good i guess, but equally he tends to shoutout nepotism babies and posers in the punk and postpunk scene constantly

  • @Fillitwithbreeemium
    @Fillitwithbreeemium 4 роки тому +61

    I love this song so damn much

    • @Withamik
      @Withamik 4 роки тому +1

      I'm hooked to it so bad I wish it were even longer... but that also means that that replay button gonna get abused af 👀

  • @skoddskar3D
    @skoddskar3D Рік тому +22

    This song is the culmination of the album for me. I let IT in and IT took everything. I let someone in and for a short while it was good, beautiful, everything I wanted. Then IT was ripped from me and I was left to deal with the heartache. Is IT really...you? I let her in and she took everything. It's my fault that I let her hold so much of my heart, but how else can you really love someone if you aren't vulnerable to them destroying you?
    This is my favorite song on the album, and I can't thank Loathe enough for the beautiful and heavy music they provide.

    • @Payne823
      @Payne823 Рік тому +2

      Beautifully written. I feel the same way about this song. Really hits home.

  • @leoneltovar9172
    @leoneltovar9172 3 роки тому +105

    Ironically this song was playing on June 5th 2021 around 4:45pm in Lancaster, California. I was driving with my older brother Leonel Jr. Tovar and a car cut me off at a crossroad. In the those few seconds I realized I had lost control and was driving straight into a tree at 60mph. When I had open my eyes I felt a sharp pain in my chest, and my older brother was laid across me and I watched him bleed out, he had already passed away on impact. When regaining consciousness I realized my older brother just died in my arms and this song was playing in the background. Evertime I think of the lyrics I think of him and that finally day up to the final moments I had with him. I kissed him and told him that I loved him and to forgive me for taking his life. I never meant for that to happen Rhino, I love you so much big bro. Rest in paradise 10/17/1993 - 06/05/2021 forever in my heart. feel like this song was meant for us. Thank you LOATHE 💙🖤

    • @vonivan3559
      @vonivan3559 3 роки тому +7

      damn. for real? if it is, my heart is broken for you, bro.

    • @leoneltovar9172
      @leoneltovar9172 3 роки тому +6

      @@vonivan3559 yes it really did happen this is my brother's UA-cam account I have his phone now

    • @reeseruss
      @reeseruss 2 роки тому +3

      i love my older brother so much and always listen to this type of music with him. This made me tear up. I'm so sorry for what happened to you and your brother, and thank you for making me appreciate what I have more.

    • @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh
      @MiguelRamirez-cr7gh 2 роки тому +2

      I live in Palmdale just moved here last year, didn’t hear about this. Sorry for your loss bro

    • @Chris-rm3wf
      @Chris-rm3wf 9 місяців тому +1

      Damn man, I live here in Lancaster CA and I think I heard about that. I’m really sorry

  • @mag4208
    @mag4208 9 місяців тому +17

    Imagine chilling with the girl you want just watching the stars at night while you listen to this banger, just imagine.

  • @el_mal_de_ojo
    @el_mal_de_ojo Рік тому +13

    I commented on this song a few years ago. Back then, pre-Covid, this song already touched my soul. Since that time, my mother passed away from cancer and this song devastates me with its honesty and beauty. When I feel a presence, I know it's really you, mom.

  • @kattnoll
    @kattnoll 2 роки тому +34

    This track literally gives me the chills. It’s too good…

  • @andrespulido3177
    @andrespulido3177 2 роки тому +17

    This is the song that gets you in your feels but having it on repeat because it didn’t hurt you enough

  • @timbtimb822
    @timbtimb822 3 роки тому +19

    this is the kind of song you come back in 10 years and think of your life, you lived, when you were young.

  • @endercoremusic
    @endercoremusic 4 роки тому +23

    This song makes me cry for a month

  • @ryne1625
    @ryne1625 8 місяців тому +23

    I interpret this more as more of a painful love song really. "Is it really you" meaning "are you really the one for me? Have I really just found my one true love?" in an optimistic but disbelieving moment of love, that he almost is in denial that he has really found true love. It's a moment I hope to experience some day.

    • @oofydoom
      @oofydoom 3 місяці тому +4

      Definitely try to prepare for the pain and don't expect it to last forever. I lost mine and took it for granted and have to learn that the only way to love them now is to let them go.
      Song hits though and definitely encapsulated that feeling at the time. And perhaps it still does. And if you ever may experience it yourself, I pray it goes better for you than it did I. God be with you.

  • @4lynlover
    @4lynlover 5 місяців тому +3

    the ST cover brought me here, and I'm so glad it did. This is such a good song, instrumentally, lyrically, its chefs kiss.

  • @vinnie06
    @vinnie06 2 роки тому +112

    i want someone with a music taste like this

  • @spicyramendotcom7975
    @spicyramendotcom7975 3 роки тому +22

    There’s just a different vibe when it goes quiet for a second after the whispering and all you hear is “Is it really you?”. Almost nostalgic for some reason.

  • @hoomandehghani2035
    @hoomandehghani2035 Рік тому +18

    I love the fact that they have none of their faces on the album cover. Anonymous. Atoms. Universe. None of it really matters except the connection you make in that very second.

  • @YvngSheldonGang
    @YvngSheldonGang 4 роки тому +51

    Easily best ballad of 2020, such a nice balance between verse and chorus, classic chord progression for the chorus matched with that beautiful melody... can’t stop playing this

  • @MirzadMarcel
    @MirzadMarcel 10 днів тому +3

    1:43 these vocals are so nice

  • @armfourteen
    @armfourteen 3 роки тому +11

    literally in tears while listening to this beautiful song remembering a friend that's gone so soon

  • @Acydrayne3
    @Acydrayne3 5 місяців тому +4

    I had never heard of Loathe until I heard Sleep Token cover, I’m so glad SD did this cover or else I’d have never found this wonderful band.

  • @jamesandrewpaul3867
    @jamesandrewpaul3867 Рік тому +9

    This song reminds me of the time this girl ghosted me when I had cancer as a teenager. I ran into her a few years later and she didnt remember who i was. I had a severe mental breakdown and shut off my friends for a while.
    The fact that loathe can make a song that can replicate such a heartbreaking feeling solidifies them as a brilliant band in my opinion. I will be dying in your moshpits and singing my absolute heart out if I see loathe live

  • @skatevidcentral
    @skatevidcentral 4 роки тому +20

    Haven't been this engrossed and blown away by an album in ages. Brings up the feels I had listening to White Pony the first time. Absolutely amazing.

  • @11cylynt11
    @11cylynt11 4 роки тому +17

    I've loved this song since I first heard it a couple of months ago. But listening to it while reading the lyrics really got me choked up, like a lump in my throat, breathless, and glossy eyed. I'm not ashamed to admit this beautiful song made me tear up. It's an amazing song.

  • @rooroscott2903
    @rooroscott2903 2 роки тому +7

    This is the one of the few songs ever that's made me cry. I've thought about some of the saddest parts of my life while listening to music before, it's how i typically vent when no one's around. But when I heard this song for the 5th time in an existential mood and picked up every element of it, it really just got to me. Years after I thought I was done grieving, this song matched my headspace perfectly somehow. Loathe are one of the best current bands out there and I will forever love this song.

  • @jonnesainio
    @jonnesainio 4 роки тому +32

    What an amazing track, holy shit! So beautiful and full of really cool effects and sounds wow. Loathe's soundscape is really one of a kind. First time rolling the new album right know and can't wait to hear the rest! Album of the year right here

  • @SicKBizniTch
    @SicKBizniTch Місяць тому +3

    I swear I'm not crying... This is almost on a par with Deftones "Xerces" 😭 Too beautiful!!

  • @Hewasnumber1
    @Hewasnumber1 Рік тому +3

    This is genuinely one of the best songs I have ever listened to. I’ve been playing it on repeat for at least three months and I’m still not tired of it. Don’t think I ever will be.

  • @PardonedLion
    @PardonedLion 4 роки тому +8

    I’m proud of you guys. Not many bands make music so relatable. You connected feelings with noise. You made music, not sound. Proud listener moment.

  • @booksnstuff1563
    @booksnstuff1563 5 місяців тому +2

    Here as a Sleep Token fan!! They do a heavenly version of this! Dreamy! Worship 🫶

  • @sophiemcconnell2803
    @sophiemcconnell2803 2 роки тому +17

    This song kills me but gives me life at the same time…

  • @theplayeralsoknownasmousecop
    @theplayeralsoknownasmousecop 25 днів тому +9

    I wish I could enjoy this song. A girl I talked to lied to me about being married and used me for money. She showed me this song. Wasn't much money. But I don't make a lot and when I found out she turned so cold on me. Said she doesn't care how I feel. Then blocked me. I kissed this woman. I felt a genuine connection. And she stabbed me in the back. No remorse. But this song is really good and I can't help but listen.

  • @travisparry8033
    @travisparry8033 Рік тому +5

    This Song always makes me think about a friend of mine ive had for a very long time. she is truly the most beautful on earth. I know that i will always love her , but at the same time it will never be more than what we are,. it took me a long time to accept that and sometimes i question it. this song hits me right where that problem lies. you know that person is the beautiful soul in question and yet its a form of melancholy heartbreak that you have her next to you, just not in the way you long for. i am grateful i have her as a friend and who knows, maybe in another life it happens, maybe it alreafy happened in a previous one. the connection we have is truly special.

  • @w41l47
    @w41l47 4 роки тому +16

    *THIS SONG FEELS SO GOOD, SO NOSTALGIC. REMINDS ME OF THE TIME WHEN ME AND MY EX GIRLFRIEND USED TO LAY ON THE GRASS ALL NIGHT STARGAZING, WITH HER ENDING UP SLEEPING IN MY ARMS*

  • @Brutalityisinyou
    @Brutalityisinyou 4 роки тому +27

    This that shit right here. Loving the whole existence of the album. Thanks loathe. ❤

  • @kyxjin8336
    @kyxjin8336 2 роки тому +7

    This album was so beautiful, I understand that many people find the similarity between loathe and deftones but I feel artists’ pieces of work should go beyond comparison. I can’t describe it but there is a reason that there is no other song that’s exactly like this one- perhaps similar- but there is no exact song like this, no other album with the same composition and craft like this one. I think we should appreciate, acknowledge, and praise the uniqueness of a piece like this because I just want another project from these guys to listen to, I want to feel once again stunned and mesmerized from the effort and joy this band puts to their songs, they are just so fucking great.

  • @loathe1everyone
    @loathe1everyone 2 роки тому +9

    this song is so unbelievably beautiful

  • @Ximena03
    @Ximena03 2 роки тому +11

    This song is everything to me….It’s gives me nostalgic vibes

    • @Theawesomepossum15
      @Theawesomepossum15 2 роки тому +1

      For whatever reason, this makes me feel nostalgia for something ive never experienced. But something i want to.

  • @Viz-AU
    @Viz-AU 3 місяці тому +9

    i only just discovered this song last night, letting my spotify play random songs after listening to a superheaven playlist. my parents just split up and i am fucking destroyed by it man. this song has helped me so much with coping while crying my eyes out.
    nevertheless this song is probably the most beautiful piece of art i’ve heard in a while. thank you guys for this masterpiece

    • @devilx4837
      @devilx4837 3 місяці тому +3

      That’s sad to hear make sure to keep your head up life will get better.❤

    • @Viz-AU
      @Viz-AU 3 місяці тому

      @@devilx4837 love bro❤️

    • @DevoidVoid
      @DevoidVoid 3 місяці тому +2

      Hope you hold on buddy. It gets better. Like getting over the hill, it looks impossible until your over ❤️

  • @kinapuniverse2184
    @kinapuniverse2184 4 місяці тому +1

    I used to play this song before my daughter was born. When she would be keeping my wife up late, kicking her belly. She would always calm down when this song came on. Now she is 8 months old and any time she gets riled up, I put his song on and no matter what she is doing she just stops and listens and coos. It's amazing and I hope this song soothes her forever!

  • @davidgressli1691
    @davidgressli1691 4 місяці тому +8

    This is the kind of song that when you hear it once, but don't get the name, you will spend the rest of your life searching for it

  • @mattprovost9878
    @mattprovost9878 Рік тому +2

    This song, is the last song that I listened to, before i checked myself into rehab.... I went years fighting mental/physical hatred towards myself, and anyone around me....
    But my beautiful partner, and her two wonderful children, and our two beautiful children together; have taught me that there is so much more to experience.....

    • @JerPlaysGuitar21
      @JerPlaysGuitar21 11 місяців тому +2

      I applaud you for seeking help 😊 As someone who's been there, I know how tough that hurdle can be. I'm so glad to hear you're through the worst of it; at this point, we're both walking the road to recovery together. God bless you :D

  • @arsonne
    @arsonne Рік тому +4

    Fun fact: Sean Radcliffe, the drummer for Loathe wrote this song. So glad this band is getting the recognition it deserves!

  • @jacksvocals
    @jacksvocals 4 роки тому +41

    Never warmed to their earlier stuff, glad I didn't write them off; this album is stunning

    • @athmaid
      @athmaid 4 роки тому +1

      Do you like Gored? Or NFITD? If so they have quite a few songs like those. White Hot is still one of my favourites

    • @jacksvocals
      @jacksvocals 4 роки тому +3

      @@athmaid I appreciate it more having gone back and listened to it since. Still not a big fan of the harsh vocals, but here they're written sparingly to greater effect, and produced better imo. This album will do big things for them

    • @athmaid
      @athmaid 4 роки тому +6

      @@jacksvocals hey respect to you for giving it another try. Two years ago I would have never guessed that I would be enjoying black metal someday. And that's when I was already knee deep into metalcore. Baby steps man :D

  • @mamaproxy
    @mamaproxy 3 роки тому +7

    I love playing this song while I go out on bike rides at night. I’ll sit there at a park and just stare up at the sky while I listen to this, just thinking about how well the two mesh together.

  • @sk1nnybonez
    @sk1nnybonez 4 роки тому +22

    OH MY GOD THIS IS BEAUTIFUL

  • @EvermoreDarkly
    @EvermoreDarkly 4 роки тому +11

    Let's search the skyyyyyy. For awhile, you and IIIIIIIIIIIIIII.

  • @akudamer
    @akudamer Рік тому +27

    My wife passed away this january at age of 19. This song will be forever associated with her.

    • @Rantastic11
      @Rantastic11 9 місяців тому +8

      My wife also passed away at the age of 22. I feel the same way about this song. It's nice to know I'm not alone

    • @MysticBlueFox
      @MysticBlueFox 6 місяців тому +2

      I'm so very sorry, I lost my love in March this year too.
      I've been in a powerful emotional connection to songs like this one.

    • @wanderson3212
      @wanderson3212 6 місяців тому

      My condolences
      Be strong and stay safe

  • @gin434
    @gin434 3 роки тому +16

    my ex-boyfriend made me listen to this song a while ago, and now that I'm taking some time for myself to think, and understand myself, my emotions, a bit more, only now I'm understanding how powerful those few frames in the background are.
    just two hands longing for each other, but as soon as they touch, they're brought back and apart. it's a simple gesture, but it seemed to me the extreme depiction of the intimacy between two people.

  • @truaxegaming4653
    @truaxegaming4653 4 роки тому +9

    this album is an experience man. this one is my early favorite

  • @ralucamg
    @ralucamg 2 роки тому +5

    At my 5th listen I started sobbing uncontrollably. I didn't realise it was clawing it's way to my heart.

  • @littleendiandistortion6999
    @littleendiandistortion6999 Рік тому +3

    This is the sound everyone craves. This is the new wave of grunge. This is how we progress as the species of the music we want to hear. Please make more of it as we resonate with it

  • @salvadorgarcia-xk9ww
    @salvadorgarcia-xk9ww 5 місяців тому +2

    Im so glad I was shown this song by a good friend of mine. I could listen to it for hours until Id fall asleep

  • @vashsan71
    @vashsan71 4 роки тому +26

    Another one that is so heavily influenced by deftones... gives me that hole in the earth vibe to it. Absolutely beautiful. Gives me the feels from the mid 2000s.

  • @matthewsvic
    @matthewsvic 7 місяців тому +1

    This really makes me feel something I haven't felt in a while. I love this.

  • @springsteenwow
    @springsteenwow 2 роки тому +23

    I want this played in my funeral

  • @qarcon3247
    @qarcon3247 Рік тому +5

    Honestly listening to this make me realize the world is not that shit. Something as beautiful as this can even exist.

  • @jolsen88jo
    @jolsen88jo 2 роки тому +4

    This has quickly become one of my all time favorites.

  • @fuppu
    @fuppu 4 місяці тому +2

    Truly a masterpiece of an album

  • @GeminiWoods
    @GeminiWoods 3 роки тому +4

    Man, their slow songs are incredibly good. This one in particular hits hard.

  • @Your_friend_Jake
    @Your_friend_Jake 3 роки тому +2

    i miss you mom.... Rest In Paradise... love, your first born son.

  • @Astro_Thvnder
    @Astro_Thvnder 3 роки тому +18

    This song is what I imagine finding your soulmate would be in music form

  • @GT-qv1gl
    @GT-qv1gl 4 роки тому +81

    Guitars sound like Pink Maggit for the chorus

    • @TheDeftones821
      @TheDeftones821 4 роки тому +10

      Yes! I'm glad I'm not the only hearing it

    • @daneleslie9534
      @daneleslie9534 4 роки тому +1

      Didn’t hear this until now. I love how the vocal melody completely changes the mood of the original chord progression. Amazing

    • @spicyramendotcom7975
      @spicyramendotcom7975 3 роки тому +3

      It’s exactly the same. I think it’s on purpose as a shoutout to their biggest inspiration.

    • @darkninja225
      @darkninja225 3 роки тому +3

      late to the party but even the beginning i started singing pink maggot and it clicked as to why it sounded so familiar without being a rip off

  • @jitteryzeitgeist
    @jitteryzeitgeist 3 роки тому +3

    This band is special. Straight up.
    They've got creativity for days, they're absolutely fearless when it comes to the soundscapes they put down, their audio canvas is wide in a way I haven't seen in a very long time (Mike Pattons old projects are an example, Dillinger Escape Plan, etc), and each one of the members is stupidly talented.
    I wish them all the success possible. How did I sleep on this album through 2020?

  • @Chicomaloxx
    @Chicomaloxx 8 місяців тому

    Been listening to this band for 3 years and I never get over the song it’s just one of the best .

  • @unclejeffssecretaccounttoh8774
    @unclejeffssecretaccounttoh8774 11 місяців тому +5

    this is so beautiful if u guys want a similar song with this kinda vibe id recommend nothing left to love by counterparts both such gems