"I Brushed Off My Husband's Attempts to Apologize - Now I Can't Believe He's Leaving Me"
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- Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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I went through a similar situation with my ex. I was not blameless, but she couldn't stop blaming me for her unhappiness about her career, about finances. She was mean, angry, passive aggressive for over a year until I left.
Yup. They want you to forgive them and never bring anything up. But the moment you draw a line, suddenly they want to talk peace.
She is mad because she no longer has a monopoly on pain.
Women let's pride get in the way and is shocked to find out it cost her her husband.
SO it's fine for men to lie, steal, and betray partners? YOU sicken me.
@@invisible123-l9d When did I say that? I summed up the video and you think I'm saying something else?
Take your crazy pills.
@@invisible123-l9d when the hell did I say anything close to that?!
@@invisible123-l9d Projection much? OP never said anything about that. Take a chill pill.
Yeah, he made investing mistakes. But he's working to fix it. Meanwhile, a shrew is tearing down what remains of the marriage.
He stole their savings. That is not a mistake, that is a choice. He lied to her, and betrayed her.
@@invisible123-l9d And he paid for that... are you a troll?
@@invisible123-l9dand he put over 100k back in to make up for his mistake. More than double what he lost, but she didn't even realise because she was too busy trying to punish him.
This woman is right and has every right to be upset! On the other hand her pride is the problem as well!!
Agreed.
Once trust is broken it can never be rebuilt or replaced
exactly
So if you trust your child to take out the garbage and they don't do it, do you kick them out? After all, it can never be rebuilt or replaced, right?
Ok, ok - I get what you're saying. I actually agree with you (see my other comment). I'm just pointing out that there's nuance in some circumstances. Trust can be broken beyond repair, and when that happens, it's best to split.
once you weaponise your spouses faults instead of just ending it, you lost the leverage you had.
It depends on the offense. This was fixable. She fucked up in the end. He tried to make it right, and she weaponized the entire situation when she could have forgiven him. This is what thinking with your emotions gets you. At some point, you have to forgive.
Your stubbornness and inability to let it go have pushed your husband away. Enjoy your box wine and cats.
SO his lying, stealing, and betrayal mean nothing? You are a misogynist.
And this is how you get cat ladies...
Wrong, lies and deceit and stupidity to boot! She should run away and enjoy the wine by herself.
He broke your trust. You have every right to be angry. But you have 2 choices:
1. Reconcile, best done by offering a path for him to make up the damage done.
2. Divorce.
Sounds like he's been trying really hard to make option #1 work, but you won't allow it. Not only that, you ceased creating the relationship and have made nothing of it and him.
Relationships are like plants. They need water and sunlight (attention and tending to) to survive. You've deprived both, to the point it withered away and expired. Now you reap what you sow.
Trust can only be rebuilt if it isn't broken beyond repair. Given the way you're acting, it sounds like it's broken beyond repair. Why do you want him back now? Like he said, he won't stay just because you're scared of losing him. You act like there are irreconcilable differences and give him every reason to leave, but then you hesitate when he actually decides to do it?
Move on already.
He has DONE nothing. He thinks that saying 'soz' is enough.
@@invisible123-l9d you're insane.
@@invisible123-l9d 11:30 - 12:02
Apparently, working massive overtime to rebuild $12,000 is "nothing" to you.
You're just as bad as OP in the story.
@@invisible123-l9d He worked overtime to rebuild $12k of the money. This is "nothing" to you?
@@invisible123-l9d He said sorry. He went to counseling. He rebuilt the funds that he lost.
In this story, both sides screwed up. One party broke trust. I like that she mentioned she was acting like he cheated, because just like in cheating, there’s a breach of trust, and everything is in question.
If I was married to a woman and she lost $47,000 dollars like that, I would straight up leave her.
But since she stayed, and since she refused to forgive for so long, and because we’re not talking about cheating, and with all of the proof of all the hard work the man did, the woman shouldn’t be surprised that it doesn’t work out.
If it was cheating, you should leave. Even though it is a breach of trust, I don’t think it’s a breach that you can’t come back from if you decide to stay, whereas I find cheating to be a breach you don’t come back from. That’s how I feel about all of this
One question, if he had made $47,000 day trading and had the amount for a down payment for the house, would she have reacted the same way? Hardly. If he had a side piece that he spent $47K on she would be justified, but a husband, trying to use his expertise to further the family, and fails doing so, doesn't mean he's a failure at life. He didn't tell her because he knew how'd she react. Day trading isn't gambling, it's calculated risk. He made some bad calls, probably on some high risk ventures with money he shouldn't have used. Many people do and some come out on top, he didn't, but he wasn't keeping secrets from her, he was foolishly using savings in a cavalier way. For her to continually punish him for it is more about her character than his.
bingo
Not telling her for 8 months is _why_ he broke trust. That's the crux of the problem here, not the fact he lost the money itself.
I lost a good amount of money due to mis-timed trades in crypto back in 2018. I let my wife know up front. She gives me a hard time about crypto these days as a result, despite some consistent small profits in recent months [due to my limiting how much I risk to avoid repeating the past failure], but the trust is still present - and the profits shut down the arguments.
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@@TechnoMageB5 so it’s justified to weaponise his fault and emotionally abuse him? Well If I were him I would wait, patiently, for her to make a single small mistake to treat her the same way.
It is not a 'calculated risk' to lie to someone for months. He chose to lie, and to betray her. Yet he is so arrogant that he thinks he is right, and that she should kneel before him, and beg for forgiveness. He does not care how much he hurt her. She deserves better, a man who can tell the truth, and who does not gamble away their future.
She should have divorced him instead of treating her husband as she has. Yeah, he massively screwed up and since she felt so strongly about his actions, she should have filed and left the marriage.
But him? He put up with her crap for far too long. When he realized his wife was completely ignoring him, he should have given two options to her - change how she was treating her husband or he leaves and files for divorce.
But the way both of these clowns have acted is utterly foolish.
So he was right to lie, to gamble away their future, not to care how much he hurt her?; and she should beg for forgiveness? osicken me. All of you in here are misogynists.
He tried too hard to fix the problem. He should have left well before this
I feel so bad for him. After trying everything to fix what he didn't mean to do...he threw up his hands. I don't blame him. I hope she enjoys being single.
frfr no cap
I'll never know, but I'd bet money (and that is REAL gambling) that the best friend Ashley will eventually thank the MC for her behaviour and the good quality guy she drove into her arms.
She did choose Anger over Love...shame on her. My advice to ladies is that we men do make mistakes, but we (maybe not all of us but some of us) do try to make things right. If you choose anger over love, then it's y'alls fault.
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Hopefully, they'll figure it out. Divorce is not always the answer. The words even hurt. 😔😟
The ball is in her court now. Either she lets go of her anger and pride or be an angry divorced loser.
Awesome story
I get that this is an AI generated story, but it's incredibly accurate. I was married for 25 years and my wife would never let anything go without claiming her pound of flesh, and even then she would keep brining it up. Sometimes she would be mad for weeks and I would ask her why? And she would say she forgot why, but she's still mad anyway. It's all about punishing and once it starts, it will never end and nothing will ever be enough.
She insecure 😅😅😅😅good job on husband leave her
The one thing is that he never accepted that he foolishly wasted away the money that they both saved but only he agreed to gamble an advance and yes it is gambling.
He constantly apologised and worked hard to restore the money. What more could he do to hold himself accountable?
I mean, you get what you pay for; he screwed up, but she perpetuated targeted hatred and intentional injury.
As a great man once said "Buy the ticket, take the ride."
Listen, he shouldn't have gone that long or used that much without telling her. That's on him. Having said that, if he really made back almost a quarter of it in 3 months, a little over a year they'd be back to where they were. He was more than willing to put in the work but she wasn't willing to meet him halfway. She has every right to be mad, but she let it go longer than it needed to. Things only work if *both* people are willing to move forward.
She should have divorced him and rightly so if she couldn't forgive him. . She shouldn't have beaten him up month after month. He should have left much sooner.
Man's best to just walk away. God help him if he forgets to put the seat down.
Stocks are not gambling. He isn’t addicted. This isn’t the typical “gambling addict destroys family” situation she is trying to portray.
He more than made up for him while you spent money on food deliveries, them most financially draining scam of modern age.
Kathy- enjoy your life with cats 😺...
Your nick! The Best
Or, hopefully, a decent, honest, man who tells the truth, and does not gamble away their future on the stock market.
He was guilty of financial infidelity. The story makes her out to be guilty of being unreasonable, and maybe she didn't handle things in a productive way. But he betrayed her trust first.
Yes, he screwed up. However, this was something that could have been fixed. She absolutely took it too far. That's all there is to it. When you drag something like this out for three months, you're in the wrong. If she really loved him, she would have worked through it with him. Stop simping.
He needed to "STFU", and do, not talk. Rebuild the savings, without whining about having someone, looking over his shoulder, till she comes around. He started the process, of financial rebuilding, from a disaster, of his own making. Only 3 months, with 12k back in it. Yeah, she took it too far, after that. I think, she still had a chance, even after he had to defend against, the cheating allegation, but I also can't even figure out, how she can bridge the gap. Therapy, to get her head straight, so she can relate her motivations, after the disaster, to him, can help. That kind of disaster, and following aftermath, is a learning moment, and should be left, as a reminder, not a weapon/leverage, to be pulled out, in hard times.
It wasn’t even the five minute mark of the 25 minute long video and she’s already being a terrible person. She’s going to behaving like a child throwing a tantrum ignoring her husband play the silent game and punishing him that she just needs to divorce him. And the stupidity and the child behavior in the nonsense. Just divorced the guy. She obviously doesn’t trust him. She obviously wants nothing to do with him. Just ended already. I don’t understand this nonsense.
I bet she would have shared the victory had he succeeded.
Everything can be fixed and forgiven except adultery. Even this can be forgiven but not without consequences. Divorce is the only option for me.
Proverbs 16:18
[18]Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
Imagine if the man was diverting away the money for a mistress, and her response. Unexpected
consequences that are not quite so unexpected.
She would have thought he was a genius if his stock picks paid off
Married couples don't need to be stubborn. Counseling may be the answer.
woman screw up : man has 12 hours to forgive and forget, or he is being toxic
man screw up : three months of nagging and rubs it on your face for the rest of their lives
If a spouse wastes a huge amount of money on stupidity, divorce immediately
If money is that important in a marriage, then you don't deserve a marriage. There's a name for it, but I can't remember it... Something to do with precious metals and digging for them... btw, if $47,000 is such a huge amount to you, then you should do some research into today's economy. Sure, it's a lot. But it's nothing that can replace the value of a lifelong connection.
It wasn't stupidity. It was an investment that went bad. Not like he blew it all on the ponies
@@Old_White_Guy the thing is its a lot of money to just lose. Its one irresponsible as hell to just gamble it like that and two is a huge red flag if they lose 47 THOUSANDS dollers.
@@lamargordon6017Exactly. It was an honest mistake. It's not like he had a gambling addiction.
@@crtntiddles5178 I'm not saying that it's unimportant or that it doesn't matter. I'm just saying that a situation like this is no reason to immediately throw away everything you have. I think that money often takes too much importance in life and that we forget the important things. Money is replaceable...
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I'll at least say this about the story. That last line about being right not keeping you warm at night is actually kind of something I might use. Aside from the stereotypical no wife happy life free from strife. Like they say an ounce of truth can be found in a sea of bullshit
DON'T LISTEN! TERRIBLE ENDING
Her coffee runs and spending sprees were more important than a life long partner
You are dodging a red flag. Get out while you can.
She was more concerned about her pride and how she would "look" when she apologized for being a total beyatch
Is it too difficult to include punctuation?
Ouch, yea dude made a mistake but it wasnt cheating. Money is something you can get back, does it delay a future? Yea but that just means you can make it better.
Sadly this lady decided to choose hate over love. I think if i was being punished like this guy i wouldn't even bother after two months. Theres no saving us if you aren't gonna help me.
Relationships take two, sooner or later the one tossing their wood on the fire is gonna run out and need to get more but they can't keep the fire going cause you refuse to put your wood on it.
It’s done it’s over with and yet you, based on your actions will never forgive him. Amazing how 2 people cannot handle the fact that he understands he’s wrong and appears to be trying everything! I don’t blame him for leaving. It takes you both to be successful and only one to lose! Sad! But it’s only half the story! What would have happened if he actually was successful? Still wrong but no one is perfect!
I agree she has a right to be upset. However, she doesn't have a right to be cruel. He tried something to benefit you both, and it failed. Instead of working together to get back on track.
He showed genuine remorse and even punished himself. You "wanted" to forgive him. You "wanted" to laugh with him.
You chose anger and bitterness. Then, you expected him to just accept it. Nope, you played yourself.
most would divorce him
Bahaha , see ya. It can get much colder promise everyone that.
Happy now and regret later
Poor you now single now
Is it worth it to you women to always win your argument? Do you always have to be right aganst your man?
first 3 minutes first time in these channel woman is on complete right ... I myself could not be this harsh to my brother when he did almost same thing, I forgave him helped him well he is of my blood so I cannot just divorce him :D my mother would be sad but woman did right thing from the start
Halfway through this story. Right now ,he freakin deserves what he's getting, he needs to pay her back every penny he stole from her
Words are cheap. ACTION is what matters. He thinks that his saying 'soz' is enough. He demands sex on tap as well. He expects her to forgive and forget, and carry on as though nothing happened. He has DONE nothing to make amends. He has shown that he cannot be trusted, and will lie, and betray her. HE destroyed them, with his actions, his lies, and his betrayal. He refuses to acknowledge the lies, and the betrayal. He blames her for everything, taking no real responsibility himself. SHE Needs to divorce HIM.
Eeh, he lied for months, did it.multiple times, cost major time and effort., He can have a talk when ther is the origal 50k and 25k more in the savings, he deserves a direct.devorce and a hefty bill to go with it.
And if the table were switched your comment would be 100% different.
Men should only marry if they can afford it by thier own income.
Then he can do what he wants with his own money....also...men won't marry
Lmao if she divorces him now she gets nothing.
Now he knows what she is and will cut her loose before making investments again
She didn't just work hard but extra to get to the goal of a house. He lost the money AND her trust so yes, she has the right to be distant but that hurts his baby feelings?
Was he investing her money or his?
Did you only listen to the first 5 min and stop? She wasn't being distant...she was being petty.
@@lamargordon6017 frfr no cap
He took this risk..a short cut...sometimes you get lucky..sometime it goes bad...yes it was wrong on his part....bu..but..if he would have win...she would have won to...but he did not...his frist entention...is to protect his wife...he did and he is trying to make all his money lost back....and she want to rubbing it in his face...No bro ...i hope you leave this ungradfully person...and find someone who be greatfully his low points and high points..because if you can't take the ..Bad Times...then you are not Worthy for the good times....