This was very validating for me. Thank you.❤ it was six years for me and he wasn’t fully in it and I kept thinking if I was better or worked harder on myself he would change and he never did and it was so painful for me. I got the courage to end it with him and he did not fight me on it, which confirmed my suspicion . I’m still going through the pain right now, but every day it gets easier and easier as I love myself more. i’ve learned a lot and your videos are helping me. Thank you..
it's so easy to get caught up in your own head, when the best decision is to leave. It only becomes clear later that it was the only right decision. After going through it a few times, it becomes very natural to let it go.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I simply used your useful information to look him up online. Amazing I looked up Father Obah Eze online, and he seems like a sincere person. Again, thank you ❤
I believe that when someone makes a mistake with you twice it shows that this is a pattern. And patterns require a lot of self-awareness and inner work to not repeat. But the thing is that not everybody is willing to do this inner work or is conscious that it has to be done. We need to be careful with that.
I totally agree! If no actual effort is made on their behalf to learn and grow out of that behaviour then it’s probably time to move on. Of course communication is important from both parties but if it’s not followed by actions, move on
@@spianny Yup, and the reality is that most people don't want to change and you shouldn't expect them to. Women in particular tend to lower their standards because they become fixated on a guy's "potential". Accepting people as they are means also accepting that they're not likely to change, and this is more true the older you get. And if someone does take accountability with their words...pay closer attention to their actions.
If you suffer by love, that’s false. People are confused by romantic passions, desires of ego with unconditional love. Florence Scovel Shinn explained what the true love is. There is a story from “The Game of Life” and it’s “The Captain” story. If anyone suffers by love, that’s not actually unconditional love. If anyone can love themselves, they can give love everyone. Free yourself and others. Wish happiness for them. Accept yourself and everyone as who they are. Give your compassion to yourself and others. Ps: Use it for good people.
Just finished the book, loved it - gave it a 5 star review on amazon and tictok - pretty please do a video or series on ending codependency and bad patterns
I like the topic, BUT why are there so many sponsored ads in a single video? I pay for UA-cam Premium to avoid them, but I’m still okay with one or two included. I was listening to this during my workout and couldn’t fast forward when it played for the fourth time-it got really annoying I just stopped listening . I understand that creators need to be paid, but maybe you could offer a paid membership/ courses or something else for more valuable information.
This was very validating for me. Thank you.❤ it was six years for me and he wasn’t fully in it and I kept thinking if I was better or worked harder on myself he would change and he never did and it was so painful for me. I got the courage to end it with him and he did not fight me on it, which confirmed my suspicion . I’m still going through the pain right now, but every day it gets easier and easier as I love myself more. i’ve learned a lot and your videos are helping me. Thank you..
it's so easy to get caught up in your own head, when the best decision is to leave. It only becomes clear later that it was the only right decision.
After going through it a few times, it becomes very natural to let it go.
Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, I've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why I am saying this here.
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
It's interesting! How can I contact a spiritual counselor most efficiently, and how did you find one?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
I simply used your useful information to look him up online. Amazing
I looked up Father Obah Eze online, and he seems like a sincere person. Again, thank you ❤
This was very validating for me. Thank you.❤
I really enjoy hearing peoples stories, it makes me feel seen and not alone and I definitely can relate to their stories
Thank you 🙏
I believe that when someone makes a mistake with you twice it shows that this is a pattern. And patterns require a lot of self-awareness and inner work to not repeat. But the thing is that not everybody is willing to do this inner work or is conscious that it has to be done. We need to be careful with that.
I totally agree! If no actual effort is made on their behalf to learn and grow out of that behaviour then it’s probably time to move on.
Of course communication is important from both parties but if it’s not followed by actions, move on
@@spianny Agreed 💯
@@spianny Yup, and the reality is that most people don't want to change and you shouldn't expect them to. Women in particular tend to lower their standards because they become fixated on a guy's "potential". Accepting people as they are means also accepting that they're not likely to change, and this is more true the older you get. And if someone does take accountability with their words...pay closer attention to their actions.
The Doggie is adorable 🥹
One of your best videos, so truthful, painfully honest. Thank you. Really thank you.
Could you please do a video on how to distinguish an avoidant from “someone who is just not that into you”?
Absolutely perfect timing. Thank you Jillian. xxx
Very useful thanks ❤
You're welcome 😊
I absolutely agree with this vision of relationships. Thank you so much Jillian for the gorgeous podcast! ❤️So cute dog😍Do you have 2 dogs? 😊
Wisdom and truth❤
Letting go is a process. There is also a point that when you're done, you're done.
It's truly horrible for both people if one person doesn't let it just happen..
If you suffer by love, that’s false. People are confused by romantic passions, desires of ego with unconditional love. Florence Scovel Shinn explained what the true love is. There is a story from “The Game of Life” and it’s “The Captain” story.
If anyone suffers by love, that’s not actually unconditional love. If anyone can love themselves, they can give love everyone. Free yourself and others. Wish happiness for them. Accept yourself and everyone as who they are. Give your compassion to yourself and others.
Ps: Use it for good people.
Thanks for the way you break down things. I would like to send you my story. Where can I do that? Can it be written form?
You can record and submit your listener question at askjillian.com!
Does it get better? Did you ever love again?
Just finished the book, loved it - gave it a 5 star review on amazon and tictok - pretty please do a video or series on ending codependency and bad patterns
Thank you for your support - I'm so glad you enjoyed the book!
That dog is beautiful. What kind of dog is this?
it's poodle :)
Sounds like too much work I think other people are more able or into that I have no idea or the resilience…aww these stories are sad
I like the topic, BUT why are there so many sponsored ads in a single video? I pay for UA-cam Premium to avoid them, but I’m still okay with one or two included. I was listening to this during my workout and couldn’t fast forward when it played for the fourth time-it got really annoying I just stopped listening . I understand that creators need to be paid, but maybe you could offer a paid membership/ courses or something else for more valuable information.
Either you do or you don’t. Step off of Social Media.