I used to get really down on myself due to my lack of energy and short temper. I thought that I just must not be close enough to the Lord or as strong spiritually as I should be, come to find out a couple years later that I was severely anemic, my thyroid was struggling and that my blood sugar was very, very low! I think many mamas are struggling with health issues not knowing it and beating themselves up thinking they are lazy and not calm and loving enough when it may just be their physical body is struggling so much just to get through a day. Sometimes the lack of energy or quick temper is not because of a lack of spiritual maturity but due to health problems and when we know this we can then work towards change.
Hi Tabitha thank you for your message . after listening to this message after being very emotional and disheartened and living with depression has not made things easy for me - I really struggle with '' my illness ''' and there are days when I don't feel strong enough .... however after your message I decided to take a step back from what upset and angered me and I'm asking god to help guide me through this time
Love this encouragement! This verse helps me so much, I memorized it and quote it all the time. Taking thoughts/imaginations/feelings captive. ”casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;“ 2 Corinthians 10:5
Haha, God you’re so amazing. I have bipolar and today I’m in a moody mood. I’m screaming and yelling getting very frustrated and irritated at everything and I couldn’t understand why and then this video showed up today. I’m listening. 😊❤
“The Bible is filled with examples of women who exemplified strength and resilience in the face of adversity Esther risked her life to save her people Ruth remained loyal and worked hard despite her grief Mary the mother of Jesus accepted God’s plan with grace and courage They were not devoid of emotion, but they chose to act in faith and strength, fulfilling their roles in God’s good narrative.” Needed to hear that, thank you.
This is me struggling with this because since I was a little girl I been sensitive than other people , I believe some areas you can be I just need help with the other
Ok. Maybe it's a personal preferrence and I don't like to be negative. But I thought maybe you would like feed back as it's bothered me for a while. I am not drawn to the titles of your new videos because of their negative tone. I don't disagree with content of your videos, but the tone is unappealing. "Stop being emotional" . "Stop being lazy." etc.......I feel like there are other channels that use a more gentle, positive approach. "Are you emotional? " or "How do you handle emotions?" or "Do you need encouragement to overcome......?" I have loved your channels for years. I'm a Catholic trad mom of 9 (if you don't remember me from comments at all) so I don't disagree with what your content at all, but it's confrontational to me. If someone walked up to me an said those phrases I would shut down and not engage in conversation. (afterall, I'm emotional, lol! ) I'm only mentioning it because, a) although I LOVE your channels. There are times I wait a few days to watch because of titles. b) I'm already accusing myself of weaknesses and I come to channels like this for encouragment. Maybe it's just me. I'm just letting you know in case the titles effect your appeal to new viewers who may benefit from your videos. People already feel judged by us trad-moms we need to draw them in with the beautiful and your titles are the first thing they see! Much love! Blessed Trinity Sunday!
Totally agree! And also many people are not drawn close to chritianity bc of Christian people and teachings being so judgmental.. being emotional is a good thing..God gave us emotions for a reason
I love this channel, but lately I have skipped videos and didn’t realize it was the negative titles. I really enjoyed this video but I admit I did skip over it twice because it didn’t sound appealing, before watching because I do love her channel. Also God gave us emotions and so I don’t think we should stop being emotional, but I know what she means about letting our emotions control us. ❤
I totally hear what you’re saying and I would prefer to have a different title as well! As a content creator I have learned over the past 10 years that if I want my content seen, I have to do what works for the algorithm. If you go to my channel videos and look at the most popular videos, all of the titles are similar and the ones where I say “STOP” first, have the most views. Using these types of titles has significantly increased my reach and has made my channel grow incredibly fast. My true message and tone is found in what I say in the videos. The blaring title gets people to click. I want as many people as possible to hear Gods word and these messages. I hope you understand.
The Bible is one of the most confrontational books there is and it has the power to absolutely transform a person from the inside out. So if someone plans to share the gospel which is what this channel is for it isn’t going to be ear tickling. As much as those of us who have taken the call to share the Holy Word of God would like all content to be pleasing to the hearers that just isn’t the nature of it. If we want true breakthrough and freedom it does mean facing what is hindering us, repent which means STOP and turn from our sins. Appreciate the truth in love because the truth is what sets us free.
Perfect timing. This month my emotions are strong because of the monthly hormons 🤭 I know about that but it‘s challeging sometimes. Thank you, I loved watching it 🤍
I’m not a trad wife yet. I’m together with my Bf for 5 years now we are 22 . And as a Christian It’s rare to date for so long and not be married (brings pressure ) we barley have our life to God 3 years ago . I just find myself depressed because financially we aren’t ready for marriage and to move out. I feel like I grieve a lot to because My household is a toxic place my Dad can’t stand me. Im the only saved one in my family. I dream to be married already with kids . I need to learn that God’s timing is perfect Only God will help me ..
You're light as a believer will have an effect on those around you, no matter what. God knows what you are going through and if you rely solely upon him for your struggles, he will give you strength each day to get through. It's not easy and I have come to only put my trust in Jesus, he will never let you down. People will lose your trust and let you down. We're human and selfish. As you grow in your faith, by reading your Bible, you'll learn that pleasing God supersedes pleasing others.
I don’t know if you’ve graduated college or not, but if not, please go to school and get yourself an education or learn a trade. You can get married and have kids, but please make sure you have a way to support yourself if you ever find yourself in a place where you need to. Just know that there’s nothing wrong with getting an education or work experience. Wishing you the best.
Embrace the season your in, im still learning this, but God is the God of suddenly, so embrace the season your in. Time will container to fly so that brings different seasons. I really like reading Ecclesiastes 3-:1-8 look it up & ponder on it. Keep praying about all your concerns he has a plan for all of them. Be encouraged & I'll be praying for your family & your Dad for there stone hearts to turn into flesh in Jesus name Amen My Husband got married without being financially stable, we are still living pay check to pay check but we are doing it better together in unity & persevering together on things...learning to save & be better with our time, trying to do it God's way & not our own way. Everyday is a new Begining but so is every second 💛💪🏽
Take it from me. Ready is a liar. You don't need a big fancy wedding. That can always happen later. If you feel God is telling you he's the one to marry, there's no need to make it drag on. Just go get the certificate done and work towards a small place together. Don't hate your small beginnings. Those turn into testimonies later. 🙂 I hope this encourages you. (Together for 12 years, married for 9. First three years were awful. Now? Best friends with Christ.) ❤🎉
Marriage doesn’t have to be expensive it’s about the commitment to god and your spouse. He wants you to take that leap, especially if you’re co-habiting. I did it for 3 years. Felt so convicted. It was god calling me to marriage. Living with someone else shouldn’t disable your life. You can still get married. It’s just about you and god and your partner. Marriage is hard, but it is a gift.
If we are being honest, when we are pushing back, something like this title, not facing the truth in those words, then I think it would just be easier and more beneficial to run and see instead of hiding away. It will always minister to us if we just except the words and then listen to counsel. We women are all in the trench’s or have been…I get her title without a blink! Open it up and enjoy her sweet spirit and wise counsel!!
Beautiful! I must stand up for those that have/are suffering from depression. It's not an emotion, but it can effect emotions. As humans, we aren't perfect, but we can do our best with God's help.
on this birthday of mine, i was feeling really down... it was a heavy day. I prayed to just ask to be uplifted. hearing you share my favourite verse reminded me to be joyous. I recently found your channel, and it has brought along a fire. thank you for sharing
I came across your videos last night whilst living in depression for weeks and not cleaning or doing any laundry. Not being a good fiancé and future wife. I thank you for motivating me as of today I cleaned my whole house and realized how grateful I am for jesus. Thank you. ❤
I think saying sometimes we walk around choosing to be depressed is a slippery path to go down. For thiae trult depressed this is not a choice but a mental health condition
To: This Mama's Faith, "Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever." -Daniel 12:3
I watched one of your other videos with my husband, and I’m going to be honest, I was a bit emotional because I felt guilty that maybe I wasn’t good enough. I reflected and realized this in my thinking and that it was an opportunity for encouragement. The next one I came across was this one, how much I needed to hear the reminders to control my emotions and recognize my feelings, but not act on them, rather trusting in the truth of the Bible.
I feel the video content is great if you see negativity in this I hope you pray about it and receive the message for what’s intended. I don’t feel personally attacked by the content creator’s tone at all. Keep up the good work! ❤️ Blessings 🍃
I love this video and appreciate the title just as much as the words spoken. STOP BEING EMOTIONAL. What a profound message with such truth in every word spoken. Women have made some of the most horrific decisions and crimes based on emotions. In criminal law, a crime of passion is a crime committed in the "heat of passion" or in response to provocation, as opposed to a crime that was premeditated or deliberated. This is a clear sign to us as Christian women to “STOP” being emotional. As Tabitha stated. Not only can uncontrolled emotions open a door for the Devil to use us but it causes us to be a hinderance to our growth and the growth of others around us. Thank you Tabitha for the clear message. I am a young lady growing in the knowledge and grace of God while also learning to worship God through serving my husband and my family. This message was needed and doesn’t need to be altered in anyway. Regardless of the emotional women who may feel “triggered” by the title.
These videos are precious to me, a homeschooling mama with 3 under 5. Thank you for your sweet reminders and encouragement always pointing back to truth.
This has been on my heart too. My husband recently gave his heart to Christ, and his anger disappeared. In the light of his transformation, I suddenly realize that I have my own momentary outbursts.
If anyone would be willing to pray for me? I married a Christian man but he does not want to spend time with our 6 month old son when he gets off work. He says he is too tired. I never thought this may be the case when we got married. I am sad and trying to navigate this season well.
I really appreciated this content. It was super helpful and encouraging to me. I find my emotions wavering so extreme throughout the day as a young mother.
Seek Jesus first let Him guide you. Maybe this video isn't for you. Maybe it is for you in which be willing to receive the message but always go to Jesus first.
Thank you so much!! I have been struggling with this subject for quite sometime. I love the line “ Your emotions should inform you, not control you “ I think I don’t tell myself ‘No’ as much as I should. Your words of Godly encouragement have changed my outlook on daily activities I must do! 😊❤👍
Thank you. Discussing hard topics helps us move through and get closer to God. Too many women sweep things under the rug. Admitting what we struggle in and working on it is what we need to do.
This is such a blessing! Great to see the younger women who care about being traditional and guided by Jesus, I pray that this grows and more young women follow these basic guides and oh how families will prosper. I also am a Christian Homemaker for 34 years now, mom of 6, and homeschooler, 5 grads and 1 freshman!! You made my heart smile this morning, thank you.
Hello Tabitha!! I love your channel!!! You are inspiring!!! We all have emotions we deal with being a woman!!! Title or no title this was very informative and inspiring to me!!! I love God's word and thank you for sharing it and your thoughts!!! Its always encouraging and makes me think!!! Take care and God bless 😊❤
Yes, there are way too many different circumstances in our day to day lives that could affect our emotions in very different ways. We must learn to live by the spirit and God's word must govern our lives day to day.
Wow I have never watched your channel but I feel I was led here. A few days ago, I heard the Holy Spirit tell me to guard my heart. I have been tested so much lately and I feel so weary. My emotions have been all over the place. I have been so angry. Lord help me!
Thank you so much for this beautiful video ❤ it has helped me so much because I would react to my feelings from the flesh like anger and depression. Now I don't shove them in a box but get rid of them before they affect me. I am no longer on my depression meds and hope to get off my social anxiety disorder meds soon too!
Thank you so much for these reminders. I really needed this. I’ve been struggling with anger and frustration. I know that it is a heart issue that needs to be dealt with. I’ve been walking up tired and getting moody. I asked God am I moody because I’m tired or am I tired because I’m allowing heavy and bitter thoughts weigh me down and drain me. I believe it is my attitude. Like you said we don’t have to entertain those thoughts. I know that it comes from the enemy. Yes we battle with health conditions that can make us weary but there are also spiritual battles that go on inside of us. We need to bring it ALL to the lord. By his stripes we are healed and in our weakness we are made strong in Christ Jesus
I adore your videos. Please do more. I find some of the other Christian channels oppressive and some of them speak too much and too quickly, which makes me feel agitated afterwards. Thank you for all that you do ❤
I see nothing wrong with the title. When you walk with Christ the devil will tempt you to walk by the flesh Instead of walking in the Spirit. To be governed by the flesh is to be governed by emotions so when you say stop being an emotional Christian… you’re saying just that! I’m in a season where I’ve fallen into temptation of satisfying my flesh by telling someone off or sinning in my anger. At the end of my fit, I cry out to God just like Paul did in Romans 7 “the things I don’t want to do, I do and the things I want to do I dont do!” This video was for Christ followers like me who are currently struggling with their flesh. I believe God knew I needed a title like this to grab my attention. Feelings are not facts and I believe the Holy Sprit would have convicted you to change the title if you needed to! God bless you sister in Christ and thank you for your obedience! 🙌🏽✝️🙌🏽
Would you like to make a loop music stream of the music you play for house cleaning? I see study music videos on 24/7 live loop. Im not sure how it works but was wondering if you might be interested in the idea. It's not nessesary, just a thought. God bless you and your family!
Dethatched means those who don't feel or understand their emotions. Emotions are not a bad thing. The church has been teaching that we must ignore our emotions.... this is a lie. You can be angry but do not sin, just like God said. This dismissive rhetoric that you are parroting is NOT the heart of God but it is what's perpetuating abusive men in the church to get away with so much and be controlling. Telling people they're doing something wrong by feeling or responding to emotions is NOT God's heart. If i feel sad or other emotions from being mistreated, this is not just a feeling to ignore, if something doesn't sit right with me at a church this is not something to ignore. Stop tying being a woman of God to this person that must ignore and suppress all emotions. Emotions are a way of thought. Stop lying to people, this is what's creating mental illness or exasperating it. This is low key gaslighting and not what God ever meant. Stop driving people away by dismissing their humanity and emotions.
Hey there woman of God! I love your videos and thank you for helping us moms with wisdom! I do have a question do you get your older kids involved in the hh chores? I’m trying to do this the way most parents try with rewards and incentives but I feel that at times I leave God out of these and they do things because they are forced to and not because they love it. I know not all of us worse kids love to help with house hold chores but they live in the house as well!? lol ok just curious how you incorporate this in your home. Thanks
Absolutely! My kids are in charge of their own laundry, their bedrooms, their bathrooms and they each have a zone they maintain and a dinner time chore. They also help with the animals. I am very blessed to have a priest that preaches that children should obey their parents because they love God. But also, it’s just part of our day and I have them involved from a very young age so they are used to it. It’s not always easy and sometimes they grumble but they get it done!
Ty 🙏 the Lord has blessed you with great wisdom and a beautiful voice!! Do you have a podcast?? I mostly listen, but love your videos too!! Thanks for sharing ❤ Maybe I haven't found it yet, but would you share your ideas for children's jobs in your home. I have children ages 13, 7, 6 and twin 1 year Olds and I'm always looking for new ideas on how they can help around the house! Thank you
This video is pure gold! Thank you Tabitha for making this! We all need to hear everything you said and shared from the word. “Your emotions should inform you not control you” absolutely truth, my friend! I pray God richly blesses you and your precious family ♥️🙏🌻
I get the point of the advice in the video. But I’d simply like to encourage those in the battle with their mental health. Take out the shame because you can not control your emotions. We can make proper plans for when our emotions arise and determine beforehand how you will choose to respond to the emotions. We can understand our triggers to plan for them accordingly. You can not stop the feeling of emotions as they come. Also, depression is not something many people choose to have or become. Anxiety isn’t something some of us choose to have or deal with daily. We must acknowledge the physiological (chemical make up) aspects of stress, anxiety or depression. So don’t feel shame if you can not simply STOP being sad. Or if you can not simply GET YOURSELF UP when you body is sending you cues to SIT YOURSELF down because it senses you need to recover or tend to the manners of your heart and mind. Lazy means you are unwilling to do work or expend the energy but sometimes you simply can not. Your body may be sending you cues to slow down to seek help. May we couple the truths from The Father in his word with empathy, understanding, true education about our bodies and therapy. You sometimes need help to rise above your emotions and that’s ok too. 🤎
Yes!!!! At three months post partum with my sixth baby i had a very rare heart attack. They told me, we don't know what causes it, don't know how to prevent it, do not nurse again, never have babies again,....oh and you will have anxiety and depression from here on out. That was a LOT to take in at the ripe age of 34 with a 3 month old baby. Well they weren't wrong. two weeks late. Depression and Anxiety came over me like a Kansas Tornado. No warning . Thing is, when you have an illness can kill you instantly but no one can predict when it can happen.... you get a bit of anxiet y and depression. Praise God I. pushed through. kept nursing that baby, in fact, I was nursing two babies when I got pregnant with my 8th, . Then I had another. I've had 9 babies, Five in hospital, four in my home, 3 heart attacks, and hemorrhaged seven times.....I'd do it again. I literallly met Dr Ray Guarendi the day my depression kicked in. He was even like, "You don't seem like the person who has depression." I agreed. Sometimes. it happens to you. Never tell someone not to be sad, not to be lazy, not to be emotional, etc....unless you KNOW.
If you’re homeschooling 6 kids, could you please tell me where they are? Why aren’t they running around like 6 homeschooled kids would in any of your videos? I see you doing so much and so peacefully, it you don’t have any kids interrupting, a baby wanting your attention etc? I hope you respond ❤
Some guesses: she films on days her husband is home from work. He watches the children. Or, the children do show up in the shot, but she cuts the parts where they're seen and just shows herself. She films herself doing chores here and there but does tend to them off camera when they interrupt. They might be running around off camera but since the audio of the video is muted, we only hear music and her narrating. The baby might be napping or sitting happily somewhere,watching her. Her chores and filming are probably spaced out throughout the day. She might have a special routine for her filming days to make it work. ❤
@@NaniMango thank you! ❤️ I’ve just had my first, well 6 months ago and I feel like a mess and wonder how I’ll handle any more! Let alone what I see in these videos! (Yep been sinfully comparing myself :/) thanks heaps for the logical guesses 😅❤️
What I’m finding confusing and it might be my mistake is I thought this was to be a weekly inspirational message. I look weekly to watch as I enjoy listening to Tabithas’ channel, but rarely is it weekly. Am I mistaken?
@@ThisMamasFaith Thank you so much for answering! I just wondered because I always check, I look forward to them so much. I’m sure you have your hands full with your beautiful family! Just wanted to check, I will continue to always look! You seem like such a beautiful person inside and out.
Thank you for your devotional video. I listen to it to help me help my mom and do it with a right heart for God. My mom has a condition where her whole body is in pain 24/7. Please pray for her, for her healing. She has endured this for about 12 years. She needs me to be there for her. Please pray she recieves the wisdom she needs to get through her times of uncertainty. She sleeps to stave the pain when it feels overwhelming. Please pray for me that I may fulfill what God calls me to do for Him and in honoring my mother as I seek the Lord through obedience and quiet devotionals throughout the day. To not be lazy, to love in actions deeply. To seek Christ's example in all my ways. God bless you all. Thank you
I used to get really down on myself due to my lack of energy and short temper. I thought that I just must not be close enough to the Lord or as strong spiritually as I should be, come to find out a couple years later that I was severely anemic, my thyroid was struggling and that my blood sugar was very, very low! I think many mamas are struggling with health issues not knowing it and beating themselves up thinking they are lazy and not calm and loving enough when it may just be their physical body is struggling so much just to get through a day. Sometimes the lack of energy or quick temper is not because of a lack of spiritual maturity but due to health problems and when we know this we can then work towards change.
I completely agree and I’ll be touching on this exact thing in an upcoming video
Wonderful!!! So excited to watch!
So true. God bless our mental spiritual and PHYSICAL health!!! AMEN! 😊
Exactly!! Thankfully my husband understands my medical conditions and is patient but encouraging too. Encouraging helps me so much more!!
One of the biggest aspects of being a feminine & godly woman is emotional control. Along with discernment, and self control 💓
I have been praying for Wisdom in self control for A WHILEEE… I NEED this! ❤
God has a plan! Keep your head up and keep going!
@@normalopez2856 yes ma’am! Thank you!
So glad I posted it today
Hi Tabitha thank you for your message . after listening to this message after being very emotional and disheartened and living with depression has not made things easy for me - I really struggle with '' my illness ''' and there are days when I don't feel strong enough .... however after your message I decided to take a step back from what upset and angered me and I'm asking god to help guide me through this time
Praying for you!!!
Me too
@@norkyjune Thank you so much
@thismamafaith
Anger, bitterness, jealousy are feelings I struggle with. I am cranky all the time! I need the Lord’s help every day all day.
Same.
😢you are not alone
Me too, my friend. I pray for love joy and peace for you
Me too😩😩
Same here even if the roots was being sin against I should not sin back in response easier said than done 😕
Yes ma’am! 🙌🏻 I needed this so much. As a stay at home, homeschooling mom to 2, this encouragement came at the right time. God is SO good!
As soon as I saw this title I KNEW…..This would be beneficial.
Love this encouragement! This verse helps me so much, I memorized it and quote it all the time. Taking thoughts/imaginations/feelings captive.
”casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;“
2 Corinthians 10:5
Thank you for sharing God's truth! May God continue to bless the work he has set before you!
Haha, God you’re so amazing. I have bipolar and today I’m in a moody mood. I’m screaming and yelling getting very frustrated and irritated at everything and I couldn’t understand why and then this video showed up today. I’m listening. 😊❤
He is so good! I hope the message helps you
@@ThisMamasFaith it did I understand now that I can’t let my bipolar is not in control of my emotions! And I am and I am not my bipolar.
I have those days a few times a month! It’s like the hormones take over and there is no self control, but with God all things are possible! 💕
Wow. The timing of this. I may have to watch several times. Thank you
Thank you Tabitha for these wise words ❤🙏 Oh how I love Saint Paul 🙏
“The Bible is filled with examples of women who exemplified strength and resilience in the face of adversity
Esther risked her life to save her people
Ruth remained loyal and worked hard despite her grief
Mary the mother of Jesus accepted God’s plan with grace and courage
They were not devoid of emotion, but they chose to act in faith and strength, fulfilling their roles in God’s good narrative.”
Needed to hear that, thank you.
This is me struggling with this because since I was a little girl I been sensitive than other people , I believe some areas you can be I just need help with the other
Ok. Maybe it's a personal preferrence and I don't like to be negative. But I thought maybe you would like feed back as it's bothered me for a while. I am not drawn to the titles of your new videos because of their negative tone. I don't disagree with content of your videos, but the tone is unappealing. "Stop being emotional" . "Stop being lazy." etc.......I feel like there are other channels that use a more gentle, positive approach. "Are you emotional? " or "How do you handle emotions?" or "Do you need encouragement to overcome......?" I have loved your channels for years. I'm a Catholic trad mom of 9 (if you don't remember me from comments at all) so I don't disagree with what your content at all, but it's confrontational to me. If someone walked up to me an said those phrases I would shut down and not engage in conversation. (afterall, I'm emotional, lol! ) I'm only mentioning it because, a) although I LOVE your channels. There are times I wait a few days to watch because of titles. b) I'm already accusing myself of weaknesses and I come to channels like this for encouragment. Maybe it's just me. I'm just letting you know in case the titles effect your appeal to new viewers who may benefit from your videos. People already feel judged by us trad-moms we need to draw them in with the beautiful and your titles are the first thing they see! Much love! Blessed Trinity Sunday!
Totally agree! And also many people are not drawn close to chritianity bc of Christian people and teachings being so judgmental.. being emotional is a good thing..God gave us emotions for a reason
I love this channel, but lately I have skipped videos and didn’t realize it was the negative titles. I really enjoyed this video but I admit I did skip over it twice because it didn’t sound appealing, before watching because I do love her channel. Also God gave us emotions and so I don’t think we should stop being emotional, but I know what she means about letting our emotions control us. ❤
Can relate to the other comments!
I totally hear what you’re saying and I would prefer to have a different title as well! As a content creator I have learned over the past 10 years that if I want my content seen, I have to do what works for the algorithm. If you go to my channel videos and look at the most popular videos, all of the titles are similar and the ones where I say “STOP” first, have the most views. Using these types of titles has significantly increased my reach and has made my channel grow incredibly fast. My true message and tone is found in what I say in the videos. The blaring title gets people to click. I want as many people as possible to hear Gods word and these messages. I hope you understand.
The Bible is one of the most confrontational books there is and it has the power to absolutely transform a person from the inside out. So if someone plans to share the gospel which is what this channel is for it isn’t going to be ear tickling.
As much as those of us who have taken the call to share the Holy Word of God would like all content to be pleasing to the hearers that just isn’t the nature of it. If we want true breakthrough and freedom it does mean facing what is hindering us, repent which means STOP and turn from our sins.
Appreciate the truth in love because the truth is what sets us free.
Perfect timing. This month my emotions are strong because of the monthly hormons 🤭 I know about that but it‘s challeging sometimes. Thank you, I loved watching it 🤍
I’m not a trad wife yet. I’m together with my Bf for 5 years now we are 22 . And as a Christian It’s rare to date for so long and not be married (brings pressure ) we barley have our life to God 3 years ago . I just find myself depressed because financially we aren’t ready for marriage and to move out. I feel like I grieve a lot to because My household is a toxic place my Dad can’t stand me. Im the only saved one in my family. I dream to be married already with kids . I need to learn that God’s timing is perfect Only God will help me ..
You're light as a believer will have an effect on those around you, no matter what. God knows what you are going through and if you rely solely upon him for your struggles, he will give you strength each day to get through. It's not easy and I have come to only put my trust in Jesus, he will never let you down. People will lose your trust and let you down. We're human and selfish. As you grow in your faith, by reading your Bible, you'll learn that pleasing God supersedes pleasing others.
I don’t know if you’ve graduated college or not, but if not, please go to school and get yourself an education or learn a trade. You can get married and have kids, but please make sure you have a way to support yourself if you ever find yourself in a place where you need to. Just know that there’s nothing wrong with getting an education or work experience. Wishing you the best.
Embrace the season your in, im still learning this, but God is the God of suddenly, so embrace the season your in. Time will container to fly so that brings different seasons.
I really like reading Ecclesiastes 3-:1-8 look it up & ponder on it. Keep praying about all your concerns he has a plan for all of them. Be encouraged & I'll be praying for your family & your Dad for there stone hearts to turn into flesh in Jesus name Amen
My Husband got married without being financially stable, we are still living pay check to pay check but we are doing it better together in unity & persevering together on things...learning to save & be better with our time, trying to do it God's way & not our own way.
Everyday is a new Begining but so is every second 💛💪🏽
Take it from me. Ready is a liar. You don't need a big fancy wedding. That can always happen later. If you feel God is telling you he's the one to marry, there's no need to make it drag on. Just go get the certificate done and work towards a small place together. Don't hate your small beginnings. Those turn into testimonies later. 🙂 I hope this encourages you.
(Together for 12 years, married for 9. First three years were awful. Now? Best friends with Christ.) ❤🎉
Marriage doesn’t have to be expensive it’s about the commitment to god and your spouse. He wants you to take that leap, especially if you’re co-habiting. I did it for 3 years. Felt so convicted.
It was god calling me to marriage.
Living with someone else shouldn’t disable your life. You can still get married. It’s just about you and god and your partner.
Marriage is hard, but it is a gift.
If we are being honest, when we are pushing back, something like this title, not facing the truth in those words, then I think it would just be easier and more beneficial to run and see instead of hiding away. It will always minister to us if we just except the words and then listen to counsel. We women are all in the trench’s or have been…I get her title without a blink! Open it up and enjoy her sweet spirit and wise counsel!!
Beautiful! I must stand up for those that have/are suffering from depression. It's not an emotion, but it can effect emotions.
As humans, we aren't perfect, but we can do our best with God's help.
on this birthday of mine, i was feeling really down... it was a heavy day. I prayed to just ask to be uplifted. hearing you share my favourite verse reminded me to be joyous. I recently found your channel, and it has brought along a fire. thank you for sharing
Happy birthday!
Happy Birthday to you xxx
Happy Birthday to you xxx
Happy belated birthday and all the best 🌺🌼🌸
I came across your videos last night whilst living in depression for weeks and not cleaning or doing any laundry. Not being a good fiancé and future wife. I thank you for motivating me as of today I cleaned my whole house and realized how grateful I am for jesus. Thank you. ❤
I think saying sometimes we walk around choosing to be depressed is a slippery path to go down. For thiae trult depressed this is not a choice but a mental health condition
To: This Mama's Faith,
"Those who are wise will shine like the brightness of the heavens, and those who lead many to righteousness, like the stars for ever and ever." -Daniel 12:3
I absolutely love your videos and look forward to them every week! Question-How could you do all that you do, plus work a 40hr per week job? 🙏
I don’t work a 40 hour a week job. I couldn’t possibly do what I do and work long hours. That would be asking way too much
@@ThisMamasFaith You are very blessed with a good man. Very much rare nowadays. 😔
This is exactly 💯 👏 what I needed as well! Blessings, so grateful 🙏🏼 to have fou d your channel last September!
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I really believe staying in a place of thanksgiving promotes a positive mind-set! Well done.
Truly thank you this has changed my morning and Im hoping my outlook long term. God Bless you!
I watched one of your other videos with my husband, and I’m going to be honest, I was a bit emotional because I felt guilty that maybe I wasn’t good enough. I reflected and realized this in my thinking and that it was an opportunity for encouragement. The next one I came across was this one, how much I needed to hear the reminders to control my emotions and recognize my feelings, but not act on them, rather trusting in the truth of the Bible.
I feel the video content is great if you see negativity in this I hope you pray about it and receive the message for what’s intended. I don’t feel personally attacked by the content creator’s tone at all. Keep up the good work! ❤️ Blessings 🍃
Im a man encouraged by your channel God bless you sister remain under the leading of the Holy spirit
Loved this....thank you for this encouragement....
I love this thank you! God doesn’t hold back and pushing us to be Holy and neither should we
Beautiful video and articulated so well, thank you for your obedience to the Lord and sharing a word of conviction and correction in love❤
Very good! And, I'm 70.
Ughh can u do one with how u manage with 6 kids I have 3 and I get so stressed and just always wanna be alone I feel like it’s too much 😢
I love this video and appreciate the title just as much as the words spoken. STOP BEING EMOTIONAL. What a profound message with such truth in every word spoken.
Women have made some of the most horrific decisions and crimes based on emotions. In criminal law, a crime of passion is a crime committed in the "heat of passion" or in response to provocation, as opposed to a crime that was premeditated or deliberated.
This is a clear sign to us as Christian women to “STOP” being emotional. As Tabitha stated. Not only can uncontrolled emotions open a door for the Devil to use us but it causes us to be a hinderance to our growth and the growth of others around us. Thank you Tabitha for the clear message.
I am a young lady growing in the knowledge and grace of God while also learning to worship God through serving my husband and my family. This message was needed and doesn’t need to be altered in anyway. Regardless of the emotional women who may feel “triggered” by the title.
Great video! You always post exactly what I need to hear when I need it the most. Thank you!! 🙏 God bless you and your family. 😊
We have emotions, we do not want emotions to HAVE us, right?
Love this, Praise God! ❤️🙏
These videos are precious to me, a homeschooling mama with 3 under 5. Thank you for your sweet reminders and encouragement always pointing back to truth.
Aww I’m so grateful these inspire you
Thank you for this, I look forward to these videos. The calm music and the firm word of God. Great reminders for everyday life.
This has been on my heart too. My husband recently gave his heart to Christ, and his anger disappeared. In the light of his transformation, I suddenly realize that I have my own momentary outbursts.
NEED THIS
I love the way you share your household duties with us yet the emphasis is on God's word!
Beneficial video ❤ Love other Christian Wives/ Mamas spreading the truth!
This video was encouraging and helpful! Thank you for uplifting, inspiring content!❤
If anyone would be willing to pray for me? I married a Christian man but he does not want to spend time with our 6 month old son when he gets off work. He says he is too tired. I never thought this may be the case when we got married. I am sad and trying to navigate this season well.
I really appreciated this content. It was super helpful and encouraging to me. I find my emotions wavering so extreme throughout the day as a young mother.
It’s very challenging but you can do all things through Christ who gives you strength. Just call on him and he will answer!
Thank you so very much for your positive encouraging content. Feel really blessed by your videos ❤
I am too emotional right now to even hear your message! I stopped half way through. I’ll come back when I’m not so emotional, God willing.
Seek Jesus first let Him guide you. Maybe this video isn't for you. Maybe it is for you in which be willing to receive the message but always go to Jesus first.
I definitely needed to hear this- I LOVE how direct you are! I needed this thank you so much 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
I agree with you. We have to control our emotions in certain circumstances that is not glorifying God.
Thank you.❤
I believe this wholeheartedly. We are called to a life that is not our own. Living by the whims of our "flesh" is not God's hope for us.
Thank you so much!! I have been struggling with this subject for quite sometime. I love the line “ Your emotions should inform you, not control you “ I think I don’t tell myself ‘No’ as much as I should. Your words of Godly encouragement have changed my outlook on daily activities I must do! 😊❤👍
This was SO encouraging to me. I have been faithfully praying for God to help me in this way ❤
Your video was so relaxing and put me in a good mindset to focus on God. While I was doing housework. Thank you and God Bless you!
Thank you. Discussing hard topics helps us move through and get closer to God. Too many women sweep things under the rug. Admitting what we struggle in and working on it is what we need to do.
Thank you. I greatly appreciate your words. I needed to hear this. 🙏🏻❤
I love your videos. They have helped me become a better person. Thank you for sharing your love and wisdom with the world.
This is such a blessing! Great to see the younger women who care about being traditional and guided by Jesus, I pray that this grows and more young women follow these basic guides and oh how families will prosper. I also am a Christian Homemaker for 34 years now, mom of 6, and homeschooler, 5 grads and 1 freshman!! You made my heart smile this morning, thank you.
Hello Tabitha!! I love your channel!!! You are inspiring!!! We all have emotions we deal with being a woman!!! Title or no title this was very informative and inspiring to me!!! I love God's word and thank you for sharing it and your thoughts!!! Its always encouraging and makes me think!!! Take care and God bless 😊❤
Your messages are spot on. Thank you and GOD bless ❤
Good morning. Lady. Thursday nothing wrong with having time to your self. You need time with God.
Yes, there are way too many different circumstances in our day to day lives that could affect our emotions in very different ways. We must learn to live by the spirit and God's word must govern our lives day to day.
Wow I have never watched your channel but I feel I was led here. A few days ago, I heard the Holy Spirit tell me to guard my heart. I have been tested so much lately and I feel so weary. My emotions have been all over the place. I have been so angry. Lord help me!
Thank you so much for this beautiful video ❤ it has helped me so much because I would react to my feelings from the flesh like anger and depression. Now I don't shove them in a box but get rid of them before they affect me. I am no longer on my depression meds and hope to get off my social anxiety disorder meds soon too!
Absolutely beautiful. Stopped me in my tracks while listening, God truly used you as a beacon to share his word with me ❤
Thank you so much for these reminders. I really needed this. I’ve been struggling with anger and frustration. I know that it is a heart issue that needs to be dealt with.
I’ve been walking up tired and getting moody. I asked God am I moody because I’m tired or am I tired because I’m allowing heavy and bitter thoughts weigh me down and drain me. I believe it is my attitude. Like you said we don’t have to entertain those thoughts. I know that it comes from the enemy. Yes we battle with health conditions that can make us weary but there are also spiritual battles that go on inside of us. We need to bring it ALL to the lord. By his stripes we are healed and in our weakness we are made strong in Christ Jesus
I adore your videos. Please do more. I find some of the other Christian channels oppressive and some of them speak too much and too quickly, which makes me feel agitated afterwards. Thank you for all that you do ❤
Amen 🙏
Thank you so much for this. I really needed this today!
I have been struggling with my emotions lately and turning to God to help me
I see nothing wrong with the title. When you walk with Christ the devil will tempt you to walk by the flesh Instead of walking in the Spirit. To be governed by the flesh is to be governed by emotions so when you say stop being an emotional Christian… you’re saying just that! I’m in a season where I’ve fallen into temptation of satisfying my flesh by telling someone off or sinning in my anger. At the end of my fit, I cry out to God just like Paul did in Romans 7 “the things I don’t want to do, I do and the things I want to do I dont do!”
This video was for Christ followers like me who are currently struggling with their flesh. I believe God knew I needed a title like this to grab my attention.
Feelings are not facts and I believe the Holy Sprit would have convicted you to change the title if you needed to!
God bless you sister in Christ and thank you for your obedience! 🙌🏽✝️🙌🏽
Would you like to make a loop music stream of the music you play for house cleaning?
I see study music videos on 24/7 live loop.
Im not sure how it works but was wondering if you might be interested in the idea.
It's not nessesary, just a thought. God bless you and your family!
Thanknyou for this. This is what I really needed to hear.
Dethatched means those who don't feel or understand their emotions. Emotions are not a bad thing. The church has been teaching that we must ignore our emotions.... this is a lie. You can be angry but do not sin, just like God said. This dismissive rhetoric that you are parroting is NOT the heart of God but it is what's perpetuating abusive men in the church to get away with so much and be controlling. Telling people they're doing something wrong by feeling or responding to emotions is NOT God's heart. If i feel sad or other emotions from being mistreated, this is not just a feeling to ignore, if something doesn't sit right with me at a church this is not something to ignore. Stop tying being a woman of God to this person that must ignore and suppress all emotions. Emotions are a way of thought. Stop lying to people, this is what's creating mental illness or exasperating it. This is low key gaslighting and not what God ever meant. Stop driving people away by dismissing their humanity and emotions.
This video was good, thank you❤. New subscriber!
Thanks for this topic.. really needed one for me right now. ❤
Thank you for all of your videos. They encourage me so much! 😊
I click on because of the titles and im always blessed with her messages. Thank you so much and may God bless all of us.
Thank you for this! I needed this today!
You are so welcome!
Read psalms 27 verse 1. The lord is my light and my salvation
I'm so glad I for this mams faith il love and I did learn and was blessed today thank you
Thank you for this video!
May i ask which version of the bible you read?
Some good thoughts came out of this, even if I don't like the title of the video.
Please make longer videos like an hour. These are sooooooooo helpful
I would love to hear about homeschooling 💜 and how you do it.
My heart needed this. Thank you 🙏
So glad 💖
Thank you for this message ❤
Wish was wasier said then done everytime i go and even if it good in reason i get so tired nex t
Hey there woman of God!
I love your videos and thank you for helping us moms with wisdom! I do have a question do you get your older kids involved in the hh chores? I’m trying to do this the way most parents try with rewards and incentives but I feel that at times I leave God out of these and they do things because they are forced to and not because they love it. I know not all of us worse kids love to help with house hold chores but they live in the house as well!? lol ok just curious how you incorporate this in your home. Thanks
Absolutely! My kids are in charge of their own laundry, their bedrooms, their bathrooms and they each have a zone they maintain and a dinner time chore. They also help with the animals. I am very blessed to have a priest that preaches that children should obey their parents because they love God. But also, it’s just part of our day and I have them involved from a very young age so they are used to it. It’s not always easy and sometimes they grumble but they get it done!
I needed to hear this today ❤️
You are a true proverbs 31 woman.
Ty 🙏 the Lord has blessed you with great wisdom and a beautiful voice!! Do you have a podcast?? I mostly listen, but love your videos too!! Thanks for sharing ❤
Maybe I haven't found it yet, but would you share your ideas for children's jobs in your home. I have children ages 13, 7, 6 and twin 1 year Olds and I'm always looking for new ideas on how they can help around the house! Thank you
This video is pure gold! Thank you Tabitha for making this! We all need to hear everything you said and shared from the word. “Your emotions should inform you not control you” absolutely truth, my friend! I pray God richly blesses you and your precious family ♥️🙏🌻
The wording is spot on..full of scripture...and a rebuke/admonishment that we need in this day❤
I get the point of the advice in the video. But I’d simply like to encourage those in the battle with their mental health. Take out the shame because you can not control your emotions. We can make proper plans for when our emotions arise and determine beforehand how you will choose to respond to the emotions. We can understand our triggers to plan for them accordingly.
You can not stop the feeling of emotions as they come.
Also, depression is not something many people choose to have or become. Anxiety isn’t something some of us choose to have or deal with daily. We must acknowledge the physiological (chemical make up) aspects of stress, anxiety or depression.
So don’t feel shame if you can not simply STOP being sad. Or if you can not simply GET YOURSELF UP when you body is sending you cues to SIT YOURSELF down because it senses you need to recover or tend to the manners of your heart and mind. Lazy means you are unwilling to do work or expend the energy but sometimes you simply can not. Your body may be sending you cues to slow down to seek help.
May we couple the truths from The Father in his word with empathy, understanding, true education about our bodies and therapy.
You sometimes need help to rise above your emotions and that’s ok too. 🤎
Yes!!!! At three months post partum with my sixth baby i had a very rare heart attack. They told me, we don't know what causes it, don't know how to prevent it, do not nurse again, never have babies again,....oh and you will have anxiety and depression from here on out. That was a LOT to take in at the ripe age of 34 with a 3 month old baby. Well they weren't wrong. two weeks late. Depression and Anxiety came over me like a Kansas Tornado. No warning . Thing is, when you have an illness can kill you instantly but no one can predict when it can happen.... you get a bit of anxiet y and depression. Praise God I. pushed through. kept nursing that baby, in fact, I was nursing two babies when I got pregnant with my 8th, . Then I had another. I've had 9 babies, Five in hospital, four in my home, 3 heart attacks, and hemorrhaged seven times.....I'd do it again. I literallly met Dr Ray Guarendi the day my depression kicked in. He was even like, "You don't seem like the person who has depression." I agreed. Sometimes. it happens to you. Never tell someone not to be sad, not to be lazy, not to be emotional, etc....unless you KNOW.
@@meagandaoust6815 praise God! You have a powerful testimony. The last sentence so so powerful!!!!
If you’re homeschooling 6 kids, could you please tell me where they are? Why aren’t they running around like 6 homeschooled kids would in any of your videos? I see you doing so much and so peacefully, it you don’t have any kids interrupting, a baby wanting your attention etc?
I hope you respond ❤
Some guesses: she films on days her husband is home from work. He watches the children. Or, the children do show up in the shot, but she cuts the parts where they're seen and just shows herself. She films herself doing chores here and there but does tend to them off camera when they interrupt. They might be running around off camera but since the audio of the video is muted, we only hear music and her narrating. The baby might be napping or sitting happily somewhere,watching her. Her chores and filming are probably spaced out throughout the day. She might have a special routine for her filming days to make it work. ❤
@@NaniMango thank you! ❤️ I’ve just had my first, well 6 months ago and I feel like a mess and wonder how I’ll handle any more! Let alone what I see in these videos! (Yep been sinfully comparing myself :/) thanks heaps for the logical guesses 😅❤️
What I’m finding confusing and it might be my mistake is I thought this was to be a weekly inspirational message. I look weekly to watch as I enjoy listening to Tabithas’ channel, but rarely is it weekly. Am I mistaken?
I do my best to make it weekly and I have not been able to accomplish that lately. I am sorry! I will have a video this Sunday
@@ThisMamasFaith Thank you so much for answering! I just wondered because I always check, I look forward to them so much. I’m sure you have your hands full with your beautiful family! Just wanted to check, I will continue to always look! You seem like such a beautiful person inside and out.
This was timely and exactly what I needed. The title is perfect, caught my attention. The message causes introspection and accountability😊
Thank you for your devotional video. I listen to it to help me help my mom and do it with a right heart for God. My mom has a condition where her whole body is in pain 24/7.
Please pray for her, for her healing. She has endured this for about 12 years.
She needs me to be there for her.
Please pray she recieves the wisdom she needs to get through her times of uncertainty.
She sleeps to stave the pain when it feels overwhelming.
Please pray for me that I may fulfill what God calls me to do for Him and in honoring my mother as I seek the Lord through obedience and quiet devotionals throughout the day.
To not be lazy, to love in actions deeply. To seek Christ's example in all my ways.
God bless you all. Thank you