You are Awesome Debbie 🙏 such truth regarding this abuse.. after 4 years on the healing journey I’m just starting to get it.. starting to feel the freedom is close. I’m not fully there yet but I know it’s close ... love the way you say YOU GOT THIS 😊🙏 .. thank you for your love and support , it means so much to the survivors as I’m sure you know ❤️🙏
Someone gave me a lead to an apartment. I called the place and spoke to a woman. I explained to her that I was living in my car. Then I told her how much money I could spend on a monthly basis. I will never forget what she said to me because it illuminated a part of my life that had languished in darkness and shade for so long. She said "I will never set you up to fail". The more I thought about it the more I how many people had set me up to fail. There were many. I am grateful that I woke up.
Yep. So many people set us up to fail. You gotta wait a long,long time,but eventually it is those people who fail. When they do try not to laugh........oh,go on then,laugh at them long and hard. You get the last laugh!!
Hi Debbie. You're absolutely right. Feel I'm on a great journey of understanding myself from within, understanding how my early life set me up for abusive relationships. Am climbing up out of the valley and I even see the 'blessings' in finally opening my eyes after a lifetime of walking around blind. Thank you for your great work Debbie.
Thank you for this video. I have been on this healing journey for about 4 years and finally feel better. You are so right when you said this is hard work, but I’ve read, researched, watched your videos and spent thousands of dollars (his money) on therapy. The hard part for me is that I have no choice but to stay, I am in my 60’s and just discovered his “secrets” about six years ago. He is so good acting the part of the nice guy, no one knows the hell I have lived through. My emotional detachment has helped, I no longer expect empathy, insight, or understanding from him. I’m giving myself the love he cannot give me, for the first time in my life I have put myself first. I will continue on this healing journey and enjoy my life now.
I am on this journey for sure. This morning I moved some paintings on the walls. In the future I decide what my home will look like. I have not been able to influense that, until now...
Absolutely 💯 Debbie. Exactly what I have discovered and have done this last year. Lots of realization, growth and healing. Your videos are always on point, informative, supportive and confirming. Thank you so much! ❤️
Lots of love dear sister..I resonate..this relates to my dysfunctional FOO. .of which I left and moved countries to escape the insanity a month ago.. much love xxx
@@debbiemirza1744 thank you.I am in recovery. .just in shock with years of abuse..I stayed because I'm an empath and didn't feel I had the option to leave....my heros journey has been quite a ride....big hug xxx
million thanks to you. Very kind words that I have never ever heard in my life. Just starting my healing journey and I am very much overwhelmed. Hopefully I will see light. My losses are heavy. I am left with my breath and that is it. Doing deep breathing each day to survive.
You are so welcome! Take it slow. It will help regulate your nervous system. If you are able to, I highly recommend my latest book called Worthy of Love. It's all about the healing process after narcissistic abuse. It's very gentle, and I think will help lessen the overwhelm. Lots of love to you! You are worthy of it and you deserve it.
You are Awesome Debbie 🙏 such truth regarding this abuse.. after 4 years on the healing journey I’m just starting to get it.. starting to feel the freedom is close. I’m not fully there yet but I know it’s close ... love the way you say YOU GOT THIS 😊🙏 .. thank you for your love and support , it means so much to the survivors as I’m sure you know ❤️🙏
Thank you so much for this comment New Eyes! You are so welcome! Kind people like you inspire to keep helping. Much love to you! xx
Someone gave me a lead to an apartment. I called the place and spoke to a woman. I explained to her that I was living in my car. Then I told her how much money I could spend on a monthly basis. I will never forget what she said to me because it illuminated a part of my life that had languished in darkness and shade for so long. She said "I will never set you up to fail". The more I thought about it the more I how many people had set me up to fail. There were many. I am grateful that I woke up.
Yep. So many people set us up to fail. You gotta wait a long,long time,but eventually it is those people who fail. When they do try not to laugh........oh,go on then,laugh at them long and hard. You get the last laugh!!
Hi Debbie. You're absolutely right. Feel I'm on a great journey of understanding myself from within, understanding how my early life set me up for abusive relationships. Am climbing up out of the valley and I even see the 'blessings' in finally opening my eyes after a lifetime of walking around blind. Thank you for your great work Debbie.
Thank you for this video. I have been on this healing journey for about 4 years and finally feel better. You are so right when you said this is hard work, but I’ve read, researched, watched your videos and spent thousands of dollars (his money) on therapy. The hard part for me is that I have no choice but to stay, I am in my 60’s and just discovered his “secrets” about six years ago. He is so good acting the part of the nice guy, no one knows the hell I have lived through. My emotional detachment has helped, I no longer expect empathy, insight, or understanding from him. I’m giving myself the love he cannot give me, for the first time in my life I have put myself first. I will continue on this healing journey and enjoy my life now.
I got your book it describes KPJ exactly
I never saw it coming but warning signs were seen decades ago
I am on this journey for sure. This morning I moved some paintings on the walls. In the future I decide what my home will look like. I have not been able to influense that, until now...
You have helped me so much. Thank you. I am an experienced healer and was so unaware of this information. I’m blown away.
Absolutely 💯 Debbie. Exactly what I have discovered and have done this last year. Lots of realization, growth and healing. Your videos are always on point, informative, supportive and confirming. Thank you so much! ❤️
Lots of love dear sister..I resonate..this relates to my dysfunctional FOO. .of which I left and moved countries to escape the insanity a month ago.. much love xxx
Well done leaving. That takes a lot of strength! xx
@@debbiemirza1744 thank you.I am in recovery. .just in shock with years of abuse..I stayed because I'm an empath and didn't feel I had the option to leave....my heros journey has been quite a ride....big hug xxx
Thank you 🙏🏽 I’m just starting my detachment and I really need this so much for my survival
I thank God I have just discovered this channel. Hope you are doing well. Thank you for all the videos you have recorded so far!
million thanks to you. Very kind words that I have never ever heard in my life. Just starting my healing journey and I am very much overwhelmed. Hopefully I will see light.
My losses are heavy. I am left with my breath and that is it. Doing deep breathing each day to survive.
You are so welcome! Take it slow. It will help regulate your nervous system. If you are able to, I highly recommend my latest book called Worthy of Love. It's all about the healing process after narcissistic abuse. It's very gentle, and I think will help lessen the overwhelm. Lots of love to you! You are worthy of it and you deserve it.
@@debbiemirza1744 Thanks for your support. Yes I will get that book.
Awesome video. Thank you for the encouragement ❤
Thank you Debbie 😊💕
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