You're perceiving it the wrong way. A healthy, strong, enduring relationship is the result of surviving trials and tests which eventually produce an unbreakable bond through trust and maturity.
Nope, @LondonKluv is spot on! God wants to have thriving marriages, and there are times we are surviving through winter seasons and/or hardships, but they should not be the conversation of our marriage journey in its totality during our journey.
Sistah gonna tell u what u need to know not wnna hear i knw every situation is diffr but in these times if u married today u def surviving cause every marriage seems to end today.
They are DEFINITELY not “goals” lol. It isn’t necessary to go through being cheated on to get to a place of mutual respect. It is possible to be decent and good to each other from the very start.
They could be goals to a couple who has experienced what they did and they are showing how they over came it. How to forgive and move forward. I personally do not look ok at other relationships and say “they’re goals.” I totally get what you are saying but do believe “some” people are looking at them and witnessed a couple turn to God and overcome those things that could have possibly broken their marriage.
I've seen other pictures of her and in those she looked like what the public wouldsay is " more of his type" . I too was surprised at how "simple" she looks. I think the hair style and glasses ages her. I'm not saying that she doesn't look good but just more conservative and her look gives off librarian vibes to me. She must be a good woman to have stuck by him all these years, considering the rumors and maybe they are true (I don't know ) but him cheating multiple times. May God bless their marriage.
@@shemireyahlilly5521 She is a mature woman and she looks like a modest Christian woman.There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. More importantly it's not about looks! T.V. has created so much vanity in this world and have messed up ppls mind
People judge them but their honesty speaks volumes. Pretending to be perfect and not owning up to mistakes is the primary example why the divorce rate is 60%
@@feliciajohns4148 Ms. Felicia Johns, Amen. Isn’t Gos good. Isn’t it just wonder when marriage couples share their story and strategy about how they agreed to work together to better their marriage despite of some people who take the word that they use to describe their how they work together to better their friendship and relationship. For instance, the word [surviving]. God bless them and the marriage. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
@@rachelnan6875 Leave Paulette alone to comment on a public forum. What part of her comment implied that she's lonely or any idea of her relationship status? We can share differing opinions without attacking people.
So good to see someone in the industry able to keep a marriage for so long. One of my family members was in the music industry and it has a LOT of horrible temptations.
Yall are focused on the wrong things and missing the MESSAGE! The point is THEY chose to fight for their marriage as in their vows and for their obedience blessing came afloat.
Comgrats. Marriage is a beautiful Godly covenant. It’s not perfect but as long as there is respect, communication and commitment it can work, and last.
Lots of people who are married don't believe in your god. Lots of people who are married don't believe in any god. And people were getting married long before your god was made up.
I never heard about Montell Jordan’s family. Beautiful family and I’d be interested to read their book or hear their ministries especially with the amount of years they’ve been married.
She seems to have stopped trying to be appealing. She could look a lot more youthful but doesn't. I get being modest, not showing your body, but you should do your best to remain attractive for your mate.
This very good interview with Montell Jordan and wife that's incredible love story how they met, and also God call Montell to ministry he answered call his life after all these years he and wife still married and working in ministry together.Giod knows exactly who you need. God bless you both
Wow I like their vibe and I hope to get to a place like this with someone special that I can relate with. I been married 20 years and second marriage and its not easy and now single once again.
*He's My Greatest GIFT, I've got to treat him like that.* (With Great Love, Warmth and Respect) Good Marriage is finding its way back to PROMINENCE, with unions like this. Great Stuff 🌹👍👏👌💯 *The Devil Is a LIAR!*
That was good to see and hear! I would never would have agreed to say I was married to my music! Oh No! That is such deception! The girl fans didn't even know he was married! That's asking for trouble! I was looking at the order of each relationship in your life! That's really interesting! Of course, God is first, spouse, children then the church! Work career is last? Ouch! Well, I'm not married so my career is #2 on the list! They seem like a great couple. I saw how she had her hand on his leg! That's cute and after 23! Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎈🎉🎊!!!!
Montel has clearly sucked the life and vibrancy out of his wife. She looks stressed out, matronly and 20 years older. Meanwhile Montel looks youthful, happy and vibrant. Take note ladies
Very happy for them. Couldn't have been easy. With a lot of these celebrities. Marriage is a business. A couple like Flex and Shanice Wilson. They seem like a loving couple. They've been together just as long as these two. We are all on the outside looking in.
"He's My Greatest Gift, and I have to treat Him like that." Any Woman (Blessed by God)that receives a Blessing like that, will be given the same Love, Honor, Respect and Loyalty from a Godly Man.🙏
Few marriages last a decade.All face challenges and most aren't willing to put in the work necessary to survive.Consider those that refuse to give up ; lasting 50yrs or more.Think survival is the perfect term!
I don't know why this is coming across my feed today but the fact that this headline says "surviving" marriage like it's a fn battlefield??? Thanks but no thanks.
I don't ever want to consider my marriage as something I am "surviving".
You're perceiving it the wrong way.
A healthy, strong, enduring relationship is the result of surviving trials and tests which eventually produce an unbreakable bond through trust and maturity.
Nope, @LondonKluv is spot on! God wants to have thriving marriages, and there are times we are surviving through winter seasons and/or hardships, but they should not be the conversation of our marriage journey in its totality during our journey.
Sistah gonna tell u what u need to know not wnna hear i knw every situation is diffr but in these times if u married today u def surviving cause every marriage seems to end today.
Their were instances where their marriage was at risk and they survived …hence surviving
It's the same as life in general
Reporter: “how do u make your marriage last”??
Montell: “This is how we do itttttt”
☺️It had to be said.
Why did this make me chuckle?
...I mean. I feel alrigghttt🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
😂🤣😂
Lol
So proud of this man. Turning his life around and dedicating his life for the church.......
I love the open, candid conversations! Glad they are in ministry! God is good!
If she did what he did would you love it too?
@@barbymadison878 What did he do besides try to hide his marriage to boost his career? She went along with the idea.
AMEN
They are DEFINITELY not “goals” lol. It isn’t necessary to go through being cheated on to get to a place of mutual respect. It is possible to be decent and good to each other from the very start.
they not perfect and nor is anyone is.
No relationship is goals. 99% of marriages there is cheating. When they get divorce or not, cheating is likely there
You’re absolutely correct! Well said!
They could be goals to a couple who has experienced what they did and they are showing how they over came it. How to forgive and move forward. I personally do not look ok at other relationships and say “they’re goals.” I totally get what you are saying but do believe “some” people are looking at them and witnessed a couple turn to God and overcome those things that could have possibly broken their marriage.
No one is perfect! At least they’re together and has learned to put God first!!
She is NOT what I thought his wife would look like. Glad they worked it out!
May God help u
True,the interviewer is who I imagined him with. But some men prefer nerdy Plain Jane's for marriage. Makes sense. Probably they feel more secure.
I've seen other pictures of her and in those she looked like what the public wouldsay is " more of his type" . I too was surprised at how "simple" she looks. I think the hair style and glasses ages her. I'm not saying that she doesn't look good but just more conservative and her look gives off librarian vibes to me. She must be a good woman to have stuck by him all these years, considering the rumors and maybe they are true (I don't know ) but him cheating multiple times. May God bless their marriage.
@@MsLotusBlooms She did look more like the interviewer when she was younger.
@@shemireyahlilly5521 She is a mature woman and she looks like a modest Christian woman.There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. More importantly it's not about looks! T.V. has created so much vanity in this world and have messed up ppls mind
People judge them but their honesty speaks volumes. Pretending to be perfect and not owning up to mistakes is the primary example why the divorce rate is 60%
Preach everbody pretends to be perfect on the internet! But there not married giving advice
💁🏾♂️Congratulations to both Montell and Kristin Jordan who talked about surviving 23 years of marriage. God bless them and their families. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
AMEN
@@feliciajohns4148 Ms. Felicia Johns, Amen. Isn’t Gos good. Isn’t it just wonder when marriage couples share their story and strategy about how they agreed to work together to better their marriage despite of some people who take the word that they use to describe their how they work together to better their friendship and relationship. For instance, the word [surviving]. God bless them and the marriage. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Y'all are insane. People shouldn't have to survive marriage
"He's my greatest gift 🎁 I've got to treat him like that" .....I love ❤️ what Kristen said....absolutely.....100% we must learn to value each other
Great blessing 😊
And may God sustain all marriages who come across this video.
The more and more I read about these situations, I've now come to realize that the music industry is very crafty. Smh, Lord help this world.
"The more and more you read"? Then stop obsessing over music industry situations! Y'all are so Irky with that. If you're lonely just say that.
@@rachelnan6875 girl…Paulette made you mad 🗣🥴🤣🤣🤣
Yes. It is very crafty to destroy people.
@@rachelnan6875 Leave Paulette alone to comment on a public forum. What part of her comment implied that she's lonely or any idea of her relationship status? We can share differing opinions without attacking people.
What do you mean?
They’re LOVELY together & I’m happy for it 💐
So good to see someone in the industry able to keep a marriage for so long. One of my family members was in the music industry and it has a LOT of horrible temptations.
Alot of cheating and forgiving..
I’ve married 28 years to my best friend. Its awesome for us.
Montell is saved. Cool
No one is saved... you have to endure to the end.
That reporter tho 🔥
Yall are focused on the wrong things and missing the MESSAGE! The point is THEY chose to fight for their marriage as in their vows and for their obedience blessing came afloat.
Congratulations on 23 years of marriage!!
Comgrats. Marriage is a beautiful Godly covenant. It’s not perfect but as long as there is respect, communication and commitment it can work, and last.
Lots of people who are married don't believe in your god. Lots of people who are married don't believe in any god. And people were getting married long before your god was made up.
Gorgeous and classy wife with so much poise.
I Truly Love & Appreciate this Beautiful Cpl for being a Example of a Christian family ! CONGRATULATIONS ❤️🙏🏽
Amen they stayed together for so many years
This is lovely.. blessed couple. May God bless us with our own beautiful unions.🙏🏾
"Surviving" 23 years of marraige, that sounds like living torture.
Who’s the interviewer geesh 😍😍
Ikr
That’s who he would have been with if he was a still rockstar 🥲
That’s who he would have been with if he was a still rockstar 🥲
I never heard about Montell Jordan’s family. Beautiful family and I’d be interested to read their book or hear their ministries especially with the amount of years they’ve been married.
Montell looks good. Leaving that demonic industry early preserves your youth & life!
She looks much older than him …. I’d love to hear her story !!!!!
Exactly what I said. 20 years his senior.
She seems to have stopped trying to be appealing. She could look a lot more youthful but doesn't. I get being modest, not showing your body, but you should do your best to remain attractive for your mate.
Well, he had a couple of mistresses and was on the road living it up. She was at home raising four kids .
The legendary soul singer Al Green says it better Let's Stay Together
Yes brother
Life and death in the power of the tongue
We cannot live a lie
Very good message! I couldn’t help but notice this reporter is Fine😍
He has always been respectful and loving about his wife. Great man, great marriage. Love it.
No he doesn't. He cheated
@@monicafrancNiki lol exactly
This very good interview with Montell Jordan and wife that's incredible love story how they met, and also God call Montell to ministry he answered call his life after all these years he and wife still married and working in ministry together.Giod knows exactly who you need. God bless you both
I think his wife great she stayed and worked through it has talked to you you are a heck of a good woman
Nice guy!!! I went to middle school with him.
Here for this👍🏽 this is good❤
To hell with them the newscaster fine as hell
Hell yeah! Damn!
Well dang🤣
😂
@@aisha2luv464 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm just here for the news lady cuz DAMN 😍!
Beautiful Couple ! I wish them both success !
she must have had a good job to keep the family going.
“Surviving” Lmaaaoooo that tells you all about marriage that you need
LOL
Just what I was thinking
🗣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Right! Lol
Same! The deadline is off-putting. Who wants to “survive” marriage…geez.
They are both beautiful!!!!!
For so many of us putting work (not career…just work) first equals putting our family first.
I "m glad that montel and Kristen jordan putting god frist.I love 💘 that.
I thought he was sitting next to his old teacher 😂
Most don't sit next to lovers for twenty three months😅!
All this time, never knew he and his wife had a book
Wow I like their vibe and I hope to get to a place like this with someone special that I can relate with. I been married 20 years and second marriage and its not easy and now single once again.
Congrats to them for the lasting love. (She looks 20 years older than him though)
And they get this baddie to interview them? 😂😂😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing
Montell #blackdontcrack he looks so young
Vatrice George I definitely hope there is a two hour television documentary on montell Jordan
Those once in a lifetime guys that want to live the right way with their woman is rare.
🎶This Is How We Do It🎶
That’s cool that he’s been married all this time.
*He's My Greatest GIFT, I've got to treat him like that.* (With Great Love, Warmth and Respect)
Good Marriage is finding its way back to PROMINENCE, with unions like this. Great Stuff 🌹👍👏👌💯
*The Devil Is a LIAR!*
Glad they could make it work…Montell’s music was always personal later as he matured. I’m glad he let that side show. Especially, his piano playing.
Kristin is beautiful. I love her hairstyle.
Blessings to this beautiful couple.
Why is this in my timeline/newsfeed? 🤔
I almost didn't watch this, SO GLAD I did!!!❤️
Good Heavens the host is next level fine
That was good to see and hear! I would never would have agreed to say I was married to my music! Oh No! That is such deception! The girl fans didn't even know he was married! That's asking for trouble!
I was looking at the order of each relationship in your life! That's really interesting! Of course, God is first, spouse, children then the church! Work career is last? Ouch! Well, I'm not married so my career is #2 on the list! They seem like a great couple. I saw how she had her hand on his leg! That's cute and after 23! Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎈🎉🎊!!!!
Great story. You can have a successful marriage in Hollyweird
Yap
This is how we do it....❤️🌎
The anchor though 👌 😍
Blessings to both God is good 🙏
Congratution to both u. This how we do it😄👍💙💙💙💙
The host is fiiiiine 🔥
Really enjoyed this...
The title makes it seem like a prison sentence
Well....
The title says it all, marriage is such a wonderful thing it's about survival..
Montel has clearly sucked the life and vibrancy out of his wife. She looks stressed out, matronly and 20 years older. Meanwhile Montel looks youthful, happy and vibrant. Take note ladies
That's the dumbest thing I've heard all day.🤔
@@haroldbatesjr3260 Bye Montell. You must be a cheater that has drained the life out of his wife. Or are you even someone's Husband ??
Married 13 years strong obviously you didn't listen to anything the Jordan's said in this interview.
@@haroldbatesjr3260 have you ever cheated ?? 🤔
@@foreveryoung8113 It sounds to me that you want their marriage to fail.
Bro he looks exactly the same. That’s crazy!
I like how they keep their private life private
Very happy for them. Couldn't have been easy. With a lot of these celebrities. Marriage is a business.
A couple like Flex and Shanice Wilson. They seem like a loving couple. They've been together just as long as these two.
We are all on the outside looking in.
Marriage has always been a businesd
marrying for love is a fairly new concept
This is wonderful. I totally agree with this. ❤ ❤ ❤
She looks totally different in the pictures. I prefer her in another hairstyle
It ages her
Even though your opinion is vital to their marriage, I just wonder how he prefers her 🤔
Blessed!
Nice show sure to watch more so encouraging
AINT THAT THAT DUDE THAT MADE THAT FAMOUS SONG IN THE 90S?
This is how we do it
God Bless them. Yesssss! A marriage that is led by God.
Every human relationship has ups and downs . That's just life. It's how you respond to the flaw or disappointment. Keep holding 💪
This interviewer is beautiful
Wow...I think about Montel songs and Videos...never knew he was married...but that 1 song...👀👀👀BOY! I would hope they wrote that one together
The anchor is called Alyse Eady.
I'm just here for the news anchor 😕 who is she 😍
This is how you do it
I love this!!!
Kristin Jordan is beautiful
THE NEWS LADY SO LOVELY..GOD BLESS..
I appreciate the honesty of their talk no lies no fronts just honest direct talk about marriage esp their marriage
"He's My Greatest Gift, and I have to treat Him like that." Any Woman (Blessed by God)that receives a Blessing like that, will be given the same Love, Honor, Respect and Loyalty from a Godly Man.🙏
Surviving? Are they under duress?
Few marriages last a decade.All face challenges and most aren't willing to put in the work necessary to survive.Consider those that refuse to give up ; lasting 50yrs or more.Think survival is the perfect term!
This is Amazing! God Bless you!
Let’s go somewhere and get it on tonight ,, I got a girl but you look good tonight it’s one on one tonight, tonight 😮💨🙌🏽😭😭😂😂😂😂💜♥️
AMEN 🙏👍📖😊💒😄🙇♀️🎉😷😇🎊👏🙌👐😀🧍♀️👧😆🤗👌🤵♀️☺️HALLELUJAH, GLORY TO GOD ✝️ 🙏 🙌 👏
This is similar to Jon B's story except I heard nothing but authenticity from his history & I wish it stays that way🙏🏾
Thought that was his mom. No disrespect.
And how does the news test them, sitting them down in front of one remarkably beautiful news anchor..
Sure he's been in the presence of women even more beautiful.What pleases the eye isn't necessarily meaningful to the heart.
@Barbara Richardson you sure right on this Valentines day..
Who’s the news reporter??
I don't know why this is coming across my feed today but the fact that this headline says "surviving" marriage like it's a fn battlefield??? Thanks but no thanks.
So marriage is like a war that needs to be survived? What hell!