LIFE UPDATE : WEIGHT GAIN | MOVING IN NYC | WHAT IM QUITTING
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Carolyn - Навчання та стиль
I am always amazed when people assume they can say anything to anyone about their own lives! You're doing a great work! Please don't stop being your authentic self. Like you my mind goes to fight and defend too! Keep your head up sis! You are ENOUGH❤
Girllll, everything you do is so light hearted and funny. Block negative ppl/energy. Dont give them shine and keep it pushing. They don't subscribe as a passive way of being a hater. Be direct and BLOCK THEIR ASSES!!!!!
Take a break regroup reserve your energy to bring us the content you want. I know its hard not to respond. don’t give them your power.
Your content is about beauty, fashion and life in NYC, why are people commenting on your mom and the way you practice your faith? Those things have nothing to do with your content. Take the time to rest, reset and solidymify those bounderies.
I do want you to know that I love watching and listening to you because it feels like having a knowledgeable, fun, funny, and creative friend teachings me new things.
Hey Cookie! Take good care, the trolls are super brave behind the keyboard and prob insecure. Dont expect them to have manners, curate your cookie jar, set boundaries, and BLOCK! block certain words with your comments, delete and exhale! I hate nasty people
Good day darling,
There’s a lot going on, social media can be a lot and ppl tend to overstep their boundaries.
I appreciate your transparency and you always being authentic.
Take your time and take care of you. We will be here and continue to support you.❤
❤❤❤ self care is sooo important. To be mentally "present " is paramount. I love your honesty, it is refreshing - and sharing how you feel, let's me know we ain't out here alone feeling the same way (you do!).😊
People are simply wild online, blocking is a super tool!!!
Hey lovey! I want to let you know you have been the influence in my life that I didn’t see coming. Separated and going through a divorce. I left Los Angeles to be back in a small town in Tennessee with family. Gained weight and was obsessed with breakup coaches and no contact creators and zero motivation about myself or anything. All I know it wasn’t the me I knew and I didn’t know how to find me again. After one of your videos on the coats I went thrift shopping to find some coats I could feel good in and not discriminate or body shame. Anyways your ideas and info have brought confidence back into my life and self worth. I love finding new clothing items. It’s been like a true self care and healing journey. I pray this week you find the awesomeness you brought to me. I love laughing with you and listening to you roast some folks too lol 😘 biggest hugs! Cookies ain’t gonna crumble lol
Carolyn, you are unique and your content is valuable all over the world ❤ hope you feel great soon 🙏
The world needs you and the level of fashion expertise that you offer.
I totally approve of this message. You are an authentic creator who creates amazing content. Don't let people who project their nasty personality stop your climb. Mental health is very important and should always be a focus. I believe in you, and I appreciate your content. ❤❤❤
Love me some Bipolar Max. I enjoy both you and Carolyn - such authentic and talented women!
@@karlaschmid8757 Thank you! I appreciate that 🙏 💯
Nice to meet you!! and thank you for this :) Im about to dive into your content !!
I agree with the twist of emotions from the weather, the events, the contact creation , and just overall mental well being .. I have been taking walks, writing in a journal, and praying to God for strength wealth health and abundance of joy
Carolyn, you are a breath of fresh air when it comes to this fashion and beauty space. I enjoy that you don’t conform and just are you in terms of fashion and styling. I enjoy how you deliver your content in your own unique way. Take a break. We will be here for you.
I am working on self care and losing weight, because it has taken a mental toll and effecting my self esteem. I am proud that I am working on doing something about it.
I fully support you and your decisions Carolyn! You have every right to say what you want to on your platforms. Boundaries are so important because I am working on it myself. My job is stressful and I’m reclaiming my weekends too. I got a massage a couple weekends ago and I loved it!
Thanks for your vulnerability and transparency. You are doing a great job. I love your content and can’t wait to continue to watch your journey and see your growth ❤️ Take care of yourself always! Those that rock with you will understand and those that don’t, well they don’t matter anyway.
Hey Carolyn, I’m currently going through my first Saturn return where I honestly feel my lowest in terms of finances, my relationship and my mental health. It’s been tough but I’m learning that I need to push myself in order to experience radical change in my life. Watching your videos have helped because you are so vulnerable about your own struggles and I see how much effort you put into your content. Don’t let the bad comments get you down, there’s still a bunch of us who are subscribed and love you!
Thank you Chika for confirming me and also for sharing your truth. It feels like many of us are in this what seems to feel like a never ending transition. I wish for speedy healing, closure, and new & happy beginnings for you. :)
Caroline, I am a relatively new subscriber, and I enjoy your videos, although I am not a faahionista. Please remember that some people are just ignorant, have little going on in their own lives, and would prefer to comment on your life than to fix their own. I share your sentiment re: what's happening in the middle east. It has made me cry too. I'll be here when you come back. Take care.
I'm here to say that I absolutely love your content. Your authentic energy and spirit always shine through. Miserable love to hide in the dark and share their misery. Keep doin' you, sis!
Girl please do not let people ignorance disturb your peace! Get use to it because God is going to continue to bless you and your family. Stay authentic and be happy! ❤😘
I’m on this weight journey too.
I’m a real 🍪 Carolyn ❣️Don’t let these unsubscribed trolls 🧌 ruin your platform! We are here for you ! & we will be here when u come back from your break/reset. Have your boundaries & keep your relationship w your higher power to yourself, we all deserve to do that. Best wishes in your self care, your weight loss, your boundary setting & whatever else u need to do to keep your peace & repair your mindset. 🍪🍪🍪💋
Carolyn! Block, block, and block again! Negative energy is not welcomed here!!! Keep being your fabulous self and F them haters!!! ❤
Before you started tearing up. I had just said out loud to my man. “I really really like her she’s truly an inspiration”
Don’t ever dim your light for others keep shining you are TALENTED AND BEAUTIFUL 💕
I too have gained some weight. I gained about the same amount of weight due health issues I was having. So I know exactly how you feel. Girl it’s my left knee that’s been bugging 😂. But on a more serious note, I know how you feel about doing certain things in light of what’s going on in the world. I’m Muslim raised from birth and still practicing so from a religious perspective I feel the heaviness of what’s going on in Gaza 100 times more than maybe the average person. I’m a fashion girly but by trade and occupation I’m a chemist. And I turn to online content that feeds the fashion girl but also that has some humanity and awareness. You popped on my algorithm a few months ago with your video on not following trends. And it was the way you spoke so matter of factly, on top of having on a cardigan that was fire that made me want to subscribe. But it’s the humanity and reality that you share that KEPT me watching your content and follow you on other platforms. I appreciate what you bring to this space. I enjoy the humor but I also embrace rawness of your lived experiences. It’s not pretentious, it doesn’t give unrealistic, and from a parasocial perspective its connection. Maybe because we’re both around the same age, I get it lol. Oh and I’m the one who commented on your Loewe sunnies and said I turned mine into optical glasses FYI lol. Take the time needed. Those of who truly support will still be here.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me.
I feel like everyone in the 30 and over crew has something going with their knees LOL! but thank you for confirming me in the content that I create and that is feels grounded. That is my intention always, to stay grounded and just share my reality with a flare of fun:)
Thank you for your support in all of this
Hi Queen cookie. I've seen multiple influncers have this conversation regarding negative comments. It's unfortunate there are negative Nancy's. I heard Monore say if people leave comments with certain words that trigger her they will get blocked. It's one thing to have an opinion another to be nasty. Keep shining and block the low vibrational people.
Carolyn, I was so happy when I started watching and subscribing to your channel. I love the vast of fashion education that you bring to us and your platform with a quirky spin. Keep doing what you are doing and don't let these the few negative nannies invade into your space. Reset and come back stronger than ever!!
Sending you a huge hug!!! Re-center and replenish yourself. Know this - For every uncouth person commenting, they’re 20 others who look to you as a resource and a beam of light that brings joy to their day!!! You are significant and you are appreciated ❤❤❤🍪🍪🍪
I feel you with the weight gain. I need to lose 8- 10 pounds myself. My clothes are not fitting like I know they should. I'm working on losing but it's a slow journey. I don't know why people come at us when we talk about weight gain when they tell us we look good. We can do it! I feel more confident when I'm at my comfort weight.
Love you! Literally i’ve been feeling the same. Empathy is my strength but can also be very draining as well. We are empaths. Take care of yourself my Virgo sis. You are beautiful! Do you sis.
I love the way you loving and respectful enough of your mind and body to take care of yourself.
I've been trying to have a no buy month since the beginning of the year. It still haven't happened. Nobody shouldn't be worried about nobody money.
The no buying situation is HARD AS HECK! I will try again though LOL!
Hey CAROLYN GIRL🙏💖. Share this life update. I hadn’t had a chance to see your videos. I really wasn’t wanting to watch anybody’s much due to the passing of my dear mother and the last month or so it’s just been rough. God bless her soul.🕊️☦️💔💐🌅.
Anyway, it’s a shame that you you have to let people know the rules of engagement for your channel. That is unfortunately, the way it goes with somebody these people out here and I applaud you you let them know and drop them. Of course, a lot of them they just for meanness I found that they won’t follow , just an opportunity for them to spew their minutia on in your direction. But I’m glad you’re letting them know girl I love your journey and keep up the great work. God bless you young queen.👑🙏🌅💖🌟
Hey Cookie 🍪! Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your feelings with us. I have no words for the gall and audacity people have these days. SM has given them a platform to bully others and say shit they would never say to your face! This space is yours to share and create content for those of us who appreciate it. Everyone else should get the help on and be miserable by their damn selves! Your faith is personal and no one else’s business. And I’m like you, keep my mama’s name out your mouth 👄 PERIOD!
Love your content and the humor you bring with it. Keep being you sis!
NO ONE deserves or is entitled to stress you. NO ONE deserves yout tears. NO ONE is entitled to know every part of your life. You are a queen, lift your head and be your authentic self.
Good morning sunshine you are a breath of fresh air. The devil is busy he attacks all keep your armor on know who you are believing what you do. I have a wonderful day.
Be uplifted my sister and keep living your best life! Remember….. No weapon( or comment) formed against you shall prosper….❤️
Carolyn, block the 'trolls' and keep your happy, funny sense of humor. Those that are true followers will support you. There will always be opposition, which some times makes us stronger, but being disrespectful is a whole different thing. Take your time off and enjoy yourself.
I love that you're setting boundaries and taking time for yourself. Take that break, hell, do it OFTEN. There is no shortage of trolls on Black creators' posts, especially Black women/femmes, telling y'all what you should and shouldn’t do and just how to live in general. [Eff] em! Take up space, give AND receive luxury gifts, wear the daring things. The real cookies gon support either way! Keep up the amazing work! 🫶🏾
Just chiming in to say take a break whenever you need to, self care is necessary not just a trend! Also if you need Brooklyn girl to pull up in defense of your mama, just holla! Love your style, your humor and honesty!
I agree with you 100% about your Mama.
I’m sending you the biggest hug. Take a break and come back refreshed and back to YOU. I love you. 🤎
I understand especially I was a little person until I had my accident… those extra lbs can make you feel different…I noticed in your last try on however I thought you looked great! I sure hope that you and Carlos get the new space. It looks lovely 😊 wishing you two all of the best and I can’t imagine just how tough social media can be… from what comments that I see everyone seems to be supportive… but then again I may only read up to 5😊 take your break and we who like what you are doing… we will be here when you return ❤
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It’s me talking to the screen “exactly!!” “Okayyy” “let ‘em know”. Like you can hear me 😂😂😂. Rest to refresh ❤
You are one of - if not the only - realest, coolest, most down to earth person in this space! (And my play cousin because I’m a Bmore girl too) Do not let these nasty people do to you what they’ve done to others! We need people like you in this space who are relatable and grounded and real. People need to see style and fashion and beauty in a way that doesn’t leave anyone feeling less than because having 27 Birkins isn’t possible or even reasonable for them. So many people in this space don’t talk about “B side” of life. They position themselves as if life is all about collecting and unlimited amount of Channel bags and jet setting to the next exotic locations. I appreciate your balance. The world needs more balance. We need people like you in this space especially.
Take the time that you need. While you’re away I wish you the spirit of peace and a drop of the spirit of the deepest part of West Bmore where when they go low… we go to the depths of hell.
Keep going lady! The cookies got your back! ❤
P.S. Let me know if you need a Bmore moderator to handle the haters and nasties with a lot less grace than you have. I have time… everyday! 😅💪🏾❤️
HEY BMORE CUZZZZ!!!
now Im not going to lie... I WANT 27 birkin kind of money LOL but I don't need 27 of them thangs! but thank you for seeing my balance. I truly love and appreciate that.
NOT west Baltimore going to the depths of HELL LOL!!! but that is true haha!!!
I think at this point in the game, Im mentally getting stronger, these comments are uplifting me, either Im going to just exercise the heck out of the block button or karma will get the trolls!
I thank you for your support cuz:)
Gaaalll, The knees will let you know your body has changed. It happens to me as well. My knee stay poppin lol People are annoying AF and draining. You keep doing you. Sending you love, hugs and peace. Enjoy your break! ❤
I’m baffled at the way people comment on your mom and other stuff at the same time I’m not, people on internet have no shame they wouldn’t say that to your face. Don’t let haters get to you, they watching you , give them something to talk about! Keep being you , I’m a huge fan , and I know I’m not alone by saying you’re awesome 👏 blessings to you and yours, and best of luck with the move !
Nothing about you is offensive. Everything about you is authentic, genuine, and true. Whoever’s on here talking trash to you is just jelly. Some ppl just can’t stand likable energy.❤ #teamcookie
There will always be small-minded, jealous people who just don't know any better. I think you're great. Keep it up, girl...
Reset, recharge, and rejuvenate as many times as you need to. Love this channel❤
What audacity! I’m sorry you experienced that. I’m offended on your behalf. Thank you for taking the time to create content to share and bringing us periods of joy while the world is burning around us. It is meaningful!
Good luck with your wellness journey. I’m on one too! Enjoy your time off. Put yourself first and we will be here when you return.
Keep your head up love. ❤
I love all your content and appreciate your hard work ❤
“So I went to Aritzia and bought a pair of sweatpants” please put that whole story on my tombstone 😂❤
Tysm for putting me on to the chuck 70
Well said CG! I love your channel! Stay FABULOUS ❤
Please take time to rest and reset 🍪. I appreciate you being so real and raw with us but people need to learn to respect boundaries. Thank you for always showing up and showing out for us while remaining your authentic self ✨
I loved your met gala review !❤
Sending you a hug! I am proud of you and what you do. Keep doing you.
You are perfect! We get to see the ignorance around us ,,,, we normally wouldn’t see or hear. Scheduled breaks are necessary,,,maybe a break schedule would help,,, cause your pushing; pushing, pushing. You probably wouldn’t have been so hurt if you weren’t working so hard for your audience. We love you young lady ❤
Beautiful and authentic. Thank you.
I understand exactly how you feel. I have gained weight in my stomach because I have been eating more, especially mexican street corn, plus butter, breads, carbs. Be blessed.
👏🏾 You are so appreciated. Thank you for sharing your voice and perspective! ✨🙌🏾✨
Take a break Sis, you deserve it. I'm subscribed 😘
Girl you are 100 on your approach and communication with your creator. It's no body's business. Those are my feelings as well. Enjoy
I love watching your channel! I watch several channels as a way to escape all the devastation in the world at least for a few hours a week. I respect your decision to take a break and regroup.
Sending you love and hugs sis!! I appreciate your channel and cheer your numbers growing! I pray you win in everything! Be blessed!
Very transparent post. I, too, have been overwhelmed by all of the things going on in our world. May is Mental Health Awareness month and I want to applaud you for recognizing your areas of opportunity and taking action to correct them; not just complains by about them like so many of us. Set your boundaries! If “they” don’t like it they can kick rocks with open toed shoes on!
Rest. Relax. Refresh. Renew! Your channel is informative, entertaining and fun! WE are here for it! 😊…..These social media comment section “skreets” are not for the faint of heart. Sadly, it’s like showing up to a mascaraed party, where many folks sound like “drunk uncle,” COMPLETELY unfiltered. Just continue to be YOUR authentic self and everything else will continue to fall in place! ❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼……And yes! Allow yourself to make “NO!” a whole sentence!
I love your content, your Humor, your taste. ❤
Thank you for always being honest. It is NOT normal to just carry on regardless when real pain and trauma is happening. You’re a human being. You’ve actually made me think I’m going to take a few days off so THANK YOU again. Hope today is good to you
Working out can often stimulate your appetite, coupled with the fact that muscle creates mass and weighs more than fat. I know what you’re going through. Everytime I start working out I feel like I’m at risk of gaining more weight/mass.
thank you for your heart, our souls are all we got. solidarity & uplift to you steady.
Carolyn your great. I enjoy your content your style.Girl you don’t need to change a thing.This is why your channel is growing. Don’t worry your people are your people. Many blessings.
I love your honesty. We are all going though IT in one way or another.
Definitely following your exercise routine and weight release
I’m here for any any content, you feel like sharing I love it thank you.. Mama cookie said keep my mom’s name out your mouth😂
Thank you for your contents, I’m a new cookie 😊and I love humor and realness. Thank you for sharing, I feel you!
Love your the videos been subscribed to you for quite sometime and you have inspired me. People need to learn people have boundaries. Take your break i will be here when you get back 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I enjoy your content and commentary. It is refreshing. Take the time you need.
Some ppl are just MEAN! No matter what you say or do. They just going to be who they are. Never change the Way You Are. Learn how to chew the meat and spit out the bones. Forget those folks. Yes i'm country 🤭 🙏🏾
Omg you being from MD makes me love you even more!! I’m from howard county! Xo
I love your transparency, there’s a cosmic shift happening, love and joy are the way. Thank you for trailblazing, keep taking good care of yourself. I love to see it!
Yes girl please block those mean people and do take that week off to reset. Some people are judgey and uncouth. If you can not say anything nice say nothing at all is what I live by. Also give yourself a quitting time ……we all need balance. We luv your content so keep the vids coming when you want.👍🏾
I appreciate you for sharing your creativity with us.🍪
We as a family always gift each other when we get together🎁 It’s Fun n Considerate ❣️
Your content is truly a respite for me from all that is going on in the world. I have felt convicted at times for indulging in certain content with all that’s going on but its good knowing you also care. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. ❤
Girl, take your time. We’ll be here once you’re more clear and settled in your spirit. I so appreciate your content and the way you present. 💝
Take all the time you need, Carolyn.💞 We’ll keep an eye on the cookie jar for you.🤗 And I agree with everything you said. 💓
Hello Carol,
I’m reaching out to send you Positive Energy and Prayers.
I feel sad that you’ve been made to feel sad by unkind internet trolls.
You are a strong, talented woman and a Positive Light. I will continue to pray for you and I will continue to pray and cast away anyone and anything that speaks against or goes against you.
Stay strong… Stay Focused on your goals.
Have a blessed and Favor Filled week.✨🙏🏽✨
Love your channel. Sending love. I am wishing you all the best on your week off.
Unfortunately, People can be crucial speacially on social media.
Take care x
Your content is entertaining and encouraging and I hope the good out ways the bad. Your sense of humor is always on point. Frfr
You are a very sweet and nice person in my opinion. You are moving up more and people are going to hate . Best to you 😊
Carolyn! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. I hope you take some much needed time away-social media can be CRAZY. I love your content and I look forward to many more videos after your reset. 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Take care of yourself ❤
Love your content CG! What God Has for you is for you. Take your time to feel ready for your celebration! It will happen because you are authentic and good hearted in bringing us such great content!❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Your content is incredible! I’m so glad I found you. Your presentation is so warming, educational, entertaining. Please keep being your authentic self. You occupy a space in fashion and lifestyle that is a breath of fresh air ❤
Ok. I'm commenting as I watch the video! Your MET Gala review was the most spot on that I've watched so far. Thanks for explaining Kim K's outfit. The other girlie's didn't understand that and neither did I. But you made it make sense. ❤
Don't let the negative comments get to you. BLOCK THEM AND KEEP MOVING! Some people's soul purpose is to put a wrinkle in your skin so don't give them the win. They probably don't mean mean it. It's just their meaningless purpose!!!!
We love you and all the things you've shared with us. See you soon and good luck apartment hunting.
Carolyn... Please take your time & get your peace.