How To Be High Maintenance And PROUD Of It : *MUST WATCH*
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2024
- Hey guys!
In todays video I wanted to speak a little about the art of being high maintenance. When I shared on social meds this video was coming I had several people comment and say "high maintenance is just having high standards" and BOY! Are you guys right on the money!!
This term is usually thrown around as an insult meant to control and minimize women by people who are either unable to or unwilling to rise to such standards. And while..no one is DEMANDING these people do so..but the backlash to women who embody this attitude speaks to a phenomenon at large bent on keeping women in "in their place".
But baby, WE see right through that bull. And no only are we going continue to be high maintenanceAF but we are going to be PROUD to do so.
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All your content is absolutely sickening and beyond self centered. You are literally teaching others how to be a narcissist. There's plenty of that in this world already. You can sugarcoat it all you want and make it sound like a good thing, but its absolutely not.
Dang! It took WAY longer than I thought it would take to get my first one of these! Be well darling…I’m rooting for you xo
Yeah…but I think her message is a lot deeper than that. If you keep watching her channel, she makes it pretty clear that it’s not just about looks, it’s about having healthy boundaries and positive self-esteem and making choices that are healthy for you. I think she is saying that it is okay to like what YOU like, and if people judge you for these choices, that is their problem.
Most of us have preferences-I have a neck pillow I usually travel with-is that “high-maintenance”? Maybe. But, what if I tell you that my doctor and physical therapist both recommended I use that type of pillow to keep my neck aligned properly? Well, that’s different…or is it? Maybe it just feels comfortable, I get better rest, and then I’m not grouchy the next day. Is wanting to function at my best “high maintenance”?
Go beyond the makeup. Whitney has some interesting stuff to say.
@@michmash7888 this person doesn't have a clue what narcissism actually is....and it makes me wonder myself where this person would fall on that spectrum. Cause they hear "take care of and stand up for yourself" and it means "i wont put up with just anyones bull shit" and they are TRIGGERED by it. Stuff like this goes in one ear and out the other cause I SEE them and I do genuinely hope they get the help that they need.
@@whitneyhedrick Very true, clinical narcissistic personality disorder has nothing to do with wanting the best for yourself. Btw, new subbie and so excited I found you. And to Lisa Smith, I hope you have an absolutely stunning day my love.
Whitney, Love the way you handled this comment from Lisa Smith!! From the way you dealt with it I can tell that you are just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside, and I see that you are living what you teach. ❤
A woman who knows what she brings to the table is not afraid to eat alone! #amensista
Haha LOVE IT!
I've never understand why being high maintenance as being bad. Like in high school my best friend asked me if I wanted to go camping with her, her boyfriend and his friend. I had never been so I packed stuff to clean my face, toilet paper and all kinds of stuff. Her boyfriend was like why do you have so much stuff.....but guess who kept needing to ask for things they didn't bring. Toilet paper and hand sanitizer was real handy. It's a good thing to be prepared and if that makes me high maintenance so be it.
girl I camp ALL the time and spend a lot of time and work in the outdoors and STILL pack my skincare, basic hair care, and stuff like that every time, and I ALWAYS pack an eyebrow pencil! Whatever gets us out the door and ready to take care of ourselves then who cares!!!
Exactly! I pack heavy-ish…and everyone I travel with always comes to me when they need decent moisturizer or a bandaid or ibuprofen or hair ties or whatever! Once I flew out of town with an acquaintance, and she was stunned that I had small bottles of my favorite shampoo and conditioner in my quart-baggie. I was equally stunned that someone would leave it up to a hotel chain to pick their hair care products! I mean, I could definitely survive without my favorite products, but don’t want to just survive…I want to feel like myself. (Also, I am allergic to a lot of common ingredients-like aloe-so I can’t leave it totally up to chance.)
Totally! Virgo here😂
For real, and then I married someone who is somehow even more high maintenance than me with camping, and now I have no idea if we'll ever go camping again until we have an actual camper LOL!
Sameeee
This hit HOME for me😔. I used to have (Yes, USED TO) have 5 best friends. We were best friends for 20+ years. Then, I started working on myself.... skincare, makeup, fashion, losing weight, etc.... we went on our annual girls trip 4 years ago and they shamed me so bad I cried the whole time and flew back the 800 miles that I had come early. Needless to say... our relationships are no more. Who needs "friends" like that?? Btw... they all do not take care of themselves, are overweight and are all 8 years younger than I am. But I am the last person that would ever judge anyone. Let alone SHAME them.
Wanted:::: NEW beotches to be friends who love themselves enough to not hurt others!!
Sounds like they felt triggered to see you don’t something they either were too afraid to do for themselves or felt undeserving of. And that’s a shame. I hope they come to see they deserve to express and grow however they want to as well.
Beauty By Bridget D Hello there. I just have to say that I love women like you and am inspired by people like you. Good for you, trying to better yourself. I for one think that sometimes we are forced to walk away from certain people, whether we like it or not. I have, and am now thankful for the lessons I learned. Keep it up 🙂
Dear Bridget ,
Honey , there is NOTHING WRONG with wanting to look/feel better or investing YOUR money in yourself ! High five to you girl !! Nothing against those that don't do it but then don't have the audacity to shame me for wanting more in a goof way from myself ! Sorry to say that those were not true friends... they should have been happy for you. Or at least have the common sense to apologise and act like an adult. Don't ever feel sorry that you look great ! You deserve it !! As for people... as nasty and painful it was for you then just be glad you got rid of toxic people and allow new ones to enter your life. Sending you hugs !!
I live in the Philadelphia area..let's be friends:)))
@Beauty By Bridget D thanks for sharing that girl.... I can totally relate to your comment and that shit hurts too, but I, like you have tried to work through it. Most days are fine then some suck in regards to thinking about it, but we keep moving forward and put it as far behind us as we can. Hope that made sense. But yea! You go girl! Do your thing! I try to treat people the way I want to be treated and my friends are much more limited to our dual respect for each other. I’m not a young woman any longer but I’m not dead yet either. &&& men well that’s another topic entirely!! LOLOLOLOL for sure.
AMEN!!!!!!!! Proud to be high maintenance. My standards are HIGH and that's fine. I'd rather be up here by myself than down there with them.
Yes, Shawna!!!!!
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Yes!!!!!
No need to put other down to satisfied your high maintenance
This!!! 💯
Its always the people that “knock ya down” for being high maintenance that end up asking for your advise in that exact thing.
💯💯💯
I spent most of my life being told I'm ugly. I felt ugly. In 2016 I got really sick and had (luckily) a liver transplant. Since then I've lost most of my weight and now enjoy learning techniques and wearing makeup. I don't think I'm ugly. I'm proud of what my body has accomplished. I am on dialysis three days a week and on these days I go full glam. I take these days as my time to shine! And, I get so many positive comments. I think we are all high maintenance in our own way.
For me, clothes, hair, make up etc are reminders to myselft. Don't forget why you are wearing these clothes. These are the clothes of a high value woman so act like one.
Yessssssssssssss!!!!
Great attitude- and as an ‘OLD’ woman, who endeavors to project my mindset, I ALWAYS proofread what I write in public (a lesson learned the hard way), so I lovingly point out, either spellcheck, or the slip of a finger, caused you to misspell ‘clothes.’ That detracts from your strong mssg! You’re WONDERFUL; be sure the world sees/reads that as well! With sisterly love- Annick 👍🏼❤️
High value woman ! Yes
@@annkat100 thank you for pointing out the spelling mistake. English is not my mother tongue so some mistakes slip under the radar.
High standards, yup that’s me 🙋🏻♀️ When I’m in a full face of makeup, dressed up and in high heels, and also when I’m in my sweats and no makeup!
Come Spring, I'm going to look fabulous in my veggie garden wearing my tiara!
NANA!!!! Take picks I am dying to see it!
Cottagecore Queen
I honestly believe this isn't "High Maintenance" it's "Self Love" 🥰
I believe that it is both....having self love and in turn being "high maintenance" for having that self love sometimes gets confused....
Yes. I guess that’s the thesis. Don’t let people take a negative (or intended to be negative) label like “high maintenance” to demean or minimize your RIGHT to practice self love.
Soooo good! It’s important to remember that if someone praises you for “not being high maintenance,” it’s a trap to try and keep you behaving in a way that THEY want. And ladies, there is always gonna be someone criticizing us no matter what we do, so we might as well do what we want!!
My ex used to call me HM. I believe one of his “friends “ was goading him. After we broke up - I’ll be doggoned if said friend didn’t email me...spam!
Amen 🙏🏻
Right.
The older I get the more high maintenance I am. My philosophy is don’t judge and you do you.I am a nurse and love people but you need to love yourself! Be well!
Thank you for all that you do!!! ;)
Would love more high maintenance content!
Yay!!!
Love the thumbnail cause here in Italy that specific brand of water is pretty cheap and everyone drinks it and it's just weird when foreigners think it's some expensive thing lol
Hahahah! Oh, Americans 😂
Its more expensive here because it's imported
@@jelemil You know we're in late stage capitalism when shit like water is shipped across the world only because it's a certain brand.
To all the young and unsure ladies...I dress and do my makeup for myself and no one else. It makes me feel good. Looking ur best makes u mentally feel ur best and so on..accepting it with confidence and not being shameful comes with maturity....no one should be shaming anyone wearing makeup for it is an ART!! They are jealous and insecure...telling someone they aren't allowed or shouldn't do something should not be allowed unless they are doin harmful things like drugs..hurting themselves ..etc...
SAY IT LOUDER!!! 👏 👏 👏
I love this I usually get judged my own family because I wear “too much makeup” I like to look and feel good 😌, It hurts no one just like you said I always let them know I can teach you my tips and tricks and that’s usually enough to keep them away for a while. Family 😂
People are triggered over the strangest things
Hahaha! My 20 something year old kids , sisters & husband now ask me about their skin issues. Hahahaha. I’m not dermatologist or anything, but I’m pretty freaking smart. Hahaha. & they know it.
Thank you! It's not just appearance at all. I know I'm adding a layer to it but being middle class & black its this weird dance to be "cool" but always having to be put together. I can't and won't show up to work in sweats and messy hair like my counterparts bc the way I look is a reflection of my standards and my upbringing.
Girl PREACHHHH
my abusive ex fiance was high maintenance af & hated being "threatened" by my success/life in general, ugh 🤮
Whitney, I'm a 62 year old woman and after 30 years of marriage I'm just figuring out I've wasted a lot of time not being happy or taking care of myself. Living with a narcissist and not knowing it!!! So glad your talking to the young people now. I truly hope they listen.
Yes!!! It's even better when you maintain YOURSELF 👏 NO one else's business!
If Taking care of myself makes me high maintenance then imma be that
Preach🙌👏
P.s. please do a "high maintenance self care routine"
Yes yes yes!!! I needed to hear this!
I’ve grown the heck up since quarantine started: working out daily, eating in a way that makes me feel good, wearing sunscreen daily, flossing my teeth erryday! But it seems my “friends” aren’t supportive of this change... and maybe look at my growth as calling out their daily choices.
I need some new friends... 🤦🏽♀️
Me too!!! I needed to hear this and I need new friends!
PREACH!!!! Love this video. I'm the same, proud to be high maintenance, its for me and no one else. Also the only person in my circle who loves skincare, makeup, hair, clothes etc. Must say it can sometimes be lonely as I would love to share my passion with someone, but it is what it is and I'm proud of it. You go girl!
Same! It is lonely...but that’s what I started UA-cam to have a community who gets it :)
OMG! I have never found a channel like yours ever, I have been shamed for YEARS by friends and family for being “high maintenance” and constantly treated like I was self obsessed cause I simply do my hair and wear makeup and like to dress nice. I got so much poor service even in the stores because I looked good and coworkers constantly talked shit. It was literally perceived as I was a bad person because how bad it bothered people. I thought it WAS me and my fault for all of the horrible things people said about me cause I wore makeup and dressed nice. After watching this video it was like a weight off my chest because I FINALLY heard someone talking about this issue and how it’s NOT a bad thing for being high maintenance and feeling good about yourself. I LOVE LOVE LOVE this and love everything you say!!! Sooooo happy I found your channel ❤❤❤❤ THANK YOU!!!
100% it's misogyny
trrruuuue dat!
Yess!!!! I take a long time to get ready, I use a lot of products, I overpack for every trip I take, but that’s okay! I put a lot of maintenance into myself, but I’m not putting any of that work on other people. I’m independent, I prefer to take care of my own shit, I try not burden others, and whenever anyone else does something for me, I show them my gratitude
Whenever I was called high maintenance, I would say, “no, I’m self-maintaining bc I’m not asking you to do it”. Now I own it. No shame for who I am not judging others for who they are. Thank you for inspiring and your kind messages. ❤️👏❤️👏
I just need you to be on TED talks and talk about whatever, I will listen. You have such an amazing ability to convey what you want without sounding demeaning or condescending.
Awww thank you so so much!!!
Yep!
the misuse of “high maintenance” reminds me when people use “entitlement” in a disparaging and often incorrect way. “excuse me, deliverer. I received the incorrect grocery order. are you entitled?” it’s not another word to describe someone who did something you don’t like. a healthy sense of entitlement creates an assertive personality which is a positive attribute to have in order to get what you need, as long as you don’t knock down and harm others to get it (which is aggression not assertiveness). same with high maintenance/standards as you outlined fabulously. it’s a positive thing to have standards! I love fellow high maintenance people with goals, expectations, and boundaries. they’re healthy, stable, and supportive because they know how to care about themselves.
Yes!
When i do my make up it makes me feel like a different WOMEN! It makes me feel so BEAUTIFUL AND CONFIDENT! It's when i don't have the energy to do it i feel depressed and don't keep up the maintenance. I needed this video 💜
GIRL.!! Why the f*!k aren’t you a therapist?’ I freaking LOVE your outlook and thought process!! ❤️❤️👏👏
Absolutely love this! I have raised my standards for myself and the people around me the past few years. It has been essential for my grow and well being! Get them negative mofos out of here! Be proud to be you, girl! I have not only taken better care of myself since removing toxic people, but also have cleaned and organized my space and mind, began to further education and continued my sobriety for 2 and a half years. I am in a very positive mood most days.
I am so incredibly happy I have found your UA-cam channel. It has taken me a very long time to get to the point that I began to cut out people in my life who drag me down, expect me to do what they want and push me around. And I’m 59 years old!!!!! Thank you for speaking out - I’ve watched all these videos and I am so happy you are speaking out. I grew up with the smile and take it because “you don’t want to be on their level” blah blah blah. No. Ladies - stand up for yourself and say NO. NO THANKS!
Yes ma am!!! Go off, queen!
I really felt what you are saying. The problem is anytime i express myself, my thoughts or just doing things my way i aaaaalways am going to hear some dumb comments from my parents. It would definetly help to hear your experiences since you mentioned growing up in a dysfunctional family.
Love this so much...we need more people like you on this platform. So powerful xx
Thank you so so much :)
@@whitneyhedrick no, thank you x I really hope you know how inspiring these videos are and just with one video you can maybe change someone`s life. Have a Merry Christmas ! :)
Preach, Whitney! Hallelujah! Wish this would go viral....this is a great strategy, to claim the slur “high maintenance” as a backhanded compliment!
You are so amazing Whitney. I used to be scared of being high maintenance, but then I realized I needed that time I take to care of myself.
so glad that you made the shift because you deserve it :)
Once again the queen has spit nothing but facts!!! I want all the videos you threw out in this video! Watching you is so therapeutic 😌
The photo for this video has been my "uniform" for 2020. Never underestimate the power of wearing a tiara to make you feel better on an emotionally rough day. I've been doing it for years! I have a few of them now since I've been given some as gifts over the years, but the one I wear most is an inexpensive one from a giftshop on vacation 4 years ago. Friends, family members, and coworkers have tried it out and started doing the same. Even house chores seem better when wearing it.... 😉
It is SO funny you say that because I told my daughter not be surprised if she comes home and I’m cooking dinner with it on. It literally makes me feel amazing like it was MEANT to be there 😂
I’m in my 60’s and recently divorced and getting ready to go all in on the high maintenance thing.
I’m about to watch this with intensity, but just had to say immediately, “THUMBNAIL 🎯 🎯🎯!!” You are so relatable and relevant and i just ❤️ you!
Literally was just having this conversation with someone this morning.... such an important thing to have healthy boundaries and stand up for yourself. Great video 💖
I just effin love your energy and your high self esteem. It truly inspires me to be more like that. Please don’t ever stop being you ❤️
I can hear you choking back emotion in some parts of this and I’m so grateful for you and your vulnerability. You’re changing my life with this series. Thank you!!!!
Luuurrrvvvv the thumbnail! 😂❤️
Thank you!!
I just love your channel and insights. I feel like this is literally the exact same journey I have been going through, and I definitely grew up in a place where my opinions, needs and standards were ridiculed and shamed. It is a continual journey to realize that my standards and needs ARE important, and I am so happy you are sharing this
this is exactly what I didn’t even know I needed today, girl preach
I started following you because we have the same eye shape and you’ve helped me so much with technique, I’ll follow forever because you are clearly a genius
I have been watching your high maintenance videos for a couple hours now and I’ve cried and I’ve journaled and I’ve reflected. You’re the older sister I needed my whole life. Thank you for opening my eyes 💜
This !!! So well said !! Also , looking forward to that "love lessons" video that you were thinking about. You know we are waiting on it. Thank you , Queen !
This whole video is balm for my soul! Exactly the kind of reminder I needed at the end of a tough year. Bless you for this lady🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️
“This has nothing to do with other people, this is for ME!” Yes, QUEEN SHIT, love it!!! 💜
Yes queen preach! Definitely joining patreon now that I know ur doing books but may have to wait til after Christmas, in the meantime please keep up with these videos, I love how valuable your videos always seem to be ❤ you are way underrated, not by the people that know you but .... maybe calling you a "best kept secret " is more fitting!! 😘
Wow! Thank you so so much!!!!!!
Whitney this is one of the best videos you've made. Such strong valid points, all your sentiments and statements aren't revolutionary or new, but you articulated it beautifully. Sometimes we all need a reminder of the standard we should expect from ourselves and hold other's to, and that it's okay to want good things in life and live good, and not feel like a burden or too much to handle for feeling that way.
Girl, this is FIRE! Watched your most recent one and now I'm going back and watching at least one a day in the playlist till I'm through and taking notes the whole way!
Amazing video!!! Honestly made me think so much about my patterns. Please do more videos like this!! You are helping so many women💕
Thank you . I feel like I just had a real great logic and down to earth pep talk. Or a sweet kick in the butt for that matter. It helped .
Same. I didn't know this was what I needed today until I heard it.
I love your video! Thanks for making it! Keep them coming 🥰
I can’t remember the quote I saw on Tiktok but it was something like don’t worry about me being high maintenance when I’m the one maintaining it! People just need to not worry about other people (especially women) and just let them be. And I agree my boundaries/standards are important to know and keep just for my own sanity. ❤️
I would love more videos on high maintenance habits and lifestyle! I really want to work on self-confidence! Thank you for the video and taking back high maintenance plus high expectations back.
Best Video o’ the Year!! I get called this ALL the time & I am proud of it! I have highly curated standards & I’m not changing them for anyone. Thank you for going in depth as to what the term means and why it‘s soooo not a bad thing!
Yessss girl!!! I needed to hear this today! So thank you!!!
I just love your channel so much! It's not all about the makeup here. You dive deep and I'm so here for it! Thanks so much for this video.
Thank you! :)
Girl, say it again 👏 I needed this today. Love this 🖤 Give me all the videos! Self care, self talk, and high maintenance videos...🙌
Please keep videos like this coming! I relate so much to everything you are saying and am on a mission to get my version of my high maintenance self back 💛
I needed this soooooo badly. Thanks so much for being you and sharing yourself with us!
Def do a high maintenance routine ❤️ love this I feel like there’s an emergence of high maintenance physically but super low self esteem and shaming other women for not looking a “certain “ way.
This is the first video I’ve seen of yours-I identified with almost everything you said, and it truly made me feel seen and helped me recontextualize my past and my ways of expressing love to myself ( both of which I’ve been made to feel ashamed of). Thank you thank you thank you
I wish I knew you when I was young. I'm really glad to know you now. You PREACH, Whitney--people of all ages need your wisdom.
Whitney! You nailed this, what a great video! LiVe and let LiVe and let’s all have high standards for ourselves in many different arenas!
I looove this video! Great work girl, keep it coming queen 🥰
Great topic!! Glad you touched on mental health/distress and how it can correlate with hygiene issues when someone could be struggling.💚💙💜 Thank you for the video!
I LOVE this video, found your channel recently and ohmygosh, so happy to be here
Thank you so much!
Whitney you hit this on the head!! I hear this from some of my coworkers. Why do you love makeup so much? Because it gives me a lift and at a time when I was very low, it made me feel better to do a little something for myself. I also love all the lotions, potions and bath luxuries. Would love a video from you on that. From another glowing goddess!! 💜💜💃🏿
✨keep on shinin' , baby!! ✨
I just came to enjoy... I'm already high maintenance and proud. ♉♉ Taurus gang!🤣
I just discovered you and been binging on all your videos . You speak facts hunty! Love you already !
The Take! Effing love that channel! When I was younger, and trying my best to look a certain way, I thought I was the only woman who HAD to put put in that much effort to win against the tide of body hair, skincare, age prevention, emotional wear and tear. It felt like I was just wrong. Even when I was doing all that work myself! Well, now I'm physically lower maintenance, emotionally high maintenance, and I GOT STANDARDS. It took long enough, and I'm never gonna unsee it! 😤❤
You're right. When I was younger, every time I would try to improve my looks (which reflected on my feelings about my self) someone would say, "Oh you're turning your collar up now, huh?" Or, "Oh, you're trying to wear your hair up now, huh?" Hate that. It was a way of putting me down, as if to say I wasn't worth thinking about myself. Some women who wear a lot of makeup and hair are shallow, but no more than women who don't. I'd really like to try being high maintenance to see if i like it. Might try that!
Love what you said here!
Yes yes yes yes🙌🏽 really needed this video today😍
And when it comes to makeup I wear it for me and no one else👊🏾
Great video..I'm 48...I was in a similar relationship as yours for 5 yrs ..when I was 36...thank god I got out..Alive..im definatly going to see ur other video..And u go girl...I freaken hella like ur attitude..and really enjoy all ur videos...
Loved this!!! Thank you for this ❤️
Especially this year, I definitely needed this and I am sure tons of people do!
I’m so glad you liked it!
Loving this content!!! Please keep it coming.
"If you're gonna call me it, I'm going to make it something I like to hear" YES!! 👏🙏
LOVE your videos 💖 you’re an amazing role model full of knowledge and integrity
I rarely comment on things but wow I have to for this video. I absolutely LOVE everything you talked about, and can relate my experiences of being shamed for liking the clothes/makeup that I like to yours. I’ve also let these things get into me from time to time but your view helps me put things into perspective. Please keep doing this kind of video! Love and huge supporter of what you’re doing ❤️❤️❤️👑
You are so welcome!
My nickname for so long was HM. But I was never insulted, I owned it. I loved this video! More like this!
you are so ahead of the curve, girl! yes!
6 minutes in & thumbs all the way up. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Never change !! 💋
Thank you so much!
I appreciate that the topics of your videos are so innovative and so different from other beauty influencers. You march to your own tune and I love that. ❤
Thank you so much for helping me level up by adopting a much healthier perspective and higher standard for myself. You woke me out of a state of mind that accepts too much crap under the guise of being a "nice person," when really it is just compromising the happiness that is due one's highest self. Thank you for speaking out so refreshingly!
What a great topic! Thanks for doing this. Hope you do more like this.
❤️ Can you hear me all the way in the back? I love this!! You are an inspiration!! This was just what I needed today!! Thank you ❤️
Awwwww thank you!
I love your channel!!! Not to humble brag lol but a lot of the stuff you teach has been on my play book for most of my time. My mom was “high maintenance” and I always admired how she just owned it. Maybe I picked up some of that stuff because she would always say it was important to present yourself with grace. Besides that! I find your channel a good reminder, and I’m still learning soo so much!!! Even though I don’t dress up everyday I find it super important to have a daily face routine, work out and eat the best food!!! 😻
Excellent video!! Thank you Whitney 💕 - Never apologize for having high standards. People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet them.
I love this so much! The Take video about the cool girl is also one of my favorites that I shared with my friends cause it’s just everything. Also about the toxic/abusive relationships is such an important topic to talk about and I’m so glad you’re talking about it ❤️
its a scary thing to do for sure, but if it can help anyone avoid the things I did or the people I was attracting then its worth it :)
@@whitneyhedrick thank you for sharing, I’m sure I speak for many others when I say we highly appreciate you sharing what you’ve been through ❤️
Wow! You really nailed it on the head girl!! I absolutely LOVE these high maintenance videos series you are doing!! These have got me fired up so much!! You and I have so much in common actually; I was in an abusive relationship as well (mentally, verbally, emotionally) with my sons father and he did a s said the same things to me and I realized he was a narcissist and had to tear me apart bc he couldn’t stand how confident and put together I was bc he had absolutely no confidence or self esteem. Unfortunately for me, he did get in my head and he tore me down and it’s taken me years to recover; I’m finally back to myself again or at least a better version of myself now but I’ve worn sweats and a baseball cap everyday for years and I miss getting myself dressed and doing my hair and looking like a lady! Your videos are so awesome and I’m so excited to start changing my routine and get back to feeling like a woman again!! Thank you for these!! You are amazing!! I also grew up in a completely dysfunctional family that I still have to deal with on an almost daily basis that I would love to write a book about and I honestly don’t think people would even believe bc it’s seriously so inane. SMDH. If only people really knew. But I used to be high maintenance as well and I want that spark to be relit again bc I love being high maintenance and there is nothing wrong with it!! I love you girl!! 🤗😁 xoxo
Thank you sis because the way people act like it’s a bad thing, I get told I wear too much makeup and l love it. Loving the content ❤️❤️
Yes more videos like this! Yes in the love lessons video. I need someone with this type of attitude to tell me these things because honestly I don’t listen to myself. My negative voice is louder than my positive one. I need you to yell at me and tell me. Keep it up!
Just came across your channel and content. Love it. New subscriber. We cannot be there for others if we do not take of ourselves first and put ourselves first.
I LOVED this video and everything you said is highly inspirational and true-so dead on. I am surprised this video doesn't have at least 1 million views,you are so beautiful,super articulate and whip smart! I always watch your content and you always feel like a breath of fresh air. Loved your eye and lip combo in this video. AMAZING video:) keep rocking!