i am a parent who's going through severe depression ptsd for past decade & receiving support from psychiatrist and taking medicines for all these years . i was the victim of verbal and domestic abuse by my ex and their family. on one day when i had enough i told my ex that i'm going to involve police but my ex begged me sorry & promised this will never happen again but my ex made a planned false police report and i ended up in police custody, civil court & criminal court proceeding. my ex's family and even my own children told lies to police & became false witnesses. my psychiatrist knows the situation i was going through for a long time ago & i was telling my psychiatrist everything. but i really do not understand where i stand because apparently i have no witness except my psychiatrist & on the other hand my ex has all their family and my own children supporting the bogus & false claim everywhere & even telling lies to social services. didn't see my children for 3 months as i've been banned from contacting them by any means till the matter is heard in the court. i'm totally broken since i came to know that my innocent children are being told to speak lies. i've no purpose of life & dying with every passing day.
@@ntrhi6435 I hope and pray both of you are doing and in a better place today 1 year on, I’m going through the same as both of you now 😢 it’s been 4/5 months since I haven’t been with my then 7 month old baby, she turning 1 next weekend 😢
Hi hope all is well. Im very frustrated. Ill make it as short as i can. Ive provided evidance of abuse towards myself & my children to local authorities. Video & audio evidance. I can be seen being violently strangled , beaten with poles & sticks, objects thrown at me , threats of violence toward myself & Daughter to previous relationship , falsely accused resulting in my arrest where i was abused in police custody, she attemted to stab me where police were called & police threw he knife down the gutter & told me it was a set of keys i saw, ive been ran over by her car , most recently i read in a social workers report that my ex made allegations of rape & that i stabbed her, she has breached bail conditions with zero consequence, she has scratched my supports car & police did nothing . I need help 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Is there any way I can contact you? I’m currently in a process and all your videos word for word from the dads application to the self sabotaging is happening and he’s just lying about everything. Would really appreciate your help if it was possible
I will look at this grey rock. My ex will control an arrangement in a way he will know it will impact me. I will make contact to negate. I will present as unemotional. Just facts. He will ignore or manipulate. And make out I am the one always got an issue or contacting him. What I meant to do in this situation? Help pls
I suffering same from my son mother. There so little helpbsupport for men. In such case's but tobthen get labeled as the abusive coercive controlling the person..of domestic abuse violence person ..😢😢the law is cruppted against men rights to be loving caring fathers. To they children. fathers to they children..women always seems to be seen victims 😢 💔. And men the perpetrator..this is so biased and deacrinatlently sexistsexist . Voilation of human rights. This is so wrong and not in the best interests of children it's biased and sexist.
Unfortunately the definition of domestic abuse is a very hard one to tackle Simply because like you say telling the truth is the very best way forward Because some men can be right bast**** & can be very violent & yet under the same statement "Domestic Abuse" can be so soft such as an argument ending up just pushing each other So the Truth folks please 🙏👍
Thanks! Far more balanced. I think your videos are brilliant I just don’t understand the gendered slant but I can see why it’s happened given your background. Absolutely do not lie about domestic abuse as it becomes very obvious at later points and credibility is very important.
Your message on "female perpetrators" is one which should be mentioned in every video that you make so as not to alienate male victims of domestic abuse.
Male vicitms are abused by other men in gay relationships. Female perpetrators abuse other women in lesbian relationships. Women cannot DV abuse men. It's like saying a small child is DV abusing his parent.
Totally agree enough is not discussed about this situation by women rights thst for sure. Seems they all out to deacrinatlently brand men. As causing g women emotion hstm where 9 out of 10 cameras is the wo.en who instigating such abusive behaviour towards men. Which then push men become violent in defense of they liberty rights. Obviously too wrong don't make a right. But women need take account for they own abusive controlling behaviour against men rights. Specaily concer they children. As a father. Maybe when women stop they abusiveness against men maybe then things will change 🤔 🤷 for them finding amore loving caring in this world man 👨.
I think family court is a roll of the dice. I think the outcome has nothing to do with law and common sense but has to do with who happens to be your judge. Some judges will be fair. That is rare. Others will almost always side with women Others will almost always side with men (most judges) Others will almost always side with abusers of any gender, Others will almost always side with victims of any gender. The law, the PDs are all not used unless on paper to cover themselves, Prepare for shock. You may be lucky, but if you are not, please prepare for shock. Oh, and avoid the book of the dominator, it really did me damage. I was dealing with healing and surviving abuse from one man, I didn't need my world to paint all men as abusers, it really hurt me. I also got the kids book to try to help my kids, it was horrific, careful, zero tips to heal, and horrific stories I wish I could erase from my mind and should not be told to a person who is looking to heal, not plant themselves in the abuse and pain, it is not for people looking to live and heal and survive, but people who want to get worse and dedicate their life to pain
How would you know ? I am a “Real Victim “ as you put it and it is not other women making things difficult for me. It would not make any difference to me whatsoever if somebody made a false allegation about someone else. Nothing to do with me. What “spoils it ‘‘ for “real victims” is a court system which is obsessed with giving contact to bullies even in the face of hard evidence.
@@snowbelle74 domestic abuse allegations account for 60-80% of family court cases. People who falsely accuse make it harder for people who are genuine victims to be seen.
@@snowbelle74 this happened to me today. The abuser acts like butter wouldn’t melt and I look crazy because I’m trying to explain myself. He just lies and lies - what sane person lies about abuse
i am a parent who's going through severe depression ptsd for past decade & receiving support from psychiatrist and taking medicines for all these years . i was the victim of verbal and domestic abuse by my ex and their family. on one day when i had enough i told my ex that i'm going to involve police but my ex begged me sorry & promised this will never happen again but my ex made a planned false police report and i ended up in police custody, civil court & criminal court proceeding. my ex's family and even my own children told lies to police & became false witnesses. my psychiatrist knows the situation i was going through for a long time ago & i was telling my psychiatrist everything. but i really do not understand where i stand because apparently i have no witness except my psychiatrist & on the other hand my ex has all their family and my own children supporting the bogus & false claim everywhere & even telling lies to social services. didn't see my children for 3 months as i've been banned from contacting them by any means till the matter is heard in the court. i'm totally broken since i came to know that my innocent children are being told to speak lies. i've no purpose of life & dying with every passing day.
So sorry to hear that! I’m am in the same boat and still fighting for my kids. Be strong and fight for you children. Good luck
@@ntrhi6435 I hope and pray both of you are doing and in a better place today 1 year on, I’m going through the same as both of you now 😢 it’s been 4/5 months since I haven’t been with my then 7 month old baby, she turning 1 next weekend 😢
Thank you for the video👍🌹
Thank you for your advice ❤
Will a Non Molestation Order be taken into account when arrangements are being done?
Hi hope all is well.
Im very frustrated. Ill make it as short as i can.
Ive provided evidance of abuse towards myself & my children to local authorities.
Video & audio evidance. I can be seen being violently strangled , beaten with poles & sticks, objects thrown at me , threats of violence toward myself & Daughter to previous relationship , falsely accused resulting in my arrest where i was abused in police custody, she attemted to stab me where police were called & police threw he knife down the gutter & told me it was a set of keys i saw, ive been ran over by her car , most recently i read in a social workers report that my ex made allegations of rape & that i stabbed her, she has breached bail conditions with zero consequence, she has scratched my supports car & police did nothing .
I need help 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Is there any way I can contact you? I’m currently in a process and all your videos word for word from the dads application to the self sabotaging is happening and he’s just lying about everything. Would really appreciate your help if it was possible
I will look at this grey rock. My ex will control an arrangement in a way he will know it will impact me. I will make contact to negate. I will present as unemotional. Just facts. He will ignore or manipulate. And make out I am the one always got an issue or contacting him. What I meant to do in this situation? Help pls
I suffering same from my son mother. There so little helpbsupport for men. In such case's but tobthen get labeled as the abusive coercive controlling the person..of domestic abuse violence person ..😢😢the law is cruppted against men rights to be loving caring fathers. To they children. fathers to they children..women always seems to be seen victims 😢 💔. And men the perpetrator..this is so biased and deacrinatlently sexistsexist . Voilation of human rights. This is so wrong and not in the best interests of children it's biased and sexist.
Russel brand aged well. Lol
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Unfortunately the definition of domestic abuse is a very hard one to tackle
Simply because like you say telling the truth is the very best way forward
Because some men can be right bast**** & can be very violent & yet under the same statement "Domestic Abuse" can be so soft such as an argument ending up just pushing each other
So the Truth folks please 🙏👍
Thanks! Far more balanced. I think your videos are brilliant I just don’t understand the gendered slant but I can see why it’s happened given your background.
Absolutely do not lie about domestic abuse as it becomes very obvious at later points and credibility is very important.
Your message on "female perpetrators" is one which should be mentioned in every video that you make so as not to alienate male victims of domestic abuse.
Male victims of DV have male abusers
Male vicitms are abused by other men in gay relationships. Female perpetrators abuse other women in lesbian relationships. Women cannot DV abuse men. It's like saying a small child is DV abusing his parent.
Totally agree enough is not discussed about this situation by women rights thst for sure. Seems they all out to deacrinatlently brand men. As causing g women emotion hstm where 9 out of 10 cameras is the wo.en who instigating such abusive behaviour towards men. Which then push men become violent in defense of they liberty rights. Obviously too wrong don't make a right. But women need take account for they own abusive controlling behaviour against men rights. Specaily concer they children. As a father. Maybe when women stop they abusiveness against men maybe then things will change 🤔 🤷 for them finding amore loving caring in this world man 👨.
Hi, I am a male victim of Domestic abuse. Will you help me out..
I think family court is a roll of the dice.
I think the outcome has nothing to do with law and common sense but has to do with who happens to be your judge.
Some judges will be fair.
That is rare.
Others will almost always side with women
Others will almost always side with men (most judges)
Others will almost always side with abusers of any gender,
Others will almost always side with victims of any gender.
The law, the PDs are all not used unless on paper to cover themselves,
Prepare for shock.
You may be lucky, but if you are not, please prepare for shock.
Oh, and avoid the book of the dominator, it really did me damage.
I was dealing with healing and surviving abuse from one man, I didn't need my world to paint all men as abusers, it really hurt me.
I also got the kids book to try to help my kids, it was horrific, careful, zero tips to heal, and horrific stories I wish I could erase from my mind and should not be told to a person who is looking to heal, not plant themselves in the abuse and pain, it is not for people looking to live and heal and survive, but people who want to get worse and dedicate their life to pain
The incentive is to exaggerate and lie in family court for a certain cohort…
Far far too many women us the DV card for strategic ploy that spoils it for Real Victims.
How would you know ? I am a “Real Victim “ as you put it and it is not other women making things difficult for me. It would not make any difference to me whatsoever if somebody made a false allegation about someone else. Nothing to do with me. What “spoils it ‘‘ for “real victims” is a court system which is obsessed with giving contact to bullies even in the face of hard evidence.
@@snowbelle74 domestic abuse allegations account for 60-80% of family court cases. People who falsely accuse make it harder for people who are genuine victims to be seen.
@@lostincredulity5369 facts.
@@snowbelle74 this happened to me today. The abuser acts like butter wouldn’t melt and I look crazy because I’m trying to explain myself. He just lies and lies - what sane person lies about abuse
@@Barbieflygerian narcissists lie easily. Look up cluster B personality disorders especially Narcissism. He likely has narcissism