Hi hi so just want to point out the format of the show is changing a bit to help it grow. It’s not so much only dads advice as it’s going to be an older generations take AND a younger generations take. This will also start to include other guests we bring on.. aka dad versus guests advice. We want to make sure people are getting the best advice and sometimes that means coming at it from multiple angles ❤️ that being said.. who would you like to see come on and give advice with dad?!
So...new name? DOES Father know best/something? Lol Even though they'd be of the same generation (ish), I think it'd be awesome to see one of Dad's (ex but friendly) spouses or sibling. I LOVED the episode with Justin's dad.
I love this new format !! You give the best feedback but I'm about Morgan's age and it would be nice to have her feedback and all other younger guests. It gives balance!
Hello fellow human! I don't know you (lol obvi) but your comment made me want to say that even strangers can have care for you and want nothing but good things for you. I wish you happiness and wellbeing in this life - sending you lots of posi vibes and hope you have a beautiful day tomorrow! 💖💖💖
@@jerrysiegel3354 thank you jerry. This means a lot to me. I spent the afternoon doing some self care after work and it helped a bit. I am hoping to write into the podcast soon and get some fatherly advice.
I went through something like the friendship drifting story and I did what Morgan’s father suggested. I pulled my closest friend to the side, expressed my feelings and she told me she was going to do something to fix the situation. Long story short, she didn’t. So then I addressed it to the rest of the group. Nothing changed. So, I found better friends. I still mourn the friendship every once and awhile because I don’t think I ever got the closure or the answer as to why I was left out.
I think an important point in the five friends' story is whether they are just drifting from OP or all drifting from each other. Like, are they all still hanging out without her, or are they all having different friend groups? If it's the second one maybe the friendship has just come to its natural conclusion.
I’m a full-time nanny. Parents are out of town for 6 days and I have quite a lot of work coming to me. I just arrived and getting this notification was like a good sign. So excited to listen. Thank you Justin, Morgan and the fabulous Jerry.
I really like that quote about loving yourself more. Sure its selfish but being selfish isnt bad, its just different priorities at different times in your life
It’s not selfish, have self respect is a rudiment so that the narcissistic parasites out there don’t have the power to suck you dry…. You must have “self”. When individuals realize that they bring themselves to the table, and that it’s their color palate that brings brightness to moment. It’s important to know that moment would not have taken place without them… It’s simple “You” matter… xo Jerry/Dad
In response to the friendship breakup - I had a very good friend that I met in 5th grade. We were friends up until college and ended up going to the same school after I transferred my sophomore year to be closer to home. Randomly during our junior year she basically ghosted me/lied about not being able to hang out. To this day I truly don’t know what happened/why. I consider myself to be pretty self aware and I was always a really good friend to her. After reflecting on it now as an adult it did feel like I was always offering her support thru breakups and family problems and she never really asked me how I was doing. I had asked her many times if I did something wrong and she would skirt around it. Finally I sent her an email explaining how I felt and asking again what went wrong and she never responded/we never spoke again after that. It was really sad/hard for me at the time but I’m glad I spoke my truth and confronted her about it, even if she didn’t respond. If you know you need “closure” I would definitely reach out to the friend group to talk. I didn’t get anything back from my friend, but I had closure knowing I told her how I felt and did everything I could to save the friendship. You deserve friends who check on you and care about you! Sorry you’re dealing with this ❤️
Last weeks episodes FKS and THT were 🙌🏻👏🏻. While running errands yesterday I went on to play last weeks father knows something and I’m like wait this story was not on last week. And to my surprise…NEW EPISODE up! Yay!
Hi! I have had two friends that I have kept from high school and the rest I’ve met throughout my life we formed a tightknit group that talk on and off basically every day. When there are friendship issues in the group it is best to take the most trusted and go from there because with females the more people around it just heightens the drama. Everyone has their own “bestie” in the group. Start with your bestie! They are going to be the most honest thrn take to group
From the perspective of the friend who doesn't call.. 38f I have been diagnosed ADHD since age 8. So I take alot of things literal. A friend who always reaches out is great, since i struggled to maintain all aspects of relationships in my early life. If that friend just stopped reaching out with no reasoning after yrs. I would think It was my fault, I upset her just being my annoying self and start avoiding and worrying about calling. If they are that close she should know the differences in personalitys and connections with in the group. Thus understanding the need to explain why shes not calling. So if one is ADHD start with her lol.
I unfortunately don’t have any other advice for the friend group one except for walking away. I had a BEST friend all throughout college, lived through trauma together, got an apartment for 2 years. Once our lease was up and I moved in full time with my boyfriend they completely stopped talking to me, wouldn’t answer texts, calls, snaps. I was so confused and hurt. I saw them out with other mutual friends so obviously it must have been something with our friendship that I wasn’t even aware of. Respect yourself and walk away
This post is a year old and you guess will undoubtedly NOT read this, but as a musician I had to give both of you a little bit of 💩. Stand By Your Man by Tammy Wynette (pronounced ‘WHY-Bette’). It’s only one of the most famous country ballads in the history of music! You guys! Come on now! Get it together! 👏 👏 😆 Otherwise, love you both. Great show. 😘
I love this show so much. It has honestly been getting me through so much lately. I feel like I have family in a way and that's what I didn't realize I needed
Tldr; made friends with this girl and we clicked instantly, she got a bf and ghosted me for a few years before I reached out. She took accountability for her shittiness and now we've rekindled our friendship. Timing was bad so now we're back in the same loop, except I've stopped caring and stopped putting 90% into the friendship when she barely keeps up putting in 10%. For the friendship breakup/combating it... Here's my story. I met this girl at my workplace back in 2017. She had started working there after me and I immediately knew I wanted to be her friend. We ended up clicking like puzzle pieces and I found myself starting to have feelings for her. At this time I was bi-curious and she basically confirmed my bisexuality throughout our friendship. We'd hang out at Starbucks after work, go to McDonald's and talk for literal hours, we even went to the movies once and watched a Ghibli movie. Cut to her getting a boyfriend and basically making excuses whenever I'd ask to hang out after work, and ghosting me essentially. Whenever she would magically have time after work to grab a coffee with me, her bf would appear out of nowhere and I'd third wheel hard. It was so uncomfy being around him because she thought he was so funny and I was unimpressed and didn't get his humour. I gave up and stopped asking to hang out and we ended up having a falling out for a few years. I quit that job and started working elsewhere in 2019. I thought about her endlessly throughout our friendship breakup. Then I think in 2020 or 2021 (can't remember) I reached out and told her I missed her and hoped she was doing well. She ended up replying and taking accountability for how shitty she was to me and we would talk almost nonstop like prior to our falling out. Cue to today where it takes 10-30 business days to get a text response. She has a lot going on behind closed doors but I've basically given up on making plans with her just for it to fall through. Whenever we hang out, it's like nothing changed, and it feels so natural and right. It's just super unfortunate timing that I came back into her life and I've accepted that I should stop putting in 90% when she barely reciprocates 10% effort. I'm basically here if she needs me but we have times where she'll take a month to respond if I don't "nudge" her. It's whatever at this point. Tired of putting so much into friendships and receiving not even the bare minimum. The bar is to the floor and people can't even keep up with that. 🙃
I had a friendship breakup with a former ex bff and we were in a friend group of 4. Ex bff and i were friends for almost 8 years and have been thru a few friend groups middle school-college. After she ghosted me i finally blocked her and silently left the group chat. The other 2 friends in the group didnt know what happened until a mutual and i spilled the 9 month long story to each person, 1 on 1. I still reach out to the other 2 and have been honest that I dont need a gc to keep in touch. They had been in the dark about why we havent hung out much in the last yr / why ex bff and i wouldnt be at the same hangout. I know this is 10 months late, however, my advice for the OP would be to talk to the 2-3 girls that you still talk to and have a genuine convo. They could give insight. After the convo they can make a decision as to how to proceed.
On the story about the girl’s friendships fading and the friends not inviting her to do things: I have to agree with Jerry. I had this happen to me with my 3 closest friends from high school. And I didn’t ask them why. I just stopped trying and the friendships essentially ended. I have moved on and I’m 33 now it’s been almost 10 years since we stopped hanging out. I have a few other friends now and my life is good. The problem with never having asked is .. from time to time it really bothers me. STILL NOW I wonder. And yes I’ve reached out with not much response and met with excuses to not get together and catch up. So in my opinion, like Jerry said.. the best way to get closure and move on with your life is to confront it head on right now while it’s happening. That way you’ll get an answer so you can either enhance the friendships or move forward and stop dwelling on it.
I did Brake up with a whole friendgroup.. like we were 10 Girls and it just wasn't right anymore.. one night at a houseparty I just honestly told them that it dosnt really feels right anymore.. All of them seemed to understand 🤷🏼♀️
Yes, they are well-meaning...but they need to get to know him first. You're approach was overboard and they are probably reacting to how you are acting. You don't start out mentioning his health problems, they'll realize that and ask questions eventually. You should have brought him over introduced him and let them observe the connection first, see how he treats you and how good you are together. After several meetings then mention his illnesses and that your hoping to marry one day.
I really love Father knows something but I have to say after listening to 10 episodes in a row it gets really tiring to hear her interrupting Jerry all the time and it's very frustrating.
Brah... Over 10,000 for a month trip?? That would give me 6months of a trip. (much more worth a home) you should budget better because hotels and resorts aren't going to be a super life changing experience. Just another tourist
Hi hi so format of the show is changing a bit to help it grow. It’s not so much only his advice as it’s going to be an older generations take AND a younger generations take. This will also start to include other guests we bring on.. aka dad versus guests advice. We want to make sure people are getting the best advice and sometimes that means coming at it from multiple angles ❤️
Okay Morgan really? They don’t speak the same language how are they suppose to “make conversation” without any translation. What’s the difference between using the daughter & a phone?
She never said they don't need any translation, both daughter and the husband speak English, so they can help the mom, while a phone is slow and can be inaccurate/"tone deaf", etc.
Hi hi so just want to point out the format of the show is changing a bit to help it grow. It’s not so much only dads advice as it’s going to be an older generations take AND a younger generations take. This will also start to include other guests we bring on.. aka dad versus guests advice. We want to make sure people are getting the best advice and sometimes that means coming at it from multiple angles ❤️ that being said.. who would you like to see come on and give advice with dad?!
So...new name? DOES Father know best/something? Lol
Even though they'd be of the same generation (ish), I think it'd be awesome to see one of Dad's (ex but friendly) spouses or sibling. I LOVED the episode with Justin's dad.
I love this new format !! You give the best feedback but I'm about Morgan's age and it would be nice to have her feedback and all other younger guests. It gives balance!
Lauren! 100% shes really insightful and level headed! And super sweet!
Bring Justin’s dad back 💕 him and Jerry make me feel like I’m watching sports commentators but for life 😂
Thomas Sanders! 😍
I’ve been really depressed and have no family in my life but these podcasts make me feel like someone out there cares. Thank you.
Hello fellow human! I don't know you (lol obvi) but your comment made me want to say that even strangers can have care for you and want nothing but good things for you. I wish you happiness and wellbeing in this life - sending you lots of posi vibes and hope you have a beautiful day tomorrow! 💖💖💖
Lumiya, Have a good day tomorrow… Jerry
Hey Lumiya. You are not alone in this. Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. You are important and worthy of care.
@@morganminkler6275 thank you for taking the time to drop such a thoughtful comment. This made me feel seen 🖤
@@jerrysiegel3354 thank you jerry. This means a lot to me. I spent the afternoon doing some self care after work and it helped a bit. I am hoping to write into the podcast soon and get some fatherly advice.
I went through something like the friendship drifting story and I did what Morgan’s father suggested. I pulled my closest friend to the side, expressed my feelings and she told me she was going to do something to fix the situation. Long story short, she didn’t. So then I addressed it to the rest of the group. Nothing changed. So, I found better friends. I still mourn the friendship every once and awhile because I don’t think I ever got the closure or the answer as to why I was left out.
I had a similar situation… unfortunately, usually there is not much you can do. Learning to let people go is also a part of growing up
I think an important point in the five friends' story is whether they are just drifting from OP or all drifting from each other. Like, are they all still hanging out without her, or are they all having different friend groups? If it's the second one maybe the friendship has just come to its natural conclusion.
I’m a full-time nanny. Parents are out of town for 6 days and I have quite a lot of work coming to me. I just arrived and getting this notification was like a good sign. So excited to listen. Thank you Justin, Morgan and the fabulous Jerry.
Thank you!
I really like that quote about loving yourself more. Sure its selfish but being selfish isnt bad, its just different priorities at different times in your life
It’s not selfish, have self respect is a rudiment so that the narcissistic parasites out there don’t have the power to suck you dry…. You must have “self”.
When individuals realize that they bring themselves to the table, and that it’s their color palate that brings brightness to moment. It’s important to know that moment would not have taken place without them… It’s simple “You” matter… xo Jerry/Dad
In response to the friendship breakup - I had a very good friend that I met in 5th grade. We were friends up until college and ended up going to the same school after I transferred my sophomore year to be closer to home. Randomly during our junior year she basically ghosted me/lied about not being able to hang out. To this day I truly don’t know what happened/why. I consider myself to be pretty self aware and I was always a really good friend to her. After reflecting on it now as an adult it did feel like I was always offering her support thru breakups and family problems and she never really asked me how I was doing. I had asked her many times if I did something wrong and she would skirt around it. Finally I sent her an email explaining how I felt and asking again what went wrong and she never responded/we never spoke again after that. It was really sad/hard for me at the time but I’m glad I spoke my truth and confronted her about it, even if she didn’t respond. If you know you need “closure” I would definitely reach out to the friend group to talk. I didn’t get anything back from my friend, but I had closure knowing I told her how I felt and did everything I could to save the friendship. You deserve friends who check on you and care about you! Sorry you’re dealing with this ❤️
Last weeks episodes FKS and THT were 🙌🏻👏🏻. While running errands yesterday I went on to play last weeks father knows something and I’m like wait this story was not on last week. And to my surprise…NEW EPISODE up! Yay!
Hi! I have had two friends that I have kept from high school and the rest I’ve met throughout my life we formed a tightknit group that talk on and off basically every day. When there are friendship issues in the group it is best to take the most trusted and go from there because with females the more people around it just heightens the drama. Everyone has their own “bestie” in the group. Start with your bestie! They are going to be the most honest thrn take to group
From the perspective of the friend who doesn't call.. 38f I have been diagnosed ADHD since age 8. So I take alot of things literal. A friend who always reaches out is great, since i struggled to maintain all aspects of relationships in my early life. If that friend just stopped reaching out with no reasoning after yrs. I would think It was my fault, I upset her just being my annoying self and start avoiding and worrying about calling. If they are that close she should know the differences in personalitys and connections with in the group. Thus understanding the need to explain why shes not calling. So if one is ADHD start with her lol.
I unfortunately don’t have any other advice for the friend group one except for walking away. I had a BEST friend all throughout college, lived through trauma together, got an apartment for 2 years. Once our lease was up and I moved in full time with my boyfriend they completely stopped talking to me, wouldn’t answer texts, calls, snaps. I was so confused and hurt. I saw them out with other mutual friends so obviously it must have been something with our friendship that I wasn’t even aware of. Respect yourself and walk away
This post is a year old and you guess will undoubtedly NOT read this, but as a musician I had to give both of you a little bit of 💩. Stand By Your Man by Tammy Wynette (pronounced ‘WHY-Bette’). It’s only one of the most famous country ballads in the history of music! You guys! Come on now! Get it together! 👏 👏 😆 Otherwise, love you both. Great show. 😘
I love this show so much. It has honestly been getting me through so much lately. I feel like I have family in a way and that's what I didn't realize I needed
Tldr; made friends with this girl and we clicked instantly, she got a bf and ghosted me for a few years before I reached out. She took accountability for her shittiness and now we've rekindled our friendship. Timing was bad so now we're back in the same loop, except I've stopped caring and stopped putting 90% into the friendship when she barely keeps up putting in 10%.
For the friendship breakup/combating it... Here's my story. I met this girl at my workplace back in 2017. She had started working there after me and I immediately knew I wanted to be her friend. We ended up clicking like puzzle pieces and I found myself starting to have feelings for her. At this time I was bi-curious and she basically confirmed my bisexuality throughout our friendship. We'd hang out at Starbucks after work, go to McDonald's and talk for literal hours, we even went to the movies once and watched a Ghibli movie.
Cut to her getting a boyfriend and basically making excuses whenever I'd ask to hang out after work, and ghosting me essentially. Whenever she would magically have time after work to grab a coffee with me, her bf would appear out of nowhere and I'd third wheel hard. It was so uncomfy being around him because she thought he was so funny and I was unimpressed and didn't get his humour.
I gave up and stopped asking to hang out and we ended up having a falling out for a few years. I quit that job and started working elsewhere in 2019. I thought about her endlessly throughout our friendship breakup. Then I think in 2020 or 2021 (can't remember) I reached out and told her I missed her and hoped she was doing well. She ended up replying and taking accountability for how shitty she was to me and we would talk almost nonstop like prior to our falling out.
Cue to today where it takes 10-30 business days to get a text response. She has a lot going on behind closed doors but I've basically given up on making plans with her just for it to fall through. Whenever we hang out, it's like nothing changed, and it feels so natural and right. It's just super unfortunate timing that I came back into her life and I've accepted that I should stop putting in 90% when she barely reciprocates 10% effort. I'm basically here if she needs me but we have times where she'll take a month to respond if I don't "nudge" her. It's whatever at this point. Tired of putting so much into friendships and receiving not even the bare minimum. The bar is to the floor and people can't even keep up with that. 🙃
I had a friendship breakup with a former ex bff and we were in a friend group of 4. Ex bff and i were friends for almost 8 years and have been thru a few friend groups middle school-college. After she ghosted me i finally blocked her and silently left the group chat. The other 2 friends in the group didnt know what happened until a mutual and i spilled the 9 month long story to each person, 1 on 1. I still reach out to the other 2 and have been honest that I dont need a gc to keep in touch. They had been in the dark about why we havent hung out much in the last yr / why ex bff and i wouldnt be at the same hangout.
I know this is 10 months late, however, my advice for the OP would be to talk to the 2-3 girls that you still talk to and have a genuine convo. They could give insight. After the convo they can make a decision as to how to proceed.
Jerry's favorite word= =Organically. /Morgan's favorite word= Emmeshment What's Justin's favorite word=? ? Morgan ?
I've never been so early I love these podcasts!
On the story about the girl’s friendships fading and the friends not inviting her to do things: I have to agree with Jerry. I had this happen to me with my 3 closest friends from high school. And I didn’t ask them why. I just stopped trying and the friendships essentially ended. I have moved on and I’m 33 now it’s been almost 10 years since we stopped hanging out. I have a few other friends now and my life is good. The problem with never having asked is .. from time to time it really bothers me. STILL NOW I wonder. And yes I’ve reached out with not
much response and met with excuses to not get together and catch up. So in my opinion, like Jerry said.. the best way to get closure and move on with your life is to confront it head on right now while it’s happening. That way you’ll get an answer so you can either enhance the friendships or move forward and stop dwelling on it.
I'm going to watch this episode bit by bit over the next few days so that I can make the wonderful last.
woot woot 👏🏼 on my way to work , so glad i opened youtube on time 🥰
I’m early! I love you guys so much! Thank you for what you do!
I love your guys podcasts!!
Hey guys love the podcast both with dad and the girls. Could you guys do a long distance episode?
Love that song
I did Brake up with a whole friendgroup.. like we were 10 Girls and it just wasn't right anymore.. one night at a houseparty I just honestly told them that it dosnt really feels right anymore.. All of them seemed to understand 🤷🏼♀️
Dad and Justin sound the same😲 I had to rewind the video to see which of them two was talking
Damn I’m early- love you guys!!
Apart from the flights you could spend a lot less than 10 grand travelling in Europe if you want to go.
YAYYYY
Justin the justifier
Yes, they are well-meaning...but they need to get to know him first. You're approach was overboard and they are probably reacting to how you are acting. You don't start out mentioning his health problems, they'll realize that and ask questions eventually. You should have brought him over introduced him and let them observe the connection first, see how he treats you and how good you are together. After several meetings then mention his illnesses and that your hoping to marry one day.
❤️
Fun game. Take a shot every time someone says organic/organicly.
You'll be down in the first 10 minutes😅
Is that a soft hint? Lol
5 months into the relationship meeting the parents already? AND on mother's day weekend? Dang lol. Must be very serious.b
Im so early love you guys
I really love Father knows something but I have to say after listening to 10 episodes in a row it gets really tiring to hear her interrupting Jerry all the time and it's very frustrating.
Jamming Justin?
Brah... Over 10,000 for a month trip?? That would give me 6months of a trip. (much more worth a home) you should budget better because hotels and resorts aren't going to be a super life changing experience. Just another tourist
Omg love you Morgan but this is ur dads podcast !!! The dude can’t have one opinion w out you countering it
Hi hi so format of the show is changing a bit to help it grow. It’s not so much only his advice as it’s going to be an older generations take AND a younger generations take. This will also start to include other guests we bring on.. aka dad versus guests advice. We want to make sure people are getting the best advice and sometimes that means coming at it from multiple angles ❤️
Okay Morgan really? They don’t speak the same language how are they suppose to “make conversation” without any translation. What’s the difference between using the daughter & a phone?
She never said they don't need any translation, both daughter and the husband speak English, so they can help the mom, while a phone is slow and can be inaccurate/"tone deaf", etc.
I'd only make the mother use the phone translator just to spite her homophobic self lmao
Exactly. Using technology isn’t as accurate and delays the process in my experience
Buy a house instead!!!!!!!
“I do make a spectacle” 😂🤌🏻