There's a difference between "I love your smile" and "Smile for me". One is an appreciation, the other is a *command* and the difference is staggering.
lol... I had an old guy said to me I should smile more often, like in as right now smile while I was counting out the change for his purchase and on that day I wasnt feeling 100% well his wife told him to shush... I almost said fuck you... I did kinda half eye rolled when looking away from him... rude asshole....
I think chivalry actually should die because it’s pointlessly gendered. It puts women up on a pedestal when we really just want to be treated as peers and fellow human beings.
@@erinkemble5950 I’m so sorry. That sucks when it’s a customer because they are kind of holding you hostage. While they certainly deserve a “fuck you” they assume that you have to be nice to them no matter what they do.
@@margiepickle oh you don't have to be sorry, it's okay, I mean, he was the only ONE did that no one else had said that to me, so its a rare site, though I live local area, I know a lot of people in the area and some customers I knew when growing up while others I only recongised them through work. When that happened it was a weird timing too, my work place (Coles supermarket) have these little courses that you need to go through every so often to keep up what's going on in the store and updating tabacco refresher (gotta sign to say I know by law and store policy in regard that and that every three or 6 months) and there's the safety stuff needs to be refreshed, one of those was mental health) anyways it was around that time I have done it and it just nearly makes me tell him to fuck off, plus he was an older guy, like he would be "in my days, this how was done etc etc" kind of guy. He is lucky it was me serving him , not some other girl who could have been depressive mood but was okay to continue to work, that would have been bad. Anyways I dunno what's worse, me being deaf/hearing impaired and face masks (I lipread) or that situation...
@@margiepickle Yes, today there seem to be just extremes around when dating. I like the middle ground - I'm not delicate china that needs special treatment. I want good company, that treats me like an equal not false chivalry or vile d... pics. In polite society this chivalry every one is talking about, was just a very tight regulation in decorum for men around unmarried women of the tone. After all the bargening chip had to stay undamaged and rumour free. It was also a tool for the men to check out the delicate ware to a certain extend withhout entering a courtship. Be gone with it.
Ahh. Are you talking about the episode with the lady who had stunted mentality because her dad raped her and gave her electroshock therapy to cover up what he did?
As a girl I can confirm that this happens all the time! I had a guy get pissed off that we didn’t match on tinder so he tracked me down on ig to find my Facebook to tell my mum I’m a tramp.... and then was confused when she called him out for being a twat
What really confuses me about the asterisk descriptive texting is that texting is a great way to socialize if you're socially awkward or have anxiety. The asterisks put the awkwardness back into the conversation and it give me anxiety. It's like all the negatives of a face to face conversation while removing all the positives.
I wonder how they even get the idea that this would be a good idea to put those strange asterisks in their text messages. And especially this strange creepy thoughts inside. Like ' staring confused at the wall.' I mean that's not normal in any context. If they said something like *i'm sad that you react negative to me* it would still be strange, but at least their *thoughts* wouldn't be so creepy. And all this demeaning talk. I'm sure everybody likes to hear that their just a stupid peasant and regrets not dating you/s. I mean do these people never self reflect what they are talking? They wouldn't be talked to like that so why should others?
It's a form of roleplay...but most people don't do it correctly. As a veteran online paragraph roleplayer, I can contest that it's not necessarily being socially awkward, but rather just being dense as frick. People who actually know how to roleplay know that you don't do actions in first person, anyways. In short, those people annoy me, too.
@@KaiyaCorrbin I use these occasionally... not like these chodes do, though. Mine are more like *vomits forcefully*. Because sometimes an action needs described and this is the simplest, best way, not because my hands shake a little as I lift them off my lap to my pursed lips in anticipation.
Oh god the one asking her to be his doll to groom definitely sounds like a serial killer in the making… “put you in a deep sleep” um, like death you mean??
😂 I hate that too!! Like they assume you're unhappy and miserable, I guess we should all walk around like this😃. I have literally gotten into arguments over that comment lol. Like dude say hello and wait for a reply or kick rocks.
I get the opposite, guys asking me why I'm smiling so much, and what's so damn funny. I tell them I just think about funny things, a LOT! If they could see the ridiculous show going on inside my brain, they'd laugh too! Except, I'm probably laughing because I'm imagining him dressed as a Disney princess juggling chainsaws.
I HATE those unprompted role-play messages too, and I was wondering why we dislike them so much. I mean me and Charlotte, tho I saw other women creeped out by them too. My theory is that they are manipulative in a boundary-crossing way and that's what makes us go 'uhhhhhh'. When someone texts 'I tickle you' it's just a text, but in the meta-verse of this 'world,' you were already tickled. No one asked you if you wanted to be, you were just touched. Same goes for 'kisses you' or 'hugs you'. In legit role-plays it would be 'goes for a tickle/goes for a hug' and the play-partner has a chance to go with it or say 'dodges' or something. But those creeps don't play by the rules, you were just tickled and that's that! Actual role-plays would not be okay with it! While messages like 'stares at you, trying to determine if you like anime or not' are also manipulative, but in a less boundary-violating way; they contain a question that is not really asked, but you are expected to answer the question anyway. I dislike games like this; if you have a question, ASK ME. It's on you to ask, not do this weird lil dance and force me to play along. And this reason; to me they show a lack of social skills. THose ppl don't know how to have a conversation in which they express their wants and emotions, so they go for a role-play description instead. It's pretty unappealing when a person is this immature. This also shows a lack of understanding of what is appropriate and socially acceptable. Which is a kinda orange flag IMO. 🍆
These people also probably read way too much Wattpad. Roleplays are great but man you have got to have had at least one normal conversation before trying to start a RP
Honestly when I was younger I used to do this role-play things with my friends, but only with the ones who agreed with it. Like I usually went "Ohh you're feeling sad?? Noo don't be sad! -hugs you- I'm here if you need me, okay?" and that sort of thing; usually it was to show affection to my friends. These guys are honestly creepy as hell
I can't even count the number of times a guy has said some version of "but I'm attracted to you, so you can't be gay" like dude, that not how sexual orientation works
Or they're one of THOSE. The ones that pepper their speech with as many $.50 words as possible- ALL the time- in an effort to sound smart. Can be found in droves on any gaming forum.
But women wanted to be treated the same as men, remember? So why would we do things for women that we don’t do for other men? Chivalry is just another word for “women are weak and need special help”, or, you know, misogyny.
Bad news, I'm afraid. My digestive system is one way. If it's in there, there's only one way out. Mind you, I do find Charlotte's burps kind of sexy - it's that unpretentious honesty and fun loving character that I find attractive. I'm too old now, of course, I don't want to be creepy or anything.
@@InservioLetum they didn't say anything about introverts! If you watch the video, you will know what they are talking about. Sliding in other people's dms, role-playing annoyingly and then trash talking and cursing when the other person asks them not to, is what they are talking about!
The funniest message I've ever seen was a screenshot of somebody replying to somebody who was sending the same kind of role play messages with asterisks and replied back with * shits pants aggressively * "oops sorry haha I drank milk today"
An an introvert, I worry about saying something creepy to women, but I see these videos and realize, I probably have to fail pretty hard to come off creepy. 😅
They are socially inept and not at all "geniuses" as they claim. They are typically loners and very nervous around women, with prettier women reducing them to cottage cheese. It's amazing how many of these bipeds are incapable of simply chatting WITHOUT the use of scripted "*holding his breath*" descriptions, and it's easy to see the women are very tired of that and the ridiculous comments they make.
As a male I'm often enough ashamed by people of the same sex. I'm really sorry for every creep you have to deal with and I just want to let you know, there are enough good men out there, let the assholes just go extinct by picking the good guys and guys tell other men they did something wrong when you witness it. It can't be solely up to woman to deal with this problem!
I hear ya. I feel so bad when watching the videos of women who get creeped on regularly. It can be very scary. It makes me so angry that people act like that to other people.
Given their response (when they are turned down instantly)... I'd hate to see what they'd do if the girl gave them a chance. And after they knew some of her friends, address, etc. Scary.
@Everclear Great explanation without having to go into some deep psychology like I was thinking of. Or he's an incel. Makes me think of that British guy in LA, Elliot Rodgers?, that killed people just cuz he hated women or being rejected.
Unless you have read that "how to get women" book. Whatever it's called. I'm sure one of the tips there is to use the "flirt with insults will get you a woman. Because all women like being insulted to show them that you aren't afraid to say your mind. But also mix in a complement. Example ' you are very ____, even though you _____' or 'you are very ____ but lucky for you I like that" My tip is just be who you are. If you can't find a partner that can accept you for you. Then move on. Better be alone then stuck in a relationship where you must be someone else.
I am in my 60"s & I never understood why some guys don"t understand that JUST BECAUSE YOUR INTERESTED DOES NOT MEAN WE AUTOMATICALLY RETURN THE INTEREST! Get over your self already! Things haven"t changed that much apparently. EXCEPT when I was younger I could walk away & not worry about it anymore. Now with social media you they can chase & hound you non stop.
Imagine if the role playing guys do that in person. He approaches an interest/potential victim. Starts talking to himself. “Chet approaches with some reservation...” “What? What do you want?” “Chet panics. The anxiety irritates his digestive track. His irritable bowel syndrome emits an inaudible growl...” “Ew, no! I heard that clearly!” “Chet’s bowels voided. He hoped his khakis and Batman boxers would hold back the intestinal wrath...” “Oh my god!”
A lot of these sound like incels who are one rejection away from losing it. Stay far far away! It's amazing how quickly they go from trying to sound sophisticated and complimentary to rage and insulting! It's like they've never successfully spoken to a girl IRL
Oh man! This reminds me of something that happened to me at a train station. I was sitting on a bench waiting for the train and was wearing nurse scrubs/ my hospital tag. This guy walks up to me and barely speaking fluent English, says "Hi. Do you want a boyfriend?" I looked at him like he was crazy. My response was "No, I'm good." He just walked away. I was definitely creeped out.
With the world being as weird as it is right now, u might never know. Maybe some women out there get a kick out of being treated as a doll. We already see a few making big bucks just by acting like a dog all day. Who knows huh?🤔🤔
I know creeps who actually get laid that way. It's a numbers game, keep dialing numbers until you get lucky. It's the digital version of my day's Lounge Lizards. They just keep approaching women, hitting on them, and moving on to the next immediately after getting rejected. Half of them walk away with a snide remark like "Lesbian", "Stuck up b^tch", or some other feeble attempt to save face. Only over the phone, getting a ticked-off friend to attack you or have a drink thrown on you is far far far less likely.
I feel sorry for my nieces for the same reason. At least one of them had the good sense to beat a fool with her flip flop for pulling a stunt like this 😂
I was the last person in my circle to get a cell phone, about a decade ago. Before I even had my own number memorized, nonetheless gave it out to anyone, my first text was "Send nudes".
@@magicrabbit9446 That one sounds like you got an old phone number. I figured I had the same thing until one of my lady friends said some guys have dialer apps that try numbers until they connect with that text. I gave her the "that's BS" face but she told me that's how she met and dated her psycho ex for a while.
People are losing the social graces and nuances we once had since many interactions are no longer face to face, sadly. Went into a pharmacy yesterday, and there was a woman with an unruly child at the register. She left and I could discern that the cashier was having a bad day. Kinda obvious when slamming cash drawer shut, etc. So I proceed to register and remark to the cashier how pretty her nails are. (They were painted nicely but nothing too out of the ordinary). My comment made a difference. She appeared calmer and was smiling as she said "thank you." Kindness cost nothing yet it is in short supply these days. I hope the rest of that woman's day got better. It's the smallest courtesies that sometimes count the most.
Hahaha. I'm currently snuggled up with one of them (have 2) and I so support this statement! I asked the universe for a soulmate, but wasn't specific enough and got a furry one. Reading these I am no longer sure said universe màde a mistake...
So many examples of insta-block. I'm thinking back to a pre-computer world where the appopriate response would be a strong slap across the face. Oh, the good old days!
Thanks to modern technology, creeps get to menace hundreds in the time it used to take dozens and now cowardly wussies can join in on the action because a slap across the face, a drink thrown on them, or a protective large friend hurting them are no longer options. Ah, and it can be done as a faceless interaction via a burner phone. (sarcasm in the next word) Yay! I know creeps who get laid doing that... far more rejections but it only takes one positive to make mass-trolling worth it.
🍆 I'm so glad I missed this part of online dating! Never been so thankful for my husband who is so completely normal LOL never had to Wade through this kind of complete creepy bullshit. Hats off to those 21st century woman who do have to deal with it. I fear for my daughter and the creepers she'll have to endure
I don't know; it's something I picked up reading British novels, and seeing lists of cross-cultural "things that don't mean what you think they mean." ( see also "rubber".) It may be specific to eras, classes, or subcultues.
@@lindafreeman7030 I know rubber. Very. Well...!!! I went into the US Navy and asked a Petty Officer for a rubber. He proceeded to chew me out because he thought I was asking him inappropriate stuffs. And then when I freaked out and he freaked out saying sorry and explaining what rubber meant here... IM SHOOK! HAHA
Once I had a creep Italian guy message me and he said “ you’re so beautiful! I would kill for your beauty.. I buy you a ticket to Italy! One way of course!” I think he wanted to wear my skin ..
I think he misspoke. Trying to say something like you are so beautiful that he can die for you. In Spanish there are many expresions about kill or die for. It's a common thing in both languages. Hopefully was a misunderstanding.
You took the word right out of my mouth. There is no faster way to wipe a smile off a woman’s face, then a man telling her to smile. Straight up facts right there.😂😂😂
I am 66 years old. When I was a 19 year old cashier at a Sheraton Hotel restaurant, a man told me I would be pretty if I would just smile. I remember this viscerally 41 years later because it was the morning after my beloved grandmother's death and because I was fired for my response to him. It seems the world, or men, has changed little.
This is giving me flashbacks of the guy who said he wanted to "storm my castle" and did a whole role-play of besieging said castle when I said I wouldn't go out with him.
You help people & don’t know it. I had a *REALLY* rough week. I thought about using today. Instead I stayed home, worked on my children’s book, & watched your videos & laughed. I’m the master of my own ship, but entertainers/artists like yourself make it easier for my sails to catch the right wind. I adore your content! Thanks
And she should have contacted the police to have them file a report on this weirdo. Also, she COULD get their identity and info and report it. I've gotten weird texts, often scams and such, on my phone, and I respond with a "Thank you for subscribing..." message informing them that they just signed up for a $15 a month "subscription". It's funny, but I never hear from them again.
@@simplywonderful449 That’s a GREAT response when some idiotic weird-o is texting you!! I may borrow that response whenever I get a call from those simpletons who all start off with: (in a cheery upbeat voice) “Why hello there! Are you having a great day??!! I sure am!! tee hee hee!!!!(Fake laugh, fake EVERYTHING) And, I’m about to make your day even MORE fabulous with (fill in the blank)!!” They attempt to go on with their phony script with: “ I’m calling you today to let you know about something that is REALLY outstanding, AND it will save you just tons of money!!” 😮 🤑{Okay, I seldom let them get any farther into their sales pitch , BUT sometimes, if I’ve got a little extra time, I will absolutely mess with THEIR brain-challenged little minds! Trust me, It can be highly entertaining and just plain fun to mess with them!! , As in: (After their initial sales pitch, I’ll get all bubbly and start saying:) “Tee hee!!!! Tee hee!!!! Golly-gee-williycurs!! This is just gonna be oodles of fun! Hey! GUESS WHAT??! I just got all tickleey inside because I just KNOW that you and me are gonna end up being best buddies! Oh-muy-gawd! Now, wouldn’t that just be the BEST thing EVER?!?! We’ll be best friends won’t we? By the way, what did you say your name is?” (And I would just go on and on about being besties. 😂😂 And if they get a little too insistent about giving me more of their sales pitch, I just start crying until I am sobbing-loudly 😭😭😭 and then I ask them): “Can, or will we still be “besties” if I listen to the rest of their stupid little sales thingie”? {Now, if they’re still on the line and you would be surprised at how long some of them will keep trying to make that sale), I’ll make them) “promise and double promise that they will totally still be my bestest friend after I give them my charge card number?) which is where I usually lose them because I just start spouting off a bunch of random numbers and asking if they’re still my bestie. LOL!!! Okay, I understand that people need to make money somehow, but I just cannot stand those little shîts interrupting my day, and pissing me off with their fake little happy voices. But, hey…the longer they’re on the phone with me, I KNOW that they’re not ripping off someone else-especially our elderly population. Well, I believe I will stop here. Sorry for the length of my comment. I double PROMISE you (😉) that I am going to stop writing before I end up writing a whole frikking book!! 😁😁 😂😂
👏👏💯👏👏 *All the way YES! THANK YOU for saying "NEVER tell a woman to smile!"* *Not sure why, but this REALLY GRINDS MY GEARS, when someone says this to me!* *I'm talking, it REALLY pisses me off!* 🤬🤬
It's not, though, is it.... it's poor upbringing and overt tolerance of intolerable behaviour. If men were lashed for being rude, they'd shape up quite quickly in the communities where such intervention is necessary. Similarly, if women were lashed for turning men into toads and dancing by moonlig--- Oh hang on....
Okay, you have got to be the most relatable UA-camr I know. Been watching you for SO long! Always put me in a good mood and I watch you all time. Thanks for making me smile!
I just thought I would let you know, I’ve been watching your videos while my daughter and I get ready for the day. She’s only home for the weekend from college. She couldn’t see what I was watching, but she can listen to it and ask me what the heck was I watching. And I asked her why and she said it’s because you’re freaking hilarious.!!!
The asterisk thing makes me itchy and want a knife. I feel like I would be extremely paranoid about them coming around me after they sent a message like that.
As someone who has done online role-playing for a _very_ long time, that shit where they do it in personal, out of character/out of story context to try & be flirty or cute is CREEPY AF.
It's still worse in person ... Waiting for the previous class in BioChem 201` to get out of the classroom, Sir Unintroduced offers a wilty rose and tries to kiss "M'lady's" hand while making pseudo-Tudor noises - Creepy! There's no way to block him! Is this the same idiot who 'sounds' the same online? If it is, does he know where I live?!
My hubie do‘s that after 15 years rela. and 7 years married🤩. I know that I‘m lucky. The trick is also treet him like a King and you will be his Queen 4 ever.
"Never tell a woman to smile" Umm, never tell anyone to smile. I've had a number of women tell me to smile before. My smile involves my middle finger at that point, not my mouth.
People that feel the need to drop their IQ ranks in a conversation is usually people with the lowest scores. You can even confirm that by how many typos they have in a single text🤦🤦🤦🤦
Culture and spelling aren't indicators...though higher IQ can lead to more culture and better spelling ^^ Also, those who feel the need to drop their IQ rank can't answer to "With which standard deviation ?" neither "And which percentile is that?".
Goes hand in hand with people who claim they have “multiple degrees” like that equates to intelligence. I got into a crazy argument with this chick who claimed she was a doctor about there being several reasons a person can have hair loss. She tried to advise someone over the internet to “just change their diet and exercise”. For hair loss? When I told her that was the stupidest advice ever, she said I didn’t know what I was talking about and she did because she has “multiple degrees” and therefore qualified to tell this person that. Needless to say, I got blocked that day but it was fun arguing with someone sooooo “intelligent” that they were able to earn so many degrees.
@@caillew7618 And yes hair loss can simply happens after a big body stress (like COVID). Exercising and diet will do absolutely nothing ^^ It's the classical authority argument.
LMFAO those were horrifying and hilarious at the same time. I used to be big into role playing but I never did it with random people on KiK lol...just wow.
I still RP because it keeps my creativity up and I only do it with people who respect the fact I do NOT do smut under any circumstances. Fluff, cool, cute, adorable, but smut, let me stand over the sink in my bathroom ew no thank you there goes me lunch. ¬_¬ I did try strangers but immediately stopped after the DBH one where I was a child android and he was trying to disrespect me. Humans, honestly, I ask you. I hope I remember to report him.
@@Roadent1241 my husband and I do it on occasion but it’s not in a creepy or sexual way either lol. Just for lighthearted stuff cx if he would have introduced himself to me that way….. almost automatic no 😅
@@AmyHoldaway27 Understandable XD I get excited when people ask if I RP though I know nowadays it's probably going to end up "Yeah you said no smut but I'm doing it anyway why are you ignoring me now????????? female dog" ¬_¬ Sorry I RP seriously for creativity and imagination and not just 'to get my rocks on' or whatever.
I once wanted to see how far I could go with an internet creep to creep him out. I had to tell him I had 3 kids was 8 months pregnant and a single mom cause my last baby daddy didn't want nothing to do with me. Then he asked if I was married and I said only to Jesus. And he still didn't back off. I had to get to disgusting for UA-cam but yeah I won
Charlotte's face when she read the dude asking to see the house Girl you almost killed me I was eating rice and I breathed in like three grains of it 😂
Can we start drilling into people to have higher standards when they interact with people online. Compliment, supports and constructive criticism by all means, but creeps and rudeness needs to just end. It is crazy to me how in real life no thank you means no thank you and if you keep trying to talk to someone for whatever reason is harassing, but online some people think it is okay to keep harassing someone even after they say no.
As long as people, almost all people, are looking for digital convenience, that's not gonna' happen. You can have either an insulated world or a convenient one. They are pretty much mutually exclusive. One can dream though, right? I get trolled by rand-o creeps and I'm the exact opposite of a young hot lady... and pretty much nobody has my number, I am not on any social media aside from this one that only uses my pseudonym, and my phone is a "disposable" phone I keep recharging minutes on. I was even trolled on my phone the 2nd day I had it... a few days before I even had my own number memorized. My first text ever was "Send nudes". It only takes 0.001% or less of the digital population to have an army of neverending trolls. But hey, if you figure out a way to make that happen... for the love of God... please please please please make it happen! I'll make a bunch of social media accounts just to praise you on them and actually get involved in social media!
I remember in the olden days when people had to use the phone book to randomly call people and breathe heavily into the phone. Worked pretty good until caller ID.
I'm kinda happy to know there are many people who understand how creepy these messages are (because I personally know those who won't understand that). My experience is a bit different from this video but there's this guy who likes me and he kept on messaging me for 6 months although I was ignoring his messages. The only time I replied was when I told him I wasn't interested in him. I tried to explain I wasn't interested in him in every possible way but somehow he didn't quite understand that and his reponce was always "I'll wait for you until you will be ready". So I told him he was creeping me out and blocked him on WhatsApp. But then he found me on Instagram and started following me (of course I blocked him). I honestly don't understand what's going on in these kind of people's brain... He really creeps me out. I don't even know why I'm writing my experience here but I guess I needed someone who understands how creeped out I am😂
I used to do chat rooms a lot and actually met a few people that did it well. Lol Though couldn't say how they pulled it off while these guys just made it awkward as all get out.
@@N_0968 I was thinking the same On an Rpg platform it's a perfectly fine thing to do, it roots from older online Rpg (the very first ones didn't have graphics and everything "visual" was descripted after a *. Yes, I'm an old lady other than a huge nerd) But in this kind of messages it feels inappropriate. Also, it's not 1996 anymore, we have emoji and such now...
@@N_0968 Haha Me too. Actually where I met a good friend who I still write with a lot. You are right it makes a big difference when both sides participate.
Hilarious. I can’t believe anyone thinks that ** role playing stuff is the way to go. Amazing. And why is it always the most “I face in your beauty, Milady and am humbled” one’s that inevitably call the woman a bitch two messages later?
I'm 43, been with the same guy for 21 years (married 17 of them) and I was just thinking the same thing!! So glad to be married & really sad that this is the state of the dating scene/many dudes these days.
Not married but agree there's definitely some perks to not being out there with your 'stall set out'! For me, I got too old to be to of interest - perks to that too. I'd hate to be a teen today, bless their hearts. So many heavy expectations and potentially harmful pitfalls now.
i always smile at crazy ppl in public when i see them if i make eye contact to make it seem like i wasn’t just staring & judging harder than anyone else around 😂
My mind was just telling me to reply to their creepy text with another creepier text, like that doll one, I would've just pulled out some serial killer story and plopped in there, with the pics of the equipment.
I think the worst part is that many of these guys that go to boiling rage with a simple no thank you all likely think they are nice guys and that the world is just kicking them for being “nice”
A man messaged me and was talking to me, he said he was in the FBI(yeah right), he said he worked in criminal psychology and was trained in interrogation, every question I asked he wouldn't answer, would just say it was classified. I then asked where he trained(from what I understand, all agents start training at Quantico)...he answered, said the FBI special training facility in Kansas. I said, "hey you finally gave me a straight answer!" he replied with, "that's because you weren't expecting one...it's part of my training."
I was very creeped out by that “Doll?” Like wtf 😳 pervert? umm killer?? Ummm spoooooookyyyy. Wow 😳 I almost think he’s out there hunting fr and not bears 🐻🥺😱👺🤡
🍆 Girl, I love your videos! I watch them all the time. I gotta say though, that “yes m-Lord” hit me HARD and unexpectedly when I was trying to do my winged liner for work. Pretty sure it turned into a uni-brow from how hard I was laughing. Worth it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some of this would actually be pretty cute, if they knew the girl liked it or was familiar with it so it wouldn't be that weird. And if they would actually be nice and kind instead of going from *blushes softly* to "if you don't instantly live me you're a dumb b*tch!!!1!!11!"
yes, some do. A particular age group though. Probably not over 40 years old. And it doesn't matter what kind of sentence construction they use trying to sidle up to you, textually speaking, once they get a rebuff all Nice turns into Ice and Slice.
When I first met my husband, he was a shy guy. His dad was friends with my dad, and we hit it off. The first thing I did was offer him a slice of pizza "Would you like a slice?" And he gave me a tray of assorted peanuts (dry roasted, honey roasted, candy coated and chocolate covered) We mostly talked about flea markets. I went with him to one, two months later and he got me a pink watch and his dad got me glitter coin purse. When he met up with my parents, he gave my dad a Cleveland Browns cup and my mom a Barry Manilow CD. When I met his mom (his parents were divorced) I gave her a cute kitty mini statue, which she thought was cute. In return, she gave me a calendar with kittens and puppies.
Some real creepy guys DMs so this is how men now chat to women, I'm ashamed to be called a man. Chivalry isn't exactly dead I guess it depends on the circumstances & the guys in question.
Personally? This makes up about 66% of my interactions Right out the gate Day In Day Out on EVERY Single platform. Its not uncommon. I find it idk...bizarre...when nearly all guys are like “‘mon dieu!’I have never heard of such a thing! Thats Terrible.” Like the math doesnt add up on that one. 🙄 And 3/4 of the time they turn into creeps too thinking because they empathized-or faked it-for a second theyre good guys/entitled. Ugh.
There's a difference between "I love your smile" and "Smile for me". One is an appreciation, the other is a *command* and the difference is staggering.
lol... I had an old guy said to me I should smile more often, like in as right now smile while I was counting out the change for his purchase and on that day I wasnt feeling 100% well his wife told him to shush... I almost said fuck you... I did kinda half eye rolled when looking away from him... rude asshole....
I think chivalry actually should die because it’s pointlessly gendered. It puts women up on a pedestal when we really just want to be treated as peers and fellow human beings.
@@erinkemble5950 I’m so sorry. That sucks when it’s a customer because they are kind of holding you hostage. While they certainly deserve a “fuck you” they assume that you have to be nice to them no matter what they do.
@@margiepickle oh you don't have to be sorry, it's okay, I mean, he was the only ONE did that no one else had said that to me, so its a rare site, though I live local area, I know a lot of people in the area and some customers I knew when growing up while others I only recongised them through work. When that happened it was a weird timing too, my work place (Coles supermarket) have these little courses that you need to go through every so often to keep up what's going on in the store and updating tabacco refresher (gotta sign to say I know by law and store policy in regard that and that every three or 6 months) and there's the safety stuff needs to be refreshed, one of those was mental health) anyways it was around that time I have done it and it just nearly makes me tell him to fuck off, plus he was an older guy, like he would be "in my days, this how was done etc etc" kind of guy. He is lucky it was me serving him , not some other girl who could have been depressive mood but was okay to continue to work, that would have been bad.
Anyways I dunno what's worse, me being deaf/hearing impaired and face masks (I lipread) or that situation...
@@margiepickle Yes, today there seem to be just extremes around when dating.
I like the middle ground - I'm not delicate china that needs special treatment. I want good company, that treats me like an equal not false chivalry or vile d... pics.
In polite society this chivalry every one is talking about, was just a very tight regulation in decorum for men around unmarried women of the tone. After all the bargening chip had to stay undamaged and rumour free. It was also a tool for the men to check out the delicate ware to a certain extend withhout entering a courtship.
Be gone with it.
"...you're actually a birch.."
Me: correction, I'm a Whomping Willow that's about to whoop your ass..
I like this. 😂
Best comment! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😎😎😎😎😎
Hell yeah 🎉
oh god be careful he might enjoy that 🤣🤣 creeps don't work normal logic xD
😆😅🤣😂!!
I think something that these creeps fail to realize is that asking for nudes is ALWAYS creepy, no matter how eloquent you are.
That guy who wanted to dress her up like a doll, reminded me of a criminal minds episode with that very same thing...
Ahh. Are you talking about the episode with the lady who had stunted mentality because her dad raped her and gave her electroshock therapy to cover up what he did?
I KNEW IT! I knew this reminded me of something
I thought of Ted Bundy when i saw that part....
You mean the one where he tried to reanimate a dead girl after he took all her donated organs from the recipients?
Oml, yes
As a girl I can confirm that this happens all the time! I had a guy get pissed off that we didn’t match on tinder so he tracked me down on ig to find my Facebook to tell my mum I’m a tramp.... and then was confused when she called him out for being a twat
OMG... a determined twat....
That’s a psycho! I am worried for you. Also, I hope nobody else dates him. He sure sounds capable of murdering someone.
🤣🤣🤣
yet he confirmed why you didn't match.
I concur have encountered those creep factors texts, in person and in emails.
What really confuses me about the asterisk descriptive texting is that texting is a great way to socialize if you're socially awkward or have anxiety. The asterisks put the awkwardness back into the conversation and it give me anxiety. It's like all the negatives of a face to face conversation while removing all the positives.
I wonder how they even get the idea that this would be a good idea to put those strange asterisks in their text messages. And especially this strange creepy thoughts inside. Like ' staring confused at the wall.' I mean that's not normal in any context. If they said something like *i'm sad that you react negative to me* it would still be strange, but at least their *thoughts* wouldn't be so creepy. And all this demeaning talk. I'm sure everybody likes to hear that their just a stupid peasant and regrets not dating you/s. I mean do these people never self reflect what they are talking? They wouldn't be talked to like that so why should others?
It's a form of roleplay...but most people don't do it correctly. As a veteran online paragraph roleplayer, I can contest that it's not necessarily being socially awkward, but rather just being dense as frick. People who actually know how to roleplay know that you don't do actions in first person, anyways.
In short, those people annoy me, too.
@@KaiyaCorrbin I use these occasionally... not like these chodes do, though. Mine are more like *vomits forcefully*. Because sometimes an action needs described and this is the simplest, best way, not because my hands shake a little as I lift them off my lap to my pursed lips in anticipation.
Makes me wonder if their goal is to make others uncomfortable. Like any reaction is better than being ignored.
It just makes you look like a moron
Oh god the one asking her to be his doll to groom definitely sounds like a serial killer in the making… “put you in a deep sleep” um, like death you mean??
Ah, so he was the Dollmaker dude from Welcome To The Game?
Yeah. RED FLAG!
Yeah I got the death vibe from that too! Super creepy! Thank god I live with such a dangerous and temperamental house (lion)cat. Nobody would dare!
"It puts the lotion on its skin."
Definitely Buffalo Bill vibes from Silence of The Lambs!
Yes I hate when men tell me to smile, lol. Yes I do hiss and growl at them too
That's hot...
😂 I hate that too!! Like they assume you're unhappy and miserable, I guess we should all walk around like this😃. I have literally gotten into arguments over that comment lol. Like dude say hello and wait for a reply or kick rocks.
I get the opposite, guys asking me why I'm smiling so much, and what's so damn funny. I tell them I just think about funny things, a LOT! If they could see the ridiculous show going on inside my brain, they'd laugh too! Except, I'm probably laughing because I'm imagining him dressed as a Disney princess juggling chainsaws.
@CrazyCat Lady Definitely as bad! 🙄
@@LazyIRanch I have also gotten the aggressive “What are you so happy about all the time?!”
Me: 😳
I HATE those unprompted role-play messages too, and I was wondering why we dislike them so much. I mean me and Charlotte, tho I saw other women creeped out by them too. My theory is that they are manipulative in a boundary-crossing way and that's what makes us go 'uhhhhhh'. When someone texts 'I tickle you' it's just a text, but in the meta-verse of this 'world,' you were already tickled. No one asked you if you wanted to be, you were just touched. Same goes for 'kisses you' or 'hugs you'. In legit role-plays it would be 'goes for a tickle/goes for a hug' and the play-partner has a chance to go with it or say 'dodges' or something. But those creeps don't play by the rules, you were just tickled and that's that! Actual role-plays would not be okay with it!
While messages like 'stares at you, trying to determine if you like anime or not' are also manipulative, but in a less boundary-violating way; they contain a question that is not really asked, but you are expected to answer the question anyway. I dislike games like this; if you have a question, ASK ME. It's on you to ask, not do this weird lil dance and force me to play along.
And this reason; to me they show a lack of social skills. THose ppl don't know how to have a conversation in which they express their wants and emotions, so they go for a role-play description instead. It's pretty unappealing when a person is this immature.
This also shows a lack of understanding of what is appropriate and socially acceptable. Which is a kinda orange flag IMO. 🍆
Really, you shouldn't be role-playing at all if it's your first time messaging someone. That's just creepy
These people also probably read way too much Wattpad. Roleplays are great but man you have got to have had at least one normal conversation before trying to start a RP
Honestly when I was younger I used to do this role-play things with my friends, but only with the ones who agreed with it. Like I usually went "Ohh you're feeling sad?? Noo don't be sad! -hugs you- I'm here if you need me, okay?" and that sort of thing; usually it was to show affection to my friends. These guys are honestly creepy as hell
"Charlotte and I"
Couldn't have said it better myself. 👏🏽
I can't even count the number of times a guy has said some version of "but I'm attracted to you, so you can't be gay" like dude, that not how sexual orientation works
Not likely.
May I punch them?
@@erdstme Definitely!
legit had that a good few times😅
@@richardkrauss80 ...?
When they state their IQ and start using big words, you know they just threw a number out and have a dictionary/thesaurus handy
Yet they can't spell simple words 🤣 I love it bahahaha
Or they're one of THOSE. The ones that pepper their speech with as many $.50 words as possible- ALL the time- in an effort to sound smart. Can be found in droves on any gaming forum.
@@pyroman6000 THAT shit drives me crazy!!
@@stephk.9618 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know right??
@@pyroman6000 haha, the r/iamverysmart guys. Entertaining, yet still very annoying subreddit
Never have I been more grateful that my dating life was before cell phones! Young people today have SO much more to deal with. Stay safe everyone!
Yet it’s safer because one you don’t have to deal with it in person and can call police and block them
For the guy who wanted to see her house, she should have sent him a picture of a prison!😂
Or a tombstone. Then a picture of a zombie.
Absolutely🤘💙😂
Or the address to the police department
@@HelgaGrace2007 Also a Good One🤘💙😂
I would have sent a picture of the cemetery
Chivalry may not be dead but in many cases it is definitely comatose and, or on life-support.
But women wanted to be treated the same as men, remember? So why would we do things for women that we don’t do for other men? Chivalry is just another word for “women are weak and need special help”, or, you know, misogyny.
Chivalry is hooked up to the Iron Lung
Chivalry died when ladies disappeared.
Robert Cohen Good one
Chivalry does not get involved in the nameless, faceless digital world... that's troll world.
There's definitely good men out there, my husband being one of them. He's the best person I've ever known, and still can make me blush-20 years later.
A burp is a smart fart that took the elevator.
Ahahhahahahhahahahah
I'm screenshotting this one. It's pure gold 😂😂😂
This is incredible 😂
Burps can be huge too, just spend 15 minutes with my uncle
Bad news, I'm afraid. My digestive system is one way. If it's in there, there's only one way out.
Mind you, I do find Charlotte's burps kind of sexy - it's that unpretentious honesty and fun loving character that I find attractive. I'm too old now, of course, I don't want to be creepy or anything.
I love how these "men" are all so confident about their intelligence and the way they approach women, but you know they're going to end up alone.
Or at worst, turn incel !
they played too many role playing computer games... all nerds and possibly on the spectrum.
I love how the "intelligent" ones can't spell.
@@InservioLetum ugh
@@InservioLetum they didn't say anything about introverts! If you watch the video, you will know what they are talking about. Sliding in other people's dms, role-playing annoyingly and then trash talking and cursing when the other person asks them not to, is what they are talking about!
That "yes mi lord!" Gets me every time.
The funniest message I've ever seen was a screenshot of somebody replying to somebody who was sending the same kind of role play messages with asterisks and replied back with * shits pants aggressively * "oops sorry haha I drank milk today"
I REMEMBER THAT!!! I saw it too and busted a gut laughing!
I always just respond with * roleplays roleplaying *
* vomits cutely *
Charlotte saying “Yes MiLord” has me DYING
I literally just thought of this post and started laughing again.
Omg yes! It would be an amazing alarm clock sound :D
She sounds like the Warcraft 3 peasant (worker) that says the exact same phrase lol
ME TOO!!!
Petition Apple to make it a ringtone
An an introvert, I worry about saying something creepy to women, but I see these videos and realize, I probably have to fail pretty hard to come off creepy. 😅
As long as you don't start conversations with strangers using sexual remarks, you can avoid the absolute creep list without much trouble
I read few of your comments and you come across as a very decent guy so Im pretty sure you are fine xd
These guys: "What am I doing wrong?"
Also these guys: *Ask for nudes and make passionate declarations of love to women they barely know*
"love" more like "lust" loooool
Seriously, all of those that claim to be lonely are just looking for a lay.
And proceeding to call them bitches when they rightfully reject
Also uses * * in some weird roleplaying way
They are socially inept and not at all "geniuses" as they claim. They are typically loners and very nervous around women, with prettier women reducing them to cottage cheese. It's amazing how many of these bipeds are incapable of simply chatting WITHOUT the use of scripted "*holding his breath*" descriptions, and it's easy to see the women are very tired of that and the ridiculous comments they make.
Yes!
As a male I'm often enough ashamed by people of the same sex. I'm really sorry for every creep you have to deal with and I just want to let you know, there are enough good men out there, let the assholes just go extinct by picking the good guys and guys tell other men they did something wrong when you witness it. It can't be solely up to woman to deal with this problem!
The problem is that the assholes are the loudest while the REAL nice guys are the quiet ones.
@@donaldlayton437 real nice guys stand up for women being harassed by “nice” guys. Not stay quiet.
I hear ya. I feel so bad when watching the videos of women who get creeped on regularly. It can be very scary. It makes me so angry that people act like that to other people.
Given their response (when they are turned down instantly)... I'd hate to see what they'd do if the girl gave them a chance. And after they knew some of her friends, address, etc. Scary.
But where do we find them??? They all start off nice and then once they've 'got you' it's suddenly all minimal effort
"Doesn't inspire my Fallopian tubes to release eggs" hahahahahaha 😂😂 Charlotte, you're brilliant!
Why is it that when a person refuses, the other person IMMEDIATELY goes to the extreme, calling names?
coz a lot of ppl are entitled babies ?
@Everclear Great explanation without having to go into some deep psychology like I was thinking of. Or he's an incel. Makes me think of that British guy in LA, Elliot Rodgers?, that killed people just cuz he hated women or being rejected.
Literally had someone call me toxic and manipulative just because I didn’t text back fast enough because he felt rejected lol
Because fragile masculinity
What does a child do when you tell them no?
They cry and scream and hit you.
I could go on.
Note to... everyone, really but especially these men: "You're very ____ for a ____" is NEVER a compliment, especially not a good one
Unless you have read that "how to get women" book. Whatever it's called.
I'm sure one of the tips there is to use the "flirt with insults will get you a woman. Because all women like being insulted to show them that you aren't afraid to say your mind. But also mix in a complement. Example ' you are very ____, even though you _____' or 'you are very ____ but lucky for you I like that"
My tip is just be who you are. If you can't find a partner that can accept you for you. Then move on. Better be alone then stuck in a relationship where you must be someone else.
True!!!
@@angelicus-9307 Yeah no.
@@angelicus-9307 well be careful, Sometimes who you are is not a good person so be the best realistically most healthiest version of yourself
Unless it's Lucien Lachance inviting me to the Dark Brotherhood, forget it.
I am in my 60"s & I never understood why some guys don"t understand that JUST BECAUSE YOUR INTERESTED DOES NOT MEAN WE AUTOMATICALLY RETURN THE INTEREST! Get over your self already! Things haven"t changed that much apparently. EXCEPT when I was younger I could walk away & not worry about it anymore. Now with social media you they can chase & hound you non stop.
Imagine if the role playing guys do that in person.
He approaches an interest/potential victim. Starts talking to himself.
“Chet approaches with some reservation...”
“What? What do you want?”
“Chet panics. The anxiety irritates his digestive track. His irritable bowel syndrome emits an inaudible growl...”
“Ew, no! I heard that clearly!”
“Chet’s bowels voided. He hoped his khakis and Batman boxers would hold back the intestinal wrath...”
“Oh my god!”
underrated comment
Yeah I’m here to bump this.
Dude, you made me belly laugh! 😂
Brilliant.
Oh my God, indeed.... lol
Creep: “I have multiple awards” 12:34
Me: here’s another one *hands you a certificate* _”Forever Alone”_
this comment is underrated xD
A lot of these sound like incels who are one rejection away from losing it. Stay far far away! It's amazing how quickly they go from trying to sound sophisticated and complimentary to rage and insulting! It's like they've never successfully spoken to a girl IRL
Oh man! This reminds me of something that happened to me at a train station. I was sitting on a bench waiting for the train and was wearing nurse scrubs/ my hospital tag. This guy walks up to me and barely speaking fluent English, says "Hi. Do you want a boyfriend?" I looked at him like he was crazy. My response was "No, I'm good." He just walked away. I was definitely creeped out.
What in the world would ever make these people think that being creepy would get them some action? Especially the deep sleep doll dude; WTF?!?!
With the world being as weird as it is right now, u might never know. Maybe some women out there get a kick out of being treated as a doll. We already see a few making big bucks just by acting like a dog all day. Who knows huh?🤔🤔
That's the creepiest thing ever mentioned in this video, I think. It's like from a thriller movie or something.
That totally matched silence of the lambs on the creep factor scale...
And the award for the creepiest text goes toooooo.....
I know creeps who actually get laid that way. It's a numbers game, keep dialing numbers until you get lucky. It's the digital version of my day's Lounge Lizards. They just keep approaching women, hitting on them, and moving on to the next immediately after getting rejected. Half of them walk away with a snide remark like "Lesbian", "Stuck up b^tch", or some other feeble attempt to save face. Only over the phone, getting a ticked-off friend to attack you or have a drink thrown on you is far far far less likely.
It "REALLY creeps someone out when you burp?"
It cracks me up, when you burp (& Hiss).
I had no idea the weird role playing thing was actually so common.... God help us.
I feel sorry for my daughter who has to constantly put up with this.
I feel sorry for my nieces for the same reason. At least one of them had the good sense to beat a fool with her flip flop for pulling a stunt like this 😂
Put other men in check who speak about women as if they are objects.
I was the last person in my circle to get a cell phone, about a decade ago. Before I even had my own number memorized, nonetheless gave it out to anyone, my first text was "Send nudes".
@@That80sGuy1972 i had someone(a guy) ask if i was someone else, someone named Dan. It happened a second time from a women named tiffany.
@@magicrabbit9446 That one sounds like you got an old phone number. I figured I had the same thing until one of my lady friends said some guys have dialer apps that try numbers until they connect with that text. I gave her the "that's BS" face but she told me that's how she met and dated her psycho ex for a while.
If you start a text to a stranger with "Hey Baby" you're a creep.
A lot of girls do this, when they want something lol.
As soon as those come up on a early tinder convo its like nope
I’d go Hey Buddy!
what if you're texting your 6 month old niece?
@@thesuperginge1348 Then they aren't a stranger....
Also....that's one smart 6 month old
@@Mewse1203 I missed the "stranger" specific part of OP's comment.
Also hell yeah
People are losing the social graces and nuances we once had since many interactions are no longer face to face, sadly. Went into a pharmacy yesterday, and there was a woman with an unruly child at the register. She left and I could discern that the cashier was having a bad day. Kinda obvious when slamming cash drawer shut, etc. So I proceed to register and remark to the cashier how pretty her nails are. (They were painted nicely but nothing too out of the ordinary). My comment made a difference. She appeared calmer and was smiling as she said "thank you."
Kindness cost nothing yet it is in short supply these days. I hope the rest of that woman's day got better. It's the smallest courtesies that sometimes count the most.
🍆 Thank you for reinforcing my desire to stay at home with my cats. Stay safe, everybody!
Kitty cuddles!
Hold up ima add something to that emoji there
🔪🪓🔨⛏🔧⚔️🧨💣🔫
Hahaha. I'm currently snuggled up with one of them (have 2) and I so support this statement!
I asked the universe for a soulmate, but wasn't specific enough and got a furry one. Reading these I am no longer sure said universe màde a mistake...
Same!
Yep! My dog is my best friend! 🐶❤️
So many examples of insta-block. I'm thinking back to a pre-computer world where the appopriate response would be a strong slap across the face. Oh, the good old days!
Or a drink in the face...
Not worth the alcohol abuse...lol
It is nice to be able to block someone. Couldn’t do that in the old days!
Thanks to modern technology, creeps get to menace hundreds in the time it used to take dozens and now cowardly wussies can join in on the action because a slap across the face, a drink thrown on them, or a protective large friend hurting them are no longer options. Ah, and it can be done as a faceless interaction via a burner phone. (sarcasm in the next word) Yay!
I know creeps who get laid doing that... far more rejections but it only takes one positive to make mass-trolling worth it.
🍆 I'm so glad I missed this part of online dating! Never been so thankful for my husband who is so completely normal LOL never had to Wade through this kind of complete creepy bullshit. Hats off to those 21st century woman who do have to deal with it. I fear for my daughter and the creepers she'll have to endure
“That doesn’t inspire my Fallopian tubes to release eggs.”
You nearly killed me with the tea I was drinking.
🍆
Yes me'lord
Dead!!!!
For the record, in the UK "knock you up" means come over to say hi, as in knock on your door.
@@lindafreeman7030 Being part British and living there for years I've never heard that. Is it a regional thing?
I don't know; it's something I picked up reading British novels, and seeing lists of cross-cultural "things that don't mean what you think they mean." ( see also "rubber".) It may be specific to eras, classes, or subcultues.
@@lindafreeman7030 I know rubber. Very. Well...!!! I went into the US Navy and asked a Petty Officer for a rubber. He proceeded to chew me out because he thought I was asking him inappropriate stuffs. And then when I freaked out and he freaked out saying sorry and explaining what rubber meant here... IM SHOOK! HAHA
Once I had a creep Italian guy message me and he said “ you’re so beautiful! I would kill for your beauty.. I buy you a ticket to Italy! One way of course!” I think he wanted to wear my skin ..
should've got the ticket and sold it lol
Yikes! Too much, fer sure.
I think he misspoke. Trying to say something like you are so beautiful that he can die for you. In Spanish there are many expresions about kill or die for. It's a common thing in both languages. Hopefully was a misunderstanding.
did him being italian had anything to do with his behavior ? im just wondering
@@IvandeLeonPaz perhaps.. but it just sounded creepy lol
You took the word right out of my mouth. There is no faster way to wipe a smile off a woman’s face, then a man telling her to smile. Straight up facts right there.😂😂😂
* blocks you before you can block me * had me dead 😂
I had the imagery of them with their head bowed and they just press a single button for Block all while 8C "B-bu-bu-but I was so niiiiiiice".
Yes, as if them not accepting msgs from the girl is going to bother HER. What kind of idiot thinks that way?
🤣😅
Ces "hommes" très bizarres ont tous des QI de génie selon eux 😂😂😂
Incel vibes
Vraiment pitoyable, effrayant et malaisant
Yes, lol. That hearkens back to my church upbringing and a phrase that "sometimes God closes a door for a reason." Bye, Felicia, bye, male Karen! Lol
I'm a waitress and I can't count the times men told me to smile (even worse since we're wearing masks at work)
@@RoysMrs yeah, some say they "sense" me smiling when I'm reeeeally not
Hospitality. Ten years of random idiots saying "Why aren't you smiling?" and me responding "why do you want to know?"...
Hah ha, at least with masks you can just lie and say you're smiling, like nonstop!
I am 66 years old. When I was a 19 year old cashier at a Sheraton Hotel restaurant, a man told me I would be pretty if I would just smile. I remember this viscerally 41 years later because it was the morning after my beloved grandmother's death and because I was fired for my response to him. It seems the world, or men, has changed little.
I'm a flight attendant, same shi*.
This is giving me flashbacks of the guy who said he wanted to "storm my castle" and did a whole role-play of besieging said castle when I said I wouldn't go out with him.
🤣🤣🤣
You help people & don’t know it. I had a *REALLY* rough week. I thought about using today. Instead I stayed home, worked on my children’s book, & watched your videos & laughed.
I’m the master of my own ship, but entertainers/artists like yourself make it easier for my sails to catch the right wind. I adore your content! Thanks
How's your children's book coming? You seem cool and now you got me invested.
❤️❤️❤️
for the one that wanted to know where they live, she should have given them the address of a random police station
And she should have contacted the police to have them file a report on this weirdo. Also, she COULD get their identity and info and report it. I've gotten weird texts, often scams and such, on my phone, and I respond with a "Thank you for subscribing..." message informing them that they just signed up for a $15 a month "subscription". It's funny, but I never hear from them again.
@@simplywonderful449 That’s a GREAT response when some idiotic weird-o is texting you!! I may borrow that response whenever I get a call from those simpletons who all start off with: (in a cheery upbeat voice) “Why hello there! Are you having a great day??!! I sure am!! tee hee hee!!!!(Fake laugh, fake EVERYTHING) And, I’m about to make your day even MORE fabulous with (fill in the blank)!!” They attempt to go on with their phony script with: “ I’m calling you today to let you know about something that is REALLY outstanding, AND it will save you just tons of money!!” 😮 🤑{Okay, I seldom let them get any farther into their sales pitch , BUT sometimes, if I’ve got a little extra time, I will absolutely mess with THEIR brain-challenged little minds! Trust me, It can be highly entertaining and just plain fun to mess with them!! ,
As in: (After their initial sales pitch, I’ll get all bubbly and start saying:) “Tee hee!!!! Tee hee!!!! Golly-gee-williycurs!! This is just gonna be oodles of fun! Hey! GUESS WHAT??! I just got all tickleey inside because I just KNOW that you and me are gonna end up being best buddies! Oh-muy-gawd! Now, wouldn’t that just be the BEST thing EVER?!?! We’ll be best friends won’t we? By the way, what did you say your name is?” (And I would just go on and on about being besties. 😂😂 And if they get a little too insistent about giving me more of their sales pitch, I just start crying until I am sobbing-loudly 😭😭😭 and then I ask them): “Can, or will we still be “besties” if I listen to the rest of their stupid little sales thingie”? {Now, if they’re still on the line and you would be surprised at how long some of them will keep trying to make that sale), I’ll make them) “promise and double promise that they will totally still be my bestest friend after I give them my charge card number?) which is where I usually lose them because I just start spouting off a bunch of random numbers and asking if they’re still my bestie. LOL!!!
Okay, I understand that people need to make money somehow, but I just cannot stand those little shîts interrupting my day, and pissing me off with their fake little happy voices. But, hey…the longer they’re on the phone with me, I KNOW that they’re not ripping off someone else-especially our elderly population. Well, I believe I will stop here. Sorry for the length of my comment. I double PROMISE you (😉) that I am going to stop writing before I end up writing a whole frikking book!! 😁😁 😂😂
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*All the way YES! THANK YOU for saying "NEVER tell a woman to smile!"*
*Not sure why, but this REALLY GRINDS MY GEARS, when someone says this to me!*
*I'm talking, it REALLY pisses me off!*
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This video should be titled. "How Social Media Allowed The Freaks To Mix With The Rest Of Us"
Oh wow. That would be an absolutely perfect video title for this!
Totally agree!
It's not, though, is it.... it's poor upbringing and overt tolerance of intolerable behaviour. If men were lashed for being rude, they'd shape up quite quickly in the communities where such intervention is necessary. Similarly, if women were lashed for turning men into toads and dancing by moonlig---
Oh hang on....
'Hey can i make you some fried shrimp rice and then show you my shrimp?'
'Sure, can we fry that one too?'
But in reality, she's fully capable of measuring out one-half of an inch by herself.
This comment gave me a chuckle😁
I love u so much. I literally watch you all the time, when I'm feeling sad, happy, mad, tired, bored you're always there for me.
Just realized I left a creepy comment on this creepy message video lol 😆
Okay, you have got to be the most relatable UA-camr I know. Been watching you for SO long! Always put me in a good mood and I watch you all time. Thanks for making me smile!
"You're actually a birch" I can't get over that one lmfao
You may be a birch, but I still pine for you.
@@suzi_mai damn! wish I'd thought of that 1
What, white and pasty, thin with skin peeling off??
Guessing u don't have an IQ in the triple digits, then.
Same and the BOILOGY one lmfaoooo!!!!!!! How is that supposed to get him laid when he can't spell and is insulting an entire gender? LOL.
I just thought I would let you know, I’ve been watching your videos while my daughter and I get ready for the day. She’s only home for the weekend from college. She couldn’t see what I was watching, but she can listen to it and ask me what the heck was I watching. And I asked her why and she said it’s because you’re freaking hilarious.!!!
The asterisk thing makes me itchy and want a knife. I feel like I would be extremely paranoid about them coming around me after they sent a message like that.
My boyfriend and I do that but only when we're talking sexy at work
As someone who has done online role-playing for a _very_ long time, that shit where they do it in personal, out of character/out of story context to try & be flirty or cute is CREEPY AF.
It's still worse in person ... Waiting for the previous class in BioChem 201` to get out of the classroom, Sir Unintroduced offers a wilty rose and tries to kiss "M'lady's" hand while making pseudo-Tudor noises - Creepy! There's no way to block him! Is this the same idiot who 'sounds' the same online? If it is, does he know where I live?!
the "boilgy" and the slow laugh, im dyinggg😂😂
Charlotte: My farts are usually silent
Charlotte's family: We told you to get your hearing checked...
Def' get one o those media chairs.
21 years together and married for almost 14 years, I still open the passenger car door for her. Chivalry is still alive here
GOOD for u Sir!!!
My hubie do‘s that after 15 years rela. and 7 years married🤩. I know that I‘m lucky. The trick is also treet him like a King and you will be his Queen 4 ever.
Good job trying to find validation from internet strangers... here's a cookie for you...
Alive but gasping because its being choked
my husband is very chivalrous. We've been together over 18 years, married 17 in August 2021.
Dms in dating apps just be a giant pile of “ohhh THATS why you’re here…”
For me, chivalry will never be dead. I’m proud of being a gentleman xx
👏🏽 Never let this horrible dating scene or insecure men make you believe that you're lame. We need more of you!
NO doubt these guys are creeps
Do you say mlady?
@@ShaeNik yeah these garden tools need their retirement plan
Lol @Dr Steve were you at because guys like you are far and few between
"Never tell a woman to smile"
Umm, never tell anyone to smile. I've had a number of women tell me to smile before.
My smile involves my middle finger at that point, not my mouth.
I've been told to smile, but it's always by some panhandler. I always say, "I am smiling, asshole."
The shirtless guy asking for a smile sure gets around cuz I swear he’s messaged me with that exact pic and used that exact line before😂
"At least it's coming out of the attic & not out of the basement". I'm gonna say that to my husband, the next time we're in bed together. LMAO!!!
People that feel the need to drop their IQ ranks in a conversation is usually people with the lowest scores. You can even confirm that by how many typos they have in a single text🤦🤦🤦🤦
academics don't determine intelligence.
Subject-verb agreement is also a good indicator.
Culture and spelling aren't indicators...though higher IQ can lead to more culture and better spelling ^^
Also, those who feel the need to drop their IQ rank can't answer to "With which standard deviation ?" neither "And which percentile is that?".
Goes hand in hand with people who claim they have “multiple degrees” like that equates to intelligence. I got into a crazy argument with this chick who claimed she was a doctor about there being several reasons a person can have hair loss. She tried to advise someone over the internet to “just change their diet and exercise”. For hair loss? When I told her that was the stupidest advice ever, she said I didn’t know what I was talking about and she did because she has “multiple degrees” and therefore qualified to tell this person that. Needless to say, I got blocked that day but it was fun arguing with someone sooooo “intelligent” that they were able to earn so many degrees.
@@caillew7618 And yes hair loss can simply happens after a big body stress (like COVID). Exercising and diet will do absolutely nothing ^^
It's the classical authority argument.
The best use of creepy and weird messages is to chase off people you never want to hear from again.
Also.... your comment of “ at least it’s coming out of the attic and not the basement” was so funny!! 😆
Thanks for the laugh!
I cracked up at that one so bad lol.
LMFAO those were horrifying and hilarious at the same time. I used to be big into role playing but I never did it with random people on KiK lol...just wow.
I still RP because it keeps my creativity up and I only do it with people who respect the fact I do NOT do smut under any circumstances. Fluff, cool, cute, adorable, but smut, let me stand over the sink in my bathroom ew no thank you there goes me lunch. ¬_¬
I did try strangers but immediately stopped after the DBH one where I was a child android and he was trying to disrespect me. Humans, honestly, I ask you. I hope I remember to report him.
@@Roadent1241 my husband and I do it on occasion but it’s not in a creepy or sexual way either lol. Just for lighthearted stuff cx if he would have introduced himself to me that way….. almost automatic no 😅
@@AmyHoldaway27 Understandable XD I get excited when people ask if I RP though I know nowadays it's probably going to end up "Yeah you said no smut but I'm doing it anyway why are you ignoring me now????????? female dog" ¬_¬
Sorry I RP seriously for creativity and imagination and not just 'to get my rocks on' or whatever.
@@Roadent1241 lol it gets a bad rep now 😅
@@AmyHoldaway27 Yeah, it's stupid.
8:50 Heckin yes, with the Mike Myers quote.
So much "tips fedora" energy
So much katana and waifu pillow energy.
I hate that these guys have ruined fedoras for me....I actually kinda liked them, but I wouldn't dare wear one any more
I once wanted to see how far I could go with an internet creep to creep him out. I had to tell him I had 3 kids was 8 months pregnant and a single mom cause my last baby daddy didn't want nothing to do with me. Then he asked if I was married and I said only to Jesus. And he still didn't back off. I had to get to disgusting for UA-cam but yeah I won
Charlotte's face when she read the dude asking to see the house
Girl you almost killed me I was eating rice and I breathed in like three grains of it 😂
Can we start drilling into people to have higher standards when they interact with people online. Compliment, supports and constructive criticism by all means, but creeps and rudeness needs to just end. It is crazy to me how in real life no thank you means no thank you and if you keep trying to talk to someone for whatever reason is harassing, but online some people think it is okay to keep harassing someone even after they say no.
As long as people, almost all people, are looking for digital convenience, that's not gonna' happen. You can have either an insulated world or a convenient one. They are pretty much mutually exclusive. One can dream though, right? I get trolled by rand-o creeps and I'm the exact opposite of a young hot lady... and pretty much nobody has my number, I am not on any social media aside from this one that only uses my pseudonym, and my phone is a "disposable" phone I keep recharging minutes on. I was even trolled on my phone the 2nd day I had it... a few days before I even had my own number memorized. My first text ever was "Send nudes". It only takes 0.001% or less of the digital population to have an army of neverending trolls. But hey, if you figure out a way to make that happen... for the love of God... please please please please make it happen! I'll make a bunch of social media accounts just to praise you on them and actually get involved in social media!
@@That80sGuy1972 😂 we can dream and hope. If I have kids I will not let them get away with being creeps or trolls online.
@@CLBrierley Here's to hoping. **raises drink**
We have to stop normalizing ridiculous behaviors, it all goes together.
Agreed.
Well, personally I’m entertained by Charlotte hissing. It always makes me laugh, so...
Smile, Charlotte.
Amen to that, sister! NEVER TELL A WOMAN TO SMILE!!!!!!
I remember in the olden days when people had to use the phone book to randomly call people and breathe heavily into the phone. Worked pretty good until caller ID.
My friends and I did that!! 5 kids squashed in a phonebox (ye olden dayes indeed) 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm kinda happy to know there are many people who understand how creepy these messages are (because I personally know those who won't understand that). My experience is a bit different from this video but there's this guy who likes me and he kept on messaging me for 6 months although I was ignoring his messages. The only time I replied was when I told him I wasn't interested in him. I tried to explain I wasn't interested in him in every possible way but somehow he didn't quite understand that and his reponce was always "I'll wait for you until you will be ready". So I told him he was creeping me out and blocked him on WhatsApp. But then he found me on Instagram and started following me (of course I blocked him). I honestly don't understand what's going on in these kind of people's brain... He really creeps me out. I don't even know why I'm writing my experience here but I guess I needed someone who understands how creeped out I am😂
I'm sorry you had to deal with this. Just keep blocking and be careful not to let your personal information slip
When the video buffers on Charlotte's puzzled face and it just makes sense.
Ugh, if anyone tried these asterisks with me they’d get blocked pretty fast.
I used to do chat rooms a lot and actually met a few people that did it well. Lol Though couldn't say how they pulled it off while these guys just made it awkward as all get out.
@@sapphirem.5106 I used to actually role play years ago but the point was that both were doing it and playing characters.
@@N_0968 I was thinking the same
On an Rpg platform it's a perfectly fine thing to do, it roots from older online Rpg (the very first ones didn't have graphics and everything "visual" was descripted after a *. Yes, I'm an old lady other than a huge nerd)
But in this kind of messages it feels inappropriate.
Also, it's not 1996 anymore, we have emoji and such now...
*stares in confusion* But why tho?
@@N_0968 Haha Me too. Actually where I met a good friend who I still write with a lot. You are right it makes a big difference when both sides participate.
" How not to get a date" should be the queen's next series.
🤣 lmao. " Doesn't inspire my fallopian tubes to release eggs." Charlotte Dobre everyone!
Hilarious. I can’t believe anyone thinks that ** role playing stuff is the way to go. Amazing. And why is it always the most “I face in your beauty, Milady and am humbled” one’s that inevitably call the woman a bitch two messages later?
I’m almost 40 & married. Is this the same guy or is this how men talk these days??? I’ve never been so happy to be married!!!
I'm 43, been with the same guy for 21 years (married 17 of them) and I was just thinking the same thing!! So glad to be married & really sad that this is the state of the dating scene/many dudes these days.
Its unfortunately lots of them.
Not married but agree there's definitely some perks to not being out there with your 'stall set out'! For me, I got too old to be to of interest - perks to that too. I'd hate to be a teen today, bless their hearts. So many heavy expectations and potentially harmful pitfalls now.
Girl, same.
Longterm relationship here. Honestly, I am very happy to not have to deal with this weirdness
Definitely one of the better ones I've seen ever!! That was absolutely fantastic
Telling someone you want to gaze at their flesh makes me think you are going to be premiered on "The Next 48 Hours"
SEVERAL of these would make me want to send a picture my son & his Sheriffs Deputy vehicle!!
i always smile at crazy ppl in public when i see them if i make eye contact to make it seem like i wasn’t just staring & judging harder than anyone else around 😂
My mind was just telling me to reply to their creepy text with another creepier text, like that doll one, I would've just pulled out some serial killer story and plopped in there, with the pics of the equipment.
now that's a good 1
I think the worst part is that many of these guys that go to boiling rage with a simple no thank you all likely think they are nice guys and that the world is just kicking them for being “nice”
Nice guys don't believe that they're entitled sex.
I love the hissing comment. Ngl I have hissed at people before. It is very fun
A man messaged me and was talking to me, he said he was in the FBI(yeah right), he said he worked in criminal psychology and was trained in interrogation, every question I asked he wouldn't answer, would just say it was classified. I then asked where he trained(from what I understand, all agents start training at Quantico)...he answered, said the FBI special training facility in Kansas. I said, "hey you finally gave me a straight answer!" he replied with, "that's because you weren't expecting one...it's part of my training."
Queen 👸👑 Charlotte making our days brighter!!!
Always 🍆 (per Charlotte’s request 😉 adding emoji)
Absolutely yes 🙌🏽🌈❤️ queen 👑 of “us“ 🥔 🥔’s....👍🏽🤣🤣🤣😂😂 she’s hilarious and sweet too.
I was very creeped out by that “Doll?” Like wtf 😳 pervert? umm killer?? Ummm spoooooookyyyy. Wow 😳 I almost think he’s out there hunting fr and not bears 🐻🥺😱👺🤡
6:00 I think he wants a corpse not a doll...not kidding. Creepy.
🍆 Girl, I love your videos! I watch them all the time. I gotta say though, that “yes m-Lord” hit me HARD and unexpectedly when I was trying to do my winged liner for work. Pretty sure it turned into a uni-brow from how hard I was laughing. Worth it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I want to let u know that I appreciate your UA-cam channel. It puts a smile on my face. Happy Sunday... xoxo from Florida.
St. Pete!
Do guys actually do that unsolicited random role play shit to girls they want to talk to? 🤦🏾♀️🙄
@@darksidelaegrinna 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some of this would actually be pretty cute, if they knew the girl liked it or was familiar with it so it wouldn't be that weird.
And if they would actually be nice and kind instead of going from *blushes softly* to "if you don't instantly live me you're a dumb b*tch!!!1!!11!"
yes, some do. A particular age group though. Probably not over 40 years old. And it doesn't matter what kind of sentence construction they use trying to sidle up to you, textually speaking, once they get a rebuff all Nice turns into Ice and Slice.
@@darksidelaegrinna yeah…. Make a bad rep for anime lovers (like my super sweet husband).
This is mild 😂
When I first met my husband, he was a shy guy. His dad was friends with my dad, and we hit it off. The first thing I did was offer him a slice of pizza "Would you like a slice?" And he gave me a tray of assorted peanuts (dry roasted, honey roasted, candy coated and chocolate covered) We mostly talked about flea markets. I went with him to one, two months later and he got me a pink watch and his dad got me glitter coin purse. When he met up with my parents, he gave my dad a Cleveland Browns cup and my mom a Barry Manilow CD. When I met his mom (his parents were divorced) I gave her a cute kitty mini statue, which she thought was cute. In return, she gave me a calendar with kittens and puppies.
Some real creepy guys DMs so this is how men now chat to women, I'm ashamed to be called a man. Chivalry isn't exactly dead I guess it depends on the circumstances & the guys in question.
Personally? This makes up about 66% of my interactions Right out the gate Day In Day Out on EVERY Single platform.
Its not uncommon. I find it idk...bizarre...when nearly all guys are like “‘mon dieu!’I have never heard of such a thing! Thats Terrible.”
Like the math doesnt add up on that one. 🙄 And 3/4 of the time they turn into creeps too thinking because they empathized-or faked it-for a second theyre good guys/entitled. Ugh.
Just speaking to us as if we're normal human beings will put u in the Knight in shining armor these days.
It's not only the texts. You got no imagination what kind of pics we get. Horrifying. And sometimes I wonder why men embarrass themselves this way.
🍆 they say "let me worship youuuu" when we just wanna be treated like a human being😐 can't they just do that? Creeps
Charlotte you’re incredible and I heart you and your content! ❤️ thanks for calling out all creepers!!
Charlotte’s laughter at these is so genuine and pure!!