BEING THE NEW DEFAULT Ramble | HOW did this happen? More Answers. | Dissociative Identity Disorder

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  • @HoshikoStarz
    @HoshikoStarz 3 роки тому +69

    Im kind of interested in reading your book if you ever publish

    • @phoenix72999
      @phoenix72999 3 роки тому +6

      Same. Honestly, I understand that this whole thing is about mental health and thus very serious and nothing me as a singlet will ever completely relate to or want to experience, but your inner world and everything you describe just sounds interesting. It makes me want to learn about it.

  • @Sarteth
    @Sarteth 3 роки тому +32

    Don't be too hard on Cleveland. After all, the kinds of trauma that fragmented all of you so much means there's quite a bit that has to be SAFELY worked through. Each of you holds a particular part and, obviously, Cleveland is protecting so many of you from something truly horrid.

  • @katie949
    @katie949 3 роки тому +19

    I’m glad to see that you’re doing better now. Keep on rambling Beige, it’s very calming. Corvid, I send extra love and hugs to you. Take all the time you need Dorian, you deserve a break. Have a great day everyone

  • @Elienaisuper2
    @Elienaisuper2 3 роки тому +19

    When you were describing your type of Fusion and you said, "they smash them together, I thought about the shipping meme of "now kiss"

  • @almad.7824
    @almad.7824 3 роки тому +17

    can't wait for those books!! honestly yalls system (im aware i say "yall" too much) is the first system we've come across that was something like ours. this is the best DID channel we've ever found! ~Ce

  • @reneebecker2723
    @reneebecker2723 3 роки тому +11

    I love these rambling videos. And I am so excited you're writing a book. I have always thought you could write an amazing graphic novel series. I am so glad to see you looking healthier. I hope Acrylic is OK as well. Sending so much love and healing to both systems. 💗

  • @Alex-rw9nn
    @Alex-rw9nn 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you. I’m sorry you’re stuck with the burden of knowledge, thanks Beige.

  • @druscilla7138
    @druscilla7138 3 роки тому +7

    No dead name allowed

  • @defonthana
    @defonthana 3 роки тому +4

    About Cleveland... its not a long time ago that i thought about own memories and that i am always angry when i do not get the information or simply cant remember. But its only recently that i realized how important it is to gradually get information. Cleveland was formed for his role and so he is doing it good. If the information would be bearable the brain may wouldnt have split. So be kind on yourself. And since i am studying a lot on formation of systems the way yours were formed...the way it works and its hierarchy has its purpose and its safer sometimes to let it be. But... be gentle on yourself, try to embrace your new role Beige and let me tell you....there are more polyfragmented systems out there than one would hope (not in meaning systems are bad but u can imagine, it were better no one needed to split). I actually heard something very specifically in german system and therapy and that was considering the color blue. And it reminded me of Hollow. But i will not ask anything, for your comfort and for not spreading wild assumptions. So stay safe...stay awesome and thanks for all your insight!!

  • @almad.7824
    @almad.7824 3 роки тому +5

    someone: "it's always better to have knowledge about what you're facing"
    me: "...uHM-"

  • @lynnk9621
    @lynnk9621 3 роки тому +6

    Crocheting while watching these videos always is a nice way to get the updates. This is a trying time and I hope you are as well as you can be.

  • @orchide3017
    @orchide3017 3 роки тому +5

    Nice to meet you Beige! Interesting side note, I'm crocheting beige toys for my cat as I listen. Hahaha

  • @theonewiththecrazyidk8413
    @theonewiththecrazyidk8413 3 роки тому +3

    Can I please design one out your backgrounds for your intro? It would mean a lot

  • @DarkBlossomsinc
    @DarkBlossomsinc 3 роки тому +2

    We are a newly discovered system. Well, I guess we knew for awhile but hovered in denial for a long time. Your description of Cleveland matches one of our people perfectly. I think we are sure he is a gatekeeper. He always says "you will never learn if I just tell you." I never realized there were roles.
    I cant wait to read your book if you write one!
    I am the new host as of this last week or so too! I'm noticing we change hosts every 2-3 years. Nice to meet you Beige! Thank you for being so informative. -Lia

  • @yan-5495
    @yan-5495 3 роки тому +2

    You have come so far. And you manage to convey a lot, in spite of the limits to what you can say openly at this point. I wish you all the (sorry for this phrase) best.

  • @tinminutebookreviews5126
    @tinminutebookreviews5126 3 роки тому +3

    I’m happy things with your system are getting better 😊😊😊

  • @lj0727
    @lj0727 2 роки тому

    Such a complicated system!! We have such a hard time keeping track and working as a team with our 11 (maybe 12 lol). We have just recently found your channel so are looking forward to learning about all your alters! ❤️🙂

  • @kobrasayyadi7776
    @kobrasayyadi7776 Рік тому

    I really like Beige. He comes across as very genuine and chill. I like his mellow attitude, lilting speech and endearing sense of humour. Basically, I vibe. I am also in my early 20's so I appreciate the segment on growing and embracing change. Super excited about the books! Hope everyone in the system is doing well and you are taking care of yourselves. Lots of love.

  • @briefisbest
    @briefisbest 3 роки тому +2

    You don't have an audible lisp or stutter that comes across in the recording, at least?

  • @ArtsyRosie
    @ArtsyRosie 3 роки тому +1

    i would love to hear you guys talk on your thoughts around structural dissociation and formation of parts, you have a pretty unique perspective on it and id much rather watch you than 2 hour lectures

  • @JackW-hp7op
    @JackW-hp7op 2 місяці тому

    your explaniations are so gooddut i do have a quesion... do any of your alters feel like a coat being put on?

  • @druscilla7138
    @druscilla7138 3 роки тому +1

    Welcome beige.great job at hosting.take time and care to adjust.

  • @cosmichaos
    @cosmichaos 3 роки тому

    Haha do it for the vine. You time-warped me hard with that, man. Interesting nostalgia-esque feels, forgot that were a thing.

  • @noemiemendelson6339
    @noemiemendelson6339 3 роки тому +2

    I am so glad you are doing physically better. Lots of love and support from this singlet

  • @corablack9041
    @corablack9041 3 роки тому +2

    I was just hoping for a new video from y’all and here we go :)

  • @almad.7824
    @almad.7824 3 роки тому +8

    beige: "cleveland is the lord of with holding information"
    zimmy (gatekeeper): *begins laughing maniacally*

    • @thegalacticsystem
      @thegalacticsystem 3 роки тому +1

      Are we comparing our Gatekeeper skills? - Keeyana

    • @almad.7824
      @almad.7824 3 роки тому +1

      @@thegalacticsystem lmaoo ~Ce

    • @nova.a.star89
      @nova.a.star89 3 роки тому +1

      @@thegalacticsystem I challenge you to a gatekeeper-off.
      -Aphrates

    • @thegalacticsystem
      @thegalacticsystem 3 роки тому

      @@nova.a.star89 Alright then - Keeyana

  • @bathtimetiger2598
    @bathtimetiger2598 3 роки тому +1

    I love the intro,, it's so much better from the one before (I love the music especially : D)

  • @noazoelevin5462
    @noazoelevin5462 3 роки тому +1

    im actualy excited to hear about the books
    they sound like a great way to prosess things, plus id love to read stories from you

  • @tashabeck4121
    @tashabeck4121 3 роки тому

    Platinum diamonds make me think of Steven Universe ngl

  • @abc123band
    @abc123band 3 роки тому

    What are you folks knitting?

  • @oscollective
    @oscollective 3 роки тому +1

    I'm glad things seem to be doing better for y'all. I hope Dorian gets the rest he deserves inside away from the world.

  • @ella-star013
    @ella-star013 3 роки тому +1

    He laughs so adorable!! 😭

  • @Sarina2665
    @Sarina2665 3 роки тому +1

    Hello Wonderful Beings. im glad to see u posting again 😁😁

  • @chanellegranlund7890
    @chanellegranlund7890 2 роки тому

    I’ll buy both books. Where are they 😊

  • @tashabeck4121
    @tashabeck4121 3 роки тому

    Also here if you ever need to talk!

  • @druscilla7138
    @druscilla7138 3 роки тому

    Frankenstein=fusion

  • @garagedad-topic7068
    @garagedad-topic7068 3 роки тому

    I'm so excited for your books. I love the Up in the Aether title, wow. Beautiful title. Kind of gives me chills, but in a good way. Can't wait!

  • @thecheshirewolf1320
    @thecheshirewolf1320 3 роки тому

    Yay knitting 🧶🤩💕

  • @starrygirlish
    @starrygirlish 3 роки тому

    Ok. I was wondering something. Between 12:35 - 12:45, you said there are bright lights. Like white and gold. Forgive me for prying, but aren’t those Nøbødy’s colors? Like the reverse of Hollow? Hope this is ok to ask

  • @renrioable
    @renrioable 3 роки тому +3

    Yes circular knitting loom! 🙏❤️

  • @thinkitythings
    @thinkitythings 3 роки тому

    Really appreciate this video. Thanks for being so forthcoming

  • @gracefunctions
    @gracefunctions 3 роки тому

    it's very nice to meet you!!!:) im nellie and im a recent new alter in our system and i just found your channel and it's very nice to see other systems:)))

  • @emir5009
    @emir5009 3 роки тому

    Please it causes depression and anxiety

  • @TheStripedZebrazz
    @TheStripedZebrazz 3 роки тому +2

    I love these videos! So informative. Just a request if you could move the mic further away from your mouth. I had a really hard time paying attention to you with the loud mouth noises.

    • @cottoncandyfriends8933
      @cottoncandyfriends8933 3 роки тому +1

      Please don't move the microphone. This is the first time I could HEAR YOU in like FOREVER! First time writing, btw.
      Candy

  • @Sai-oo9nj
    @Sai-oo9nj 3 роки тому

    I really like videos like this form u guys

  • @Melodysys.
    @Melodysys. 3 роки тому

    Looking forward to reading that book -Natasha

  • @emir5009
    @emir5009 3 роки тому

    You have gluten alergy

    • @cwolf201
      @cwolf201 3 роки тому

      all of humanity does technically. it affects people to varying degrees. then those with the celiac disease really get damaged.

  • @negatte
    @negatte 3 роки тому +2

    I can't wait for a book! If you publish one or more, I'll buy them right away!

  • @sallydeckard1151
    @sallydeckard1151 3 роки тому +1

    I'm, honestly, so proud that you all find a way to keep moving forward, however that looks and whoever that leaves as default. So proud!

  • @mxmangobutt
    @mxmangobutt 3 роки тому +5

    Happy National Crochet Month even though you're knitting technically