5 Biblical Things the Women Do Who All the Guys Want (Ruth 1)
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- If you are a Christian single woman who wants to find a godly husband one day, what does the Bible say? By doing a Bible study on Ruth 1, we discover 5 helpful principles for Christian single women who want to have a great marriage one day.
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1 Learn from other Godly women
2 choose the best Spiritual path for yourself
3 learn to be Loyal now
4 Let God transform you during your moments of pain! Bitter or Better!?
5 Surround yourself with Godly People!!
As a Christian guy, I can confirm that these are most definitely character traits I would look for in a wife. Any chance we’ll see one of these for the men too? I’ve been led recently to focus my efforts on becoming “the one” for the type of woman I’d like to marry instead of just looking for her.
Stay strong Parker. I’m praying for my nieces for a guy like you. She’s out there! I’ll pray for God to help you meet. Don’t settle!!
I'd love one of these too
Hi Parker. Yes, I've been working on this too, and God's still shaping me :)
This was a fabulous video, very interesting. I think that is great that you are focusing on becoming the best you, you can be, so that when God brings you and the One He has for you, you will be prepared! Amen! I have been preparing to be the best me I can be so that when God’s perfect timing happens, the One He has for me and I will be prepared for each other!
More men should have the mindset you have! ❤
You’re doing great!! That’s what I’ve been focusing on too! ☺️
I have not dated in 12 years and now I am 34, I have remained pure, loyal to God, and live a modest lifestyle. I am still waiting for my Christian husband to find me. The most important things Iook for in a soulmate are rare these days. I refuse to give up. God Bless All
Don't give up Sis! He will eventually come!
@@cuprunnethover2509 Thank You !
Curious why you’ve been waiting for 12 years. Work? Personal stuff? Bad relationships?
Never forget you only have to find one man. There’s no pressure to be thinking about how to get to know so many guys, God will lead you to him and all that striving will stop
I Need some Hope too
I highly enjoyed this video.
1. *Learn from women who have what you want.* It's important to have the right heart posture with this, and not to be friends with somebody only because they have something you want. Like for example, being friends with somebody because they are close to the godly man you like. That's something I've definitely struggled with, is having the right motivations.
2. *Choose the spiritual path, not the easy path.* It's so common to make a decision based upon how easy it is. If there are two options that both seem good, take the harder one because it brings growth.
3. *Be loyal to the people you are in a relationship with* (dating and friendship) I am loyal to my friends, through trials and triumphs - especially after the person I like went through a hard time. Loyalty shows people you care about them.
4. *Let pain transform you in a good way.* I have been through a lot because I liked someone, and I want God to bring a healthy transformation. I do think it brought me closer to God because I've learned to trust Him more.
5. *You will form relationships with the people you spend time with.* True! This is why I mainly hang around my friends from church, and if I can the person I like so I can build a stronger relationship with him.
Thanks Mark! I'd love to hear your feedback.
@Hulda's Journey • Thank you
Thank you! Great comment, the best one
@@christinedozier2154 Oh my gosh, thanks so much! That means a lot to me
I agree with everything you just said. I too went through pain but now I’m closer to God because of it
As a man in singleness, I have questioned what to do to prepare for my future wife. It would be much needed wisdom. Your videos are such a blessing! Keep it up.
God bless James! And thanks for the feedback!
Bless you
i pray everyday to find a prayerful man like you one day..
Yes
I grew up with the Bible as a child. I knew I was loved by my parents even though they were strict. We were homeschooled so there were a lot of troubles and peer pressures that we were not exposed to while we were growing up. I sought to be like Ruth, Naomi, Esther, and the Proverbs 31 woman. I learned to respect my older brother even though at times he was a bit of a twit. I have been married to a dedicated Christian man for 16 years and we have 8 children. There have been many hard times and many many disappointments. At one point I decided I wanted to leave but God HATES divorce so I have stayed and He is turning me into a more dedicated mother and wife. It taught me to pray.
Incidently, my name is Naomi.
God doesn’t hate divorce if there is abuse (mental and emotional included) or infidelity though.
If there is emotional, spiritual, financial, mental, verbal or sexual abuse, God hates abuse and what it is doing to your spirit and soul, more than He hates divorce.
Why did you want to leave though? Is he abusive to you? If so, that completely goes against God's commands for Christian husbands and he needs to be held accountable by church leaders. If left unchecked your marriage dies a slow and painful death.
@eM_eM77x His father and his sister are the ones who have emotionally and spiritually abused me. He has stood by and, at best, did nothing. There is no physical abuse, sexual abuse, or financial abuse. His dad was the elder of the church, and now that he is gone, I can see we had turned into a cult. Thankfully, we have gone back to being more of a church than a cult. I was yelled at in my living room and damned to Hell with no hope because I don't know why. Now that that man is gone, my sister in law, who is unmarried, has taken it upon herself to butter my husband up spiritually while making up stories about me to him. He does not want to believe his family is so ungodly as to tell bold faced lies while still maintaining a spiritual front. Basically, he was the golden child and never actually left his father, mother, and sister to cleave to his wife.
@@naowright9308 Goodness, that sounds awful and stressful. It also sounds like a narcissistic dynamic in that family and it's abusive of him to allow that to happen to you -- he should be protecting you. Was it the father in law who "damned" you??
Is there anyone at church, a female friend/family member at all you can talk to without judgment?
I would hope you and your husband can get some counseling to turn things around. I dealt with a little bit of that in that my ex husband idealized his sister who lived out of state and he barely saw. She could do no wrong. He talked about her like he was in love with her but he didn't talk about me like that. Me, on the other hand, was subject to constant criticism and nitpicking, amongst other horrible things.
I think it could be helpful to talk to a counselor who specializes in abusive and narcissistic people before deciding what to do and how to handle it. I know of some very good Christian channels on here that give excellent advice on narcissists and abuse: Dr David Clarke, Shaneen Megji and Kris Reece.
Good books: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by Leslie Vernick, When Loving Him Is Hurting You by Dr. David Hawkins and another one I've heard of but haven't read is Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.
I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I'm sure you feel totally alone but please know you are not alone! Jesus is with you and the next thing would be to talk to some trusted people and knowledgeable counselors because you deserve to be loved and treated right in your marriage.❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Great teaching. You have to project what you want in a Godly way. If you are a Godly person, it will not be hard to do. Ruth did this. And she was blessed in the end. He will bless us through his timing not ours. Be patient. It is a virtue.
Amen, God is good!
Well said!
I've given up. It's been 7 yrs of waiting. They always claim to be men of God and end up abusive. God is glad I've given up because now it's no longer an idol. I've removed myself from all dating sites and it is no longer a focus. As much as it hurts as it's my heart's desire
I'm sorry to hear about your pain. Singleness is a good option too if you know you can't take looking anymore. If you do want a relationship, it always requires some action from the man and woman. God bless as you seek the Lord's leading
It's very difficult to be single these days. I too have been waiting a long time as well. I have asked God to be my matchmaker. I don't believe that a woman should chase a man or ask a man out.
@@user-ir5ul1ph1c amen they shouldn't my friend who is a married male said it to me this way, Ashley a man finds a good thing He will find you and I say amen
@@adaytripp Exactly. If a man decides that he wants to be in your life, he will do what it takes to make it happen. You wouldn't want a man that you have to chase and convince him of your worth. Live a good life, believe in your worth as a woman of God and the right person will too.
@@BentleyPawsEtsy thank you
I just got out of a relationship, found out someone I had a situationship with is now married. I am tired. I want to meet my godly husband already 😢❤
If I can't reach you through prayers I will reach you through worship 😢Thank you for always holding my hands Lord... For i am nothing without you 🙇I will worship you for ever and may your will be done in my life sweet Jesus! Thank you for everything and thank you in advance for all you have plan for me... I love you Lord
Thank you Mark, I love the way you tell off foolish women who think they deserve Godly man when they don't ever know who Jesus is, let alone Ruth. Lord have mercy, please come to Christ, be in Christ, submit to Christ. The quality of Christ will protect men and women from fools and draw Godly men and women to each other. May God be with us always in our journey to meet someone special with a Godly purpose and mission.
By his grace alone! God bless Joanna!
I don't think he told us off per se. I think he taught us with love and humility. That is way better received than telling us off. That's not even Biblical to tell someone. Chastisement is done in love and out of love. Satan beats you over the head. Jesus lovingly draws you and corrects you. Telling someone off is not even a Godly attribute Sis!
You might be surprised how many ‘Christian’ men marry these foolish women.
I sense your intentions and spirit behind what you were stating.
I don’t think you meant ‘tell off’ as in chastise or belittle~demean.
But that God’s children need to come out of themselves and look to GOD to seek His will and timing over their own fleshly~soul desires and to seek Him and His righteousness FIRST before seeking a man to marry.
Isaiah 54:5 Be God’s wife first so He can mold you into the kind of Godly woman worthy of the type of Godly man you desire…
Be prepared to receive God’s perfect GIFT in His timing!! 🙏
The problem I have is that the city I am in has a lot of atheists in my city. When I do find someone Christian, they aren’t practicing their faith by being connected to a church and reading. That’s the problem I run into. I can be all that I can be, but if the opposite sex isn’t making time from God, then you’ll end up alone. I’ve tried looking at a godly community, the men lack the character of leadership and confidence to ask women out.
Reading this I realize Ruth’s step 1 included moving 😂
Maybe move?
This message confirmed what The Lord has been speaking to my heart for a couple of years. I struggle with getting connected with a Christian community. I went this route in graduate school and at my previous local church. It did not turn out as I expected. Individuals who claimed Christianity were in fact living contrary to The Word Of God. I was so enthusiastic about connecting with other believers and I challenged myself socially since I was an introvert. You can imagine my disappointment. Now, I am like, “ God, I want marriage and family; how can I make this happen without getting involved with a crowd of people, LOL”. I know this is not realistic and I need to let go of those bad experiences and dive back into church related activities. Ruth is one of my favorite biblical examples of trusting God for a new life during intense hardships. I can honestly say that my Mom has been Naomi in my life. The faith she has in God to bless me with a godly husband and family motivates me to come outside of my comfort zone. #AllinGodsTiming💯
Hey sis! Come out of your comfort zone in God's timing and watch God move in your life. God's got you! ♥️💃🏾
@Chantel Waters Hi Chantel 👋 We have church tomorrow on zoom from 12-2pm I would like to invite if you are interested. Our guest speaker will be Prophet Roger Samuel's who was on the voice singing show he's also a preacher so if you would like to join please let me know. ☺️🙏
@Chantel Waters it's ok, thank you for the info about meet ups app and your welcome. God bless you in finding a church that is jesus christ centred and is filled and led by the holy spirit. 🙏✨🕊️
@Chantel Waters you're welcome. ☺️
I needed this really badly. It’s been really difficult for me lately since I have the strong desire and yearning to seek out the man I want to be with but I lack the courage and self-confidence to form new relationships ever since I had left home and got stationed in a different state, and also due to my past experiences and fear of getting hurt. I still really hope and pray it will happen one day, and I hope for the same to whoever is reading this comment. Even in your most loneliest times, the Lord is with you always. God bless you. 🙏❤️
Hey Sis! If you are afraid, you aren't ready. You should allow God to heal you! You need to be a whole person. Hurting people hurt others intentionally and non intentionally! God is not going to bring His son into your life to hurt him because you are hurting. That is what will end up happening whether you mean to or not! Praying for you!
@@cuprunnethover2509 Very wise❣️👍🏼
Matthew 6:33
English Standard Version
33 But (A)seek first (B)the kingdom of God and his righteousness, (C)and all these things will be added to you. 🙏😇💗
Same thoughts. I am praying to be God's best also for the one God bless me ❤🙏
I appreciate everything you had to say BUT I disagree that if you do these things it’s an automatic response from someone that they will appreciate/love/respect you more. If you’re going to commit to self-improvement or changing something, do it for the right reasons. Do it for your relationship with God and do it to improve your life.
Now, we are having a REAL conversation!
We must all exhibit accountability firsthand, and holy reverence towards KING JESUS.
Let's go!
The video had very good points. I know you're trying to get 3,000 likes, but if you could make the video regardless of how many likes you had, that would be great. The men need it as well. Thank you for all of the videos you've done so far. Be blessed and keep doing God's work. 🙌🙏
I have been a Christian for many years but this teaching is making me cry. Thank you for all the information. I am to be a good woman, even if if I never remarry again but for God nothing is impossible as long as we trust in Him.
Right dividing of the text. Both Naomi and Ruth showed great character through their circumstances.
What you surround yourself with, includes what you feed your mind. So on social media I have wonderful female Christian influences that inspire me in their roles as mother, wife and friend and teacher. So don’t fret if you can’t see these people in real life. There is grace and an extension of learning right on our phones.
This was such a great message. I had no idea how to start the process of meeting a Godly man to marry. This really helped!
I am a single women and I just pray that Jesus will transform me to be the women that my husband needs. In Jesus name Amen.
He will but it often comes with afflictions so don't be suprised.
I love that your channel has over half a million subscribers and you've ALWAYS stuck to teaching Godly, biblically sound advice! God bless you Mark, I always appreciate your great work. Glory to God!
Marriage also was not an idol for either woman. They truly desired to better their circumstances, carry themselves well and protect their loved ones. Their focus was not on gaining spouses.
After my Pastor preached about Boaz when i was 9, i tried my best to be like Ruth. I had/have so many 2nd Mom's along with my Mom! I did try though! I wasn't trying to work for any gifts. You can't earn the gifts from God! He freely gives them to His children! 🙏🙌
Very interesting perspective on Godly marriages.... The Lord brought Eve to Adam because he saw that he was lonely. Our Lord provides our hearts desires in every aspect of our lives.
I believe the Lord has the perfect person for each one of us who stands in faith and never settles! Persevere through this season of waiting, it'll all be worth it!
@jmmm1381
"because he saw that he was lonely"
Yeah and today men end up alone masturbating in front of screens , taking refuge in an insane virtual world of prostitution filth . Where is the woman made especially FOR him ?? Where has she gone ? Where are her duties towards him ?
The truth is , woman don't belong to men anymore as GOD intended right from the beginning. No wonder there is such a mess and chaos.
In 1 Co 7:4 we read " to avoid sexual immorality , let every man HAVE his wife and every woman her husband "
I learnt recently that in Greek language , the verb "have" is in fact the verb OWN and for the woman , it is not the verb is in passive tense : be owned
In other words :
To avoid fornication , let every man owns his wife and every woman be owned by man
Thank you somuch for this message, it came just at the right time. I pray the lord leads us every step of the way
Amen, so glad it was timely for you Jessie!
Praise God. I’m a man, but I still needed to hear the principles in this video.
Amen! God bless!
Wow, the passage about pain and how God uses it to transform you speaks so true to me right now.
Recently I went through something very emotionally challenging, which hurt me a lot, I gave it all to God and He took this pain and turned it into an epiphany in my life. Which inevitably lead me here.
I'm still a little emotional about what happened but the pain is no longer there, just a determination to become the best Godly woman I could possibly be.
I thank God for these emotionally challenging experiences (or tests if you will), because every time I have one, God makes me a better person in His image.
This is so insightful! I never thought you could take relationship lessons from this perspective of the Ruth's story, mind blowing and full of deep truths! If only people applied these in their lives, there would no room for any brokenness. Revelatory content for sure! God bless sir.
Thank you Mark for this timely message, I really need it specially on loyalty, keep me in prayer.
Amen! Keep seeking the Lord, he will keep developing you!
Great video Brother Mark ❤️💕❤️
Being True & Honest no matter the circumstances…
“God Only Knows” my
Pain‼️‼️😭
Thank You 🙏🏽 &
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God bless you too Diana!
When you are given a new life, you see that God is also giving you a new start. This pain will be turn me for the better, I’m holding on to every word says. I just wish I knew him before I gotten married. Going through a divorce. 😢
This was directed to me on time! I’m lying awake asking God which way do I go to be seen by him? I’m going through crisis after crisis and needing my husband…. But falling in pot holes of ppl that do not have a relationship with God.
Today I called the church I set up a new member class with last month…my mother passed and funeral was the weekend of my new member class. So today I finally rescheduled the class so I can be with my kingdom ppl
I want to be apart of several ministries
I think this is God’s answers to all my struggles
Thank you
✝️🙏🏽💜
I am a single guy but still waiting for my Kingdom spouse. I have this desire deep within me that slowly emerges more and more. That desire is for a wife of mine. I currently have met a girl and we are hanging around getting to know each other, but with all these agents of satan out there and my spiritual immaturity in place it is hard to know whether she is the Kingdom spouse or another agent sent to destroy me. I don't know, i am still waiting on the Lord. I know and i believe that he will, one day, arrange our meeting through our circumctances or however else. But, God is great and i trust in Him.
I definitely would be praying for you both
God is waiting for you to become His bride.
Just roll with it and pray for guidance. If you have to bail, bail. If it works out it works out.
I'm soon turning 36 and still nothing. I'm still praying and hoping God comes through soon
I'm 33 and been waiting for 4 years, but in those 4 years God transformed me ND is working one daily to be a godly wife. I know my husband Is coming soon and I will continue to trust God's timing. Don't give up sis,any of us are in our season of singleness, its a good place to be to prepare for the man God has for us, keep growing in the lord and your husband will come in gods perfect timing
I’m 34 and same. Nothing
@Tyler Lee greetings 1st Tyler🙂well sex is the nr 1 most difficult part, people dont want to wait, secondly for me is to have Godly conversations. Today's partners get bored and annoyed to always talk about God and to live in discipline. I know we are human and dont come even close to perfect but if you have the holy spirit in you then you have the fruits of the spirit too like, kindness, joy,patience faithfulness ect. I want someone that has the spirit of God in him, someone I can pray with and trust in the Lord with ect. It's just to many to mention lol oh but I love the Lord so much.
@Tyler Lee I did
@@arabian_empress
How come women in the Bible were given in marriage before they turn 20 ?
Postponing marriage the way we do just open up ourselves to more and more carnal temptations , it is not good at all.
Yes, Words of Wisdom, Brother. GOD'S IS SO GOOD. Thank you for this amazing message. GOD BLESSED YOU and YOUR FAMILY 🙌💯☺️❤️
So glad it was useful! God is good!
Gave my whole relationship with my future husband to God when I turned 16. He has promised me my husband will come soon. I’m being patient and trusting His will for me.
@Tyler Lee All the time. Patience is something which I undergo constant practice in several things. I’m the oldest among my friends and have a stronger maternal desire to be married and be a mother. So it is hard, especially when tons of my friends back home are married, and younger than me. But if I’ve learned one thing from God, it is always worth the wait. And He has never failed to bring me comfort when some times are more difficult than others. He has given me messages about my husband, and I always pray for my husband, even though I don’t know him yet. It helps a lot when I do that. Your wife will appear. Seek her out, and be discerning in the Lord! I’ll pray for you and your future wife.🙏🏻
@Tyler Lee I’m glad I could help! Unfortunately I don’t communicate with others online frequently unless I’ve met them in person or have been introduced through a mutual friend. It’s for safety reasons but I appreciate the offer, and I am glad that my response was helpful to you! ☺️
@Tyler Lee Thank you for respecting me. 😊 I wish you well and will pray for you🙏🏻
@@emilymorris7046
How old are you now ?
God just needs you to be yourself and trust Him. He will give you a kingdom spouse when you don't expect. Just trust Him and be yourself.
Extremely valuable, thank you. I especially resonated with the point to always follow the right spiritual path even if it’s not easy, it trains our resilience. Also loyalty is first tested in our Hearts. Thank you again.
Thank you for taking the time to prepare and share GODLY wisdom.🕊
I get to work with people from all walks of life and have been very hardened by the decisions they make. 80% of breakups are initiated by the woman, #1 reason "I wasn't happy." Well okay, but they almost always go into another relationship not with a good man who's deserving of love and respect, but a "good-looking bad boy". This is true for Christian and non-Christians alike and always ends badly. There's a lot of good men out there, who will be loyal and work hard for their relationship, but they never get a chance. Our society is training people to ignore what really matters in favor of the fleeting. My heart aches for all the damage this causes. I just came away from a visit with a girl who has made this a life-long habit. I always enjoy our interactions but am always left feeling sad for her.
I’ve known some women who did this to me and others. It didn’t seem to matter how well she was treated and how much the guy wanted to work things out. There was always an excuse to break up, such as a habit the guy had that wasn’t that serious. Sometimes these women are quick to move on to another relationship so soon. Loyalty seems to be harder to find in a western woman now.
@@Dj.D25 Same. 2/3rds of women already have a new relationship lined up before they leave the current one. That's how my marriage ended. I know several men who went to Russia, Philippines etc. for extended visits or work. Women are still somewhat traditional and less entitled there so they had much better luck, even came back married. That does hurt the chances for the local men though. I myself gave up on finding somebody. It's a much more realistic, practical way to go in today's interpersonal climate.
@@stephenbaldassarre2289 I met plenty of women from the Philippines. The ones who I became good friends with, almost never gave me drama.Compared to where most western women I became close to gave me drama, including Christians. I really don't want to have to go to another country to find a wife, it almost feels like showing lack of faith in God to find someone nearby.
Broken women leave good men. Be glad about that because you wouldn’t want a broken woman who isn’t working on her healing journey anyway. Anytime I walked away it was a toxic unhealed person that wasnt a good fit. Women are loyal to men they are a good fit for. Please be encouraged!
@@Mindsetolympics I often wonder what kind of women these men are going for. Most “Christian “ men ignore the Christian woman who doesn’t look like an OnlyFans model. A Christian woman who is modestly dressed and will say no to sex out of wedlock will be ignored by a “Christian” man. Yet they continue to blame women. Christian Men need to learn how to pick better women. “Christian” men like to pick women who appear to have all the physical attributes they want but none of the spiritual assets. Then complain
This was A Bless Message, Thank You So Much, We Women Of This Era Need To Hear These Messages 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😊
Watching to help stay godly for my son to be fiance,
Hi Mark, can you do a series of video on Biblical men and women. Their personalities and traits and how they can be examples of both good and bad to teach us on how to live a more godly life these days.
I hope there is a return to femininity and looking to the Word to define relationship roles. God’s design is perfect and beautiful. ✝️
Amen I am relocating as we speak under the direction for by the Lord 😊😊😊
Pain will always change you. Powerful.
Please go ahead and do the second part of this video. It was very helpful. 😊
I am not sure if I am for marriage life... but all of these perfectly well said❤ I'd been reading my Bible from Genesis down to Revelation over again and again until now. But I have ugly fast before i get Biblical view of woman it was hard way no One teach me how to Be Biblical woman but by God's Grace I am now in GOD'S WILL📖📝❤
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INDEED THANKS FOR BIBLE WHICH ONLY BOOK THAT CAN TRANSFORM LIVES❤
Your comments about pain being a change-maker are so powerful. Thank you.
If you’re looking to attract a man who will go out of his way to sacrifice things for you, you’ll have to make it clear that you will go out of your way to submit to him when he’s thinking about making a big God move in his life. Basically be ready to go wherever you think the Lord is leading you two, always respectful of your husband and nurturing his spiritual health, holding him accountable and engaging in God’s activities and promptings.
The only problem with this is that CHRIST LED in sacrifice before asking his bride for submission, and since Ephesians 5:25-33 begins with "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church, and gave himself for her." The burden is not on the woman to LEAD, but on the MAN to show that he is going to lead in such a way that he will sacrifice to take care of the woman so that she is safe submitting. Many men do not know the difference between what their ego attachments to advancing in the world system are leading them to do and what God leads them to do ... if he is thinking about making a big God move in HIS LIFE, and not even thinking about OUR LIVES, that's still ego ... but God has called men to cherish and nourish their wives as they cherish and nourish themselves. That is the biggest move God may call the average man to ever do, and it is clearly commanded in Scripture to every Christian husband.
Most women will easily submit when they are not having to be afraid of being run over, of disregarded, of being treated like an accessory to whatever a man REALLY loves. This is why God sensibly made it so that the man leads in providing that safety even at sacrifice to himself ... because that is the only way it works right.
@@hymnodyhands Mmm good point
@@hymnodyhands
The woman was made FOR the man to meet HIS needs first and foremost . This IS the only way it works right. Look at Proverbs 31 WOMAN , everything she does , she does FOR her husband and her happiness comes from what SHE does to him , not what he does to her.
EVERY marital instruction begins with WIVES SUBMIT . Not what you're saying at all. You're a great manipulator but it does not work with me. I'm a woman who perfectly knows how wicked and manipulative our own sex can be .
WIVES SUBMIT always comes FIRST for a reason because it is the only way things work in marriage : woman for man , submissive to him in everything , then in return she benefits from his provisions and affection.
Images exactly God and old Israel or Christ and church relationship .
This came up in my algorithm. Coincidence? I think not! Will watch now and edit my reaction haha
We have to be what we want in others. Thanks for such an interesting video. 🙏💖🇦🇺
Such a solid video we need part 2. I really respect your teaching from the Lord Mark and will be sowing into your ministry asap!!
Yes; a series would be great!!! ❤️
Thanks for your feedback!
Please do the other video as well I would appreciate it. Thank you
Thanks for the feedback Veronica :)
I'm 37.A doctor stuck in a family that practices different faith .But God takes care of my needs.Donot know anything about marriage.But I know if He wants he will bring someone otherwise I will remain single.
Knowing what you want or knowing your purpose will help in developing loyalty to God and ultimately your future partner
Amazing interpretation. Thanks so much brother 😊😊. It's really so helpful for us Christians to stay tuned to God's path....
So glad it was useful! All glory to God!
This was very helpful. Thanks, Mark.
Glad it was helpful!
Great message & very practical advice! Thank you Mark! Becoming the one, so God can prepare me for the one!
🙋♂️But I wanted to point out. A lot of men will raise their hands & say they want exactly someone like Ruth for a wife. But for Ruth this is a second marriage, & most men will put their hands down after that fact. As if that takes away from her...?
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Ruth was a widow , so she had a right to marry again. Nothing to do with all the women today who divorce and remarry and live in an adulterous state.
It also gives you a example of how a Godly woman should act in Proverbs 31.
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Exactly . And you wil notice that there is no Proverbs 32 man . There is a Proverbs 31 woman because God amde the woman for the man and not the man for the woman.
This is KEY to marriage and to how raising daughters before they get married.
Praise the Lord Almighty God. This is really very helpful. Thanks 😊 🫂
Amen, all glory to God!
Well thought 💭 out and organized about Holy Biblical relationships. I appreciate story about Ruth. There are many other biblical stories in the Holy Bible, King James. Whether woman 👩🏽 shows she’s ideal Christian wife. This nice to hear and spiritual reflection before saying”i will “. 🙏🏽📖😇
Thank you Mark! This was so thorough and I appreciate the straight talk with references to scripture 🙏🏻
This was an awesome Spiritual teaching. Thank you !
So glad it was useful! All glory to God!
Agreed! God bless you Mark 😌
God bless you too Delna!
Loyalty. She prepared before hand.
God built my character while I was married I was with my ex husband for 7 years and then found a lot of secrets. A lot of hurtful painful secrets. Things that hurt my children that were done in secret. Gave me no option but to divorce to protect them. By seeking therapy I found that I was living in an abusive marriage and as a Christian woman I was extremely loyal, catered to my family. Homeschooled my children I was that proverbs 31 woman. I did everything I could to make my husband happy. It ultimately ended because of his inability to live a Godly life. So I see now, God prepared me for my next chapter while I lived in an abusive marriage. Being single now just launched me into an amazing new life. I still praise God for the hardship because it changed me for the better. Can't wait to see what God has in store for me.
This was so well done, Mark! I haven't heard a reflection like this before and it has blessed me. Thank you so much!
Thanks!
Thank you!
This brother is truly saving lives
Thank you Mark, very helpful as always !! 💯💥👌🙋🏼♀️ blessings from Germany
Thank you, that message was Gods direction.
So glad it was helpful!
Thsnk you. An Amazon and blessed video🎉😂
Thank you for posting this! I’ve started reading your Ultimate Guide to Christian Singleness and I’m so happy to be hearing more from you! My first and only two boyfriends did not love the Lord, but they both claimed that they did. Now, I’m healing from them and trying to start my own ministry business as I try and prepare for who God may have for me, as well as how to lead a well-equipped life in this modern world. Thank you for always being there for me to listen to as I do mindless chores so I can fill the space with God! Thank you so much! 🥹
It definitely helped me.thanks a lot for your effort.
what an excellent video! Prise God Thank you Pastor Mark! I hope it will be beneficial to many people .
Amen! Me too!
Well well well... Lord you know what's going on. I trust you to handle it, Jesus! Thank You Jesus!
Hansel and Gretel men -avoid
Show us these bread crumbing men Lord 👀
Show them to us 🫣
Let us pray for them sisters to stay away until they are ready to walk the talk 🚶♂️
Amen
Count my like x 1000 Mark! I need that other video re what men should develop!😁
Thanks a lot, Mark,,how you interpret the Bible verses is amazing!
Thank you so much for this piece. God is calling me closer through this
Wow thank you so much waiting patiently for my God fearing husband to be 😘😘
This would be hard to find priceless woman that every man wants.
yes, with minor details there are variations, but every healthy man wants a loyal woman who has standard biblical traits :)
Thank you so much for making this video. I really appreciate it as I can relate to Ruth personally in my own life.
Great principles. Thank you.
Amen, amen! What an amazing and powerful lesson!🔥🔥🔥 thank you so much, Mark, this was absolutely the best message for today’s onwards! God bless you and your anointing to restore His image in men and women! If I could I would click 3K times to get this video across the benchmark! 😊🙏❤️
So glad you enjoyed it Luba! And thanks for the encouragement!
Whoa this is so good! Thanks for sharing, I haven't quite heard these values clearly laid out so consisely before.
I'm praying for God to send me a helpmate that He chooses for me. 🥀🙏🥀
Excellent!! Please keep them coming. They're much needed teaching.
This was a good video to come across during my time of isolation.
So much truth!!
Your videos are great! Wow! ‘For such a time as this.’ High quality postings/content! Thank you so much! I want to seek a Godly woman with a Godly marriage for more insight/advice on how to be a good, Godly wife (for my future husband, if it is God's will for me to marry one day). Good idea to seek this and glean from her wisdom as to what has worked well for her! Will do!
Great stuff!
Thanks Mark, great work. Love from Poland.
Yeah, the only problem is that married women and women who have boyfriend's are not interested in having friendship with attractive woman who are single. Envy is a real thing to other women and so is the threat of an attractive women being around their man is real. At least that has been my experience in life.
I think He means maybe older woman, like aunties
Good biblical teachings thank you