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    We are back on the couch of truth! In today’s instalment we ask each other 5 Risky questions you must ask your partner.
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  • @kitsoyaonephatudi1274
    @kitsoyaonephatudi1274 3 роки тому +56

    I love how they don't talk about materialistic things.
    This is beautiful.

  • @bonoloatong
    @bonoloatong 3 роки тому +57

    "Complete freedom. Safe-space. No inhibition. Complete expression of love and intimacy..." Wow.

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 3 роки тому +32

    You know when you're relationship is strong when you're asked where do you see the relationship in 5 years and your partner goes oh that's easy we're going to be just fine

  • @noxolomalgas8074
    @noxolomalgas8074 3 роки тому +35

    I was a little surprised to hear my name mentioned when shout outs were made😁😁😁 love you Fam!

  • @nyanisamajavu4508
    @nyanisamajavu4508 3 роки тому +20

    I realise how a relationship is an everyday journey 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @mbalentlemhlaba5689
    @mbalentlemhlaba5689 3 роки тому +42

    I love Phetola shame, "I thought I was perfect".. 😂😂😂😂

  • @charmainet8699
    @charmainet8699 3 роки тому +22

    Time's up????😧 I was still watching...ay no!
    Askies Pheto, I can see you were really touched but the thing about people who are eloquent like Lerato is that it becomes a gift and a curse because they are able to effectively express their thoughts or feelings so well that even when they articulate things that don't sit well with them, the delivery is consistent. I believe the words he used were to help you understand exactly how he's feeling and his hope was that it would be understood and not taken personally. Anyone who's watched you guys can attest to how he loves when you cheer him on or affirm him and he's vocal about it. My biggest take away from what he said was that he is fueled by your absolute trust in him, that he loves knowing that he's a dependable partner. And just by expressing that, he basically revealed the type of person that you are....you are loving, supportive and like he said, his "biggest cheerleader" and when your cheerleader forgets their pom poms sometimes it becomes a bit of a concern😘❤ all love fam, nitey!

  • @nicolemalanda9115
    @nicolemalanda9115 3 роки тому +18

    Beautiful real conversation. Love the honesty and the "discomfort". You guys handled it so well. Love and respect even when there is disagreement.

  • @kwezchyn
    @kwezchyn 3 роки тому +35

    As a single woman I’m pleased with coming across this content. This was so enjoyable.

  • @nayinayi1
    @nayinayi1 3 роки тому +9

    This is my ideal relationship - I need to be with a person I can communicate with - I need to be able to freely say where we are & where are going without having to lie about things bcz my spouse have chip over their shoulders. I was thinking that Lerato was more like me in a way he articulate things (even his personality) - but omg I do appreciate Phetola's gracefulness (infused with wisdom) of dealing with the unexpected (if this is an act - guys you are good actors)...I love to see that you are not so alike & yet you can still communicate & make it work without an offence - having a relationship that has the ability to heal is incredible (only from God)...I wish you the best in your journey together, keep it up & may the good Lord continue to bless you in your amazing covenant...

  • @ThandazaMK
    @ThandazaMK 3 роки тому +117

    I just love the way you guys communicate. Safe Space, Safe Space.

  • @mgeijho
    @mgeijho 3 роки тому +5

    one of the many many things i love about the Makhs is that they have completely different personalities but they work so well together.i think it speaks of how highly they respect and value each other.its never about 'if u dont do things my way then you wrong'.

  • @KhetzTutorials
    @KhetzTutorials 3 роки тому +13

    "What is one quality you think holds me back?"
    I think this one is very important - even outside a romantic setting. To ourselves, we are perfect and always right and we need people who really love us to bring this up in the most constructive way possible ❤

  • @mintiesza
    @mintiesza 3 роки тому +21

    This was the first time on your channel and I'm so glad to have found it. These questions were amazing, thank you for keeping it real. May you grow beyond what you ever thought was possible.

  • @KamogeloB
    @KamogeloB 3 роки тому +38

    The OG is in the house 💃🏾 popoopooopooooo 🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊🔊 let’s get into it. Dream Team Don’t forget to watch the Ads y’all. Registe signed; I’m gonna enjoy this one

    • @samkambule8899
      @samkambule8899 3 роки тому +1

      Awww Kamo relebogela topic suggestion. 💗

    • @KamogeloB
      @KamogeloB 3 роки тому +1

      @@samkambule8899 I knew these two would come through with their consistent content. We love them for their authenticity akere

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 3 роки тому +31

    Salute to Mr Makhs 🙏🙏, Hes so aware of madam's personality (sensitivity), and take it with sooo much grace . I truly appreciate it bcoz woow, The other Gender 🤦‍♂️😭 isshh can be cold .you guys are soo real and just know that, we truly appreciate what you are giving in your channel ...you are building ✊👊

  • @lerekomolefe4323
    @lerekomolefe4323 3 роки тому +4

    This was so real and informative thank you Makhs for being vulnerable with us, love love how you communicate.

  • @moocowtv
    @moocowtv 3 роки тому +1

    Yasssssss!! Just finding this page and am now going back to watch the other episodes. Aww I'm in love with yall. Sis's sayings alone has me hooked. Praying all blessings for this family!!

  • @alicetamur1142
    @alicetamur1142 3 роки тому +18

    I just love Peto's laughter..so cute & contagious...keep laughing..

  • @lisaanne9615
    @lisaanne9615 3 роки тому +6

    First watch on this channel and I’m hooked! Loving the authenticity! God bless your union

  • @keitumetsegabanakgosi6862
    @keitumetsegabanakgosi6862 3 роки тому +22

    Your candidness and openness is truly inspiring. Very much appreciated

  • @UnpackItWithThando
    @UnpackItWithThando 3 роки тому +12

    I definitely love the rawness of this relationship 😭🙏🙏

  • @nwabisaphikwa9790
    @nwabisaphikwa9790 3 роки тому +18

    When you guys said you think time is up my heart nearly sank because I was ready to listen for another 30 minutes 🥲 I love how you're always having such meaningful and insightful conversations. Thank you fam👏🏽💕 Lerato saying "you're an incredible wife" got me🥺

  • @MapuleXimba
    @MapuleXimba 3 роки тому +12

    These are risky questions but after answering them together you realize gore we are all human and motho waka ke bosso ,I would still choose him again. In relationships we grow and learn only when tap-on on those risky and uncomfortable topics.
    Mara time was not yet up tlhe, 50/60min videos are welcome.love you guys

  • @moitshepisparkles
    @moitshepisparkles 3 роки тому +22

    Wow, honestly your family is a blessing to us. Beke le beke, we keep learning. Thank you so much ❤️🙏.

  • @alicetamur1142
    @alicetamur1142 3 роки тому +2

    My "fresh" breath of air every time i return to your platform after being "away" . You both just light up. So much love form this Island gurl from Papua New Guinea

  • @mallywandek8303
    @mallywandek8303 3 роки тому +7

    I love it when he says “ I’m sorry, I’ll do better”

  • @Natjhili
    @Natjhili 3 роки тому +19

    Just discovered this. Love the content, the personalities. Looking forward to more real talk ♥️

  • @samanthaonkakhulu2566
    @samanthaonkakhulu2566 3 роки тому +4

    I loved the whole episode but the highlight was the last question. Lerato's response was so deep and it really put a lot of things into perspective and just got me thinking about friendship and relationship dynamics.

  • @mathapelomorgan4876
    @mathapelomorgan4876 3 роки тому +3

    Shu! Open and honest as usual. 🙌🏾Thank you for the installment.

  • @annettefavour4340
    @annettefavour4340 3 роки тому +10

    I love the way he looks at her

  • @lebogangmoutlane
    @lebogangmoutlane 3 роки тому +6

    The way I love these two ♥️ you’d swear that I know them personally 😂🤣 great watch, thank you!

  • @otsilemakgatholela1268
    @otsilemakgatholela1268 3 роки тому +10

    You guys are so mature even in the discomfort♥️very very interesting questions, I needed this vid

  • @goabaonerainermosimanegape5075
    @goabaonerainermosimanegape5075 3 роки тому +1

    Your authenticity and purity, together with the way you just speak with so much depth and clarity is going to impact a lot of marriages and relationships in an incredible way.
    One only hopes people who come here and watch you, do so with open hearts and minds hungry to learn a thing or two.
    I was on UA-cam just watching scholarly videos and then booom your video appeared on that Playlist..studying night turned into reflection night with my wife. Thank you.

  • @Lady_tenacioustlamelo
    @Lady_tenacioustlamelo 3 роки тому +8

    I also live in my head and I'm blessed to have Sisters around me who remind me to embrace the current.
    Also, I am not my best in the morning. Anytime before 10:00 is not the best time for me. I'm at my highest between midnight and 4am

  • @bmol9869
    @bmol9869 3 роки тому +2

    I just love you two, I'm so glad I found this channel when I did. Real inspiration. True love exists. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sosokwepe6512
    @sosokwepe6512 3 роки тому +4

    Favs, I said a silent prayer for you guy's. May the Lord preserve your love and marriage. It's beautiful watching your installments❤️

  • @NelisaDlamini
    @NelisaDlamini 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this episode. Loved how real you both were and I personally identified with a few of Phetola’s personality traits.
    You guys are also very adorable.

  • @molokorapholo
    @molokorapholo 3 роки тому +27

    I’m actually dying at how touched Phetola is🤣🤣🤣nnete ya baba🌸 love your honesty fam. Thank you.

    • @molokorapholo
      @molokorapholo 3 роки тому +2

      It’s the “I thought I was perfect” for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔I felt that one on my studio.

  • @iam_Jaia
    @iam_Jaia 2 роки тому +1

    I am thrilled at how you seem to always be in each other's thought and this makes every video seamless and deep... God bless you fam ❤️🥰

  • @VhugalaHaweM
    @VhugalaHaweM 3 роки тому +3

    i love it when you say "mmmmm" when you are paying attention . dont change who you are please

  • @giftdiwa9943
    @giftdiwa9943 3 роки тому +1

    Your communication is top notch, say the toughest things in a very mindful way.

  • @answersfrommylips197
    @answersfrommylips197 3 роки тому +14

    Hmmmmm this is soooo deep. I’m paraphrasing the last point Lerato made, ‘we love others the way we want to be loved rather than the way they want to be loved’. Thank you for the installment, with love from Nigeria 💕💕

  • @tlamelo_ngirl
    @tlamelo_ngirl 3 роки тому

    The shortest and most insightful 30mins ever on a UA-cam videos 🙏🏻

  • @petronellatalks6912
    @petronellatalks6912 3 роки тому +2

    The transparency... really learning a lot.Your content is bomb🔥🔥🔥🔥and top quality 🔥💯

  • @predictionsza5827
    @predictionsza5827 3 роки тому +1

    I love that it's a conversation about yourselves and growth!

  • @leratomatlala9716
    @leratomatlala9716 3 роки тому +6

    I love how Lerato explained the silent wishes based on characters, hmm, makes a lot of sense. Wish the video was longer.

  • @mabecekhanyisa4208
    @mabecekhanyisa4208 3 роки тому +1

    Guys you are so mature, I love it... I'm actually so teary right now.

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 3 роки тому +6

    2. I’m with Lerato. Total freedom in a safe space is GREAT. I fear saying “I want 123”. I’m afraid of offending people, sounding like a freak, being judged, my true needs being leaked from the bedroom. That’s why I’ve been celibate for 6,5years.

  • @alusanivanessa5107
    @alusanivanessa5107 3 роки тому +1

    I just discovered you guys and I love the amount of energy and time you have invested in the intro video
    The artwork and pictures of the family wow 🔥🔥🔥

  • @nthamashale4852
    @nthamashale4852 3 роки тому +9

    Phetola, sometimes i come here for your laugh, so contagious and therapeutic

  • @juliledube8873
    @juliledube8873 3 роки тому +4

    This was sooo authentic and honest🥺🙆🏾‍♀️. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and schooling me. You are guys are honest, open and each other's safe space-you are communicating crucial things with love&maturity - l am not saying you are perfect l am saying you are doing great fellaz👏🏾❤️💕.
    P. S. I don't regret subscribing shame😆

  • @poppymlotshwa9032
    @poppymlotshwa9032 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations on hitting 20k my favorite couple. Keep it real you're such a vibe 😍😍😍

  • @freshevents1005
    @freshevents1005 3 роки тому +7

    Real conversations.....never thought I'd have these convos but am ready, the candiness & honesty guys🙌👊👌thank you guys 😊

    • @lovethliberty9164
      @lovethliberty9164 3 роки тому +1

      It took me days to finally watch this. I wasn't sure I was ready to engage the video. Glad I finally did

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu 3 роки тому +2

    I feel you Pheto in regards to young faith in God and as one grows we kind of have up and down faith...we translate that to our partners...you are deep😍

  • @Amahle361
    @Amahle361 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you guys for sharing yourselves with us. We are learning.

  • @aphiwemaqashalala333
    @aphiwemaqashalala333 3 роки тому +11

    A recent subie. I've been binging on your installments ❤️❤️

  • @judypetrus6988
    @judypetrus6988 3 роки тому +1

    One of the Best yet...Beautiful and inspiring u guys...I Love this🙏🏻

  • @amen3545
    @amen3545 3 роки тому +2

    That intro got me to subscribe, first time watching and am hooked....
    Love from Namibia 🇳🇦❤

  • @tashagqada2340
    @tashagqada2340 3 роки тому

    So grateful for the honesty in this conversation!

  • @lovefromtheotherside9632
    @lovefromtheotherside9632 3 роки тому +9

    We love you guys even more because we looooove Tom Bilyeu!! Him and his wife Lisa have really good, thought provoking conversations.❤ Y'all are just amazing bathong ❤❤❤

  • @tshiannah
    @tshiannah 3 роки тому

    This is good, wow.
    Thank you for being so vulnerable and open.

  • @boitumelochauke1953
    @boitumelochauke1953 3 роки тому +7

    The only person who can truly give you feedback about how love them is your partner. We may be giving our best but their feedback is the true measure❤️let's keep talking and asking

  • @atohzinobia9775
    @atohzinobia9775 3 роки тому

    I just stumble on this channel and can't hold myself to subscribe because of the content.
    It's so amazing

  • @leratokantue
    @leratokantue 3 роки тому

    Thanks for a great episode guys. Can't wait to try out these questions with my hubby 😊

  • @itumelengpenyane4419
    @itumelengpenyane4419 3 роки тому +3

    Phetola's laugh 🤣🤣🤣 Love love love her... Thank you both so so much for this 🙏God bless

  • @lynerosie
    @lynerosie 3 роки тому +1

    i love how you guys are open....newbie here and am loving this

  • @noluthandomakhoba9853
    @noluthandomakhoba9853 Рік тому

    It's the maturity for me. One thing I'm getting out of your videos is that relationships aren't perfect put you invest in them by building and just having grace for one another.

  • @sihlesenga9442
    @sihlesenga9442 3 роки тому

    New subby. I loved this conversation. Uncomfortable, yes but I love how you guys listened to each other.

  • @nokuthulatkubheka432
    @nokuthulatkubheka432 3 роки тому

    I love how real you are to each other ❤️❤️❤️My people love your relationship. God bless you 🙏

  • @thokozanshelembe4287
    @thokozanshelembe4287 3 роки тому

    When he gave you that unexpected compliment... I knew I had to click the subscribe button. Love is beautiful

  • @msjay6780
    @msjay6780 3 роки тому

    Keep on being real guys...love u❤❤Enjoyed the shout out😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @africanlions9886
    @africanlions9886 3 роки тому +15

    I could subscribe more than once to this channel if I could! The realest, most authentic content! Authenticity should be goals, not the perception of a 'perfect' relationship

  • @michelle-leecollins9435
    @michelle-leecollins9435 3 роки тому

    you guys are AMAZING!!!! happy yo have found you. Infinite blessings

  • @mmamolemomodisadife2726
    @mmamolemomodisadife2726 3 роки тому

    Easily my favorite couple. ❤️👌 Yet again, thank you for your quality work. Thank you for pouring your hearts into it.

  • @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013
    @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013 3 роки тому +1

    Lerato's eyes on Pheto ge e bolela ka tsa kamoreng. Thank you for this one. Re leboga consistency aswell.

  • @orchidgirl05
    @orchidgirl05 3 роки тому

    Great insight, l love the energy you bring. Love it ❤️ subscribed 🙏🏾❤️

  • @b_reshoketswe2777
    @b_reshoketswe2777 3 роки тому +1

    Congratulations on hitting 20k subbies Fam👏🏾🥂

  • @maboocie
    @maboocie 3 роки тому +1

    This is so good fam, really looking forward to speaking such truths with my future partner.

  • @lletompa6336
    @lletompa6336 2 роки тому +1

    Love this content!
    I'm definitely going to be answering these questions with my partner

  • @LifeAndAngelica
    @LifeAndAngelica 3 роки тому +1

    I love both your honesty(esp. Pheto with the last reaction kgori you are touched).🙏🏾❤️

  • @beautymokhudu9538
    @beautymokhudu9538 3 роки тому

    I love these people ...so addicted to these talks.

  • @resoketswerambaumuthego
    @resoketswerambaumuthego 3 роки тому +5

    I just love how the questions were not rehearsed.

  • @tiisetsothato9082
    @tiisetsothato9082 3 роки тому +1

    on the last one, I get Lerato. I actually think this is where the whole TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED comes from. When I lost my mom, I wanted to be left alone, di askies and o tla siama annoyed me. to this day I don't think I know how to comfort anyone grieving a loved one, which is kinda sad. I feel like if you need me you will let me know and that's whats important. I think the main thing though is we need to communicate better and express our wants and needs so we avoid miscommunication, because people arent mind readers. With that said, great video guys, psychologists might say Pheto was being defensive when she folded her arms but I love that you both were ready to receive what the other one had to say.

  • @minenhlezungu6230
    @minenhlezungu6230 3 роки тому

    Ahh I love you guys🥺♥️
    First vid and new subbie 😍

  • @voicesinmyhead2192
    @voicesinmyhead2192 3 роки тому +2

    " I WISH YOU BELIEVED IN ME LIKE YOU USED TO" - Lerato
    Some of the words that changes a beloved to a stranger or gangster

  • @Siphokazi_Fikeni
    @Siphokazi_Fikeni 3 роки тому +16

    "I wish you believed in me like you used to." That hit hard...Hubby has said that to me before. Still not sure how to reactivate that belief ngoba life has hit hard. 😕

    • @palesakhoza7153
      @palesakhoza7153 3 роки тому

      Askies sis. 🤗

    • @Siphokazi_Fikeni
      @Siphokazi_Fikeni 3 роки тому +1

      @@palesakhoza7153 thanks Sis❤

    • @lovethliberty9164
      @lovethliberty9164 3 роки тому +1

      That part hit me too. Like, I was so cold. Omo....

    • @ikeramanteba250
      @ikeramanteba250 3 роки тому +2

      God is the answer ❤🙏

    • @bulumkobulumko652
      @bulumkobulumko652 2 роки тому

      Where trust has been broken,i believe,it is difficult to fully give/gain back.
      It'sxlike a chocalate that melts because of heat,even if u put it in the freezer,that "chocolate will not have its original shape.

  • @bloomsunfoldingwithpreciou2646
    @bloomsunfoldingwithpreciou2646 3 роки тому +1

    Loved this, might just give these questions a try❤❤

  • @tabisadlamini5689
    @tabisadlamini5689 3 роки тому

    Awuuuuuuu fam enjoyed this one as well very risky I agree It demanded a lot of wisdom and maturity from both of you which you handled very well...I love how candid you are keep going fam❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @brookebellamy9864
    @brookebellamy9864 2 роки тому

    You guys are just TOO cute! Love ya'll and your ministry!

  • @yemisiobe
    @yemisiobe 3 роки тому

    Everything spoken about is fact. Just found your channel, love you already. thanks for your honesty

  • @TR-BA369
    @TR-BA369 2 роки тому

    I love their transparency and realism 👍

  • @akhonadyi3602
    @akhonadyi3602 3 роки тому +14

    I am with you Pheto, it does not sit well with me either, addressing God as Bro

  • @joymogedi7729
    @joymogedi7729 2 роки тому

    The honesty here 👏 🙌🏾 Here for it❤

  • @mahlakomohlala7012
    @mahlakomohlala7012 3 роки тому

    Such real chats. I appreciate them!

  • @traceymoumakwa3974
    @traceymoumakwa3974 3 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed this one... 😜 Keep up the good work

  • @Phindu_M
    @Phindu_M 3 роки тому +1

    Another installment of life is but a dream with the Makhs 🙏 thanks fam

  • @charmainet8699
    @charmainet8699 3 роки тому

    Wooo my people!!!!❤❤❤let me go make some tea and watch☕
    Le cozy jwang😍😍😍

  • @phiwo8998
    @phiwo8998 3 роки тому

    Really frank and honest conversation. What an awesome video guys !

  • @mabatoo
    @mabatoo 3 роки тому +2

    Your video has been sitting on my list of recommendations for a while and today I listened/watched. Wow, so I wonder if this is South African or global. Jesus you guys are dealing the truth. Wow wow wow. God bless you.