Holding onto a false dream instead of hurting someone by telling them the truth only hurts them more. Honesty, especially in situations like this, prevails and helps build trust.
Facts. That’s how I parent my son I don’t lie to him. And because I am he is known as the most respectful polite kid anyone has ever met. He gets free stuff from stores just cause he’s polite and cute. I get bad comments from other parents that I shouldn’t be free parenting my kid. I know how to be a mom because of my past I refuse to let our curse continue so with my son I’m breaking the chain so he can have such a happy life
Do you like be glad you have a mother living lose your best friend that is not nothing for you I think about when I cry so much like me and my mother was tight it's 1:23 and that was my best friend
I felt when the mom says she deserves to be happy. Folks may disagree but she’s right. Parents deserve to be happy too. They devote themselves entirely and deserve their happiness as well.
They should do a part2 where Joseph married the Mom and Amber is Grown up and married to Malcolm and they have 2 twin kids who dream that someday they will be CowBoys/Cowgirls or dream to someday walk on Mars and maybe the Moon the story ends up with them eating burgers together
Why do why is you talking to your mother like that you know something Jesus Christ will punish you what you doing so disrespectful to your mother you better be glad you got your mother living customer something happened to her you won't have nobody in your life you so disrespectful Jesus Christ will punish you and you will see you one day when your mother's gone but now mass is not with me you might appreciate when you got to hear cuz when she lose your mother you ain't got no one in your life men's diet this year 2 days for mother's Day@@Aroaceenby
i understand the mom is in the right in the whole situation but i don't think she should have sent her boyfriend to talk about her daughter's dad to her daughter
I understand she doesn’t wanna hurt her daughter but she needs to tell her the truth about her father lying only makes it worse if the child is old enough to know tell him or her.
These videos are funny cause there is no way ever my kid would talk to me that way and get away with it and have a boys go in her room even though mom said no, she'd have anther thing coming 😊
I would like to take the time out to thank you, ILLUMEABLY and your AMAZING CREW MEMBERS for giving us AMAZING videos on a regular basis, and for that I truly THANK YOU.
Morals of the story: 1. Always be grateful for your parents. 2. Before you judge others, get to know them first. 3. Take your parents' advice seriously. 4. The best way to understand a situation is to understand all sides of the story. 5. The sooner you tell the truth, the better. 6. A bad attitude never does anybody any good.
Amber wants to be with her cool friends but she hates her single mom for dating another guy. So yeah, mom had Amber at 16, but if she and Amber need to talk, they should. BF cherishes Amber and is a keeper, he is even wanting her to hash it out with her mother!! Hopefully everything can be resolved soon, the estrangement will be too much!!! Ouch!!
10:28 OH, SO YOU THINK LYING TO HER STILL AND STARVING HER WILL SOLVE ANYTHING, SERIOUSLY WHY CAN’T SOCIETY UNDERSTAND THAT KIDS ARE HUMAN AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE, RIGHTS FOR KIDS!!!
I cried! 😢 This video is so common. That same thing happened 2 me. The father of my 2 wonderful boys tried 2 poison my boys. They are both grown into 2 wonderful Men, Sons, and most of all Dads!❤ They love me and respect me!❤
Remember, keep the anger, revenge, discouraged, frightening, ragged and loneliness, fades from sadness, emptying and blame, forget to forgive all those things were be weathered by a fake love and lovesickness flows through the chills
BIG , Thank Illumeably and your amazing team for once again another awesome video as always your videos never disappoint us all and i would like to take the time out to appreciate all the hard work that you and your amazing team put into making all these awesome videos as always you put in a 💯 percent in all your videos and the storyline's are absolutely amazing as well i can't thank you enough for taking the time out to do all these awesome videos....and not forgetting making my nights so happy just sitting watching all your awesome video's as well.........BIG THUMBS UP FOR Illumeably and your amazing team......👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼👏👏💯💕💞🌹🌹🙏
If the girl loved her dad sooo much, why did she accept her Mom's information about him so quickly. She knew that her Dad's absence was more than it appeared.
5:11 If you ain’t gonna tell her then she’ll assume the complete opposite, you gotta understand the consequences of your action, for example by not telling her she now hates you and she’ll eventually find out and resent you even more
Amber must be really sorry indeed for treating her mom like that, mother's are our stronghold. Sometimes our dads are never around. Amber should even be grateful that her mom is fighting for her future, she's lucky, some people don't have that luck from one or either both parents.
Another thing, I can’t believe how blind society is to one single thing, children are human beings, like seriously if you legally can’t hit an adult then why is it allowed to hit a child?! Also like seriously, you have to keep in mind that a teenager needs the most emotional support. Like don’t children have rights!? Don’t they get a say in stuff?! Don’t they have the right to basic needs.Oh when child just says that they’ll starve what’s next when a child complains that they’ll still thirsty when you give them water you call them bratty and ungrateful?! UNACCEPTABLE! I hope that people will try and see the world through children’s eyes.
This is pretty much my exact situation. My dad was an abusive asshole and took off almost 14 years ago and my mom is still looking for a new boyfriend, even when me and my sister were still kids. I didn't like it at first but now i really want my mom to be happy. She's awesome and deserves someone who truly cares about her. ❤
Amber is the one lying. Always saying her mom starving her but it isnt what happened. Shes a brat full of anger and options! She didnt want the food prepared by her mother
“No boys in your room” hello you seriously need to calm down, you have boyfriend, and so can your daughter, second of all you should really take a break from dating, and your daughter is being quite clear on what’s going on her mind, you should really try comforting her, otherwise she really has a point on you not knowing how to be a parent
One of those situations when a mother may regret to have chosen to become a mom. Or to have an ungrateful daughter. However loneliness may not mean happiness at all!
BRO WHAT TIME PERIOD ARE YOU FROM?! THE 1900s?!, SLAPPING AND ECT IS INEFFECTIVE AND COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE, Y’ALL SHOULD KNOW THIS!AND STARVING IS STRAIGHT UP CHILD ABUSE AND YOU COULD GET YOUR CHILD TAKEN AWAY FROM YOU!
Nah, definitely true you’ve done a lot of things for her, but you haven’t completed your duty as a mother, you still have to tell her the truth, instead of letting your daughter starve.Also, what the hell, a burger ain’t enough, that’s child abuse, cause I highly doubt that she’s 18.
9:28 im agreeing with her i ain't eating plastic And Joseph looking in on there convo hes nosey The father's not horrible either he just went to the wrong path
wrong. i dont know how old you are but in certain situations you dont know at the time when the right time is. you have to go by instinct. you have to be in that situation to understand
Holding onto a false dream instead of hurting someone by telling them the truth only hurts them more. Honesty, especially in situations like this, prevails and helps build trust.
Always be greatful to a great mom makes her feeling happy fantastic message love it
yay! time to go in bed and watch illumeably
Facts ❤
@@georgepaton1424loll
Im not sleeping
Im 25
Lol that man kept peeking his head out when mom was talking to the daughter
😂
talking about he kinda overheard…nah man you were being nosyyy😂😂
the lesson here is to always be honest with your children, lying only makes things worse
Idk idk 🤷♀️
Dont ever put ADULT PROBLEMS ON CHILDRENS HEADS ITS NOT RIGHT OR FAIR
mhm
Facts. That’s how I parent my son I don’t lie to him. And because I am he is known as the most respectful polite kid anyone has ever met. He gets free stuff from stores just cause he’s polite and cute. I get bad comments from other parents that I shouldn’t be free parenting my kid. I know how to be a mom because of my past I refuse to let our curse continue so with my son I’m breaking the chain so he can have such a happy life
First lesson, respect your mother no matter what.
Always be honest with your children from the beginning, no matter how painful it is.
Only 2 a degree it is not fair to put adult problems and scenarios in children's heads. You need to let children be children I said what I said.
Yes
Do you like be glad you have a mother living lose your best friend that is not nothing for you I think about when I cry so much like me and my mother was tight it's 1:23 and that was my best friend
😂❤ have faith in Jesus Christ he is your savior in your life you and your mother
I felt when the mom says she deserves to be happy. Folks may disagree but she’s right. Parents deserve to be happy too. They devote themselves entirely and deserve their happiness as well.
Absolutely! I want my mom to be happy. She spends so much time amd effort making me and my sister happy. Why shouldn't she be?
lol
Maybe
They should do a part2 where Joseph married the Mom and Amber is Grown up and married to Malcolm and they have 2 twin kids who dream that someday they will be CowBoys/Cowgirls or dream to someday walk on Mars and maybe the Moon the story ends up with them eating burgers together
Why do why is you talking to your mother like that you know something Jesus Christ will punish you what you doing so disrespectful to your mother you better be glad you got your mother living customer something happened to her you won't have nobody in your life you so disrespectful Jesus Christ will punish you and you will see you one day when your mother's gone but now mass is not with me you might appreciate when you got to hear cuz when she lose your mother you ain't got no one in your life men's diet this year 2 days for mother's Day@@Aroaceenby
i understand the mom is in the right in the whole situation but i don't think she should have sent her boyfriend to talk about her daughter's dad to her daughter
Ummm actually she did right
That was a very disturbing story about amber’s father for ruining the family.
true
@@murakumaku true that
@@murakumakuyep very true
The consistency is what I love.
She speaking her talk for real💯💯💯💯
It's always good for the parents to tell their children the truth, not partial truth but the whole truth
I understand she doesn’t wanna hurt her daughter but she needs to tell her the truth about her father lying only makes it worse if the child is old enough to know tell him or her.
Exactly!
Love the consistency of this channel
True❤❤❤❤❤
These videos are funny cause there is no way ever my kid would talk to me that way and get away with it and have a boys go in her room even though mom said no, she'd have anther thing coming 😊
They may have made up but still doesn't alter the fact at which Amber spoke to her mother regardless of apologies.
I would like to take the time out to thank you, ILLUMEABLY and your AMAZING CREW MEMBERS for giving us AMAZING videos on a regular basis, and for that I truly THANK YOU.
npc
@@BlastedBSfr
Fr
@@BlastedBS ur mom
bffr☠️
But I like something about the girl... She's so plain and tells her mum her mind exactly as it is... 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes yes
@@jessicamoye698😊😊
At least you know you're attracted to horribly cruel mean people who will only hurt you.
Yasss❤
That’s literally the perfect moment to comfort her and tell her the truth.
Morals of the story:
1. Always be grateful for your parents.
2. Before you judge others, get to know them first.
3. Take your parents' advice seriously.
4. The best way to understand a situation is to understand all sides of the story.
5. The sooner you tell the truth, the better.
6. A bad attitude never does anybody any good.
The mother could really use lesson 6
#3 not always especially if it's unhealthy
Amber wants to be with her cool friends but she hates her single mom for dating another guy. So yeah, mom had Amber at 16, but if she and Amber need to talk, they should. BF cherishes Amber and is a keeper, he is even wanting her to hash it out with her mother!! Hopefully everything can be resolved soon, the estrangement will be too much!!! Ouch!!
Why would she have Amber at 16?
@@erickbuckner4485 She was a young single parent, the biological dad was violent to them!!!
10:28 OH, SO YOU THINK LYING TO HER STILL AND STARVING HER WILL SOLVE ANYTHING, SERIOUSLY WHY CAN’T SOCIETY UNDERSTAND THAT KIDS ARE HUMAN AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE, RIGHTS FOR KIDS!!!
Welcome back Kristi 🎉
She would be SENT TO LIVE WITH HER FATHER!!! PERIOD!
I like watching videos by Illumeably :)
I cried! 😢 This video is so common. That same thing happened 2 me. The father of my 2 wonderful boys tried 2 poison my boys. They are both grown into 2 wonderful Men, Sons, and most of all Dads!❤ They love me and respect me!❤
Remember, keep the anger, revenge, discouraged, frightening, ragged and loneliness, fades from sadness, emptying and blame, forget to forgive all those things were be weathered by a fake love and lovesickness flows through the chills
Absolutely loved her boyfriends personality it was so funny 😂 17:33 the guy peeking around teh corner xD
Not the squishy!!! I love yalls vids!
BIG , Thank Illumeably and your amazing team for once again another awesome video as always your videos never disappoint us all and i would like to take the time out to appreciate all the hard work that you and your amazing team put into making all these awesome videos as always you put in a 💯 percent in all your videos and the storyline's are absolutely amazing as well i can't thank you enough for taking the time out to do all these awesome videos....and not forgetting making my nights so happy just sitting watching all your awesome video's as well.........BIG THUMBS UP FOR Illumeably and your amazing team......👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼👍🏻👍🏼👏👏💯💕💞🌹🌹🙏
Wwwwww
I love the show and ❤❤❤❤
Great video. Thanks 🙏🏾
I love this video😊
Amber made a huge mistake, she thought that her mom is cheating on her dad until the truth gets out about the way her father treated her
If the girl loved her dad sooo much, why did she accept her Mom's information about him so quickly. She knew that her Dad's absence was more than it appeared.
Because the video would have been 2 hrs.
This episode was so heartwarming can’t wait to watch the next episode 👍
it Was a good story 😊😊
My mom is a single parent and my dad isn’t around so I love her too much ❤️
5:11 If you ain’t gonna tell her then she’ll assume the complete opposite, you gotta understand the consequences of your action, for example by not telling her she now hates you and she’ll eventually find out and resent you even more
17:34 his head peaking in then back out is so funny to me 😭
19:54 I can’t lie but definitely in some way she deserves to be happy
Rocking wit dat golden state jersey 🔥
Amber must be really sorry indeed for treating her mom like that, mother's are our stronghold. Sometimes our dads are never around.
Amber should even be grateful that her mom is fighting for her future, she's lucky, some people don't have that luck from one or either both parents.
This is so relatable!!!
Amazing
5:27 unbelieviable youare just too scare to tell your own daughter? What a shame. I wait and see what going to happen.
AND YOUR NOT SCARED TO TELL YOUR CHILD HE/SHE IS GONNA STARVE.
😮 she is a good mom
Krusty krabs from Spongebob Burgers 🤣 Got Added By Illumeably🙂
Good dad
5:12 Your fault she’s acting like that, what were you thinking?!You shouldn’t lie!
17:33 bro was peeking 😂
Thag acting tho!...
The dude peeking through the door while they "talk" is too much. Like hes playing peekaboo. 😂
"let me give you guys some space!"
*Peeks his head over the wall*
"Oh sorry I kind of over heard u guys"
Another thing, I can’t believe how blind society is to one single thing, children are human beings, like seriously if you legally can’t hit an adult then why is it allowed to hit a child?! Also like seriously, you have to keep in mind that a teenager needs the most emotional support. Like don’t children have rights!? Don’t they get a say in stuff?! Don’t they have the right to basic needs.Oh when child just says that they’ll starve what’s next when a child complains that they’ll still thirsty when you give them water you call them bratty and ungrateful?! UNACCEPTABLE! I hope that people will try and see the world through children’s eyes.
"I know everything."
I guess you don't know anything, huh? and Mom, you *DEFINITELY* should have told her sooner.
She regrets what❤ she regrets❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Kristi Garcia As Amber is my fave
This is pretty much my exact situation. My dad was an abusive asshole and took off almost 14 years ago and my mom is still looking for a new boyfriend, even when me and my sister were still kids. I didn't like it at first but now i really want my mom to be happy. She's awesome and deserves someone who truly cares about her. ❤
The fact that the dad was peeking from the the door at 17:57
Wow! I thought the plot twist was going to be that Joseph WAS Amber's father.
WTF? WEIRDO💀
The girl had no memories of her father, because he was never there. All of her beliefs, emotions, and tone of voice were from her 7-year-old self.
ok but like why is this more relatable than dhar mann😂😂😂😂😂
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Amber is the one lying. Always saying her mom starving her but it isnt what happened. Shes a brat full of anger and options! She didnt want the food prepared by her mother
She doesn't pretend at all to be who she's not... 😂😂😂
Girlfriend: “Wait you don’t have a crush on her, do you🤣?”
Boyfriend: No that would be weird she’s your mom.
“No boys in your room” hello you seriously need to calm down, you have boyfriend, and so can your daughter, second of all you should really take a break from dating, and your daughter is being quite clear on what’s going on her mind, you should really try comforting her, otherwise she really has a point on you not knowing how to be a parent
6:02 not gonna lie, that was scary😅
One of those situations when a mother may regret to have chosen to become a mom. Or to have an ungrateful daughter. However loneliness may not mean happiness at all!
I love dram man and now this channel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This went so good ienjoy it
1:00 no need to be so cringe. Just be true with your daughter soon.
Hy I love your videos pls answer me it's my dream
If I was the mom, I would’ve slapped her for talking to me like that, and then tell her about what happened with the dad.
Lol fr
BRO WHAT TIME PERIOD ARE YOU FROM?! THE 1900s?!, SLAPPING AND ECT IS INEFFECTIVE AND COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE, Y’ALL SHOULD KNOW THIS!AND STARVING IS STRAIGHT UP CHILD ABUSE AND YOU COULD GET YOUR CHILD TAKEN AWAY FROM YOU!
Nah, definitely true you’ve done a lot of things for her, but you haven’t completed your duty as a mother, you still have to tell her the truth, instead of letting your daughter starve.Also, what the hell, a burger ain’t enough, that’s child abuse, cause I highly doubt that she’s 18.
17:53 He’s just peeking and being nosy LOL
ginny and georgia reenactment?
EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING
This is kind of funny!
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😂😂😂
Always the parents have a word to say....
❤
her mom is getting advice
9:28 im agreeing with her i ain't eating plastic
And Joseph looking in on there convo hes nosey
The father's not horrible either he just went to the wrong path
this felt lke ginny and gerogia since theres a clip of marcus and giny YK🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧 did that
THING with each other and ya
9:48 Oh my fucking god, what the hell she clearly is having a hard time, stop exalting the situation.
8:31 "the wicked wotch of the west"
What in the actual hell. They couldn't get real food for the dinner lol
Ginny and Georgia vibes!!
The man's right...shes protecting the husband even though the husband refused to afmit his wrongs.
The fake burger🍔 😂, at least its not spaghetti like dhar man😂😂
Anyone else think that the guy is dressed like the guy out of the minions 🤣🤣🤣
Amber is so beautiful
17:29 Why is he peeking🤣😆
Joseph peeking out the door 😂
Whohooo
not joseph looking 👀 17:34 at the back
im on mom side
Me too
I am team Amber!!
The burgers 😭😭😭😭😭
The whole time I was watching this I kept remembering Ginny and Georgia I watched it recently and this is so close to the show
18:02 the guy is looking at them in the background 😂
that burger looks so fake
Probably is bro
Mother's fault for not being honest
wrong. i dont know how old you are but in certain situations you dont know at the time when the right time is. you have to go by instinct. you have to be in that situation to understand
@@berniesmith5123
Lying destroys trust. Simple as that