Talking To Our Younger Selves (When We Were Engaged)
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- Опубліковано 27 лис 2020
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We just filmed a part 2 to this - Talking To Our Younger Selves The Day We Got Pregnant 😂: ua-cam.com/video/XWZKjuNb35s/v-deo.html
Do a sequel when the kids are teenagers and young adults. Oh... yeah, you'll need another six years, probably 10, just to be safe.
R I can
im 59.. no wife.. never had kids.. never had a family.. things never worked out like I wanted them to... I'd trade anything to go back and start my life over.
Only your wife got pregnant
Am I the only one who thought they filmed two videos 6 years apart and edited them together? I feel so dumb lmao
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Some people do that too but usually it's pretty obvious when it is 😂
Wait how did they even film this? I’m sooooo confused??
@@LauraaDrachmann it's two shots. They edited the thumbail together lol
@@LauraaDrachmann If you mean from the middle shot, you just keep the camera in the *exact* same place and shoot twice. How would you think they'd do it if they filmed it in the past? 😂 they'd still have to edit them together
I’d love to tell my engaged self that NO ONE CARES ABOUT THE CENTREPIECES.
People go for the open bar
Thank you, I needed that. I'm getting married in two days and I keep obsessing over details.
@@Ccaarrooification I spent way too much time planning and arranging and half my florals wilted overnight (we DIYed the centrepieces) and the venue replaced them with super basic floating tea lights and they looked fantastic and I’m sure my guests didn’t care.
everyone cared about ours! 🤣 we had magnums of bollinger champagne in ice buckets! one of the best decisions we made xx
@@Ccaarrooification congrats 🎊
Married 4.5 years:
- date night matters
- forgiveness matters
-communication matters
- marriage is a journey and each year brings on a different challenge, adventure, and opportunity.
Well said!!!
Love this! Marriage is hard but it is also an adventure. Everything in life is hard. Choose your hard.
💜✨😌
This year just brought more of a challenge
In my second year of marriage and taking these notes
My parents have been married for 26 years and they're still like disgusting newly weds. I've never seen 2 people love each other more. 3 kids later and they're still happy.
I hope I'm blessed with partner like that one day.
Amazing!!
What do you think contributes to that beautiful dynamic?
@@vir_rm They each have roles. I've never ever seen my parents raise their voices or swear at eachother. My mum always says once you insult your husband there are things said that can't be taken back so attack the problem not the person. They just respect eachother. I can't explain it. He still buys her flowers. Shes still so shy. They just adore eachother. It's kinda gross but also incredibly sweet
My parents are the same way and then me and my fiancé act like the old married couple 🤣 it’s a funny dynamic. They’re still in the honeymoon phase after close to thirty years it’s adorable
@@samanthap.879 isn't it! I feel blessed to see a healthy and loving relationship don't you? Not many people get to see it.
“In fact, most people work from home...now.....” 😭😭😭😭😭
Loved that one!🤣🤣🤣
Rip 😂😂😂
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I READ THAT RIGHT WHEN HE SAID IT
Well done.
Don’t spend a ton of money on your wedding and reception. Invite those closest to you. We spent $3K. Married for 31 years. Don’t regret our simple wedding at all. And also this video was so cute!
The average wedding is 35k. I'm with you, keep it small. It's one day, verses putting some money towards a house.
Yes, I agree
I just used an inflation calculator and it showed that 31 years ago in 1989 $3,000 would be over $6,000 now. Wow!
@@April-xq4ll 35k??? What? 😳
My husband and I went to an elopment destination in Idaho, which was a chapel with several rooms and space for some guests. A pastor married us with my folks the only guests. It was great...no stress! But it was a bit surreal to walk in single and walk out 30 min later married. One expects a life altering decision to have more fanfare. 😆
Best marriage advice I could ever give: sleep with separate blankets.
Yes!!!!! Lol
THIS. Lol
💯 %
Why?
@@lauradaisy1571 As someone who shares a bed with my fiance... Nothing causes irrational anger faster than a blanket hog. If it's not you, it's your spouse. Just have a separate blanket, it's easier. Lol
For my 20-30 year old self: Be willing to stand up to the “hard stuff” your spouse is facing...don’t just “love and support” your way into a corner.
Wait, please elaborate
I don't understand, yes please elaborate!
I think he means, don't stand by if your spouse is going through Something hard? Like don't just cheer them on. Really help them out. See what you can do and work through tough spots. And not just go "youre doing great. Im here for you IF you need me"
Love this
Like, go to counseling with them? Struggle too? I'm curious too what this well earned observation means for you.
My advice for engaged/new married couples is you dont have to like each other all the time. You have to love them always.
Thank you! This means a whole lot to me right now.
what do you mean
Yeah liking each other all the time never gonna happen.....loving them even though they just screamed at you = priceless marriage moment
Truth!!
@@AumendJoy5962 that's sad. Better to like them and trust them than to "love" them. Don't let yourself be screamed at.
Advice: Save the wedding money, you’ll need it to renovate the house!
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LOVE THIS ADVICE !
Truuuuu
because of covid my wedding got cancelled but with the money i fixed the kitchen and roof. So long term, over one day wedding.
I love how they put the sponsor ship and it flowed so naturally in the sketch. I hate when it’s so obvious and obnoxious that the video is sponsored. This one was great!
literally DID NOT NOTICE THE SPONSERSHIP A N D THEY SOLD ME ON THE ITEM I-
Yes! They sold me as well and I was surprised when they said it was a sponsor 😃
I know right!! I’m sold too!
I want those my toddler hides all the lids in random places
This was well-acted advertising but incredibly obvious and the ad went on awhile. Had to skip it.
I thoroughly enjoyed this
So much to relate to.
So much to relate to
Jk I’m like 13
Same very relatable
Me Toooo!
So clever
"Let it grooow" "oh they dont know that reference" 😂😂😂
I don't know if it's a frozen or lorax reference 😂
@@lauranoelani3148 yeah they didn’t really sing enough to be sure 😅
Lorax🙃🙃
What did they mean ? 🙃
@@FabiaNightshadow it's in reference to the a ridiculously popular Disney movie: Frozen
Or
The Lorax; Great movie also!
But Frozen..? Whomever marketed that was a genius!
Super creative!
Haha we had way more fun creating it than anticipated
Check out Julie Nolke, this video concept is totally stolen from her without credit
@@hodap6591 RetroFreak84 is the first person I’ve seen do the “talking to my past self” video. Did she credit him?
@Christa Keizer @hoda p
No it’s not a copy? It’s a style of a skit that a lot of people use besides Julie, and nobody credits anyone. It’s like a Tik Tok POV- everyone does it, nobody credits the original. Look it up and you’ll see a bunch lol. Jeez, you canceling stans sure try hard but alas, you don’t do research beforehand. But be my guest to look up the other videos and also demand them to “credit Julie.”
@@theoutcast9215 dear I didn't mean any insult to your artwork or anything, I had never heard of this style of skit before Julie, but I'm sincerely sorry about not "doing the research beforehand", you are absolutely right, I had to be 100% sure before accusing you of copying, I'll delete my comment as an apology 😊
i wish i could say to myself engaged: marriage is about partnership more like a friend and friend relationship, dont treat it like youre the princess waiting for your husband to make you happy. it's your job to be for the other half.
Say that !!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾In my first marriage, I heavily relied on my ex to “ entertain me”. We have to relish in our own entertainment and separate things we like. Definitely building a friendship.
Wow, I’m 13 years in and just now figuring this out, lol. I need to work on my own happiness for my partner’s sake... it does make a huge difference and it’s not always easy, but it can be done.
We're not even married yet and I knew this almost from the start 😅 Thought it was obvious once you grew up. That's how all relationships work. You can never have a relationship on your own, you're two different people who have to work for it.
@@unmercifulfate Wish I understood what this really meant. To say is one thing but to comprehend it and practice it is another. My ex and I had pre- martial counseling and everything; but losing our children and not repairing our previous hurts and surmounting pressures of martial issues broke us. However, somehow it was all my fault according to him 😂.
So true. As soon as you say (or think) "My happiness is your responsibility," you establish, "anytime I'm not happy, you have failed" Fast forward to train crashing into dumpster fire.
It’s the nodding and the married ones expressions as their engaged selves speak for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This truly was the most entertaining video I have ever watched on UA-cam. Happy 6th anniversary!
WE ARE HONORED 😂😘
By far the best I've ever seen thus far!!!
Took the words right out of my mouth
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😂😂😂Love this vid. Love the concept.
You know you're an adult when you see reusable ziplocks and have to pause the video to find the product on Amazon 🤣🤷♀️🤦♀️.
I paused to do exactly that as well.....lost half my Tupperware lids somehow! 😆
I totally did this too! 😂
Haha we linked it in the video description too 😘
Yeeeesssss!!!!
🙋🏻♀️ Full adult here 😆😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 The acting is 🙌🙌🙌!
You here??? The World's so small 😄🐜🐜🐜
Marriage advice after 8 years: listen with humility. Do the hard stuff like move across the world and run out of money. Take scary chances. Its only scary for a little while. Those things become the highlight reel of your lives together.
I’d love to tell my engaged self that you literally only need to order cake for HALF of your guests. Maybe less lol
There was not a single piece left at my wedding and we ordered more than one piece per guest since I was hoping to take some home. I think it depends on the style of your wedding and who makes the cake.
Haha we just did 1 costco sheet cake for our guests. No one knew the difference😂
We had a cupcake tower and only had 4 cupcakes left (which we totally enjoyed the couple days after the wedding 😊)
We had a Ben & Jerry's ice cream cake and by the time it was starting to get soft, there were only 3 or 4 servings left, so the venue staff helped us finish it off 😊 there was no way to transport any portion home without it melting for any "eat it on your first anniversary" type traditions ... but any time we want to be romantic and eat "some of our wedding cake" we can just go buy a pint or two of Ben & Jerry's
If you did that everyone would see the lack of cake and then rush to get a piece leaving no cake left and then people asking where's the cake I want some! Lol
My all time go to advice for newlyweds is to always focus on your self in an argument. I have never won an argument by pointing my finger at my husband and declaring all his wrong doings. But when I stop to evaluate myself and find something I did wrong to apologize for, that's when his attitude changes and we can come back together to work on things. You can't change others, but you can always better yourself. Marriage is beautiful! #10years #4kids
Great attitude!
Awesome thanks
Love this! So true!!
You said some profound wisdom.
Thanks for the tip!
30th anniversary this year...so, set boundaries for your kids, forgive each other, save money, don't gain weight, never say negative things about your spouse to your kids, they have their own lists of negatives - you guys are a TEAM.
This video is awesome! I became a widow at a very young age and I would really tell my engaged self: after getting married, stop getting angry at the little things. It won't make you a slave to just take the plate from the table to the dishwasher where your husband left it, it will only make you bitter if you get angry or even. Don't try to change him - accept him with all his flaws. Take lots of photos as one day this will be all you have left.
Sorry for your loss 😔
Well that is really sad :( thanks for sharing this and reminding us all that life is short and we shouldn't waste time on unimportant things. On the other hand, if someone consistently forgets to help you it can be a sign of a lack of respect, and you just picking up after the other person can be you losing respect for yourself too.
Wow
Sorry for your loss
When she said “hmmm you’re just so firm and defying gravity” I felt that in my soul (me as a new mom, first son born in August )
You’re beautiful!! 🤱💃
❤️❤️
The more the saggier. I mean better 😅
Oh.... THATS what she’s talking about.
Congrats girl!!! It’s a ride but some things get better! Hang in there
I was really confused cause I couldn’t tell if you had filmed this previously... cause the transitions were so seem less and the conversation was so natural lol
well they did talk about cocomelon which idk if that show is 6 years old. i just started hearing about it. idk i’m still confused
@Stacy Tip it was more a compliment to them! Cause there are videos like it when they had prerecorded it! So I just thought they were really clever!
It’s so funny because at the end I was like wait what is the other couple going to say LOL I miss the other couple too!
18 years in: My husband and I wake up every day and say, I marry you. And it's a beautiful reminder of the covenant we made. Also, try to be the one who forgives first. My husband is so much better at this than me, and I am a better person because of him.
Love that you two are inspiring each other. That's what a healthy relationship is😊
There is so much depth to your comment. What a wonderful marriage.
36 years and still very much loving each other. Communication is key. Go around life's corners together. Wait for each other. Speak words of appreciation and encouragement frequently. Be best friends.
This is seriously the best video. You should record yourself asking your 2030 selves questions for next time.
Ohhhhhhh LOVE THIS IDEA
We will be waiting for this😊😊
Oh yes!! Future Jurgys💯🔥
@@millicentkimaita2481 YES!
I've been married for just 4 years but I would tell my younger self to relax and don't sweat the small stuff and travel more.
My daughter's name is Hanna. She calls it 'hannatizer '. Well she was 3 when this started so it is cute.
Aww!
So does my daughter whose name is not Hanna. I think it’s a combination of hand and sanitizer...
My 3 year olds do this too!! It’s so funny 😂
Our three year old calls it "soapatizer"
"Oh my gosh! We live in an RV? WE'RE POOR!!" I'm so dead 🤣🤣🤣
You are beautiful people. I’ve been married 43 years. Life isn’t perfect in a perfect world, however I never new my life would be so great and fulfilled.
That's awesome! ❤️
That was really fun
Haha imagining you and Leslie meeting your future selves next to Zack’s statue
@@TheJurgys that would be solid! Super confusing to explain.
I love how they're still obviously in love after six years of marriage :)
This is my first time watching and I LOVED this! Will be 10 years married in 2 weeks, and I’d tell my engaged self to not let the kids take the spark away from the relationship. Fight for the spark! 💥
For without the parents having a spark what will the kids have?
@@garlicgirl3149 darkness...
Congratulations!
@@crownedmelaninqueen thank you! 😊
Needed this, thank you!! Obviously you get the struggle in this parent*hood*
Wow! A marriage-affirming video. Almost unheard of these days. Thanks!
Put money away (even if it is only $20/month) and don’t touch it until your kids go to college (or save it for a trip for yourselves when they graduate).
If you can’t be civil in a conversation have a prepared statement to tell your SO you need space/time to process before talking. Such as: I can’t trust myself to talk right now, give me 20-30 minutes and we can circle back to talk.
Make Date Night a priority (minimum once a month). You don’t have to go out to dinner. Fix sandwiches and walk around the park or around the block. Just get rid of the outside world (phone, RV, Internet, neighbors and family) and spend time together.
Life is rough, but you made a commitment to each other. Honor and respect it! (34+ years married)
And slow down, you will get there. You have time and it will happen.
Love ALL OF THIS 👏🏼 🙏🏼
I agree with all of that. Except I don't have kids so likely that money would be going to well, retirement I supposed lol
@@parisinthe30sx they said save it for a trip 😂 but I suppose it will go to retirement if you dont like to travel
Thankkk youuuuu nice to hear some clear and specific useful instructions (advice)
My husband and I are coming up on 21 years next month, and one of the things I've realized is that you don't get to a point in your marriage where you've made it. You can't tale your relationship for granted, you need to work on it and prioritize it. And if something is bothering you, talk about it (or write a letter if you can't do confrontation), don't let it fester.
"This is the thing you're excited about?"
So very relatable 😩😂😂😂
You guys asked for gems and here it goes: You don’t have to be millionaire to be happy. Stop thinking that and enjoy your family 😘
haha oh we agree w/ you. we're definitely not millionaires and are definitely happy ❤️
"The car seat and stroller.... in one" Got me! 🤣🤣
Been married 5 years. Best advice I can share: love is not always a feeling. It's a choice you make. New feelings come, old feeling go, but choosing to love them and just choosing them everytime will just make your partnership stronger. Okay one more: rethink your expectations, especially when frustrated. Look to yourself first and boldly challenge your own thinking before accidentally assuming how the other person should act, then talk it through together when calm.
I love how they tried the best not to tell them about Corona, because they didn’t want to give a spoiler ❤️😫😫
I wish I could tell my engaged self to just elope or just go to the courthouse and a nice dinner after and use the money towards a house. 😩
As a parent, your children's milestones and accomplishments are the most important no matter the size. 💕
My parents go to bed at 8. it's a relief to know they are not sick, just in their early 40s
Eh...late 40s here. They aren't sleeping 😂
Best advice that has helped my partner and I: you are a team. It is you and your partner against the world, not against each other. Very important to always remember.
"let it grow, let it grow- oh wait, they don't know that reference yet."
😁 that and Cocomelon
I would tell our younger selves to slow down! We were in such a rush to do everything and we didn't need to be.
So so true. That’s how our 50 states trip was
ditto...id say "don't rush on kids" we got pregnant 6 months after marriage and they've been back to back since then 😳
We love them dearly but we never got a ton of alone time before kids
Long engagements are okay ! I understand that now.
This was hilarious. Married 33 years here...2 adult kids, now we raise dogs.🤣 Life truly does throw curveballs...forgiveness, communication, space for each partner to be themselves. And lots of love.
Wise!
I would tell my younger self just keep distance from the in laws only see them when my spouse wanted to, not on my free time to become “close” to them. And when they argue or disagree with you don’t say anything ever just ignore them! 😂😂
Can totally relate!
I would tell my younger self to cut his relatives off from contact with the first time they treated me poorly. (It was the first time I met them.) It was how it worked out anyway, they don't like me.
Advice to myself: All those little details from the wedding that mattered dont actually matter. And the things that went wrong end up being a funny story later. Roll with it.
That's the truth!
Happy Anniversary! I’ve been a widow for 35 years.. My only advice you already follow: open communication is key. Savor every day. I hope you continue to be happy and grow old together. ❤️
Oh Elsa we love you for taking the time to comment and be here. So so true what you said
I love how they just grazed over the quarantining lol
Not me thinking they actually filmed it six years ago 😭😭
That is a very creative way of doing promo! You got me conviced and I didn't even know you were doing the promo in the first place! Great video!!!
"It's 8 we gotta call it."
I felt that 🤣
This video is so great!!! And yes. Zip tops are very exciting 😂
😂❤️❤️ya you guys know!
I had no clue what this amazing invention was
Didn’t know about this!
Been with my husband 11 years and if I could tell my younger self anything about the relationship it'd be to lighten up, save up as much money as possible, and don't worry about a big wedding with everyone around
Was not looking for this at all, but zip tops are going on my Christmas list now...hahahahhaha
Hahaha we got your back
Ok so I live under a rock, I’m genuinely mind blown over the zip top containers! What is this sorcery?!?!?
Married 44 years, but pretty sure our younger selves would not have listened! Lol How about, "Just don't give up!" 💗😊
The husband looks so much wiser after 6 years 🤣
I'm dying of laughter over the zip tops, my husband and I are newly married expecting our 1st , just watched a review on those things, the excitement is unmatched Haha Loved this video!
Smoothest product placement I've ever seen. I actually want those Zip Tops. Happy Anniversary!
“Zip- Top” ... got it. 🧐 Added to registry.
Love, forgive, have no expectations, and keep the Lord at the center💙oh! & don’t share bad things with your parents! keep the family bonds strong💙
dear person reading this, ur so loved and worthy, stay safe🦋
Hey Jesus loves you and died for you!!
I am engaged annnd whoever said they dont care about the center pieces OMGSH THANK YOU!! Do less God bless - trey Kennedy.
Yay-Trey Kennedy fan!
Hilary, do you know about The Chosen series?
I care
We celebrate our 24th anniversary next week. My advice to my engaged self is don't burden your hubby with unfair and unrealistic expectations. Let him be who he is and you both wil become better people after raising your kids together. We are happier now than at years 6-10, which were rough. Also, the love life continues and gets better after the kids are grown. Never knew that. Never knew a lot of things. Best advice -- marry a kind person who believes in family and marriage, and then don't give up. Ever. Best is yet to be. You just don't know what it will look like. Love is really everything.
I like how their younger selves were trying to feign interest in the potty training convo 😂😂
27+ years of marriage and 3 amazing kids who are the kindest, most responsible young adults ever. They are my people I would want with me in an emergency or disaster b/c they have an amazing ability to remain calm. Of course that is what happens when you teach your kids not to panic and they watched their mom who has a lifetime of patience for everyday (because God chose to put that in me).
-Pray and read God's Word every day
-Don't sweat the small stuff
-Keep a "this too shall pass" attitude
-Give your worry to God
-Remember that life is too short to be angry, lose patience, or let things bug you
-Don't be a slave to debt. You will miss out on sooooo much if you are.
-Get a will and trust written up
-Get more life insurance than you think will be sufficient so that your spouse can have less weight on his or her shoulders if you should pass from this life
This is advice is so so solid. Thank you!!
All very well said!
This is totally the playbook of folks married past 20 years😂❣️
Almost 10 years for me, and we also read the Bible and pray everyday! There is an abundance of knowledge to apply to our everyday lives, nice to hear you do this too! ❤
Wait what? I was kinda agreeing but the last point bugged me. Preparing for my own death could be useful, it's just really weird.
I wish I could tell my engaged self to not have a big wedding ... elope 😂
Glad I had a small wedding. My husband and I used our money to travel instead. So much better
Same!!!!!!
“It’s 2020, things get interesting”... Mannnn so true 😂😂😭. Loved the video!!
I'm so lazy that my mom actually suggested I elope because she was worried I wouldn't show up to my own wedding.
Lol
I'm actually excited about zip top tho 😂😂
They’re expensive 😅 I saw them at HEB this week.
@@blessedbythebest1003 but you won’t lose the tops! That set is all you need for like 3 years.. pretty cool, think how much you spend on zip bags and containers every year
@@kelseyknock2356 hmmm🤔 you know what... you got a great point. Hehe INVESTMENT! 🤲🏼
I would tell myself that having a baby is harder than you could imagine but of course worth it. Take time for yourselves as a couple.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.. I have a feeling there's more to your thinking...
Is that useful for your past self to hear?
Is that actionable or does it inform any decision-making in your relationship?
Asking for everyone who's here for the advice past of the comments.
Plot twist: it's not their past self, the guy just covered his hair with the beanie.
This is not the plot twist you think it is 😂
@@biclexual 😱
More like a fun fact 😂
😳😨😨 a shocking revelation 😲
cant concentrate on your comment bc i was looking at doyoung's pic
mom i love him 💭
Me to last year newly engaged me: "You don't know this yet, but 2020 is crazy so just plan an elopment or minimony." 😩🙃
"minimony"
This is a new term to me! 😻
"We didn't watch Cocomelon today"
Me...has Cocomelon on right now so my grandson doesn't have a full-on meltdown.
This hits so hard I can't even deal...😂😭Frigging Cocomelon man....friggin Cocomelon...
I mute it 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love that they know what cocomelon is
What is it? A song? A cartoon?
This showed up on my recommended.... amazing!!
We’re STOKED you took the time to watch it! ❤️
Wow the different perspectives! I just loved it 🥳
This is so well done... I can't wrap my mind around how they did this!!!
I'd tell my younger self, buy more toilet paper!!! 2020 is survivable!! Beauty fades on the outside, but the heart stays true!!! Dishes and laundry never end, so don't stress about it!!! Take time to flirt with each other ❤️ Happy 16 years to my hubby and I .
Totally agree with all of these. Especially the taking time to flirt. So easy to get caught up in all the to do’s!! But maybe a bidet instead of so much toilet paper 😂
I’m pretty interested in the lidless containers
Jams of wisdom. Always. I'm really grateful for all of her humor and the way it hits the really important things in life. It's healing af.
Ohhh I thought you filmed the first half 2 years ago, and this one this year. You should do that, film a video now, and then film a follow-up in a couple years.
Can you imagine if you did that and the follow up video is like 25 years from now? That would blow up
Dudes. You really outdid yourselves. I am married since 1980. Steve developed ms in his 20’s. It’s been a journey and then some. Two grown kids and two beautiful granddaughters. Here’s my advice..’talk to one another as if u are a stranger on the phone. Don’t forget the niceties and compliments..always and I mean always be kind and lastly kiss one another first on New Years Eve! *Melissa. 💕
Oh Melissa you and Steve sound incredible. Thank you for this advice! It’s so true how easy it is to change tones when talking to your most important people in your life VS strangers
Hubs and I have been together for 29 years married 18 ... Best ride of our lives.... Just turned 41, and 42!!! 😜
Engaged girl here SOOOO excited and thankful, reading all the comments thoroughly...!! Thanks so much for opening this amazing discussion , will take note of all the wise advices here! 💕💕💕 Happy anniversary, you two rock!
“No it’s fine, because it has to be”, said while laughing. ...effortless wisdom that just came out at the end there 🙌
This is so good. It’s refreshing to see creatives are doing mirror work with self reflection within a union!!! Love this
I would really really like to tell my engaged self to decide on a smaller ring, because since youre a klutz youre going to lose it anyway. Lordy that was heart breaking
I got my tungsten carbide wedding band on Amazon for $18. I have two spares. I fidget with it all the time. I once had it fall off and roll all the way down the aisle while our flight was coming in for a landing. Found it once people cleared out. That's why I don't wear gold.
Hahaha this is sooo good.
Been married 3 years (together for 14). I’d tell my younger self that she made the right choice not spending so much on a wedding. She won’t regret adding expensive extra stuff :)
Oh this is like a couples version of Julie Nolke's series! This was very cute
This was SO clever. Happy Anniversary to you too! God Bless and Protect Y’all!✝️🕊❤️
This reminds me of Julie Nolke's video series on talking to her past self, getting more disillusioned looking as 2020 goes on. Is that where y'all got the idea?
It's pretty blatant but they sadly did not credit her
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Haven't finished all of this one but they've only mentioned 2020 once so far so...
Yeah I mean that's why I knew it'd be brilliant
They gave a shout out to Julie in a separate comment. They should probably pin it or put it in the description though
Awesome video, laughed a lot at the relatability! A little gem: always be willing to consider. Ideas, plans, dreams, goals, listen and chew on an idea before you throw out a response. We’ve made some amazing things happen in our 9 years by being willing to consider’. Thanks for sharing!