How to Stop Thinking About Someone: When You Loved Someone But It's Time to Move On

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 25 бер 2018
  • How can you stop thinking about someone you really like, your crush, or your ex? It can be a real mental struggle to stop thinking about someone you like. Here are three tips if you are Christian who needs to stop thinking about someone.
    (Article) How to Stop Thinking About Someone: applygodsword.com/how-to-stop-...
    (Video) How to Get Over Someone: • Christian Advice: How ...
    FREE eBook: The Ultimate Guide to Christian Singleness: applygodsword.com/christian-si...
    PAPERBACK books and small group Bible studies by Mark Ballenger:
    The Ultimate Guide to Christian Singleness www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide...
    Intertwined: Our Happiness Is Tied to God’s Glory www.amazon.com/Intertwined-Ha...
    Redeemed Like David: How to Overcome Sexual Temptation www.amazon.com/Redeemed-Like-...
    Never Quit: A 5 Week Small Group Bible Study on the Power of Prayer www.amazon.com/dp/1979772673/
    Basic Transformation: A Small Group Bible Study on the Basics of Christianity and Transformation www.amazon.com/dp/197959063X/
    CONTACT and Social Media Info:
    Facebook: / applygodsword
    Twitter: / apply_godsword
    Email: markballenger@applyGodsword.com
    Website: applygodsword.com/

КОМЕНТАРІ • 624

  • @shesnaturallydope6298
    @shesnaturallydope6298 4 роки тому +245

    Struggling very hard😢😢😢😢😔pray for me.

  • @edwinacasler8778
    @edwinacasler8778 6 років тому +404

    It is difficult to let someone we care about go, and then to realize there are not that many people in the area I live that I would even be interested. I was listening to a Rabbi speak not long ago. He was full of wisdom and he said, “Do not ask God for a man for yourself, you don’t want just a man. Instead ask God for your husband. You may not even know him, you may not have met him yet, but ask God to send Your husband, the one He has picked out for you.” Sounds like a plan to me...that’s what I’m doing. I think I will recognize him through the Holy Spirit!

  • @conchettam6861
    @conchettam6861 5 років тому +232

    THANK YOU....my ex narcissist boy friend...from 5yrs...ago...HURT ME SO BAD!!! I loved him....he keeps crossing my mine..every now and then...I wanted him back...but god knows Best 4 me...he was no good from jump!!!JESUS HAS SOME ONE BETTER FOR ME!

  • @bolajiogunlaja6351
    @bolajiogunlaja6351 4 роки тому +77

    The best advice is to focus on yourself, live your best life, go places, have fun, go to church and pray, engage in a sport activity, meet new people.

  • @heleniamblessed5682
    @heleniamblessed5682 6 років тому +212

    I agree about the prayer issue. Prayer actually leads us to follow God’s will.Sometimes such thoughts are a distraction and it’s not God timing. At times God wants us to serve Him in different areas other than focusing on a relationship.

  • @mandohoney
    @mandohoney 3 роки тому +10

    Letting go is not possible....u only suppress it any way you can...until the messiah heals you...it is still in ur heart.

  • @mishmallows
    @mishmallows Рік тому +14

    This video is 5 years old but still so relevant today. So thankful I found this channel.

  • @DaveSmith-vi7lz
    @DaveSmith-vi7lz 5 років тому +179

    One thing I've learned from relationships, rather it be in your hometown or another state, no matter how far you try to run from it, you can't outrun the memories...

  • @dezerismith7529
    @dezerismith7529 4 роки тому +81

    Or you can't stop thinking about the other person because you might be soul tied.

  • @paulbarham1038
    @paulbarham1038 4 роки тому +52

    I've simply realized that I'm genuinely happiest on my own......then I have peace within.

  • @christinebenitez6700
    @christinebenitez6700 4 роки тому +406

    1. Stop focusing on your feelings, and focus on the facts (accept why it didn't work)

  • @ldaniel2023
    @ldaniel2023 4 роки тому +651

    We have have to be careful in what we “hope “ for. Bible says, “False hope leads to a sick heart.” Proverbs

  • @ectharmony6
    @ectharmony6 4 роки тому +140

    Been excactly there just recently, therefore..

  • @wandadrees6384
    @wandadrees6384 3 роки тому +8

    And it doesn’t have to be a romantic relationship. You can form a new friendship, strengthen exsisting relationship. Work to be closer to family members that have been neglected

  • @idealistgorgeous1861
    @idealistgorgeous1861 3 роки тому +6

    Whyyyyy signs😭 it's so hard to resist the obsession and overthinking! I can't stop thinking about him😭

  • @ethanhutchison3180
    @ethanhutchison3180 3 роки тому +6

    For two years I have sought God first, prayed about, trusted, and loved him. I prayed about her and tried to move on. I have had romantic interest in a few girls since. Even a relationship, but I feel like nobody will ever make me feel like she did. Pray for me guys!

  • @maryswenson5357
    @maryswenson5357 6 років тому +110

    I think obsessive thoughts over Any one person can make a person crazy. Good advice think on other things also I think finding hobbies and ways to volunteer or use time wisely while single is great. I don't think enough people really think of the reality of marriage and have some very unrealistic expectations for just another human.

  • @trishawhitehouse4226
    @trishawhitehouse4226 5 років тому +47

    I love it, “ If you aren’t thinking, you’re dead.”

  • @Mezzoflation2148
    @Mezzoflation2148 4 роки тому +57

    Aaaaaaand we're in quarantine and I'm stuck with memories and on lockdown

  • @ansie8729
    @ansie8729 3 роки тому +7

    I feel I'm being punished for what we did, pray for me please 😢...