4 Signs God Is About to Bless You with a Great Relationship

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  • @universewithinyou2761
    @universewithinyou2761 5 років тому +2130

    Fall in love with God first and he will put the right person in your life

  • @joannacastillo8412
    @joannacastillo8412 5 років тому +492

    1. God often waits to bless us with a relationship until we are able to glorify him with this relationship.
    2. If you are building a solid friendship with someone from the opposite sex,this could be a sign that God is about to bless you with a great relationship.
    ** form a Godly friendship with the opposite gender**
    3. If you are understanding of what a biblical wife or husband looks like. As well as what you like and dislike and what God says about these habits
    4.When you become the type of person you would want to date, this could be a sign God is going to bless you with a great relationship.

  • @mariahsmith5647
    @mariahsmith5647 5 років тому +849

    Dance with God, and he will allow the right man to cut in.

    • @rashimasimmons1389
      @rashimasimmons1389 5 років тому +25

      GREAT WORDS

    • @kevanhornsby1070
      @kevanhornsby1070 5 років тому +5

      Hi Mariah. I’ve never heard it put quite like that before but your words are true. If you have him totally in your heart, and he knows you can handle the relationship, then He will pair you with His choice for you of the person that He knows will be your perfect match. He knows what’s best for us because He wants us to be happy. So He would choose no other. If it strictly comes from God, it will no doubt be perfect as is He Himself. It’s us humans that mess things up. Lol. Stay sweet and strong. I would love to chat with you n hear your story. Here’s my email in case you wanna chat. 😊. Task_force_ guy@yahoo.com
      Task Force Guy - over n out.

    • @kevanhornsby1070
      @kevanhornsby1070 5 років тому +2

      God bless you n your family. Have an awesome day ! 😘🙏
      Task Force Guy - over n out

    • @jadeemp
      @jadeemp 5 років тому +1

      Love this ❤️

    • @mariebenjamin6071
      @mariebenjamin6071 5 років тому +2

      I love that 😍👍

  • @charisiren4096
    @charisiren4096 5 років тому +1278

    To my Future Husband:
    I will never stop praying for you. You're always on my mind. 😍
    For now, take care of yourself, until the day I can also take care of you. 😊
    I can't wait to worship, honor, glorify, and serve the Lord with you every single day. 🥰

    • @rashimasimmons1389
      @rashimasimmons1389 5 років тому +19

      Great words

    • @lion4yeshua1
      @lion4yeshua1 5 років тому +27

      charis iren I almost teared up when I read your post, amazing! I pray for love like that one day.

    • @albertbaza2767
      @albertbaza2767 5 років тому +27

      Wow, Beautiful! In a world full self centered, narcissistic people. It's refreshing to read that someone out there, actually has a loving and caring HEART✝️ SHALOM

    • @charisiren4096
      @charisiren4096 5 років тому +8

      @@rashimasimmons1389 Thank you. Stay blessed.

    • @charisiren4096
      @charisiren4096 5 років тому +18

      @@albertbaza2767 Thank you. Glory to God. The waiting is extremely challenging, sometimes too tiring already, but the Lord's great assurance that He knows what is best for us keeps me holding on to His promises.

  • @shehnazmansi3537
    @shehnazmansi3537 5 років тому +809

    I want a husband with whom I can do worship Jesus , pray together and with whom I can share the word of God and spread gospel to all over the world.

    • @ocinidolegna
      @ocinidolegna 5 років тому +4

      Shehnaz Mansi amen, yes. Same here

    • @keturah1980
      @keturah1980 5 років тому +7

      That is the ideal. I pray you wait till God gives it to you😊

    • @anonymous55.09
      @anonymous55.09 5 років тому +7

      I have met this guy in school
      We like the same music( Christian rock)
      We have the same mindset( that this world is run by satanist)
      And most importantly he's Christian
      and I want to make sure that Christ is in the centre of our relationship
      I kept asking God to give me a sign if I should pursue him but he has said nothing and I take that as a yes
      And I told God if he doesn't want it to continue he must give me a clear no
      The weird thing is I thought I was gonna wait for a very long time before God will give me a godly man in my life just like everyone else
      it's very hard for me to accept the fact that I can get one so easily
      What should I do?
      is it the devil giving me doubt?

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +9

      God bless

    • @jesuslovesyou3289
      @jesuslovesyou3289 5 років тому +7

      The ideal relationship

  • @jrg7951
    @jrg7951 5 років тому +82

    Friendship allows you to see their personality, their temper, the way they handle stress etc.

  • @THECHRISAL3X
    @THECHRISAL3X 5 років тому +355

    THIS IS THE MOST EXITING TIME IN MY LIFE!!! Trust God folks. He has someone for EVERYONE. He will bring them to you. Keep seeking Gods face!!! In Jesus name.

    • @wshelby83
      @wshelby83 5 років тому +8

      I truly hope so! Your message keeps me positive.

    • @viaivory8383
      @viaivory8383 5 років тому +5

      Amen!

    • @faithluna6384
      @faithluna6384 5 років тому +2

      Amen!!!🙏

    • @aimfuldrifter
      @aimfuldrifter 5 років тому +4

      Chris Alex Please, sisters and brothers in Christ, I need prayers for me and Zuzanna who's probably my soulmate. We've fallen in love with each other 1,5 year ago but none of us really showed it - well I did a lot more than her but she was with someone at that time. It turned out that she fell in love with me but never really showed it. I've guessed it later on. Now she's with another boyfriend.
      I've asked Lord many times through prayer to show me signs if she's the one for me and got perfect answers, either through random Bible word, nature, other sites about God, other people or even commercial. Whenever I've asked Lord to give me certain answer there it was, after one or a couple of days. I know she's the one for me but our roads didn't connect again as she lives in another country.
      Please, pray for our roads to connect and end in God's holy union. I truly love her and wrote to her about my feelings lately. I'm scared to read the answer though, because I'm afraid that she has moved on. Thank you so much :(

    • @dimasavila9158
      @dimasavila9158 5 років тому +1

      My virtuous one showed up 🙌

  • @putjesusfirst9814
    @putjesusfirst9814 5 років тому +848

    I just want a husband God has ordained for me

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +53

      Keep following the Lord and doing what he says in his word, and then hopefully overtime you will meet the one God has for you

    • @songbirdasu
      @songbirdasu 5 років тому +8

      Yes 🙏🏾🙌🏾

    • @danturner4519
      @danturner4519 5 років тому +26

      I just want a lady God has ordained for me too

    • @vp363
      @vp363 5 років тому +14

      Put Jesus First ... Me 2!!! I feel you!

    • @nunyabiz5306
      @nunyabiz5306 5 років тому +5

      Same girl same 😭✝️😍

  • @MA7-6585
    @MA7-6585 5 років тому +236

    1. God waited to bless you until you are mature enough.
    2. You are building a solid friendship with someone.
    3. You are gaining an understanding of what a sacred union is.
    4. You become the kind of person that you'd like to date.
    5. See #4.

    • @rene5600
      @rene5600 5 років тому +1

      all except real friends of my community

    • @carlotajennifer3536
      @carlotajennifer3536 5 років тому

      Thanks !

    • @marymumbi5325
      @marymumbi5325 3 роки тому

      Unfortunately I'm not building any solid friendship with anyone atm but I have the other 3😁😍 waiting on God.

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 5 років тому +209

    I Only want God will for my life because he knows what's best

    • @shehnazmansi3537
      @shehnazmansi3537 5 років тому +2

      Freda Johnson
      Yes me too
      Because His plans are only for our profits not for to harm us as according to Jeremiah 29:11

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +6

      Amen, Singleness that is focused on God is a blessing too according to 1 Corinthians 7 :)

  • @jasmines2250
    @jasmines2250 5 років тому +198

    I don’t want to be single anymore. I’m ready for God to send me someone to love.

    • @louloubird8715
      @louloubird8715 5 років тому +7

      Me too!!!!

    • @annmutuku7009
      @annmutuku7009 5 років тому +5

      I'm tagging myself here too

    • @Womenswell022
      @Womenswell022 5 років тому +9

      Receive it then since you are ready...

    • @JamesThomas-dz4vj
      @JamesThomas-dz4vj 5 років тому +4

      I hear you on that. I've been ready for awhile. But no luck.

    • @isabellagarretty7683
      @isabellagarretty7683 5 років тому +4

      Same here. Just keep waiting, and God will surely bless you with someone! God’s plan is perfect, and we all have a place in it to serve Him. Pretty amazing, huh?

  • @willkershaw7376
    @willkershaw7376 5 років тому +110

    “Be the person the person you are looking for is looking for”

    • @crownedmelaninqueen
      @crownedmelaninqueen 5 років тому +1

      Will Kershaw I love this it’s definitely my goal!

    • @j.l.m.6954
      @j.l.m.6954 4 роки тому +2

      Fall in love with Jesus, seek to be satisfied only on Him. And then let Him do the work.

  • @narrowway1938
    @narrowway1938 5 років тому +45

    This is awesome! I also believe when God brings two specific people together for marriage it is according to a purpose that only those two people together can fulfill.

  • @Mayumi221988
    @Mayumi221988 5 років тому +345

    Become the type of person you would be willing to marry.

    • @kimberlywalbridge7416
      @kimberlywalbridge7416 5 років тому +6

      I know right? lol I have alot of work to do!

    • @Mayumi221988
      @Mayumi221988 5 років тому +3

      @@kimberlywalbridge7416 me too! Better work with the Spirit ❤️😘

    • @creatorreality777
      @creatorreality777 5 років тому +2

      Learn to make em delicious cookies and brownies. A woman who can cook is blessed.
      Sorry I jus love cookies and brownies😊 and fall in love every time a woman offers me stuff she has so passionately baked and gets her happiness when she looks at my face as that baked happiness and my awe of how blessedly talented and feminine she, makes my 🌍 go round.
      God bless women and girls who turn houses to homes 🙌

    • @ultimateormus7903
      @ultimateormus7903 5 років тому +1

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 5 років тому +4

      I'm a woman there is no comparisons in myself as to me being what I want. I am not a gay. I am a female needing masculine qualities n energy in a loving affectionate spouse with good leadership skills. A man devoted and dedicate to our love and our God. I must qualify on my own basis as a woman to fufill my God given role in loyal submission as a wife to a husband who revers God foremost. We then must both ultimately imitate Jesus Christ and submit to His kingdom n leadership. Compatibility, Compromise, Communication, Care all those things are inside.

  • @cozieyoongi1621
    @cozieyoongi1621 5 років тому +62

    #3 really hit home 🙏🏻 I’ve had a lot of mind shifts here lately getting rid of the toxic thoughts I had on relationships.

  • @lisac2649
    @lisac2649 5 років тому +135

    I think the challenge is meeting single godly men in their 30's who are wanting to be friends with a woman. It's tough jumping right into romance without a strong foundation of friendship.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +12

      That is a challenge, not impossible but it is hard

    • @danturner4519
      @danturner4519 5 років тому +6

      Absolutely. I will wait until God brings her into my life

    • @lisac2649
      @lisac2649 5 років тому +2

      Is dating supposed to be complicated? I mean meeting like-minded people? 🤔🤔

    • @danturner4519
      @danturner4519 5 років тому +5

      @@lisac2649 yes. When you have somethings in common to build a foundation. Unfortunately in today's world its do what ever feels good. That is all wrong. In a relationship to work we must give thanks and glory to God. Not to say that there wont be arguments but it is the love in the heart to forget and forgive.

    • @Michael-gy1iz
      @Michael-gy1iz 5 років тому +13

      Lisa C - but men want to be intentional because it’s Godly, so it’s a catch 22. Let him be intentional from the very beginning, but not “romantic” especially if she is getting over someone, or her personality type is to be extra guarded (careful not to wall). I did this with the woman I’m about to propose to! 6 months of friendship with intentionality of marriage in the future, and now we are finally moving to romance :)

  • @JisSilent_
    @JisSilent_ 5 років тому +25

    #3 Really got me!!! I truly feel like that is what God is doing for me right now in this season of waiting. It’s like an explosion of information and revelations on things I never knew or understood fully before. God is so good!

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 5 років тому +47

    God is first and everything is second. Seek the kingdom of God first and other things will be added second (secondly). - Bible ( it is written).

  • @ganaemceachern2687
    @ganaemceachern2687 5 років тому +262

    Friendship with God leads to meeting your 💓 Companion ❤️🙏😇

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +5

      Thanks for sharing

    • @friendshiptree5203
      @friendshiptree5203 5 років тому

      Amen.

    • @ganaemceachern2687
      @ganaemceachern2687 5 років тому

      Jeremiah 29 v 11🤗

    • @friendshiptree5203
      @friendshiptree5203 5 років тому

      Ganae McEachern 🙏❤️

    • @aimfuldrifter
      @aimfuldrifter 5 років тому

      Ganae McEachern I really hope so.
      Please, sisters and brothers in Christ, I need prayers for me and Zuzanna who's probably my soulmate. We've fallen in love with each other 1,5 year ago but none of us really showed it - well I did a lot more than her but she was with someone at that time. It turned out that she fell in love with me but never really showed it. I've guessed it later on. Now she's with another boyfriend.
      I've asked Lord many times through prayer to show me signs if she's the one for me and got perfect answers, either through random Bible word, nature, other sites about God, other people or even commercial. Whenever I've asked Lord to give me certain answer there it was, after one or a couple of days. I know she's the one for me but our roads didn't connect again as she lives in another country.
      Please, pray for our roads to connect and end in God's holy union. I truly love her and wrote to her about my feelings lately. I'm scared to read the answer though, because I'm afraid that she has moved on. Thank you so much :(

  • @OrondeB
    @OrondeB 5 років тому +245

    I really appreciate what you do for the Kingdom man. Everything is always backed up with His word. God bless brother 🙏🏾

    • @ocinidolegna
      @ocinidolegna 5 років тому +1

      Oronde Khary amen 🙏🏽

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +2

      My pleasure brother, I'm so glad you enjoy the content :)

    • @pchab1966
      @pchab1966 5 років тому +3

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger Mark, I am in my 50s and so impressed with how you share what you do. You say what you mean very clearly. And you remain firmly grounded in biblical spiritual counsel. Thank you.

    • @casual720
      @casual720 4 роки тому

      Amen!!

  • @adongoagnes7671
    @adongoagnes7671 5 років тому +47

    Become the person you would want to marry.
    Marriage is not the ultimate gift from God for his people but God himself is the ultimate gift for His people.😘

  • @carvinsurendar9926
    @carvinsurendar9926 5 років тому +25

    When you think you are totally ready for marriage and ask God for a life partner to start the holy covenant of marriage, GOD WILL SEND YOUR SOUL MATE!!!!

    • @carvinsurendar9926
      @carvinsurendar9926 3 роки тому +3

      @@veganlife5902 it's never about perfection, it's about perfection even when there's imperfection, no one is ready for anything at any given time, but ALL is ready in god's time

  • @davidparker3834
    @davidparker3834 5 років тому +159

    To My Beloved Future Wife:
    I don't know who you are yet, but I feel you calling me & I am calling you...
    Know that I am on my way to you, preparing, equipping & working with the Spirit of God & the anointing to slay giants, crush serpents, kick out demons, cast down strongholds & avoid snares along the way.
    Stay strong in the Lord, my love, and continue to prepare, cultivate & take good care of yourself, holding onto your deep love, affection, passion, purity & spiritual fire!
    Keep praying me in & for the Spirit of the Living God to keep, strengthen & guide me in the right direction.
    In due season, I shall come into your world & shake it up for the better, as you will mine! And our fiery, spiritual love shall endure forever.
    My heart & soul eagerly looks forward to that day & the unveiling of who you are! xox

    • @josalynhouston444
      @josalynhouston444 5 років тому +13

      Wow!!! Amennnnnn!!! Brother that was powerful! And definitely spirit filled. God bless you, and your future wife on your quest to spiritual heavenly bliss in Christ Jesus.
      Shalom

    • @davidparker3834
      @davidparker3834 5 років тому +8

      @@josalynhouston444 Thank you! All the best with getting ready for & receiving your husband for an awesome relationship! :)

    • @RiRi-bx5vp
      @RiRi-bx5vp 5 років тому +12

      Wow, Such a Beautiful letter. 💡

    • @abbybella2884
      @abbybella2884 5 років тому +7

      I keep praying for you ☺️😇🙏

    • @beckylovesjesus1
      @beckylovesjesus1 5 років тому +4

      That was beautiful. I will this form of prayer for my special one also 😊

  • @briannacollie2742
    @briannacollie2742 5 років тому +195

    I can relate to 3 and 4, but I don't have any guy friends. It would be nice to have some. I'm praying for it.

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +13

      Amen, that's a good prayer

    • @briannacollie2742
      @briannacollie2742 5 років тому +7

      @Travis Jones 😂😂😂 this was too cute.

    • @danturner4519
      @danturner4519 5 років тому +17

      I dont have any friends. But i did pray for him to help me grow in my faith. I do have associates. Real friends are sent to you from God.

    • @briannacollie2742
      @briannacollie2742 5 років тому +4

      @@danturner4519 I agree with, Travis. You have a friend in me as well so don't hesitate to talk to me. And, thank you for your services. My sister is in the Air Force.

    • @Michael-gy1iz
      @Michael-gy1iz 5 років тому +10

      Daniel Turner - me either brother, I have one amazing loyal friend and I’m gonna marry her. I’m 28, I know God will send me some true brothers soon. I’ve been trying to make friends with men, but there’s a lot of lukewarm Christian men out there... maybe more than the women

  • @countoncreator4547
    @countoncreator4547 5 років тому +33

    This is exactly how I've been feeling. All points spot on. Thank you Jesus for your love, and encouragement you give to all of us.
    And can't forget brother Mark thank you for blessing us with these videos God bless.

  • @slaveofYAH
    @slaveofYAH 5 років тому +135

    I'm in the place of maturing more in CHRIST before I marry, if it be The Will of God I marry. I pray to God if He wants me married or single the rest of my life, whatever His Will is for me being married or not, let that happen.

    • @Michael-gy1iz
      @Michael-gy1iz 5 років тому +3

      Servant Of The LORD 2000 - that is a good prayer, if you mean it!

    • @slaveofYAH
      @slaveofYAH 5 років тому +2

      @@Michael-gy1iz Of course I mean it, why would I waste my words in prayer to God?

    • @ocinidolegna
      @ocinidolegna 5 років тому +1

      Amen. I'm trying to strengthen my bond with God and mature more in Christ as well before I get into that. As long as I feel these are God's plans for me.

    • @anonymous55.09
      @anonymous55.09 5 років тому

      I have met this guy in school
      We like the same music( Christian rock)
      We have the same mindset( that this world is run by satanist)
      And most importantly he's Christian
      and I want to make sure that Christ is in the centre of our relationship
      I kept asking God to give me a sign if I should pursue him but he has said nothing and I take that as a yes
      And I told God if he doesn't want it to continue he must give me a clear no
      The weird thing is I thought I was gonna wait for a very long time before God will give me a godly man in my life just like everyone else
      it's very hard for me to accept the fact that I can get one so easily
      What should I do?
      is it the devil giving me doubt?

    • @georginabuckle6405
      @georginabuckle6405 5 років тому

      @@anonymous55.09, if the guy you want to marry is not answering your question, pls move on. I have learned this experience and I realised that the other guy I thought I will marry is now still single whereas I am now getting married in few months time after been 5 years relationship together.

  • @worthyinchrist3014
    @worthyinchrist3014 2 роки тому +3

    Not idolized the relationship, but glorifying God through this relationship. Amen 🙇🌅🙏

  • @jennifersantiago8747
    @jennifersantiago8747 5 років тому +13

    “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” And I want to thank GOD for my future Husband, and for all the beautiful details in our relationship, never stop praying for your loved ones, and remember He always gives us so much more than we can imagine or dream, 😘😘 from 🇨🇴 to 🇰🇿.

  • @dietervanhuffel3649
    @dietervanhuffel3649 5 років тому +7

    I wait patiently on the right one, i know God has it under control. Glory to the most high 🙌🙏

  • @roselove513
    @roselove513 5 років тому +17

    I wait for god to bring me my happiness I trust him always amen🙏

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 5 років тому +36

    Amen! This is very good godly advice, to those who looking towards marriage. Everything is in God timing.

  • @bernadette7314
    @bernadette7314 5 років тому +20

    Waiting patiently for my God fearing man 🥰

  • @fredericolc6016
    @fredericolc6016 5 років тому +15

    Mark, your videos brings me hope. Just ended a long relationship and I Know God will provide me the girl of my Life. Greetings from Brazil!

  • @selenalovepink6276
    @selenalovepink6276 5 років тому +7

    I wasn’t wondering of why I’m single, I let go and I’m trusting god. And this video pops up on my news feed. I take it as a sign my prayer 🙏🏽 are being answered. Thank you God 😊 😊💋😘🥰 that my dreams and desires are coming to pass...

  • @ladylight3379
    @ladylight3379 5 років тому +257

    The weird thing is I was wondering why I'm so single and then the video popped up lol

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +13

      I hope it was helpful :)

    • @ladylight3379
      @ladylight3379 5 років тому +4

      @@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger yes it was thankyou GOD BLESS 💞

    • @danturner4519
      @danturner4519 5 років тому +12

      Im waiting for the miracle from God. I will be married in God's time not mine

    • @lachoverajr
      @lachoverajr 5 років тому +1

      BecKY G me too 😳

    • @ladylight3379
      @ladylight3379 5 років тому

      @@lachoverajr Whats up where you from?

  • @ssyynnn
    @ssyynnn 5 років тому +15

    I can feel my husband is so close to appearing in my life. I really have to prepare! 🤗

    • @shelia4879
      @shelia4879 5 років тому +1

      Mayanah please share how you feel the Holy Spirit is telling you he’s close. I’m asking cause maybe we have some similarities between how God is working in this specific area

    • @ssyynnn
      @ssyynnn 5 років тому +1

      @@shelia4879 it's a knowing feeling. A certainty in your soul.

    • @shelia4879
      @shelia4879 5 років тому +2

      I most definitely know how you feel. Lately I’ve been telling God to just forget it; I’ll focus on him more and just leave me getting married on the back burner. And while I know he wants me to put him first, he won’t let me leave getting married alone, not even for a day. Literally everything around me is screaming marriage. I could tell you so many signs of what God has been manifesting, but I just wanna say that I understand exactly what you mean, although it’s been a very difficult journey.

    • @shelia4879
      @shelia4879 5 років тому

      I most definitely know how you feel. Lately I’ve been telling God to just forget it; I’ll focus on him more and just leave me getting married on the back burner. And while I know he wants me to put him first, he won’t let me leave getting married alone, not even for a day. Literally everything around me is screaming marriage. I could tell you so many signs of what God has been manifesting, but I just wanna say that I understand exactly what you mean, although it’s been a very difficult journey.

    • @whitneyallman8365
      @whitneyallman8365 5 років тому +1

      Shelia I have the same feeling. Sometimes I think it can be our flesh screaming to us because we want it so bad. But in due time. ❤️

  • @nunyabiz5306
    @nunyabiz5306 5 років тому +238

    I will come back to this video when I'm married and let y'all know who I married 😂✝️

  • @beatriceojwando1122
    @beatriceojwando1122 5 років тому +13

    Lord I serve you first, look to you above everything and when the time you ordained comes, you will connect me with my rib

  • @MsFrevrysPoetry
    @MsFrevrysPoetry 5 років тому +31

    Number 4 is definitely me. I am doing the best that I can to become the person I would love to date and marry.

  • @valianttruth3745
    @valianttruth3745 5 років тому +72

    I'll take a friendship with a man I do know rather than jump into a romance with someone I don't know. Foundation is important! 😉 I will not "build my house on sand."

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +6

      Yes, friendship is a very good way to start a relationship

    • @abeniadeoye8358
      @abeniadeoye8358 5 років тому +4

      So true my friend, so true! I have learned this by way of experience.
      So true! Friendship first before committing to a relationship is important.

    • @valianttruth3745
      @valianttruth3745 5 років тому +3

      @@abeniadeoye8358 Amen girlfriend❤

  • @soy.ingrid
    @soy.ingrid 5 років тому +151

    I use to hate the idea of being married because I saw my parents marriage & my Mexican culture of machismo. I was also soo against submission. I went to a liberal school. Now , I think marriage is a beautiful representation of Gods love. & to be able to help my partner & serve God together to create an even greater impact sounds beautiful to me. I thought it was weird that my heart has completely changed.

    • @baobao646
      @baobao646 5 років тому +12

      Submission simply means to love deeply, not someone treating you like a slave

    • @jondough7777777
      @jondough7777777 5 років тому +8

      Submission goes both ways in a marriage. Ultimately GOD holds the man responsible for the decisions though.

    • @soy.ingrid
      @soy.ingrid 5 років тому +2

      Fountainblaze soo good 👏🏾👏🏾 it’s amazing how God works within us. (: & yeahh. God’s will not ours ❤️

    • @beanandsomethings
      @beanandsomethings 5 років тому +2

      I totally relate to you (I went to a liberal school too)! My perspective shifted in ways I'd never imagine regarding marriage. I'm thankful He is renewing our hearts and minds!

    • @RLPerez-un6hv
      @RLPerez-un6hv 5 років тому

      @@baobao646 nice

  • @gracelovvheals2169
    @gracelovvheals2169 Рік тому +1

    Hi Mark, I've been following you the past couple years & on so grateful I found you here on this channel. I went through a very terrible depression, loss of my business, physical & mental abuse from a relationship & now I have a new career & a relationship with God. I pray someday He will bring me a man after his own heart. Thank you for all that you do.

  • @darianwalker8265
    @darianwalker8265 5 років тому +16

    I agree with you in College Park GA and in jesus name Amen Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah Glory Hallelujah

  • @BlessinginBloom
    @BlessinginBloom 5 років тому +24

    Honestly as a young Christian woman, I'm always wondering why I'm so single and why are other a finding love so young. I recently spoke to my mom about my fear of being alone and not finding love last night and was thinking about it today and I've seen this video. I know it will be beneficial for my life💛

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому +3

      Amen, Keep seeking the Lord and he will lead you to where he wants you in his timing :)

    • @kimberlywalbridge7416
      @kimberlywalbridge7416 5 років тому +2

      The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence . Hopefully these others did find the love of their lives. However we don't know how it will be for them. Make sure you not worry pray for it better to be single now with God them to end up in a dangerous situation. God has your soul mate for you believe it trust him and have faith and make God your focus not the future partner then your soul mate will show up when you least expect them to. I made a few errs in judgment and ended up with players hoping God will give me another chance at a God centered relationship.

    • @BlessinginBloom
      @BlessinginBloom 5 років тому

      @@kimberlywalbridge7416 AMEN to that

  • @liljediprime7893
    @liljediprime7893 4 роки тому +3

    Laying down my desires and following the Lord fully ♥️ He will being the right person when His timing is right.

  • @Rockenster15
    @Rockenster15 5 років тому +11

    Amen so true, really hope in God. I fought so much, and now I’m weary but God has a reason for all the struggles

  • @atroutflycrazy8057
    @atroutflycrazy8057 5 років тому +16

    God wants us to love him
    Completeness is in him alone
    When we can understand this as a single then we can fully give when a relationship happens rather than wanting a relationship to fill a need or void.
    As a single myself i know at times its not easy but i also know relationships bring just as many challenges.
    Singleness can be a gift from God but it still requires alot of grace as with a relationship.

  • @edwardlovera5867
    @edwardlovera5867 2 роки тому +1

    To my future wife, I pray for you each and every day(until then-GOD BLESS YOU)

  • @dilailahkawane8458
    @dilailahkawane8458 5 років тому +12

    This is awesome just on time. It is more important for us to have a Christ centred relationship. It is more important to prayer for our relationship and watch how God will work on it. God knows what is best. Thank you so much.
    May God's peace keep us calm to do His Will to make the right decisions and choices in our earthly relationship.

  • @stickmansam8436
    @stickmansam8436 5 років тому +5

    Loved the third advice but the fourth advice really hit home. Part of me longs for a faithful Christian woman

  • @kyro-jaxxsonofkosmos23
    @kyro-jaxxsonofkosmos23 5 років тому +5

    Wow, #4. Lord, help me to know I am enough, and can only get better. I am worthy of these people. If anything there sheer devotion to YOU is a challenge for me to do better.

  • @andrelordello
    @andrelordello 5 років тому +6

    Amazing! Especially the fourth sign! Really true!!

  • @dianebragau5357
    @dianebragau5357 4 роки тому +4

    I finally found a man i could pray with..go to church with..read the bible with.. got engaged...then he was killed in an auto accident. How i miss him every minute. I dont question Gods will...just wish we had that chance to be married and live that Christian life together.

  • @reinavirtucio2229
    @reinavirtucio2229 5 років тому +16

    Thank you.God will bless us a great marriage

  • @mezagarner4427
    @mezagarner4427 4 роки тому +3

    Seek Him then He will fulfill the desires of our hearts, y’all we all want that Godly happily ever after, the waiting room might be tiresome but it’s worth it!!!

  • @rhodahj7121
    @rhodahj7121 4 роки тому +5

    God is faithful nomatter how long its taking i still trust him

  • @arianne7805
    @arianne7805 5 років тому +7

    No to rush but trust, He just wants to make sure that I’m ready for a great marriage because under Him, no one will ever separate us. I have to prioritize Him first before my fiancé. ❤️

  • @sbentsen2714
    @sbentsen2714 4 роки тому

    dude talking about the cycle at the end, SO TRUE!! that is spot on, way to be bold and tell the truth!!

  • @jenniferbruns2432
    @jenniferbruns2432 4 роки тому +5

    Oh! This was encouraging. I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @emmacarla1752
    @emmacarla1752 5 років тому +2

    I will just wait for the right time and the right person, im God’s perfect timing🙏

  • @annmutuku7009
    @annmutuku7009 5 років тому +19

    God i pray that you remember me, amen

  • @TheOZMOSISfull
    @TheOZMOSISfull 5 років тому +17

    Love your content man, and this really applys to my live and its quite exciting how I see God in this devoloping relationship.
    Thanks man much love from Australia

  • @eugenehernandez4868
    @eugenehernandez4868 5 років тому +78

    Well I’ve become the type of person I want to date!!

  • @priscillavalenzuela9736
    @priscillavalenzuela9736 4 роки тому +2

    In june I started writing love letters with biblical scriptures in them to my future husband. Who ever that is Haha. I cant wait to give him the letters on our wedding day as a gift. So he will know he was truly waited for. Prayed for and thought of .

  • @lourdesloera2018
    @lourdesloera2018 5 років тому +3

    Yes I trust in God and I will wait on his promise...Thanks my Lord!

  • @rachelbomberger7943
    @rachelbomberger7943 2 роки тому

    Recently found this channel, and from seeing others before, I was like, "Oh, is this gonna be some cheesy Christian fluffy stuff that just makes people happy?"....but now I've watched multiple, multiple videos, and each one has been spot on! The scripture is appropriately applied and it's hopeful truth mixed with gentle conviction. It doesn't give false hope. It's truth. I REALLY appreciate this channel. Thank you.

  • @chillytoes337
    @chillytoes337 5 років тому +11

    All in good time, all in God's time!

  • @wendipasa7109
    @wendipasa7109 4 роки тому +2

    I know God is faithful period...Amen thanks Jesus

  • @amandamariaqueeng3038
    @amandamariaqueeng3038 5 років тому +34

    God first💜

  • @worthyinchrist3014
    @worthyinchrist3014 2 роки тому

    Everything God does, He ultimately make it for His glory. Amen! 🙇
    - Mark Ballenger.

  • @myjesusismysavior3256
    @myjesusismysavior3256 4 роки тому +8

    When i fall in love to Jesus amazing things starts to happen.

  • @aria3329
    @aria3329 3 роки тому +2

    That's right. My parents met at the same company they both worked at. They married and had 9 children. My siblings then met their future spouses either in high school, college, their places of employment, or thru their friends or social interactions. I'm the only one who waited on God for my spouse, and I'm the only sibling never married as of this date. I missed out on many years of intimacy & making wonderful memories with my husband. Missed out on having children. Missed out on being safe and protected in my husband's arms. Missed out on having a long marriage. Having married friends, single friends and celebrations with both. A lifetime of wonderful memories down the drain. My advice is to get out there and find your own spouse. Take your chances like most everyone does, anyway. Better than sitting alone as a spinster woman...or man... for the rest of your life. God is a jealous God...so make your own life happen! I'm doing that again right now! All the best to everyone looking for their own sweetheart...

  • @VJose-nz4od
    @VJose-nz4od 5 років тому +14

    God I need you in my life. After that, should you want to give me a wonderful husband, please bless me with one as well as with a healthy baby!!!

  • @dannyfaulkner1006
    @dannyfaulkner1006 4 роки тому +4

    To my future Wife: I will love you, 💕💞💓be open and honest with you, and never take you for granted, love your future husband

  • @ashley__c
    @ashley__c 5 років тому +18

    "they themselves do not live up to standards for the person they want to marry." Omg yesss so me :(

  • @tenascity2159
    @tenascity2159 5 років тому +2

    Amen. I hope I will receive her soon .Thank you Lord.

  • @scorpionpam
    @scorpionpam 5 років тому +4

    Yeeeeeeessssss!!!! It's my season to be BLESSED!

  • @olengndiango
    @olengndiango 5 років тому +1

    This has blessed me, Pastor Mark. May the Lord strengthen and keep you all, by His grace. The Lord has spoken through you.

  • @rakshastargoddess478
    @rakshastargoddess478 5 років тому +13

    Thanks Lord , I claim for my great relationship and my husband in Jesus name ,Amen ,Glory to Lord Jesus ..💐💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼💕💫✨

  • @elizabethsnyder9678
    @elizabethsnyder9678 Рік тому

    So true be the better self of who God calling you to be before meeting the right person.

  • @mashakhalfan5836
    @mashakhalfan5836 5 років тому +8

    God please bless me and open for me doors for marriage.

  • @queensarah1931
    @queensarah1931 5 років тому +2

    Wow this is something, I use to have a mindset of what I’m gonna get from this now I have a mindset of what I’m going to give to this , God is beyond Great thank you Lord God Almighty 🙌🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @catostrickland2453
    @catostrickland2453 5 років тому +4

    Thank you so much for this series. I never thought about many of the things you have mentioned here. Especially about dating and marriage. I happen to fall into the rut of wanting to have a GODLY wife nut can't figure out why I'm still single. I will take what you have taught to heart and with prayer that GOD fix ME first. That he make me worthy of a beautiful GODLY woman.
    Thank you again
    Bro. Cato Strickland.

  • @robertabell9182
    @robertabell9182 5 років тому +57

    Thank Heavenly Farther Bless you Lord Jesus Praise you Holy Ghost Amen

  • @tacksgmvs2070
    @tacksgmvs2070 5 років тому +3

    4:01 God is definitely helping me understand that. He’s helping me. Seek first the kingdom of God.

  • @joycekumari6385
    @joycekumari6385 5 років тому +1

    Awesome! God Himself is the ultimate gift😍

  • @willygirl207
    @willygirl207 5 років тому +15

    Still watching, but already love it💖

  • @kuzukirarose1831
    @kuzukirarose1831 5 років тому +1

    Am waiting for one God chose for me and am waiting with patient and love I know God one day God will answer me🙏🙏 God bless you I learn a lot in your teachings🙏🙏🙏

  • @tedschmitt178
    @tedschmitt178 5 років тому +3

    “There are so many lies in the world when it comes to relationships...”. This is a fact as evidenced by the multiple lies told to me by my ex wife of 31 years and her (at least) two affairs that I know of.

  • @larurahayim1632
    @larurahayim1632 5 років тому +3

    This channel is such a blessing!! Glory to God💕

  • @Michael-gy1iz
    @Michael-gy1iz 5 років тому +33

    I found the woman God wants me to marry. I know this because I’m detached from the outcome, and also made a covenant with God to be single forever if she marries someone else.
    I’m very comfortable with romance and she isn’t. It’s a challenge, but she’s worth it. She’s like a cake that bakes extra slow. Can’t open the oven TOO soon!♥️But intentional all the way...✝️ Being selfless is tough especially in this area... because I want her to grow out of that comfort zone!!

  • @gunjanchhetri1618
    @gunjanchhetri1618 4 роки тому +1

    Praise God..
    I'll wait.🙏💟➕

  • @Tessacndk
    @Tessacndk 5 років тому +5

    Amen❕✨ Yes God is the greasiest gift we can have in this life ❕✨ Amen

    • @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger
      @ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger  5 років тому

      True!

    • @IM-ux8ps
      @IM-ux8ps 5 років тому

      Yes he is. Im proud to be a Christian man and working on myself everyday to better man than ever.its natural to have struggles but working through them how i decide to deal with them is what matters.most importantly putting god first!and all things good will come on gods time. Amen .Godbless you.

  • @DeniseLewislight
    @DeniseLewislight 5 років тому +3

    The first sign was spot on, like I know I will be more vocal about my glory to G-d, that's the only way! I'm not hiding that anymore, G-dwilling !

  • @overcomer4226
    @overcomer4226 5 років тому +27

    At 54 I'm still looking for my purpose and making an impact for the Lord and His kingdom. God has shown me that a husband will not satisfy my deep longing for God and a deep loving trusting relationship with God. Until I see God face-to-face in glory I need may never be truly satisfied with my relationship while I'm a physical being. My need for God is all consuming. I don't think I could be happy with a husband while I have this all consuming longing for God. My prayer is the God satisfies deeply satisfies this void and this hole inside of me

  • @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699
    @sirenamontreala.k.aelibatt4699 5 років тому +1

    Wow thank you so much for this video I was in the hospital n as soon as they let me check out n I was healthy enough to go home this was the first thing I saw Thank you so much n may God keep speaking though you God bless ☺💓 it made me rlly happy to see this after this trial ☺

  • @anthonymeads705
    @anthonymeads705 5 років тому +19

    I’m literally stuck in #4. I have the perfect woman friend waiting for me, but I know I’m not ready to be the man of God I need to be for her. It’s frustrating knowing it could be something great but my sin is getting in the way of that 😕

    • @lovewins007
      @lovewins007 5 років тому +4

      Awwww Tony my brother, please repent of your sin for your own soul salvations sake and for this Godly woman God has given you as a friend.....I will be praying for you 🤗🙏👼

  • @jenpakid9444
    @jenpakid9444 5 років тому +1

    Its what i needed.Praying for the right man! 🙏

  • @EREBVS999
    @EREBVS999 5 років тому +5

    I am a widower in my time alone 18 years I have grown closer to Yeshua Messiah and I am not sure if finding a wife would hinder me Serving our Lord.

  • @ancoisnaude4087
    @ancoisnaude4087 3 роки тому

    I am not single, but my heart is.... God blessed me, things will work out,...