A Man Is FLIRTING With You When You See THESE 4 Signs

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  • @MeetStephanSpeaks
    @MeetStephanSpeaks  2 місяці тому +2

    ❤Get your copy of "Love After Heartbreak" here --> www.loveafterheartbreak.com

  • @graceandglory1948
    @graceandglory1948 3 місяці тому +88

    I compliment people all the time. That does not mean I am interested in a relationship with them, just that I noticed something nice about them.

  • @eva5637
    @eva5637 3 місяці тому +176

    We went to lunch today. I complimented him on something personal. He thanked me. I was determined to pay lunch this time since I invited him. When that moment came, he took my hand and said, "You know what? Maybe you could pay next time! At least then I know there will be a next time." 🥰

    • @lacrystalsims2857
      @lacrystalsims2857 3 місяці тому +7

      So happy for you both! 😊

    • @WarriorMichelle57
      @WarriorMichelle57 3 місяці тому +8

      Maybe means you will not and next time means he wats to see you again and again and again

    • @eva5637
      @eva5637 3 місяці тому +4

      @@WarriorMichelle57 I surely hope so!

    • @WarriorMichelle57
      @WarriorMichelle57 3 місяці тому +4

      @@eva5637 he grabbed your hand 🥰

    • @eva5637
      @eva5637 3 місяці тому +6

      @@WarriorMichelle57 It was so romantic, especially when he said that. I was breathless for a moment 😊

  • @RheemaJoy
    @RheemaJoy Місяць тому +1

    My favorite part in every video…”something hit my spirit”… lol
    I absolutely love and appreciate the sensitivity and connection to spirit. Thank you, Stephen.💜

  • @gaylearrington6703
    @gaylearrington6703 3 місяці тому +31

    I don’t mind if a man compliments me. I like it! And for me physical attraction is very important. If you aren’t physically attracted to someone how can you even consider approaching someone that you aren’t attracted to? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 3 місяці тому

      Agree 💯 percent! 🙏❤✨

    • @christianrodriguez5346
      @christianrodriguez5346 3 місяці тому +3

      I mean you should not put that so high cause he can be the most handsome but the most rotten in character. Beauty should never be held too high cause that fades as well. For me I had 4 beautiful women (exes) but they did not possess good character. My first actual good gf is average in my eyes in physical beauty but she treats me good and is a great teammate. Physical beauty isn’t everything. Her character is what gets me really attracted to her so it balances out. You need physical attraction but you don’t need to be super attracted physically to them cause that never lasts cause the physical body changes over time but character is forever. Casual is different of course but I am referring to long term relationships.

    • @latonyamorgan1520
      @latonyamorgan1520 3 місяці тому

      ⁠💯

  • @seacoast4950
    @seacoast4950 3 місяці тому +15

    Physical attraction is first. Love being complimented by a man. ❤❤

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 3 місяці тому

      Right. I wish I could get a compliment sometimes. Had a guy call me beautiful the other day and it made my day. I realized it’s been years since I’ve heard that. I don’t know who these women are but clearly men are complimenting the wrong ones.

  • @annettemarie2076
    @annettemarie2076 3 місяці тому +7

    I’m flattered until a man shows me that he’s not interested in me as a person.

  • @cindyvazquez4333
    @cindyvazquez4333 3 місяці тому +28

    U are right, looks opens the door for discussion. If a woman don't want a guy checking them out then check yourself in the mirror before you leave the house. I'm a very modest woman so if a man tells me I look great in that dress, I say thank you. There is no uncomfort with that. Some men appreciate modest women. Every time im out a gentlemen tells me I look great. I take it as a positive, not a negative. I just tell the man I appreciate that. We both go about our business. A lot of these men are business men I come into contact with. Don't turn down a man for looks if you look good just tell him thank you. ❤❤

  • @valned3776
    @valned3776 3 місяці тому +19

    I also just feel tired and irritated when a man approaches. And I know it’s counter productive so I’m trying to understand guys better. It comes from so many men admitting to going after a woman for the ego boost, he’s just horned up and shootin his shot, bored etc. We’re told by men over and over that their interest does not mean anything special. Ok, got it. But when he approaches because he’s attracted, we’re supposed to treat it as something special and valuable.

  • @pamjohnson5601
    @pamjohnson5601 3 місяці тому +9

    To quote a friend of mine: “something has to get you across the room”😊

  • @bnb0510
    @bnb0510 3 місяці тому +15

    I’m always working on myself and that includes my looks. For me personally, I love the attention and looks I get from men. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I love being a woman! Most have no idea the power we hold. 😁

  • @JAZJAZZY-g3s
    @JAZJAZZY-g3s 3 місяці тому +4

    I haven’t seen anyone I’m interested in, I will let the universe bring the ONE in just like it did the last time, I’m not in a hurry at this time. By the time it happens, I may be healed and back to normal.

  • @Florida_gyrl
    @Florida_gyrl 2 місяці тому +1

    I knew a man that remembered the little things and he told me four weeks later that he just wanted to have a casual relationship. It can mean he likes you but it’s good to identify what kind of like that man has for you. It’s not always what you are looking for.

  • @leyancuisine6426
    @leyancuisine6426 3 місяці тому +2

    This is so profound and timely,my take away is looks opens the door.

  • @haley0marie
    @haley0marie 3 місяці тому +4

    If they approach you trying to do something sexual yes ignore but if he's just respectfully saying you're beautiful I see no problem .. it's all about their approach.. I used to wear baggy clothes for this reason bc I'm naturally curvy .. but I've learned it's not a bad thing just be more cautious & use discernment.. so men, your approach is everything even after the initial approach bringing anything sexual up at all , or even asking for pictures etc .. for me at the beginning before those lines have been crossed that's a negative. Even after the beginning it will make you wonder if brought up often

  • @candy144
    @candy144 3 місяці тому +1

    I saw this person today. He told me my hair looks nice and he remembers conversations that we've had in the past. I think that's a good sign.

  • @JudyChilds-fu4em
    @JudyChilds-fu4em 3 місяці тому +3

    I believe in strong boundaries with friends ❣️👍

  • @lexir4911
    @lexir4911 6 днів тому

    This is soo true.

  • @anibor3
    @anibor3 3 місяці тому +1

    Nivea luminous has really helped with my dark spots. A nice product and the fragrance vaporise quickly, so it's not an issue for me. Usually very sensitive to fragrances on the face otherwise.

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 3 місяці тому +2

    Nala from the Lion King had so much confidence in herself that she was able to help fight for the kingdom, even when Simba felt he just could not because he had lost his. Even more..she loved and believed him enough to go find him to help encourage him to believe in himself. It still took for him to believe in himself.

  • @shelia3711
    @shelia3711 3 місяці тому +3

    Some men flirt with a lot of women and that’s ok but when a man constantly flirts with you but never asks you out then accept that he likes you but for whatever reason he has reservations about asking you out. Go about your business and concentrate on other men that will ask you out. It’s a numbers game. There are plenty of men that are serious about finding a partner.

  • @guadalupealvarez9095
    @guadalupealvarez9095 3 місяці тому +3

    Absolutely true..

  • @phylicialyons2973
    @phylicialyons2973 3 місяці тому

    WOW..I have a lot to learn...thank you....very and very scorned..I have to keep living myself before dating again........ thx 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 3 місяці тому +3

    These are good 💯🥰

  • @sandrathornton2286
    @sandrathornton2286 3 місяці тому

    You are so right. I turned down a potential great suiter because I thought this way.

  • @Cherie_Amour60
    @Cherie_Amour60 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Stephan I appreciate you and I Love what you're doing you have helped me so much I Love you 😘💕❤️

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 3 місяці тому

    Thank you sir for this undiluted masterpiece massage
    We’re learning everyday single day 🙏🙏

  • @phylicialyons2973
    @phylicialyons2973 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Stephan!!!! I have been very hurt big time so thank you for your videos! I need to learn how to heal because it really bothers me that men come up to me and flirt like all the time like every single day it is very annoying but I do get what you're saying

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 3 місяці тому

    Great video! 💗👏🏼💯

  • @lindamedina3178
    @lindamedina3178 3 місяці тому +4

    It depends on the compliment if they compliment my beauty or eyes that is good. But if they compliment my body and they stare me up and down or my booty or chest then that is not appropriate.

  • @gmilner84
    @gmilner84 3 місяці тому +24

    Maybe I think like a man, but I feel looks are important. I don't think it's shallow to want to be with somebody who you find attractive. And, if they aren't attractive to you, then that could possibly be a deal-breaker.

  • @euniceyanez7835
    @euniceyanez7835 3 місяці тому

    oh myyy!!! hahahahaha...all being checked! and here i am..so dense thinking it's just nothing...hahaha!

  • @samratsai7062
    @samratsai7062 3 місяці тому +65

    Absolutely fact..
    I seriously work hard to engage myself in someway of earning more income. My family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$57k k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.

    • @KuramaUchiha-id1ow
      @KuramaUchiha-id1ow 3 місяці тому +7

      Hello, how do you achieve such weekly returns? As a single parent i haven’t been able to get my own house due to financial struggles, but my faith in God remains strong.

    • @samratsai7062
      @samratsai7062 3 місяці тому +6

      Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.

    • @samratsai7062
      @samratsai7062 3 місяці тому +1

      I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.

    • @amalmberg13
      @amalmberg13 3 місяці тому

      Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
      US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

    • @Divocklindsay
      @Divocklindsay 3 місяці тому

      This is a definition of God's unending provisions for his people. God remains faithful to his words. I receive this for my household.🙏

  • @mysticalsolepower4752
    @mysticalsolepower4752 3 місяці тому +21

    Yes you are so correct. I am one of the women that ran from attention by gaining weight. Now I have worked on healing my traumas and no longer need to hide behind weight and big clothes.

  • @Mel-wq9wu
    @Mel-wq9wu 3 місяці тому +9

    That is exactly why I am so heavy. There is research on this now and it is very difficult to lose weight because you are in survival mode and your subconscious wants to keep you fat to protect you.😢

    • @matsujun4me
      @matsujun4me 3 місяці тому +1

      Same. In my 20s, I got so tired of the attention of men, that I set a mental block in place. My thought was to get fat to reduce attention. Now at 39, I wish I could advise my younger self to have taken a different approach.

  • @paulalatham6634
    @paulalatham6634 3 місяці тому

    Well spoken 👏 😊

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 3 місяці тому +1

    Stephan thank you ,you are so so correct ,when this dude
    remember things that are mega important to me 😅 yeah it
    ia a positive sign and again once am attracted to this guy,
    whatever way he chooses to FLERT am on 😂

  • @BylondaKing
    @BylondaKing 3 місяці тому +5

    I love your videos, they are always on time... you have been amazing to me over the years lol I appreciate you

  • @ishamunu1283
    @ishamunu1283 3 місяці тому

    He can’t see who you’re.
    He can only see hw you look first and then learn who you’re. And the reality is that looks in most cases don’t keep a man. At least when it comes to serious relationship serious genuine interest.
    Look 👀 open the door 🚪 your character will decide if they stay so you shouldn’t try to hide yourself, yes Beauty is important attraction is important as it’s for many women as well
    A person can tell a-lot abt your personality
    I like to compliment all the time
    Just that I noticed something nice good about them

  • @-blessing16.
    @-blessing16. 3 місяці тому +2

    10:01 its a turn off when a man dont remember things about me yeap like my birthday

  • @lisadanley7129
    @lisadanley7129 3 місяці тому +1

    True story

  • @shelia3711
    @shelia3711 3 місяці тому +6

    I love when a man says he likes my outfit or the way I look. A lot of men my age are slow to compliment. Age from 55-75

  • @Eb-ic1kr
    @Eb-ic1kr 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes, details are important. If he remembers my pets’ name, he’s a winner

  • @kimberlycenteio1034
    @kimberlycenteio1034 3 місяці тому

    Reflection of camera guy threw me off. 🤣

  • @shelia3711
    @shelia3711 3 місяці тому +2

    Men out there need to learn how to dress nice and older men need to lose their big pot belly. It’s easier for men to lose wt than older women. You men should try Manjaro or Ozempic. My 71 year old sister lost 60 lbs and when she got off she did not gain her wt back and it’s been over a year since she got off of it. She feels great but she did change her diet but she said she doesn’t want to be big again

  • @ShannaLabossiere-fl7db
    @ShannaLabossiere-fl7db 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm back , Stephen my future husband GOD PROMISE ME YOU.

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 3 місяці тому +1

    Attractiom ALWAYS starts with the physical appearance. Some do not agree, but that is the truth. Regardless..a person should always feel secure about themselves inside and out for starters. If not.. then that may needs to be some inner work one needs to do before trying to be with anyone else.

  • @EbullientViva
    @EbullientViva 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey stephan...thanks for this advices, but what if you always compliment a man but he never compliments you but when others do, he says you are flirting with them.

    • @cececierra5294
      @cececierra5294 3 місяці тому

      He sounds insecure sis🫣

    • @EbullientViva
      @EbullientViva 3 місяці тому

      @@cececierra5294 thanks for the insight..but I would really want him to compliment me often cos words of affirmation is one of my live language. Pls any advice how I should go about it?

  • @Earthsbodye
    @Earthsbodye 3 місяці тому

    That's me, if you see looks 1st, im not interested

  • @Eb-ic1kr
    @Eb-ic1kr 3 місяці тому

    I even shaved my head at one stage.

  • @LLCoolCooper
    @LLCoolCooper 3 місяці тому +4

    Some guys flirt to get you to sleep with them. They get mad if you don’t.

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 3 місяці тому

      Then don't!! Women need to set boundaries and have some standards too! 😳

    • @LLCoolCooper
      @LLCoolCooper 3 місяці тому

      @@4EverGr8ful1 My boundaries have been set for a long time! I just pointed out one of the reasons that men flirt. It’s Sad but true.

    • @latonyamorgan1520
      @latonyamorgan1520 3 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

  • @sheilapowell2460
    @sheilapowell2460 3 місяці тому +3

    FACTS!!!... Calm down... You don't have to stay in the situation... Let him get the chance to have a conversation with you...

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 3 місяці тому

      Absolutely... don't know why so many women seem to be so jaded and offended these days... Get over yourselves folks!! 😁🙏❤

  • @angelac.3217
    @angelac.3217 3 місяці тому +16

    The last guy that I was seeing straight up let me know he could not love another woman besides his wife who appears to have passed away. So I guess he's emotionally unavailable. He just wants friends with benefits and I'm no longer into that scene.

  • @TashaStPierre
    @TashaStPierre 3 місяці тому +1

    I Love You ❤!!!!!

  • @glet5408
    @glet5408 3 місяці тому

    The whole essence of me is sexy. I without trying to be, but I am one of those people that has thing in my child that makes me not want to present myself now to my extent because I don’t want that attention and I guess that’s form. I didn’t know how to handle attention as a child and I don’t know how to handle attention now, so I dress down to love you for me not what I look like

  • @leanolaone6431
    @leanolaone6431 3 місяці тому +13

    I often just think men are being nice & kind when they give me compliments. I also don't handle compliments well,I literally feel awkward, uncomfortable & embarrassed.
    He will have to say it out loud,I'm flirting with you.😂

  • @sheilaj8951
    @sheilaj8951 3 місяці тому

    Personally, its how the man approaches me.
    Men don't brag about material things, it's a turn-off for real women! Real women want a real man! Women can buy 6:42 material things.

  • @sheilaj8951
    @sheilaj8951 3 місяці тому +1

    Ask her what attracks her to a man?

  • @lonekreativelee454
    @lonekreativelee454 3 місяці тому +3

    LAH was a tremendous blueprint to healing! And once you do your healing work, you gain a lot of discernment in future interactions to avoid situationships and unhealthy relationships!

  • @denanikiawilliams
    @denanikiawilliams 3 місяці тому +2

    Hey Labossiere. Sweet heart, Is it ok for a women to flirt with a man as well. I think it will give that woman a chance to exercise her femininity from the purity of her heart. That was just a thought darling. Keep going dear we appreciate it all💜🙏.

    • @ektaaasar
      @ektaaasar 3 місяці тому +1

      Well some women are just too shy to flirt ☺️

    • @zmojcaz
      @zmojcaz 3 місяці тому

      Stephan does say in one of the videos for women to flirt with the guy because that is how you show him that you like him. But keep it appropriate.

    • @denanikiawilliams
      @denanikiawilliams 3 місяці тому

      @@ektaaasar I tried to leave you some very encouraging words concerning your shyness. Just know I got you in prayer beautiful. Continue to seek God's face, keep the faith and stand on his word. He got you. Love you🙏🙏🙏

  • @getemmuhammad6982
    @getemmuhammad6982 3 місяці тому

    If we could get every episode stephan speaks and stephan speaks for men, just on a spotify/apple music podcast that would be amazing. just saying. Ive been listening to you since 2018.

  • @grectsimarendorff7209
    @grectsimarendorff7209 Місяць тому

    I don't like it when men compliment me

  • @raegray8768
    @raegray8768 3 місяці тому

    That’s not true. The best me I have met have been when I looked the worst! Sweats cut offs and rain boots. No make up. I really don’t think we should date! More thought should be put into how to get together and stay together. Our grandparents didn’t date like that they met when to coffee or to the jukejoint and got married 2 weeks later and stayed married for 25 years or better till death! How do we get back to this!

  • @glet5408
    @glet5408 3 місяці тому

    The whole essence of me is sexy. I without trying to be, but I am one of those people that has things child that makes me not want to present myself now to my extent because I don’t want that attention and I guess that’s form. I didn’t know how to handle attention as a child and I don’t know how to handle attention now, so I’m dressed down

  • @WarriorMichelle57
    @WarriorMichelle57 3 місяці тому +1

    Whoever the woman is that says she hates when a man goes up to her and she feels it's for her looks, she is ling, I said what I said. This woman knows exactly what she is doing. Men are visual, just as we women, and don't even lie ladies, we see what we see and we either like or don't like it, it's the maturity that is able to look past the exterior if he isn't a "10". We need to know that it really is what is on the inside that matters most and yes look matter of course they do but we shouldn't be so superficial.

    • @4EverGr8ful1
      @4EverGr8ful1 3 місяці тому +1

      Agree 💯 percent! Too many folks are walking around offended these days... Be real y'all!! 😁🙏❤

    • @WarriorMichelle57
      @WarriorMichelle57 3 місяці тому

      @@4EverGr8ful1 😂🙌🏻

  • @quinndellarogers1828
    @quinndellarogers1828 3 місяці тому +2

    I heal my lust to enjoy my love. which I have yet to enjoy with another but. I did heal the list so I'm prepared for love💅

  • @angelac.3217
    @angelac.3217 3 місяці тому +14

    I used to hate it when men tried to pick me up when I was younger when I looked better and now I hate that I don't seem to be attractive to anyone.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +12

      I’m sure some men are just too shy to approach 🙏

    • @WarriorMichelle57
      @WarriorMichelle57 3 місяці тому +3

      Hey girl! Don't believe the lies of the enemy! He tried to whisper those ugly lies to me too! I had been through a lot in a relationship which broke me but I'm back baby 😅 I'm back! And you will be too in Jesus name Amen!

  • @JudyChilds-fu4em
    @JudyChilds-fu4em 3 місяці тому

    I💝💝💝it, I want him to want me for all of me❣️👍

  • @Eb-ic1kr
    @Eb-ic1kr 3 місяці тому

    Interesting. I have been sexually abused by two teachers. Once when I was 8 and once when when I was 11 years old. To this date, and I am 50 years old, but still have the pull factor, I only walk out of the door in Amish style clothing and keep my eyes on the pavement.

  • @Leochick-kj2cz
    @Leochick-kj2cz 3 місяці тому +9

    My birthday is 🎂🎈🎉 ... 8/2

  • @creepypisces83
    @creepypisces83 3 місяці тому

    Haha what if the male best friend is married? I have this situation at the moment, we just connect very well and understand each other. Nothing will happen as I'm not here to steal someone's husband, he's loyal to her of course.

  • @Keana43
    @Keana43 3 місяці тому +1

    It is pretty annoying but I know this is what I have to go through so I can meet the right guy.❤

    • @phylicialyons2973
      @phylicialyons2973 3 місяці тому +1

      I totally agree with what you are saying as c e p h a n. It is very annoying when men come up and flirt but I guess I'm going to put my daughter in this she told me that how else are you going to meet a man mom I mean I can't stand when men ask me for my number or walk up to me and compliment me but I am listening to your video and learning a lot thank you!

    • @Keana43
      @Keana43 3 місяці тому

      @@phylicialyons2973 yess keep that mindset😊

  • @KellyK871
    @KellyK871 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @HelenaRobalo-r3z
    @HelenaRobalo-r3z 3 місяці тому +2

    A person can tell alot about your personality by the clothes, shoes.
    I can tell alot about a person by the shoes they wear.
    I was very actracted to this guy' s shoes.
    I guess its a gift i have.
    Sometimes i think someone can't find a man because of the shoes they wear.

  • @shalondaglover4066
    @shalondaglover4066 3 місяці тому

    😮😊

  • @Bob-z4b
    @Bob-z4b 3 місяці тому

    I dress like a boy whenever the attention gets too much.

  • @Illegallyred74
    @Illegallyred74 3 місяці тому +5

    Oh Good Grief as a thick girl I can’t even imagine gaining weight because you don’t won’t attention, that sounds crazy to me!

  • @angelac.3217
    @angelac.3217 3 місяці тому +4

    I'm tired of men ignoring me because of how I look! Shallow!

    • @susanneedham2836
      @susanneedham2836 3 місяці тому

      Don't worry let it go when you do girl hes right there in front of you and you just didn't see he's coming. And it wo be worth the wait. Trust God and your gut... 🎉❤

  • @qveeenosobeauty
    @qveeenosobeauty 3 місяці тому +3

    𝐼 𝐴𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑒

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks 🙏

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  3 місяці тому +1

      🙌 thank you

    • @qveeenosobeauty
      @qveeenosobeauty 3 місяці тому

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks 𝐼𝑚 𝑅𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝐻𝑒'𝑠 𝐿𝑦𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑇𝑜 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑆𝑖𝑠. 𝐼𝑚 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑡, 𝑖 𝑘𝑛𝑒𝑤 𝑚𝑜𝑠𝑡 𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑓𝑓 𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝑎𝑙𝑜𝑛𝑔 𝑏𝑢𝑡 𝐷𝑜𝑢𝑏𝑡 𝑚𝑦𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓.

  • @shalondaglover4066
    @shalondaglover4066 3 місяці тому

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