Guaranteed once the dogs pass away he'll be crawling back because now the beings he would obsess over are no longer around to "cloud his judgement". Make sure his family is aware of why the divorce is happening so he can't twist the story.
If the dogs passed away, he'll be in grief and depression like if he did lost a human relative. Granted, losing a pet is horrible and not something people can manage, but he would go turbo mode about it.
atleast with this outcome she wont come out as the overeacting partner who asked for the divorce over dogs. when she tells her friend and family hubby divorced her over this theyd be less inclined to grill her over this
@@arcticpenguin4986I betcha when he finds out OP’s leaving he’s gonna throw it on her again with the “I wasn’t actually serious about wanting a divorce, you’re just overreacting”.
OP should divorce his ass and let him marry his dogs like he so obviously wants to do, he's so obsessed with them it's highly concerning especially when he just said he'd let OP AND HER KID die if it would save the dogs like wtf.
The guy is mental and she should divorce and take everything she can, because I guarantee he would if he were in that position. She should call his parents and let them know everything and that she's leaving him, and call her parents to get help leaving.
I hope op's ex gets the help he needs because he's deranged if he thinks two elderly dogs are worth more than his wife and stepchild. Sentimental value or not, both of those dogs probably don't even have more than a year left.
😭😭 That's actually a horrible thing to discover after recently getting married. I love my tiny dog and would want someone to love him just as much, but I'm not marrying anyone that I'm treating like that and I'm not staying with anyone who'd treat me like that. There's no love there
The love to your wife and the love to your dogs are 2 diffrent things. First: Your wife stays with your for a life time and she should be the 1 prio. 2: You can love ure dogs and still set clear bounderies. The dogs dont need to be sleeping in the bed. They can sleep on the floor, near the owners. Its perfectly fine becouse i have friends who train dogs and tok this diccusion with him and he said "dogs needs a leader with clear commands and bounderies. Otherwise, they will be the leader and you´ll start to get problems discipline them!". OPs husband are WAY over his head about dogs. Like comments here down below, maybe the husband have some kind of mental illness or personal issues to be deal with? 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
My wife and I have had this discussion and our consensus is if there’s a house fire, we save the dog and hope the other is capable of saving themselves. We don’t trust our bulldog with getting to safety and not just barking at the fire
Imagine being OP's ex and telling to everybody "I divorce my ex-wife because she was angry that two dogs slept in our bed. Can you believe she asked me if someone placed a gvn in her hear and de dogs, I would pick the dogs instead to save them and she didn't like the answer? You cannot ask that if you don't like the answer!" and expect a "That's too bad".
This guy loves his dogs, and honestly there isnt anything wrong with that. What is wrong however, is getting in a long term relationship enough to marry, and not having made clear his stance on things. There are people out there that like non human animals more than humans. They still get married, but just keep the people in their lives at more of a distance then their animal companions. He needs to find someone that is the same way, and agrees that they would do the same and save the dogs if the tables were turned. This is just incompatibility and ppl are neglecting the needs. This ldy needs a bettegr partner, and this guy needs someone who has the same stance on animal companionship as him
Look, I love my dog more than my own life. But there has to be some kind of boundaries! Yes he sleeps next to me, but he’s small and barely takes up any room. If I had a partner who was sleeping uncomfortably, my pup would have to sleep on the floor. Or we’d get a bigger bed 😂 OP should proceed with the divorce and leave that man to cuddle his dogs. Better to leave now than deal with him when those dogs pass and he’s whining “are you happy now?” For years on end
Husband failed the "Would you love me if I was a piece of wood" question. Also a different pov is that asking your Significant Other to rail you while the 2 dogs are in the same bedroom is a weird question to ask
Bruh he is doing nothing for dog people. He’s the worst person for the dog people marketing team. I know most dog people are normal but this guy is what you are fighting against.
Crazy dog man. People have a lot to say about single crazy cat ladies, but what about this married dog obsessed man? Lady, have some self-respect and leave your husband.
I love dogs. More than I love most humans. But there are boundaries. There are people that are more precious than dogs. Your wife and child should be those people. I wouldn't blame someone who says they'll save the dogs over a random stranger. I would too. But you shouldn't marry someone you won't prioritize over everything else.
After watching a lot of reddit stories I want to ask - is it really common in USA to move together only after wedding? So many of these stories have that, I'm confused
Semi common but usually that's only if you're heavily religious because being in close quarters might make you wanna do things you shouldn't (according to the books) before you tie the knot.
@@hailmuse hm, ok 🤔 ty for reply! Religion is not mentioned often, but maybe that's the reason. I've just seen so many stories like "we dated for two years, moved together after the wedding, turns out my partner doesn't clean / plays videogames loud at night / can't sleep without dogs" and I'm like HOW? How you never learned that?? It's crazy, in my mind moving in is like the first step of serious relationship
@@Farewell_Trash yea if they move in together after the wedding it's often that they're religious or they're somewhere very puritanical. The US is only semi puritanical
Lmao you must be the crazy dog lover this post is about. This isn’t a simple issue of OP disliking her husbands love of his dogs. He chose dogs over his wife. No normal functioning adult would do that. Yes people love their pets, yes in specific situations priority and extra care should be given to them. This was not one of those situations lol. He clearly has an unhealthy obsession with the dogs. He(possibly) was unaware that the senior dog couldn’t get off the bed on its own? Please. Either he knew and was lying or he assumed because he would rather do everything for the dog whether it needed help or not. His wife, who he barely spends time with as it is, was sick and sore from supporting his weird need to have the dogs sleep in their bed. The very least he could do was compromise a bit and move the dogs over so he wife could get some sort of rest. Yes, she could’ve gone to the guest room but why would she when she has a husband and a bed she could be sleeping in? This guy is sick in the head and he should’ve never wasted her time marry her if he enjoyed his parents dogs so much.
@@XRunnerXtuf no he isn't. If your love comes at the price of hurting others and destroying a marriage.. Then it's not. What he has is obsession. Replace the dogs with humans and you will understand how creepy it is..
Guaranteed once the dogs pass away he'll be crawling back because now the beings he would obsess over are no longer around to "cloud his judgement".
Make sure his family is aware of why the divorce is happening so he can't twist the story.
If the dogs passed away, he'll be in grief and depression like if he did lost a human relative. Granted, losing a pet is horrible and not something people can manage, but he would go turbo mode about it.
Why do people constantly devalue what a life partner is? Elderly dogs over your wife and asking for a divorce is insane
I can understand that he loves the dogs as family since he lived with them way longer than with his wife. But yes I agree with you completely
what is he gonna do when the dogs kick the bucket? will he be ready to be a partner of value?
I really wished OP had been the one to ask for a divorce.
atleast with this outcome she wont come out as the overeacting partner who asked for the divorce over dogs. when she tells her friend and family hubby divorced her over this theyd be less inclined to grill her over this
@@arcticpenguin4986I betcha when he finds out OP’s leaving he’s gonna throw it on her again with the “I wasn’t actually serious about wanting a divorce, you’re just overreacting”.
Why did he even bother to marry her?
Same
OP should divorce his ass and let him marry his dogs like he so obviously wants to do, he's so obsessed with them it's highly concerning
especially when he just said he'd let OP AND HER KID die if it would save the dogs like wtf.
The guy is mental and she should divorce and take everything she can, because I guarantee he would if he were in that position. She should call his parents and let them know everything and that she's leaving him, and call her parents to get help leaving.
I hope op's ex gets the help he needs because he's deranged if he thinks two elderly dogs are worth more than his wife and stepchild. Sentimental value or not, both of those dogs probably don't even have more than a year left.
True
stepchild?
😭😭 That's actually a horrible thing to discover after recently getting married. I love my tiny dog and would want someone to love him just as much, but I'm not marrying anyone that I'm treating like that and I'm not staying with anyone who'd treat me like that. There's no love there
Never been so thankful to have a small dog and a large bed (tho sometimes he still finds a way to miraculously take up the whole thing)
The love to your wife and the love to your dogs are 2 diffrent things. First: Your wife stays with your for a life time and she should be the 1 prio. 2: You can love ure dogs and still set clear bounderies. The dogs dont need to be sleeping in the bed. They can sleep on the floor, near the owners. Its perfectly fine becouse i have friends who train dogs and tok this diccusion with him and he said "dogs needs a leader with clear commands and bounderies. Otherwise, they will be the leader and you´ll start to get problems discipline them!". OPs husband are WAY over his head about dogs. Like comments here down below, maybe the husband have some kind of mental illness or personal issues to be deal with? 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨
Merry Christmas Scaling! Thank you for always providing great background noise while I work :)
My wife and I have had this discussion and our consensus is if there’s a house fire, we save the dog and hope the other is capable of saving themselves. We don’t trust our bulldog with getting to safety and not just barking at the fire
As much as i love golden retrievers... this is extreme...
That man is pathetic. Ugh how frustrating.
I hate to think it, but what if the husband is one of those "animal enjoyers" *gag* I get nauseous thinking about it.
I understand if he loves his dogs as much as her. But that is just insane. Well, we now see why he was single for 34 years...
Merry Christmas Scaling Stories, thank you for your diligent work on this channel! Hope you had a wonderful day!! 🎄🌟✨
Imagine being OP's ex and telling to everybody "I divorce my ex-wife because she was angry that two dogs slept in our bed. Can you believe she asked me if someone placed a gvn in her hear and de dogs, I would pick the dogs instead to save them and she didn't like the answer? You cannot ask that if you don't like the answer!" and expect a "That's too bad".
You WANT to leave? Honey, why haven't you already LEFT?
This guy loves his dogs, and honestly there isnt anything wrong with that. What is wrong however, is getting in a long term relationship enough to marry, and not having made clear his stance on things. There are people out there that like non human animals more than humans. They still get married, but just keep the people in their lives at more of a distance then their animal companions. He needs to find someone that is the same way, and agrees that they would do the same and save the dogs if the tables were turned. This is just incompatibility and ppl are neglecting the needs. This ldy needs a bettegr partner, and this guy needs someone who has the same stance on animal companionship as him
Oh hell no this is insane and I can’t believe these people actually knew each other deeply before getting married lmao
You waited too long . Should have left him before being kicked out
Look, I love my dog more than my own life. But there has to be some kind of boundaries! Yes he sleeps next to me, but he’s small and barely takes up any room. If I had a partner who was sleeping uncomfortably, my pup would have to sleep on the floor. Or we’d get a bigger bed 😂
OP should proceed with the divorce and leave that man to cuddle his dogs. Better to leave now than deal with him when those dogs pass and he’s whining “are you happy now?” For years on end
Husband failed the "Would you love me if I was a piece of wood" question. Also a different pov is that asking your Significant Other to rail you while the 2 dogs are in the same bedroom is a weird question to ask
Being jealous of a dog and asking stupid questions because your jealous of a sick and vulnerable animal is insane.
I would expose him and then divorce
Dump. Him. Now.
Bruh he is doing nothing for dog people. He’s the worst person for the dog people marketing team. I know most dog people are normal but this guy is what you are fighting against.
Crazy dog man.
People have a lot to say about single crazy cat ladies, but what about this married dog obsessed man?
Lady, have some self-respect and leave your husband.
the dogs can't understand his words, the situation would never occur irl, it wouldn't have hurt him to just say he'd pick her
I love dogs. More than I love most humans. But there are boundaries. There are people that are more precious than dogs. Your wife and child should be those people. I wouldn't blame someone who says they'll save the dogs over a random stranger. I would too. But you shouldn't marry someone you won't prioritize over everything else.
After watching a lot of reddit stories I want to ask - is it really common in USA to move together only after wedding? So many of these stories have that, I'm confused
Semi common but usually that's only if you're heavily religious because being in close quarters might make you wanna do things you shouldn't (according to the books) before you tie the knot.
@@hailmuse hm, ok 🤔 ty for reply!
Religion is not mentioned often, but maybe that's the reason. I've just seen so many stories like "we dated for two years, moved together after the wedding, turns out my partner doesn't clean / plays videogames loud at night / can't sleep without dogs" and I'm like HOW? How you never learned that?? It's crazy, in my mind moving in is like the first step of serious relationship
@@Farewell_Trash yea if they move in together after the wedding it's often that they're religious or they're somewhere very puritanical. The US is only semi puritanical
Merry Christmas scalingstories!!!
like, zoinks, scoob!
I completely understand where he’s coming from
These AI stories are getting more obnoxious
I support the husband's choice.
Happy ending, if you can't even stand your husband loving his pets don't get married in the first place.
Lmao you must be the crazy dog lover this post is about. This isn’t a simple issue of OP disliking her husbands love of his dogs. He chose dogs over his wife. No normal functioning adult would do that. Yes people love their pets, yes in specific situations priority and extra care should be given to them. This was not one of those situations lol. He clearly has an unhealthy obsession with the dogs. He(possibly) was unaware that the senior dog couldn’t get off the bed on its own? Please. Either he knew and was lying or he assumed because he would rather do everything for the dog whether it needed help or not. His wife, who he barely spends time with as it is, was sick and sore from supporting his weird need to have the dogs sleep in their bed. The very least he could do was compromise a bit and move the dogs over so he wife could get some sort of rest. Yes, she could’ve gone to the guest room but why would she when she has a husband and a bed she could be sleeping in? This guy is sick in the head and he should’ve never wasted her time marry her if he enjoyed his parents dogs so much.
Bro has his priorities right……….i would move heaven and earth for my dogs
Yes by hurting the people who love you.. Sounds about right. Doesn't it?
tbh he's in the right
@@XRunnerXtuf no he isn't. If your love comes at the price of hurting others and destroying a marriage.. Then it's not. What he has is obsession. Replace the dogs with humans and you will understand how creepy it is..
then don't get married and start a family
I bet you're a redpiller
Give them chocolate