The next update is easy, the marriage is over. His last update makes it clear he’s emotionally leaving her already. It won’t be long before he completely stops loving her and it’s like a roommate. I’ve cut off loved ones like that, it’s very subtle but one day you just realize they don’t mean anything to you anymore
she’s cheated before. he’s been cheated on before. she’s now spending ‘too much time’ with a guy she’s cheated on her exes with before? don’t worry OP, no red flags here. your relationship will NOT burst into flames😁😁😁
Well he can't say he wasnt warned. She got angry at very basic ground rules, and still bends them? Its pretty clear this relationship isn't normal and he seems to be okay that she has a crush on an ex? This guy is a doormat.
She definitely physically cheated on him with that guy already. Wife probably suggested something like “what if we get a divorce and get together” and he probably declined it, and in response went to go complain to the friends (with a VERY DIFFERENT story) and the friends told her off. That or the other wife told the guy and he actually listened to his partner and OP’s wife got mad that EVERYONE else was on OP’s side so than she couldn’t twist the situation.
‘She has a crush’ on the man she previously used to cheat but op is also to blame for purposely turning on his blinders through this. A four hour walk?
This is the type of friend that gets really hard to support. Like don’t get me wrong, I think it sucks that she’s taking advantage of him like that, but at some point continuously announcing your ability to “end things at the drop of a hat” and warnings about “you can do as you please but you have to deal with the consequences” is just empty words. In fact, it makes it even more obvious that OP, deep down, has no intention to deal out consequences or a break up or anything really. And in all of this, the daughter is probably picking up on it and learning that this is what a relationship is. I just can’t believe people in their fucking 40s are this immature
He deserves better and he knows it why is it that is soon as she got other people in her ear telling her what she was doing was wrong he was agreeing with her because first of all why you telling people what goes on in your relationship that's wrong and that's a violation of trust he needs better and he knows it
He deserves everything that's coming to him. His first mistake was to date a woman that's still chummy with the ex or guy friends. You don't need that doubt or headache. Stop satisfying women with letting them getting away for making choices that don't align with your values.
She cheated on her ex with this guy and they reconnected? Immediate no.
IMMEDIATELY!!!!!
They went for a 4 hr walk and she never explained what they were doing? She's cheated and he's to blind to admit it
The next update is easy, the marriage is over. His last update makes it clear he’s emotionally leaving her already. It won’t be long before he completely stops loving her and it’s like a roommate. I’ve cut off loved ones like that, it’s very subtle but one day you just realize they don’t mean anything to you anymore
she’s cheated before. he’s been cheated on before. she’s now spending ‘too much time’ with a guy she’s cheated on her exes with before?
don’t worry OP, no red flags here. your relationship will NOT burst into flames😁😁😁
Well he can't say he wasnt warned. She got angry at very basic ground rules, and still bends them? Its pretty clear this relationship isn't normal and he seems to be okay that she has a crush on an ex? This guy is a doormat.
She definitely physically cheated on him with that guy already. Wife probably suggested something like “what if we get a divorce and get together” and he probably declined it, and in response went to go complain to the friends (with a VERY DIFFERENT story) and the friends told her off. That or the other wife told the guy and he actually listened to his partner and OP’s wife got mad that EVERYONE else was on OP’s side so than she couldn’t twist the situation.
‘She has a crush’ on the man she previously used to cheat but op is also to blame for purposely turning on his blinders through this. A four hour walk?
that last comment is gold xD
The second I heard crypto and that she’s cheated with him before makes me immediately sus
This is the type of friend that gets really hard to support. Like don’t get me wrong, I think it sucks that she’s taking advantage of him like that, but at some point continuously announcing your ability to “end things at the drop of a hat” and warnings about “you can do as you please but you have to deal with the consequences” is just empty words. In fact, it makes it even more obvious that OP, deep down, has no intention to deal out consequences or a break up or anything really. And in all of this, the daughter is probably picking up on it and learning that this is what a relationship is. I just can’t believe people in their fucking 40s are this immature
cheated on her ex with a guy who's married with 3 kids? lol what. Did I misinterpret that.
she’s definitely already cheated
Doormat
"She cheated on his ex-" And you went ahead and married her? Ew.
the moment I heard crypto I knew it was gonna be a trainwreck
He deserves better and he knows it why is it that is soon as she got other people in her ear telling her what she was doing was wrong he was agreeing with her because first of all why you telling people what goes on in your relationship that's wrong and that's a violation of trust he needs better and he knows it
The fact that she is also “friend with exs” i don’t know… it doesn’t sit right with me
Getting intro crypto is, in and of itself, a huge red flag. Fucking yikes.
how come he has a "zero tolerance policy to cheating and cheaters" but is currently married to a cheater? 💀💀
Crypto would be enough for me to leave. Forget cheating. She’s going to run them into the ground financially.
Damn bro this is just sad
I listened to a minute of this and my answer is… WHAT DO YOU THINK???
New parkour yay
Dude is a chump or just really blind
Another dumb op 😂 america men
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Another Spineless
He deserves everything that's coming to him. His first mistake was to date a woman that's still chummy with the ex or guy friends. You don't need that doubt or headache. Stop satisfying women with letting them getting away for making choices that don't align with your values.
« I have a zero tolerance policy toward cheating and cheaters” and you married one ? Joke is on you brother
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