I used to say this all the time to this exbestfriend / sexfriend / BPD of mine. What a waste of time. I've never been happier in my life now that I stoped giving them so much importance and that I actually started LOVING and RESPECTING myself !
Don’t be needy, don’t be weak, be dominant, don’t chase her, do nothing and walk out, practice skills talk to other girls, don’t wait for her approval, don’t be needy
iNunky it may seem like that to the logical person I. E. a man. Women don't think like that. We are logical it's why we chase because we think the more time we put in the better the outcome. Women are not logical... It's why we have to be this, you have to understand what women are emotionally responsive to.
You're wrong. When your interest in a woman increases, it raises the stakes... Suddenly you realise you have something to lose and that's when you need Corey's principles to be second nature, so you don't react driven by emotion.
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
Coach Corey Wayne hey coach! I need help and I purchased the iBook audio of your book. I was curious how I can reach you. Can’t figure it out. Much thanks!
Stop idolizing the one you guys may have screwed up on and realize how empowering and smooth your future opportunities will be and how much more abundant they will come with that sense of confidence.
Man I wish I was listenning to thoses videos wayyyyyyyy before... I lost a really interresting girl because I was too greedy, not enough dominant and I screw up everything top to bottom. Getting her back seem impossible tho, too much errors were made. When he say dont do this dont do that, I can see me doing it. I was totaly not understanding womans. Maybe ill get my chance back one day but I got to say thank you Corey cuz the next time I wont be a puppy, never again.
same here, just fucked it up with one of the best girls i ever dated, looks and character wise. fuck me ! the thing is i already knew about corey, redpill stuff etc. but i could not control my emotions ..... damn. i know it exactly that i could have won her over
I tell you guys! This man is telling the truth. To Mr. Corey, thank so you much! I finally won her heart. I was really worried back then since I had a rival. but this I tell you guys. you shouldn't be worried about anything. just be who you are and just chill. even when you have a rival. because later, she'll be annoyed with that guy and miss you instead.
It's definitely a stock song of some sort..I was watching a vocational video a couple months ago and it had the same song in the background but at a different tempo.
Just got dumped by someone who said all the right things. She was always at my shop and wanting to see me. Sex and dates and spending nights together.. holding hands.. Then I was a little too needy I guess. Thinking I was doing what I was supposed to do. Obviously wasn't. Thanks for these. A friend turned me on to this and I'm glad.
It's an amazing thing to understand female psychology. I've recently got your book and the funny thing is even though I was doing a lot of things erring I was also doing things right but not 100%. But on a self conscious level I felt my way was wrong. I'd open up too quick and it would work for a little while but eventually they'd drift away and then come back. I think with women actions speak louder than words. Meaning keep your mouth shut and let that mystery set in instead of being honest about how you feel.
It all comes with intuition and practice I would say, when I was younger I tried to be closed, then open, both had their own positives but in the end if you are negative, needy and chasing then you will tire them down and fuck up
It’s easy to say forget about her, but when someone is in deep, and she’s not responding, it’s not easy. The alpha thing is only when your defense is high
Yeah and it's even harder to watch someone touch your woman in ways that you didn't or only you would do and your instincts say to you, go and split them both lol but the correct thing is to ignore her and give some space which is mindfuck imo
I was alpha once. Then I fell in love and now dumped. -.- I need to unclear these feelings I guess. Sucks I need to listen to return of the mac and get my groove back
I’m on the same boat lol. She chased me then a year later she broke up with me. I tried to fight for her for like 3 or 2 days. After that I just went to no contact I haven’t messaged her like 2 weeks. She asked my friends how am I. I didn’t beg her to stay or cry. Just do you work on yourself make them see that your happy. Just don’t chase you make it worse. Stay strong peeps. 💪🏽
As my brother told me when I was 12: "If you want to get the girl, stop giving a shit about her, you have to ignore her" That was 14 years ago before social media, nothing has changed 😅
This video is 10 years Old and after binge watching them I have figured some things out. Things weren't the way I saw them. My actions created the distancing after the break up and maybe, Just Maybe, it wasn't meant to be and finally. The world doesn't revolve around me. I might even have a touch of Narcissism.
I have seen a lot of videos, but this one really got me thinking. Because of you I realized why a girl never showed any interest in me after screwing it up a little bit. I was just chasing her all the time and made it look like I had no other things in my life except her. But after watching this video I started to give her less attention and do more things with my own life, after a few weeks I noticed she suddenly replies faster and her replies were also longer. I hope we will see each other again soon because I still like the way she is, but I'll just do the same thing as before I started chasing her too much.
A great tips and advice, when you do everything just to attract with you back but it seems like she push you away and she not apprecite your effort better to leave her and do find someone else.
I leave her alone completely for 2 and a half weeks then for the first time in 2 months, she initiates contact and wants to Skype me. It's amazing a little uncertainty can do to a woman.
Interest level is a term from the sales field. It refers to a buyers level of interest in your product or service. Salespeople in general want to spend their time with serious buyers and not tire kickers. Doc love, like myself, has a sales background. I love his sense of humor & recommend his dating dictionary in my kindle eBook. I mostly use attraction level and a scale of 1-10 in my kindle eBook. The idea is not to waste your time with people who don't show signs of mutual interest/attraction.
Coach Corey Wayne I got blocked by a girl that I thought were going very well , until she no longer had a Bitmoji then a couple of days later I made a new Snapchat account and found her again. Apologised from the bottom of my heart for thinking I had rushed our relationship and now when I try talking to her on her new Snapchat, she isn't replying to me. Last reply I got from her on her new Snapchat was I don't want a relationship, I'm only looking for Friends. Which is fine because I realized I only want to be friends and if it goes anywhere in the future , then we will take it from their. I know I have messaged up big time here, but i just want to talk again with her like before when I asked her out for a drink(s) and she said it's just getting free time, yeah im up for that , I like to pay my way lol. I am so gutted I messed it up now. Only way I can probably fix this go try finding her in my local town , where I think she works and explain to her and try getting us back talking again , that's if she will have dinner with me now.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. no dude, don't explain anything. That's exactly what he is trying to teach you here. You trying to find her, message her and apologize for your behavior is going to push her farther and farther away. I know it sucks, ive been there sooo many times. The only way she will come back, (if she does at all I mean) is to do exactly what he says in this video. No contact. Move on and forward with your life. Trust me, you will be glad you did. There are so many girls out there and as long as you're a man its in your DNA to attract them. Do not get hung up on her, its a mistake. Girls like men with value, you chase her around and it just shows her that you do not value yourself and she will not place any value on you. Think of it this way, why is gold so valuable? Because of its rarity. Aluminum is abundant, and that's why you can just throw it away like trash. Don't be aluminum, be gold.
What really pisses me off is that it's all about the woman. What about what I fucking want? I'm not needy or desperate or creepy... how about I just fucking like you lmao
Just gotta face it. Its primitive instinct mixed with social conditioning. Its a game that's never going to change for your liking. So what can you do? Adapt, overcome and master the game. Become an MVP in it. Its really not that hard. It may not be like it is in the movies but a lot of good can still come out of it. Us men can't whine when the world beats up on us. But we can learn to roll with the punches and dole out an ass whooping from time to time.
Dude you're a legend! Basically everything you said hit the mark with me, I was cold towards her in the beginning but started being more and more clingy as time went on. Now we're in a situation where she's the one pulling the reins and she feels like she can basically "take me back" whenever she wants to. Now I'm going to not contact her unless she contacts me. If she does contact me I know she's interested in me and that I still have a chance, but if she doesn't I guess I can do nothing else but just move on.
U know i learned something. Women always say that men aren't good and wr don't care. But when we do show affection, and love and etc they wanna play hide and go seek.. Like 😒 really nigga.. That's why after seeing what this girl is about i go to the gym i work on myself and i post positive encouraging quotes on my Instagram story. And she now watches. I also told her that i wont be contacting her anymore because today i called to see how she was doing and she ignored me the first 2 times and on try number 3 she picks up, says nothing, but listens, and then hangs up. So i just stop contacting her, and i posted good positive and fun thing's and she's back at watching my Instagram stories. Why is it that after i told her i won't bother her anymore that's when she wants to look at my Instagram story?
Happened to me, crushed in a girl for months, I became single, we talked, and went on a date. I thought it went great, I guess not. She slowed down on texting, so I did push some, but thankfully I had watched this, so I haven't spoke or texted in 2 days, it is killing me, but hopefully it all works out.
It’s hard as fuck not to be needy when you get physically ill when they detach when you need them the most. I know it’s not healthy but the anxiety I feel when she’s gone makes me question if I can survive man. The thought of her with any other man or even texting someone else makes me want to throw it all away. I’m too old for games and psychological manipulation. My all cards on the table strategy is not effective but if I can’t put all my cards on the table and trust her with my deepest emotions then I don’t want to be with her anyways. Man, what is the end game here. Sex is good to boost your self esteem short term but I want a wife. A Lifetime partner who I never need to play this game of tug of war with. Don’t get me wrong your laws of attraction statements are accurate but I just don’t think I can play these games.
Mate, you've taken the words right out out of my mouth. It also doesn't help when (and I know this is a little bit of a cliche) the woman you focus on is 'not like other girls'. She doesn't play these games like the samples in the video. We are in our 40s, not teenagers or young adults playing the field, and have a history going back decades. It's just too much to lose for me. And I agree, these videos make a lot of sense and work for a lot of guys, but just not me.
Even if you're married you still have to play tug of war 😂 spending too much time with the wife can cause boredom etc you need to go outside alone and create mystery make her wonder what you're doing Remain wild and free don't let her think you're boring.
It's a shame that I can do all this when I genuinely don't care about the female. But if I find one I actually like I can't... I have to try this with this one I want but forced my hand and guess I'm friendzoned now... Interestingly enough this is the only one I've actually wanted in I don't know how many years. Lol
@@VoiceOfThe 44 here, it's definitely the decades of wasted time that make that sting of each new loss much deeper. Hang in there man, she's out there. Just make sure you are ready for her when she arrives. You can't go wrong by making yourself a better man every day until your last.
Patrick, what IS still there, is her physical attraction to you, which is pretty important. Feign indifference like the good Captain says, you'll be in like Flynn homes.
Same here. We k ew each other years ago but lost contact for a long time. When we talked again she couldn't wait to get me to her place. Told me she wanted me for years but I was taken. When I got there she lip locked me and took me straight to her room. I spent the night and left. I definelty liked her but my interest was alit lower than now. She text me everyday wanted to meet up with me all the time. She told me she loved me a month after we first hooked up and wanted me to move in a month after that. It took time but 7 months after we hooked up I moved in. She even got a place closer so I would. As soon as I moved in the roles reversed and I found myself asking the questions and waiting for texts and calls. I got after her about the time we spend together and now she wants a break but says she wants to work on things slowly cause she still loves me. told me I brought things to light that she didn't realize about herself before. We still talk and she invites me over like once a week. We haven't had sex since the break up but she's said she's still open to it with me. I did a little chasing after the breakup but over the last week I've left her alone completely. Any advise?
been watching a few of your videos and i see now all the mistakes ive done. lost a girl recently due to my inexperience and acting needy and this video really addresses that. thanks for the advice and knowledge. ill be putting it to good use. and who knows maybe ill reattract that girl again.
Guys as a woman, we definitely are not “attracted to men whose feelings are unclear” to us. Is this the kind of advice men are getting 😩 it all makes sense now. Don’t be needy but don’t play games and just be straight forward.
1 year ago you was my white knight of the break up. I did wrong after recontacting because she tested me again with another hot and cold, yes and no for a invitation, and I lost control. One year improving, our conditions are better, and now she will reach out to me, we see us every day and the vibe is positive. I just keep my straight and had learn to be stronger than my blurred representation of her.
This actually makes a lot of sense the more I think about it. It all sounds weird at first but girls are weird and thats why you gotta do it differently. If she can flip a relationship into a friendship straight overnight, whats stopping that from flipping back the next week? They are so random, and I guess you could use that to your advantage.
THX broseph, good stuff. I'm married still with my spouse. For the last 14 year's I've been straight up alpha male, and my wife was crazy for me. She has been demanding my attention for years, but I have been aloof at times with various activities. Well about 6 months ago, I was feeling badly about my neglect, and started taking her out frequently. I in turn started texting her more than friends, and we bonded much deeper than we had previously. Well here I am 6 months later wondering Wtf happened. She has become somewhat cold at times. She is encouraging me to get back into a hobby she despised, and said it would ruin our marriage because I spent to much time with it, lol. We have been married 14 years, and I've never seen this side. Initially I thought she might be seeing someone else, but with work and kids I don't see it. I think it is precisely what you are talking about. When she had to fight for my attention, she would jump at the chance to get me all to herself. Now that I make time for her, and talk about my emotions she has become disinterested. Sounds like it's time to buy another motorcycle, HAHA! Thx
Awesome advice. I was that guy !!! At 1st was not chasing, needy or overthinking. Then after 4 months shit changed. Chased to hard blowing up her phone so she pulled away. Communication slowed to a crawl. Slowly came back around. So recently I've figured out after watching your videos and realized , I've been smothering her and pushing to hard . Totally made her pull away. So I've stopped that shit , pulled away myself . Stopped liking her fb posts,basically doing no contact. It's hard because I really have strong feelings for her. But focusing on me . Putting fun and positive stuff on fb. Making plans with friends. Planning trips, being more social. So we will see, I know she fb stalks me .She hasn't blocked me on phone or fb. I'm 10 days in and I'm done being needy and chasing. She said she wants to go back to how it was at the beginning and be sexual friends. We shall see. If she reaches out. I will be happy positive and keep shit short and sweet.
@@jacklan4103 yeah she reached out on New year's eve. And I didn't respond right away , a couple days later I did, simply said Sorry was in Vegas with some buddies . She asked how I was and said she missed me. All I said was I was doing awesome and thanks for asking, and I hope she was doing good as well. Left it at that
I can vouch for this one. Used to be involved with a girl and wasn't that interested in her but liked her enough to keep her around and she could sense that and became obsessed with me constantly blowing up my phone trying to win me over. Eventually I felt like she was too clingy and it caused me to become disinterested and I left her completely. I tried to get back with her after a couple years and she was very interested at first but the more I chased to try to make it work again the more disinterested she became and pretty much did to me what I did to her the first time around. DO NOT CHASE WOMEN
It works he saved my relationship a few times I have been screwing up as in getting to clingy because I think she wants the same but apparently you can show your emotions just don’t over do it which is why I’m here today to remind myself this guy knows what he’s talking about trust me it works right now I’m focused on getting fit I got into boxing and studying to become a network engineer and spend some time with her but focus on priorities for other dudes reading or watching this please man focus on your health and career I know how you feel I’m kind of there now but do not get clingy it just makes things worse even if you can’t help yourself u have to Man U just do
Thank you Corey! This video describes my situation to a tee and I finally found some advice that is helpful. It makes perfect sense. Glad I stumbled upon your channel!
Hey coach I'm reading your book on the 2nd time around now. Awesome work brother the sense I am getting from your work is to give women what they need when they need it. not when you need so if she gets cold then back off. If she bitches give her attention my issue is finding the balance but like you said practice. Keep making these newsletters they are gold.
Coach Corey you deserve millions of views and subscribers. Your amazing. Keep it up brother. May the Lord bless u and open more doors of opportunity for u.
I have to agree, because women like to chase men gives them a challenge, but when the man is chasing its a bad sign because with women they can get men lots easier thus have more experience and able to notice these subtle things. So be careful with these things.
I dissed myself enough her! God bless her soul for making me realized that I'm lacking of something important to me. Now I will do my best not to collapse every time.. She is a co-worker and we have tendency to see each other in the afternoon. I still feel hurt everytime I see or hear her voice but I don't want to go back to be a gloomy person again because of her. Honestly this information really hurting my feelings but I need to face the reality. She ain't the right one. She knows how I care and how to handle her and I've told her that I understood what happened to us that causes us or breakup and I'm working to my self to become a better person. If she happen to see that in the future well it will be not the same me definitely. I want her to realize her loss but if that doesn't happen then by the time she consider me again I'm already lost of interest for her. We don't have the power to change the past nor know what would the future gives us, just doing all I have on the right track and accept that that person dumped me is trying to challenge my Manliness. 😉 More power to us. 👊👊👊
This is exactly what happened to me. FML I'm here to get myself right and learn what to do better. She's okay with us talking to each other so I feel I have a chance to do this properly a second time. I am not normally like this with women but I really got attached to this one.
I like what you said. It hits home as I fucked up my chance with a woman who had a high level of interest in me. I managed to do that on the very first date. I'd change the title of this video. You don't really go into re-attracting her.
This is advice I would give to anyone, male or female FUCK YOUR EMOTIONS! They will fuck you over EVERY SINGLE TIME! If you really want something it pays off to step back and view it with emotional detachment. Being highly emotional about something will cause you to make mistakes.
A girl who is 4 years older than me with 2 kids broke up with me. She is super hot and feminine. She said she "wanted more". I tried asking what she meant but didn't really respond. So I told her that "I don't expect you to change your mind but you got to do what is right for you and your girls." I left and 2 weeks later I texted her to to say hi and let her know I hoped she and her girls were doing well. Anyway I am now approaching 3 weeks and now it is time to move on!. :)
James D Why would you text her 2 weeks later when she dumped you? You were great when you had left it at “doing what is best for you and your girls” but then 2 weeks later should have never texted her. It was on her at that point to reach out to you.
@Anna Katy nahh thanks but Im good. things happen for a reason. the more i want her back the more she is getting away. i chose to.let go and move on ;)
I believe all this to be true but that begs the question....Are all relationships just an endless game ? While we can become experts at artificially gaining attention and control, doesn’t it all get tiresome at some point? At what point if at all do two people become actual friends and communicate honestly? Being a dominant male also means keeping options or do I say cheating because there is no true in between. If a guy decides to be faithful then with that loyalty comes more attention to your partner and if that in turn is perceived as being needy or weak as opposed to being attentive then the logical conclusion is that the male and female relationship dynamic is inherently flawed because we are at consistent odds with each other where the guy can not be emotionally honestly engaged and the female needs to feel like she is only an option because after all, a strong dominant male treats the girl as an afterthought if we are going to be honest with what a true Alpha is. It’s the guy too busy with other important things to be too concerned about his woman . Right?
Damn right...trully amazing whay you said ..but unfortunatly to get the pussy you need.to play this stupid game ...or just be the guu fucks hookers and.treat girls in the same way ...thinking about that now ...that may work faster...
dang this really helped me...today she told me she needed some space and i wasnt completley sure what she meant so i looked at your videos and realized i was pursuing her to much and "being a bitch" im glad i saw ur videos i think i caught it early enough to where i can fix it almost thanks
Me 2 New Years 2019.. I was told by a couple of friends ur a gud guy..and u deserve so much more.. DON'T CALL HER...U BETTER NOT CALL HER. So next week is going on 4wks no contact..and hearing nothing from her. (Then i c this video 2day and another coach named Appolonia..she says the same damn thing..dont do anything) Huh..go figure🤔
It sounds like to me most of the guys writing to Corey for help are probably late teens to late 20's, maybe some 30's that are slightly average guys that are getting the attention of some chick thats probably going thru some hormonal cycle and they are taking it as genuine interest, then the guy goes crazy calling and texting and she's probably just fucking around being a tease and a game player knowing she can throw him back anytime and get him later. Wake up guys, your being played.
So it's almost literally like fishing isn't it. You drop your line.... FISH ON!.... let it slack.... reel it in a little further.... tire it out slack the line reel it in until you can land the fish
I read the book and seeing these videos makes sense and seeing a pattern. He'll beat his reason and lessons he learned through his video articles or in his book. I've been doing it wrong half way through any relationship lol. Good video.
I wonder do women realize they actually create the men they say they hate.
Pernell Moore well said
Fr brother
Pernell Moore
Well said brother
I used to say this all the time to this exbestfriend / sexfriend / BPD of mine. What a waste of time.
I've never been happier in my life now that I stoped giving them so much importance and that I actually started LOVING and RESPECTING myself !
Pernell Moore they don’t because attraction isn’t a choice, if you act like a beta you get treated like one.
Don’t be needy, don’t be weak, be dominant, don’t chase her, do nothing and walk out, practice skills talk to other girls, don’t wait for her approval, don’t be needy
you gonna end up arrested kkkkk
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Thats like 50/50. Ive done that with many women but zero return.
@@ryanhopwood9338 Young, naive girls are okay with a little bit of chase.
Explicit Tech lots of people forget to attract and flirt and build a somewhat bond first
It's unfortunate that in order to get women you like, you have to act like you don't like them.
no, you simply have to act like and be a masculine man
iNunky it may seem like that to the logical person I. E. a man. Women don't think like that. We are logical it's why we chase because we think the more time we put in the better the outcome. Women are not logical... It's why we have to be this, you have to understand what women are emotionally responsive to.
+Coach Corey Wayne nah, it's bullshit that having interest in a woman makes you weak somehow.
You don't have to act like anything... just don't turn into a needy, clingy bitch.
You're wrong. When your interest in a woman increases, it raises the stakes... Suddenly you realise you have something to lose and that's when you need Corey's principles to be second nature, so you don't react driven by emotion.
I taught my sons girls are like credit. To get it, you have to prove you don't need it.
Mendell Patton wise words mendell
Your sons have an idiot for a father.
Nice advice
That hits deep.
Mendell Patton that is the most truth of all👏👏👏
THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON A PERSON CAN LEARN: The one who cares the least holds all the power, and always wins. Being willing to walk away gives you the upper hand and control. The ball needs to be in your court. Make them come to you. Don’t be a jerk about things, but if you’re willing to let go, a sense of loss is instilled in them. People always want what they can’t have. This holds true for every area of life.
So fucking true. Taken me 54 years to realise!
54 years and we are here in mid 30s thinking it's too late for us
@@trains889 thanks a ton!🙌🤞
If you want women to be attracted to you, then you have to act like a man.
Coach Corey Wayne hey coach! I need help and I purchased the iBook audio of your book. I was curious how I can reach you. Can’t figure it out. Much thanks!
Yes coach!
How do I do that Coach Corey Wayne
Even better than acting like a man is to BE a man.
What does that mean though... ? No one teaches exactly how to be a man...
Scary, several of his videos i sit here and can recognize mistakes i have made in the past, and still do. Definetly subbed.
I know the feelin !
Its been a year since I lost my "one". And it kills me every second of every day.
Paul Higgins there is no “the one”
Stop idolizing the one you guys may have screwed up on and realize how empowering and smooth your future opportunities will be and how much more abundant they will come with that sense of confidence.
Esteemed Beans
Powerful words... for me at least
Well said 👍
"Losses make bosses"
True shit....😂😂😂
TheTacklegee Deadpool and hulk are here.. wow! Nice
Ya tu sabe
Its hard to implement what Corey is saying but as tough as it is its the only way. Be the mountain not the wind. Love this analogy
F''''off I heard him say this Analogy too, I think it’s great too, I’m applying this mind set from here on in my dating life
In the end you only want a women who have a high level off attraction
Your advice is proof that they train us to be the things that they say they hate.
This is 100% the situation I'm in now. Thank you, I'm glad I found this page.
Same here
Man I wish I was listenning to thoses videos wayyyyyyyy before...
I lost a really interresting girl because I was too greedy, not enough dominant and I screw up everything top to bottom.
Getting her back seem impossible tho, too much errors were made.
When he say dont do this dont do that, I can see me doing it.
I was totaly not understanding womans.
Maybe ill get my chance back one day but I got to say thank you Corey cuz the next time I wont be a puppy, never again.
Feel you bro, we gotta learn this shit well!
Take value in your mistakes and move on.
same here, just fucked it up with one of the best girls i ever dated, looks and character wise. fuck me ! the thing is i already knew about corey, redpill stuff etc. but i could not control my emotions ..... damn. i know it exactly that i could have won her over
I tell you guys! This man is telling the truth. To Mr. Corey, thank so you much! I finally won her heart. I was really worried back then since I had a rival. but this I tell you guys. you shouldn't be worried about anything. just be who you are and just chill. even when you have a rival. because later, she'll be annoyed with that guy and miss you instead.
looove your work, HATE your theme song
I don't care for your whining
Coach Corey Wayne Add a song for your future theme song by the band This Will Destroy You :)
+Fredster J Comon mon. The theme song is great
+adamw1010 I think it's an stock Apple song.
It's definitely a stock song of some sort..I was watching a vocational video a couple months ago and it had the same song in the background but at a different tempo.
It's ok, I just saved 15% on my car insurance by switching to Geico
Lol 🍻
From a female perspective, everything Corey is saying is spot on the money!
Of course it does take money to attract any thirsty female😒💰
Then you bitches are truly dumb
Thanks we know
I'm sorry but even if it's true, it's beyond another level if stupid
@@illahee24 😂
Just got dumped by someone who said all the right things. She was always at my shop and wanting to see me. Sex and dates and spending nights together.. holding hands.. Then I was a little too needy I guess. Thinking I was doing what I was supposed to do. Obviously wasn't. Thanks for these. A friend turned me on to this and I'm glad.
It's an amazing thing to understand female psychology. I've recently got your book and the funny thing is even though I was doing a lot of things erring I was also doing things right but not 100%. But on a self conscious level I felt my way was wrong. I'd open up too quick and it would work for a little while but eventually they'd drift away and then come back. I think with women actions speak louder than words. Meaning keep your mouth shut and let that mystery set in instead of being honest about how you feel.
It all comes with intuition and practice I would say, when I was younger I tried to be closed, then open, both had their own positives but in the end if you are negative, needy and chasing then you will tire them down and fuck up
Same happened with me. Lesson is don't say or do anything that signals you need security from her.
It’s easy to say forget about her, but when someone is in deep, and she’s not responding, it’s not easy. The alpha thing is only when your defense is high
its easy when you TALK TO OTHER WOMEN! But most guys hold on to just one girl and complain its hard to move on.
maverick211211, aww..so true...
@@mohamedadan6678 facts
Yeah and it's even harder to watch someone touch your woman in ways that you didn't or only you would do and your instincts say to you, go and split them both lol but the correct thing is to ignore her and give some space which is mindfuck imo
I was alpha once. Then I fell in love and now dumped. -.- I need to unclear these feelings I guess. Sucks I need to listen to return of the mac and get my groove back
The best song
Love yourself first
I am suppose to start my English essay, but after every video i look to the right and see another video that is relevant to me. YOU ARE A GENIUS!
Yooooo, this guy is good. Holy damn, I think he might have just saved my relationship. Thanks Corey.
I’m on the same boat lol. She chased me then a year later she broke up with me. I tried to fight for her for like 3 or 2 days. After that I just went to no contact I haven’t messaged her like 2 weeks. She asked my friends how am I. I didn’t beg her to stay or cry. Just do you work on yourself make them see that your happy. Just don’t chase you make it worse. Stay strong peeps. 💪🏽
What happen afterwards bro?
This was really valuable! I was loosing self control. Just get along with your life and they’ll come. Be good when they come and have a happy vibe!
i fucked up so bad -_-
same
+ItsStyla Where does the line start bro? I need to get in
i fucked up worse
maybe, but she is a fucking shark!
I done fucked up haha.
As my brother told me when I was 12:
"If you want to get the girl, stop giving a shit about her, you have to ignore her"
That was 14 years ago before social media, nothing has changed 😅
Are u serious😅
@@eugenenero6049 its true
This video is 10 years Old and after binge watching them I have figured some things out. Things weren't the way I saw them. My actions created the distancing after the break up and maybe, Just Maybe, it wasn't meant to be and finally. The world doesn't revolve around me. I might even have a touch of Narcissism.
It's 2018 and this stuff still applies! It hurts but he's right, you can't chase her. You have to move on at some point.
I have seen a lot of videos, but this one really got me thinking. Because of you I realized why a girl never showed any interest in me after screwing it up a little bit. I was just chasing her all the time and made it look like I had no other things in my life except her.
But after watching this video I started to give her less attention and do more things with my own life, after a few weeks I noticed she suddenly replies faster and her replies were also longer. I hope we will see each other again soon because I still like the way she is, but I'll just do the same thing as before I started chasing her too much.
A great tips and advice, when you do everything just to attract with you back but it seems like she push you away and she not apprecite your effort better to leave her and do find someone else.
I leave her alone completely for 2 and a half weeks then for the first time in 2 months, she initiates contact and wants to Skype me. It's amazing a little uncertainty can do to a woman.
I only respond to emails women send me. Its easier and effortless that way if you set your profile up like I describe.
Interest level is a term from the sales field. It refers to a buyers level of interest in your product or service. Salespeople in general want to spend their time with serious buyers and not tire kickers. Doc love, like myself, has a sales background. I love his sense of humor & recommend his dating dictionary in my kindle eBook. I mostly use attraction level and a scale of 1-10 in my kindle eBook. The idea is not to waste your time with people who don't show signs of mutual interest/attraction.
Coach Corey Wayne I got blocked by a girl that I thought were going very well , until she no longer had a Bitmoji then a couple of days later I made a new Snapchat account and found her again. Apologised from the bottom of my heart for thinking I had rushed our relationship and now when I try talking to her on her new Snapchat, she isn't replying to me.
Last reply I got from her on her new Snapchat was I don't want a relationship, I'm only looking for Friends. Which is fine because I realized I only want to be friends and if it goes anywhere in the future , then we will take it from their.
I know I have messaged up big time here, but i just want to talk again with her like before when I asked her out for a drink(s) and she said it's just getting free time, yeah im up for that , I like to pay my way lol.
I am so gutted I messed it up now. Only way I can probably fix this go try finding her in my local town , where I think she works and explain to her and try getting us back talking again , that's if she will have dinner with me now.
@@WillS.TheSuperReds. no dude, don't explain anything. That's exactly what he is trying to teach you here. You trying to find her, message her and apologize for your behavior is going to push her farther and farther away. I know it sucks, ive been there sooo many times. The only way she will come back, (if she does at all I mean) is to do exactly what he says in this video. No contact. Move on and forward with your life. Trust me, you will be glad you did. There are so many girls out there and as long as you're a man its in your DNA to attract them. Do not get hung up on her, its a mistake. Girls like men with value, you chase her around and it just shows her that you do not value yourself and she will not place any value on you. Think of it this way, why is gold so valuable? Because of its rarity. Aluminum is abundant, and that's why you can just throw it away like trash. Don't be aluminum, be gold.
Hey cory i have a problem
What really pisses me off is that it's all about the woman. What about what I fucking want? I'm not needy or desperate or creepy... how about I just fucking like you lmao
I think women, sometimes or actually quite often, feel the same about men. It is human nature not to cherish what you can have easily.
Medina Sod preech
+Kuo Chia-wen i think you're spot on.
Just gotta face it. Its primitive instinct mixed with social conditioning. Its a game that's never going to change for your liking. So what can you do? Adapt, overcome and master the game. Become an MVP in it. Its really not that hard. It may not be like it is in the movies but a lot of good can still come out of it. Us men can't whine when the world beats up on us. But we can learn to roll with the punches and dole out an ass whooping from time to time.
It fucking sucks, but at least with the info we have , that means more pussy for us lmaoo. 3% crew! 👌🏾
Dude you're a legend! Basically everything you said hit the mark with me, I was cold towards her in the beginning but started being more and more clingy as time went on. Now we're in a situation where she's the one pulling the reins and she feels like she can basically "take me back" whenever she wants to. Now I'm going to not contact her unless she contacts me. If she does contact me I know she's interested in me and that I still have a chance, but if she doesn't I guess I can do nothing else but just move on.
Hey, its not like that. Keep your distance. Dont dive into your emotions. Protect your heart from this woman and everything will be fine.
U know i learned something. Women always say that men aren't good and wr don't care. But when we do show affection, and love and etc they wanna play hide and go seek.. Like 😒 really nigga.. That's why after seeing what this girl is about i go to the gym i work on myself and i post positive encouraging quotes on my Instagram story. And she now watches. I also told her that i wont be contacting her anymore because today i called to see how she was doing and she ignored me the first 2 times and on try number 3 she picks up, says nothing, but listens, and then hangs up. So i just stop contacting her, and i posted good positive and fun thing's and she's back at watching my Instagram stories. Why is it that after i told her i won't bother her anymore that's when she wants to look at my Instagram story?
Dream Big Squad Absence increase respect & honor. Females backwards like that aha
It's crazy man, I'm so done with these females bro
BasicHaddock4 I feel you. All these crazy games and rules to keep their attraction.
@W M fuck yea bruh. You're our inspiration.
🤷♂️🤷♂️😭
Don't be a YES man all the damn time
Shit, I fucked up ...
Yeah, this is true. And this goes for both I guess. Once you show you are “too available” you just lost your chance.
Happened to me, crushed in a girl for months, I became single, we talked, and went on a date. I thought it went great, I guess not. She slowed down on texting, so I did push some, but thankfully I had watched this, so I haven't spoke or texted in 2 days, it is killing me, but hopefully it all works out.
Isaiah Wright what happened?
Just move on bro,plenty of fish in the sea
It’s hard as fuck not to be needy when you get physically ill when they detach when you need them the most. I know it’s not healthy but the anxiety I feel when she’s gone makes me question if I can survive man. The thought of her with any other man or even texting someone else makes me want to throw it all away. I’m too old for games and psychological manipulation. My all cards on the table strategy is not effective but if I can’t put all my cards on the table and trust her with my deepest emotions then I don’t want to be with her anyways. Man, what is the end game here. Sex is good to boost your self esteem short term but I want a wife. A Lifetime partner who I never need to play this game of tug of war with. Don’t get me wrong your laws of attraction statements are accurate but I just don’t think I can play these games.
preach
Mate, you've taken the words right out out of my mouth. It also doesn't help when (and I know this is a little bit of a cliche) the woman you focus on is 'not like other girls'. She doesn't play these games like the samples in the video. We are in our 40s, not teenagers or young adults playing the field, and have a history going back decades. It's just too much to lose for me. And I agree, these videos make a lot of sense and work for a lot of guys, but just not me.
Update,
Even if you're married you still have to play tug of war 😂 spending too much time with the wife can cause boredom etc you need to go outside alone and create mystery make her wonder what you're doing
Remain wild and free don't let her think you're boring.
It's a shame that I can do all this when I genuinely don't care about the female. But if I find one I actually like I can't... I have to try this with this one I want but forced my hand and guess I'm friendzoned now... Interestingly enough this is the only one I've actually wanted in I don't know how many years. Lol
WHY DOES THIS HAPPENED TO ME ?
"You can only have what you're willing to walk away from"
@@VoiceOfThe 44 here, it's definitely the decades of wasted time that make that sting of each new loss much deeper. Hang in there man, she's out there. Just make sure you are ready for her when she arrives. You can't go wrong by making yourself a better man every day until your last.
Patrick, what IS still there, is her physical attraction to you, which is pretty important. Feign indifference like the good Captain says, you'll be in like Flynn homes.
Same here. We k ew each other years ago but lost contact for a long time. When we talked again she couldn't wait to get me to her place. Told me she wanted me for years but I was taken. When I got there she lip locked me and took me straight to her room. I spent the night and left. I definelty liked her but my interest was alit lower than now. She text me everyday wanted to meet up with me all the time. She told me she loved me a month after we first hooked up and wanted me to move in a month after that. It took time but 7 months after we hooked up I moved in. She even got a place closer so I would. As soon as I moved in the roles reversed and I found myself asking the questions and waiting for texts and calls. I got after her about the time we spend together and now she wants a break but says she wants to work on things slowly cause she still loves me. told me I brought things to light that she didn't realize about herself before. We still talk and she invites me over like once a week. We haven't had sex since the break up but she's said she's still open to it with me. I did a little chasing after the breakup but over the last week I've left her alone completely. Any advise?
been watching a few of your videos and i see now all the mistakes ive done. lost a girl recently due to my inexperience and acting needy and this video really addresses that. thanks for the advice and knowledge. ill be putting it to good use. and who knows maybe ill reattract that girl again.
7 years later, all I have to do is exactly copy your comment. Bam same situation exactly
Guys as a woman, we definitely are not “attracted to men whose feelings are unclear” to us. Is this the kind of advice men are getting 😩 it all makes sense now. Don’t be needy but don’t play games and just be straight forward.
1 year ago you was my white knight of the break up. I did wrong after recontacting because she tested me again with another hot and cold, yes and no for a invitation, and I lost control. One year improving, our conditions are better, and now she will reach out to me, we see us every day and the vibe is positive. I just keep my straight and had learn to be stronger than my blurred representation of her.
This actually makes a lot of sense the more I think about it. It all sounds weird at first but girls are weird and thats why you gotta do it differently. If she can flip a relationship into a friendship straight overnight, whats stopping that from flipping back the next week? They are so random, and I guess you could use that to your advantage.
This dudes face hypnotizes me
Y are u GEH
@@dolanSWEG "U are Geh"
THX broseph, good stuff. I'm married still with my spouse. For the last 14 year's I've been straight up alpha male, and my wife was crazy for me. She has been demanding my attention for years, but I have been aloof at times with various activities. Well about 6 months ago, I was feeling badly about my neglect, and started taking her out frequently. I in turn started texting her more than friends, and we bonded much deeper than we had previously. Well here I am 6 months later wondering Wtf happened. She has become somewhat cold at times. She is encouraging me to get back into a hobby she despised, and said it would ruin our marriage because I spent to much time with it, lol. We have been married 14 years, and I've never seen this side. Initially I thought she might be seeing someone else, but with work and kids I don't see it. I think it is precisely what you are talking about. When she had to fight for my attention, she would jump at the chance to get me all to herself. Now that I make time for her, and talk about my emotions she has become disinterested. Sounds like it's time to buy another motorcycle, HAHA! Thx
Awesome advice. I was that guy !!! At 1st was not chasing, needy or overthinking. Then after 4 months shit changed. Chased to hard blowing up her phone so she pulled away. Communication slowed to a crawl. Slowly came back around. So recently I've figured out after watching your videos and realized , I've been smothering her and pushing to hard . Totally made her pull away. So I've stopped that shit , pulled away myself . Stopped liking her fb posts,basically doing no contact. It's hard because I really have strong feelings for her. But focusing on me . Putting fun and positive stuff on fb. Making plans with friends. Planning trips, being more social. So we will see, I know she fb stalks me .She hasn't blocked me on phone or fb. I'm 10 days in and I'm done being needy and chasing. She said she wants to go back to how it was at the beginning and be sexual friends. We shall see. If she reaches out. I will be happy positive and keep shit short and sweet.
@@jacklan4103 yeah she reached out on New year's eve. And I didn't respond right away , a couple days later I did, simply said Sorry was in Vegas with some buddies . She asked how I was and said she missed me. All I said was I was doing awesome and thanks for asking, and I hope she was doing good as well. Left it at that
Thanks for the advice, I have just got put into the friend zone and next time I see her, it shall be different.
How did it go?
I can vouch for this one. Used to be involved with a girl and wasn't that interested in her but liked her enough to keep her around and she could sense that and became obsessed with me constantly blowing up my phone trying to win me over. Eventually I felt like she was too clingy and it caused me to become disinterested and I left her completely. I tried to get back with her after a couple years and she was very interested at first but the more I chased to try to make it work again the more disinterested she became and pretty much did to me what I did to her the first time around. DO NOT CHASE WOMEN
It works he saved my relationship a few times I have been screwing up as in getting to clingy because I think she wants the same but apparently you can show your emotions just don’t over do it which is why I’m here today to remind myself this guy knows what he’s talking about trust me it works right now I’m focused on getting fit I got into boxing and studying to become a network engineer and spend some time with her but focus on priorities for other dudes reading or watching this please man focus on your health and career I know how you feel I’m kind of there now but do not get clingy it just makes things worse even if you can’t help yourself u have to Man U just do
did your girl reached you back?
efnarios yup we are solid
Did you guys breakup? I acted needy and clingy then she broke up with me 2 months ago. We were together for 4 good years. I'm in no contact
Thank you Corey! This video describes my situation to a tee and I finally found some advice that is helpful. It makes perfect sense. Glad I stumbled upon your channel!
Hey coach I'm reading your book on the 2nd time around now. Awesome work brother the sense I am getting from your work is to give women what they need when they need it. not when you need so if she gets cold then back off. If she bitches give her attention my issue is finding the balance but like you said practice. Keep making these newsletters they are gold.
Coach Corey you deserve millions of views and subscribers. Your amazing. Keep it up brother. May the Lord bless u and open more doors of opportunity for u.
I have to agree, because women like to chase men gives them a challenge, but when the man is chasing its a bad sign because with women they can get men lots easier thus have more experience and able to notice these subtle things. So be careful with these things.
I dissed myself enough her! God bless her soul for making me realized that I'm lacking of something important to me. Now I will do my best not to collapse every time.. She is a co-worker and we have tendency to see each other in the afternoon. I still feel hurt everytime I see or hear her voice but I don't want to go back to be a gloomy person again because of her. Honestly this information really hurting my feelings but I need to face the reality. She ain't the right one. She knows how I care and how to handle her and I've told her that I understood what happened to us that causes us or breakup and I'm working to my self to become a better person. If she happen to see that in the future well it will be not the same me definitely. I want her to realize her loss but if that doesn't happen then by the time she consider me again I'm already lost of interest for her. We don't have the power to change the past nor know what would the future gives us, just doing all I have on the right track and accept that that person dumped me is trying to challenge my Manliness. 😉 More power to us. 👊👊👊
I like a needy man. Texting throughout the day. Planning to meet up. Wanting marriage from the start. Love it!
Jesus it sucks when I can relate so much to this shit! I appreciate this advice a lot Coach Corey
Love the theme song, love the material. Thanks coach!
This is exactly what happened to me. FML I'm here to get myself right and learn what to do better. She's okay with us talking to each other so I feel I have a chance to do this properly a second time. I am not normally like this with women but I really got attached to this one.
Same brother
Same. shits fucked bro
I like that you don't have to act like you don't like her you just have to act like and be a masculine man (there you have it.)
I like what you said. It hits home as I fucked up my chance with a woman who had a high level of interest in me. I managed to do that on the very first date. I'd change the title of this video. You don't really go into re-attracting her.
This is advice I would give to anyone, male or female FUCK YOUR EMOTIONS! They will fuck you over EVERY SINGLE TIME! If you really want something it pays off to step back and view it with emotional detachment. Being highly emotional about something will cause you to make mistakes.
A girl who is 4 years older than me with 2 kids broke up with me. She is super hot and feminine. She said she "wanted more". I tried asking what she meant but didn't really respond. So I told her that "I don't expect you to change your mind but you got to do what is right for you and your girls." I left and 2 weeks later I texted her to to say hi and let her know I hoped she and her girls were doing well. Anyway I am now approaching 3 weeks and now it is time to move on!. :)
James D Why would you text her 2 weeks later when she dumped you? You were great when you had left it at “doing what is best for you and your girls” but then 2 weeks later should have never texted her. It was on her at that point to reach out to you.
I don’t get the negative comments on Corey Wayne. He’s a sincere and spontaneous guy. He’s also no fool. Follow his advice. I did.
He gets to the point at 6:50
COREY ALWAYS MAKES COMMON SENSE if women like you they will get in contact with you if not they will not, if they do Wow 👍 then take it nice and easy
Im here december 30, 2021.
This is exactly what is happening to me right now.. thanks coach CW
@Anna Katy nahh thanks but Im good. things happen for a reason. the more i want her back the more she is getting away. i chose to.let go and move on ;)
I believe all this to be true but that begs the question....Are all relationships just an endless game ? While we can become experts at artificially gaining attention and control, doesn’t it all get tiresome at some point? At what point if at all do two people become actual friends and communicate honestly? Being a dominant male also means keeping options or do I say cheating because there is no true in between. If a guy decides to be faithful then with that loyalty comes more attention to your partner and if that in turn is perceived as being needy or weak as opposed to being attentive then the logical conclusion is that the male and female relationship dynamic is inherently flawed because we are at consistent odds with each other where the guy can not be emotionally honestly engaged and the female needs to feel like she is only an option because after all, a strong dominant male treats the girl as an afterthought if we are going to be honest with what a true Alpha is. It’s the guy too busy with other important things to be too
concerned about his woman . Right?
Damn right...trully amazing whay you said ..but unfortunatly to get the pussy you need.to play this stupid game ...or just be the guu fucks hookers and.treat girls in the same way ...thinking about that now ...that may work faster...
Well said
dang this really helped me...today she told me she needed some space and i wasnt completley sure what she meant so i looked at your videos and realized i was pursuing her to much and "being a bitch" im glad i saw ur videos i think i caught it early enough to where i can fix it almost thanks
too bad my girl didn't even warn me,its too late for me now,You so lucky :'(
What happened in the end?
Give us a update on what happened :)
Dillon Hightower to
What happened?
Giving your energy if she’s around you only guys
I will listen to this clip 10 to 15 times.
7:25-7:50- priceless
yeah i love that part too..^^
What you were saying was exactly what happened to me 2 or 3 weeks ago. I'm gonna follow what you say well hard. Thanks heaps!
Me 2 New Years 2019..
I was told by a couple of friends ur a gud guy..and u deserve so much more..
DON'T CALL HER...U BETTER NOT CALL HER.
So next week is going on 4wks no contact..and hearing nothing from her.
(Then i c this video 2day and another coach named Appolonia..she says the same damn thing..dont do anything)
Huh..go figure🤔
such an eye-opener, thank you! Let's read this book of yours.
you are awesome!
I have bought your book Corey and it is GREAT!
Great video a tough pill to swallow this video but it's teaching us men to love,value,and respect ourselves.
your theme song is my ringtone. my message tone is "Come o'wn man!!!!"
Can you provide the bgm link?
This is the same issue I have gone through few weeks ago. Am glad I found this video. Subscribed.
This guy is a beast! The advices are awesome and really work, thank God for this Chanel!
You're the man Corey. Keep up the good work.
It sounds like to me most of the guys writing to Corey for help are probably late teens to late 20's, maybe some 30's that are slightly average guys that are getting the attention of some chick thats probably going thru some hormonal cycle and they are taking it as genuine interest, then the guy goes crazy calling and texting and she's probably just fucking around being a tease and a game player knowing she can throw him back anytime and get him later. Wake up guys, your being played.
So it's almost literally like fishing isn't it. You drop your line.... FISH ON!.... let it slack.... reel it in a little further.... tire it out slack the line reel it in until you can land the fish
Well that was a good summary of my life right about now in 11 mins.
To summarize everything “ less = more “
I read the book and seeing these videos makes sense and seeing a pattern. He'll beat his reason and lessons he learned through his video articles or in his book. I've been doing it wrong half way through any relationship lol. Good video.
Corey Wayne you are a god ..... this is exactly what I needed
Great advice Corey ! Im gonna heed your advice !
Damm this advice cuts deep but it’s so real thanks Wayne
I coach corey ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,thank you for the advice it means a lot,,,obrigado.....
things goes to fast nowadays... simply go one day at a time and keep focus on your goal and she will ultimately fall in love !
+thatphilwhiteguy Like jumping from simple arithmetic to calculus? lol
THAT'S IT! If she does not relply my last 3 texts in 24 hrs I am sending her a picture of my junk!
lmfaooo damnn you put urself in that one
archilonshadowheart7 they aint no confidence thats just be being bold .Imagine if you were a girl and you had multiple men sending you penises
***** because theyll be labeled as thots sluts hoes skanks etc etc
Gross
archilonshadowheart7 lol
Exactly what I needed to hear at the exact time I needed to hear it
That is one of your best videos, Coach.