@Sophie T. she stepped in water with wires and sparks where in and around and she died on the table SPOILER:Shane's fault he was suppose to go down there made me hate him even more
Why is it annoying? They survived explosions, drownings, shootings, and plane crashes together. He pulled her out of the ocean and she stood up to a mass murderer for him. It had been only a year at the most since he lost his oldest friend and she lost her little sister. Of course when Mer has to be cut open during a blackout Derek is going to be extra protective of her.
He mentioned while him and meredith were still trying to get pregnant that he had OB rotations when he was younger he's a doctor and most likely has seen other babies be born
She also failed to know he was married to someone more Competent in his opinion so when she said how many babies have you delivered in your career I laughed because he probably knows a lot more than she thinks he does because of Addison LOL
I respectfully disagree i found that condescending obnoxious and unhelpful. The OB literally told him why she had to do a C section and he still felt like he knew better. Also, IN WHAT UNIVERSE is what he said gonna magically help the surgeon do better? He is a neurosurgeon with a PENIS and he didn’t like that the OB challenged him, so he acted like an ass. Meredith didn’t ask him to do that, that was him protecting his fragile ego. If they listened to him and his son died like the OB said, his ass would’ve tried to blame her or he’d go on a shame spiral.
Derek is just being a normal husband and father in this situation he's scared she's scared there stressed it's pitch dark trust me he's being a normal husband
I don't get why some people feel like Derek is like a tool here, I think he is just freaking scared about Meredith and the baby. I specially love that "don't mess this up" from him when they are about to start the C-section.
thegirlfrom wonderland I get both sides - he has a rep for being arrogant and ‘my way is the only way’ but this is also somewhat of a miracle baby for them
I don't think he's a tool but I find it weird that people actually _like_ how he's acting or even find it romantic (!!). I would find it super annoying but I would forgive him because he's so scared.
Oh I did found him to be a major tool in this scene, for a few reasons: 1) While you think being a surgeon helps in this situation, it actually makes Derek a shitty caregiver. The OB is running point and he’s still trying to supersede her. While he gives the impression that he’s doing it because he’s scared, it comes off as because of his arrogance and wanting to control everyone. 2) The OB never demonstrated that she was incompetent. The OB very clearly told Derek why it was better to do a C section because of how the baby was effacing, but it didn’t matter Derek just kept saying I think we should do vaginal (with no explanation). She even illustrates to Derek that this was an emergency and he wasting her time in order to explain to him. She made the call that was safest for Meredith and the baby, and Derek didn’t like being challenged. 3) Saying “don’t mess up” helped absolutely no one. Not only did Meredith not ask him to do that, he was getting in her face while she’s trying to operate. He would never do that to any other surgeon. 4) The OB was never the villain, but Derek talks to her as if she is. They were already in a catastrophic situation (that she did not cause), and she made a call that was taking the baby into consideration. Consider that Derek has talked to other surgeons when his loved one is on the table and he’d say “please watch out for her” or “please be careful” but for some reason, Derek just labeled this woman who delivered the baby the villain. 4) This last one May sound like a stretch, but unfortunately as a POC it did come off this way to me (and despite your feelings on this, I still independently stand by the first three): A confident black woman HE DIDNT KNOW (difference between her and Bailey or Richard) challenged him and he didn’t like that so he acted like she was being aggressive. She wasn’t. She did her damn job and they treated her poorly. (And honestly, I don’t necessarily know if DEREK would have a race problem, but the WRITERS who wrote that scene DEFINITELY do). She did nothing to deserve that. All in all, from my POV this was not Derek protecting Meredith. This was him being a dick and making it about him.
"Not the minor risks, the big, ugly, scary risks. Because I'm a lightning rod for those!" Poor Mer. At this point, she's expecting bad things to happen.
How can people say that Derek was being mean and an asshole when he was trying to protect his wife and baby I mean Meredith had a miscarriage before this baby he doesn’t want this one to die too
I mean I agree, don’t bully your fellow doctor but sometimes when it’s your own relative, you forget how to act like a colleague and you become any typical relative of the patient, so I think his reaction was pretty reasonable. It’s his wife who he has nearly lost too many times, and it’s their first biological child after a miscarriage and fertility issues so I think it’s normal?
Protect her from what? Well skilled doctor with experience? No reason to not trust the doctor. No need for Derek to be such a jerk. Keep your emotions out of it and don't be a bully.
@3.22 when Derek said to mer"everything will be fine.ok" and then stands uo n whisper Dr connie, "Do not mess this up" to connie..i was like..😍😍 he was so in love with her.. #Team Mereder#
Connie: we need to do a c-section Mer: I do not want to have surgery Derek: ik ✨Cristina✨: it’s a c a moron can do a c Connie: 👁👄👁 ✨Cristina✨: nO offEnse 😜✋🏻
That’s one thing that pisses me off about this show. The majority of the surgeons act like they are God, and their shit don’t stink compared to the other doctors
That was terrible patient care when she wouldn't explain the risks to them when they asked. It took longer to argue, and they were scared, so she should have been firm but gentle to scared parents that are new to that side of the baby process. _Especially_ since they are doctors and know things go wrong even without blackouts
+Bella Gilbert Yeah but the "don't mess this up" really irritated me because being protective shouldn't be a free pass for rudeness or intimidation and I feel like when that kind of behaviour is casually shown in TV it almost glorifies it - as if this is what a "real man" would do. I still like the scene overall though :)
Derek was being kind of an ass but that's completely understandable in this situation. His wife, who almost died like 30 times, is giving birth to his child in the dark during a storm and the baby is in a horrible position, I would probably cry if I were him
I Know Most People won't Agree But I Think The Show Hasn't Been As Great Since Derek Left :( don't get me wrong its still really good but I just miss Derek
"I can't bully people unless I have something to bully them about." Literally me.
Same😂
MiniMinisauce us afbgd and a few weeks and months ago t to be able the first best of thing that is not
That just kills me 🤣🤣🤣 the way she whispers it
She said believe not bully Merideth is her friend
Agree 👍 that’s what so great about weakness, there’s always something to take advantage of 😂
"You're the only one I care about the rest can wait" aww he's so lovely with his wife
That line warmed my heart❤
TVJunkie7 by the way he dies
TVJunkie7 he “loves” his television wife
When does he say that?
@@kristibrown1479 that was subtle 😳
"a moron could do C, no offense" I love Christina SO MUCH 😂
Me to
The no offence was hilarious haba
it's not her fault. if they hadn't slept with their bosses this coulda been prevented. Like she said, "sleeping with our bosses was a greaaat idea."
"I'm not giving birth to a country singer" She always finds humor in stressful situations.
Are you alive ?
Reallllll
BROOKS?! 😂
“Dude you’re operating in the dark..?”
*Sees Meredith*
“ON YOUR WIFE??”
I miss mousy.😭😭
I miss her to
@Sophie T. she stepped in water with wires and sparks where in and around and she died on the table
SPOILER:Shane's fault he was suppose to go down there made me hate him even more
@@asiamotts shane sucks.
@@asiamotts it's not shane's fault...you think he would know something like that could happen?
Why is it annoying? They survived explosions, drownings, shootings, and plane crashes together. He pulled her out of the ocean and she stood up to a mass murderer for him. It had been only a year at the most since he lost his oldest friend and she lost her little sister. Of course when Mer has to be cut open during a blackout Derek is going to be extra protective of her.
And Cristina is also protective and I mean Derek is also overprotective I mean i love that bit
And an ambulance crash
You forgot having a miscarriage while operating!!!
@@victoriadickens1507 and they were operating while they was a active shooter in the hospital
Nord littoral qwesx la journée et ceux de
It’s sad the only baby Derek gets to see delivered has to be in the middle of a super storm in the dark
I found eyes on my tears reading this comment !
He mentioned while him and meredith were still trying to get pregnant that he had OB rotations when he was younger he's a doctor and most likely has seen other babies be born
@@jadacakes6668 of course he has, but he hasnt seen his own babies deliveries and its a different feeling to see your own.
@@jadacakes6668 she meant the only one of 2 kids that meredith carried he only saw zola and bailey but not ellis
I didn’t mean to read this comment 😭
I seriously love how Derek goas all protective and is warning the doctor "Don't mess this up!" Haha, that is cute!
*SIT DOWN PLEASE SO I CAN WORK*
She also failed to know he was married to someone more Competent in his opinion so when she said how many babies have you delivered in your career I laughed because he probably knows a lot more than she thinks he does because of Addison LOL
@@ashleesanche771 That's theory though, not the same as doing it. You don't become experienced at something just because you know someone who is.
I could understand it and forgive him for it because he was scared, but I would find that super obnoxious and not even a tiny bit cute.
I respectfully disagree i found that condescending obnoxious and unhelpful. The OB literally told him why she had to do a C section and he still felt like he knew better. Also, IN WHAT UNIVERSE is what he said gonna magically help the surgeon do better? He is a neurosurgeon with a PENIS and he didn’t like that the OB challenged him, so he acted like an ass. Meredith didn’t ask him to do that, that was him protecting his fragile ego. If they listened to him and his son died like the OB said, his ass would’ve tried to blame her or he’d go on a shame spiral.
imagine if Addison deliverd their baby , man that would be sooo awkward for all of them
😂😂😂😂
Yeah but they would have listened sooner
So true!!!!
Like April delivering Matthews Baby in Season 14 😂
I literally think the same thing every day
CRISTINA!!!! LOL "a moron could do a C" HAHA
zulema garcia Ah No offence
The two people who care about her most are there with her. I love that.
Aaeime D'adresse
Derek is just being a normal husband and father in this situation he's scared she's scared there stressed it's pitch dark trust me he's being a normal husband
I don't get why some people feel like Derek is like a tool here, I think he is just freaking scared about Meredith and the baby. I specially love that "don't mess this up" from him when they are about to start the C-section.
thegirlfrom wonderland I get both sides - he has a rep for being arrogant and ‘my way is the only way’ but this is also somewhat of a miracle baby for them
I don't think he's a tool but I find it weird that people actually _like_ how he's acting or even find it romantic (!!). I would find it super annoying but I would forgive him because he's so scared.
Oh I did found him to be a major tool in this scene, for a few reasons:
1) While you think being a surgeon helps in this situation, it actually makes Derek a shitty caregiver. The OB is running point and he’s still trying to supersede her. While he gives the impression that he’s doing it because he’s scared, it comes off as because of his arrogance and wanting to control everyone.
2) The OB never demonstrated that she was incompetent. The OB very clearly told Derek why it was better to do a C section because of how the baby was effacing, but it didn’t matter Derek just kept saying I think we should do vaginal (with no explanation). She even illustrates to Derek that this was an emergency and he wasting her time in order to explain to him. She made the call that was safest for Meredith and the baby, and Derek didn’t like being challenged.
3) Saying “don’t mess up” helped absolutely no one. Not only did Meredith not ask him to do that, he was getting in her face while she’s trying to operate. He would never do that to any other surgeon.
4) The OB was never the villain, but Derek talks to her as if she is. They were already in a catastrophic situation (that she did not cause), and she made a call that was taking the baby into consideration. Consider that Derek has talked to other surgeons when his loved one is on the table and he’d say “please watch out for her” or “please be careful” but for some reason, Derek just labeled this woman who delivered the baby the villain.
4) This last one May sound like a stretch, but unfortunately as a POC it did come off this way to me (and despite your feelings on this, I still independently stand by the first three): A confident black woman HE DIDNT KNOW (difference between her and Bailey or Richard) challenged him and he didn’t like that so he acted like she was being aggressive. She wasn’t. She did her damn job and they treated her poorly. (And honestly, I don’t necessarily know if DEREK would have a race problem, but the WRITERS who wrote that scene DEFINITELY do). She did nothing to deserve that.
All in all, from my POV this was not Derek protecting Meredith. This was him being a dick and making it about him.
all of this!!! @@zhabtema
"Not the minor risks, the big, ugly, scary risks. Because I'm a lightning rod for those!" Poor Mer. At this point, she's expecting bad things to happen.
I can't blame her, can I?
How can people say that Derek was being mean and an asshole when he was trying to protect his wife and baby I mean Meredith had a miscarriage before this baby he doesn’t want this one to die too
Vaishnavi Ramesh he just wanted the best for her
I mean I agree, don’t bully your fellow doctor but sometimes when it’s your own relative, you forget how to act like a colleague and you become any typical relative of the patient, so I think his reaction was pretty reasonable. It’s his wife who he has nearly lost too many times, and it’s their first biological child after a miscarriage and fertility issues so I think it’s normal?
Did i just read-
AHHHH I READ THIS!! SPOILER 😭
My fault tho
Protect her from what? Well skilled doctor with experience? No reason to not trust the doctor.
No need for Derek to be such a jerk. Keep your emotions out of it and don't be a bully.
@@milicadjordjevic4498 you again
"Brooks?"
"I'm not giving birth to a country singer."
LMAO! 😂
I would totally be Cristina in these scenes
No you would be sydney 🤭
“You’re the only one I care about the rest can wait”
And THAT, is why I LOVE Derek
“I can’t bully people unless I know what to bully them about”
We all need a Cristina the moment we are in labour
No
She says no
Icechips
She says icechips
Are you gonna do this the whole time?
Miss Cristina and Derek...😢😢😢😢
@@enzomartinez8083 Same 😪 *dramatic song plays*
@@skatingham same....😢😢😢😭😭
@@enzomartinez8083 Do you have social media snapchat or insta
@@skatingham are you man or woman??? And sorry don't have snapchat or instagram...
no one:
absolutely no one:
meredith grey: i feel like i need to POSH i want to POSH can i POSH?
Lol
I love how he never left his hand from her hair he is so supportive
I love the scene where Meredith scream😂
NO
she says no?
....
ICECHIPS
she says icechips?
Meredith always finds ice chips when she is sick😂
"A moron can do a C"
"Oh,no offense"
I was just watching the show for Derek and mer mer. People who made me an addict to watch this show have all left the show... damn
Masakali -92 ikr!!
Masakali -92 I stopped watching after Derek left and to this day I haven’t regretted that decision:)
Bonbon rouge Right decision coz it sucks now. There’s no plot nor meaningful script.
I stopped watching after Derek died and instead I've been watching S1 to s11 over and over again 😂😂
I've been rewatching Seasons 1 to 11 over and over again. Now, I am gonna jump to Season 17 😁😁
What’s with Meredith and ice chips when she had surgery when she was a intern she wanted ice chips she went “ George Ice chips!”
ice chips are pretty damn good when you havent eaten all day
What is ice chips?
@@ranjangupta9338 small peices of ice
I’ve chips be bussin
When she screams “Derek” when the lights go out 🥺
"Don't mess this up."
"Sit down please." LOL
“you’re the only one i care about, the rest can wait” AHHHH I LOVE HIM
It’s so cute when she says “ice chips”
You could hear Derek say "breathe" to Meredith during one of her contractions 2:17
Yeah I heard it
“Ice chip”
“She says ice chips”
“Are you going to do this all night”
“Yes.”
Derek “dont mess this up” I need me a husband like that!
Christina: I can't bully people unless I know what to bully them about
0:13-0:20 “No….ice chip” 🥰 so cute, Meredith almost sound like a little kid saying that 🥰☺️
Dude your operating in the dark on your wife? Ya I love this show
Same....😅😅😅😅
I really don’t like how these interns were familiar with their attendings. O’malley called Burke sir even though they were close
@@badbitch898 OTOH there's a lot less sleeping with them going on, which seems pretty 'familiar' to me...
don’t hate on derek for caring abt his wife and child
Meredith is a hell of a character, a miscarriage, a C section... man life is something...Derek is great! 💜💕💕💕
Derek: “are you going to do this the whole time “ Cristina:”yes” Derek: rolls his eye like are you kidding me you are so lucky I love you
I low-key wished it was Addison delivering the baby
i would've trusted her more!! 😂 even if it would've been more awkward for Meredith and Derek
YE DEREK IS THE BEST HUSBAND. I can't believe Christina and Derek bonded
@3.22 when Derek said to mer"everything will be fine.ok" and then stands uo n whisper Dr connie, "Do not mess this up" to connie..i was like..😍😍 he was so in love with her.. #Team Mereder#
It probably good Addison didn't have to deliver the baby! Lol 😂
I LOVED that the Ob-gyn told Sheppard to stay in his lane.
Having a baby in a super storm. wow! hope that does not happen to me!
“Sit down please, so I can work” Thankyou 👏🏽 Exactly girl
I cheered when she told Derek that!
when she says "ok" when the lights go out hahah
1:26 when she says derek you can tell she was worried
Connie: we need to do a c-section
Mer: I do not want to have surgery
Derek: ik
✨Cristina✨: it’s a c a moron can do a c
Connie: 👁👄👁
✨Cristina✨: nO offEnse 😜✋🏻
Anyone notice how unsafe settle grace is? (Now grey Sloan memorial)
They didn't call it Seattle Grace-Mercy DEATH for nothing 😂
So good that Ellen accted there
Princelolylovers *acted
@@samara2221 wow I was 13 then. Don’t expect much
@@princeloverys Still watch Grey’s? lol
@@nuffsed4366 hell yes 😬
@@princeloverys 😂😂
Cristina always finds dark humor in the worst situations
“You’re the only one I care about the rest can wait” lolll
Cristina just knows what to say 🤣
I love this show Ellen Pompeo is so beautiful
ikr she’s so pretty
I love this show, but I've hated every episode that's involved a storm and power outage!
Some of the main cast treats the side character doctors like this ob/gyn like ass. I like when they prove they’re not incompetent
That’s one thing that pisses me off about this show. The majority of the surgeons act like they are God, and their shit don’t stink compared to the other doctors
Yea
@@caitlinthomas1527 They do address that sometimes, and talk about how they have giant egos. Sometimes it's part of their reputation.
"I can only bully people if I know what to bully them about" love cristina
I would have loved to see Brooks as a surgeon
i honestly believe that mer and derek wanted addie to be there since she wouldn’t have let that happen
Damn cristina is so funny why did they let her gooooooo
Excuse me, explaining all the options for Meredith is NOT a waste of time, in fact, it should be a priority!
Ellen Pompeo I like herrr❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍
And l can't get enough of listening. If I to be in my life and then you can be ja.
it’s the “ok” when the power goes out😭
Christian is a real friend bro 😂😂 she said I can’t bully people unless I know what to bully them about
I read the title as murder sounding really weird
Amamsns my favorite song is really underrated in music but not for a few minutes now that lve ouet outet this poor woman and
0:12 The back and forth is so funny
lmao cristina “she says no”
That was terrible patient care when she wouldn't explain the risks to them when they asked. It took longer to argue, and they were scared, so she should have been firm but gentle to scared parents that are new to that side of the baby process. _Especially_ since they are doctors and know things go wrong even without blackouts
I miss them all together so much.
The way Meredith said "Wait, Im scared" had me questioning her existence...........
2:33 Jeffrey and Hillarie were on Grey's?
“Because IM A LIGHTNING RODE FOR THOSE.” I am she’s not wrong the 5% of it happening happens 😢
Not the minor risks the big ugly scary risk because I'm a LIGHTING ROD for those 🤣🤣 so true.
What does Cristina say about Owen at the end of the first scene
Marie Hannon she said Owen is at 10 (in pain level)
Cris is such a good best friend
I miss Christina so much!! She was the best
CRISTINA YANG!
Eu amo essa série esse era meu casal favorito
Christina is a great friend
Wow, he's stressed obviously but what an unhelpful thing to say - he's being a bit of an arse there
+primatejunkie001 I totally agree, but most guys are assholes when stressed/worried xD
Who are we talking about? o.o
Bella Gilbert Derek.
Oh! Well yeah he's gonna be all protective. lol
+Bella Gilbert Yeah but the "don't mess this up" really irritated me because being protective shouldn't be a free pass for rudeness or intimidation and I feel like when that kind of behaviour is casually shown in TV it almost glorifies it - as if this is what a "real man" would do. I still like the scene overall though :)
Merder sounds like murder, so their ship name should be Merrek.
Hell no
Aww mousy was derek's fave intern..he never had someone to mentor that became staple
Its like three of them are parents lol
I love 💗 watching birth vlogs
Woo he says you are the only one I care about
Look here and then look 10 episodes from this what happened to their friendship?
Ikr, I hated that period where they didn't speak to eachother
I love your blog
Derek was being kind of an ass but that's completely understandable in this situation. His wife, who almost died like 30 times, is giving birth to his child in the dark during a storm and the baby is in a horrible position, I would probably cry if I were him
His reaction was completely understandable
I really don't like it if my patient is also a doctor or related to a doctor. There is too much pressure.
Pff, on my unit we get babies born with face presentation all the time.
I Know Most People won't Agree But I Think The Show Hasn't Been As Great Since Derek Left :( don't get me wrong its still really good but I just miss Derek
Same 🥲
I agreed
Caffeine ☕ ☕ ☕ ☕ sb
Where is the MerDer part?
Nothing like putting pressure on the dr that is delivering yr baby during a storm
No the scary risks. The big bugle one because I am a lighting rode for those.
What season and episode is this?