Gender Roles In Marriage

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @murna_u
    @murna_u 2 місяці тому +29

    I love PL so much 😂😂
    She’s so funny and relatable, the intros are always hilarious!
    Thank you PL for your labour of love! A lot of us will get it right in marriage because of your good counsel.
    God bless you ma.
    Subscribe to PL’s channel!!😂

  • @Udochi._
    @Udochi._ 2 місяці тому +15

    Omooo, if one doesn’t have the holyspirit to guide you in marriage ehn, you’ll be having unnecessary issues and fights

  • @allaboutyou3057
    @allaboutyou3057 2 місяці тому +17

    Hey guys let get mama Laju to 100k
    She has been a blessing on this platform. 🎉

  • @jess__cah
    @jess__cah 2 місяці тому +44

    Marriage is not about bragging rights on social media. It’s about what works for you and what works for your marriage ~ Pastor Laju Iren

  • @ifeoluwaa.p
    @ifeoluwaa.p 2 місяці тому +25

    There’s no time I listen to PL and not laugh 😂😂🤍

    • @Yuuuuu6
      @Yuuuuu6 2 місяці тому

      13:30 Jackie Chan skills 😂

    • @jenniferjoseph7570
      @jenniferjoseph7570 2 місяці тому

      I always look forward to hearing her laugh first first

  • @victoriaowoeye
    @victoriaowoeye 2 місяці тому +5

    There's strength in the nurturing nature of a woman!!!

  • @preciousokogbo9810
    @preciousokogbo9810 2 місяці тому +5

    If you see marriage as a competition, you will always do it wrong!
    Thank you PL❤️
    This video was very instructive.

  • @damiloladaisy
    @damiloladaisy 2 місяці тому +14

    Submission is a demonstration of faith, not even in your spouse but in God. Trusting that God won't lead you wrong or more directly, allow you to be led wrong.

  • @faithdede7476
    @faithdede7476 2 місяці тому +7

    It felt like I was listening to a value based conversation with my bestie 🥰🥰

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 2 місяці тому +13

    The fact that what your partner does to make the marriage work, is different from what you do, does not mean they’re not doing enough. 📌

  • @alphonsusgabriel9705
    @alphonsusgabriel9705 2 місяці тому +8

    Thank you, PL
    It's important to delegate but not abscond
    Marriage is a place to serve each other.
    Marriage is not about bragging rights on social media. It is about what works best for you and your partner.
    Do what works for you and not society
    We don't have to be the same to be one

  • @AuntyyP
    @AuntyyP 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm so happy that i get to watch this video as a single woman. Its totally changed my mindset.

  • @AlabiAbimbola-ou2rc
    @AlabiAbimbola-ou2rc 2 місяці тому +2

    You're such a blessing to this generation!! You've spoken nothing but the truth!! Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!!

  • @damiloladaisy
    @damiloladaisy 2 місяці тому +2

    Marry someone that's kind but please be sure you're kind yourself
    Marry someone that values you and that you value as well.
    As much as youre choosing the right person for you, be sure you're also right to have the right experiences.
    Thank you PL, for always.

  • @princessdamiii6585
    @princessdamiii6585 2 місяці тому +8

    What stood out for me is marry a kind person.
    Thank you PL for always 💓💓

    • @ijeomanwanosike6390
      @ijeomanwanosike6390 2 місяці тому +1

      That about sums up everything else that she said!! Kindness is such a gift that cannot be ignored in a marriage and it goes both ways!!! May God help us to be kind people and marry kind partners.🥺🙏

    • @artqueststudio
      @artqueststudio 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ijeomanwanosike6390 Amen!!!! 👏👏

    • @artqueststudio
      @artqueststudio 2 місяці тому

      ​@@ijeomanwanosike6390 Amen!!!! 👏👏

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa 2 місяці тому +16

    We don’t have to be the same to be ONE.

  • @jess__cah
    @jess__cah 2 місяці тому +6

    That battle of the mind is so real 😂

  • @christabelquartey4048
    @christabelquartey4048 2 місяці тому +2

    Oneness is the goal, irrespective of differences

  • @omoboyelabake9480
    @omoboyelabake9480 2 місяці тому +2

    God bless you for addressing this issue with wisdom.
    I love the way you balance out everything in love.
    And I love the disclaimers you give to couples not to use what they learn here to fight😅 but to spur them unto doing better.

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 2 місяці тому +2

    So much wisdom📌. Thank you PL!

  • @kayla_dontoh
    @kayla_dontoh 2 місяці тому +2

    I love the way you speak and apply the word of God to practical situations. So down to earth and full of wisdom. God bless you Ma'am❤

  • @LadyDami
    @LadyDami 2 місяці тому +2

    This is solid advice mastey!!!! Spot on on sooo many things!!

  • @Inioluwa_Odebiyi
    @Inioluwa_Odebiyi 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh this video is soo profound. Thank you for sharing ma ❤

  • @thatjesusbaby
    @thatjesusbaby 2 місяці тому

    "Men are Women are different and we don't have to be the same to be one". Thank you so much for this, PL

  • @oluwabunmiadebayo4981
    @oluwabunmiadebayo4981 2 місяці тому

    Marriage is a place to outdo one another in love and good works!
    Thank you so much PL!❤

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 2 місяці тому +3

    Marriage is a place to serve the other person.- Pastor Laju Iren

  • @jenniferakonye608
    @jenniferakonye608 2 місяці тому +1

    This was very insightful. Thank you so much

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 2 місяці тому +3

    Be kind to one another
    Serve one another in love
    Outdo one another

  • @oifohsonia6307
    @oifohsonia6307 2 місяці тому

    Am always blessed whenever I listen to pastor laju❤..God bless you ma..

  • @beautyforashes_
    @beautyforashes_ 2 місяці тому

    There is so much peace and rest i feel listening to you and you are so funny ma! God bless you

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 2 місяці тому +3

    Marry a kind person

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 2 місяці тому +4

    Be more intentional and open to seeing things from your partner's perspective.
    Spur each other to good works and not to unhealthy competition.

  • @DoofanHiikyaa
    @DoofanHiikyaa 2 місяці тому +9

    Everybody’s work is important. Recognise and appreciate each other’s contribution.

  • @SheSpeaks_Jesus
    @SheSpeaks_Jesus 2 місяці тому

    I love listening to you speak. Practical, down to earth and very wisdom packed! Thanks for what you do.

  • @patienceocheinu6056
    @patienceocheinu6056 2 місяці тому +2

    This was really insightful. Thank you ma.

  • @oluwaseunusidamen
    @oluwaseunusidamen 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much PL for this especially when you emphasized marrying a kind person .
    I still addressed the importance of marrying well in my recent UA-cam video where I shared my experience of being a mom for the past one year .
    These gender roles come to light even more once you start having kids .

  • @awomansvoice
    @awomansvoice 2 місяці тому +5

    The idea of gender roles in marriages have infiltrated our society, many think a particular gender can not perform certain roles in the society because of their perceived assign roles, most employers put married women out of their check -list when carrying out employment. Men are not even parental leave, and therefore lack time to bound with their family.
    Any gender can perform any role in our society.
    Fathers can be mothers to their children, we need more loving dads then aggressive ones.
    Mothers can be fathers, when the husband is down she can be the provider.
    In summary we need to have marriages full of love.
    And a man is head of the home. That’s is marriage.

    • @Szpak-123
      @Szpak-123 2 місяці тому

      Ok, until the last part. A husband isn't over his wife.
      Had to write a post on that matter.

  • @pascalekeh
    @pascalekeh 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Pastor Laju! This message enlightened me. The way of the world is not the model. God's way always!

  • @AkpamaTonyAkpama
    @AkpamaTonyAkpama 2 місяці тому

    Bitter truth all the way. Many thanks for sharing, Ma'am

  • @giftinnocent1848
    @giftinnocent1848 2 місяці тому

    I love how you decipher each point, thank you for the examples infused. I learned a great deal

  • @victoradeniji4554
    @victoradeniji4554 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for making videos on topics like this PL. This was so instructive

  • @oluwatosinoladapo9637
    @oluwatosinoladapo9637 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much, PL
    God bless you ma. I'll definitely refer to this in the future

  • @peacekehindeakanmu533
    @peacekehindeakanmu533 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Pastor Laju❤️

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 2 місяці тому +6

    If you see marriage as a competition, you will always do it wrong.

  • @nwokejikingsley7867
    @nwokejikingsley7867 2 місяці тому

    Preach ooh!
    Great explanations and learned a lot 😊.
    Thank you PL!

  • @brendangosa3481
    @brendangosa3481 2 місяці тому

    Powerful insights ❤

  • @tiamiyuoluwatoyin9682
    @tiamiyuoluwatoyin9682 Місяць тому

    I love you ma. This video made me subscribe willingly. God bless your home Pst Laju.

  • @SusanEni
    @SusanEni 2 місяці тому

    Super insightful 👏

  • @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425
    @euniceamafosuaaaddae9425 2 місяці тому

    I so much love the balance in this video ❤❤. PL is a well of wisdom. God bless you so much for this video 😊

  • @aide6697
    @aide6697 2 місяці тому +2

    Hi PL. Please can you talk about adopting especially the whole process. The advantages and disadvantages of adoption. Why adoption is important and everything adoption. Thank you ma

  • @seyibunmi3929
    @seyibunmi3929 2 місяці тому +3

    There is strength in the nurturing nature of women.
    This doesn't necessarily mean the woman has to do everything herself

  • @OlasunkanmiRebecca
    @OlasunkanmiRebecca 2 місяці тому

    Very much enlightening ❤🎉
    Thank you PL

  • @natashaabigailchitwa4932
    @natashaabigailchitwa4932 Місяць тому

    Youre so wise!!!❤
    God bless you

  • @hephzibahu.emereole2093
    @hephzibahu.emereole2093 2 місяці тому

    God bless you PL!! Very insightful

  • @peaceeromonsele4999
    @peaceeromonsele4999 2 місяці тому

    So much wisdom in this one video!❤❤❤

  • @PraiseEnamaine
    @PraiseEnamaine 2 місяці тому

    God bless you abundantly PL for sharing such wealth of wisdom. I love you Ma🎉

  • @NneomaToday
    @NneomaToday 2 місяці тому

    Always so balanced pastor Laju, sense is what you need in marriage. God bless you

  • @pauline_daphne
    @pauline_daphne 2 місяці тому

    God bless your wisdom, PL
    This is an amazing video
    I've been instructed

  • @xclusivejoy5920
    @xclusivejoy5920 2 місяці тому

    Thank you ma 🙏 i am inspired by your teaching 😊😊😊

  • @hadassahsalako6341
    @hadassahsalako6341 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so much for this ma'am ❤️❤️

  • @nyadanstephen4089
    @nyadanstephen4089 2 місяці тому +3

    😂😂I just subscribed. You’re funny and cute too ❤❤

  • @preciousogbonna1205
    @preciousogbonna1205 2 місяці тому

    Thank you PL!! This is profound !!

  • @ToffyOlowo
    @ToffyOlowo 2 місяці тому

    So glad to be learning this right now, very insightful

  • @Timmiekay-uq8cx
    @Timmiekay-uq8cx 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, PL!!!
    This is so insightful.

  • @akinkuotugiftmonisola
    @akinkuotugiftmonisola 2 місяці тому

    I got value, thank you ma

  • @Omalight
    @Omalight 2 місяці тому

    I learnt a lot from this. Thank you ma ❤🙏

  • @ifedada6345
    @ifedada6345 2 місяці тому

    Thank you PL for enlightening us ma, I learnt a lot ❤😊

  • @rarashideout
    @rarashideout 2 місяці тому

    Insightful as always
    Subscribed

  • @MERCY.EBHOTA
    @MERCY.EBHOTA 2 місяці тому

    Submission is a demonstration of faith.❤

  • @peaceeromonsele4999
    @peaceeromonsele4999 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, PL

  • @oromidayoaiyeyemi289
    @oromidayoaiyeyemi289 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, PL, for this ❤🎉

  • @the.sholaenoch
    @the.sholaenoch 2 місяці тому

    PL! So profound, all of it

  • @ozichukwuamaka
    @ozichukwuamaka 2 місяці тому +1

    The battle field of the mind can be very tough but always let the Holy Spirit win in the end.❤

  • @irizzzy
    @irizzzy 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you PL❤

  • @deolaronipede372
    @deolaronipede372 2 місяці тому

    “It’s important to learn what we need to do, as opposed to what the other person needs to do”

  • @gracemonday5356
    @gracemonday5356 2 місяці тому

    So much utterance ❤

  • @Yari_elle
    @Yari_elle 2 місяці тому

    Thank you PL ❤

  • @AbiodunEsther-jm1xq
    @AbiodunEsther-jm1xq 2 місяці тому +2

    Please when will mistakenly yours movie be running on UA-cam?
    Thank you

  • @susankareem1327
    @susankareem1327 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much, PL❤️

  • @Sophia_Asoro
    @Sophia_Asoro 2 місяці тому

    Happy birthday PL!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @rajistephen9020
    @rajistephen9020 2 місяці тому +4

    I receive favour to get it right in Jesus name. Such a great wisdom. I celebrate you and pasty. God bless you ma.

  • @adenikeadedeji8580
    @adenikeadedeji8580 2 місяці тому +2

    Marry someone that values you as a person

  • @ozichukwuamaka
    @ozichukwuamaka 2 місяці тому +1

    For a successful marriage, do what works for you both. Assist the other however you can, be open to learn new skills and habits and allow the Holy Spirit teach you how best to marry your spouse.❤

  • @preciousnkereuwem
    @preciousnkereuwem 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Ma'am

  • @jamessier
    @jamessier 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm deeply in loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee with Mary 😍🥰. I love her from the bumbum of my heart. She's amazing!

    • @dadamaryibukunoluwa9198
      @dadamaryibukunoluwa9198 2 місяці тому

      God be in our minds and in our thinking. God be in our hearts and in our feeling. God be in our spirits and in our souls. God be in our mouth and speech. God be in us and in our way of living. I love you so much, Jamie😘

    • @jamessier
      @jamessier 2 місяці тому

      Amen pretty, amen. Love you too sweetheart 🌹💯🥰

  • @ajifaaaaaa
    @ajifaaaaaa 2 місяці тому

    Thank you so much ma❤

  • @TemilolaFashanu
    @TemilolaFashanu 2 місяці тому

    Try and look for the best in your partner.

  • @ToffyOlowo
    @ToffyOlowo 2 місяці тому +4

    My guess: Gender Roles in Marriage (sth is just telling me that’s it🤭)

  • @Ruthodaudu
    @Ruthodaudu 2 місяці тому

    So excited for this ❤

  • @TraderNTravel
    @TraderNTravel 2 місяці тому +1

    Pls PL will the fact that I chose to have a sexual affair in the past affect God anointing on my life?
    Will I ever still be able to heal the sick and raise the dead?

  • @OmolaraDaramola
    @OmolaraDaramola 2 місяці тому

    Genderrr roles 🎉🎉🎉

  • @edehchinecherem3358
    @edehchinecherem3358 2 місяці тому

    This is so profound

  • @AllTimePrecious
    @AllTimePrecious 8 днів тому

    Amen in Jesus' name

  • @Mowatojesu
    @Mowatojesu 2 місяці тому +2

    Milk the sleeping pills

  • @PreciousOnyekaOkoye
    @PreciousOnyekaOkoye 2 місяці тому

    I love you so much PL. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @miraclebilly6029
    @miraclebilly6029 2 місяці тому

    Gender roles in marriage 😅

  • @cilbrown181
    @cilbrown181 2 місяці тому

    🎉🎉

  • @deborahowhonda8108
    @deborahowhonda8108 2 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @ayoolavictoria8902
    @ayoolavictoria8902 2 місяці тому

    Here we go ❤

  • @lardeori
    @lardeori 2 місяці тому

    Cant wait😁😁