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  • @LajuIren
    @LajuIren  8 місяців тому +139

    Thanks for watching. Don't forget to subscribe and drop a comment!

  • @oshodinabieyuwa9853
    @oshodinabieyuwa9853 8 місяців тому +115

    I love how Pastor Laju laughs and smiles throughout her videos. It's so refreshing and contagious😊😊

    • @blacktulip4386
      @blacktulip4386 8 місяців тому +2

      She has a warm luvly personality

    • @omo_olaoke
      @omo_olaoke 8 місяців тому

      I totally agree.

  • @estherayobami215
    @estherayobami215 8 місяців тому +64

    "Your ex is x, in other words, you should have exited the relationship" 😂 Wife of the preacho 😅
    At this rate, I don't know who is rubbing off on who.

  • @Diuto
    @Diuto 8 місяців тому +16

    "Learn to understand your spouse for who they are and not what statistics say they are". Words to live by👏🏾

  • @ThePurpleField
    @ThePurpleField 8 місяців тому +35

    You are not emotional but you can jump around when your team wins... 😂😂😂🤸🤸🤸 Uncle express your emotions to your wife too! 🌚

    • @adoyizao
      @adoyizao 8 місяців тому

      Well understood after winning this FA Cup😂

    • @ebenezerogundare2027
      @ebenezerogundare2027 8 місяців тому

      Which one is "Uncle..."! You could say "sweet express your...". Beautiful name calling go even make ham express his emotions ❤ (not in a manipulating context) 😢

    • @ThePurpleField
      @ThePurpleField 8 місяців тому

      @@ebenezerogundare2027 😄😂😂 It's just an open comment.
      My husband is not even a football fan. 🤸

    • @ThePurpleField
      @ThePurpleField 8 місяців тому

      @@adoyizao 😂😂 Repent....

    • @ebenezerogundare2027
      @ebenezerogundare2027 8 місяців тому

      @@ThePurpleField don't worry. He will join us soon 😆

  • @UdoyeTobechukwu
    @UdoyeTobechukwu 8 місяців тому +13

    "Learn to be your wife's biggest cheerleader". I'm already doing that with my friends(both male and female) and I can't wait to do that to the person I would spend forever with.

  • @obumnemeoken
    @obumnemeoken 8 місяців тому +38

    I lead a very simple life. PL uploads a video, I watch it. Life is that simple 🎧

  • @bennyebubeimo7052
    @bennyebubeimo7052 8 місяців тому +8

    PL asked "where was Adam when the serpent was speaking to Eve". A lot of people are saying Adam was right there and even quoting scriptures. Anyways, I asked myself the same question and immediately a thought dropped in my spirit which I believe is by the Holy Spirit.
    You can be physically present in a relationship as in right there as Adam was and be spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and mentally absent or disconnected. So PL was right. Where was Adam's consciousness all the while Eve was trading blindly.

  • @The_Boluwatife_Phebe
    @The_Boluwatife_Phebe 8 місяців тому +88

    New talking stage question: Have you watched PL’s “What do women want” video😂😂

  • @adoyizao
    @adoyizao 8 місяців тому +13

    11:10 “You’re a man. That means that you should love, and that love should be defined by sacrifice.”
    That awakened my mind in a different way. Thank you, PL

    • @oluwadamilareonaolapo8868
      @oluwadamilareonaolapo8868 4 місяці тому

      This is profound! I am seeing this in a totally different light, it'll definitely affect my relationship with my spouse henceforth.

  • @EniolaOmoboni
    @EniolaOmoboni 8 місяців тому +32

    Praying my husband wherever he is in the world now somehow someway sees this video😅

    • @BrunoNdip-e5z
      @BrunoNdip-e5z 8 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @BrunoNdip-e5z
      @BrunoNdip-e5z 8 місяців тому

      Hi Mam ☺️

    • @successareeveso
      @successareeveso 8 місяців тому

      Joining faith with you sis! He will see it. Amen

    • @olu-ajayijudah2686
      @olu-ajayijudah2686 8 місяців тому

      I'm in Abuja and I've seen it. Are you happy now?🤣🤣

    • @mokehinde-roshe
      @mokehinde-roshe 8 місяців тому +1

      Honestly speaking! This is my prayer everytime I see a resource on growth. Ngl, I can't even be with someone-male or female-who is not a reader or a growth enthusiast.

  • @dukofafrica
    @dukofafrica 8 місяців тому +20

    Video quality 🔥
    Delivery 100%🔥
    Taken notes PL.
    I'll be more patient and gentle

  • @favourndakara
    @favourndakara 8 місяців тому +7

    It’s how PL always laughs for me😂. There’s no video without PL laughing, love it!❤

  • @thewritingacademy
    @thewritingacademy 8 місяців тому +12

    These points are valid.
    I see it this way: Jesus is present for the church at all times. If man is to love his wife the way Christ loves the church, he should be present like Jesus is.

  • @ebenezerogundare2027
    @ebenezerogundare2027 8 місяців тому +3

    That statement, Esteemed ma, "there is nothing God has called you to be OR DO that He hasn't given grace for" hit like a REVELATION ❤😊😢

  • @AdesolaOgunbanjo
    @AdesolaOgunbanjo 8 місяців тому +16

    Support Her
    Speak well of her
    Value her emotions/input ✅🔥

  • @acreativemiracle
    @acreativemiracle 8 місяців тому +8

    This first point. It almost made me cry. 😭😭😭 God would bless you PL. Haaaaa. God. Please we need one title called "Are all men truly slow to react."

  • @TOBI-xz2mc
    @TOBI-xz2mc 8 місяців тому +12

    Adam was present but he was looking at a tree like his fellows look at their phones these days 😂

  • @ElvisOkhifo
    @ElvisOkhifo 8 місяців тому +9

    So powerful 🔥🔥
    Thank you for this wisdom, PL. we’re learning

  • @imoleokediji5047
    @imoleokediji5047 8 місяців тому +3

    After watching what men want, I had to rush down here and of a truth, I've been sleeping on a bicycle previously.
    Ma'am, flesh and blood didn't reveal all of these to you.
    Thank you for letting God use you articulate what most of us couldn't previously.

  • @OgbuCharles360
    @OgbuCharles360 2 місяці тому

    😂😂😂 You can't be a guest minister in your own house
    That was good

  • @princessdamiii6585
    @princessdamiii6585 8 місяців тому +15

    PL's consistency is top notch ❤️❤️.
    God bless you ma

  • @rhodamac-sanddy
    @rhodamac-sanddy 8 місяців тому +9

    Na true oh!
    Proverbs 31 woman had LOTS of Servants!!!

  • @m0tunray0
    @m0tunray0 8 місяців тому +1

    5:25 “The woman was convinced. She saw that the tree was beautiful and its fruit looked delicious, and she wanted the wisdom it would give her. So she took some of the fruit and ate it. Then she gave some to her husband, who was with her, and he ate it, too.”
    ‭‭Genesis‬ ‭3‬ vs 6‬ ‭NLT‬‬

  • @TheSamwonders
    @TheSamwonders 8 місяців тому +30

    Oneness is very possible without sameness. 🤲

  • @kamisview
    @kamisview 2 місяці тому

    Here to encourage PL🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @callme_JayJay
    @callme_JayJay 8 місяців тому +6

    "You can't be a guest minister in your own house" 😂😂😂

  • @queen_herdassah
    @queen_herdassah 8 місяців тому +5

    Thanks ma'am. You laugh exactly like Mercy Chinwo😅

  • @EverythingFootball44
    @EverythingFootball44 8 місяців тому +1

    See how mama laju is dazzling.....PST IREN i salute

  • @tegaabiri
    @tegaabiri 8 місяців тому +5

    Lovely video, ma'am!!☺️
    I learnt so much😭🤲
    I just wanted to mention that, Adam actually was present when Eve was eating the fruit.
    But of course, the point remains still; men should try to be present.
    Thank you again, PL❤️
    ‭Genesis 3:6 NKJV‬
    [6] So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.

  • @fayenyo
    @fayenyo 8 місяців тому +5

    I'm a woman and I approve this message! Thank you so much PL😊

  • @Esthersally113
    @Esthersally113 8 місяців тому +1

    I love how warm you are mama ❤😊

  • @Mofiyin_
    @Mofiyin_ 8 місяців тому +4

    This is so beautiful! It feels like PL literally eavesdropped my thoughts because the accuracy of this! 😂😂😫🔥

  • @Beatsultan_Official
    @Beatsultan_Official Місяць тому

    Every video of yours communicates excellence and happiness in different forms♥️

  • @Naiari399
    @Naiari399 8 місяців тому +1

    PL is a total vibe on her own. More grace to continue the Lord's good work ijn ma... I celebrate you..🎉🎉❤❤

  • @debsthedoctor
    @debsthedoctor 8 місяців тому

    Love how the Bible was referenced for the points. The Bible really is wholesome.

  • @_immaculata
    @_immaculata 8 місяців тому

    Now let me go and watch what men need😭😂, hopefully I’m just as excited afterwards.

  • @gatw1977
    @gatw1977 8 місяців тому +1

    I love what was said about statistics … I don’t like generalizations, they’re simplistic and untrue

  • @Hopefulhope2023
    @Hopefulhope2023 Місяць тому

    Thanks and more grace to you, the virtuous woman ❤❤❤

  • @blacktulip4386
    @blacktulip4386 8 місяців тому +1

    I love 💕 her heart pure and warm and her teaching is wise and insightful

  • @victoriaogundele4220
    @victoriaogundele4220 8 місяців тому +2

    Well of wisdom 🔥🔥❤️
    Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us PL.
    I was really blessed

  • @akpomudjereoghenetega4280
    @akpomudjereoghenetega4280 8 місяців тому +3

    "You can't be a guest minister In your own house" 😭😂😂

  • @SakaTaiwo-x6h
    @SakaTaiwo-x6h 5 місяців тому

    Wow
    This is awesom.🥰

  • @busayomibabalola
    @busayomibabalola 8 місяців тому

    Pastor Laju, you are a very wise Woman of God and I'm grateful to God for the gift of you.

  • @thepreciousokon
    @thepreciousokon 8 місяців тому +3

    Really loved this one. It’s rather apt. You articulated the points so well. Thank you, PL!😊

  • @kene.alexandra
    @kene.alexandra 8 місяців тому +1

    So many wise and powerful points. I’m so blessed by this

  • @MarthaMurungiWinnie
    @MarthaMurungiWinnie 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for ministering to us

  • @_immaculata
    @_immaculata 8 місяців тому

    Ah. This video😭. EVERY SINGLE THING. God bless you Ma. Amen.

  • @fadeke_
    @fadeke_ 8 місяців тому +7

    Where was Adam when the serpent was talking to Eve? Men! Be present!🤣🤣😂

  • @The_Boluwatife_Phebe
    @The_Boluwatife_Phebe 8 місяців тому +5

    I love the where was Adam when the serpent was talking to Eve part😂😂

    • @davidsoughtout
      @davidsoughtout 8 місяців тому +3

      He went to water ugwu😂😂😂

  • @janetimothy5064
    @janetimothy5064 5 місяців тому

    wow, I Learnt a lot...You're so pretty ma...and your smile literally kept me watching through. Thank you so much

  • @PhilipThrives
    @PhilipThrives 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing PL. Took some lessons from what you shared. May your well of knowledge never run dry.

  • @promisehassan9283
    @promisehassan9283 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much woman of God. I've suffered emotional assault alot especially that of comparison and judgemental approach of suggestions....

  • @cynthian6470
    @cynthian6470 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful video, full of wise counsel.
    Key take away - God will ask me to give an account of how i handle my relationship/marriage. Help me God.

  • @dammykola8372
    @dammykola8372 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma, Pastor Laju- Full of wisdom
    But looking at Genesis 3:6
    ‭Genesis 3:6
    And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was delightful to look at, and a tree to be desired in order to make one wise and insightful, she took some of its fruit and ate it; and she also gave some to her husband WITH HER, and he ate.
    Won't this pass to mean that Adam was actually there when she ate of the fruit?

  • @adekunleogun9563
    @adekunleogun9563 6 місяців тому

    i am blessed...

  • @Obianuju-Nwankwo
    @Obianuju-Nwankwo 8 місяців тому +3

    I will always be here to support ❤❤

  • @rhodamac-sanddy
    @rhodamac-sanddy 8 місяців тому +2

    If Adam was present... 😂😂😂😂
    Another shot fired at men.

  • @ifektivenigerian1532
    @ifektivenigerian1532 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much for this, PL ma!🙏🏽❤

  • @tms5741
    @tms5741 8 місяців тому +1

    hmmmmmm taking initiatives 😂😂😂😂

  • @houseonthehill1612
    @houseonthehill1612 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much, Ma🎉 GOD bless you for enriching my life 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @joshuankandu9798
    @joshuankandu9798 8 місяців тому

    Profound word ma'am

  • @effiongrosemary1919
    @effiongrosemary1919 8 місяців тому +4

    Remember her birthday. Yes, take initiative!

  • @oriyomirachael8828
    @oriyomirachael8828 8 місяців тому

    I love this woman of God❤

  • @kingsleyike1657
    @kingsleyike1657 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this

  • @chinatumusic
    @chinatumusic 8 місяців тому +1

    It's your beautiful smile for me😊

  • @kelvinadedeji3239
    @kelvinadedeji3239 8 місяців тому +1

    I learnt a lot from this
    Thank you PL 🙏🏾

  • @victor_amata
    @victor_amata 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you PL!!!
    Really blessed!!☺️♥️

  • @thelmaspark2005
    @thelmaspark2005 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma for sharing 🥰❤️

  • @Franklinodaro
    @Franklinodaro 8 місяців тому

    This video was so helpful

  • @renaakeh
    @renaakeh 8 місяців тому

    So many gems in this video, thank you PL. Also, you ate with those nails💅

  • @rerelovesGod
    @rerelovesGod 8 місяців тому +1

    This video>>>>

  • @taiwookewumi6587
    @taiwookewumi6587 8 місяців тому

    Thank you, PL. ❤

  • @akerejolaanjola8661
    @akerejolaanjola8661 7 місяців тому +1

    PL ehn I too love this woman

  • @wuraolatemitope9991
    @wuraolatemitope9991 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much am for this, this was 100% timely

  • @ayomi_amoke
    @ayomi_amoke 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing, ma. It’s always beautiful to learn from your wealth of knowledge.

  • @iroegbufavour1317
    @iroegbufavour1317 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ma🤗🤗

  • @EminentToluwalase
    @EminentToluwalase 8 місяців тому

    I'm definitely learning PL ❤

  • @peteradeleye5713
    @peteradeleye5713 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL for this. It is very helpful for me even though I am single and not yet in a relationship

  • @ennyjemmy7695
    @ennyjemmy7695 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL. I love you😍🤭

  • @JeffersonEjeh
    @JeffersonEjeh 8 місяців тому

    Very insightful. Thank you Pastor Laju!

  • @The_Ademola
    @The_Ademola 8 місяців тому

    Marking my register

  • @nmaonuoha4842
    @nmaonuoha4842 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much PL🥰❤

  • @IsaacTonwe
    @IsaacTonwe 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Ma. This really helped

  • @preciousogbonna1205
    @preciousogbonna1205 8 місяців тому

    Thank you ma! I learned a lot and got clarity too. God bless you PL

  • @Franklinodaro
    @Franklinodaro 7 місяців тому

    🎉🎉🎉

  • @Didi-fi1iv
    @Didi-fi1iv 8 місяців тому

    Your smile is sooo prettyyy❤️❤️

  • @davidsoughtout
    @davidsoughtout 8 місяців тому +3

    4:25 which one is gbish gbish again 😂😂😂😂😂...i don laff taya

  • @EzekielAtoyebi
    @EzekielAtoyebi 8 місяців тому

    Thank you, ma

  • @irizzzy
    @irizzzy 8 місяців тому

    Every single point is the truth!
    Thank you PL💜

  • @damilolaoluwatosin5394
    @damilolaoluwatosin5394 8 місяців тому

    Thank you MA

  • @Jayjayoluwa
    @Jayjayoluwa 8 місяців тому +1

    Hmm

  • @DeclarationMedia01
    @DeclarationMedia01 8 місяців тому

    More Blessings ma 😊🙏

  • @ologunlekoomowunmi2665
    @ologunlekoomowunmi2665 8 місяців тому

    Super insightful 💕💕
    Thank you, PL😍

  • @Christabeloyome
    @Christabeloyome 8 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this PL
    God bless you! ❤️

  • @chawagwaba5204
    @chawagwaba5204 8 місяців тому

    Thank you ma'am ❤❤❤

  • @DeborahWarmate
    @DeborahWarmate 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL, this blessed me! ❤

  • @eronduchizaram1600
    @eronduchizaram1600 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL👏🏻👏🏻 You look so gorgeous😍😍😍

  • @sharonzmusic
    @sharonzmusic 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL❤❤❤❤

  • @ViickieMila
    @ViickieMila 8 місяців тому

    Thank you PL ❤