Emily Hayward's Story | Malignant Melanoma | Stand Up To Cancer (2019)

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  • Опубліковано 5 тра 2019
  • Emily Hayward had been on a journey with skin cancer for over seven years. What started as a mole on her leg, was later diagnosed as a malignant melanoma. She was then told by doctors that her cancer had spread to her hip and brain.
    But when going through all of this Emily remained strong and proposed to her long time partner Aisha Hasan, marrying her soon after.
    Emily recorded her beautifully emotive journey, blogging about what she had experienced, on her own UA-cam channel: / @emilyhayward4726
    "I've just got to live my life knowing that this could be it." Emily passed away, peacefully in June 2018, age 24.
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  • @standuptocancerUK
    @standuptocancerUK  5 років тому +985

    Emily certainly touched a lot of lives with her energy and positivity. THANK YOU to everyone who has watched the video and left a comment ❤️

    • @hippychic7546
      @hippychic7546 4 роки тому +4

      i am so sorry. can you pls post how long she lived from diagnosis to end....she was one tough cookie. i am just so sorry-you two were a beautiful couple, no 2 two are a beautiful couple...xoxoxo

    • @lauramcfee5533
      @lauramcfee5533 4 роки тому +11

      I wish we knew how her wife is doing ! Love them both, they were great together !!

    • @stac5209
      @stac5209 4 роки тому +8

      She was diagnosed at 17 and battled for a amazing 8years she was truelly an inspiration. I miss her videos. She's was so beautiful and Aisha. I hope that Aisha is doing well ..? Much love to you xxxx

    • @pugmanparker293
      @pugmanparker293 4 роки тому +13

      Diagnosed in april 2019 with a rare form of saliva cancer. I now cannot speak properly as have a hole in my pallet in mouth. I have a peg in my stomach, as i now have to have liquid feed in tube. My life has totaly changed, but 99% of the time im quite happy. I dont know how long i have, as know how sudden someone can go downhill. Videos like this help me, even though most have sad outcomes, it shows how strong we all are regardless of cancer taking over our lifes

    • @dianekeating4544
      @dianekeating4544 4 роки тому +1

      @@lauramcfee5533 if you want to find out how she is doing she's on Instagram

  • @lfking9778
    @lfking9778 4 роки тому +3024

    Never complain about growing old, it's a privilege denied to many.

    • @hayleydryden3137
      @hayleydryden3137 4 роки тому +32

      Not for everyone it isn't..to grow old when u have lost your reason for living can be toture..

    • @lfking9778
      @lfking9778 4 роки тому +54

      @@hayleydryden3137 I think this is missing the point.

    • @hayleydryden3137
      @hayleydryden3137 4 роки тому +2

      @@James-nw1oj I'm there...

    • @banksmd9881
      @banksmd9881 4 роки тому +19

      This is perhaps the best statement I have so far...a privilege denied to many indeed

    • @oysterhunter276
      @oysterhunter276 4 роки тому +10

      Hayley Dryden and to lose your 'reason for living' at a young age is infinitely worse. Did you even watch the video?

  • @spoon50
    @spoon50 3 роки тому +791

    she found out she had stage 3 cancer and she felt bad about leaving her love behind. a truly selfless and beautiful woman who will never be forgotten.

    • @Silentafterthought
      @Silentafterthought 3 роки тому +36

      Because of her story I found my malignant melanoma early I wish she found hers early she touched so many of us and made us get our skin checked

    • @unknown-oe8mf
      @unknown-oe8mf 2 роки тому +7

      @@Silentafterthought hope youre ok xx

    • @sophiew1967
      @sophiew1967 2 роки тому +3

      Hope you are ok hun ,sending you a bit hug xx I have MS & going through enough & have started lost menopausal bleeding after 6 yrs since my cycle stopped..I' m frightened after watching both my parents battle cancer ( mum fought breast cancer aged 60 & is now 93 yrs old) my dad had dozens of skin grafts for skin cancer ..he died of a heart attack aged 86 .Just do what dad did & out on a hard minimum of factor 50 even in the winter & get others to check your back & hard to reach places..this is how we got my dad through years of hours of melanoma .Much love & good health to you ,get better real soon luv Sophie xx

    • @kk-qu1zc
      @kk-qu1zc 2 роки тому +1

      I mean isn't that the norm?

    • @sallyphillips9175
      @sallyphillips9175 Рік тому +3

      That clip was just after she'd found out about the five additional brain tumors. She had been Stage 4 at that point for a couple of years.

  • @gilliankingston8259
    @gilliankingston8259 3 роки тому +608

    That was incredibly moving; Aisha "you just gave me the best four years of my life", Emily "yeah, but I want to give you forty". Did anyone not have tears in their eyes?

    • @dfcvda
      @dfcvda 2 роки тому +8

      thats whee i went.

    • @xxcharliegirlxx154
      @xxcharliegirlxx154 2 роки тому +9

      Crying my eyes

    • @silvanavagnoni3454
      @silvanavagnoni3454 2 роки тому +6

      So beautiful 😍

    • @donnawilliamson6842
      @donnawilliamson6842 2 роки тому +10

      I cried too, but still watch this end 2 end when it pops up. Just remember tissues are needed b4 it starts.
      Such a beautiful young woman who found the love of her life. Only to sadly have her life taken way too soon

    • @darranweston9425
      @darranweston9425 3 місяці тому +3

      I cried throughout the whole video, her bravery was planet sized.
      Heartbroken 💔 😥

  • @amberrobinson6637
    @amberrobinson6637 2 роки тому +191

    We will NEVER forget Emily. Nearly 4 years on, I still go back and watch her videos. She is inspiring.

    • @davinastanton3865
      @davinastanton3865 Рік тому +2

      Amber me too.
      Emily was the first person I found when i was diagnosed with Melanoma. Fly high sweet Angel. 💗🕊💗

    • @jensjourney8184
      @jensjourney8184 Рік тому +2

      Me three! I started watching just after I saw her on Standup2cancer. I was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer Feb 2021. Had I not seen her journey, I would have had a completely different and more negative perspective on things. I’m so grateful to Emily and Aisha for sharing their lives. 🙏🏼 ❤ Jen x 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    • @fufurabumbacka
      @fufurabumbacka Рік тому

      We never forget, but... we wont live forever.

  • @octopusfood5643
    @octopusfood5643 5 років тому +2875

    ‘I want to give you 40’ that broke me

  • @ticklethypickle6368
    @ticklethypickle6368 5 років тому +1746

    This woman was a legend, and legends will never die.

  • @bichonbeach3859
    @bichonbeach3859 Рік тому +20

    Can’t believe she has been gone for 5 years now. I watched every one of her videos and I was so glad to got to marry the love of her life. 😢😢😢😢

  • @suzyq4982
    @suzyq4982 Рік тому +13

    It hurts so much when Emily says ‘yeah but I want to give you 40 ( years ) 😢

  • @LottieTargett
    @LottieTargett 5 років тому +956

    “you’ve given me the best four years of my life!”
    “yeah but i wanna give you forty” 🧡

    • @Artem_Shipov
      @Artem_Shipov 4 роки тому +5

      Thank you for the subs. I couldn't get it clearly. So sad((

    • @lynjones9339
      @lynjones9339 4 роки тому +21

      That was heart breaking
      I wonted to give you 40 xx

    • @alicjagodlewska1059
      @alicjagodlewska1059 3 роки тому +7

      I have been with my husband 4 years and I want it to last 40! Heartbreaking that Emily could not do that!!

    • @LottieTargett
      @LottieTargett 3 роки тому +7

      @@alicjagodlewska1059 so heart breaking. i miss her youtube videos and her so much

    • @alicjagodlewska1059
      @alicjagodlewska1059 3 роки тому +8

      @@LottieTargett i passed Royal Marsden Hospital last week and I could not stop thinking about her 😥😪

  • @charl366
    @charl366 5 років тому +1450

    If anyone in the comments hasn’t looked at her videos I would I highly recommend it, she was amazing ❤️

    • @marisatowler
      @marisatowler 5 років тому +34

      emily truly lived her best life. @charl, when they say, one person can make a difference, this girl's wisdom, will, and wit to live and survive beyond her 'c' prognosis is literally and utterly beyond amazing.

    • @BackontheBayou
      @BackontheBayou 5 років тому +31

      Yes, she was incredible, inspirational. I think of her every day even now.

    • @charl366
      @charl366 5 років тому +16

      BackontheBayou I hope she realised how amazing she was. I think of her often too, and her lovely wife ❤️

    • @BackontheBayou
      @BackontheBayou 5 років тому +16

      @@charl366 Oh yes,and Aisha.... what a truly compassionate, strong woman. I hope she's doing OK. Like you, I think of her often as well.

    • @janewhitson6065
      @janewhitson6065 5 років тому +10

      Agreed ❤️

  • @scottcampbell7535
    @scottcampbell7535 4 роки тому +347

    I stumbled upon this. Wow. I have a story. Mine is different. With this, there are good results. Two days ago (12/12/19), I celebrated being cancer-free for 39 years. I had metastatic malignant melanoma Stage 4 and was given a 15% chance of living 2 years. I won. Do your best to maintain being positive. Pray and gladly accept prayers. Do what the doctors recommend, and don't quit.

    • @sarahmilner8483
      @sarahmilner8483 3 роки тому +17

      Wow you are one in a million nó? You don't often hear these stories after a stage 4 diagnosis. I'm. So happy for you

    • @kelliemorris84
      @kelliemorris84 3 роки тому +18

      Thank you for your story. Miracles DO exist. Although, few and far between, stories like yours give me and others, hope.

    • @Paintress
      @Paintress 2 роки тому +5

      congrats!

    • @marybeazley7741
      @marybeazley7741 2 роки тому +2

      Stay well my friend....you bet cancer 💜💜

    • @catherinesyme901
      @catherinesyme901 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️🙏❤️

  • @melcerra2375
    @melcerra2375 2 роки тому +103

    I followed her journey in real time and I still think about her often. She’s one of a kind.

  • @rebeccawright5987
    @rebeccawright5987 5 років тому +925

    I never met Emily or her wife but I miss Emily. I watched her videos every day. She was such an inspiration.

    • @xoalishaxo7600
      @xoalishaxo7600 5 років тому +8

      Rebecca Wright so did I and when she got really unwell and then passed away I actually cried and really felt it like I knew her it was just awful x

    • @trina7274
      @trina7274 5 років тому +6

      Rebecca Wright, same.... I cant believe it’s been a year already. I really miss seeing them both... she lived her very best life.... right up until the end 💕❤️🙏💕❤️🙏

    • @NegativeOctopus
      @NegativeOctopus 5 років тому +3

      I couldnt believe the day that the video was released when they said she passed away, I still dont think I understand she is gone. Ive never met her either, but I wouldve done so damn much just to try and somehow fix her cancer. I miss her

    • @scrappydoogal804
      @scrappydoogal804 4 роки тому +1

      I used to watch her videos and peewee Tom's. Both amazing brave young people. Its still so shocking when you get the news they've passed away. I lost one of my best friends to cancer last month and I still can't believe he's gone. I hope Emily's family and Dan's are coping okay ❤

    • @amiramirou9519
      @amiramirou9519 3 роки тому

      @Deana Jones U HAVE TO FIND ANOTHER GIRL TO AICHA HHHHHHHHHTHE POOR LADY JHHHHHHH

  • @traceyyoung9212
    @traceyyoung9212 5 років тому +770

    Emily was truly a loss to this world, a battle so courageously fought, and unfairly lost. An inspirational young lady who helped so many, sleep peacefully dear girl.
    For anyone diagnosed, it is not always the end.
    I had malignant melanoma in 1998. I had just had a baby that I thought I wouldn't see grow up. Well I did, and now I'm a Grandmother!
    I'm also an 11yr survivor of breast cancer. I count myself very lucky x

    • @50sRockChick
      @50sRockChick 5 років тому +8

      I was diagnosed with mm in 2012. My daughter was 12 weeks old. It was/is a scary time. 😢

    • @robingarrett3171
      @robingarrett3171 5 років тому +5

      @@50sRockChick all the best to you. I am in remission with triple neg breast cancer. It is a scary time. I get so much strength from Emily though. I am so proud of her and the way she lived and died.

    • @wonderlandisalanguage9646
      @wonderlandisalanguage9646 5 років тому +4

      @@50sRockChick I'm with you during this battle, a lot of people are ❤❤

    • @wonderlandisalanguage9646
      @wonderlandisalanguage9646 5 років тому +2

      @@robingarrett3171 I'm with you during this battle, a lot of people are ❤❤

    • @autumnspring6624
      @autumnspring6624 5 років тому +2

      Tracey Young I have heard that positive thinking help heal people. But do you have any health tips or things that helped your recovery and maintenance of health?

  • @Maria-tl1lm
    @Maria-tl1lm 11 місяців тому +12

    It is so sad. She was so beautiful and an incredible human being. This shouldn't happen. 😥😥

  • @nicolamcconnell5339
    @nicolamcconnell5339 Рік тому +35

    This girl meant a lot to my Mum. My Mum worked at her school. Watching gogglebox catch ups. Emily, I never met you, but I know you were so strong for do long. Glad you met my mum along your journey. She'll never forget you. I can promise you that. Mrs Morris is my mum btw xxx

  • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
    @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 5 років тому +503

    😭💔 I miss her and Dan soo much! We need to find a cure.

    • @rggtrsdgtw
      @rggtrsdgtw 5 років тому +4

      There is

    • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
      @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 5 років тому +3

      rggtrsdg2355 tw there’s what i call “ fixes” for many conditions and i have a few. No cures sadly.

    • @madison3514
      @madison3514 5 років тому +4

      rggtrsdg2355 tw there isn’t unfortunately.

    • @wonderlandisalanguage9646
      @wonderlandisalanguage9646 5 років тому +2

      @@meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 I hope you'll get well ❤ Much love to you and your loved ones ❤ We're all with you.

    • @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780
      @meganlovesdisneyandcrafts4780 5 років тому +4

      Clem Marchal Thank you😊 Fortunately i am stable . It’s a lot of work but really have hope that i have a good few years left, the doctors didn’t think so. That’s my personal experience though. Oh, just to be relevant to the t i had ovarian cyst that pretty sure was cancer . Too much other stuff to tackle though.😂

  • @em8842
    @em8842 5 років тому +32

    To people who didn't follow her story, Emily fought cancer for a loooong time, since she was 17 I think. When she initially had surgery, they thought she would only have maybe six months, but she said 'nah' and lived another seven years. A fighter. Even near the end when they gave her two weeks, she lived four times that and got to be married to Aisha for two months before she died.
    She was the best type of person, she brought joy wherever she went, and the fact that she shared it with us is pretty amazing.

  • @HectorMurrieta
    @HectorMurrieta 4 роки тому +13

    I lost my partner Dora Hagerman on October 26th, 2018 to liver cancer. She was 46 years old, a beautiful human being, an artist (she was a dancer/choreographer) & left a 13 year old daughter. We spent a year traveling to New York for treatments based on immunotherapy for most of 2018, & I think that gave her a good extra year of quality life to one of the most aggressive forms of cancer. Chemo was suggested to us from the beginning as a treatment, but we didn’t want to, as the chances of recovery were slim to non existent...
    The last thing we did before she passed away was perform in Japan (toured for a month, September 2018)...people were moved to tears by her solo performance...I miss her every day, & have had to reorganize my life (we worked together, I’m a musician). Some of Dora’s words were “If I was in a hospital, I’d be emotionally/mentally dead...as long as I can dance, I wanna burn the flame of life”...here’s to you, güerita hermosa.
    Whoever’s struggling with this terrible disease & the ones close to them, I wish you nothing but the best - light & warmth your way.

  • @ladyyuna2000
    @ladyyuna2000 2 роки тому +20

    RIP Emily Jane Hayward Hasan (16 Jul 1993- 26 Jun 2018) (aged 24) you will truly be missed and my prayers go out to you and your family.

  • @marievickers7848
    @marievickers7848 Рік тому +7

    from 17 this beautiful girl was fighting cancer.
    may she rest in peace.
    to die so young is a tragedy but my God dud this girl live.
    free from pain. RIP EMILY

  • @vickimarlene4905
    @vickimarlene4905 3 роки тому +142

    She’s so damn brave. Someone her age shouldn’t have to deal with this. Bless her.

  • @jsjj
    @jsjj 2 роки тому +3

    You've given me the best 4 years of my life.
    But I wanted to give you 40 more. What a crushing statement. Brave woman.

  • @mskataymskatay2760
    @mskataymskatay2760 4 роки тому +215

    I'm twice her age, but Emily Hayward Hassan is a personal hero of mine. She inspires me. She changed my life. She is in my head during my own cancer journey. Thank you for these gifts, Emily and Aisha. From someone you never met who lives almost a world away.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

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    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/0gQILVCBH8k/v-deo.html

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 роки тому +1

      Also, reading the bible out loud healed my neck, made my bones, joints and whole body feel very much stronger too. I believe it can heal anything so never forget your daily bible reading out loud for a few minutes or more. Look up healing scriptures online or maybe all the bible is healing I don't know. Pray every day in Jesus' name and always Tithe faithfully, it can heal so much.

    • @catherinesyme901
      @catherinesyme901 2 роки тому +5

      I hope you have made it through your journey! ❤️🙏❤️

    • @robingarrett3171
      @robingarrett3171 2 роки тому +3

      She is one of my 5 life heroes. I hope her famiky knows.

  • @samantharossiter8808
    @samantharossiter8808 5 років тому +460

    This made me cry, I hope Aisha is doing well wherever she is I wish her peace and happiness x

    • @terripalakie5287
      @terripalakie5287 5 років тому +16

      @@58mummybear thanks so much for letting us know Aisha's IG. I've wondered about how she was doing and now I'm following her. ❤

    • @liseyloubabs
      @liseyloubabs 5 років тому

      Absolutely love Emily's videos. So inspirational. Her and Aisha were soooooo happy. Wot is aishas IG plz x

    • @aliciamorris8923
      @aliciamorris8923 5 років тому +1

      Last I heard Aisha was doing ok. She met Peeweetoms I know. That's the last I heard.

    • @terrorsquadlith
      @terrorsquadlith 4 роки тому +6

      she didnt seem to care too much

    • @agutfog1031
      @agutfog1031 4 роки тому +13

      Jude Dimatteo he said it just to get a reaction, he’s such a needy soul.

  • @digitalsketchguy
    @digitalsketchguy 4 роки тому +68

    I just cried watching this. Seeing a young vivacious woman with her whole life ahead of her & only just married to her partner, then seeing her illness slowly take her away due to a small mole. Just tragic & unfair.

    • @irishcountrygirl78
      @irishcountrygirl78 4 роки тому +4

      During her vids they'd candidly talk about having children and Aisha having their first baby and talking about it as a future dream and it really hits hard, so unfair they didn't get the chance.

  • @Arlet12217
    @Arlet12217 Рік тому +10

    I miss her so much . I still watch her videos and life is really not fair to some amazing people .

  • @Hana-sc9qx
    @Hana-sc9qx 5 років тому +359

    Cant believe it's already been nearly a year. She was such a beautiful person. I go to the same hospitals as Em use to & everytime I walk in there I think about her. I was in hospital last year for 3 weeks & I didnt realize during my stay she had an appointment. Would have been amazing to have met her.
    She was such a brave & positive person no matter what life put her through.
    I still watch her videos. Whether you are ill or not make the most of life, because life is just too short.
    I want to thank Em for the encouragement to keep going & just live your life to the fullest.
    Miss you beautiful girl! xoxox

  • @teresapentz6079
    @teresapentz6079 5 років тому +175

    My 34 year old daughter in law Amanda passed away on January 7 th 2019 from the same thing . Their stories sounded identical. My prayers are for a cure for all cancers .

    • @ennieannie6027
      @ennieannie6027 4 роки тому +9

      May she rest in Peace. Stay strong💪

    • @freespiritwithnature4384
      @freespiritwithnature4384 3 роки тому +2

      I’m sorry honey. If you know anyone who’s struggling,please check out the following.This is definitely the best info I’ve come across in a long time.
      How Joe TIPPINS beat terminal lung cancer with $ dog dewormer medicine. It’s called FENDBENDAZOLE/ Pancura C . Another Dr had 200 mice and they all got mice , what happened was they ALL came back cancer free !
      Unfortunately she ,the DR. Was diagnosed with cancer,stage 4 Glioblastoma 4 weeks later. She was told to go into hospice care and there was nothing they could do . She actually went home and cried and she thought ok if it worked for her mice ,she’s going to try it .
      She took it 3 days on and 4 off I believe. She and Joe along with many other cancers ,are 6+ yrs cancer free. I know Joe was in his 50 s I believe when he got it ,huge tumour in lung plus it had spread to tissues and his organs and bones.
      It actually worked. I wish I’d known about this ,I lost my 31 yr old brother from bone cancer. It’s James Templeton Wellness Center interview.,on utube.
      The following I found last week and it’s the best 51 minutes I’ve seen in a long time.
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      I hope you are ok sweetheart. ❤️🇨🇦

    • @SuzanneDeniseB
      @SuzanneDeniseB 3 роки тому +3

      Im so sorry for your loss. Sending love to you and yours ❤️

    • @anonanon5144
      @anonanon5144 3 роки тому

      Sorry for your loss and sorry especially for all the dumb comments that say that someone has found a cure using some household product.

    • @teresapentz6079
      @teresapentz6079 3 роки тому

      @@anonanon5144 Ty

  • @madnatty
    @madnatty 2 роки тому +55

    Still miss Emily, she was an amazing person. So glad Aisha has found a little love since then.

    • @Summer77700
      @Summer77700 2 роки тому +2

      Haven't seen any updates from Aisha lately. How are you able to keep up with her?

    • @sallyphillips9175
      @sallyphillips9175 2 роки тому +5

      @@Summer77700 She's on IG. She has a son now, but I haven't seen anything on there about her dating anyone.

    • @Summer77700
      @Summer77700 2 роки тому +1

      @@sallyphillips9175 Oh, ok! Well thanks for sharing! I'm so happy for her!

  • @craig79819
    @craig79819 2 роки тому +25

    i followed Emily's story on her own vlog - you need to watch this to truly understand what an absolute gem of a being she was. So happy, so positive, so kind. A true legend. Rest in paradise girl.

    • @sarahwass6249
      @sarahwass6249 2 роки тому +1

      I did to and Dan's story to it's so sad you would think that they would have a cure for cancer by now unfortunately they don't my sister died this year of cancer that spread all in her body 😔

    • @craig79819
      @craig79819 2 роки тому +1

      I also followed Dan aka PeeWeeToms story. Was lovely to see him and Aisha meet. Two really sad stories.
      Sorry for your loss 😔 x

    • @sarahwass6249
      @sarahwass6249 2 роки тому

      @@craig79819 thank you. I just wish they had a cure to be honest

    • @olyacarell6434
      @olyacarell6434 2 роки тому

      There's no paradise

    • @craig79819
      @craig79819 2 роки тому

      @@olyacarell6434 probably not for you. Take your hatred elsewhere.

  • @Paula_Shelton
    @Paula_Shelton 3 роки тому +9

    Can’t believe it’s been two years. I’ll never forget Emily.

  • @MsDragonese
    @MsDragonese Рік тому +24

    "You've given me the best 4 years of my life"
    "Yeah but I want to give you 40"
    This cuts too deep 😔

  • @Spamfish
    @Spamfish 2 роки тому +38

    I discovered Emily's Vlogs whilst suffering through major mental health issues. I cannot express the strength and encouragement I get from her insight and openness. She was truly a magical soul. Thanks Emily

  • @vickenator
    @vickenator Рік тому +12

    Still miss her after all these years. I was heartbroken when she passed. She was such a force.

  • @kenzeeth
    @kenzeeth 5 років тому +100

    "Yeah but I wanna give you 40" That hurt..

  • @kierankelly6319
    @kierankelly6319 2 роки тому +17

    God she was a special woman who I am sure will inspire millions of people in years to come!!
    WHAT A LEGACY!!!!!!

  • @jimlong4182
    @jimlong4182 Рік тому +6

    Emily. I love you. I always will. You give me strength to get through my heart disease. My kidney disease. And my cancer. You will always live in my heart. That’s why I still watch your videos every day. You give me strength. You knew we would need you still.

  • @lolamh4900
    @lolamh4900 4 роки тому +23

    I go back and watch Emily’s vlogs often. If I eat Nando’s or buy new trainers or eat sugar free sweets, I think of her. What a hero x

  • @threeqtrtime
    @threeqtrtime 6 місяців тому +4

    This is such a beautiful love story, there needs to be a movie of this beautiful courageous soul. 😢❤

  • @gaylea.griffin9733
    @gaylea.griffin9733 2 роки тому +5

    I was just diagnosed with melanoma and I’m scared to death. God bless this woman.

  • @mollylenyo1407
    @mollylenyo1407 3 роки тому +38

    Emily was such a warrior. RIP sweet Emily

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Рік тому +13

    I've never forgotten about Emily after discovering her videos on here. I found them after she died and watched lots of them, she was and continues to be such an inspiring person. I feel like she understood what's important in life despite being young. Aisha is also a very inspiring person, full of love and wisdom. Their love story is one of the sweetest I've ever seen. I'm so sorry Emily passed away so young, it isn't fair. But I'm glad she shared her wonderful self with the world. We'll never forget you.

  • @mrsprincenelson5756
    @mrsprincenelson5756 5 років тому +148

    She was such a beautiful girl inside and out, love and hugs to her lovely wife Aisha!
    RIP sweetheart xx

  • @jlcollins7673
    @jlcollins7673 3 роки тому +15

    I followed Emily's story...and have never been more affected by anyone's story in my entire life.
    Everything about her....how she lived..who she loved...impacted me, and made me look at this world completely differently.
    I am forever grateful to Em and Aisha....a million times, thank you, for sharing your infinity with us.

  • @sylviarogier1
    @sylviarogier1 Рік тому +3

    1.38 minutes in and I'm already crying.

  • @RoGameReview
    @RoGameReview 2 роки тому +7

    this is why life shouldn't be taken for granted

  • @sakaya9878
    @sakaya9878 5 років тому +78

    I never met Emily but I will never forget her. Her videos were just filled with hope and joy despite everything.

  • @maple9706
    @maple9706 Рік тому +3

    It’s so hard to see someone so positive and energetic become so tired like that

  • @KS-yp1jl
    @KS-yp1jl 10 місяців тому +19

    I keep rewatching Emily's vlogs, what an absolute legend! She was incredibly strong and resilient both mentally and physically, almost super human, with the greatest attitude through it all. So young and yet so wise, I've learnt so much from her so I'll always be grateful to her for sharing her journey x

  • @Cougar1212
    @Cougar1212 5 років тому +373

    This was pieced together WAY out of chronological order and could have been done much better. But if it gets peeps to watch Em's 267 episodes, well that's a good thing. Be prepared to smile, laugh, and cry. And cry. And cry. Miss you Em. Miss seeing you too Aish.

    • @Velocitygrl34
      @Velocitygrl34 5 років тому +12

      Johnny Mitch For Tom or member’s of his team, they probably experienced later things FIRST when meeting Em... idk that chronological applies here. Beautiful job ♥️

    • @mampanza3233
      @mampanza3233 5 років тому +7

      I came across her channel and i've started to watch them from the beginning, it breaks my heart because she was such a happy and strong person.

    • @Velocitygrl34
      @Velocitygrl34 5 років тому +2

      Slindz you should check out her vlog , I watch and rewatch over and over xoxo

    • @samsams8203
      @samsams8203 5 років тому +12

      I’ve just finished them and now I feel sad and depressed because she was such a wonderful human being! :(

    • @Velocitygrl34
      @Velocitygrl34 5 років тому +8

      Sam Sams awww Sam Sam . I think it hits me in waves, and then I watch them again at random times and it hits again and I get sad. There’s a joy there too, there has to be a reason we keep watching. Sending u love and light xoxo

  • @carolehanrahan
    @carolehanrahan 5 років тому +139

    I followed Emily's journey and she touched me and my heart and mind with her spirit. She and Aisha were such a wonderful couple and I can only imagine the pain Aisha is going through to find her way after Emily's passing. My sons, two of whom have brain cancer, are doing okay right now but I think that listening and watching Emily has helped me cope with what is going on and what may lie ahead. God bless Emily and thank you for sharing your life.

    • @mweusimrembo890
      @mweusimrembo890 5 років тому +4

      I wish you & your son's well & good & peaceful life

    • @luvlimiss2007
      @luvlimiss2007 5 років тому +1

      Sending you & your family love ❤️

    • @E_w_a
      @E_w_a 4 роки тому

      I hope your son is all right x

    • @carolehanrahan
      @carolehanrahan 4 роки тому +1

      @@E_w_a Thank you for your kind concern. Both of my sons are doing allright for now which is a blessing.

    • @E_w_a
      @E_w_a 4 роки тому

      @@carolehanrahan thank you for the reply. Great to hear positive news. Stay strong and all the best

  • @Bee-ly4gx
    @Bee-ly4gx 9 місяців тому +4

    So heartbreaking but she still made me smile when I wanted to cry.

  • @cherryhardy5779
    @cherryhardy5779 Рік тому +4

    We miss you Emily xx

  • @shell2727
    @shell2727 5 років тому +133

    I watch one Emily video every day. It reminds me to live. And live WELL. That girl is my hero. She squeezed every moment she could out of life and even though it was cut short, she proved that it is the quality not the length that is important. If you want to be inspired daily, please go watch her channel. It is uplifting in ways I can’t explain.

    • @agutfog1031
      @agutfog1031 4 роки тому +10

      You’ve hit the nail on the head, I also cannot explain why I find her channel so uplifting, but it really has had an effect on me that is beneficial both for my health and for my mental outlook.

    • @Sparky12355
      @Sparky12355 4 роки тому +5

      shell2727 same here

    • @lynjones9339
      @lynjones9339 4 роки тому +1

      Emily and Dan
      Where inspiration RIP you two xx

  • @overthedio97
    @overthedio97 5 років тому +12

    The way Aisha handled it all is so unbelievable. I never met Emily but she lived my Aunt’s hometown Croydon and I watched every video of hers. When she passed I cried all night. I missed her like she was a friend but that’s the way she made you feel when you watched her. She made you feel like family and I miss her like family ❤️

    • @sarahmilner8483
      @sarahmilner8483 3 роки тому +2

      I miss her too. I watch her all the time. I never ever tíre of the vlogs. Sometimes I feel I should stop for fear I'll draw cancer into my life but I can't. Who would think a vlog with lots of cancer in it could be so uplifting so motivating and just so home to us all. She really did make us feel like friends. I'd love so so much if she was still uploading and still living and smashing her life on the daily.

    • @sallyphillips9175
      @sallyphillips9175 2 роки тому +1

      She lived in Canterbury up until the last six months of her life when she lived with Aisha's parents in Bromley so she could be close to the Royal Marsden.

  • @reemclaughlin4260
    @reemclaughlin4260 11 місяців тому +8

    Emily was a force to be reckoned with. So wise and smart before her years. I want to know how her wife is doing anyone?

    • @lucyobrien1617
      @lucyobrien1617 10 місяців тому +3

      She's doing well. She's on Instagram. She has a son too. Always posting about Emily 😊❤

    • @annrose3447
      @annrose3447 8 місяців тому

      @@lucyobrien1617 whats her @?

    • @YTCancerCommunity
      @YTCancerCommunity 2 місяці тому

      @@annrose3447 just looks for aisha hayward-hasan. she's verified.

  • @sangellaferro
    @sangellaferro 4 роки тому +20

    JUST seeing this today, Feb 19, 2020 ... was JUST telling my new man about Emily & Aisha. His wife died from melanoma as well, and Emily came up in conversation. Who could EVER forget her & the love story of her & Aisha? Such a brilliant couple and whatta woman Emily was. Much love to all.

  • @samantha4130
    @samantha4130 5 років тому +28

    I watched her story real time. It was one of the saddest things I’ve seen.

  • @nickelliott1983
    @nickelliott1983 4 роки тому +10

    Emily’s story has made me realise that YOU ONLY GET ONE SHOT SO MAKE THE MOST OF IT , what an inspirational girl full of fight right until the end , I’m just in awe of her !!!
    I need to make 2020 the year all my doubts fears and moaning about shit go away and LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST!!!
    RIP xx
    PS AISHA YOUR A LEDGE TOO AND ARE IN MY THOUGHTS X

  • @julespowell4896
    @julespowell4896 Рік тому +3

    I miss you Em. x Beautiful soul you are. RIP. x

  • @ayla19791
    @ayla19791 4 роки тому +36

    I followed Emily's journey for a long time. I remember when I found out she died I was in the garden and could not stop crying. I was a mess. She was such a strong lovely girl. Had amazing personality traits in the midst of all this pain she was thoughtful of others and wanted to spread awareness. She taught me the importance of doing weight training and taking better care of myself. Emily and her wife had a beautiful relationship which has certainly demonstrated to a lot of "sceptics" that love is love. I believe these two girls did a lot for the LGBT community just by being themselves.

  • @JustJoMix
    @JustJoMix 5 років тому +79

    Can't believe it's been nearly a year, Emily Hayward-Hasan you will always be a total legend. xxx

  • @lynntina2357
    @lynntina2357 5 років тому +71

    Emily Heywood a true inspiration and wish she was still here. I miss you Emily. 😢💔

    • @melanieblake2689
      @melanieblake2689 5 років тому +3

      Lynn huni your not the only one that still wishes she was still here I no how you feel Hun bloody cancer but I want u to know that Emily is watching over us from heaven I truly believe that girl

    • @AafkeKastelijn
      @AafkeKastelijn 5 років тому +7

      Hayward'

    • @donaldchris888
      @donaldchris888 3 роки тому

      Hello Lynn

  • @desiertoscacti5388
    @desiertoscacti5388 2 роки тому +28

    RIP Emily, what a beautiful, clever, funny person you were! My condolences to your loved ones.

  • @chamberpaint
    @chamberpaint 4 роки тому +6

    I only noticed this remarkable girl when the announcement of her passing came to my feed, last week. . I watched about six videos of her that day, weeping AND laughing, and falling in love with this smart, beautiful couple. I'm gutted, knowing she's gone, just now getting to know this spirited, incredible young woman, and wishing so much she was still in the world. Thank you for sharing her. I'll never forget her, and plan to watch every video. Sending love to all of you.💗💕💔💗

  • @pineapplesongs
    @pineapplesongs 5 років тому +51

    when I found out Emily had died I was devastated, I didn't know her but through her videos which I watched daily I felt like I did, she will be missed x

  • @user-bd5qo9os4b
    @user-bd5qo9os4b 3 роки тому +3

    Emily and Aisha... truly beautiful people.

  • @caroljordt8045
    @caroljordt8045 Рік тому +2

    We miss you alot Emily!

  • @Terriersontour
    @Terriersontour Рік тому +2

    I watched Emily from when she first set up her YT channel never thinking the same could happen to me, but today here I am diagnosed with melanoma on the back of my thigh in Feb 2022

  • @2legit64
    @2legit64 3 роки тому +7

    Emily's wife was an absolute rock star through all of this. I'm so glad that Emily had her for love and support.

  • @mrwonderful2081
    @mrwonderful2081 7 місяців тому +3

    I wouldn’t even be able to walk, that’s how devastated I would be.

  • @mjhay1830
    @mjhay1830 2 роки тому +3

    I lost my husband to malignant melanoma which spread to his brain. (Leptomeningeal carcinoma). It was a horrible rapid decline in the end. Our children were only 2&4. This has brought back memories, I can remember him trying to remember our daughters name once and being so frustrated. He was only 42 when he died.

  • @drrd4127
    @drrd4127 2 роки тому +5

    Oh no! My heart dropped when he said "progression in the bones", you poor soul, I am so sorry. You are so beautiful and positive. A great light to others. Heaven is blessed to have you. RIP sweetheart.

  • @curiouscoconut951
    @curiouscoconut951 5 років тому +20

    Emily= Strong like bull 🐂
    Anyone who followed ems story and read through her comments will know how much those three little words randomly appeared.
    Emily’s pure strength, beauty and will to live reached so many, I never knew her personally but I will certainly never forget her and the lessons she taught me...
    Love is Everything 💖💖💖

  • @Corkyrooster
    @Corkyrooster 2 роки тому +5

    Im happy she had love and married her soul mate. She was a bright soul. RIP the fight is over

  • @reberuth2335
    @reberuth2335 Рік тому +2

    I so miss her vlogs, it’s just not fair

  • @lindastanley229
    @lindastanley229 Рік тому +3

    Always in our hearts dear Emm xx

  • @TheRoarWithin
    @TheRoarWithin Рік тому +6

    A true warrior with an out of this world personality. It’s horrible to witness such a lovely person go through this much pain.

  • @fionamesser3486
    @fionamesser3486 5 років тому +91

    I followedEmilys story which affected me very deeply. This is a beautiful tribute to her. 💖

  • @Tomas-major
    @Tomas-major Рік тому +2

    You touched my heart Emily, 10 months after you passed, my partner was diagnosed with liver cancer and he passed away last year. I still think about you and I hope you and Paul are somewhere safe and are now healed xxx

  • @sophiew1967
    @sophiew1967 2 роки тому +2

    I saw Emily's story tonight on Gogglebox SU2C for the 3 rd time in 2yrs...I still cried like a baby from beginning to end ! I have a life limiting illness myself and am totally alone..her story well actually the pure love that surrounded her until the very last day was probably why I cried..beautiful.I looked at her wife Aisha' s final video on Emily's UA-cam channel and found out some I credible news..that Aisha & Emily actually became parents in 2020.. so Emily became a mum 2yrs after her death..it was EXACTLY what I for one needed to hear x
    ❤ 🚼❤

  • @lilylees5971
    @lilylees5971 5 років тому +17

    I watched her for so long that when she passed it literally broke my heart. RIP Emily you angel xx

  • @superbadgirl82
    @superbadgirl82 2 роки тому +5

    I found her vlog a few months ago. So sad to realise she's lost her battle with this horrible disease. God bless Aisha and the rest of her family. So unfair.

  • @brendapaul5950
    @brendapaul5950 Рік тому +1

    I miss Emily!! Rest up Sweet Lady. You lived to the end.

  • @brilliantatbreakfast
    @brilliantatbreakfast 5 років тому +2

    Emily's life was so much more than cancer. I'm sad that this introduction to her for so many people was such a sad one. It doesn't really capture her indomitable spirit right till the end, and some of these are out of sequence. Emily was a force of nature and never let cancer interfere with LIFE. THAT is the message I wish you had chosen to convey, not this sad one. I hope everyone who was touched by this takes the time to visit Emily's UA-cam channel and watches her entire story. I never met her but I think of her often and I know I will never forget her. We owe it to remember how ALIVE she was, not only the sad parts at the end.

  • @vaniareyneke4761
    @vaniareyneke4761 3 роки тому +5

    I am still watching. Em inspires always. I also miss London. She could have done a food vlog,a travel vlog.

  • @englishmadcow7461
    @englishmadcow7461 Рік тому +3

    I think of you still and hope you are at peace.

  • @melissajohnson780
    @melissajohnson780 2 роки тому +1

    Aisha is freaking gorgeous! Especially in her wedding dress. Stunning.

  • @Pittbull13
    @Pittbull13 2 роки тому +2

    December the 15th 2018 I was diagnosed with nhl burketts. The doctor who did my biopsy was an ass. The nurse came to my hospital room and said the doctor wants to speak to you. Sam you have a very large mass in your stomach and someone will be getting back to you. click he hung up. all night long all I could think that I was going to die. I have received 22 blood transfusions, six months of intense chemo. Three life threatening events( close to death). I am embarrassed and ashamed that I have had cancer. It is like you are broken and kinda put back with chemicals.
    RIP Emily you are brave

  • @redhead3uk
    @redhead3uk 5 років тому +57

    I grew to love this girl and her Aisha after watching her videos over the months. What an incredibly brave and strong woman she was. Even though we knew it would be soon, it was such a shock when she passed away. RIP Em xxx

  • @hermionerivers4302
    @hermionerivers4302 4 роки тому +5

    my cancer journey started yesterday and i’m terrified but just watching a few of her videos really made me feel strong and ready to push through what i know is going to be a very tough time

  • @ElizabethNoelleK
    @ElizabethNoelleK 5 років тому +9

    Emily I did not forget yesterday June 26 was the day you left our world a little less filled with love. Such love, Joy, and encouragement you blessed us all with. You gifted me with your smile and wisdom. Rest In Peace sweet ☝️ one! Always loved and missed forever! Send my love to you Aisha! ❤️🌹

  • @andrewwest5344
    @andrewwest5344 2 роки тому +8

    Fantastic tribute to Emily. I returned here today to remember her fight, and what an unbelievable fight she gave this cancer. Such an intelligent young girl. What tragedy! And her Aisha was there through the terrible journey and gave her so much care and love.

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely agree. She was such a strong woman, and Aleisha such a loving support for Emily.
      I often think of them both. RIP Emily.

  • @mariearmstrong1258
    @mariearmstrong1258 5 років тому +32

    Both these young ladies went through this journey with compassion, grace and dignity.
    Thank you from taking all of us with you.

  • @marilyntonelli8832
    @marilyntonelli8832 Рік тому +3

    How brave is this woman

  • @marissafrances6318
    @marissafrances6318 4 роки тому +1

    I followed her every time she posted. I wanted the very best for her and I am sad without her in the world. I love Aisha. She is lovely.

  • @rockingjamie
    @rockingjamie 4 роки тому +6

    Truly the perfect couple. As inspirational as one another. Like two unyielding pillars of strength and support.

  • @kimbokim927
    @kimbokim927 2 роки тому +6

    i can't believe i miss someone so much that i never even met
    i remember following Em around 2016 and i looked so forward to every new video and update
    she lived her life to the fullest and it made me forgot how ill she truly was :(
    so when i saw the update from Ayisha made my stomach drop....i miss her videos so much...if i ever believed anyone would beat such a terminal illness it was Em
    rest it peace you legend ...i hope there's a paradise full of nandos and porridge bowls lol