How to ATTRACT A KING 🤴🏽 ❤️💍

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  • @ContrarianExpatriate
    @ContrarianExpatriate 5 років тому +1886

    The problem is not so much the men you attract, but the men you agree to ACCEPT into your life. Therein lies the problem!

    • @ebonyr.b.1216
      @ebonyr.b.1216 5 років тому +15

      preach

    • @newmove7068
      @newmove7068 4 роки тому +8

      Thank you sir, peace and blessings

    • @skywatchersdreams
      @skywatchersdreams 4 роки тому +50

      Thats very true, but if you only attract a certain type, you don't have anything else to choose.

    • @uniquejohnson5516
      @uniquejohnson5516 4 роки тому +4

      Aint nothing but the truth

    • @Chenaultchic
      @Chenaultchic 4 роки тому +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @LizRainey56
    @LizRainey56 4 роки тому +193

    I was married to a King for 40 years. You are absolutely right about what a King is. He was larger than life. Rest in Peace.

  • @mariaesther5605
    @mariaesther5605 4 роки тому +229

    My next relationship is gonna be lit! I second that!

  • @TiffanyMarieMorris
    @TiffanyMarieMorris 4 роки тому +516

    DON'T MATCH HIS ENERGY WHEN HES UPSET : A WORD

    • @tammyjones6703
      @tammyjones6703 4 роки тому +2

      Me to

    • @tammyjones6703
      @tammyjones6703 4 роки тому +2

      This is good

    • @Lilianajmusic
      @Lilianajmusic 4 роки тому +3

      so when he’s screaming/yelling at you, what do u do?

    • @ohohnenyeoo2654
      @ohohnenyeoo2654 4 роки тому +25

      Liliana J talk to him in a very rational way and with a calm and steady voice. Never ever match his tone.

    • @KCUARISMA
      @KCUARISMA 4 роки тому +23

      This is something i can agree 100%. Keep your voice low pitched dont raise your voice with him and always remember its not a yellong match. Its us vs the problem. Always take a break instead of arguing back. !

  • @dawnstewart9298
    @dawnstewart9298 4 роки тому +311

    Your man should be your protector

    • @LonjeMarie7
      @LonjeMarie7 4 роки тому +3

      Dawn Cole ONLY if he sees you as a KEEPER not a throwback!

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 4 роки тому +7

      You protect each other. He should give you Security.

  • @SPARKWISDOM
    @SPARKWISDOM 2 роки тому +102

    I’m happy to say I watched all of MJ’s videos on attracting men and femininity and within one year, my Superman proposed to and we’re getting married. Everything he teaches works!

    • @xyz-gx9oy
      @xyz-gx9oy 6 місяців тому +1

      Wow! Congratulations! 🎉❤

  • @mzyogi77
    @mzyogi77 4 роки тому +1001

    I just found you and I’m so addicted to your energy 😘😘😘 hey BESTIE!

    • @jvstkiki
      @jvstkiki 4 роки тому +5

      Chyna Doll me too girl, love it! ☺️😍

    • @mzyogi77
      @mzyogi77 4 роки тому +7

      I’m telling you it’s so refreshing to hear this

    • @nba178
      @nba178 4 роки тому +1

      @Chyna Doll - Same here, lol. I just love him 🥰

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 роки тому

      Same

    • @ms.miwitdatbul520
      @ms.miwitdatbul520 4 роки тому +1

      Chyna Doll me too he is very addictive.

  • @nba178
    @nba178 4 роки тому +223

    “Á man sees before he hears...” 💅🏾

    • @JudgeJulieLit
      @JudgeJulieLit 4 роки тому +8

      "A man sees better than he thinks."

  • @ribaker822
    @ribaker822 2 роки тому +43

    "There's no unconditional love except your mother's". So true. 🙌🏾

  • @jarid114
    @jarid114 4 роки тому +287

    Only you can make a 54 minute video feel like it’s a 10 minute long video packed with life changing information. I needed all of this in my life.

    • @oeu3669
      @oeu3669 4 роки тому +6

      Jay D LITERALLY. Every second I want to watch!!!! I wish he was my friend! I got ADHD and this is the FIRST Video in YEARS I AM GRIPPED EVERY PASSING SECOND and it feels so good!! He’s just so funny! I feel like I’m there!!!! Like he’s talking to me! It’s brilliant!

  • @pattypattygirl
    @pattypattygirl 4 роки тому +120

    I'm attracted to a man who KNOWS how to maneuver in all situations with wisdom

  • @hannahkamara9306
    @hannahkamara9306 3 роки тому +16

    “Girl you can also stay single too” the way I screamed!!!😂😂❤️❤️

  • @regineisabelle
    @regineisabelle 4 роки тому +725

    There’s no such thing as unconditional love unless it’s your momma! Everybody else got conditions... preach! 😂 😂 😂

  • @chanellynel
    @chanellynel 4 роки тому +375

    I love making men feel needed and useful. I don't even order my own meals on first dates. I love to pretend that the menu has too many options and it would be better if he just picked out something he'd think I like. Clearly I'm capable of picking out my own meal but I love watching a man take control while I just sip my wine and be pretty LOL

    • @frenchvanilla7109
      @frenchvanilla7109 4 роки тому +16

      YES! 👸🏼

    • @levettabrown689
      @levettabrown689 4 роки тому +16

      I'm gonna try that

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 роки тому +20

      That is just stupid, he can make plans but I should get to decide MY part! I am not eating with a guy though, but something else. I AM CAPABLE!

    • @damarishamilton68
      @damarishamilton68 4 роки тому +5

      I like tht, take control baby 🤣❤️

    • @LonjeMarie7
      @LonjeMarie7 4 роки тому +2

      Chanelly YES YES !

  • @MemorableEssay
    @MemorableEssay 5 років тому +316

    The lower tone works every time. Just drop your tone, and all will be well in 3-2-1.

    • @mildredwalker5426
      @mildredwalker5426 4 роки тому +2

      ola i luv u

    • @CrystalDatingCoach
      @CrystalDatingCoach 4 роки тому +24

      I don't argue with ANYONE. We disagree. We discuss. Amen.

    • @fionam4934
      @fionam4934 4 роки тому +4

      Oh my gosh - I did that the other day and it worked!

    • @benyounessalma2461
      @benyounessalma2461 3 роки тому +4

      I’m trying to do that ! I’m a yelling person 😬

    • @Lanika1979
      @Lanika1979 3 роки тому +1

      Even if i talk in a lower tone it doesn't work everybody.

  • @lakendralakendra8216
    @lakendralakendra8216 4 роки тому +74

    In my head MJ is my best friend 🥰 period 💁🏾‍♀️

  • @Sirkassidysworld
    @Sirkassidysworld 4 роки тому +435

    Mj is like the Gay black Oprah 2 me lol..I love him

    • @kearneyjohnl7
      @kearneyjohnl7 4 роки тому +6

      He really is! His energy is out the roof!

    • @ruthroberts3053
      @ruthroberts3053 4 роки тому +2

      You ain’t never lied!

    • @brigitblu4
      @brigitblu4 4 роки тому

      Yes

    • @sylviasylvia8551
      @sylviasylvia8551 4 роки тому +2

      He is like the Gay black Oprah??? No what makes you think that Oprah is not gay? Think about it. LOL

    • @brigitblu4
      @brigitblu4 4 роки тому +1

      @@sylviasylvia8551 sirkassidy said for them bit valid point lol

  • @TeAireGriffin
    @TeAireGriffin 4 роки тому +57

    I need a confronter, a man who is comfortable with confronting his feelings about things and owning it! That part!!!!! I can't stand a man who can say everything else but when it's time to talk emotions he go from man to baby! Just be real. Thats the kind of man I want to attract. Im not built for no other type of man 🎯🎯

  • @Lulubelles
    @Lulubelles 4 роки тому +209

    I just Found you, WOW and I'm not letting you go❤😉

  • @corinaweber9014
    @corinaweber9014 4 роки тому +96

    Oh my God I cried when you told me how to handle a king when he's angry. I usually yell back at him. I will learn to mother him. I subscribed to your channel.

  • @SuperFaith4ever
    @SuperFaith4ever 5 років тому +162

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼, 63 and WOW never to old to learn. WOW!!!

    • @gratitude5740
      @gratitude5740 4 роки тому +5

      Freethinker4ever
      Isn't it little embarrassing?
      Lived so many decades and learning from this young guy!
      52here .

    • @uniquejohnson5516
      @uniquejohnson5516 4 роки тому +2

      Never baby

    • @uniquejohnson5516
      @uniquejohnson5516 4 роки тому +5

      @@gratitude5740 nooooo.. unfortunately we all got crosses to bear. No one goes unscathed in this life.

    • @zahraalmahdi8717
      @zahraalmahdi8717 4 роки тому +3

      @@uniquejohnson5516 👍

    • @shieldoffaith7099
      @shieldoffaith7099 4 роки тому +10

      @@gratitude5740 Noway hun... I'm 49 always learning developing to be my personal best 💎till the day I die ®️

  • @Valentinathevamp
    @Valentinathevamp Рік тому +7

    Thank you. I've been saying that for years. There's no such thing as unconditional love unless it's your parents and children.

  • @pamelaweaver8690
    @pamelaweaver8690 5 років тому +288

    Damn, wish you'd been around when I was a younger woman.🤦‍♀️

    • @brigitblu4
      @brigitblu4 4 роки тому +5

      Same befor I ended up w my babies dad who was straight trash I was in love w a bum took 10 years to see I'm a queen

    • @AhlamKassab
      @AhlamKassab 4 роки тому +11

      It’s never too late 😘

    • @Jennifer-Guerlain
      @Jennifer-Guerlain 4 роки тому +10

      He is around now so take it from here & have a brighter future...

    • @earlinebeaman684
      @earlinebeaman684 4 роки тому +6

      What's age got to do with it?

    • @iwantthechisme1338
      @iwantthechisme1338 4 роки тому +9

      @@earlinebeaman684 because when you're younger the information is more prevalent and needed so you wont have regrets in the future

  • @Missprimnproper
    @Missprimnproper 4 роки тому +175

    That is exactly what I do when he takes me to fancy restaurants. I compliment him often on his taste and he continously tries to impress me to see my reaction. It keeps getting better ladies. They love feeling like Kings. When he is on the couch watching TV, I love to climb behind him and massage his shoulders and give tender kisses. Tell him you appreciate him often. It will make him do more. Do Wear lingerie.

    • @somebodytolove1902
      @somebodytolove1902 4 роки тому +3

      Virtuous-Woman Thanks, love. I’ll keep that in mind. 👍🏻😊

    • @elainecrutcher674
      @elainecrutcher674 3 роки тому +14

      Did that to the one who I was with. Still, got disrespected, lied too, cheated on by a narcissist's who always think I was stupid when I know he was creeping around. SO DONE.

    • @quinniebrunner
      @quinniebrunner 3 роки тому +9

      And at the end. They end up cheating🤦‍♀️✌😅

  • @rosesolorio81
    @rosesolorio81 4 роки тому +80

    Yes I'm always always the caregiver for every one around me I'm exhausted....🤯 I need someone to love and care for me as well

    • @StandupGirl-ym3ey
      @StandupGirl-ym3ey 4 роки тому +7

      Yessss! I'm a single mother and even a nurse and I'm starting to hate it! 😞😞

    • @redafro321
      @redafro321 4 роки тому +1

      @rose solorio, JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS🤗‼️BE AVAILABLE FOR VERBAL ADVICE & AT WHOLE LOT LESS CAREGIVING. ONCE YOU DO THIS YOU’LL FEEL BETTER🤗‼️

  • @endusepo
    @endusepo 2 роки тому +8

    I lost my king. 9 years in marriage I miss him and the energy he came with. Rip king

  • @newmove7068
    @newmove7068 4 роки тому +120

    The ONLY thing missing is a good bottle of wine, good food, laughs, jewels dropping and a fire!!!! MJ you are so dope!!! Official friend in my head telling me to get it together, this that and the third!!!🥂🙌🏽✨💎

  • @Pur3Socialite
    @Pur3Socialite 4 роки тому +142

    Damnit you are so amazing. In 2020 we are attracting KINGS!!!

  • @denik9614
    @denik9614 4 роки тому +305

    The first step is admitting you need a man. Most black women say "i don't need a man" be soft and sweet. Stop cursing and being loud and arguementive. LOOK good always and smell even better. I need a man. Most women want a man in their life protecting and providing for them.
    Say it with me to change your mindset "i do want and need a man" dont that feel so much better? 😘

    • @ronnietoni819
      @ronnietoni819 4 роки тому +5

      Denik desire

    • @camilleandriette
      @camilleandriette 4 роки тому +12

      Denik Agree. I had to change my mindset on this. For years I kept saying “I don’t need a man”. Now I get it.

    • @imwatching2960
      @imwatching2960 4 роки тому

      Yessss very well said!

    • @msve3730
      @msve3730 4 роки тому +1

      I'm listening 🙋‍♀️

    • @carolinagonzalez4057
      @carolinagonzalez4057 4 роки тому +14

      Same for Hispanic woman

  • @CROBERTSON90
    @CROBERTSON90 4 роки тому +357

    He gets to the advice piece at 17 minutes. Save you some time.

  • @tolovly14
    @tolovly14 4 роки тому +97

    I gotta watch this at least five more times to keep it in my memory bank. Thank you for this video, it is much needed.

  • @msceceliarich...1474
    @msceceliarich...1474 4 роки тому +28

    This is beautiful advice. I have been married for 35 years, this is the key to a successful relationship. Sometimes I find i have to tone down and let him be in charge.
    You are so sweet, kind, wise and intelligent. I have a son your age. I am listening.

  • @mysticbluelight4223
    @mysticbluelight4223 3 роки тому +13

    U really helpful I am divorcing after 23 years of marriage. I was hurting so bad and afraid as I haven't had no dating experience. I was afraid I'll be alone
    I want a true king now
    Thank you so much 🙏

  • @mooshyface143
    @mooshyface143 4 роки тому +44

    Damn I’ve been so masculine because I’ve been soooo stuck in survival mode shhhhyt! I’m going to do this. Fall back. Too much stuck in a provider protective role.

  • @princess3808
    @princess3808 2 роки тому +11

    One extra: Single moms becareful treating your mate like your child. We work so hard to raise our child(ren) that it overlaps to your mate. In reverse it is not okay to feel you have to raise the mate either. You need a mate that supports, uplift, and benefits YOU. Some of us need to be strong for our kids and it may overlap in relationship.. you got this ❤👑

  • @raspberryboo2
    @raspberryboo2 4 роки тому +32

    we like to feel SECURE so naturally how much money he makes MATTERS!

  • @LadyS723
    @LadyS723 4 роки тому +90

    Him: When he hands you the item, then i say oh Thank you baby you so sweet & then his tail just go to wagging, wagging, wagging, shaking lol🐕🐕🐕🐕🐕 luv !t❤

  • @tamaraindigoqueendoyle4894
    @tamaraindigoqueendoyle4894 4 роки тому +23

    Omg !!!! I love strong confident men who is not afraid to be that Man..... Yesss MJ Harris. Not afraid to stand in his own power knowing what he can provide without getting insecure

  • @vibmeetup1355
    @vibmeetup1355 4 роки тому +50

    Wow, you helped me realize so much. Most guys felt like I don’t need them cus I didn’t and that made them feel useless with me.

  • @christinastevenson9595
    @christinastevenson9595 4 роки тому +9

    I LOVE this... I have always been in touch with my feminine energy but still needed how to direct it for my KING!
    One tip... If you can't reach something in a tall cabinet and wearing something that shows off your curves, get out that step stool and ask if he can hold your back while you grab something. See what happens 💋

  • @jessikaquiroga3055
    @jessikaquiroga3055 4 роки тому +10

    I love your advice MJ. As a 27 year old latina woman all my life I’ve been taught to be strong, independent and guarded. And while yes those are all good traits to have it also gave me the msg that men were somehow bad or trying to hurt me. I’ve always kept my guard up and never let men in and honestly it’s EXHAUSTING and LONELY. In the passed few months Gods taken me on a journey to embrace my femininity. I am not ashamed to say that I need the companionship of a man. And that men are not my arch nemesis that I must contend with, but my partners in life’s journey. It feels so good to hear you share advice that encourages us ladies to lean into our femininity and to allow ourselves to be taken care of. Your advice is empowering and very intuitive.

  • @VioletRaya
    @VioletRaya 4 роки тому +7

    MJ! You are the ONLY person that I have found on UA-cam that gives relationship advice with EXAMPLES!!! I’m someone that learns only by scenarios and examples! Thankyou!!! 😘😘😘💗🌹

  • @michelleautore2945
    @michelleautore2945 4 роки тому +22

    This is wisdom. This is how the old mothers used to teach. Great video!

  • @roserodriguez582
    @roserodriguez582 4 роки тому +36

    You are simply amazing life coach. I love that you even use your personal life stories. You must make a great friend to others.

  • @hopejackson1319
    @hopejackson1319 4 роки тому +2

    I shoulda been watched this. This is why you don't have to chase anything, as you are the actual space you breathe in. Thank you for sharing.

  • @satines6045
    @satines6045 4 роки тому +6

    Im a 6f woman and I never had problems being feminine, I never got a rude comment because of my height, its all about the energy and your attitude. I am a fresh subscriber and I really enjoy your videos!
    ❤️

  • @nicolastewart8520
    @nicolastewart8520 4 роки тому +9

    When MJ says she said " I'm dressed and you are not " 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍 I can't get enough of you MJ...lol

    • @Kit97one
      @Kit97one 4 роки тому

      LMFAOOOOO got me laughing by myself in the train 🤣😭🤣👏🏾👏🏾

  • @BlkMagickGaia3
    @BlkMagickGaia3 4 роки тому +57

    "I'm strong and independent "= masculine energy.
    I don't mind approaching the man, asking him out, going Dutch, paying for the date, leaving the tip, splitting bills 50/50= masculine energy.
    If I knew then, what I know now...

  • @29dreambig
    @29dreambig 4 роки тому +34

    Talk that Talk!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    **pulls up a chair with a notepad**

  • @valariecooper3039
    @valariecooper3039 Рік тому +3

    Yes!! My next relationship is going to be lit lit too!!!! Thank you, I am going to go out next week!! I'm going to put my best dressed on too!!

  • @sparklesdiva310
    @sparklesdiva310 4 роки тому +27

    It made me very sad when MJ said " areas in their lives that make them feel useless" and it's so true.

  • @moongoddess987
    @moongoddess987 4 роки тому +7

    I'm addicted to your energy MJ, I decide to stay at home today just to watch your videos🥰💕

  • @rogeniagreen7945
    @rogeniagreen7945 4 роки тому +27

    I'm nowhere near your level, but bae bae I am learning a lot from your discussions...I make it my business to learn something new everyday...Much luv

  • @imwatching2960
    @imwatching2960 4 роки тому +24

    Man your energy and knowledge is incredible! You're a blessing! There were not even one person in my life in my almost 40 yrs who would teach me this kind if viewpoint. My whole life would have been different. Can't wait for more. Thank you!

  • @lisbethpichardo7755
    @lisbethpichardo7755 4 роки тому +50

    I could of save myself so much time and heartache if i just would of find this vid like 3 years ago. I’m thankful i found it though :)

    • @yvonneuriarte2429
      @yvonneuriarte2429 4 роки тому +1

      I wish I had found "MJ Harris, You Tube Videos" back in late 2017 to end of 2019, it would have saved me $50,000 and much heart ache over a BIG ASS JERK.
      I'm now READY to find MY KING!

  • @_prettybrownbrown7729
    @_prettybrownbrown7729 3 роки тому +1

    That really helps when you speak about handling arguments . Not raising your voice . That’s something I need to work on . Thank you !!!

  • @timeka30
    @timeka30 5 років тому +58

    MJ!!!! Thank you Thank you for this video. I really needed this. My next relationship will be completely different!!!! Love you much. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dianemurphy9412
    @dianemurphy9412 2 роки тому +1

    Hello MJ. This is my first time making a comment.. I really like your videos. I am 68 now, been married twice and it is time for a new man. Just listening to you makes me smile. Never to old for a eye opener🙂

  • @iolanisjourney4828
    @iolanisjourney4828 4 роки тому +4

    "His tail just be wagging" I LOVE your videos, you give solid advice and your fun personality and humor makes it that much more enjoyable to watch. Thank you 💜

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      @dicksonrichardson6703 3 роки тому

      Hello do you need help why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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  • @quynhthai817
    @quynhthai817 5 місяців тому

    I love how you set up a space where love can enter to take care of challenging emotions, instead of ego. Thank you for sharing this

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 4 роки тому +69

    MJ has me laughing on each video. Great videos. Omg my ex had problems with me getting too much attention.....when you lean into the feminine energy, it will attract very masculine energy.

  • @living9377
    @living9377 4 роки тому +1

    This video is what all women need to watch. Facts upon facts upon facts. Thank you for sharing!

  • @jessroberts1881
    @jessroberts1881 4 роки тому +30

    Everything I needed to hear. Now I have a starting point on where to begin the work within myself. Thank you so much 😘

  • @mimiescyberandstockcorner-4975
    @mimiescyberandstockcorner-4975 10 місяців тому +1

    OK, I officialy love you boo boo, I appreciate your videos!

  • @ssyynnn
    @ssyynnn 4 роки тому +38

    I’m so glad I found your channel. This Queen is ready to attract her King hunny 😘😘

  • @johnniereneehaakenson6961
    @johnniereneehaakenson6961 Рік тому +2

    Since I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to turn my energy down and if we get into it, I make sure that he knows I’m listening and hear him but we always make sure we’re good before going to bed

  • @minidom4713
    @minidom4713 4 роки тому +106

    “ you can also stay single too “ 😂😂💛

  • @evicoronado
    @evicoronado 4 роки тому +2

    Your aura is so bright I love it!! You’re literally glowing

  • @brittanyb1955
    @brittanyb1955 4 роки тому +20

    Yes this is so good!I got into it with my man and was yelling and I really hurt him. I'm glad we were able to get through it and are back together and I will def be using these tips! omgg you are everything!

  • @Nat-rv3cp
    @Nat-rv3cp 4 роки тому +85

    "Do you ever notice how I look when I get out the house?"
    "Yes honey done done done done done!"
    "Yes and you are not."
    LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO I literally died.

  • @azelms.chazjones8653
    @azelms.chazjones8653 4 роки тому +6

    Everything you have pointed out is 100% accurate! I had a love like that and she recently passed away. It took years to attract that energy. Thank you, @MJ.

  • @ulat14
    @ulat14 4 роки тому +2

    I wish I watch your videos before I started dating... could save me from heart breaks.
    I love you MJ!!

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 4 роки тому +3

    Three words I GUARANTEE to win his heart, ANYTHING he does right no matter how minor. Tell him YOURE MY HERO! YOU SAVED MY LIFE!

  • @sierrabonifazi-cosby9989
    @sierrabonifazi-cosby9989 4 роки тому +2

    he said you gone break him downnnnnnn yasssssssss preachhhh

  • @marmoilep.6143
    @marmoilep.6143 4 роки тому +141

    Whenever I watch this kind of videos I get excited to go out and look for a man, but ended up bringing take outs on the way home.

    • @CherryBerryFashion
      @CherryBerryFashion 4 роки тому +4

      😂😂

    • @levettabrown689
      @levettabrown689 4 роки тому

      Keep trying

    • @oeu3669
      @oeu3669 4 роки тому +2

      marmoile P. 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lechch
      @lechch 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Solebellachic
      @Solebellachic 4 роки тому +11

      But that's not it...you have to *attract* the man (feminine energy), not go get him (masculine energy)...

  • @lolathebee7069
    @lolathebee7069 2 роки тому

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, this is by far my favourite video on UA-cam. So many gems were dropped y’all don’t sleep!!!!!!

  • @BBGshop7
    @BBGshop7 4 роки тому +3

    This video right here is what changed my LIFE.
    I have GROWN and matured so much in my perspective on dating, and my self esteem. "Lean IN to your femininity".
    I Will never forget this, and it absolutely WORKED. I wasn't even trying, but the attraction just happened. I'm a very simple lady, but these TIPS boosted my confidence and self-esteem. I had been misinformed about how to be in a relationship. knowledge is key and this has been a very freeing year..
    thanks for asking that question, thanks for sharing your story.

  • @deea745
    @deea745 4 роки тому +10

    I’m in my 60’s and I wish I had learned these learns years ago. I need to learned a about my feminine energy.

  • @andredshn
    @andredshn 4 роки тому +22

    This man is the truth! 👍🏿

  • @Therealryanmadison-
    @Therealryanmadison- 4 роки тому +33

    Omg you’re so handsome and vibrant! 🤗❤️

  • @amiyaf9412
    @amiyaf9412 4 роки тому +33

    Ready to attract my king

  • @peggiecartwright5948
    @peggiecartwright5948 4 роки тому +5

    YOU CRACKED ME UP WITH THAT LINE ' GIRL, YOU CAN STAY SINGLE!"🤣 LOVE YOU!

  • @reginafalconer7585
    @reginafalconer7585 4 роки тому +5

    Love a strong man....if he can handle me on the real,we can deal but most can't.. .I'm a real people watcher. I'll watch how he treats others is a good indicator

    • @BlkMagickGaia3
      @BlkMagickGaia3 4 роки тому

      "Handle you"? You're a woman, not an animal, luggage, or a situation, why would you need "handling "?

  • @Judy_Its_JuJu
    @Judy_Its_JuJu Рік тому +1

    You get me right every time MJ. I really appreciate you and your advice. These videos have really helped me come out of a terrible place to a much softer life.

  • @igotyourback9175
    @igotyourback9175 4 роки тому +52

    The woman who gave you advice about leaning into your feminine energy to attract the kind of masculine energy you like sounds a lot like what a guy named astralboobaby, who's a very talented and gifted born seer wrote and talked about for years! He also said that we all have various degrees of masculine and feminine energies and no matter our sex, those masculine and feminine energies will be magnetized to one another based on metaphysical strengths in this regard. He has brilliantly explained that we have been nurtured to not understand and cultivate our true nature vs. nurture. The more I hear and read from others about this, I am realizing more and more that we have been grossly miseducated about human attraction and sexuality because we are so disconnected with nature. Great advice!

    • @sharonwilchcombe9801
      @sharonwilchcombe9801 4 роки тому +1

      Man you are something I going to step up my game, learning baby I let my know sweet he is and he LOVE it

    • @gailwilson5837
      @gailwilson5837 4 роки тому +1

      So true😊

    • @ademaray3301
      @ademaray3301 4 роки тому

      I Got Your Back whats that book?

    • @igotyourback9175
      @igotyourback9175 4 роки тому +4

      @@ademaray3301 It wasn't a book. It was from a youtuber who's channel name is astralboobaby. He drops a lot of deep and powerful gems to the point where youtube and google is keeping his channel from growing!

    • @ademaray3301
      @ademaray3301 4 роки тому

      Looking him up right away!!

  • @truthandjustice8552
    @truthandjustice8552 3 роки тому +11

    Thanks for dropping this knowledge! This was an extreme eye-opener for me and really explains why I lost my last relationship and I haven't wanted to date for the last 3 years. I'm a very capable woman, and always giving to my man and usually don't accept help, but I understand now that men need to feel needed. I need to tone down my masculine, strong, independent qualities and let him be the strong woman. Welp, it's too late now, but at least I'll know next time around. Thank you for this healing!

  • @WildAntics13
    @WildAntics13 4 місяці тому

    A man who is so secured is so generous and not seeking to be serve but to serve !!!

  • @kmariah01
    @kmariah01 4 роки тому +10

    I am so glad you popped up on my feed, what a Gem you are!

  • @lonjemariesfashions5117
    @lonjemariesfashions5117 4 роки тому +1

    EVERYTHING about you is BEAUTIFUL you take very good care of yourself!

  • @Tluv_1955
    @Tluv_1955 4 роки тому +29

    Ur so right never match his energy when he’s upset I tried that last time and mothered him instead and he was so turned on he couldn’t stop kissing me when we made up

  • @tyteallthetime
    @tyteallthetime 3 роки тому +1

    I get my wine ready before every video honey cause the tea spills, thanks for being you 🥂🙌🏾

    • @anitabrown1302
      @anitabrown1302 3 роки тому

      I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

    • @anitabrown1302
      @anitabrown1302 3 роки тому

      He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

    • @anitabrown1302
      @anitabrown1302 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him"**

  • @duggan3173
    @duggan3173 4 роки тому +5

    Appreciate your efforts to not just make your world a better place but that of others. You rock!!!

  • @victorialouise9758
    @victorialouise9758 3 роки тому +4

    A little late to the party but I am in awe of this advice. Everything makes perfect sense! Love your videos and the energy you exude. You’re a wonderful person and I have learnt a lot already! Please post more ❤️

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 4 роки тому +4

    Men have ALWAYS treated me like a Queen...because I demanded it. My best friend once said. "I can be pitiful all by myself" Best advice ever. Love your videos darling. I'm a Dating Coach here but I never miss your shows! Ciao from Milan!

  • @michael9085
    @michael9085 Рік тому

    WOW I’m tearing up . A king will tell u how to communicate about certain triggers and trauma 🎉❤❤

  • @smallbiztaxlady
    @smallbiztaxlady 4 роки тому +9

    I absolutely LOVE the way you tell a story! "The dog wasn't that cute, but he was cute enough.. o.k." lol.

  • @andreaclarke342
    @andreaclarke342 4 роки тому +2

    You keep me smiling and engaged. Happy I found you. Do more like these.. Love your confidence!

  • @river166
    @river166 5 років тому +25

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️love this THANK YOU 🙏🏾 I NEED THIS!! THIS IS GOLD!! And how can anyone dislike this?? This is sound advice.

  • @ieugeniya
    @ieugeniya 2 роки тому +2

    I adore you MJ ❤️🙏🏻! Thank you for everything you do for us 😘!

  • @DOM.EAGLE.CARTEL
    @DOM.EAGLE.CARTEL 4 роки тому +4

    I'm so excited and proud of you honestly and just be responsible with those options and just remember people are still people at the end of the day don't forget the real value and what love is I love you videos keep at it love love love it