MJ AFTER DARK... LIVE | How to Find (and Keep) a Man!!

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  • @MJHarrisSpeaks
    @MJHarrisSpeaks  Рік тому +88

    Thumbs up.. watch till then end! This one gets wild!

    • @GP4288
      @GP4288 Рік тому +1

      Yes it did QUEEN we needed this tuhday boo🤞

    • @bryantwilliams7149
      @bryantwilliams7149 Рік тому +6

      Thank u for bringing back MJ After Dark. I learn so much about relationships from you! Loved it!

    • @pallasa2032
      @pallasa2032 Рік тому +1

      We got the same eyes ….Pisces gang gang 🥰

    • @COUNTZ8975
      @COUNTZ8975 Рік тому +4

      I love being single it's much easier why do people have a problem with being single relationships ain't for everyone just like some woman don't want kids I'm fit 42 in August fit living my best life ain't I'm not worried bout no man

    • @mchlljls
      @mchlljls Рік тому +1

      Wildly funny😂😂😂

  • @darlenemerritt9591
    @darlenemerritt9591 Місяць тому +4

    MJ. I’ve been relatively sheltered most of my life and I have learned so much from your vids. Your advice for women is straight on. I love it, I love you. ❤

  • @MsDre13
    @MsDre13 Рік тому +15

    I met my now boyfriend on a dating site. I was so apprehensive about it, and I learned, so was he. At first i didn't want to tell people how we met, but i got over that. Just glad he swiped left lol😂😂

  • @LadyQInspires
    @LadyQInspires Рік тому +19

    You should not be broke dealing with a man period

    • @daniellej7914
      @daniellej7914 Рік тому +1

      Men shouldn’t be broke dealing with women either

  • @thereseaervin6383
    @thereseaervin6383 Рік тому +88

    I am 62 and I enjoy your videos ❤️. I'm a widower as well and you are always on point educating us. Thanks 👍

    • @janicebrown1291
      @janicebrown1291 Рік тому

      But You Broke And Broken ! 😂💯💯🤣😂😇♥️❤️😘🥰

    • @lywnnjohnson6130
      @lywnnjohnson6130 Рік тому +2

      Thanks M.J. I'm 69 and you do give excellent advice, thank you! I appreciate you and thank you so much for that word because I'm going through it with my daughters and they are coming at me from the left side of their mouthves and their necks,🤦🏾‍♀️ disrespectful and talkin to me like I'm their girlfriends or coworkers, so I'm like know what I'mma start pitying them pray for them and leave them right where they at, over there. Okay! I'm about to spread my wings, live my life like it's the last year. They got to have the last word they tell me I don't know what I'm talkin about, and I favor their brother but they brother don't disrespect me and that's why he's getting my respect and attention, but I always gave them my attention you know I was married to the father raise them three by myself. I finally divorced him in 2009 . I gave them my Blood Sweat Tears,pray ears, what money can't Buy. and that's all their father do throw money at them, but now all sudden mom your this, you not this and that or the third so sadd, God knows my journey and carried me when I couldn't carry myself and them!
      As long I live I'm a leave them over there. I'm going to have a great day🤗 and M.J. you have a great day too🏃🏿‍♀️🕊

  • @Kekebusinessmogul
    @Kekebusinessmogul Рік тому +15

    I met me a great, hard working, good character, alpha, handsome man online. MJ know what he talking about. Ladies while dating online I dated and met Dr's, engineers, business owners, plant workers etc...really good men looking for a good woman. MJ know what he talking about❤

  • @samston
    @samston Рік тому +34

    Don't worry about how to keep a man , worry how to serve the lord.

  • @Faustinembeh_backup
    @Faustinembeh_backup Рік тому +17

    😂😂😂😂I can't have multiple spirits in my bedroom lol! You cracked me up .I'm like that too girl 😂😂😂😂😂👌😘one man in bed with me it's enough lol! Can't date multiple men🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • @CrystalPhoenix1979
    @CrystalPhoenix1979 Рік тому +55

    I feel MJ on ppl’s opinions on who I’m dating too. I’m at a point in life where I just don’t care. They usually the single ones who have had horrible dating/ relationships experiences. The only thing I observe with them is what not to do. I have learned to keep who I’m with to myself cause ppl speak negativity before it even begins.

  • @JaniceTrades777
    @JaniceTrades777 5 місяців тому +2

    i was with a man who didn't like me; and it was obvious; like he didn't like me; he deserves pity at the most..ty MJ

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 Рік тому +22

    This is one of the funniest ask MJs.. I was in my car and almost had to pull over from laughing so much.

  • @ebonyeyes821
    @ebonyeyes821 Рік тому +28

    I'm 40 dating a 30 year old 😊 he is mature and we have a lot in common ❤

    • @iraidushka
      @iraidushka Рік тому +2

      I love that ❤👍

    • @iraidushka
      @iraidushka Рік тому +5

      I’m 46 and daring 38 year old and he is the best man I’ve ever had ❤

  • @Greatful0374
    @Greatful0374 Рік тому +12

    I have talked to many men from all walks of life, and you would NOT BELIEVE how most of them just do NOT know how to create a Date! Negotiate a day, time, and place to meet. It’s like pulling teeth. Wrong way: Wyd today? / Are you busy now?

  • @babeb1952
    @babeb1952 Рік тому +22

    This is someone I wished I had in my circle ⭕️… keep the rhythm. Keep the beat. Keep the rhythm keep the beat…. This was a Great VIDEO….

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  Рік тому +3

      Thanks for listening!

    • @GP4288
      @GP4288 Рік тому +3

      MJ the lil sis I never had I'm 43 so he's my lil sis 😜💯🥰

  • @kerimanasilasila174
    @kerimanasilasila174 Рік тому +6

    My mother always taught me about the 3cs. Character, Charm, and Collateral. Character will always get any and everything you want.

  • @SpiceItUp_5150
    @SpiceItUp_5150 7 місяців тому +1

    Ankles on your ears. I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂♥️🙏🏾 Real talk.

  • @dianemuse3664
    @dianemuse3664 Рік тому +29

    I laughed and learned so much! Love this Live!

  • @TheRealVeeBee
    @TheRealVeeBee Рік тому +2

    Lol… one brick at a time… and keep your beat! 😂😂 I wish I could give this 10 thumbs up!

  • @alexandragasitu8402
    @alexandragasitu8402 Рік тому +9

    When I saw you smackin that gum I got myself some gum too 😂 now we both smackin 😂😂

  • @GP4288
    @GP4288 Рік тому +34

    This Live was everything 🥰we love u Queen MJ 🤗😘

  • @nycole8192
    @nycole8192 Рік тому +8

    Granny's be knowin' & spittin' nothing but the TRUTH! ❤

  • @monicafreeman5289
    @monicafreeman5289 Рік тому +12

    OMG MJ is fuckin hilarious!!! Y'all I just about peed in my pants during the last part.
    I ❤ you MJ......babbbyyyyy I didn't know how much I needed that laugh. THANK YOU

  • @TheUniquemariah
    @TheUniquemariah Рік тому +20

    Happy Sunday! Continue to be you. I love how you love and support your nephews/sons don't listen to the bitterness.

  • @vera955
    @vera955 Місяць тому

    Yes, MJ. Remember when Diana Ross, playing Billie Holiday, sang, "Ain't nobody's business if I do." ❤❤❤

  • @alikazan24
    @alikazan24 Рік тому +4

    The way you be “Batting those Eyes” I’m taking lessons. ❤🎉❤

  • @maryihezie1190
    @maryihezie1190 Рік тому +13

    I love how you educate us with your natural nice sense of humor :)😄

  • @kristieriggins5772
    @kristieriggins5772 Рік тому +4

    I’m old school girl too and didn’t learn to hold back until later in life.

  • @honeydove_4844
    @honeydove_4844 9 місяців тому +1

    Yes spirituality has kept me living in my head and in another reality which in turn made me highly tapped out of reality and I to a dreamworld. I feel so odd socially now. But I refuse to stay this way.

  • @robbinsimmons113
    @robbinsimmons113 3 місяці тому

    Preach!!! I’m so glad he brought up the online dating…I’m 52 I’m not ashamed of saying I do online dating it’s good & bad in everything we do life. Part of life.

  • @leahperry1090
    @leahperry1090 Рік тому +15

    MJ, I love your advice and stories. You’re right in the money and you have me laughing my head off!

  • @ebonyeyes821
    @ebonyeyes821 Рік тому +5

    I love your eyes, looks like you have on eyeliner 😍😍 and 20 minutes after you popped in your gum, I had to get me a piece 😂😂😂

  • @jamieolivarez9083
    @jamieolivarez9083 Рік тому +5

    MJ, I’m 45 single and love your advice and stories! You make e laugh and you bring a lot to the table with your experiences and wisdom. Thank you for sharing. PS. I ❤ your Grandma

  • @pallana3701
    @pallana3701 10 місяців тому +1

    Idk how to go 50/50
    Lmao
    Ion know hi ta hol back😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    In tears right now
    That gum gat me in cramps 😅😅😅😅I love when she chew gum ‘! Ain’t nobody out here chew gum like her ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Curtis it’s our 2nd date 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @charmagnebell4819
    @charmagnebell4819 Рік тому +1

    Lol, photos from fat, slim, thick decade, I'm dead 😂😅😂

  • @Jeannette-s8t
    @Jeannette-s8t Місяць тому +1

    You know how to pick a guy. Tall, lite skin; sitting on white couch. whoohoo. He was liking you. You taught me a lesson. Thank you.❤ so much. Now I know how to pick them.

  • @atlantafoodstar
    @atlantafoodstar Рік тому +11

    Great advice. I love your channel. We always worrying about who don't like us for what? LOL. You look good. Thanks for all you do for us.

  • @KeishaWilliams-e6d
    @KeishaWilliams-e6d 10 місяців тому +1

    Haaaaa😂😅 your mind on uber eats....cats dead😅😅😅😅😅❤❤❤❤

  • @ericasparks283
    @ericasparks283 Рік тому +2

    Living my best single life

  • @stephielightfoot
    @stephielightfoot Рік тому +6

    I love story time 🥰 it was hilarious! I needed that uncontrollable laughter thanks!!!! 😂😂😂😘

  • @patriciawilliams389
    @patriciawilliams389 Рік тому +7

    MJ you are sooo true hahaha, girl you are hitting everything you say on the nose!!! You are so down to earth 💯 thanks for being you!

  • @pworm195
    @pworm195 Рік тому +6

    Good Afternoon MJ. God is good all the time!

  • @patricemurray6412
    @patricemurray6412 Рік тому +3

    When I tell you this was so good and funny!😂😂😂

  • @blessed7015
    @blessed7015 Рік тому +5

    I must say that you were highly entertaining while I was doing work!

  • @mchlljls
    @mchlljls Рік тому +5

    Giiiiirl you were so lit!!! Needed the laughs and lessons. Love you too ❤️

  • @ellenbettenhausen7449
    @ellenbettenhausen7449 Рік тому +16

    I love these question and answer videos ❤ thank you so much MJ for teaching us!

  • @amandalyttle8792
    @amandalyttle8792 11 місяців тому +3

    Hi Malcolm, i live in Northern Ireland, I will be 58 years old next month, have 5 sons, 2 daughters in law, 1 son in law and 12 grandchildren, I absolutely love your videos, I love your honesty, your energy and your positivity. Don't know how your videos popped up on my UA-cam but I'm so glad they did xo

  • @reesecup9122
    @reesecup9122 Рік тому +4

    This live was the best! Nd that ending had mi dyin laughin😂😂😂😂 I def needed that laugh. Thanks for all your videos! It's so nice to watch u and your family's growth 🎉

  • @Queen-sl4xl
    @Queen-sl4xl Рік тому +4

    M j live are the best ❤❤

  • @Strongernurse
    @Strongernurse 7 місяців тому

    When I say you are my lifesaver and I love you, and I pray for God to continue to bless you on here.

  • @staywellandstrong4199
    @staywellandstrong4199 Рік тому +8

    This should be good - can't wait!

    • @MJHarrisSpeaks
      @MJHarrisSpeaks  Рік тому +3

      Thumbs up.. watch till then end! This one gets wild!

  • @lynnteasley8806
    @lynnteasley8806 7 місяців тому

    You are wise beyond your years and I love it!!!!! Seeing you is so refreshing 🥰 Thank you for caring and sharing 😘

  • @michellepatterson1686
    @michellepatterson1686 Рік тому +4

    So entertaining, the look you give is hilarious.

  • @charmagnebell4819
    @charmagnebell4819 Рік тому +1

    You better bring all that...

  • @sandrasuarez5870
    @sandrasuarez5870 Рік тому +1

    You bring me so much joy 😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @queenvictory6916
    @queenvictory6916 Рік тому +2

    MJ you are the best and your advice for me is a blessing.

  • @MzTrinah
    @MzTrinah Рік тому +2

    Damn hella funny I’m falling off my chair 😂😅 you made my day hun ❤

  • @cindymoreland-allen2634
    @cindymoreland-allen2634 Рік тому +1

    Bro your the real deal love this😂😂😮😮

  • @livingmybestlife1208
    @livingmybestlife1208 Рік тому +3

    Hey ❤ you have the best advice, keep the videos coming i learned alot already from you, you are so down to earth and chill i will continue to support you, you are so funny to, 😂 the best!

  • @belindapadron7175
    @belindapadron7175 Рік тому +1

    I love the msg to the men at the end❤ I am absolutely right there with you!!! 😊

  • @AaliyahPonton
    @AaliyahPonton 7 місяців тому

    Go ahead Mj some of these questions are unreal.. but your honesty and obvious on point answers are what makes the video worth it keep it up...we need more of this and your into character is hilarious esp when you talk about your grandmother because I'm a grandma's girl ..

  • @muvaknowsbestpodcast
    @muvaknowsbestpodcast Рік тому

    My guy was shy at first and I we coordinated our first date! it was AMAZING! Met him online, he's awesome.☺

  • @MANDEE7962
    @MANDEE7962 Рік тому +1

    The first 30 seconds…FACTS

  • @jusswatchin7384
    @jusswatchin7384 7 місяців тому +2

    I feel like me and MJ are bff’s 🤣🤣🤣

  • @pallysupatra
    @pallysupatra Рік тому +2

    I laugh every time when I watch your vdo MJ! You cheer us up so much love you!

  • @mmhmm1974
    @mmhmm1974 Рік тому +1

    I am dying 😭 🤣 I just absolutely luv u and all ur MJisms 💓 keep sharing the luv.

  • @michellemcdonough5097
    @michellemcdonough5097 Рік тому +2

    ❤ I love your advice MJ you are funny as heck. ❤❤❤😂😂😂

  • @angelicelevationtarot1
    @angelicelevationtarot1 Рік тому +3

    MJ you are so pretty and entertaining lol. Love these videos! 😘💙

  • @wylandaclark3575
    @wylandaclark3575 Рік тому +3

    You are the goat MJ❤️

  • @charismaw1040
    @charismaw1040 Рік тому +3

    Just in time! I have my eye on one right now. 😊

  • @_Knowledge_Is_Power
    @_Knowledge_Is_Power Рік тому +2

    GD! 😂 you’re a ray of sunshine in some of our darkest days that slaps that shit down! Better than ANY therapy we pay for! G.O.A.T! Wait…you’re 38?? Wow look like 24!

  • @Greatful0374
    @Greatful0374 Рік тому +3

    I really want to know that nail color… it’s amazing! Like the lightest ballerina bubblegum 😮natural pink )

  • @johnferguson6688
    @johnferguson6688 Рік тому

    MJ thank you so much . I was doing it so wrong .I listen to one of your Q&A and I did what you said. Now he’s bringing stuff I never ask him for. I’m private like you I don’t say who I date. But, we been hooking up for 25 years .

  • @Tori_B
    @Tori_B Рік тому +1

    Omg tears coming down my eyes 😂😂

  • @graceharris9658
    @graceharris9658 Рік тому +1

    Mj. Great. Advice

  • @charlenedean4627
    @charlenedean4627 Рік тому +2

    ❤Much Love here MJ❤🎉😊thank you for changing my life. You are funny, smart and very informative ❤ how can we say we Love Christ or God we never seen , but can't Love each other. I love you MJ, keep going strong for us❤

  • @glendarelli
    @glendarelli Рік тому +2

    That you for preaching/teaching me ❤ ❤❤❤

  • @Tina_stella
    @Tina_stella Рік тому +1

    Omg MJ you’re hilarious I just love your after Darks 🎉 please do more

  • @adriana3489
    @adriana3489 Рік тому +1

    Every word was so true , wisdom you can't buy ! I laughed so hard , my stomach hurts! Best live ! Thank you for your time you give your viewers! 🙏

  • @dylanpringle992
    @dylanpringle992 Рік тому +2

    Had questions and you hit all of them wow you are the best .

    • @dylanpringle992
      @dylanpringle992 Рік тому

      I hv a boys name , have all brothers , you have told me more to protect myself , AMEN

  • @shantejohnson4326
    @shantejohnson4326 Рік тому +2

    Finally caught you live... Love you!

  • @belindalacey5037
    @belindalacey5037 Рік тому +2

    Boy this was a good live.I miss this don't play with it don't play with it don't play with it😂

  • @sdura8447
    @sdura8447 Рік тому +2

    MJ i think you are amazing! Love listening to your advice!! 😍

  • @charmagnebell4819
    @charmagnebell4819 Рік тому +1

    I ❤ your point of view

  • @jacquelynherring8936
    @jacquelynherring8936 Рік тому +1

    Amen to that ,Mama needs some sides with that steak.

  • @candisehb
    @candisehb Рік тому

    Not the "Are You Close" code being decoded. I am dead

  • @chariselacroix
    @chariselacroix Рік тому +2

    Mj thank you for posting, I missed the live but needed the messages in here❤❤

  • @EmpressAisha
    @EmpressAisha Рік тому +1

    Your nails are gorgeous ❤

  • @katherinewillis6014
    @katherinewillis6014 Рік тому +2

    I absolutely love tuning in and listening to your wisdom 🙌🏻 I did have to turn this one off because of the gum though 😭 I’ll come back for the next one.

  • @celestialmaat9462
    @celestialmaat9462 Рік тому +1

    Omg!!! I love it here! Thanks for the 💎 s

  • @jehanjehan8569
    @jehanjehan8569 Рік тому +5

    Oh my God you’re so funny! I love you 😂😂😂

  • @cryscris
    @cryscris Рік тому +1

    33:07 they way you snapped then snapped back!! 😂😂😂😂😂 You my friend in my head!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @iammelvadixon5164
    @iammelvadixon5164 Рік тому +2

    When you said hey Melva! I thought you was talking to me😂 until I saw this was posted 5hrs ago😂

  • @ClassicFairlane
    @ClassicFairlane Рік тому +2

    Gotdammit MJ, the leave me alone with these videos!!!!! LOLOLOLOLOL!!!
    The last few minutes were HILARIOUS......can't wait for the next one!!!!
    I'm loving my single life, my SNAPPER stays SNATCHED!!!

  • @ericasparks283
    @ericasparks283 Рік тому +1

    Looking fabulous

  • @gracie5870
    @gracie5870 Рік тому

    Thank you, bestie. I really enjoy your videos. I pray you'll have your own talk show one day.

  • @tellylace9872
    @tellylace9872 Рік тому +3

    You're so silly😂 pucker those lips😂😂😂

  • @Tori_B
    @Tori_B Рік тому +2

    MJ you’re hilarious

  • @reneeperry687
    @reneeperry687 Рік тому

    I'm 72 and I am a widower so I listen intentively to the chats. It is a little scarey to begin this whole dating etc. process since I was married for 23 years and was off the market so to speak. Anyway, I enjoy you so much and thank you for all you offer. I am going to get my license, I know I can do it so I'll be a part of one of the teams
    soon. Thank you for all you do.
    Time 4:50 P
    VA(Hampton Roads)

  • @heartspeaks
    @heartspeaks Рік тому +3

    I love you! 💕

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 Рік тому +2

    You are too much, MJ!
    Keep doing what YOU do! 😂❤️