It's a global issue that's not being addressed. Thank god for Dr Trish because this problem is escalating and deliberately being ignored generally for a hidden agenda due to the multi billion dollar industry. Personally I've been hooked, I'm 72and discovered Dr Trish last summer. It's a journey I believet addicts will have to adhere to for the rest of our lives. Once again, Thank you Dr. I just wish your teachings could be introduced within🎉 the school curriculum. Bless you ❤
I completely agree with what you are saying, I know it to be true. I agree some of this goes back to my childhood and I need to change things. It doesn't mitigate the fact that my spouse is unavailable, and her unavailability only increased the problem over the years. It has been over two years since we even had a date night. Since our youngest was born, I was lucky if it was three times a year. Then, she was working, and our daughter started to interfere with what time we had, and rather than setting boundaries, she allowed a 12 year old to dictate that she doesn't like us alone together. I haven't even slept in the same bed for almost a decade because of insomnia. After watching a bunch of your videos, I'm going to commit to quitting, but I'm going to be angry about it, because nothing is going to change on the sex front, so I'm basically mentally training myself to be celibate. That isn't something I ever wanted for my life, and on this, day 1, it infuriates me to have to do it.
At least you have kids already. Celibacy is the end of the world. Humans don't really need sex. It's only a message peddled by deviant supporters of the despicable sexual revolution. Real men don't need sex to live. Connect with your kids and it will allow you to grow in favor with your wife again. Women love good men who are loved by their children.
I have similar situation where my wife favors sleeping alone for over two years. She says I don’t fulfill her needs about home care and making more money so she like wise won’t fulfill my needs of touch and compliment
Dr. Leagh, thank you for this info, it's been helpfull. I have a question? You had mentioned that one need follow the trail of bread crumbs to find where there fetish comes from. For me, I've always had an ass fetish. I've been attempting to determine if it was caused by me being brainwashed by hip-hop or if it had to do with my grandparents spanking me over there knees when I did wrong, living in a poor neighbourhood or perhaps somthing else I didnt take into acount! Your insight in this area would be helpfull, Dr. Leagh. Thanks once again for the info, it's been emesly helpful.
I finally matured enough to outgrow my self abuse cycle. Unfortunately, now I have tons of extra energy which I use in my job and hobbies. My coworkers kind of hate me because I'm making them look bad with my endless energy. I may have to get a new job because I'm despised now. There are employees with 5+ years of work history trying to undermine me.
Day 4 so far! I really really need this to work. I’m having problems with my wife and ED issues and my life is quickly crumbling 😢 So happy I came across your channel. Need all the help I can get. Question: are there any apps that help keep you on track in preventing porn & masturbation? Please advise.
Another great video thank you so much I got a lot of practical stuff that I wrote down and that I'm practicing already thank you so much for being there and helping you are tremendously looking out for so many so many people in this world I mean come on the ripple effect and beyond it is so vast you are technically an angel. Pretty much kind of
The blockers do help. I've been out of that loop for months, but it's the like the old saying, once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Cant play with the fire to test yourself. 'Can a man take fire into his bosom and not be burned?'
I've been watching porn for about 4 weeks. The hard porn is very repulsive and graphic.women in skirts and stockings and heels is what I prefer but I need to stop that viewing to. It's time consuming and not reality
Day 5! This morning was pretty easy compared to yesterday. I have this nagging thought that I still have tokens on a cam site and that I should log on to unlink my card, but I know it’s a trap placed by my hijacker and I’m gonna relapse as soon as I do! Can’t handle it right now or maybe ever! I’ll unlink the card if I relapse or when I hit 90 days! This is the time! You got to want it and it’s possible!
@@Matt33318 I’ve done a month before and it makes you feel like a new man you start thinking more objectively than emotionally and it gives you an insane amount of self belief
I've notice my triggers lead to arousals which leads to my fetishes which eventually leads to fantasy and porn use. Many of my triggers originated from my childhood traumas
I've been trying to stop porn for a few years now, I've been trying on my own and can't do it. I have come out to a pastor friend of mine, but he's not a lot of help not having the same problem.
8:09 violent or intense video games always end with Mast this cycle was born out of boredom and loneliness I don’t have any other answers for the two , my bread crumbs are leading to toxic pools
This may be a controversial question, however; could it be theorized that women addicted to pørn develop similar arousal dysfunctions like pørn induced erectile dysfunction in male addicts?The idea being one is so desensitized via the hyper stimulus of compulsively masturbating to porn, sex toy use(vibrators, etc) for mood regulation/boredom, that arousal response to an actual human is actually lowered because of the fantasy attachments to these pørn habits? Like the way a male pørn addict struggles to stay aroused without pørn(or fantasy of pørn) a female addict struggles to get/stay aroused without pørn (or fantasy of pørn), sex toys, etc. A future video on the affects on women would be helpful in reminding people that this isn't just a "male problem". That this affects women as well, though it is less publicized, women are not immune to masturbating to pørn's negative effects. This could help create a kind of solidarity between men and women trying their hardest to develop healthy sexuality, coping habits, so that we can all live our best lives. Leaving pørn, to become a healthier person, which makes one a better lover, IS sex positivity.
@Lana Routlege do your best to focus on what truly makes you happy, away from the screen, run to it. The more time you give to it the more it will become a positive habit.
I found out my husband who I’ve been with 22 years apparently has been using porn and masturbation since he was 12 ( he’s 48 ). He just started a program with Coach Frank Rich but he still has to use masturbation to get an erection with me. Is this ok for him to be doing ? I’m guessing not
@@DrTrishLeigh he’s also admitted to fantasizing and masturbating up until 3 weeks ago. I need your betrayal trauma program badly. Hopefully someone will call me today with info about it. If I don’t get into something we are going to end up divorced and or I will be in a gr0ve. I can’t take this and for some stupid reason I’m still completely in love with him. Even after he admitted so many horrible things to me. I’ve lost 75 lbs since I found out and gained an eating disorder. I’m desperate
Hi Dr. Leigh, Question 6: Will stop masturbating cause an erectile dysfunction because you don't use your 'equipment' when you don't have access to a stabil source of sex with a partner (1-2 times per week to 1 time per two weeks)?
I relapsed today purposely doctor ,cause I was feeling sexually aroused relapsed about 3times I didn’t watch porn but I relapsed a lot tonight and I’m actually lost !!!
That's okay! Figure out what you let fall apart to allow the relapse to happen, adjust your recovery plan accordingly, and then move on! There is no room for shame or guilt in recovery
You blew through the “find a partner” portion, like it’s so easy. Most of your videos that touch on this element lack specifics. I heard it all before, get out in the world, do activities you enjoy and then without looking, a miraculous accident will happen. I do activities I enjoy, more so that others are envious. Result is nil, can’t recall the last single available woman I encountered, let alone someone I would date. I think you should spend some effort in this area, do a little research or illicit the aid of a real matchmaking expert. Give single people some real hope downstream of their porn addiction elimination
I think is you that should do your research about that and try, if u wait for others to make you into a stud you will only fail. I wouldn't date such a begging male if I were a woman.
I dont wanna masturbate anymore ... i been doing it for so long. I really want a partner and now i understand that porn and masturbation have been a great imposibility to relate to other people. Thanks and i hope i can be and find a healthy partner! How i will know who is the best partner for me an me to her? I know many people i find attactive and it is mutual. Gracias Trish!
To limit any sexuality activity ---> can cause desperation for sexual attention, one urge that you can’t scape The perfect tool used by someone that doesn’t need to care about your emotional stability to have you under her/his knees Did you heard something like “all relationships have troubles, but with the power of love all can be solve ? Phrases used by people that doesn’t care about your emotional stability People that doesn’t want you to stay in your right mind, they need you to be desperate for her/his attention Have you heard “no sex until marriage” ? at the end that’s the only value that they can offer, without a begging for their sexual attention, all their game is over This is the same people that would make you feel guilty for you to masturbate
You are a saint. I watch you everyday for encouragement.
She deserves more recognition! This topic should be explained to every modern pubescent child!
Same
@@jetjames420 Amen
Honestly hearing her videos do help a lot to stay away from the addiction.
It's a global issue that's not being addressed. Thank god for Dr Trish because this problem is escalating and deliberately being ignored generally for a hidden agenda due to the multi billion dollar industry. Personally I've been hooked, I'm 72and discovered Dr Trish last summer. It's a journey I believet addicts will have to adhere to for the rest of our lives. Once again, Thank you Dr. I just wish your teachings could be introduced within🎉 the school curriculum. Bless you ❤
From the uk 🇬🇧. I’m a basketball player that studies at 17. You changed my life. I love u trish
90 days feels like forever! My brain is ambivalent about this.
How are u now
Is quitting porn helpful to you
I completely agree with what you are saying, I know it to be true. I agree some of this goes back to my childhood and I need to change things. It doesn't mitigate the fact that my spouse is unavailable, and her unavailability only increased the problem over the years. It has been over two years since we even had a date night. Since our youngest was born, I was lucky if it was three times a year. Then, she was working, and our daughter started to interfere with what time we had, and rather than setting boundaries, she allowed a 12 year old to dictate that she doesn't like us alone together. I haven't even slept in the same bed for almost a decade because of insomnia. After watching a bunch of your videos, I'm going to commit to quitting, but I'm going to be angry about it, because nothing is going to change on the sex front, so I'm basically mentally training myself to be celibate. That isn't something I ever wanted for my life, and on this, day 1, it infuriates me to have to do it.
At least you have kids already. Celibacy is the end of the world. Humans don't really need sex. It's only a message peddled by deviant supporters of the despicable sexual revolution. Real men don't need sex to live. Connect with your kids and it will allow you to grow in favor with your wife again. Women love good men who are loved by their children.
I have similar situation where my wife favors sleeping alone for over two years. She says I don’t fulfill her needs about home care and making more money so she like wise won’t fulfill my needs of touch and compliment
Thank you so much for these videos I'm starting my journey today these types of videos are really helpful
"With great power comes great responsibility". - Uncle Ben
I'm so glad!
Such a voice of WISDOM! so glad that I discovered this wonderful channel!
You get it. So helpful.
Thank you for this Dr.Leigh ❤
Dr. Leagh, thank you for this info, it's been helpfull. I have a question? You had mentioned that one need follow the trail of bread crumbs to find where there fetish comes from. For me, I've always had an ass fetish. I've been attempting to determine if it was caused by me being brainwashed by hip-hop or if it had to do with my grandparents spanking me over there knees when I did wrong, living in a poor neighbourhood or perhaps somthing else I didnt take into acount! Your insight in this area would be helpfull, Dr. Leagh. Thanks once again for the info, it's been emesly helpful.
I finally matured enough to outgrow my self abuse cycle. Unfortunately, now I have tons of extra energy which I use in my job and hobbies. My coworkers kind of hate me because I'm making them look bad with my endless energy. I may have to get a new job because I'm despised now. There are employees with 5+ years of work history trying to undermine me.
Part of it for me is about controlling sexual feelings and behaviors and losing control of it as a freedom from the control
Day 4 so far! I really really need this to work. I’m having problems with my wife and ED issues and my life is quickly crumbling 😢
So happy I came across your channel. Need all the help I can get.
Question: are there any apps that help keep you on track in preventing porn & masturbation? Please advise.
How are u now
🤣 8:52 "if you can pull it off" - I saw what you did there! 🤣
Another great video thank you so much I got a lot of practical stuff that I wrote down and that I'm practicing already thank you so much for being there and helping you are tremendously looking out for so many so many people in this world I mean come on the ripple effect and beyond it is so vast you are technically an angel. Pretty much kind of
The blockers do help. I've been out of that loop for months, but it's the like the old saying, once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic. Cant play with the fire to test yourself. 'Can a man take fire into his bosom and not be burned?'
Listening the Bible daily help me stay strong and clean from that dark entertainment
I've been watching porn for about 4 weeks. The hard porn is very repulsive and graphic.women in skirts and stockings and heels is what I prefer but I need to stop that viewing to. It's time consuming and not reality
your videos changed my life❤
Day 5! This morning was pretty easy compared to yesterday. I have this nagging thought that I still have tokens on a cam site and that I should log on to unlink my card, but I know it’s a trap placed by my hijacker and I’m gonna relapse as soon as I do! Can’t handle it right now or maybe ever! I’ll unlink the card if I relapse or when I hit 90 days! This is the time! You got to want it and it’s possible!
What's tokens?
These videos has helped me a lot. Thank you.
Thank you very much respected doctor.
You help me a lot to recover my prime (dopamine and testosterone levels )
“Evilution” there said it correctly for you.
Officially one month since last watching porn
How do you feel now? Did you have brain fog before? Did it fade away? Are you more energetic?
@@Matt33318 I’ve done a month before and it makes you feel like a new man you start thinking more objectively than emotionally and it gives you an insane amount of self belief
@@darrenholmes2490 I second this
There is no one MOST important question:
Is it possible to cure PIED after quitting watching porn, and brain rebooting ?
Very good work .....
love and blessings from India.....
God bless u and ur beautiful family... Thanks.
I've notice my triggers lead to arousals which leads to my fetishes which eventually leads to fantasy and porn use. Many of my triggers originated from my childhood traumas
I've been trying to stop porn for a few years now, I've been trying on my own and can't do it. I have come out to a pastor friend of mine, but he's not a lot of help not having the same problem.
I'm 63
8:09 violent or intense video games always end with Mast this cycle was born out of boredom and loneliness I don’t have any other answers for the two , my bread crumbs are leading to toxic pools
God bless u and yours ❤❤❤
This may be a controversial question, however; could it be theorized that women addicted to pørn develop similar arousal dysfunctions like pørn induced erectile dysfunction in male addicts?The idea being one is so desensitized via the hyper stimulus of compulsively masturbating to porn, sex toy use(vibrators, etc) for mood regulation/boredom, that arousal response to an actual human is actually lowered because of the fantasy attachments to these pørn habits? Like the way a male pørn addict struggles to stay aroused without pørn(or fantasy of pørn) a female addict struggles to get/stay aroused without pørn (or fantasy of pørn), sex toys, etc.
A future video on the affects on women would be helpful in reminding people that this isn't just a "male problem". That this affects women as well, though it is less publicized, women are not immune to masturbating to pørn's negative effects. This could help create a kind of solidarity between men and women trying their hardest to develop healthy sexuality, coping habits, so that we can all live our best lives.
Leaving pørn, to become a healthier person, which makes one a better lover, IS sex positivity.
@Lana Routlege if you have the addiction you can beat it. You are not alone. Everyone has a shot to live a better life just by existing.
@Lana Routlege do your best to focus on what truly makes you happy, away from the screen, run to it. The more time you give to it the more it will become a positive habit.
Can anyone help me find the link to the panel spoke of
hyy dr.
What do u mean by brother sister intemacy during min.12:50. Is it moral or ethical please make it clear🙏
Thank you so much Dr Trish,, I'll try now the nofap
I like your videos
I found out my husband who I’ve been with 22 years apparently has been using porn and masturbation since he was 12 ( he’s 48 ). He just started a program with Coach Frank Rich but he still has to use masturbation to get an erection with me. Is this ok for him to be doing ? I’m guessing not
It takes times & efforts to heal :)
@@DrTrishLeigh he’s also admitted to fantasizing and masturbating up until 3 weeks ago. I need your betrayal trauma program badly. Hopefully someone will call me today with info about it. If I don’t get into something we are going to end up divorced and or I will be in a gr0ve. I can’t take this and for some stupid reason I’m still completely in love with him. Even after he admitted so many horrible things to me. I’ve lost 75 lbs since I found out and gained an eating disorder. I’m desperate
50 push-ups when I get the urge. will that do or I need to crank it up to 100 or perhaps 200
I love the background paintings
Iam on my 5 th day, my longest streak is like 18 days i wanna surprass my limits!
Gwarn vegeta
Hi Dr. Leigh,
Question 6: Will stop masturbating cause an erectile dysfunction because you don't use your 'equipment' when you don't have access to a stabil source of sex with a partner (1-2 times per week to 1 time per two weeks)?
No, it won't stop working from supposed "disuse". The real danger is from overuse!
What about PIED? Will it go away with time if we go on a reboot??? Please answer Doctor.
I relapsed today purposely doctor ,cause I was feeling sexually aroused relapsed about 3times I didn’t watch porn but I relapsed a lot tonight and I’m actually lost !!!
That's okay! Figure out what you let fall apart to allow the relapse to happen, adjust your recovery plan accordingly, and then move on! There is no room for shame or guilt in recovery
Spoilsport. ??
Thank you so much 💓
Is it also bad to read erotica ? Does it also affects our mental and sexual health ?
No.
Yes it does
What about the relapse. I have been off for about two and a half years .but it relapsed .not that extent but still a relapse is a relapse .
Jesus, almost had a relapse seeing a image title.. I made it through 😮
I like your soap box
Just quit the relapses like with alcohol.
What are some things I can do to help my fiance? I'm so clueless about porn and all these porn sites!
Can an erection return and after how long?
if quitting porn totally.
Waiting for a while.
Everything's back to normal.
I pray God helps me
She won't.
You blew through the “find a partner” portion, like it’s so easy. Most of your videos that touch on this element lack specifics. I heard it all before, get out in the world, do activities you enjoy and then without looking, a miraculous accident will happen. I do activities I enjoy, more so that others are envious. Result is nil, can’t recall the last single available woman I encountered, let alone someone I would date. I think you should spend some effort in this area, do a little research or illicit the aid of a real matchmaking expert. Give single people some real hope downstream of their porn addiction elimination
I think is you that should do your research about that and try, if u wait for others to make you into a stud you will only fail. I wouldn't date such a begging male if I were a woman.
What is your opinion on using a male chastity device to stop masturbating?
don't be so stupid!
It is good.
I can’t stop laughing 😂
@@earthsign99 wasn't expecting that 😂
I am bi and only son of my parents and i was dominated very much by my mom
She's a real Karen...
Doc please try not to talk abt description s of fetishes just a reminder u already know what I am talking abt
Much love
I Been fooled since 13 but No more
Thanks a lot beauty ♥️🥰
Porn use disrespects Women. There should be social consequences to males for porn use.
There should be social consequences for you religious nutters.
Loneliness.
Peer pressure.
Bad relationships with peers.
Is that right?
Owner Dr. Trish an hour before bed permission to watch a sports thing on you tube seeking your permission ownr Dr.Trish
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It's so embarrassing having a woman tell you how to use your own body
I dont wanna masturbate anymore ... i been doing it for so long. I really want a partner and now i understand that porn and masturbation have been a great imposibility to relate to other people. Thanks and i hope i can be and find a healthy partner! How i will know who is the best partner for me an me to her? I know many people i find attactive and it is mutual. Gracias Trish!
To limit any sexuality activity ---> can cause desperation for sexual attention, one urge that you can’t scape
The perfect tool used by someone that doesn’t need to care about your emotional stability to have you under her/his knees
Did you heard something like “all relationships have troubles, but with the power of love all can be solve ?
Phrases used by people that doesn’t care about your emotional stability
People that doesn’t want you to stay in your right mind, they need you to be desperate for her/his attention
Have you heard “no sex until marriage” ?
at the end that’s the only value that they can offer, without a begging for their sexual attention, all their game is over
This is the same people that would make you feel guilty for you to masturbate