Cafe Con Dulce: Regretting Plastic Surgery & More Real Talk
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
- Cafe Con Dulce: Regretting Plastic Surgery & More Real Talk
Hi, friends! I hope you're enjoying your Saturday and staying safe from all the weird weather. I was so inspired to film a new Cafe Con Dulce episode and I wanted to share my thoughts plastic surgery, learning life lessons, not letting social media affect you in a negative way and much more! Hope you enjoy and I can't wait to read your comments. Love Always,
Your big sister, Dulce!
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"Today you are you, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you!" -Dr. Seuss
Love this quote!
I deleted my Facebook and Instagram (I don't have Snapchat) because I realized it was the reason I was being so negative. I'm usually in a happy mood but every time I would go online, I would end up getting angry and upset. Now that I don't go on social media (except UA-cam), I have so much more time to live my life and focus on what's important for my personal growth. I'm soooo happy with how life is now. Even with UA-cam, I decided to go on a cleanse. I went through all the people I'm subscribed to and deleted all the channels that weren't adding positivity into my life. I'm really happy that you're doing these kinds of videos. I used to watch you from the very beginning but slowly my interest in beauty/makeup faded. I still enjoy putting on makeup when it's needed but I no longer want to fill up my day with videos about things with no depth. I'm a thinker too, and I'm constantly having these deep conversations with my husband/family/friends that help us grow. That's why I truly truly love these kinds of videos. I feel like we can all share something that will help someone else with what they're dealing. Thanks for being such a good soul, Dulce. All the best!
xofiori amazing ❤️❤️
Dulce I have been watching you from the age of 14 to 22 years old now, it has been so awesome to see you grow up and change and come into your own over the years. You are such a great role model and inspiration for young women everywhere. Thank you for being you!
wow, that's a long time! Thank you so much!
same!
I love this! I'm 17 years old and I recently got rid of my Facebook and Instagram account and I've felt so much better since then! I've wasted too much time on there for the past few years, and I feel like I'm learning more about myself and other people without being glued to my phone. Thanks for the awesome video it really does feel like your an older sister 💓
Eva49 oh my god!!!! I'm going through this right now!!
Eva49 sorry but I just have to say that Your highlight is amaziiing :)
Good for you. I've been off social media for about a year and life has been amazing.
5 months ago I took off all social media and its been the best feeling honestly 🖒
Thank you Dulce for these intimate, honest videos. It's so refreshing. I'm nearly 20 but i've been watching you since middle school so I feel like I'm growing with you.
awe, that's awesome! We have grown together!
Also Dulce, I am a longgggggggg time subscriber. Since you were in Texas. And I had lost interest in your videos for a while I feel like around the same time you say you didn't feel fulfilled with UA-cam yourself. But these videos have dragged me back to your channel and I'm loving it !!! This is the Dulce I love 💕
DULCE, Based on all the deep thoughts & revelations you've unveiled this year, I'm wondering *is it true what they say abt turning 30 and "figuring it all out"; learning to appreciate life; and becoming happier with yrself & with your life than ever before?!?!* Can you PEASE do a video on things you've learned & ways you've evolved as a person in your 30s??? *'Like'* if anyone else would love to see this as well!!!
Yes, this is definitely an upcoming episode!
Kayla Riggs 🙋🏻
Kayla Riggs yes 💯% I just posted a video about what I'd tell my 20 yr old self, 30 is so refreshing.
What you figure out is that you don't have to have it all figure out to live your life.
Dulce, I've been watching you since you first started. I know you'll come from a beautiful/good place when you'll make this video. But bear in mind, especially for the much younger followers, that your ideas, opinions, are not set on stone. And that you don't hold the truth about what life is about or should be about. And you don't become a new person when you reach 30 as I heard you say on your previous video. We are constantly evolving and you will too as you age. Just keep that in mind.
Life is a journey and we are ALL in this together. Let your ideas, opinions, life, be food for thought for anyone who hears them. But especially for the younger followers, who need to grow into their own individuals not just follow or do what Dulce says.
Dulce! I totally hear you. Thank you for your perspective. Also I can relate to you. I was really depressed in my 20s and went into a very dark place in my early 20s. Good video message. I hear you about the plastic surgery thing too. It is important to love yourself. Be Yourself. Sorry to say this but social media has really made people lose their self.
Alicia Mendsey so true. Everyone looks the same
Alicia Mendsey l
I think the 25 quarter life crisis is a thing. I didn't realize it at the time, but apparently a lot of people experience that, myself as well.
Also, I've been watching you since the beginning, and although I enjoyed your early videos, it's nice to see someone who is doing what they enjoy on UA-cam and not just trying to make videos for views or what they think people want to see. Also, about the quarter life crisis thing, I believe it happens because around the age of 25 human brains become fully developed and it begins to work differently as an adult. It probably has something to do with it.
Girl yes it is!
I had my 25 mid-life crisis when the year started!
Omg I turned 25 this year and its been terrible! All year (my birthday is in Jan.) Ive ben miserable because idk who I am or what I want in life or who I want to be. Its so stressful because I feel like ai'm the only one who is old and doesn't have a career, I don't even know what I want my career to be! Idk how to get out of this rut but im happy to know that u went through it too and actually are in a better place now :)
My advice would be to not put so much pressure on yourself to have it all figured out. You're so young and still have a full, happy, and succefful life ahead of you.
Girl i've felt that way too. People would tell me it would get better and I was like: 'How will this get better?! Because I don't see me putting allll the pieces together anytime soon". I felt like I had to know and understand everything about life. I read books about it, talked about it, wrote about it and I was thinking about it A LOT. It was so stressful.
But.. i'm going to be like those people who told me: I'm 28 now and it DOES get better!! All the pieces just fell in place and I stopped worrying. And now I'm happy and in love with my life. What did help for me is getting of social media. Only UA-cam. But I stopped Facebook, instagram and Snapchat. Because i think most people there don't know who they are and they just try to show other people what they think will make others like them.. i don't care about that. The people that I really care about and love keep me updated on their life anyway. So I dont feel like i miss out on anything! It gave me so much more peace and time to focus on my OWN life instead of others..
Sorry for my English. Not my First language😊
I'm exactly in the same place as you, and i also turned 25 in January as well. But girl..we'll get through it, Dulce is a living proof of that! ;)
Erika R Girl I'm with you, 25, graduated in May but I still have no idea what I want in life, I feel like I'm lost and I also have no idea how to figure it out.
Erika R I turned 25 in January as well, it's so scary that I finished school and I'm still not sure of what I want or what direction to work towards...you're not alone.
I swear this video really made me feel like I'm just sitting with you talking and relating to so much that you say...i love it..youre an amazing person Dulce. Love you xoxo 💛
And Im 25 years old rightnow and i def know what you mean by quarter life crisis..everything you said about it is so relatable
Elena Avalos yea totally. I feel like I'm sitting and taking with a good friend. Dulce is so open. 💜
You have grown into a pretty incredible woman , i have to say (after watching you since 2008.. you have grown SO much in the best possible way) ❤️❤️❤️
I disconnected from social media 5 months ago. Best decision ever, I dont get caught up in any hype or negativity anymore. I dont waste time scrolling or spending my mental or emotional energy on things that ultimately dont matter in my life. As a result, I am more present in the momet and I have more peace and happiness ❤
I ❤️café con dulce chats better than makeup videos or any other videos !!! I could see you as the next Oprah Latina !!! Imagine Dulce hosting her own show 😱
Can your videos be longer 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
M Reyna i think she would be so great at it. She has this way of articulating her feelings and giving really great advice.
I used to hate my filipina nose but now I love it. It's part of my heritage and it took me years to accept my own unique diversity. Thank you Dulce. You just confirmed my inner thoughts and I respect and love you more. Please more talks like this. You are like the sister I never had. My tears are filled with joy and gratitude!! 😊💕😭
I remember when you spoke about your nose surgery- I was literally screaming at the screen ( in a nice way) that I wish you realised how perfect and beautiful you already was...i even felt that later on in life you would regret it. X
I need a friend like you in my life, telling it to me straight but not trying to hurt my feelings to make yourself feel better by seeing how sad or upset I am at the time. I feel like now a days it's so hard to find a friend that truly cares. Love this series girl❤️
I support women doing whatever makes them/us feel more empowered, but not to be confused with looking prettier for other people. I have never had plastic surgery and just turned 50 and I have never been so confident. No regrets whatsoever! Thanks for sharing Dulce bonita, always good to speak your truth and inspire others!!
I really needed this video make more please ❤️
Army Barbie 🙌🏽💕🙌🏽
Hey girl, I know you’ll never see this. But now I know we watch the same people. Hope you’re doing good 😘😘😘😘
working as a blogger myself, social media totally wants to make me get plastic surgery so badly, everybody looks so perfect and even though you know it's not real, it looks so tempting to look as perfect :/.
I was thinking the exact thing yesterday when I went on facebook everyone was posting all the disasters going on. Of course I care, and I pray that everyone is safe, but there was just so many posts about it I felt overwhelmed I had to click off, I felt scared. So I went outside to get some air, and I just got to thinking that if I had no social media I wouldn't know what is going on. I don't know if that's good or bad. At the same time you want to be informed and on the other hand, ignorance is bliss. Out of sight out of mind kinda. I just wish we had no cell phones sometimes, I miss those days.
95klopez preach🙏🏼❤️
You are nailing it, girl! I prayed this morning to God, asking for pretty much exactly what you gave me tonight, Dulce. Thank you. Ps..im not sure why but you really seem to have grown into yourself. I have never seen you so comfortable with yourself. You are radiating confidence and you inspire me Dulce. Lots of love to you! 😊
Dulce, I have had a very rough day and this video really helped me. I just want to thank you for being you and for taking the time and energy to put out the content that you do. You ARE empowering. You are inspiring. You are a beautiful soul. I feel better just knowing that there are people out there who think like you do. When the time comes that you decide to depart from youtube, you can do so knowing you accomplished something amazing. You have empowered your viewers. You have turned and awful day upside down. You have imparted so much wisdom. Thank you so much Dulce❤️
You were the VERY first youtuber I remember watching and I have been watching you since you would film hauls on the floor of your apartment while you were in the military. I love your content and I just have to say this is my favorite video of yours. It speaks to me on so many different levels and I agree wholeheartedly with life lessons being presented to you over and over until you learn the lesson and also about how you have to guard your heart and peace from social media. Thank you so much for sharing and wish you peace and positivity 💗
I like your shirt Dulce
Jackyy1217 F. Was just gonna write that! Rip PAC
Dulce I seriously love you so much! I'm 25 now and feeling how you said you were feeling at 25. I aspire to be how at peace you are at 30. I look up to you so much. Please don't ever stop these videos!
I have the bump on my nose and I love it 😊❤️
Yes yes yes I love this series and you right sometimes I want just to disconnect so I don't feel depressed
I feel like she is so authentic. Love you dulce!!!
"All I do is think" YES! This is me and has always been me. I never want to stop thinking! You are so positive Dulce and I thank you!
Looooove these videos! We r in the era of inauthenticity and your authenticity is influencing many, keep at it! Love your shirt too (:
GIRL!!!! that comment about life lessons reappearing in your life time and time again until you learn from it really hit home. Its so true I feel it. I'm feeling it right now in my life..and you know what this is it ive learned and this time were taking a different path. So great to hear this comment right when you need it. Thats God telling me "hey! here it goes again, listen, whats it gonna be this time" Thank you Dulce.
I find myself coming back to your videos now that you've started doing this Cafe con Dulce. I must admit I had stopped watching you years ago because I kind of feel like all UA-cam makeup videos sound the same, review the same products, talk the same, go on the same trips, blah blah blah. This side of you is much more interesting & I see you are full of life! Keep em coming! 😍
Dulce, I've been watching your channel since the day you started. With you, I learned how to do my makeup, learn through your experiences - you've helped me overcome so many obstacles. Thank you for being such an inspiring, authentic person. I really love what you do! Love always, Jessica
I stopped watching you for a while because I just turned 25 and your videos before would make me feel down or confused and question my life too but this video I feel like you are WHO YOU REALLY ARE!! I think you really found yourself.. I do feel like I am confused about where I want to be in life but watching this video makes me realize to embrace growth!! Love you 😘
I agree 100% with what you are talking about loving yourself. If you are not happy with yourself how do you expect someone else to love you the way you want to be loved. Girl!!! You are so positive and that's exactly who I try to be everyday. Life is soooo beautiful, especially when you are just positive about life. You choose whether you are going to see the negative or positive in everything you do.
I think you found your calling. You're such an inspiration, Dulce. ❤️
I 100% agree with you about lessons being sent to us until we learn from them! I see that as well.
Im 18 & I feel so good about being me & loving my self. But i love how you talk about it & everything you're saying is so true
It's sooo nice to have that person who actually listens❤️ I'm so happy watching these kind videos bc soooo many of us can relate to you💗
My Dulce I’m so happy for this videos you make. I’ve been watching your videos since the very beginning and I feel so proud of you! Since I was a teenager I always wanted to change my body, my hair texture, my face, my breasts... until about a year ago I wanted to get liposuction and went through such a bad emotional breakdown for years and that made me feel something was wrong with me, and I think our first thoughts are always to change something in our outside and hate and judge our bodies and blame it for how unhappy and empty we feel. I started to process my thoughts, to be more kind to the person I chose to spend the rest of my life with ( myself) to forgive my actions, to heal... to realize that my body is so damn perfect as it is that now is about to give me a baby! That beauty is within every inch of our bodies and that at the end, all that matters is how much love we have given to ourselves and to others. God bless you always and thank you for this videos !
Im so so happy to have watched this video... Ive always been so insecure about my nose and always thought of getting a rhinoplasty but then I also think what was I even thinking this nose is what god gave me and what makes me who I am. Thank you Dulce love these types of videos I love you you are truly inspirational ❤️
So I'm going through my 25 year life crisis I feel so sad and this video brought me to tears because it is so real and just what I needed to hear
I know this video is from a year ago but I wanted to thank you. I have been having a lot of insecurities lately and I really needed to hear this. ❤
I am listening to you talk and it just feels like I'm listening to myself. All the thoughts, what you say... It just resonates to where I am right now.
I've been on youtube since 2006. I'm just a listener. I've got no interest in making UA-cam videos and never have but I've so enjoyed watching your videos since the early days on your channel. I'm 31 now and UA-cam can feel very young and so different these days so my goodness is your channel just such an old skool breath of fresh air. Sending you all my thanks for your channel and these wonderful videos. ❤ x Heather
I agree! It feels awesome being you! And you're right, it's okay to improve ourselves without losing ourselves.
Thank you for your video! I turn 25 next year and I'm kinda freaking out because I'm not where I thought I'd be. Your video assured me that it's okay to enjoy the journey. I love these videos!
I remember watching this girl back when she was in a tiny room with a multicoloured multi stack drawer for her makeup talking about being in the army, my god you've come a long way Dulce!!
Thank you for sharing about speaking out fears. YOU'RE SO INSPIRING CHICA!💜
I've heard people around me say things like, "What if this is a bad day? What if things go wrong? What if nothing works out?" I like to challenge them with embracing hope and telling to ask themselves the opposite instead, "What if this is the best day? What if things go right? What if everything works out? Why not believe in the best?" What we believe opens us up to so much, so why not believe today is the greatest day of our lives? :)
Dulce ♥️ you've come such a long way from where you started and managed to remain humble and real about life and everything it throws at you. Being able to relate to the things you say is an awesome feeling. I'm about to turn 24 and still trying to figure myself out. With that being said, I love you and keep on keepin' on girllll ✊🏻✊🏻
Dulce you´re such an inspiration to me and to all the girls who see you! i see you for about 3 or 4 years now so i´m happy for all the things that you make and make you happy because if you can do it, i can too.
Thanks for share so inspirational and trully videos with us! I really apreciate it!
Kisses and blesings from Venezuela!
Dulce, YOU are one of kind and i love how positive and inspiring you are. Be yourself forever
Thank you so much for being honest about your plastic surgery journey. It is so important for younger girls to hear this message!
Omg, I love your Cafes con Dulce, I love what you said in the last one and this one, I'm crying but it is a good cry and I know God, put those words in you and those words were exactly what I needed because I lost my vision, pasion, motivation, about my life, I been feeling lost since 3 years ago but today whatching this video and the last was Omg. Thank u from the bottom of my heart.
Actually yes, social media can be part of the cause of depression. Because that was my case. I was diagnosed with major severe depression last year and one of the reason why is the social media. I started getting my life busier so I can be not always stuck on my phone and it works, little by little, I'm not projecting my life anymore to social media and I feel better. It's a hard journey, like a drug addiction but I pray and work hard to get there.
Love cafe con dulce ! These will be fun in the winter drinking hot chocolate abuelita and pan dulce. Lol 😂
When I was turning 30 I had anxiety about it. A woman in her 40s said “girl being in your 30s is the best, I felt the greatest”. Now I am 33 and I love it!!!! I have never felt so good about myself. Ive never felt so attractive and so comfortable in my skin. Something just changed. Idk. I tell people the same thing that in my twenties I have may looked happy on the outside, but I wasn’t. I didn’t love myself one bit. I wanted to change so much about myself. The one thing of all I hated being 5ft and petite. I would always wish i was thick and super curvy. So being in my 30s I workout and earned an ok body through fitness and I’m happy. I can careless about having big boobs or a huge butt. And also, I cut out social media’s like Facebook and Instagram. All I have is Snapchat for family members. For myself personally I feel my brain has been detoxed from all of the garbage of what a woman should look like or act like.
I was 13 when I first watched your video, you opened up my mind then. I'm 20 now almost 21 and I love you. I love listening to you and lots of love and support ❤
Honestly. I love you. Lol. So I’m just sitting here feeling horrible and I love these relaxing videos. I feel like sitting crisscross on my bed just listening to ALL the Cafe con Dulce videos YUSSS...
Dulce I laughed when you said "no I didn't just learn the word" I love these I've been watching you for a few years and I appreciate your cafe con dulce episodes. You're an inspirational Latina and we need more of you!
DULCE YOU MADE ME CRY WITH THIS VIDEO.. thanks for the inspiration. ITS BEEN HARD FOR ME TO STAY POSITIVE AND ENJOY LIFE.. I GO Through ALOT IN MIND thank you!
You've really been helping me so much lately Dulce. Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your existence and your efforts to share your light with this world
Please do more of these dulce! I love listening to you talk about real life genuine things. I always hated my nose but i snapped out of it and overtime i learned to love my nose. everyone is beautiful in their own way and its sad to see people change their looks and aspire to be and look like someone else. its sad.... its good to be inspired but you gotta learn to love you and every feature that you were born with. social media has really influenced a lot of people in a negative way now a days... it sucks that people actually get wrapped up in social media, it distracts people from real life and realtime.... but godbless you girl, thank you for using your platform for greatness 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
I turned 25 on 8 september,
I am feeling so low because i have no career ,no clarity what i want to do.
It's terrible feeling😞😞😞😞
Jia shah I'm 23 and I feel the same way! Nothing interests me enough to do as a career. And I don't want to be in school debt 😭 (I don't qualify for FASFA, scholarships, or grants). I don't feel like I have a purpose anymore. It feels awful 😭
Diana Lara
same 😔😔
Diana Lara but 23 is still like you in your early 20s,but 25 is something very different,you feel like you gona be 30 very soon.
I'm 25 and feel the same way too
Diana Lara you don't have to be in school debt. I used to only work during the weekend as a waitress and save all my money for the next semester. My parents helped with books. I did not have a car. I rode the bus to the university and ended up getting a car until my very last year. I became a teacher and appreciated and valued everything I had/have. Not one cent owed no debts. Spend your money wisely. Everything is possible 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
I love these videos they're so laid back
I learned A LOT in this video Dulce I even put this message on Facebook and put your name on it because you helped me see this that I knew before but now it's more clear. Life's lessons- A life lesson will always appear to you UNTIL YOU LEARN from it!!! The same message will come time to time in different ways until YOU LEARN from it, the universe is trying to tell you something-Dulce Candy... Thank you for helping us, your subscribers !!!
When Dulce said "ya se cree" LOL had me remembering Mexico
Super excited 😊 for these type of video. You are one of kind.. and I am grateful to be on this journey with you and see you become so inspiring 💕🙏🏻😍
I really feel you about self esteem especially as a woman in early 20s still figure about your future and yourself. Just Love yourself don't listen to no one else about your appearance! Love you Dulce😄
I love sitting here and listening to you because you always have such great things that hit the spot on things I've been feeling, thank you ❤
Preeeach! Wish more people would listen...really listen...to this 💖💖💖
I love these types of videos, people now a days need positivity and inspiration, not so much hauls and makeup etc
Dulce i love your channel dont let haters get you down
Thank you!
Hola Chula!
When you said that thing about life tossing the same thing in ur life until you learn it hit me! I literally just went thru something and realized that I kept making that mistake until I DID learn from it. Another thing I learned is that until you accept who you are you won't be happy no matter how much surgery it
Makeup you wear. I think this all comes with hard lessons and time. Hopefully you come back to Vegas and we can go have dinner n drink with Riss! Xoxo keep up the great videos 😘
Glad to see how much you've grown and matured over the past few years. I am very proud of you. You were always so beautiful. At least you realize it now. Some people never realize it. ✌
your always speaking the truth!❤️
Dulce 😭😭 be my friend forever and always, you're all I look for in a best friend 😂 especially the way you laugh lol
Thank you so much for this video! I really needed to hear this. I was feeling so broken hearted, depressed and fearful that I couldn't leave the house because of all that is going on in the world. But I know I can't live in fear and need to disconnet from social media for a while to restore my hope and happiness.
Omg this is crazy you spoke about the world social media etc ... because iam going thru anxiety depression for the same thing and I started disconnecting from it and I feel so much better 💖
I'm absolutely loving these videos. You seem so intuitive and spiritually aware, it's awesome! You are very refreshing considering how disconnected and superficial so many on social media are. Thank-you for being you. You are inspiring others!
Thanks for your words, we need real talk now and days
Loved this video, thank you for talking about things that matter and that many of us can relate to 💗
Needed this today, thank you Dulce💕 I hope I can be as confident as you are one day. I'm really trying to love myself.
You are so beautiful Dulce! Been watching you since I was 13 and now I'm 20. You've helped me so much throughout the years. Always love what you have to say!!!
Thank u dulce. We need more cafe con dulce. Some motivation videos like this one. I listen to them while working with my earphones and glace at the phone every minute to make sure ur still sitting lol .
I have the same bump on my nose . I used to hate it! But I'm appreciative I have the same nose as my dad & im not ashamed of that
I'm so proud of you Dulce!! You are such an inspiration to all the women out there. Keep working hard towards your dreams!!
I almost never comment but I have to say, you are so beautiful inside & out Dulce! ❤️
I've watched your videos for a long time now and this video was very refreshing. Your honesty is appreciated and your outlook is so beautiful. ❤️
Forget Oprah, I want more Cafe con Dulce!! thank you for sharing, love this relaxing and healthy vibe you give out! I love that my good old faithful youtube makeup gurus are all taking new paths, but positive ones and using their platforms to spread great things like these little chats and a more intimate setting.
Your laugh is everything lol💕
Dulce I love the new image you are trying to give your channel. You really are an inspiration!!! Talking about more important issues in this world rather than just makeup, and you still manage to stay positive throughout. Love your videos.
Positivity and smiles are contagious! Keep that beautiful soul you have and projecting it out into the world.
That's my best friend, i love her but when we were in high school it was sooo bad that she literally would only talk about herself. Shes an only child though with older parents so its understandable but i spent a lot of my time giving her attention and advice while i couldn't get it in return. I love your advice on letting people go and although i wouldn't totally let her go, I have definitely started living more for myself more and we don't talk nearly as much because i refuse to entertain someone who cant do the same for me.
thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing these videos!❤
Love these videos youre making! It's very true the whole projecting fear thing and the fact that social media influences our depression.
Omg I love the way you put things, I love how you talk the Truth 😘😘😘
Dulce--Thank you for this wise, heartfelt message! You took my breath away 💓.
Love you girl, you're a real one 💕