Do I Regret Plastic Surgery? (Candid Personal Vlog) Dulce Candy
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- Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
- Today I want to share with you a personal and candid video on how I feel about plastic surgery now. I woke up at 2:30 am feeling restless and I decided to edit this video that has been sitting my computer for about 2 weeks now. I wasn't sure if I should talk about this publicly because it is a delicate subject that can bring up a lot of controversy. None the less, my message is still positive and I hope this video can be of some help or inspiration to someone out there. After all, that is the reason why I love doing UA-cam videos. Enjoy and leave me your comments expressing your personal opinion below.
PS: Sorry for the bad quality. I shot this with a handy cam and not my SLR since it was a spur of the moment video. Also excuse my messy closet. lol.
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I am literally crying right now reading your beautiful and uplifting comments. I THANK GOD FOR YOU!
Dulce,this is your BEST and most inspirational video I have ever watched from you.Screw that,this is THE best video I have ever watched .It is just so inspirational and real. Thank you for being yourself.
This will really help me if I have to present infront of people .I have social anxiety and it sucks,really sucks but like what you said "the bigger the fear,the bigger the opportunity" will ALWAYS stick with me for as long as I live :)
I am sooooooo grateful that you did this. I cannot imagine the courage it took to get you here. 💖 it'll take time Dulce but keep at it. You are strong and undefined and God will determine your destiny. I am so inspired to see you here. ... from your bedroom in your military uniform to red carpet appearances ☺💖. Your road ahead is bright.
God bless you and keep you happy. love from Scotland. x
+Dulce Candy I am 33 still working hard to find my true self , its hard Dulce but with the help of God we can get there , love your video.
+Dulce Candy You have such a beautiful sweet soul and I admire sooo much your integrity! You are so beautiful and I am so grateful for all you put out and share with your viewers! You continuously inspire me! Love you lots all the way from Sydney, Australia!
Love you! Since the very beginning of your UA-cam career you have been amazing! I am 4 years younger than you and I remember watching your first UA-cam videos. Keep up all your hard work..you are doing great things for women of all colors and ages!
I always wondered if your viewers were really able to see the real you, the person who lights up a room and makes everyone around her feel so much better about themselves. I think in this video you really showed that side of you and it's beautiful! Keep shining
completely agree! I love your videos Evelina!! :D
+Evelina +DulceCandy
I agree
I agree, I was considering unsubscribing to her but seeing the realness in this video changed my mind. Keep this up Dulce.
I like both of you where you made real talk of your personal life and be very inspirational and stay positive.
I loved this video Dulce! Being Mexicana I also have a bump on my nose and its very wide. My dad who unfortunately passed away had my nose.. i have always thought of plastic surgery to make it slimmer. But I always remember that this is something that I can have of him. Keep inspiring! I LOVE YOU!
Me too I'm Arabian, we gotta love ourselves ^_^ we all have our flaws and perfections
+Oh!MGlashes We have a similar story, after my Dad passed away I remember being so grateful for all my features bc that is a part of him definitely a beautiful way to look @ it
Being Guatemalan I have a bump on my nose too it makes my nose look Crocked and I wanted to change it. But now I appreciate it because it make me me
+Oh!MGlashes ..this is probably one of the best comments I have ever read on youtube. This is a very positive way to look at the "flaws" we see or what society tell us is " flawed". I say if my genetics didnt give it to me it wasnt meant to be, i feel my nose is too pointed, but hey my mom has my nose and I think she is absolutely beautiful ..Love your comment
Being African American and Mexican I have a very wide nose and a bump on my nose and I hate it.
Dulce, you are so so beautiful. Thank you for your honesty and time to make this video to educate fellow girls about self esteem. I just want to leave a little insight that really resonated with me. Nobody will ever be 100% confident with themselves. Even if they do feel that way, it's momentary and it won't be long until we feel insecure again and vice versa. It's fine because we will continue to go through life with blips along the way. Through insecurities is where we learn our worth and strength in our 'flaws'. It's not realistic to believe we will ever be 100% anyway because fortunately, nobody will ever be perfect. I feel relieved knowing now that I will never be perfect and thank goodness because it takes away all the pressure. I went to Seoul to work not long ago. I saw a lot of gorgeous women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them getting plastic surgery and it is a popular thing to do over in Korea. It takes guts and courage to be mentally and physically prepared for surgery. However, I started to see the same type of eyes, nose, face shape and lips on so many girls and guys. As great as they looked, for the first time- I really really felt good to look different from the standard beauty. We can't measure beauty with numbers from the scale. We are more than wrinkles, marks, bumps and fine lines. I am 28 myself and while I know physically- I may not be at my prime- I also feel more beautiful because I'm at a better state of mind. I believe you feeling beautiful now is a combination of your kind heart, your dedication to your family, achieving dreams and compassion you have for yourself. Love you!!!! Hope to see you soon again.
Aw girl you are being way too hard on yourself! You are such a beautiful person inside and out, don't reflect so much on regret and focus more on the lesson learned! I look up to you so much and respect you for coming out about this, we all get caught up with our appearance ALL the time it's apart of being a woman in our society and you are a beauty influencer so I don't blame you.
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+stephanie guzman LOL foreal, every time my fingers get hot cheeto stained I think of Dulce
+Jen_ny69 How is she being hard on herself? Just because it is not serious to you doesnt mean it doesnt have to be serious to her...
. she regrets her nose job just because the doctor did a bad job (internally -the leaking, and it got crooked) The best nose job is the one that you can't notice in addition to that she had been carried teenage insecurities. She's is pretty though
That's what money does, it makes you want things you don't even need.
Yes absolutely!
So true. Especially these "beauty gurus" in youtube,they all want to be someone else. I mean it is fine if you want to changes for your own good, somerhing that will make you feel better has to be from deep inside you not because you watched someone else. I see that this other youtuber(jermaine) and candy came back to their humble beginnings. I hope they keep it like that.
couldn't have said it better. A lot of the beauty gurus I have been watching for a long time all have gotten something done to them.
I wanted plastic surgery at 21, I really thought I needed it, I don't REGRET it per say, however I do think that if I could go back I would. I saved my money to get it since I was 18, I really didn't need it...
+KivetteB I disagree with you there! I think money is just a buffer to aid your self-esteem. Yes, you have the money, you actually go ahead and get things done or buy stuff, or whatever! And if you didn't have the money and you still faced self-esteem, self-confidence or any such psychological issues, you'd still WANT to get things done or buy certain stuff, but fact is you just can't afford it! Everybody WANTS things, and it's the wants and desire that help us go ahead in life.
I just had to pause the video to say that I love your mentality, you are very wise! It is so try what you said, which s what I say to people all the time. People make the mistake of trying to find happiness and love outside of themselves. they don't realize that it starts from within. You have to get to know yourself and learn to love and accept who you are as a person. Once you do that, then you automatically start loving everything about yourself, from the inside to the outside. That is how you start being confident, it just starts happening automatically, it's crazy. I know from experience, it's such a beautiful feeling.
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Please get your nose checked out because the leaking is NOT a good sign! It doesn't hurt to get it looked at. Your so beautiful and I'm happy that your accepting yourself because always remember that you have so many people who look up to you because your a inspiration and no matter how much plastic surgery you get that will never change. Your an amazing mother, wife, and friend. We are your friends and love you unconditionally. ❤❤❤
I'm sure she does get it checked out. She is a mother and a responsible adult. I highly doubt that Dulce just sits back and look at her nostril leaking and do nothing about it..
+HippieNicci D: This is Dulce you're talking to! If she reads your comment... she's going to think she's dying! lol
LOOOOOVED THIS VIDEO DULCE!! Like talking to an old friend!!!!!!!
mariale I loved you ♡
Please haters stay away.. she's just making a comment. Like seriously.. lets just focus on the message behind Dulce's video.
+LuluWeeklyDIY haters?! what happen
Claudia Claudia ... well, some people think that Mariale SinPatuque comments on other youtuber's videos to get more followers (nonsense,right?) so I went ahead and set the record straight before anybody would come alone and attack her! People have the right to comment anywhere! Mariale mentioned something about ppl attacking bc of this..I am like :really? I love Mariale too :)
Emmm , ok i lovet Mariale♡
I'm not saying this with any mean spirit in my bone. Isn't it a double standard to say accept yourself I wish I wouldn't have done the nose surgery but at the same time you say I love my breast surgery I don't regret it. It sounds like you just preferred the way you looked before the nose. And that's ok. You like your breasts. That's ok too. Someone will like their nose done as much as you had your breasts done. I don't think it would be appropriate to tell someone don't get it. My friend had hers done and has way better self esteem. It was good for HER.
+Arcy Young umm thats a good point
I see your point but also breast implants can be removed if you regret them. It is nearly impossible to reverse a rhinoplasty.
+Arcy Young I don't think she is really meaning to tell people what to do, but what she is highlighting is that these decisions shouldn't be made lightly, especially as a young woman because as we grow older we learn and we change and we see the world differently. (I'm certainly not saying this in a mean way to you because I do understand where you are coming from). I think maybe what is different is that Dulce says it (unlike a lot of other youtubers) exactly how she feels without making it so 'politically correct'.
+Arcy Young I was confused too- Nose job bad, boob job good? God made the boobs too. LOL
+Arcy Young I mean, a nose job changes your entire appearance, and a boob job is more of an addition to your body. Changing something on your face is a lot more daunting then changing/adding something on another part of your body. Also, you can have breast implants removed, you cannot reverse rhinoplasty easily.
Dulce this really spoke to me. For so long and I wanted rhinoplasty. Not because i was ever bullied for it, but because of my own insecurities. My boyfriend told me recently, out of no where (not knowing that my nose was one of my biggest insecurities) that he wanted our babies to have my nose on their faces. It was such a sweet comment and it made me rethink my decision to get a nose job. After seeing this video I am really thinking twice about my decision and you've inspired me to really love myself for who I am and for who God made me to be. Thank you❤️❤️
I was literally crying watching this. I think we all go through a phase where we hate something about ourselves. I feel like it takes time to truly love yourself and everything that makes us
I'm literally watching this video because you recommend it! ❤️
The fact that Wendy Williams trashes other women daily, and encourages her audience who are also women to join her in picking apart random women who are just trying to live their lives shows that's she is very INSECURE in the woman that she has to be to be "successful". "Say it how you mean it" is just a phrase she has to say to convince herself that what she does on that show is ok and she's not hurting anyone.
at the end of the day, wendy has a tall show, its her job to entertain and ppl enjoy the nit picking of other ppl. it is unfortunate, but if she didnt do it, they would fire her and hire another person who will.
Wendy williams is such an bad example of being a women not empowering the other! She is always being mean
+Joty Rattu well her show is doing very well so someone must be watching.
+gina ducheine I totally agree, I think when Wendy is home by herself living her real life she has more insecurities than she will let on. I do believe she enjoys talking about people for the money of course but also because it may make her feel better about her situation. I don't understand Dulce looking up to Wendy but I can see she gets her success on and all but I'm sure there's more to her than what we see on her show.
wendy's only competition is TMZ and they come on at complety different times, im pretty sure her cycle of "viewers" wont die done anytime soon considering that she is on her 7th season, she is doin something right on that show to last 7 seasons.
your nose leaking is not a good sign. please visit your physician. good luck dulce.
OMG yes! I was thinking the same thing. I was watching the show called botched and a girls nose was leaking and it turned out she had blood clots in her brain.
+Vanessa Verduzco omg saw it too hope dulce gets checked soon.
Yes!! I saw the show botched and the lady had a brain aneurysm! So scary
+Nerdy Rap Girl Yes, you're right. I think on Botched they said it could be spinal fluid.
+April Ruiz i seen that episode botched too!! scary! please dulce get that checked!
Thanks for your honesty. I don't know your backstory, but I do know that we've all felt insecure at one time or another. I've found that the key to being happy with yourself is to use your time doing things for others so you don't become self centered. Do what you love, be it music, academics, fashion etc. Volunteer, take care of your younger siblings, older people in the family, etc. when you put your family's need first, or when you're busy following your passion, you'll forget about all your imperfections and insecurities because you're busy and focused on what's more important in life. People who really love you won't care too much about how you look. They love you for who you are! So you should be kind to yourself and love you for you! You are worth it!
Dulce, you're a sweetheart. And so brave to share your honest experiences to help others. Xo! ❤
would you still have regretted ur rhinoplasty had it turned out the way u wanted or do u just regret it solely because it didn't turn out rite?
+rachalicious85 I think she regrets it because she thought it would fix her insecurity and it didn't since the problem she had came from her insecurity not because there was an actual problem.
+rachalicious85 Im sure the whole "God made me this way" wise words are just about regretting the nose didn't turn out as perfect as wished.
I don't think it's fair to judge what her idea of perfect is ...I think her nose came out fine but to her it didn't ...I feel like either way she would have still regretted it because it's something that she picked at out of her insecurity. It drastically changes your whole face and that can be hard to accept when making any physical changes besides that you have thousands of people telling you on a daily about your nose and that your previous one was better. So really her audience has a big impact because people are very negative. People judge her more than God actually would smh.
JAYLOR07 Well her boobs was also done out of insecurity. And they dont exactly got to stay the way God made them either. Still those she loves. I think its a bit shallow this whole "God made me like this, I shouldn't have changed it". Its just such a used phrase and obviously doesn't apply to other than her nose.
For her to be tremendously brave and extremely honest about a self image issue in front of 2 million people, and people still have the audacity to dislike the video, its baffling!
Wow I don't understand all the hate here. I think this video is great! You're the realest for being so honest. I loved how happy you got when talking about your moles you can tell you are genuinely happy with the way you look, and that confidence rubs off onto others!
I wish my nose looked like her old nose. It didn't look bad at all.
you have a pretty nose tho
+Adrianna Maria Oooh girl, I've never liked my nose. But thank you for the kind words. Back atchu!
+AbbySaysHella your nose fit perfectly with your face. you're beautiful
+MajestueuseLouisa geez, y'all are so nice. Thank you for that. Same to you!
+AbbySaysHella she did have a beautiful nose i loved her old one.
Your honesty and genuine nature is refreshing!! Thanks for sharing girl!! 🙌
Much love my friend!!💕
I adore your moles!!!! Gorgeous!!🙌😍
I had my nose done as well , at first i was so scared i coudnt get used to the new face ,because it changed a little bit , but i never regret it because i am so confident now, thank god i did it , i completely forgot how insecure i felt before i got it done
I wonder if it would have been a good nose job, if she would feel confident. The only reason she regrets it is simply because it went wrong.
I like how she mentioned her husband was not ok with the nose and moles but the boobs... Lol.
+lizzsalceda I agree. Why isn't she saying the same thing about her breasts?? But hey whatever makes her happy, who are we to judge
+Nar Greg I think because she had breasts before her son and after she had him she had none and didn't feel like a woman and wanted to gain her femininity. Her nose is different she already had a perfectly good nose she changed it because of her insecurities.
i got my nose done as well and i feel exactly the same as you! best decision i could ever make
+lizzsalceda ... I SO agree!!
When we start thinking "I deserve this" or "I earned this" then we lose our humility and our gratitude. That last 10% isn't a part of you that hates you. It's the part of you that reminds you to be grateful for everything you've received in life.
I'm sorry but I don't agree with you. I am all for being grateful and feel like I deserve something because I really do. I work hard and I do think I earned it. I think the issue is just be humble and don't go all out.
+Irene G. I don't see how someone can be grateful when they feel like the deserve it. "Thanks I deserve it." It's individualistic self entitlement. It's forgetting you're not the only person in the world and whatever you think you did to "deserve" whatever you've "earned" was possible not only because of you but also because of the people around you and where you are in the world. I want to hear people say "Thank you I worked hard but I'm no one in particular. I could never do anything to really deserve anything that I have or will have."
Idk. Maybe I'm just crazy. :)
+indieintroduceme "I deserve this" doesn't have to be aggressive. It's also a form of self empowerment. It's important to tell yourself you deserve to be treated right, and you deserve good things. Its not entitlement. Sometimes people work hard and people work alone. If you don't give yourself any credit for your achievements, thats not right. Its a slippery slope between feeling like you dont deserve anything on your own and low self esteem. Balancing the feeling of deserving something with being thankful for it is in fact extremely healthy.
+OdetteAndOdile yeah maybe you're right.
indieintroduceme Oh no, not at all. I think you are seeing "I deserve this" in a different way I see it. Just because I think I deserve something, does not mean I am taking all the credits. You are talking about two extremes. As I said, I deserved all the great thing in my life and I give credits where it is due. "I could never do anything to really deserve anything that I have or will have" sounds depressing as opposed to being grateful. I am sorry..
Continue with the thought of NEVER changing any of your face again you are stunningly beautiful DON'T change another thing please!
Your nose looked great before and your nose looks great now! Regret is the worst, your nose is perfect in a different way now! You're so beautiful!! Also, I think your moles is one of your best features!
You are not your nose, you are not your body, you are a beautiful soul! Be gentle and kind to yourself!
Thank you so much for talking about your nose. I've been feeling insecure with my nose after seeing another UA-camr get a nose job, and this really helped me put to words of how I need to love myself. This truly truly helped me. Thank you and I love you so much😘
i think it took alot of bravery for her to come on here and be real about what she might have thought right then but she regrets now, and she is not the only one who has done something like this and now has regrets, but as far as coming to terms with insecurities we just have to learn to accept the parts we can't change and that does not mean we won't feel insecure, somedays we will be more secure with ourselves then other's, that's just life, it's more about looking within for security not the outside that ages and changes daily.
Out of all of the beauty videos you've ever made, this is the most beautiful one 💕 Self-reflection usually occurs after you make decisions that you will later regret...which sucks! But, you appreciate yourself and will be forever confident because of it. Be blessed.
I remember when I first discovered your channel, I thought you were gorgeous! Your the definition of a beautiful latina. I totally understand your feelings because I'm the same way sometimes. I look mirror not always satisfied with the way I look cause it's so hard to not compare yourself to other people. You've accomplished so much, don't be so hard on yourself. Your so gorgeous and I can tell your a good person. :) +DulceCandy
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This was such an open and honest video Dulce! Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! I love you! ❤️
Dulce,these type of videos when you just talk about different things that are on your mind inspire me so much and make me want to achieve a lot in life. I love you for being honest, vulnerable and modest!
First world problems
doesn't mean its less of a problem !!!!!!!
+rubycheews hmmmm your kids starving versus getting anxiety on the red carpet ....I know which one is the lesser problem.
+SweetDelight so should she stop expressing her feelings? Just because there is poverty and hunger in the world, one of the BIGGEST problems in the world of course, as a human struggling with personal issues and insecurities, you can't really take this right away from her. Would you be able to go a day without expressing how you feel?
Honestly, you're an idiot
why dont you donate so the kids stop starving then? shes worked hard for her money and im pretty sure she does give back! don't get all up in someone elses face on how they spend THEIR money!
I have been so afraid to follow my dream, of singing, because of my fear of being perfect in front of an audience - Thank you for telling me the only way to get over the fear, is just to do it! I must read your book now! Thank you, my love! xo
be authentic , be you! no ones perfect..... and just be you
+Christine Di'Amore omgg i have the exact same problem when it comes to singing...i just cant because i want to be perfect when I do, but truth is you can never be perfect, even professional singers aren't :S
I agree Christine, I really do want to read her book now. I loved that comment as well about if you have fear about it you just need to do it. I have a dream of becoming a journalist/reporter but the fear of number one being on camera and talking to people scares me and I am scared of people to say things about my weight so fears stops me.
I have the same fear...although I used to sing at my church when I was 12/13 years old, I would be very insecure and think people would judge my voice or think I wasn't good...that was five years ago and I have slowly gained confidence since then but I am still insecure at times
Dulce, I have been following you for many years. I fell in love with your spirit and your style and I have always continued to check back. Your words today really spoke to me. I am 21 years old and I have always had an issue with my nose. I always thought that eventually I would take care of it and get it surgically altered. Thank you so much for coming out and being so honest and sharing that we all have flaws but they make us who we are. I do not want my sister to grow up thinking she needs to look a certain way and I do not want my future daughter to feel that pressure to be perfect. This video was a great reminder of that. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.
you are so down to earth. we love you!
On behalf of all your subscribers...........THANK YOU!! Your honesty is beautiful. Love you!
This is by far, one of the best, most honest videos I've ever seen. You made yourself vulnerable to us and it was sincere. I want so many young girls to see this video and realize that we ALL have those fears. We ALL struggle. You just have to fight through it.. you'll realize that you can be whatever you want to be. This hit home to me more than I could ever express.
This is the most vulnerable and authentic I've ever seen you in the 5+ years I've been watching you. Thank you for sharing and speaking your truth. You have no ideas how incredibly empowering your message is.
This video says so much about you. I watched/listened to the entire thing. You are being sooo real, and putting yourself out there. It is so hard to do this on SM, and you are so brave. I'm so glad you did this. SO many girls are changing themselves to fit these unrealistic images they see online. Thank you for coming forward and being so honest. Know that you are amazing!
I cried so much watching this because I still feel exactly how you did. Like you said, no one had ever said anything about my nose but in the mirror it's the ugliest part of me.
are you ok dulce? you look very sad, different, i hope everything is ok in your life, your beautiful indise and out. dont be so hard in yourself
parece que tratas mucho de aserte sentir mejor ati misma, no te vez agusto, nose como explicarlo, te vez incomoda
I hope you realize how inspiration you are Dulce! Because of you I began insanity, I'm more confident and positive!
I appreciate that you took time to open up to all viewers because there isn't anything more comforting than to hear someone that is greatly admired be so transparent especially when you know you are not at 100% yourself that day. I think this video is perhaps the most open I have seen you do. Admitting ones flaws and working towards accepting them as unique as they are is really hard. Thank you for showing us that so humbly.
after all this year you still the same person that i watched years ago... you alway there to lift up others spirits. Stay beautiful love
love these kind of videos! You look great!
+Jasmijn Veenma Thank you love! And good morning :)
Thanks for being honest that you were insecure. So many people who've had plastic surgery (for appearance not medical reasons) claim they are not insecure, and i don't believe it for a second. I can't fathom why you'd changed something so drastically if you're not insecure? If you want to change it, great! But be truthful.
+eeyoresv I guess people don't want to say out loud to others or admit to themselves that they're insecure
+eeyoresv or it makes the secure, but you know that its bull. If you love yourself noone will feel the need to change themselves..anyway thats how i feel
I've been watching you for years and I appreciate your honesty. You're so strong for putting this online; you're a beautiful person and you've accomplished so much! I hope you love yourself more each day!!
Thank you for being so honest. It takes a lot to put yourself in such a vulnerable place. You are a great person Dulce.
I can never understand the amount of hate and disdain Dulce gets from other women. It's because she's authentic, assertive and ambitious - things that many women feel they can't achieve or be, so they project their self hatred and insecurities on to her. And it's so so sad to find women repeating the cycle of internalized misogyny. No wonder so many women voted for Trump
I applaud your honesty. I felt like I was just listening to a good friend speaking. You're so sweet and so brave and I think most women can relate. We live in a world where everyone strives for this "perfect" image. It's so hard! Keep being you!
i love you so much dulce! your words give me strength to love myself more and not be so insecure which i something that ive struggled with for a long time. im so thankful that i came across your channel 4 years ago ❤
Big, crooked, bumpy noses are beautiful. As women of color in the U.S. we are always pinned against these white standards of beauty that are unrealistic and virtually unattainable due to Photoshop. The problem is Dulce, you've been and are involved with the fashion/beauty industry which holds those standards of beauty, and as women of color we often don't see ourselves represented in magazines. But you are beautiful, you were before and you are now. Thank you for making this video and having the courage to tell us your story. I hope women see this and realize that there is no one way to be beautiful
Apart from your boy, I think this video is one of the most beautiful things you've created. You're unveiling an immensely important truth, that will hopefully touch many of the hearts and minds who watch this. Thank you for opening up, you're a true beauty inside and out. Your message makes me appreciate myself more having watched this video.
P.S I like the background.. it reminds me of the old days and the "old" Candy :) xx
what i love and appreciate about you Dulce is that you're so real! I love how you're so open about your thoughts and feelings. it's just very refreshing and humbling. keep doing you boo
you are heaven sent!!!! I was having a horrible day at work that I even cried at work thanks to someone bringing me down but now that I saw your video you gave me confidence to go back to work with my head held high instead of quitting. thank you Dulce I really needed this 😘
Reading all these comments are definitely making me realize why these UA-cam sensations rarely ever talk about their deepest thoughts and feelings. It's bizarre to me how people can call dulce a hypocrite and she's lying and this and that when I'm sure not a single person saying these things actually truly know who she is. Clearly she's still learning to love herself and it's obvious that in learning to love yourself theirs so many trials and tribulations. Who can blame her for doing something she thought was right. She got her boobs done because she thought it would make her feel better, got her nose done because she thought it would make her feel better. Unfortunately her nose job didn't make her feel the way she wanted it to. She's bravely on here in front of a camera telling you guys something that's so personal... That couldn't have been easy for her. Dulce, you are beautiful inside and out and I personally am so thankful that you shared your story and experience
+Carmen Santana agree I wouldn't talk about anything serious if I knew everything I said would be clawed apart
Agree, youtubers get called liars and hypocrites for anything they say that's not beauty related, it's rather cynical and depressing
That baby cry at 11:18 scared the crap out of me.😨😰😱 Seriously I went outside to check what that was, rewinded the video and it was the video. need to stop watching scary movies. 😑 lol
also, I just turned 28, and I feel more confident too. and now that you mention that about being 30 i can't wait to feel more confident. anxiety is a real thing. I deal with it every day. It helps to know I'm not the only one feeling this way, thanks for sharing dulce! 😊😊😊
This cracks me up big time JAHAHAHAAHAH
this is so funny! with all the scary movies you watch you should know to NEVER GO OUTSIDE to check on a noise haha
+sdluv 14 lol I know , instinct did not kick in ! 😁
LMFAO 😂 That's so funny... I have a love-hate relationship with scary movies.
I am an emotional person, and lately I have been in a dark place. I watch UA-cam videos to get out of my reality for a minute. During the day I just go along with my daily task, but at night I cry. I couldn't sleep tonight, and I thought of taking a look to your channel, and I am so thankful that I did. Dulce I have following you since 2008 on all your social media, and today you touched my heart. I could see the true human in you and not just a UA-cam guru. The bigger the fear the bigger the opportunity.. I will think of that everytime I put myself down because of my fears. Thank you dulce for such an inspiring video. Te quiero mucho.
You are such an amazing and inspirational woman Dulce. Ive been watching you for years and you've always been so real. Thats what really matters in the end. Being able to stay true to yourself no matter how scary. You radiate strength even if you don't always see it. You're awesome girl!!
Thank you for this video :( it actually touched my heart bc I'm not confidence in myself at all, but after watching this video it inspires me to try and love and accept myself
i agree
I wonder what rhinoplasty surgeon you went to? You should let us know because I want to know who i should avoid
I agree
I did follow you years ago and now I just came through you're channel again an this make me just sad how YT bloggers just have to do plastic surgery, You guys don't need all of that we loved you before with all you're on perfections so don't change for an image you're not
I'm blown away by your honesty, your courage and humility. The more I get to know you, the more I've grown to respect you. Maybe it's 'cause you're my "tocaya". I don't know... but I feel this connection to you. I was insecure about my name because I was teased all my life for it (Dulce) and when I found you, that's the first time I realized how pretty the name is. You made it pretty with your buoyancy. You influence me in small ways, ways that are profound too. It's a breath of fresh air to see the real human behind the beauty blogger and know that you're more than just the frivolity of UA-cam beauty videos.
And yes... 30 is the magic number. I'm 34 right now and trust me... it's like at 28 someone takes a blindfold off your eyes and you get a much better idea of the world and the bullshit we get feed on a daily basis as women.
Dulce you're so strong, brave and honest! This video will touch many hearts and after seeing this I can honestly tell you that I admire you so much! Don't be depressed about your past decisions, with your experience you'll be able to help many people. Thank you for opening up your heart! We love you!
such channels should be banned. I m 27 and I can differentiate such bullshit from wisdom. but what about teenage girls. had I seen this when I was a 15 year old girl, I would have always believed that you need such bullshit to be beautiful.thank God,india is quite far off from such advice, our moms would box our ears
HAHAHHAHA box our ears yeah right xd
India self loathe their skin colour. Obsessed with white. Also men are favoured more than girls. India is the worst country to be in.
Hacia mucho tiempo que no me emocionaba tanto con un video, y hacia mucho que no veía un video tuyo desde que operaste tu nariz, no te reconocía al ver tu cara, pero desde hoy te veo con otros ojos. Y se que tus ojos han cambiado, te ves diferente y esa belleza se nota. Enhorabuena por encontrarte.bss
Que tiempo hace
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Thank you for being so honest I admire how brave you were in the video. I've watched you since literally day one and I have nothing but respect for you
Thank you so much for this video. I just came across it today and it's been so perfect timing! I was having a down day and i've actually always had an issue with my nose. I was feeling insecure about myself and like you mentioned, comparing myself to others. Your video made me cry because i can relate to what you said so much. I think social media like Instagram is giving people such a false image of others and their lives. Thank you for your honesty about your regret. I have always been scared to get my nose done for this exact reason. That i would not be happy with the results and regret it.
Like you said we ARE all unique but unfortunately we seem to all want to be the same. I'm going to keep reminding myself that unique is good! Gracias!
This was a heart felt video. Self growth is a virtue that not all experience. I applaud you. Confidence is a life lesson you learn in time. When you are view under a microscope by society you forget to love yourself. Confidence is Key. There is only one you, and that makes you unique. I commend your growth. Amazed you learned this lesson at 28 I am 40 and now understand. True self happiness is the most attractive. BRAVO!
Thank you for this video Dulce! It's SO honest and I appreciate that.
you have reached a whole new level of respect in my book. I have contemplated plastic surgery for my nose for years and I am so glad I didn't do it now. I love your message about not doing it because of the constant comparison we put ourselves though. I love my wide nose because its different and its me. After a lot of years of working on me I love me!! You are amazing and your candid honesty is refreshing!!!!
I love how your speaking from the heart it means a lot ...rarely you see youtubers being completely honest and open to their viewers ....and like you said as we get older out views and values do change its a shame that some people who comment just write negative things when its obious your being honest(emotional) Ive seen your videos for years and finally subscribing
I saw on botched that if one of your nostrils is leaking after rhinoplasty it may be fluid from your brain so you might want to get that checked out
Wow you really changed. People really change with age. You are such a strong woman. Good on you for coming to a point of self realization and appreciation.
+gloriaa0214 agree people do grow with time and experience, I'm glad that she's becoming reflective and realising that some of her past choices might not have been the best, as long as she realises that we all make wrong choices sometimes, we're human. maybe she should talk to someone about how she feels about herself
Thank you so much Dulce for making this video..I'm 24 and i am at a point in my life where I honestly do not know where I'm going what I should do and who I am..this video gave me some inspiration to look forward to my future and to know that I will eventually get to where I'm suppose to be with the right people. Thank you for being so honest with your subcribers. You are such a beautiful person inside and out and being able to feel a connection with someone who you do not know over a screen is great to see they are just like you/everyone else. Much love 💕
Hey dulce. I have watched your videos since 4 years ago. Watched you through your phases and wonder what ever makes you so insecure. Girl, you are amazing. Then and now. You have inspired me in a million ways. Love you! 😘❤️
Great video Dulce! I've met you in person at a few Latina events and you're such a sweet person. Keep up the great work! We love you😘
Wow I love the laid back old school videos more than the super produced ones. This is dope
I really admire how candid and honest you were in this video. You can hear the raw emotion in your voice. I can relate to the insecurities and thinking plastic surgery can alleviate that. I've never been able to have any cosmetic surgery, mainly because it was never something I could justify spending that much money on. I'm now in my late 30's and am so glad I never did anything to alter my appearance. You are right Dulce...your 30's will bring on a whole different level of self awareness and self confidence. I'm sorry you regret some of your surgery, but don't let that hamper how you see yourself. You are such a beautiful woman. Your surgeon did a beautiful job with your rhinoplasty and I happen to love your cute nose. Look in that mirror and see the beauty that we all see. Very little of what we actually see in you is skin deep...your personality shines through and is SO much more endearing than your physical appearance even though you truly are a beautiful woman. I love how you express yourself. I love how you carry yourself and that makes you beautiful. ♥
Dulce I'm so sorry for the way you feel about yourself. You are so inspiring to me! I remember telling friends about how much you've been through to get to where you are today. You are really a beautiful person. I hope you read this :)
I am constantly insecure within my self. I don't even like my husband looking at me a lot of the times. Even though he consistently tells me I'm beautiful. I feel like once I'm older I'm going to regret not being happy with my self as a young lady but I can't stop my self. I feel like I won't be happy till have plastic surgery. Your video is truly inspiring, thank you for sharing something so personal and deep. ❤️
JennPineda28 you're beautiful looking at your profile picture
Dolce. I absolutely love this video because of your heart and true self shining throughout it. I appreciate your authenticity. Regrets are OK. Our society has this 'no regrets' mentality because 'it all brought me to where I am today.' I thought this way as well when I was younger, but after maturing and growing, I understand that regrets are OK. It's ok to say that something we did was wrong and we shouldn't have done it and if we could go back we would undo it. God knows I've hurt people and said things and I would give anything to change that hurt I caused. The same can be said for things I've done to my hair or body. As we grow I think we recognize more and more that it's ok to say we messed up and we would change our screw up, if we could.
I also wanted to speak to your comment about comparing ourselves to 'everyday' women on social media rather than how it was when we grew up where we mostly saw celebrities on media and therefore that is who we compared ourselves to.
It was so easy for us growing up to say- it's ok that I'll never look like Beyoncé because she is super rich and can pay for every type of trainer and undergarment and surgery and cosmetic... So it's unreasonable to hold myself to that standard. But today, young ladies are manipulated into believing that these perfect images we see on social media are not produced and are authentic every day women, which makes it very difficult to not place the standards we see set onto ourselves.
I pray that women come to a place of general acceptance for ourselves AND each other. If we lifted more women up instead of tearing them down, I believe we would be less likely to tear ourselves down.
I love this video! Thank you again for your thoughts and openness. Love you!
+itstrincompton Dulce** (:
+itstrincompton beautifully written! I love and agree with everything you wrote.
Three Of Hearts aww, thank you, thank you!!
Great comment, I think it's fine to look back and take responsibility for things that may have gone wrong, that's being an adult
thank you for being so honest with us, i feel like you really are a close friend for sharing such personal and wise information. love you girl
i love you a little more for the video Dulce. looking back from your earlier videos until now i see your growth, struggle and transformation. thank you for sharing your insecurities with us. it truly helps. i am 26, and i hadn't yet thought of how i will feel when im 50. i love self-growth but i try not to think of my physical insecurities because i know its my weakness. i love how you focus a lot on self-love. you have no idea how eye opening this message was to me. thank you.
I can't understand if you don't like something in yourself, you will continue do plastics? I mean, nose, breasts, butt, lips and so on. One day all the women will be the same, big breasts, small nose, full lips, like xerox copies. I have issues with myself but i think i am special like this...maybe is just my mind.
I remember when she said she got a nose job. I was like , whhhhy!!! there was nothing wrong with it. I think UA-cam money just got to you and u didn't know what to do with it, so u made this dumb decision. Stop comparing your self to other and be yourself. U can never be like anyone but u.
I just found this video of you and I can honestly say I love you. I love your mentality and how wise you are. You're literally the first person on UA-cam I've found that I can 100% relate to. It's amazing and I'm so blessed and overjoyed to have come upon your videos. Thank you for opening my eyes to loving yourself first, because I've been struggling with this so much this year. & hearing this from someone like you, is just perfect. So thank you again & God Bless you!
Thank you for being so honest and i felt slightly like you may of had a little regret with the nose, but it wasn't even any of my business to stay anything or think that. I just love you for being you and your nose is not ruined, you're still beautiful and thats it. This vid was so inspiring.
I find a major flaw in this video. You're telling people to completely "love themselves" before getting plastic surgery but if you completely love and accept yourself you wouldn't want plastic surgery. Im glad you fessed up to the fact that you were in fact insecure about your nose because I'm so tired of people acting like plastic surgery doesn't stem from insecurities. When you learn to completely love yourself theres no need for plastic surgery.
thatkidd jennifer
you absolutely can completely love yourself while wanting to change or enhance your features. I had breast implants done because ive had three kids who nursed for 2yrs each. i wanted them perky and full again. if i would not have been able to do it, it would not have been the end of the world because i had no self esteem issues. youre simply not understanding, youre jumping to conclusions without knowing what youre even talking about
She's telling people to love themselves so they don't fall into the place where she is right now where she's regretting what she's done.
Girl, i honestly thought after my breast augmentation, i was gonna be a different person. More confident, outgoing and happy. Boy, was i wrong. Although i don't regret my decision at all and i love my new breasts, it didn't solve all my problems. You're absolutely right. Don't go into plastic surgery thinking it'll change your inner self.
+xtasy889 agree changing something on the outside won't make you feel better on the inside, gaining confidence from new experiences and realising you can do things as Dulce talks about is good, as well as maybe talking to a professional about things
I love you! I've been watching you since 8th grade and I just graduated HS this May! You're such an inspiration. I truly am grateful for this video, it opened my eyes. I'm definitely going to reflect on my life after viewing this. Your words of encouragement are uplifting and empowering. You're literally a role model of mines! I can see you growing and changing, for the better. God bless you, stay true to yourself! I'm so proud of you Dulce! Keep your head up! Much love from Texas! Xoxoxo
+dulce candy, thank you so much for putting up this up and speaking so openly about your experience. I watched your first video about how you spoke about your plastic surgery in Nov 13, and watching this video now, certainly shows perspective. A lot of it comes from growing up and you'd only know this through your own experience. Thank you again for having the guts to share your personal thoughts. Your words having been really inspiring.
Realest UA-camr are out there thank you for your honesty
Wow dulce this video is amazing! I was seriously considering getting my nose done because I do not like my nose! Now watch in this video made me realize that I also have my mom's nose and why would I want to change that!! Thank you so much!!
I loved this Dulce! It took great courage and I really admire that. I think that as humans we're naturally always going to have some insecurities. I'm 23 and go through it in phases. Sometimes I feel I can take on the world and the next week I don't even want to go to the grocery store and be seen by people. Thank you for sharing such a candidly personal part of your life. It means a lot because if someone as beautiful and successful as you feels that 10% than your viewers feel like it's a normal part of the growing and maturing process. Much love hermosa!
I found the link to this video on TeriGigi's channel. You are so wise beyond your years. Yes, you are beautiful on the outside but also beautiful on the inside. You got your message across loud and clear and it crosses over to all age groups. Thank you so much for being brave enough to post it.
Sometimes when I see girls on instagram and be like "wow I want those eyes" etc etc , I always tell myself, I dnt wanna regret in the future for having ppl love me because of not who I am .
We will always have insecurities within ourself, but remind yourself, who's the boss ? the insecurities or ourself .
Dulce,
The surgery is done and you can't go back. You understand that. KNOW you still look stunning and your nose is not effecting your physical apperance, like you said, not before and not now. We are our worst critics and whenver this brings you down, think of it as if it was your best friend going through this issue, what would you tell them? Tell yourself that
Thank you for your honesty. I really appreciate that because I feel connected to you even though we don´t know each other. I am insecure too and that is my biggest stress in life. I feel I am not "perfect" enough. I know there is not such thing as "perfection."! I am so tired of living out of fear and insecurities but I guess facing them is part of growing up and maturing. You have grown so much, I watched you since 2006 and all I can say is that you are an inspiration because I know you are much beautiful inside out :)
I loved this. Especially the part about the bigger the fear the bigger the opportunity. You have to potential to be a great not just beauty guru but life guru. Continue your blessed path Dulce!