You’re right, David, Melissa has been lighter the last two seasons. She saw that her reactions would intensify the wrath of Tre. Once Melissa stopped playing the game, it was over (at least for Melissa). 😊
@@LaniAnne402 yes and MORE importantly she saw her actions could cost her 1.5 million dollars a year and said to herself do I really care no? Just take the $ and run. Dolo saw it too. Everyone except Tre now Tre who needs the $ the most cost her own self the $. She’s so so dumb
@@LaniAnne402 right? like one year from Tre has earned 0 from the show for 2025 and 0 from 2024 cause last season started in 2023 and that is when they were paid and if we start thinking about it in 2026 doesnt sound like the filming will start til lie march at best so thats 2.5 years with your lost salary - maybe then the woman known as Tre with the low low IQ will finally get that she herself cost herself millions - literally millions of dollars. What a sad state of affairs to be so arrogant and emotional that you cost yourself millions into your bank account instead of laughing and saying who cares let's just make a show. She really really lost her way Tre
When Teresa was on WWHL, she sat in 2nd seat. There was blowback because her Tre huggers think she should ALWAYS in the first chair even if RHONJ isn’t on. When Melissa was in 2nd chair, it was like no big deal like it didn’t matter to her. Great attitude.
If Teresa would get her a good psychiatrist maybe 🤔 the psychiatrist could get Teresa to see, what she is holding on to, is utterly ridiculous. She needs to squash her ego and craziness and let the animosity toward her brother and Melissa go, the show would be great. When Teresa and Melissa were good with each other, the show was great. When Teresa so call friends (Kim D and Jackie, etc) come to her talking about Joe and Melissa, she needs to let them know, she doesn’t want to hear 👂 it. Husband or no husband, he wouldn’t get to talk about my brother either.
A person like tre who holds grudges forever is gonna have a hard if not impossible time reinventing anything..my own experience holding on to unpleasant situations in the past makes one never get past things and holds one prisoner. old school will be the end of tre.
@@GoldenDuet your a very smart woman. Thats correct and im legit offering her free advice here i normally charge for. She would take it and STFU and listen to you and me
@PPP-zk2vs correct. she wont. she thinks like Bethenny she knows it all but Bethenny really may know it all. Tre knows nothing. She is very very very lucky they network and Andy made her the star of the show but now she is a fired housewife for at least another year at best if not forever
David, im from RI.. and I believe you mentioned your sister lives here, i believe! BUT a RH of RI is being filmed, specifically looking an italian core, which RI has over a dozen old money-mafia money
no she is in CT BUT she went to URI. I love that and I think thats the key - I think they should reast RHONJ in RI or Philly or Chicago - the Italian / mafia / mob wives / RHIONJ version and forget about NJ as a location
The Only way Andy could get teresa to change possibly is to start flming rhonj for at least a season without her and having Melissa onit! The jealousy and anger teresa will feel will either force her to do worse things openly and she'll be fired forever or she'll get deep therapy and anger management and apologize to Melissa and Joe Gorga without expecting to ever be back on rhonj! All teresa has to do is apologize to Melissa and Joe Gorga for once and I believe they'd accept it and be willing to be cordial,shoot together and perhaps one day work on the family relationships! Melissa and Joe have apologized for thing's they've done to teresa and they even cut off Kathy because they were showing blind loyalty to teresa without ever getting the same treatment back! It's in Teresa's hands to fix what she broke!
I agree - it's so so sad but even one year - one year and a half with NOOOOOO money from RHONJ wont change her - Joe Gorga didnt stop speaking to his sister. His sister is gone. The Tre we knew 10 years Ago is gone. Shes lost it.
@@behindthevelvetrope I think that could be pretty good! I would really like to see Danielle around her real friends and see what she's like with them lol! Plus if Brittany comes on the show, more Frank Catania scenes!! Rachel too, i like her so far,,,,
It’s a lose lose situation for everyone. If Teresa returns this will solidify it is the Teresa show which will downplay whomever they cast, also the risk of being annihilated personally & potentially their businesses online by her stan’s & goto bloggers. Everyone will be fake, walking on eggshells giving another toxic season w/ overly self produced storylines. If Teresa doesn’t return & Melissa does Im pretty confident her lawyer and bloggers will unleash hell onto Melissa & Joe and the cast ensuring that they fail. Now if Teresa & Melissa don’t return for the reboot I speculate that the bloggers & stan’s will sabotage the show regardless, for justice. Every cast member can walk away because they have businesses, not Teresa. Her livelihood is the show with no other skill set to earn a salary equivalent to rhonj. Luanne was the outlier.
I think Bravo should be rid of Jenn Aydin and Margaret. Start there. They were the shit stirrers adding fuel to the family fire. One creep from each side is fair. OR they could decide to fire both Teresa and Melissa. Melissa likes to act like she is so much younger than Teresa. She isn't. She has a kid in college. So she needs to quit trying to push the youth vibe. I can see Dolores walking away with it because she remains Switzerland. She gets along with everyone and is a peace maker. I can see Dolores anchoring the show before Melissa. Because pretty much everyone likes Dolores.
Just magre shes the big problem their have been time when koe Melissa and teresa were getting along and marge called them dumb and threatened to stop talking to them if they forgive her
Teresa can’t stand that her sister in law has more class in her big toe than Teresa has all together. Melissa holds herself and speaks so much better than Teresa does. If Teresa comes back I am done with that show.
Couldn’t agree more! I honestly think Teresa hurts the show more than anything at this point. My only hesitation with Melissa is I think Joe Gorga has the same problem as Teresa in that he lives in the past, and I can see him name dropping Teresa through a new revamped RHONJ which is not what we need. I say definitely cut Jen Aydin, Margaret, and Jackie. Keep Dolo, Danielle, and Rachel for sure. Melissa I’m on the fence only for the reason I mentioned but I do think adding her back and including maybe 2 new cast members would work. I also think Jen Fessler is fun and quirky and be good to bring back but only as a friend of the housewives.
I kinda understand why Teresa can't let it go. Melissa came on the show and humiliated Teresa's family on national television. Melissa played a victim and riled Joe up against his sister. Teresa never got justice. Jacqueline Laurita said Melissa tried to turn her and others against Teresa. Melissa will never admit it. I think that's why Teresa can't let go.
I know you're right but the injustice ughhhh. But I get it. Btw love you David and love behind the velvet rope. Look forward to your rhonj talks everyday!!!
With all due respect to how you feel, I would like to know how did Melissa humiliate Teresa and her family. From the shows I saw 👀, Teresa was looking 👀 for things to spread about Melissa. She has always called her a prostitute. She didn’t want her brother with her. Melissa even begged her to stop 🛑 torturing her family. She tried everything to get along with Teresa for Joe’s sake. There is always a possibility, Jackie could be lying.
@behindthevelvetrope yes she the problem everytime the 3 of them try to move forward she pulls Melissa and joe back and widens the wedge between Melissa and teresa and joe
I am a real NJ housewife and have been watching this show since season 1. BRAVO NEEDS TO CANCEL THIS SHOW. LAST SEASON WAS ONE OF THE WORST. I BLAME TERESA SHE IS THE ONE WHO REFUSE TO FILM WITH MELISSA. IM NOT GOING TO WATCH ANY NEW SEASON UNLESS THEY BRING BACK CAROLINE JACKYN AND DANIELLE AND ROSIE AND KATHY
I love your podcast! You always keep it real and ALWAYS have the best guests on!!
Awe thank you
You’re right, David, Melissa has been lighter the last two seasons. She saw that her reactions would intensify the wrath of Tre. Once Melissa stopped playing the game, it was over (at least for Melissa). 😊
@@LaniAnne402 yes and MORE importantly she saw her actions could cost her 1.5 million dollars a year and said to herself do I really care no? Just take the $ and run. Dolo saw it too. Everyone except Tre now Tre who needs the $ the most cost her own self the $. She’s so so dumb
@@behindthevelvetrope Wow 😮 you are truly on target, David.
@@LaniAnne402 right? like one year from Tre has earned 0 from the show for 2025 and 0 from 2024 cause last season started in 2023 and that is when they were paid and if we start thinking about it in 2026 doesnt sound like the filming will start til lie march at best so thats 2.5 years with your lost salary - maybe then the woman known as Tre with the low low IQ will finally get that she herself cost herself millions - literally millions of dollars. What a sad state of affairs to be so arrogant and emotional that you cost yourself millions into your bank account instead of laughing and saying who cares let's just make a show. She really really lost her way Tre
When Teresa was on WWHL, she sat in 2nd seat. There was blowback because her Tre huggers think she should ALWAYS in the first chair even if RHONJ isn’t on. When Melissa was in 2nd chair, it was like no big deal like it didn’t matter to her. Great attitude.
I agree with you 10000000000
If Teresa would get her a good psychiatrist maybe 🤔 the psychiatrist could get Teresa to see, what she is holding on to, is utterly ridiculous. She needs to squash her ego and craziness and let the animosity toward her brother and Melissa go, the show would be great. When Teresa and Melissa were good with each other, the show was great. When Teresa so call friends (Kim D and Jackie, etc) come to her talking about Joe and Melissa, she needs to let them know, she doesn’t want to hear 👂 it. Husband or no husband, he wouldn’t get to talk about my brother either.
It was a great opportunity to plug her new business. Melissa played it to perfection.
@@MarjorieWilliams-cf5yl but could a psychiatrist really help her? shes really gone. I think shes gone
@@WhatFC brilliant
A person like tre who holds grudges forever is gonna have a hard if not impossible time reinventing anything..my own experience holding on to unpleasant situations in the past makes one never get past things and holds one prisoner. old school will be the end of tre.
@@patriciapfeiffer8184 I agree with every last single thing u just said
She is not old school , she is just not intelligent that’s why she can’t act progressively
I think the more Teresa sounds like a broken record, her chances of returning will dwindle. JMO
@@GoldenDuet your a very smart woman. Thats correct and im legit offering her free advice here i normally charge for. She would take it and STFU and listen to you and me
If only.
Yep but she won’t
@@bsota8513 LOL
@PPP-zk2vs correct. she wont. she thinks like Bethenny she knows it all but Bethenny really may know it all. Tre knows nothing. She is very very very lucky they network and Andy made her the star of the show but now she is a fired housewife for at least another year at best if not forever
Excellent advice
Thank you very much
David, im from RI.. and I believe you mentioned your sister lives here, i believe! BUT a RH of RI is being filmed, specifically looking an italian core, which RI has over a dozen old money-mafia money
no she is in CT BUT she went to URI. I love that and I think thats the key - I think they should reast RHONJ in RI or Philly or Chicago - the Italian / mafia / mob wives / RHIONJ version and forget about NJ as a location
The Only way Andy could get teresa to change possibly is to start flming rhonj for at least a season without her and having Melissa onit! The jealousy and anger teresa will feel will either force her to do worse things openly and she'll be fired forever or she'll get deep therapy and anger management and apologize to Melissa and Joe Gorga without expecting to ever be back on rhonj! All teresa has to do is apologize to Melissa and Joe Gorga for once and I believe they'd accept it and be willing to be cordial,shoot together and perhaps one day work on the family relationships! Melissa and Joe have apologized for thing's they've done to teresa and they even cut off Kathy because they were showing blind loyalty to teresa without ever getting the same treatment back! It's in Teresa's hands to fix what she broke!
Melissa and Joe have apologized even for things they didn't do.
I agree - it's so so sad but even one year - one year and a half with NOOOOOO money from RHONJ wont change her - Joe Gorga didnt stop speaking to his sister. His sister is gone. The Tre we knew 10 years Ago is gone. Shes lost it.
That’s a great 👍 idea 💡.
Well said hopefully enough time will pass and the franchise can have a fresh start
I hope
I’m not so sure
I’m really not
But I hope
We will all be different humans 400 days from now
@@behindthevelvetrope I hope we will be able to live for today. We are in this together. ❤
@@LaniAnne402 yew and yes - If im alive in 2026 when it comes back - if it comes back - ill watch it
@@behindthevelvetrope You’ll be around. 😉😍
@@LaniAnne402 thank you
mel looked sooo frckn goood on wwhl. damn grl. 😍
yup
I like Danielle and Rachel Fuda....maybe they can bring some of their friends? and that hair stylist Lina? Ohh and Franks fiance Brittany!!
yes yes and yes
@@behindthevelvetrope I think that could be pretty good! I would really like to see Danielle around her real friends and see what she's like with them lol! Plus if Brittany comes on the show, more Frank Catania scenes!! Rachel too, i like her so far,,,,
It’s a lose lose situation for everyone. If Teresa returns this will solidify it is the Teresa show which will downplay whomever they cast, also the risk of being annihilated personally & potentially their businesses online by her stan’s & goto bloggers. Everyone will be fake, walking on eggshells giving another toxic season w/ overly self produced storylines. If Teresa doesn’t return & Melissa does Im pretty confident her lawyer and bloggers will unleash hell onto Melissa & Joe and the cast ensuring that they fail. Now if Teresa & Melissa don’t return for the reboot I speculate that the bloggers & stan’s will sabotage the show regardless, for justice. Every cast member can walk away because they have businesses, not Teresa. Her livelihood is the show with no other skill set to earn a salary equivalent to rhonj. Luanne was the outlier.
These are all very very very very very good points
I think Bravo should be rid of Jenn Aydin and Margaret. Start there. They were the shit stirrers adding fuel to the family fire. One creep from each side is fair. OR they could decide to fire both Teresa and Melissa. Melissa likes to act like she is so much younger than Teresa. She isn't. She has a kid in college. So she needs to quit trying to push the youth vibe. I can see Dolores walking away with it because she remains Switzerland. She gets along with everyone and is a peace maker. I can see Dolores anchoring the show before Melissa. Because pretty much everyone likes Dolores.
I am 99 percent sure both Marge and Aydin will be gone - trust me on this
@@behindthevelvetrope Interesting 🤔
@@LaniAnne402 yes
Just magre shes the big problem their have been time when koe Melissa and teresa were getting along and marge called them dumb and threatened to stop talking to them if they forgive her
@@behindthevelvetropeJen Aydin should have been fired as soon as the news about her talking to bloggers and especially leaking the screeners!!
Bring back The Staub! lol
@@ManuelPabloArnao she’s an ICON
Teresa can’t stand that her sister in law has more class in her big toe than Teresa has all together. Melissa holds herself and speaks so much better than Teresa does. If Teresa comes back I am done with that show.
Truth
Couldn’t agree more!
I honestly think Teresa hurts the show more than anything at this point. My only hesitation with Melissa is I think Joe Gorga has the same problem as Teresa in that he lives in the past, and I can see him name dropping Teresa through a new revamped RHONJ which is not what we need.
I say definitely cut Jen Aydin, Margaret, and Jackie. Keep Dolo, Danielle, and Rachel for sure. Melissa I’m on the fence only for the reason I mentioned but I do think adding her back and including maybe 2 new cast members would work. I also think Jen Fessler is fun and quirky and be good to bring back but only as a friend of the housewives.
@@salty7478 all great points
Teresa should rebrand and not bring up the past….explain the Sprinkle Cookies….
@@LoLoC228 yes and yes
I kinda understand why Teresa can't let it go. Melissa came on the show and humiliated Teresa's family on national television. Melissa played a victim and riled Joe up against his sister. Teresa never got justice. Jacqueline Laurita said Melissa tried to turn her and others against Teresa. Melissa will never admit it. I think that's why Teresa can't let go.
@@VicTrifoli but you win in life but not giving one F and letting it go. Let it go. Breathe in and out Tre
I know you're right but the injustice ughhhh. But I get it. Btw love you David and love behind the velvet rope. Look forward to your rhonj talks everyday!!!
With all due respect to how you feel, I would like to know how did Melissa humiliate Teresa and her family. From the shows I saw 👀, Teresa was looking 👀 for things to spread about Melissa. She has always called her a prostitute. She didn’t want her brother with her. Melissa even begged her to stop 🛑 torturing her family. She tried everything to get along with Teresa for Joe’s sake. There is always a possibility, Jackie could be lying.
Never saw Melissa do that.
@@MarjorieWilliams-cf5yl Agree. It was always Teresa doing nasty things. I quit watching near the last few seasons.
Get rid of marge and and lets see how it goes marge is the problem. Melissa and teresa can get along without the puppet marge
Love Marge
you think?
@@bsota8513 tons do
@behindthevelvetrope yes she the problem everytime the 3 of them try to move forward she pulls Melissa and joe back and widens the wedge between Melissa and teresa and joe
I am a real NJ housewife and have been watching this show since season 1. BRAVO NEEDS TO CANCEL THIS SHOW. LAST SEASON WAS ONE OF THE WORST. I BLAME TERESA SHE IS THE ONE WHO REFUSE TO FILM WITH MELISSA. IM NOT GOING TO WATCH ANY NEW SEASON UNLESS THEY BRING BACK CAROLINE JACKYN AND DANIELLE AND ROSIE AND KATHY
@@polamidget1926 I agree with you that it should be cancelled - I really really agree
Cancelled or re-casted with all new housewives leaving only Danielle and Rachel to return
Those days are gone…they were great seasons but it’s in the past
@@ED80s agreed 100
@@WASHASHOREBEAUTY beyond in the past correct - its over - the 5 stages of grief for everyone has started