aww thanks for being vulnerable with that heart-to-heart. the transition between late 20s to early 30s is interesting (I just turned 33). we feel like we should know the answers but to be honest life is a journey. all we can do is be honest in how we feel and struggle and there are some days it feels like it all makes sense but some days it still wont, best of luck on your journey :)
Hey Weylie! I've been a silent viewer for years and I just wanted to say I loved this vlog. Between seeing Navi so happy at the beach and your new outlook on life, this was very wholesome. You will create and recreate yourself at various moments in your life. When our wants and needs adjust, shouldn't we also? Finding yourself is like searching for your old self like you said. We are all trying to figure it out and I'm sure you will too! Much love ❤
When you said perhaps you and Navi saved each other 😭😭😭 girl I’m holding back tears!! I love seeing how happy Navi is and how much life and joy she contributes to your little family!! 💕 thank you for sharing weylie, sending hugs!!
Yeeees! We love all our animals, but some are really our spirit animals like Navi is for Weylie. I have a cat that is this kind of animal for me (in the pic). We love eachother so much and we've been through so many things together - moves, being without money, horrible breakups ... but also through so many beautiful things. She is such a happy, loving little soul.
Hi Weylie, I can so relate with what you’re saying. I look back at the things I did when I was younger and wonder how I could have been so brave and fearless. Now, a few unrealized dreams later, I’m much more reserved and quiet. Yet in these last few months, I’m feeling a renaissance - a combination of the ambition of my youth, with the wisdom of experience. Here’s to making peace with our past, with all its gifts and grievances, and hope for what the future holds.
wow i love that quote about creating yourself instead of “finding” yourself. i can identify with that so much. i feel like we get so used to being told what to do & how to do it that we forget we can absolutely create what & who we are! ✨
Weylie - your words resonated with me deeply. I’m at a transitioning point in my life right now, facing a lot of uncertainty and doing a lot of self-reflection. Hearing you, someone who I’ve looked up to for years, continue to speak candidly about your own journey with anxiety and self-discovery, has allowed me to look at this time in my own life less critically and with more grace and kindness. Virtual hugs. ♡
Dont apologies girl! We are here for you which ever content you want to do & whatever you feel like filming. I’m so glad you feel comfortable expressing your inner most thoughts. It really resonated with me because I’m always questioning if I am the best me and still trying to find myself.
This is exactly how I’ve been feeling!!! I’m glad to hear I am not the only one. I felt stuck & trying to find myself but I love how you put it, I want to create another version & move forward.
I had not watched your videos for for about 5 years and just coming back to you now, I’m astounded by your growth and maturity. Thank you for sharing your lives with the viewers ❤
I resonated so much with what you said about being spontaneous in the past and now being afraid to go out. I just recently went to the movie theater alone for the first time in awhile (pre-pandemic) and it was scary but empowering! It’s hard to do things, especially alone, with all the crimes going on even in broad daylight. Definitely need to be in the right headspace to be spontaneous nowadays but I believe in you! I love this type of intimate videos and feel so much of what you’re feeling. I can’t wait to see what ways you want to revive from your previous versions of yourself and how you want to reinvent yourself in other ways!
Yesss! I know what you mean! To some people, the "little things" may seem so natural to them, but for some, it takes a little more bravery. Today, since who knows how long ago, I just went out, drove myself, and ran errands on my own. I use to go out all on my own back then, but somehow for the past few years I got comfortable with going out with someone else, and I completely forgot about how I used to do that all on my own. But today, I'm reminded that I used to tell myself that I don't want to live a life in fear, and so I need to go out, but of course, be cautious of my surroundings. Thank you for sharing a heart to heart moment, Weylie. These are the small things that go unheard/unnoticed.
its funny that your spontaneous and "being all over the place" content tends to be the most resonating with me. i love the quote about not finding yourself but creating yourself. good luck on your journey!
aw i really needed that virtual hug from you.. also don't worry about your vlogs being all over the place, I really appreciate and love the honesty in your vlogs. no one expects you to have it all together to vlog, we just love walking alongside you as you figure things out and support you along the way! thank you for being vulnerable and honest with us. I dont know about other people, but i love that part of your vlog and it brings me comfort knowing i'm not alone when I'm also finding myself. i love you so much weylie!!!
Love this vlog so much!! Love just enjoying time with my dog and enjoying the moment while helping him enjoy his life. I totally relate - I used to be and loved being independent, doing whatever I wanted whenever I wanted but the past two years have changed that. I hate and almost never go out alone anymore. I like the idea of creating yourself and getting over anxiety little by little.
I love the honesty Weylie! I know most of us just like hearing from you, even if you feel like you don't have it together. It gives me a moment of peace and someone nice to sit with while I eat my lunch
I love vlogs like this! It’s so nice to see the little things LA has to offer! Yes the sunset and beach looked gorgeous here but I loved seeing the market and everything it has to offer 💛
Thank you for taking the courage to open up about these topics, it really makes it feel like we're all in this together, learning, exploring, and growing at the same time. This vlog was so comforting.
Weylie i feel the same way. seeing so much violence against women has me feeling so vulnerable the past few years. trying to live my life instead of being in fear (while still exercising a healthy level of caution). it’s even worse for AAPI ppl right now. i hope things get better.
Showing us what you're doing does have a ton of meaning. A lot of us have been here since the very beginning and you've always brought the best vibes and a respite among the chaos of the world. It may seem mundane but sometimes vlogs are precisely what the world needs in our little corner of the internet.
That last couple of minutes hit home. I have been feeling like that for a long time. Good thing you realized that you're looking for you. The harder question is which version of you. I would say the present you is the best answer. Past you made you who you are today. You are living and every day you get the chance to find the truest form of you. It will take time but some time taking it slow is the best. Thank you for sharing a bit of your life with us. Have an amazing day!
I always love these heart to heart convos! this is why I've always considered you as a huge inspiration to me since I was in high school. your words definitely resonated with me because I'm currently on the same boat as well! I wish you the best of luck on your journey
From a person who started watching your channel a long time ago back when you taught us all how to use a tampon, I can say that you’ve been a true inspiration. Watching you grow as a human and being so real with us along the way is so refreshing. I hope to see you grow into the person you’re meant to be. And I agree, I think that we are meant to discover out who we are and who we want to be. I don’t think we ever find ourselves but we figure out what we want. You’ll get there, we all will one day.
Awee Weylie, no need to apologize for not having everything figured out. I appreciate ur honesty more than anything else! Thank you for creating this and being vulnerable with us 💕
There is no need to apologize! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. I think it’s beautiful and love seeing you at the beach with Navi. You both looked so happy and at peace and those moments are so precious! I’m moving into a new phase of my life and seeing your vlog has helped me so much and I’m happy to see you doing things that benefit your happiness and your peace. The beach is such a healing place and I can’t wait to spend more time there with my dog in the near future. Thank you Weylie, again for sharing, you are literally the best ! You got it girl !
I’m on a similar journey as well and knowing that I’m not alone means so much. I honestly started to cry when you gave that virtual hug. Much love to you and I know beyond the struggle the future is bright and it will all be worth it in the end. Been watching your vids since 2007 and I’ve always seen you as a big sister I’ve never had. Thank you for being you ❤️
you don’t have to apologise and I personally really like this vlog. it’s authentic, raw, genuine and heartwarming at the same time. Ty for sharing and I particularly enjoyed the beach part ✨🤍
+1 to feeling fearful lately! I do exactly this - go to the beach by myself and watch sunsets. But I can’t stretch myself farther than that because of fear lately. Tearful when you spoke about this because I 100% relate.
I've been going through a lot of things lately. On days like today, I find myself grieving the old me and I just wanted to say I needed to hear that quote because it relates so much to my life right now. Thank you for always putting out meaningful videos like this one 💕
Don’t apologize I’ve been here since the beginning and what I appreciate about you the most is your transparency. I think this blog is beautiful. I can’t speak for everyone else but I know that I’ll continue to be here to support you until you find what it is you want to blog about. 💕
The conversation you had with us in the end was very enlightening because I feel the same way in how you want to incorporate back your spontaneous self, but also in the process of creating a new self. I’m currently in that stage you were describing, having a new found freedom and being spontaneous. I have also heard of that quote from Wah, the quote helps to remember that we have control over who we become, manifesting who we want to be.
I recently lost my 17yo doggie and honestly, watching you with Navi having fun really makes my heart warm, thanks for sharing these little moments that truly speak to us
as someone in their early 20s, just starting out in the workforce i didnt realise how much i needed that virtual hug. things are tough right now but i hope it will pass. i hope i get through. seeing navi sprinting around the beach and your h2h talk made my day better :) continue to do you! we dont always have to have things planned out and things dont always go as planned anyway. sending hugs to you too
aww i love how raw and pure this vlog was. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Weylie! It definitely resonated with me. You got this girl! Also Navi is seriously an angel.
i love the creating me quote. i never know how to “find me” if i dont even know what i am? so that really touched a core part of me. thank you for sharing
hi weylie! i actually really liked that you talked about that ☺️ i think it’s something i struggle with too. there are so many different sides of me, including those that i haven’t ever shown, that i’m trying to synthesize into one cohesive being. and it’s hard!! but i love that idea of creating a new self. there isn’t one single way we have to be, AND it’s something that’s always evolving. thanks for the heart to heart talk ☺️ i enjoyed hearing your thoughts!
Weylie! I absolutely loved this vlog. And thank you for your words and support and I loved the hug at the end. I'm also in my 20s so I could resonate with what you said about finding vs. creating yourself. No matter what content you choose to create, I'll always support you
I definitely resonated with the idea of finding yourself, but not really sure who I’m finding. I like the idea of creating myself, so thank you for sharing!🥰
As a 29 year old I completely understand. Since having Covid last year I started feeling super unsafe and fearful, I hate feeling like that. Also kind of funny that I have basically grown up with you. I’ve been watching your videos since you were in high school.
Weylie I love you so much. Whoever you are now and whoever you become, you are such a kind and beautiful soul. Thank you for existing and providing us with your wisdom 🥺❤️
Oooooh.. it might be a phase everyone goes through before/after 30. I was in the same shoe. I kept dreaming of my old home town and the people I used to know. I felt safe and loved. I think it was my mind trying to find my old self, because my waking hours, I occasionally reminisce my young days. I was naive and flexible. I knew how to have fun, what I wanted, and aimed for it. During my late 20s/ early 30s, I became rigid with my decisions, because I kept doing the “I should” instead of understanding and accepting myself for who I am today. It took therapy, research, and time to define who I am. I hope you can define yourself one day too.
Love the aesthetic in this vlog, esp the sunset at the beach! And pls don't feel sorry about whether this video is all over the place bc I absolutely love how raw it is (i love all your HTHT vlogs btw). Yes, the virtual hug was cheesy but I returned the hug back lol. I hope you feel better soon and get to where you wanna be eventually.
I am on that bridge between finding myself and creating my new self! I've been telling myself that this is normal for late 20s and it's also a really fun time to create memories and live life before everything settles in. It's an exciting time weylie! :)
thanks for sharing this weylie! this spoke to me SO much because ive been feeling the exact same way but haven't been able to truly describe it and i love what wah mentioned to you cuz that just...sums it all up so much. i really love these vlogs
we love you weylie! (big virtual hug right back atcha! 🥰) and i totally feel ya about feeling unsafe going out alone (especially these last few years). i too was the same - when i first started driving yeeeaaars ago i was going all over town! i loved that feeling of being "independent" and just seeing where the day took me, but i think with everything that's been going on in our world these last few years i've found myself living more in fear for the safety of not just myself, but my family and all my loved ones. life is definitely too short to live it in that way so been trying to remind myself to live it fully, live it freely, and live it with love
I always enjoy your vlogs and I think this one is a great one as well. Fun moments mixed with some honest open moments 😊 I'm leaving my 20s and definitely feeling some of that searching and desire to find who I am at this stage. Thank you for sharing with us
Omg that is a great quote that I also need to learn from! I’m also in a place where I feel kind of stuck, trying to find myself. I definitely do think I need to change that mindset and create myself instead! Love intimate vlogs like these!!
All the comments here are so kind! I'm going through a similar phase now too, missing some parts of my younger self and feeling like I'm losing myself a little bit at times. Thanks for sharing the quote! It's a food for thought for sure❤
Such a lovely vlog! Thank you for sharing what you're experiencing! I find myself feeling very similarly and I love the quote you shared! It adds a new perspective of having the freedom to create the person you want to be rather than searching for yourself (which feels a little more limited)!
Hey Weylie! Just wanted to say that I’ve been a long time viewer and have always enjoyed the different types of content you’ve created over the years. This vlog in particular feels extremely special and I appreciate you being open about your journey! 🥰
can you do a video of Navi's journey? from the day you got her to how far she has come and how you guys helped her recover from trauma. i think it will also inspire a lot of people to adopt :)
I love this Vlog as always! Also I can relate to how you’re feeling about being unsafe. I’ve talked with my therapist about how younger me didn’t think twice about going out and having fun. Now I’m more worried and anxious when I go out. Sending you love! ❤️
This helped me alot, thanks Weylie! I've been feeling very lost for the past few weeks, trying to figure out who I am, trying to ''find myself''. I'm 23 now and graduating in 2 months. I really love how you put it: creating myself. That gave a whole different perspective on things. Thanks for opening up :)
i loved this vlog, i felt very safe and held by the last part 💓 i also like thinking of it as rediscovering parts of ourselves that we haven’t been as connected to or that we lost and also creating new parts of ourselves!!
i totally feel you about trying to share more geniune content and creating, i feel like i am also going through a bit of being unsure what content to put out, i love sharing my life in vlogs but also like trying to find topics to talk about that are meaningful and others would like to hear about too..thank you for sharing yoru life moments and honesty Weylie 💗
love this lil heart to heart moment. feels like the deep talks i have with my girlfriends out of nowhere haha. Love seeing this introspective side of you that you don't usually get to show in other vlogs :)
This was perfect and I feel you!! I’ve been feeling like that too for awhile. Not myself. I also lost my spontaneous brave me. I like how you said “create” instead of “find”. We can do this!!
Hey Weylie, just wanna say I really enjoyed this little vlog! You don't need to be sorry for it being 'messy', I don't think it's all over the place at all. I actually think it's great that you did things spontaneously because you felt like it, sometimes we just have those moments and that makes life more fun! I think that's definitely meaningful in itself. Also seeing Navi being so excited at the beach made me happy too! I hope you don't worry too much about your vlogs not being 'meaningful' or 'organized' enough, I follow you as a person, not for how 'perfect' the content is! 'Finding yourself' can be confusing, I think I'd rather just call it picking out qualities that you liked as your past self whilst trying to grow and evolve into your new self at the same time, and I'm sure you will. Thank you for always being so open and real ❤
damn Weylie, I teared up listening to your little spiel in the car. I completely relate, and I just came back from visiting LA (and California/the US) for the first time a couple of days ago, which has put me in a really pensive mood. as someone close to you in age, I really feel every word that you said. your recent videos especially have been super cathartic for me, please keep doing what you're doing!
Just wanted to pop in a say thank you for sharing this! I started watching your videos at the beginning of the pandemic and honestly, you and Wah inspired me to chase my dreams and move from GA to SoCal. This month marked my bf and I’s one year anniversary here!!! Tbh, the transition has been a little challenging bc it forced us outside of our comfort zones. I feel like I’m in a similar place where I’m learning to “create” myself all over again! But there is beauty in that 💕 Learning to embrace the new stages of life is scary but when we share our experiences with others it helps us feel connected. You got this Weylie!
Love that quote that Wah told you. I definitely feel you, I'm gonna turn 30 this year and there's been so many times in the past 2-3 years where I've felt lost as well.
This really spoke to me. I’m dealing with a lot of similar things. Thank you for sharing this beautiful solo vlog. I wish you so much peace and patience 💖
we are all living different lives, yet we find ourselves in the same predicament. I have also turned to my younger self to remember who I was and who I am. I started picking up things I stopped doing when I had gotten "busy" being an "adult". I'm glad we have our past selves to remember what we are.❤
I love these talks Weylie, I feel like I’m right there catching up with a friend. Navi is the sweetest, I love seeing the love you have for your fur babies💕
Love this relaxing and talking kind of vlog along with your usual ones! What is that camera Wah has around his neck? Also, are you going to blog!? I'm so excited if you are! I hope blogs come back around like back in the day. Currently getting a 403 Forbidden message when trying to access the site though.
This was such a relatable vlog. I wanted to ask if you don’t mind where your coveralls are from in the opening they are so cute, I can’t stop thinking about them. Thank you!
i love those virtual hugs! hehe i would really love to have a friend like you, who is real and sincere. I look forward to your videos and the feeling it gives me, just seeing you on my ig story lights up my day. I hope you have a wonderful day too!!!
Your channel is my favorite!! Thanks so much for creating these honest and beautiful contents! It gives me ideas how to live my life more fully! We are all a work in progress, just want to let you know that you are perfect the way you are. Sending love, ❤️
Weylie!! Love the vlog and the little heart-to-heart at the end. I'm not sure if you have ever explored astrology, but you're probably going through your Saturn return right now. This happens to every person in their late 20s into their early 30s (usually around 27-29). Generally, it can be a tough time for many people but is also very a significant time in our lives. If you do plan to look into it more, I hope it can help you with understanding the stage you're going through right now. :)
Aww Weylie! I love you and your channel so much! You truly feel like a sister to me...this was so wholesome, I have felt like that as well especially in the past two years.. I truly want to find meaning and reveal layers of me that haven't been discovered yet. I understand you, and I thank you for putting this out here and inspiring not only me, but everyone! I found it so endearing and beautiful that you took Navi out with you to enjoy the sunset and the breeze, Navi is a beautiful, pure soul. 💜 lot of love and light sent your way.
What a relaxing beautiful vlog 🥰 love the beach at the beach....In England where I am the nearest one is just under 2 hours away but it's worth it as I love how calming it is. Definitely does pick up with wind by evening and in our on off weather loo
I love that you wish u lived closer to the beach BECAUSE of Navi loving it so much!! Dogs deserve to be spoiled and knowing what type of abuse she came from in the past vs now.. she is SO SO MUCH HAPPIER!!!! Love that for her!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you inspire me in so many ways!!!
aww thanks for being vulnerable with that heart-to-heart. the transition between late 20s to early 30s is interesting (I just turned 33). we feel like we should know the answers but to be honest life is a journey. all we can do is be honest in how we feel and struggle and there are some days it feels like it all makes sense but some days it still wont, best of luck on your journey :)
Awww....thank you for this. It really spoke to me and I'm sure to many others. Best of luck on your journey as well. ❣
Hey Weylie! I've been a silent viewer for years and I just wanted to say I loved this vlog. Between seeing Navi so happy at the beach and your new outlook on life, this was very wholesome. You will create and recreate yourself at various moments in your life. When our wants and needs adjust, shouldn't we also? Finding yourself is like searching for your old self like you said. We are all trying to figure it out and I'm sure you will too! Much love ❤
This was so well said. I needed this today. Thank you, Diana ❣
When you said perhaps you and Navi saved each other 😭😭😭 girl I’m holding back tears!! I love seeing how happy Navi is and how much life and joy she contributes to your little family!! 💕 thank you for sharing weylie, sending hugs!!
Yeeees! We love all our animals, but some are really our spirit animals like Navi is for Weylie. I have a cat that is this kind of animal for me (in the pic). We love eachother so much and we've been through so many things together - moves, being without money, horrible breakups ... but also through so many beautiful things. She is such a happy, loving little soul.
Hi Weylie, I can so relate with what you’re saying. I look back at the things I did when I was younger and wonder how I could have been so brave and fearless. Now, a few unrealized dreams later, I’m much more reserved and quiet. Yet in these last few months, I’m feeling a renaissance - a combination of the ambition of my youth, with the wisdom of experience. Here’s to making peace with our past, with all its gifts and grievances, and hope for what the future holds.
Hi...I really appreciate if you watch my last video🙇🏻♀️💜
wow i love that quote about creating yourself instead of “finding” yourself. i can identify with that so much. i feel like we get so used to being told what to do & how to do it that we forget we can absolutely create what & who we are! ✨
Weylie - your words resonated with me deeply. I’m at a transitioning point in my life right now, facing a lot of uncertainty and doing a lot of self-reflection. Hearing you, someone who I’ve looked up to for years, continue to speak candidly about your own journey with anxiety and self-discovery, has allowed me to look at this time in my own life less critically and with more grace and kindness. Virtual hugs. ♡
Dont apologies girl! We are here for you which ever content you want to do & whatever you feel like filming. I’m so glad you feel comfortable expressing your inner most thoughts. It really resonated with me because I’m always questioning if I am the best me and still trying to find myself.
This is exactly how I’ve been feeling!!! I’m glad to hear I am not the only one. I felt stuck & trying to find myself but I love how you put it, I want to create another version & move forward.
Wow weylie, there really aren't enough UA-camrs who are as raw and honest as you. We appreciate your presence here ❤️
I had not watched your videos for for about 5 years and just coming back to you now, I’m astounded by your growth and maturity. Thank you for sharing your lives with the viewers ❤
I resonated so much with what you said about being spontaneous in the past and now being afraid to go out. I just recently went to the movie theater alone for the first time in awhile (pre-pandemic) and it was scary but empowering! It’s hard to do things, especially alone, with all the crimes going on even in broad daylight. Definitely need to be in the right headspace to be spontaneous nowadays but I believe in you! I love this type of intimate videos and feel so much of what you’re feeling. I can’t wait to see what ways you want to revive from your previous versions of yourself and how you want to reinvent yourself in other ways!
Yesss! I know what you mean! To some people, the "little things" may seem so natural to them, but for some, it takes a little more bravery. Today, since who knows how long ago, I just went out, drove myself, and ran errands on my own. I use to go out all on my own back then, but somehow for the past few years I got comfortable with going out with someone else, and I completely forgot about how I used to do that all on my own. But today, I'm reminded that I used to tell myself that I don't want to live a life in fear, and so I need to go out, but of course, be cautious of my surroundings.
Thank you for sharing a heart to heart moment, Weylie. These are the small things that go unheard/unnoticed.
Weylie has always been real and considerate.
woah this vlog healed something in me. the heart to heart in the car of creating yourself and seeing the scene on your date with navi
its funny that your spontaneous and "being all over the place" content tends to be the most resonating with me. i love the quote about not finding yourself but creating yourself. good luck on your journey!
aw i really needed that virtual hug from you.. also don't worry about your vlogs being all over the place, I really appreciate and love the honesty in your vlogs. no one expects you to have it all together to vlog, we just love walking alongside you as you figure things out and support you along the way! thank you for being vulnerable and honest with us. I dont know about other people, but i love that part of your vlog and it brings me comfort knowing i'm not alone when I'm also finding myself. i love you so much weylie!!!
Love this vlog so much!! Love just enjoying time with my dog and enjoying the moment while helping him enjoy his life.
I totally relate - I used to be and loved being independent, doing whatever I wanted whenever I wanted but the past two years have changed that. I hate and almost never go out alone anymore. I like the idea of creating yourself and getting over anxiety little by little.
I love the honesty Weylie! I know most of us just like hearing from you, even if you feel like you don't have it together. It gives me a moment of peace and someone nice to sit with while I eat my lunch
I love vlogs like this! It’s so nice to see the little things LA has to offer! Yes the sunset and beach looked gorgeous here but I loved seeing the market and everything it has to offer 💛
Thank you for taking the courage to open up about these topics, it really makes it feel like we're all in this together, learning, exploring, and growing at the same time. This vlog was so comforting.
soo soo cute, really enjoyed the scene of the flowers swaying in the wind !!
Weylie i feel the same way. seeing so much violence against women has me feeling so vulnerable the past few years. trying to live my life instead of being in fear (while still exercising a healthy level of caution). it’s even worse for AAPI ppl right now. i hope things get better.
Hi...I really appreciate if you watch my last video🙇🏻♀️💜
Showing us what you're doing does have a ton of meaning. A lot of us have been here since the very beginning and you've always brought the best vibes and a respite among the chaos of the world. It may seem mundane but sometimes vlogs are precisely what the world needs in our little corner of the internet.
That last couple of minutes hit home. I have been feeling like that for a long time. Good thing you realized that you're looking for you. The harder question is which version of you. I would say the present you is the best answer. Past you made you who you are today. You are living and every day you get the chance to find the truest form of you. It will take time but some time taking it slow is the best. Thank you for sharing a bit of your life with us. Have an amazing day!
I always love these heart to heart convos! this is why I've always considered you as a huge inspiration to me since I was in high school. your words definitely resonated with me because I'm currently on the same boat as well! I wish you the best of luck on your journey
From a person who started watching your channel a long time ago back when you taught us all how to use a tampon, I can say that you’ve been a true inspiration. Watching you grow as a human and being so real with us along the way is so refreshing. I hope to see you grow into the person you’re meant to be. And I agree, I think that we are meant to discover out who we are and who we want to be. I don’t think we ever find ourselves but we figure out what we want. You’ll get there, we all will one day.
Awee Weylie, no need to apologize for not having everything figured out. I appreciate ur honesty more than anything else! Thank you for creating this and being vulnerable with us 💕
There is no need to apologize! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. I think it’s beautiful and love seeing you at the beach with Navi. You both looked so happy and at peace and those moments are so precious!
I’m moving into a new phase of my life and seeing your vlog has helped me so much and I’m happy to see you doing things that benefit your happiness and your peace.
The beach is such a healing place and I can’t wait to spend more time there with my dog in the near future. Thank you Weylie, again for sharing, you are literally the best !
You got it girl !
That was a thoroughly moving piece, Weylie.
And you are a very special soul who is helping more people than you know✨
Thank you 🙏
I just love watching your pups. They’re so cute. I love it
I’m on a similar journey as well and knowing that I’m not alone means so much. I honestly started to cry when you gave that virtual hug. Much love to you and I know beyond the struggle the future is bright and it will all be worth it in the end. Been watching your vids since 2007 and I’ve always seen you as a big sister I’ve never had. Thank you for being you ❤️
This vlog was super soothing, not all over the place at all! also, now I'm feeling encouraged to do something spontaneous for myself ❤️
you don’t have to apologise and I personally really like this vlog. it’s authentic, raw, genuine and heartwarming at the same time. Ty for sharing and I particularly enjoyed the beach part ✨🤍
+1 to feeling fearful lately! I do exactly this - go to the beach by myself and watch sunsets. But I can’t stretch myself farther than that because of fear lately.
Tearful when you spoke about this because I 100% relate.
I've been going through a lot of things lately. On days like today, I find myself grieving the old me and I just wanted to say I needed to hear that quote because it relates so much to my life right now. Thank you for always putting out meaningful videos like this one 💕
I really needed that hug. Thank you so much Weylie!
that virtual hug was much needed 🥺❤️
Don’t apologize I’ve been here since the beginning and what I appreciate about you the most is your transparency. I think this blog is beautiful. I can’t speak for everyone else but I know that I’ll continue to be here to support you until you find what it is you want to blog about. 💕
The conversation you had with us in the end was very enlightening because I feel the same way in how you want to incorporate back your spontaneous self, but also in the process of creating a new self. I’m currently in that stage you were describing, having a new found freedom and being spontaneous. I have also heard of that quote from Wah, the quote helps to remember that we have control over who we become, manifesting who we want to be.
I recently lost my 17yo doggie and honestly, watching you with Navi having fun really makes my heart warm, thanks for sharing these little moments that truly speak to us
I'm so sorry to hear about your pup. Sending you a big hug 💕
as someone in their early 20s, just starting out in the workforce i didnt realise how much i needed that virtual hug. things are tough right now but i hope it will pass. i hope i get through. seeing navi sprinting around the beach and your h2h talk made my day better :) continue to do you! we dont always have to have things planned out and things dont always go as planned anyway. sending hugs to you too
aww i love how raw and pure this vlog was. Thank you for sharing your thoughts Weylie! It definitely resonated with me. You got this girl!
Also Navi is seriously an angel.
i love the creating me quote. i never know how to “find me” if i dont even know what i am? so that really touched a core part of me. thank you for sharing
hi weylie! i actually really liked that you talked about that ☺️ i think it’s something i struggle with too. there are so many different sides of me, including those that i haven’t ever shown, that i’m trying to synthesize into one cohesive being. and it’s hard!! but i love that idea of creating a new self. there isn’t one single way we have to be, AND it’s something that’s always evolving. thanks for the heart to heart talk ☺️ i enjoyed hearing your thoughts!
So relatable thanks weylie I've followed you and the family for over 15 years and it's good to know I'm not alone in trying to recreate myself.
I enjoyed how spontaneous this vlog was. Came in right time when I'm trying to find my inner self too. Love the content
you always chill and chilling...and chill ...and chilling...
Loved it!!! Thank you so much for this meaningful Heart-to-Heart it really got to me 🥰
Weylie! I absolutely loved this vlog. And thank you for your words and support and I loved the hug at the end. I'm also in my 20s so I could resonate with what you said about finding vs. creating yourself. No matter what content you choose to create, I'll always support you
I definitely resonated with the idea of finding yourself, but not really sure who I’m finding. I like the idea of creating myself, so thank you for sharing!🥰
As a 29 year old I completely understand. Since having Covid last year I started feeling super unsafe and fearful, I hate feeling like that. Also kind of funny that I have basically grown up with you. I’ve been watching your videos since you were in high school.
I needed to hear this girl ♥️ I’m gonna start creating myself.
Weylie I love you so much. Whoever you are now and whoever you become, you are such a kind and beautiful soul. Thank you for existing and providing us with your wisdom 🥺❤️
Oooooh.. it might be a phase everyone goes through before/after 30.
I was in the same shoe. I kept dreaming of my old home town and the people I used to know. I felt safe and loved. I think it was my mind trying to find my old self, because my waking hours, I occasionally reminisce my young days. I was naive and flexible. I knew how to have fun, what I wanted, and aimed for it. During my late 20s/ early 30s, I became rigid with my decisions, because I kept doing the “I should” instead of understanding and accepting myself for who I am today. It took therapy, research, and time to define who I am. I hope you can define yourself one day too.
Love the aesthetic in this vlog, esp the sunset at the beach! And pls don't feel sorry about whether this video is all over the place bc I absolutely love how raw it is (i love all your HTHT vlogs btw). Yes, the virtual hug was cheesy but I returned the hug back lol. I hope you feel better soon and get to where you wanna be eventually.
I am on that bridge between finding myself and creating my new self! I've been telling myself that this is normal for late 20s and it's also a really fun time to create memories and live life before everything settles in. It's an exciting time weylie! :)
thanks for sharing this weylie! this spoke to me SO much because ive been feeling the exact same way but haven't been able to truly describe it and i love what wah mentioned to you cuz that just...sums it all up so much. i really love these vlogs
Thanks Emily ❣
we love you weylie! (big virtual hug right back atcha! 🥰) and i totally feel ya about feeling unsafe going out alone (especially these last few years). i too was the same - when i first started driving yeeeaaars ago i was going all over town! i loved that feeling of being "independent" and just seeing where the day took me, but i think with everything that's been going on in our world these last few years i've found myself living more in fear for the safety of not just myself, but my family and all my loved ones. life is definitely too short to live it in that way so been trying to remind myself to live it fully, live it freely, and live it with love
I always enjoy your vlogs and I think this one is a great one as well. Fun moments mixed with some honest open moments 😊
I'm leaving my 20s and definitely feeling some of that searching and desire to find who I am at this stage. Thank you for sharing with us
Omg that is a great quote that I also need to learn from! I’m also in a place where I feel kind of stuck, trying to find myself. I definitely do think I need to change that mindset and create myself instead! Love intimate vlogs like these!!
All the comments here are so kind! I'm going through a similar phase now too, missing some parts of my younger self and feeling like I'm losing myself a little bit at times. Thanks for sharing the quote! It's a food for thought for sure❤
Such a lovely vlog! Thank you for sharing what you're experiencing! I find myself feeling very similarly and I love the quote you shared! It adds a new perspective of having the freedom to create the person you want to be rather than searching for yourself (which feels a little more limited)!
Hey Weylie! Just wanted to say that I’ve been a long time viewer and have always enjoyed the different types of content you’ve created over the years. This vlog in particular feels extremely special and I appreciate you being open about your journey! 🥰
Awhh this vlog was so short and sweet but it leaves me so joyful and hopeful 🤗 it's a wonderful feeling that you've given us.
Love the little added details!
Yes girl create not find! I love that 💕 sending you love ❤️
can you do a video of Navi's journey? from the day you got her to how far she has come and how you guys helped her recover from trauma. i think it will also inspire a lot of people to adopt :)
I love this Vlog as always! Also I can relate to how you’re feeling about being unsafe. I’ve talked with my therapist about how younger me didn’t think twice about going out and having fun. Now I’m more worried and anxious when I go out. Sending you love! ❤️
Love the video. Can I ask where you get your straw bag?
This helped me alot, thanks Weylie! I've been feeling very lost for the past few weeks, trying to figure out who I am, trying to ''find myself''. I'm 23 now and graduating in 2 months. I really love how you put it: creating myself. That gave a whole different perspective on things. Thanks for opening up :)
Hi...I really appreciate if you watch my last video🙇🏻♀️💜
this video spoke to me. love you weylie
I’m 33 and still working to find/create myself too. It’s been a great journey maturing with you over the years. You’re not alone!
This was everything I needed right now, thank you ❤️❤️
i loved this vlog, i felt very safe and held by the last part 💓 i also like thinking of it as rediscovering parts of ourselves that we haven’t been as connected to or that we lost and also creating new parts of ourselves!!
Really loved this vlog ❤️ love you weylie!
i totally feel you about trying to share more geniune content and creating, i feel like i am also going through a bit of being unsure what content to put out, i love sharing my life in vlogs but also like trying to find topics to talk about that are meaningful and others would like to hear about too..thank you for sharing yoru life moments and honesty Weylie 💗
Always appreciate you and your content so much!! Thanks for being vulnerable with us all :)
love this lil heart to heart moment. feels like the deep talks i have with my girlfriends out of nowhere haha. Love seeing this introspective side of you that you don't usually get to show in other vlogs :)
Weyloe where is your tote bag from i love it
Thank you for that “ hug “ Weylie 🥺🤗💖 ! I loved this .
This was perfect and I feel you!! I’ve been feeling like that too for awhile. Not myself. I also lost my spontaneous brave me. I like how you said “create” instead of “find”. We can do this!!
Hey Weylie, just wanna say I really enjoyed this little vlog! You don't need to be sorry for it being 'messy', I don't think it's all over the place at all. I actually think it's great that you did things spontaneously because you felt like it, sometimes we just have those moments and that makes life more fun! I think that's definitely meaningful in itself. Also seeing Navi being so excited at the beach made me happy too! I hope you don't worry too much about your vlogs not being 'meaningful' or 'organized' enough, I follow you as a person, not for how 'perfect' the content is! 'Finding yourself' can be confusing, I think I'd rather just call it picking out qualities that you liked as your past self whilst trying to grow and evolve into your new self at the same time, and I'm sure you will. Thank you for always being so open and real ❤
damn Weylie, I teared up listening to your little spiel in the car. I completely relate, and I just came back from visiting LA (and California/the US) for the first time a couple of days ago, which has put me in a really pensive mood. as someone close to you in age, I really feel every word that you said. your recent videos especially have been super cathartic for me, please keep doing what you're doing!
Hi...I really appreciate if you watch my last video🙇🏻♀️💜
Just wanted to pop in a say thank you for sharing this! I started watching your videos at the beginning of the pandemic and honestly, you and Wah inspired me to chase my dreams and move from GA to SoCal. This month marked my bf and I’s one year anniversary here!!! Tbh, the transition has been a little challenging bc it forced us outside of our comfort zones. I feel like I’m in a similar place where I’m learning to “create” myself all over again! But there is beauty in that 💕 Learning to embrace the new stages of life is scary but when we share our experiences with others it helps us feel connected. You got this Weylie!
Love that quote that Wah told you. I definitely feel you, I'm gonna turn 30 this year and there's been so many times in the past 2-3 years where I've felt lost as well.
Wow, that totally changed my perspective about creating myself versus finding myself
This really spoke to me. I’m dealing with a lot of similar things. Thank you for sharing this beautiful solo vlog. I wish you so much peace and patience 💖
we are all living different lives, yet we find ourselves in the same predicament. I have also turned to my younger self to remember who I was and who I am. I started picking up things I stopped doing when I had gotten "busy" being an "adult". I'm glad we have our past selves to remember what we are.❤
I love these talks Weylie, I feel like I’m right there catching up with a friend. Navi is the sweetest, I love seeing the love you have for your fur babies💕
Navi living her best life
We love the way you are. hugs!
create you girl, be someone you like and are proud of
Love this relaxing and talking kind of vlog along with your usual ones!
What is that camera Wah has around his neck?
Also, are you going to blog!? I'm so excited if you are! I hope blogs come back around like back in the day.
Currently getting a 403 Forbidden message when trying to access the site though.
This was such a relatable vlog. I wanted to ask if you don’t mind where your coveralls are from in the opening they are so cute, I can’t stop thinking about them. Thank you!
i love those virtual hugs! hehe i would really love to have a friend like you, who is real and sincere. I look forward to your videos and the feeling it gives me, just seeing you on my ig story lights up my day. I hope you have a wonderful day too!!!
Your channel is my favorite!! Thanks so much for creating these honest and beautiful contents! It gives me ideas how to live my life more fully! We are all a work in progress, just want to let you know that you are perfect the way you are. Sending love, ❤️
Weylie!! Love the vlog and the little heart-to-heart at the end. I'm not sure if you have ever explored astrology, but you're probably going through your Saturn return right now. This happens to every person in their late 20s into their early 30s (usually around 27-29). Generally, it can be a tough time for many people but is also very a significant time in our lives. If you do plan to look into it more, I hope it can help you with understanding the stage you're going through right now. :)
Aww Weylie! I love you and your channel so much! You truly feel like a sister to me...this was so wholesome, I have felt like that as well especially in the past two years.. I truly want to find meaning and reveal layers of me that haven't been discovered yet. I understand you, and I thank you for putting this out here and inspiring not only me, but everyone! I found it so endearing and beautiful that you took Navi out with you to enjoy the sunset and the breeze, Navi is a beautiful, pure soul. 💜 lot of love and light sent your way.
What a relaxing beautiful vlog 🥰 love the beach at the beach....In England where I am the nearest one is just under 2 hours away but it's worth it as I love how calming it is. Definitely does pick up with wind by evening and in our on off weather loo
I love that you wish u lived closer to the beach BECAUSE of Navi loving it so much!! Dogs deserve to be spoiled and knowing what type of abuse she came from in the past vs now.. she is SO SO MUCH HAPPIER!!!! Love that for her!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you inspire me in so many ways!!!