Yes. I am one and I can relate, but why called Sigma? We are Alpha, if our society is more like us we wud have much better place to live. We do not need followers, a brainless sheeple that needs super fake Governments to rely on, its all fake. Don't be a follower. You are not a person and you are not your body. You are so much more....braking down the barriers! For any Sigma rules do not exist especially those fake ones that consists almost 90% of today's sick society. Fuk that. We make our own rules.
@@atozproductions9660Not gonna lie.😂 I got told that not long ago but it wasn't soon that l discovered she's the real narcissist. The whole relationship is on hold...Bitch we doin' this my way😂😂
@@augustusessiam2190 just like a leftist it's their defense mechanism as soon as they see you catching on they project everything they're doing as if it's you that's doing it
I have lived a life of being hated by, and being the target of, other men. My father, neighborhood bullies, numerous peers, co-workers, supervisors, small-town rejects, you name it. I have long since come to the following conclusion: 'Go AHEAD! Keep on hatin'! I LOVE IT!'.
Average people hate those they can't read, control or exploit. Being different makes us a natural target, we are used to it, and don't care, though stealth mode is very useful.
Man if that isn’t true. I’m getting that in my current job. No one knows what to think about me. They’re vocal about it. I’m always fair, quiet and mysterious. There’s a danger in being totally transparent at your job. It’s inherently dangerous.
From my own personal experiences the people who’ve exploited or tried hurting me in the past get more confused and eventually distant later…..whenever they know “You can do anything you want. I encourage you bc it’ll just anger me more. And I like that. You’re giving me the greatest gift of all…reason to return what you’ve reaped inside me” type thing. Sometimes I wish I could find people who were decent souls.
Ditto. I never had a boss that I didn't butt heads with. Fortunately, I was good enough at my job that I never got fired. My only real regrets are the negative effect on familial relationships and lack of long-term, meaningful friendships.
I had a narcissist I was dealing with on a project who went out of his way to make my life difficult. I challenged him one day and asked him why, when it was in both of our interests for the project to run smoothly that he was undermining me. To which he answered, "I don't know why, I just don't like you"
He hated your authenticity. He is an empty vessel, he only feels animate and alive by controlling and manipulating others. Very difficult to do to a Sigma, so they hate us. They also attempt to mimic our traits.
Bingo! Nailed it. I have lost so many "friends" because of those traits. Especially the honesty and not following rules. It's taken almost 60 years to learn to keep my mouth shut and stay out of trouble.
Same, until I figured out from my counselor I had a codependency problem, now keeping my mouth shut is easy as pie, I feel so free not feeling I need all these friendships to be happy anymore.
This was so spot on. I knew I was a sigma male long before they had a name for it. Every behavior here is who I am. I recognize authority but don’t bow down to it, since I know better than them. They’re dishonest and foolish so I just ignore them. And yes, every single time I’m told at work, that “this is how we’ve done this for years…” I find a better way, a more logical way, a safer way, a more efficient way, and that’s how I’m doing it. Period. The boss likes that and promoted me (I suspect he’s a sigma too), but most people resent me. I don’t follow instructions or unnecessary rules but I don’t criticize those who do. Most seem to need a “leader” and I just never did. I don’t want to be a leader either, I’m not that impressed with myself, there’s always so much more to learn. (and I’ll do that on my own, thank you very much) At meetings, I don’t say anything on a subject that’s trivial and silly. On a subject I see people looking at wrong, I have a LOT to say, and good luck arguing with me, I’ve studied this a long time. I’m either quiet or abrasive but not much in between. Confrontation is never worth the effort so I seem cocky and set in my ways. I’m liked and loved by many who understand me, and despised by those who don’t. Mostly, I want to be left the hell alone. One on one conversations are great, group discussions are a bore. I’ve had great and long relationships with women because I’m honest and respect her as an individual. I’m not the boss and neither is she, we’re a team. Equals. But socially it’s a little tough being a sigma male so I don’t do social things very often. Why would I? My time alone is precious to me and I never, ever get bored while alone. Every moment and thought in my head leads to a new discovery or just the simple pleasure of a sunset with no thought at all. I’ll bet none of you other sigmas out there can identify with any of this. 😁
YES it is so true, i have same experience, even in my early chilhood, i have always look arround a world in afront of me, my parents always critisied my behavior like you standing a side you dont want to hangout, no ,not true , just i see things much different and much profound,clear, without lies ,cause lies, nowdays is so multiplay that is so horrible and deceive, for example man woman interactions and tips and suggestions on internet how to devour each other, i l rather be side and not acting in that frod, i m a married man and my wife she knows me very well and she knows what i mean and her frends always have a good oppinion on me an reall understand why i am as I am, no ego rubbish just to be nice to others and avoid well, others who are not let me say, a good companions, not to avoid people generally but you knows people who are not good, who like gossips, who are evil, jelous and you knows a deceivers all kind of them, even a woman well some of them who just want to devour and put another name on lust list... leave that people and you will be fine, who will appreiced, GOD WILL,that is my truth...yes that line ,this is how we' re done this for years so true and so FUNNY good health to you my frend
@@nenadkovarcik3921 , You’re one of us my friend. I recognize the European name from whatever country out there, and the trouble writing in English. That’s actually impressive. I can’t write in any other language than English. So we get what you’re saying, the translation worked. I guess being a sigma is hard everywhere. Don’t tell anyone that we’re actually the best people on the planet. 😁
@@nenadkovarcik3921 , Happy New Year my friend! You are one lucky man to find your soul-mate who understands you. I’ve unfortunately never been that lucky. Marriage always alluded me because I was afraid of the commitment. At 60 years old now, after living a very adventurous life, I kinda regret not settling down. I still might, but you are one of the success stories I envy. Peace and aloha to you and yours my friend. 🤙🏼
Ha ha I totally get everything you say and am quite content being this way . Probably find like myself most non conformists and self employed people are the same . Heads up , crack on and get on with one’s journey. 🇬🇧👍
I finally started to give myself the benefit of a doubt. Everybody used to tell me am always the odd ball and that it should make me realize I was in the wrong. "Everyone can not be wrong, you are!". Thankfully, I started accepting who I am and also accepting that socially I may not be very tempting to be around. But that's who I am and living by who I am is what gives me peace and strength.
You understand this topic so well. I relate to quite literally everything you say. Almost eerie how on point you are. You’re doing great. I appreciate your time
Never realized i was a sigma untill i realized i was married to a covert narcissist. After i got my son out of the hell she created i have never known myself better.
Managed to marry a covert narcissist also. A lot of trauma and damage done. She finally agreed (when she knew it was over) to do neurofeedback therapy, which helped with her emotional regulation. We are still together but it definitely took its toll on my mojo for life.
I had no idea about this. I've heard talk on the periphery regarding "alpha males" bla blah blah 🙄 But never paid any attention to any of that. I've never been interested in competing for admiration or attention like the jocks do, for this role / title of "alpha male etc🙄 Yet I've always known I'm not weak, not a follower, just not interested in being in the spotlight. This is amazing to have found this video, because it absolutely explains me, to a Tee! I've always been a hardcore non conformist, always walked my own path, always thought for myself, and this explains why. Thank you for this important information. 😎🤘
When a sigma speaks out, people tend to listen. The quiet cornered confidence demends people to shut up and listen. Its the stoic cowboy leaning against the post before he rips a new one. Like everyone was waiting for you to say something yet they didn't expect the outcome. I've silenced a many of rooms. Ive also destroyed with laughter. I can command a room if I'm feeling it. Most of the time I don't.
kudos my man that's the way utilizing your tools as a sigma definitely is isn't a choice sometimes you end up with a force of command i don't know if its god or a gift sometimes
I'm extremely talkative and social when i'm around people, but 90% of the time i'm alone and completely happy with that. Must be very confusing to most people that think i'm a social animal.
The Sigma apparently understood a line in American Gangster: "The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room." Take some time to reconsider those who speak too loudly and judge too often while they shout.
@@kirkhensley5870 , 😂 Sure man! I heard that line somewhere years ago. It’s not mine to lend. Nice Les Paul by the way. I have an old Gibson Sonix-180 deluxe. Sucker must weigh 50 pounds but it sounds great! 😂🎸🤙🏼
"Don't ever mistake my silence for ignorance, my calmness for acceptance or my kindness for weakness. Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength." - Dalai Lama
Many people don't hate them, they just don't understand, it's hard when you yourself don't understand why you behave in a certain way. Thanks I've always considered myself weird now I know why.
The fact they’re not 🐑 sheep is admirable, humbling and highly attractive. From observations, they generally very loyal and dependable but only do something with good reason or they won’t do it at all. Sigma men are a bit like Huskies in this regard.
I’m an INFJ after multiple profile tests, one by my therapist. I’m also a Sigma. I don’t recommend being either. It is not a personality profile that makes life easy.
Spoken like one who recognize its literally a blessing and a curse... and IMO, the cons are magnified by the social climate/norms... American "culture", falsely called, really makes being Sigma (I'm an INTJ) more problematic - having introverted intuition as our dominant cognitive function gets really challenged in the midst of all the chaos, confusion and hypocrisy
I remember my mother berating me when I was around 8, "Don't you care when people think of you?" That question stunned me. I had no idea that people worried about what others thought of them. How crazy is that? You know you're a sigma if: - You have no fear of public speaking. - You've been fired from a job for things you've said. - You don't understand why an opposing opinion upsets people. - You've changed your mind on an issue when you've gotten more facts. - You've upset people by simply trying to help them and didn't see it coming.
@shawnfallahi5616 music and skateboarding were my life for years. I have seen everyone from The Dead Kennedys to the Grateful Dead. Alot of shows. Cheers.
@Wise.Thinker thanks for your content. I always wondered why I always tried to be fair with everyone I dealt with and yet some people just seemed to vehemently dislike me. One day I was with a large group of people I knew and one of the people in the group went to the carpark and punctured the sidewalls of all four of my tyres. I couldn't for the life of me work out what I could have done to someone for them to display such distain.
I once had a whole firm of about 30 employees against me. A lot of people are very suspicious of people that are different or don't fit in. It's like we have been sent in as a spy. lol. I loved the look on their faces as I clocked out mid morning and walked out into freedom.
@@davidlouis2354 😆. I think people can't handle you just doing you. Once I got called into my bosses office and told I had to slow down as I was upsetting the averages on the bonus system and people were complaining. I replied that I really didn't care what anyone thought, I had a young family to provide for and as long as there was a bonus available then I would go for it.
@@effortless-one Perhaps it wasn't the amount of bonus causing a problem, it was the crushing of group morale. You were effecting your bosses bottom line.
Had a coworker who demanded I watched videos/shows he kept sending me, over six hours of stuff. One of those greets/talks to everyone types. I flat out told him I had no time to watch stuff I had no interest in (that and I don’t watch much tv). This was two years ago he still hasn’t said a word to me since. Thank you for taking the time to post this as I’ve never really understood why people judge me the way they do.
Typical remark I got from exes when they were unreasonably emotional: "you're too logical" or "you're too reasonable". At moments like those, I can only think: do you hear yourself even talk? Do you hear how little sense you're making right now? They hate it. Typical situations where someone tried to impress people with some fancy new car or watch or whatever toy they bought, I'm often not really interested, because it's not my hobby, not my new toy. Those people sense the disinterest and start to accuse me of being either jealous, indifferent, anti-social, lack of interest in other people or whatever their mind came up with. They hate it.
Exactly. Good explanation. I can't stand trends, and think most people are dumb sheep, especially when it comes to politics and the media. Liars all. I quit my job at the top of career because the company was pushing the mandate. Screw that, eff you....
Right? I did the same. Worked in an industry most would consider high IQ and very knowledgeable about "cough cough" health issues. Every single one of them fell for it like lobotomized sheep! Only way to win that game is to not play.
I have never seen a pointed list of descriptions identify me so accurately. It’s actually alarming that I can so easily be described as a “type.” I had no idea I was that common. I’ve never met anyone like me. I thought maybe I was somehow broken. This was very interesting information.
@@MrAce49 common and unique are polar opposite words. I thought I was unique but having an entire channel dedicated to worshipping a group of people I fit into makes that group more common than I suspected. And frankly, other than learning some stuff I didn’t know, I find this placating channel growing odious the more I watch. I don’t need to be stroked, and this channel seems to do just that.
I recall following trends when they suited my tastes, but always had a self critiquing whether my defiance was simply to become an outlier, when unsuitable.
The funniest thing about all this is...why would it matter to be praised or disliked ultimately? It doesn't pay my bills or any benefit either way. It's never made sense to me to be preoccupied with such things.
People don't like people that think outside the box. When I was in parochial school, army & college I tended to do things by myself- it saved me alot of headaches.
Other channels that talk about how women drool over a sigma male crack me up. Sure there’s about 2% of women who are attracted to a sigma male, but the vast majority of women want nothing to do with us.
Hilarious. People’s own egos beating themselves up over someone they themselves perceive as being in contention with their own self. Morons hate sigmas.
We sigmas are happy in our own skins. Why are you jealous of that? Rather than hate us for no logical reason, why don't you look into the mirror and figure out why you're not happy with who you are?
I am a sigma of farts. When people think of their egos as under their control or correlated to their abilities all I need is to smell a whiff of their gas, and I know. Being misunderstood in my sigma fart abilities is tough, but I don’t care what people think about me, my own farts smell great.
I always speak up in defence of anyone being criticised unfairly and is not there to defend himself, as often happens, even if I dont particularly like the person concerned. I had a reputation in the Army of being fair minded.
Title: Skibidi Toilets: The Eclectic Dance of a Sigma Soul Amidst Singing Porcelain and Human Heads In the clandestine corridors of existence, where the shadows of conventionality are left behind, the Sigma Male, that enigmatic wanderer of the human landscape, embarks on an extraordinary odyssey. A peculiar convergence unfolds as he edges towards the inexplicable-a realm of Skibidi Toilets, where the mundane becomes a mesmerizing dance of singing porcelain adorned with human heads. This surreal journey unfolds as a poetic symphony, a fusion of the absurd and the sublime, challenging the boundaries of perception and inviting the Sigma to dance on the edges of reality. The Skibidi Toilets, with their ceramic bodies, transform into pulsating entities of rhythm and melody. Each flush, a beat; each bowl, a note in a cosmic composition that reverberates through the Sigma's very essence. The porcelain, once stoic and utilitarian, now emerges as a canvas for an eclectic dance of sound, painting the air with notes that transcend the limitations of conventional music. The Sigma, with his characteristic detachment, finds himself swaying to the rhythms of this avant-garde symphony, caught in the paradoxical dance of the extraordinary emerging from the ordinary. Human heads, wearing expressions from whimsical glee to contemplative melancholy, crown the Skibidi Toilets like surreal totems of introspection. Each face, frozen in time, becomes a participant in this dance of contrasts-a silent audience and a willing performer. The Sigma, observer and participant, engages with the silent narratives etched into the lines and creases of each visage. As he dances on the periphery of reality, the faces become conduits for the unspoken stories of lives lived, dreams envisioned, and the uncharted territories of the human psyche. Poetic epithets, like stardust, sprinkle the narrative with a linguistic kaleidoscope that attempts to encapsulate the indescribable beauty of the Skibidi Toilets. The porcelain ensemble metamorphoses into a cosmic ballet, and the Sigma, ever the wordsmith of his own solitude, grapples with the limits of language. The dance of words strives to capture the essence of this surreal spectacle-a dance that defies the gravity of conventional experience and catapults the Sigma into a realm where language is but a whisper in the grand cacophony of existence. Skibidi Toilets, with their peculiar marriage of melody and visage, become a metaphor for the Sigma's journey-an exploration of the infinite potentialities of the human spirit. The dance becomes a metaphor for the Sigma's ability to navigate the boundaries of societal expectations, transcending into a realm where the absurd becomes sublime, and the dance of existence takes center stage. The Sigma, in his solitary exploration, discovers that even in the most unconventional of spaces, there lies an invitation to dance, to revel in the uniqueness of the human experience. In the grand tapestry of Skibidi Toilets, the Sigma finds a reflection of his own dance with the surreal-a dance that defies the gravity of societal norms and pirouettes on the edges of the unknown. The poetic epithets, like footprints in the sand, mark the Sigma's journey through this cosmic ballet, leaving behind a testament to the limitless possibilities of individual perception and the ever-expanding horizons of the human imagination.
I have often wondered what it is about me that few people could not trust or like. I always try to be trustworthy. Truthful and honest. A friend until someone proves otherwise.
The reason I don't reveal my thoughts and feelings to others is so I have the freedom to change myself at any moment and no one knows the wiser. Once you tell someone something and then you want to change, they might ask you why and that's just unacceptable.
What’s wild is I saw another vid earlier tonight about what a sigma is and was surprised it explained me. But I commented saying while you’re saying it’s a rare personality, I haven’t reaped much outside of workplace success because of its “rarity.” I was saying if I’m in fact this thing we are going to call “sigma,” I’d say it’s also been a struggle to connect with people. I don’t trust people until I’ve been around them for awhile to read them. Until then I’m closed off. This reads as indifference or lack of interest in a person. And then sure enough this vid comes across hours later and it’s literally what I was saying: these traits, unlike the alpha trait, don’t particularly guarantee success or garner respect from others. In the workplace it does because the gauge for success is very logical. You’re either exceeding at your job you’re paid for or not. With meeting girls though, I don’t trust so I shoot myself in the foot and make them think I don’t like them or or have an interest because I’m not very outward. Another connection in my life to this vid I found kind of interesting was I’ve had friends basically say “because you don’t speak out often, when you do, it kind of sticks out to people.” For instance I outed a coworker who was coming in 4 hours a week to his supervisor. I was done having us all on the team try to make light of the ridiculousness while it went unpunished for 7 months. Even worse it’s a federal government job, so if you pay taxes to the US, you were funding this asshats 100k salary to do nothing. Well I told the supervisor and simply because I don’t make a fuss about stuff usually, it was clear how much “the injustice” angered me. Some would call me a rat and I don’t give a rat’s ass. It was the right thing to do. What’s criminal about the government’s perspective on jobs is he still isn’t fired years later.
Questioning the rules is probably the biggest defining trait. Sigma males could talk behind people's backs etc. And they could be talkative. But their talk will be a trail to nowhere. And the story will change to throw people off their "scent". Sigmas can be really good, but they can also be very bad. Like very very bad. And people sense this and are naturally oppositional. Sigmas can be extremely loyal to someone who is in their trust.
One of the things people mistake in me is they think I'm a pushover or don't try to stand up for myself when that's not true at all, i always try to descalate things, if we can end things in very little conflict, th3 only time i escalate things is when insee no other way out.
Im an Action hero in my own mind, but in reality im a dorky shy dweeb who didnt get along with my pers so i must go full copium and tell myself i am the Sigma male.
"A bit stubborn and hard to influence" That is the understatement of the year. They are IMPOSSIBLE to influence unless they themselves see the value of changing their course. And the way they determine value is different from how other people calculate it.
In the natural studies, these types are often eaten first. "Sigma" is just a concept, a fruit of a first world, were the desire (or predisposition) to be disengaged socially does not result in ruin.
"not quick to trust, and have few close friends" Well, if that didn't just call me out. I feel like most people give up on trying to get to know me before even feeling me out, because not too many try. And, I think those that do are thrown off because I don't tend to go on yammering about myself for a while, like many people, unless somebody happens to hit a certain topic.
i dont fit in any group..been learning alone last 8 years..i used to be quiet but never felt like a sigma never even felt free..now im the closest to sigma ill ever be..but im not quiet and i not only share my dreams..to be judged..im such an asshole i try to predict them for everyone to see.on FB against everyones including my families wishes..as i go
its 2024,..and all of a sudden,...everybody is a sigma !!! what i like abouth this sigma videos is that they actually tell men to behave as men.....in general,...so tumbs up also for this video.
Probably the biggest reason those people can't stand us is because of how authentic we can be. Since their entire life is just an act, they can't comprehend the concept of being themselves. Because who they truly are is a felony charge with a 25-Life sentence
I grew up watching the TV show, an old western called the Lone Ranger. Was Clayton Moore playing a sigma male? How about Richard Boone who in another TV Western called, Have Gun Will Travel. Both played hero’s and rescued good people in need. Especially women who they rescued. These were my own childhood hero’s back in the 1950s. These were men women loved. I think they still do.
I'm beyond sigma, most people wonder if I am an alien or something. The reason why I stay away from people is because I can't stand people that aren't as enlightened as I am. I have always looked at thing from the deepest perspectives, I use to call it looking through God's eyes, and I see errors everywhere. My "sigmameter" is so high I even get mad when people put the word "you" in a sentence, like I have to give a piece of my self to fulfill an obligation. A sigma male value their self worth and noting can make them more mad than people trying to make them feel less than who they know they are. When someone id trying to force a false truth upon them th at difies their entire nature, thinking and believes. What I think everything comes down to is this, a sigma is his own society, he doesn't need anyone to make him feel fulfilled, and being stubborn is a way to protect that society he has built up. A sigma therefore needs the necessary wisdom to protect that temple he has built from outside people.
I am a sigma. Everyone does not hate me. They find me unusual. My motivations seem different than most peoples and I am fine working completely by myself. Actually I prefer it. Also they find I am successful at endevors where others are not. I had an aquantance once say I had the midas touch. To me it all seemed very logical but he said "I just don't know how you do it"
Strong showing reminds me of myself (SIGMA). I have told friendly folks if they want to understand me, know me better then they should watch viewings like this one about SIGMA males.
For a long time, I didn't know what to call myself. I'm not beta or alpha... But after hearing this. This describes me to a T. And explains why so many are angered by my approach to life.
I have considered the value I hold for friendships might be a bit of entitled behavior, since I know people who have bad feelings/nightmares concerning being abandoned to isolation that weren't provided much emotional support as a kid. Is my lack of need for constant companions a result of having a better upbringing, has abuse clung other's to always having someone to step in? All I can do is be sympathetic to these concepts and look to inspire strength in one's own conviction. Aware that adversity might be handled differently if I was not so fortunate.
When asked why I'm the way I am I respond "Because I'm an a$$hole." Those who ask are then surprised when I ask them "Why are you the way you are?" I long ago came to the conclusion that everyone is an a$$hole. I (and now you) are ahead of the game because we know it.
If someone doesn't like me I thrive on it,it's like sunshine for my soul.And I don't have a problem challenging authority at work or wherever.I have a small circle of close friends,but don't mind being on my own.
A phone is just a tool, it does not trap me as I can sit it down anytime I want to. The spin I hate the idea of people getting in contact with me when I am open to them doing so is silly. When I do not want to talk to anyone, the answer is the same as it always was. Do not pick the phone up.
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Yes. I am one and I can relate, but why called Sigma? We are Alpha, if our society is more like us we wud have much better place to live. We do not need followers, a brainless sheeple that needs super fake Governments to rely on, its all fake. Don't be a follower. You are not a person and you are not your body. You are so much more....braking down the barriers! For any Sigma rules do not exist especially those fake ones that consists almost 90% of today's sick society. Fuk that. We make our own rules.
You nailed it buddy especially when you pointed out that we don't gossip like everyone else!😀👍
whitequetzal1190 Morality is objective. N.A.P. Nothing more, nothing less.
a narcissist's worst nightmare
That we are
The funniest part is is when they call you the narcissist😂😂😂
Yeah We Are Baaaybaae!!!🏴☠️🥳🤘💯🏆
@@atozproductions9660Not gonna lie.😂 I got told that not long ago but it wasn't soon that l discovered she's the real narcissist. The whole relationship is on hold...Bitch we doin' this my way😂😂
@@augustusessiam2190 just like a leftist it's their defense mechanism as soon as they see you catching on they project everything they're doing as if it's you that's doing it
A Sigma male could not care less if he is hated. He makes decisions based on his moral compass, not the opinions of others.
1000% Always win in life, it's a Marathon not a sprint.
Bingo
Me too.
I have lived a life of being hated by, and being the target of, other men. My father, neighborhood bullies, numerous peers, co-workers, supervisors, small-town rejects, you name it.
I have long since come to the following conclusion: 'Go AHEAD! Keep on hatin'! I LOVE IT!'.
Why care about the opinions of others when 95% of population is either dumb or living a zombie life.
Average people hate those they can't read, control or exploit. Being different makes us a natural target, we are used to it, and don't care, though stealth mode is very useful.
I totally agree on the first sentence.
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Spot on
Man if that isn’t true. I’m getting that in my current job. No one knows what to think about me. They’re vocal about it. I’m always fair, quiet and mysterious. There’s a danger in being totally transparent at your job. It’s inherently dangerous.
From my own personal experiences the people who’ve exploited or tried hurting me in the past get more confused and eventually distant later…..whenever they know “You can do anything you want. I encourage you bc it’ll just anger me more. And I like that. You’re giving me the greatest gift of all…reason to return what you’ve reaped inside me” type thing. Sometimes I wish I could find people who were decent souls.
Throughout childhood and my adult life, I have often wondered why I was at odds with everyone. I wish I'd known decades ago.
Ditto. I never had a boss that I didn't butt heads with. Fortunately, I was good enough at my job that I never got fired. My only real regrets are the negative effect on familial relationships and lack of long-term, meaningful friendships.
Totally agree with you 👍
Facts!!!!!
@@VlogsNiKuyang How original, we can see how well you were educated can't we chav?
This video is one of the best video regarding Sigmas…i am NOT saying i am a sigma…no i am NOT. i just admire the video..
I had a narcissist I was dealing with on a project who went out of his way to make my life difficult. I challenged him one day and asked him why, when it was in both of our interests for the project to run smoothly that he was undermining me. To which he answered, "I don't know why, I just don't like you"
Totally had many similar experiences! Because those people don't focus on the task. You are the task to them...
He hated your authenticity. He is an empty vessel, he only feels animate and alive by controlling and manipulating others. Very difficult to do to a Sigma, so they hate us. They also attempt to mimic our traits.
Best just to confront some out in the open..they worry more about their image than you think
Many people don't know themselves
eliminating enemy is something that a lot of people do each in his on way narcissist or not.
Bingo! Nailed it. I have lost so many "friends" because of those traits. Especially the honesty and not following rules. It's taken almost 60 years to learn to keep my mouth shut and stay out of trouble.
53 and feel the same. Keeping my mouth shut is a challenge.
Rock on bubba. I’m the same way.
Same, until I figured out from my counselor I had a codependency problem, now keeping my mouth shut is easy as pie, I feel so free not feeling I need all these friendships to be happy anymore.
Yes my mouth got me into trouble a few times but it angered the narcissist and that was just fine.
They weren't really friends.
Others usually hate / shun who they cant manipulate. Shunning a Sigma is definitely doing him a favor , Lol
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That's how we seperate the men from the boys. Fast results.
I needed to hear this some 25 years ago, this explains so much, each key point resonates deeply!!! I thank you from all my heart!
This was so spot on. I knew I was a sigma male long before they had a name for it. Every behavior here is who I am.
I recognize authority but don’t bow down to it, since I know better than them. They’re dishonest and foolish so I just ignore them.
And yes, every single time I’m told at work, that “this is how we’ve done this for years…” I find a better way, a more logical way, a safer way, a more efficient way, and that’s how I’m doing it. Period. The boss likes that and promoted me (I suspect he’s a sigma too), but most people resent me. I don’t follow instructions or unnecessary rules but I don’t criticize those who do. Most seem to need a “leader” and I just never did. I don’t want to be a leader either, I’m not that impressed with myself, there’s always so much more to learn. (and I’ll do that on my own, thank you very much)
At meetings, I don’t say anything on a subject that’s trivial and silly. On a subject I see people looking at wrong, I have a LOT to say, and good luck arguing with me, I’ve studied this a long time.
I’m either quiet or abrasive but not much in between. Confrontation is never worth the effort so I seem cocky and set in my ways.
I’m liked and loved by many who understand me, and despised by those who don’t. Mostly, I want to be left the hell alone.
One on one conversations are great, group discussions are a bore. I’ve had great and long relationships with women because I’m honest and respect her as an individual. I’m not the boss and neither is she, we’re a team. Equals.
But socially it’s a little tough being a sigma male so I don’t do social things very often. Why would I?
My time alone is precious to me and I never, ever get bored while alone. Every moment and thought in my head leads to a new discovery or just the simple pleasure of a sunset with no thought at all.
I’ll bet none of you other sigmas out there can identify with any of this. 😁
YES it is so true, i have same experience, even in my early chilhood, i have always look arround a world in afront of me, my parents always critisied my behavior like you standing a side you dont want to hangout, no ,not true , just i see things much different and much profound,clear, without lies ,cause lies, nowdays is so multiplay that is so horrible and deceive, for example man woman interactions and tips and suggestions on internet how to devour each other, i l rather be side and not acting in that frod, i m a married man and my wife she knows me very well and she knows what i mean and her frends always have a good oppinion on me an reall understand why i am as I am, no ego rubbish just to be nice to others and avoid well, others who are not let me say, a good companions, not to avoid people generally but you knows people who are not good, who like gossips, who are evil, jelous and you knows a deceivers all kind of them, even a woman well some of them who just want to devour and put another name on lust list... leave that people and you will be fine, who will appreiced, GOD WILL,that is my truth...yes that line ,this is how we' re done this for years so true and so FUNNY good health to you my frend
@@nenadkovarcik3921 , You’re one of us my friend. I recognize the European name from whatever country out there, and the trouble writing in English. That’s actually impressive. I can’t write in any other language than English. So we get what you’re saying, the translation worked.
I guess being a sigma is hard everywhere. Don’t tell anyone that we’re actually the best people on the planet. 😁
@@nenadkovarcik3921 , Happy New Year my friend! You are one lucky man to find your soul-mate who understands you.
I’ve unfortunately never been that lucky. Marriage always alluded me because I was afraid of the commitment. At 60 years old now, after living a very adventurous life, I kinda regret not settling down. I still might, but you are one of the success stories I envy.
Peace and aloha to you and yours my friend. 🤙🏼
So did I. It was in high school when I realized it the most. I used the word independent non conformist.
Ha ha I totally get everything you say and am quite content being this way .
Probably find like myself most non conformists and self employed people are the same .
Heads up , crack on and get on with one’s journey. 🇬🇧👍
I finally started to give myself the benefit of a doubt. Everybody used to tell me am always the odd ball and that it should make me realize I was in the wrong. "Everyone can not be wrong, you are!". Thankfully, I started accepting who I am and also accepting that socially I may not be very tempting to be around. But that's who I am and living by who I am is what gives me peace and strength.
You understand this topic so well. I relate to quite literally everything you say. Almost eerie how on point you are. You’re doing great. I appreciate your time
Im honestly suprised how much this fits me. Always knew i was different, didnt know there was a name for it.
Never realized i was a sigma untill i realized i was married to a covert narcissist. After i got my son out of the hell she created i have never known myself better.
Managed to marry a covert narcissist also. A lot of trauma and damage done. She finally agreed (when she knew it was over) to do neurofeedback therapy, which helped with her emotional regulation. We are still together but it definitely took its toll on my mojo for life.
I'm glad you managed to get your kid.
@capybara339 Totally agree it's totally not totally OK right??? TOTALLY MESSED UP TOTES McGOATS
No i just think youre not a sigma…you will not post your experience in this commemt section otherwise..
effortless-one What is that like shocking her nips?
I had no idea about this.
I've heard talk on the periphery regarding "alpha males" bla blah blah 🙄
But never paid any attention to any of that.
I've never been interested in competing for admiration or attention like the jocks do, for this role / title of "alpha male etc🙄
Yet I've always known I'm not weak, not a follower, just not interested in being in the spotlight.
This is amazing to have found this video, because it absolutely explains me, to a Tee!
I've always been a hardcore non conformist, always walked my own path, always thought for myself, and this explains why.
Thank you for this important information. 😎🤘
Relatable as fuck, thanks for sharing man!
@@jackhendrixson6699
Much love 😎🤘
When a sigma speaks out, people tend to listen. The quiet cornered confidence demends people to shut up and listen. Its the stoic cowboy leaning against the post before he rips a new one. Like everyone was waiting for you to say something yet they didn't expect the outcome. I've silenced a many of rooms. Ive also destroyed with laughter. I can command a room if I'm feeling it. Most of the time I don't.
kudos my man that's the way utilizing your tools as a sigma definitely is isn't a choice sometimes you end up with a force of command i don't know if its god or a gift sometimes
I don't advertise or boast about my Sigma traits. Don't need to.
@@adamhughes4442 round about way of doing it but ok.
I'm extremely talkative and social when i'm around people, but 90% of the time i'm alone and completely happy with that. Must be very confusing to most people that think i'm a social animal.
Agree totally!
For a long time I thought I'm weird...
And look - I'm just an Sigma...
The Sigma apparently understood a line in American Gangster: "The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room." Take some time to reconsider those who speak too loudly and judge too often while they shout.
Yep. A similar saying: “Those who know the least, know it the loudest.”
@@Woodstock271
Can I borrow that one?
@@kirkhensley5870 , 😂 Sure man! I heard that line somewhere years ago. It’s not mine to lend.
Nice Les Paul by the way. I have an old Gibson Sonix-180 deluxe. Sucker must weigh 50 pounds but it sounds great! 😂🎸🤙🏼
@seancallahan9026
Roger that and yes, on the Les Paul. It actually weighs a metric ton...🤕
"Don't ever mistake my silence for ignorance, my calmness for acceptance or my kindness for weakness. Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength." - Dalai Lama
Many people don't hate them, they just don't understand, it's hard when you yourself don't understand why you behave in a certain way.
Thanks I've always considered myself weird now I know why.
The fact they’re not 🐑 sheep is admirable, humbling and highly attractive. From observations, they generally very loyal and dependable but only do something with good reason or they won’t do it at all. Sigma men are a bit like Huskies in this regard.
Husky dogs?
I resent, yet resemble that remark.
John Wayne played strong men in his westerns. The movie Hondo a perfect example. I wish he was still with us today.
I’m an INFJ after multiple profile tests, one by my therapist. I’m also a Sigma. I don’t recommend being either. It is not a personality profile that makes life easy.
you aren't alone
Spoken like one who recognize its literally a blessing and a curse... and IMO, the cons are magnified by the social climate/norms... American "culture", falsely called, really makes being Sigma (I'm an INTJ) more problematic - having introverted intuition as our dominant cognitive function gets really challenged in the midst of all the chaos, confusion and hypocrisy
Everything in life is a gift and a curse you just gotta find the middle ground or balance... Ase'
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I am an ISTP so dont believe its a myers briggs category and more of an introvert that values their personal morals over society norms.
I remember my mother berating me when I was around 8, "Don't you care when people think of you?"
That question stunned me. I had no idea that people worried about what others thought of them. How crazy is that?
You know you're a sigma if:
- You have no fear of public speaking.
- You've been fired from a job for things you've said.
- You don't understand why an opposing opinion upsets people.
- You've changed your mind on an issue when you've gotten more facts.
- You've upset people by simply trying to help them and didn't see it coming.
Sigmas are not goid at public speaking sorry
This video was amazing. A lot of the things that can get me into hot water, that I wasn't aware of were perfectly described here.
I was born in 1970. I think that era had alot to do with developing this mentality.
We were latch key kid. We chose interest which were part of our independent nature. I loved model ship building. Still do over 40 years later.
@@map3384 guitar here
We built a skateboard ramp in our backyard in '85. My dad always knew where we were.
@shawnfallahi5616 music and skateboarding were my life for years. I have seen everyone from The Dead Kennedys to the Grateful Dead. Alot of shows. Cheers.
@shawnfallahi5616 my younger brother, bought a red BC Rich Warlock that he loved more than his girlfriend. 1987.🤣
@Wise.Thinker thanks for your content. I always wondered why I always tried to be fair with everyone I dealt with and yet some people just seemed to vehemently dislike me. One day I was with a large group of people I knew and one of the people in the group went to the carpark and punctured the sidewalls of all four of my tyres. I couldn't for the life of me work out what I could have done to someone for them to display such distain.
I once had a whole firm of about 30 employees against me. A lot of people are very suspicious of people that are different or don't fit in. It's like we have been sent in as a spy. lol. I loved the look on their faces as I clocked out mid morning and walked out into freedom.
@@davidlouis2354 😆. I think people can't handle you just doing you. Once I got called into my bosses office and told I had to slow down as I was upsetting the averages on the bonus system and people were complaining. I replied that I really didn't care what anyone thought, I had a young family to provide for and as long as there was a bonus available then I would go for it.
@@effortless-one Perhaps it wasn't the amount of bonus causing a problem, it was the crushing of group morale. You were effecting your bosses bottom line.
@@davidlouis2354 You are probably right. Most of them had been there for years and would be there in the future. I was just passing through.
Tire envy.
Had a coworker who demanded I watched videos/shows he kept sending me, over six hours of stuff. One of those greets/talks to everyone types.
I flat out told him I had no time to watch stuff I had no interest in (that and I don’t watch much tv). This was two years ago he still hasn’t said a word to me since.
Thank you for taking the time to post this as I’ve never really understood why people judge me the way they do.
Typical remark I got from exes when they were unreasonably emotional: "you're too logical" or "you're too reasonable".
At moments like those, I can only think: do you hear yourself even talk? Do you hear how little sense you're making right now?
They hate it.
Typical situations where someone tried to impress people with some fancy new car or watch or whatever toy they bought, I'm often not really interested, because it's not my hobby, not my new toy.
Those people sense the disinterest and start to accuse me of being either jealous, indifferent, anti-social, lack of interest in other people or whatever their mind came up with.
They hate it.
Great content. Peace and tranquility is priceless 😊👌👑💊🙏
I am so grateful for this.
That's absolutely Real
Exactly. Good explanation. I can't stand trends, and think most people are dumb sheep, especially when it comes to politics and the media. Liars all. I quit my job at the top of career because the company was pushing the mandate. Screw that, eff you....
Right? I did the same. Worked in an industry most would consider high IQ and very knowledgeable about "cough cough" health issues. Every single one of them fell for it like lobotomized sheep! Only way to win that game is to not play.
Yep, most people are seriously evil with smiles on their faces. It's sickening
I have never seen a pointed list of descriptions identify me so accurately. It’s actually alarming that I can so easily be described as a “type.” I had no idea I was that common. I’ve never met anyone like me. I thought maybe I was somehow broken. This was very interesting information.
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You are not common, but unique.
@@MrAce49 common and unique are polar opposite words. I thought I was unique but having an entire channel dedicated to worshipping a group of people I fit into makes that group more common than I suspected. And frankly, other than learning some stuff I didn’t know, I find this placating channel growing odious the more I watch. I don’t need to be stroked, and this channel seems to do just that.
Lone wolves don’t run in packs
I recall following trends when they suited my tastes, but always had a self critiquing whether my defiance was simply to become an outlier, when unsuitable.
The funniest thing about all this is...why would it matter to be praised or disliked ultimately? It doesn't pay my bills or any benefit either way. It's never made sense to me to be preoccupied with such things.
It matters when your paycheck depends on not pissing off your boss.
My boss only cares about meeting work demands. All the rest is simply trivial nonsense he'd rather not be bothered with. @@raydunn2582
@@raydunn2582create your own opportunities.
Or following your own Moral compass.....
People don't like people that think outside the box. When I was in parochial school, army & college I tended to do things by myself- it saved me alot of headaches.
*In a word, he is honest! He is unwavering in his honesty.*
#9 and absolutely absolutely #10 LOTS OF MONEY AND HATRED
Intent! Positive intent! Looking to do the wright thing with out selfish motive!❤❤❤
Aaahhh.... this video spoke to me lol 😂
Other channels that talk about how women drool over a sigma male crack me up. Sure there’s about 2% of women who are attracted to a sigma male, but the vast majority of women want nothing to do with us.
Can confirm
Hilarious.
People’s own egos beating themselves up over someone they themselves perceive as being in contention with their own self.
Morons hate sigmas.
The feeling is mutual.
Sigma' don't Care if they are liked or NOT...
We sigmas are happy in our own skins. Why are you jealous of that?
Rather than hate us for no logical reason, why don't you look into the mirror and figure out why you're not happy with who you are?
I am a sigma of farts. When people think of their egos as under their control or correlated to their abilities all I need is to smell a whiff of their gas, and I know. Being misunderstood in my sigma fart abilities is tough, but I don’t care what people think about me, my own farts smell great.
Yes, Sigma farts do have that unique quality of the sickly-sweet so enticing only to the most sophisticated..@@billiamhottie
Thanks for this. Super powerful.
I'm not naturally a Sigma, but I've somewhat become one b/c it becomes near impossible to function 'normally' in a world that's so dysfunctional.
Hi guys. Thats a real Sigma Bar 🍻
Greetings from 🇧🇷
Never thought about it until now, but this describes me pretty well.
I always speak up in defence of anyone being criticised unfairly and is not there to defend himself, as often happens, even if I dont particularly like the person concerned. I had a reputation in the Army of being fair minded.
Title: Skibidi Toilets: The Eclectic Dance of a Sigma Soul Amidst Singing Porcelain and Human Heads
In the clandestine corridors of existence, where the shadows of conventionality are left behind, the Sigma Male, that enigmatic wanderer of the human landscape, embarks on an extraordinary odyssey. A peculiar convergence unfolds as he edges towards the inexplicable-a realm of Skibidi Toilets, where the mundane becomes a mesmerizing dance of singing porcelain adorned with human heads. This surreal journey unfolds as a poetic symphony, a fusion of the absurd and the sublime, challenging the boundaries of perception and inviting the Sigma to dance on the edges of reality.
The Skibidi Toilets, with their ceramic bodies, transform into pulsating entities of rhythm and melody. Each flush, a beat; each bowl, a note in a cosmic composition that reverberates through the Sigma's very essence. The porcelain, once stoic and utilitarian, now emerges as a canvas for an eclectic dance of sound, painting the air with notes that transcend the limitations of conventional music. The Sigma, with his characteristic detachment, finds himself swaying to the rhythms of this avant-garde symphony, caught in the paradoxical dance of the extraordinary emerging from the ordinary.
Human heads, wearing expressions from whimsical glee to contemplative melancholy, crown the Skibidi Toilets like surreal totems of introspection. Each face, frozen in time, becomes a participant in this dance of contrasts-a silent audience and a willing performer. The Sigma, observer and participant, engages with the silent narratives etched into the lines and creases of each visage. As he dances on the periphery of reality, the faces become conduits for the unspoken stories of lives lived, dreams envisioned, and the uncharted territories of the human psyche.
Poetic epithets, like stardust, sprinkle the narrative with a linguistic kaleidoscope that attempts to encapsulate the indescribable beauty of the Skibidi Toilets. The porcelain ensemble metamorphoses into a cosmic ballet, and the Sigma, ever the wordsmith of his own solitude, grapples with the limits of language. The dance of words strives to capture the essence of this surreal spectacle-a dance that defies the gravity of conventional experience and catapults the Sigma into a realm where language is but a whisper in the grand cacophony of existence.
Skibidi Toilets, with their peculiar marriage of melody and visage, become a metaphor for the Sigma's journey-an exploration of the infinite potentialities of the human spirit. The dance becomes a metaphor for the Sigma's ability to navigate the boundaries of societal expectations, transcending into a realm where the absurd becomes sublime, and the dance of existence takes center stage. The Sigma, in his solitary exploration, discovers that even in the most unconventional of spaces, there lies an invitation to dance, to revel in the uniqueness of the human experience.
In the grand tapestry of Skibidi Toilets, the Sigma finds a reflection of his own dance with the surreal-a dance that defies the gravity of societal norms and pirouettes on the edges of the unknown. The poetic epithets, like footprints in the sand, mark the Sigma's journey through this cosmic ballet, leaving behind a testament to the limitless possibilities of individual perception and the ever-expanding horizons of the human imagination.
Video good, psychotic ranting response shows much lacking. Nufsaid
Ur a wack job
I have often wondered what it is about me that few people could not trust or like. I always try to be trustworthy. Truthful and honest. A friend until someone proves otherwise.
The reason I don't reveal my thoughts and feelings to others is so I have the freedom to change myself at any moment and no one knows the wiser. Once you tell someone something and then you want to change, they might ask you why and that's just unacceptable.
Did not know what sigma means, thanks for the explanation,. Was under the impression that I was just an oddball .
Could you please share the name of the music used in this video? Such peacefull and relaxing
The sigma is unreadable. The sigma strikes when he needs to do so. People are scared of our eyes in the face of glory.
WOW i nevere thought about..it..
Right On 👍
What’s wild is I saw another vid earlier tonight about what a sigma is and was surprised it explained me. But I commented saying while you’re saying it’s a rare personality, I haven’t reaped much outside of workplace success because of its “rarity.” I was saying if I’m in fact this thing we are going to call “sigma,” I’d say it’s also been a struggle to connect with people. I don’t trust people until I’ve been around them for awhile to read them. Until then I’m closed off. This reads as indifference or lack of interest in a person. And then sure enough this vid comes across hours later and it’s literally what I was saying: these traits, unlike the alpha trait, don’t particularly guarantee success or garner respect from others. In the workplace it does because the gauge for success is very logical. You’re either exceeding at your job you’re paid for or not. With meeting girls though, I don’t trust so I shoot myself in the foot and make them think I don’t like them or or have an interest because I’m not very outward.
Another connection in my life to this vid I found kind of interesting was I’ve had friends basically say “because you don’t speak out often, when you do, it kind of sticks out to people.” For instance I outed a coworker who was coming in 4 hours a week to his supervisor. I was done having us all on the team try to make light of the ridiculousness while it went unpunished for 7 months. Even worse it’s a federal government job, so if you pay taxes to the US, you were funding this asshats 100k salary to do nothing. Well I told the supervisor and simply because I don’t make a fuss about stuff usually, it was clear how much “the injustice” angered me. Some would call me a rat and I don’t give a rat’s ass. It was the right thing to do. What’s criminal about the government’s perspective on jobs is he still isn’t fired years later.
This information would've been so helpful when I was young.
Questioning the rules is probably the biggest defining trait. Sigma males could talk behind people's backs etc. And they could be talkative. But their talk will be a trail to nowhere. And the story will change to throw people off their "scent". Sigmas can be really good, but they can also be very bad. Like very very bad. And people sense this and are naturally oppositional. Sigmas can be extremely loyal to someone who is in their trust.
After watching your videos finally I figured out myself sigma man.
True we are not well liked.
This video is one of the best video regarding Sigmas…i am NOT saying i am a sigma…no i am NOT. i just admire the video..
Excellent clip😎👍🏻
One of the things people mistake in me is they think I'm a pushover or don't try to stand up for myself when that's not true at all, i always try to descalate things, if we can end things in very little conflict, th3 only time i escalate things is when insee no other way out.
This might be my most relatable one yet.
thank you
Im an Action hero in my own mind, but in reality im a dorky shy dweeb who didnt get along with my pers so i must go full copium and tell myself i am the Sigma male.
"A bit stubborn and hard to influence"
That is the understatement of the year.
They are IMPOSSIBLE to influence unless they themselves see the value of changing their course. And the way they determine value is different from how other people calculate it.
Very true and makes more sense of my well being.
Nicely put. 🙏👌✨🥂😎
In the natural studies, these types are often eaten first. "Sigma" is just a concept, a fruit of a first world, were the desire (or predisposition) to be disengaged socially does not result in ruin.
Thank you!❤🏁
"not quick to trust, and have few close friends" Well, if that didn't just call me out. I feel like most people give up on trying to get to know me before even feeling me out, because not too many try. And, I think those that do are thrown off because I don't tend to go on yammering about myself for a while, like many people, unless somebody happens to hit a certain topic.
i dont fit in any group..been learning alone last 8 years..i used to be quiet but never felt like a sigma never even felt free..now im the closest to sigma ill ever be..but im not quiet and i not only share my dreams..to be judged..im such an asshole i try to predict them for everyone to see.on FB against everyones including my families wishes..as i go
its 2024,..and all of a sudden,...everybody is a sigma !!!
what i like abouth this sigma videos is that they actually tell men to behave as men.....in general,...so tumbs up also for this video.
Probably the biggest reason those people can't stand us is because of how authentic we can be. Since their entire life is just an act, they can't comprehend the concept of being themselves. Because who they truly are is a felony charge with a 25-Life sentence
I find it challenging and interesting to agreeing with "the other side". do I show my support in order to further my agenda?
Thank you, at 58 finaly I learnd that I'm a Sigma 😂😂
I grew up watching the TV show, an old western called the Lone Ranger. Was Clayton Moore playing a sigma male? How about Richard Boone who in another TV Western called, Have Gun Will Travel. Both played hero’s and rescued good people in need. Especially women who they rescued. These were my own childhood hero’s back in the 1950s. These were men women loved. I think they still do.
everybody gives themselves away eventually 🎉 my fav part of being super sigma 🧬
Married to one...Hard to understand sometimes, but I can always depend on him and he is totally and honest and loyal..
What a balanced encouragement
I'm beyond sigma, most people wonder if I am an alien or something. The reason why I stay away from people is because I can't stand people that aren't as enlightened as I am. I have always looked at thing from the deepest perspectives, I use to call it looking through God's eyes, and I see errors everywhere. My "sigmameter" is so high I even get mad when people put the word "you" in a sentence, like I have to give a piece of my self to fulfill an obligation. A sigma male value their self worth and noting can make them more mad than people trying to make them feel less than who they know they are. When someone id trying to force a false truth upon them th at difies their entire nature, thinking and believes. What I think everything comes down to is this, a sigma is his own society, he doesn't need anyone to make him feel fulfilled, and being stubborn is a way to protect that society he has built up. A sigma therefore needs the necessary wisdom to protect that temple he has built from outside people.
I am a sigma. Everyone does not hate me. They find me unusual. My motivations seem different than most peoples and I am fine working completely by myself. Actually I prefer it. Also they find I am successful at endevors where others are not. I had an aquantance once say I had the midas touch. To me it all seemed very logical but he said "I just don't know how you do it"
Strong showing reminds me of myself (SIGMA). I have told friendly folks if they want to understand me, know me better then they should watch viewings like this one about SIGMA males.
For a long time, I didn't know what to call myself. I'm not beta or alpha... But after hearing this. This describes me to a T. And explains why so many are angered by my approach to life.
That's because misery loves company. Sigma males know how to avoid becoming the company.
As a life path 7 which considered as "loner at heart" I maybe sigma right?
If you are also contrarian, then definitely.
And we can have friends, we just don't require friends to be fulfilled.
I have considered the value I hold for friendships might be a bit of entitled behavior, since I know people who have bad feelings/nightmares concerning being abandoned to isolation that weren't provided much emotional support as a kid. Is my lack of need for constant companions a result of having a better upbringing, has abuse clung other's to always having someone to step in? All I can do is be sympathetic to these concepts and look to inspire strength in one's own conviction. Aware that adversity might be handled differently if I was not so fortunate.
Justice above all. No double standards period
I've been told I come across as slightly aloof and a little snobbish.As a sigma male,I don't give a flying feck,naturally.
They like to take the path of least resistance to get the job done
I find it better if I don’t stand out however it eventually fails because I draw too much attention sometimes which sometimes leads to altercations
Im a proud Sigma!!! Unvaccinated and strong.
Bingo, well described.
People have only one reason why they cannot stand me, and it's not because I'm sigma but because I'm an a$$hole.
😆.
When asked why I'm the way I am I respond "Because I'm an a$$hole." Those who ask are then surprised when I ask them "Why are you the way you are?"
I long ago came to the conclusion that everyone is an a$$hole. I (and now you) are ahead of the game because we know it.
@@raydunn2582very few people are able to honestly acknowledge this.
aσσhole, that is
If someone doesn't like me I thrive on it,it's like sunshine for my soul.And I don't have a problem challenging authority at work or wherever.I have a small circle of close friends,but don't mind being on my own.
Yes, Indeed ...
At 70 , getting older makes you sigma, male or female , you have lived throgh the the rest, you may also want to call it maturety
#9 always worth keeping in mind, nonetheless, gentlemen.
A phone is just a tool, it does not trap me as I can sit it down anytime I want to. The spin I hate the idea of people getting in contact with me when I am open to them doing so is silly. When I do not want to talk to anyone, the answer is the same as it always was. Do not pick the phone up.
It drives me crazy to see people on the phone in inappropriate places, especially the bathroom.
Present 😊
That totally describes me.
That's because we are highly Aware then most