You shocked me with this one mate. "Illusion of consent and control" is entirely my game. I've even gotten my family to do thing my way too. "Say yes, agree, then do whatever you were going to do anyway.". A few years back in the pandemic my client company decided that I had to get vaxxed to come in to the premises. I agreed and told them that it was a very sensible strategy. I told them that what was also sensible is waiting for the official safety result to come in before I complied and got vaccinated because safety guidelines were well established. A very productive meeting, we both left happy. 2 months later he replied to the 'in writing' email where I agreed and wanted to check in, did I get vaxxed? I told him that the standard national 8 year clinical trial results were at 7.5 years in at that point but I'm still happy to comply providing he is still happy with the agreement he made in writing and... he left it at that. The Pfizer jab would be judged as safe sometime around 2028, though based on contraindications, looks like there might be delays! Still happy to comply!
I used to be so quiet- but became more at ease with myself over time- It's better not to even talk to 90% of the population- because they have nothing to say anyway!
@@danehackett4883 A wise man knows when to speak like a fool, and that's always around people who consider themselves wise men. The art of deception is about convincing people you are weak. The wolf in sheep's clothing is well fed.
You missed one . The just say no tactic. When someone tries to get you to do something you're not comfortable with just say "no". Then let them ramble , coerce, justify incentivize until they run out of breath. Don't interrupt but an occasional nod to let them think it might be convincing you. Then when they're done and winded just say "no" again . No counter-argument or discussion. Let them start all over again if they are so inclined and repeat the process. The dumber ones will do this a number of times until they eventually figure out that you are just playing with them. Remember , it takes two to argue . You can never win an argument with a moron .
I did this. I'm actually a sigma woman, but that is exactly what I did when my dad crossed the line, and my mom tried to coax me into accepting an ordeal of a situation. Just "No.", calmly. It lasted a whole hour, and I saw them go through all the stages of mourning ( this was nothing very important for them, just the keeping control ride was). Stupefaction, incredulity, bargaining, anger, threatening, drama, sulking, everything. Eventually they gave in. The power of the just say "No." tactic is incredible.
Absolutely. My thing has always been to say "uh hu" every few seconds, then when they've exhausted themselves, wait a few seconds and say "yea, I'm not going to do that." It's devastating.
@@wonkygustav4457 sigmas don't generally seek to control others. it's about self control, not controlling others. we will seek to control our environment, but only to maintain our peace. controlling others is a waste of our time, it takes away from our self focused nature.
@@immortalis8580 I know, they’d only do it out of stopping others from controlling them but they are very persuasive and therefore able to control others
Generally yes, BUT occasionally you'll run into a pathological liar... So keeping your cards close to your vest is always smart. I've often confided in an office chum, a harmless item. To see if they run off to the boss with it. E.G. indicating I'm not enthused about a temporary assignment to run casework. When the selections are announced, I play the part of "ultimate team player", I salute and carry on. So I get high marks but not bitching, AND I score a few thousand in OT. IF you want to go TDY too often you will get passed over, because you arouse suspicion. They always want to maintain control. Let them have their illusion..
I've watched a number of these vids now. I wish I knew this decades ago. I always thought I was just strange compared to everyone else. And so did everyone else. Everything said makes me shiver, remembering things I did in the past.
I'm 70 and have been impossible to control my whole life, my mom said the biggest mistake she made with me is that she didn't break me. Self employed with few friends and don't take to control or rules I don't agree with.
That's OK, just understand these videos. It's about charting your own course... Because many want you to row their slave galleon. Not your own vessel. Ride it till it gets you where you want to be....
As a contractor, I've worked for many companies. I found some leaders that I wanted to support. Been there over 10 years now. Still a contractor, my choice.
Yes! I've worked with a lot of type A personalities, when they're receptive to my personality we've been able to achieve great results. I actually enjoy this dynamic - it keeps me out of the spotlight and allows me to move behind the scenes. In fact, the best type A personalities I've worked with have understood my role to the extent that they've allowed me to somewhat undermine their authority within the group - understanding that doing so was in the interest of bringing along others who may not have been convinced of our ultimate goals.
One of my favorite things to say is, “I’m sorry if I gave you the impression I’m inviting a debate or discussion. I’m informing you of my intentions. Thanks.”
About 20 years ago at my college job, I went like 3 years without an absence or anything. I needed to take a couple days off for a wedding, and the boss tried to decline. I told him basically "I'm telling you I'm not going to be here on those days. What you do with that information is your choice."
@@42roadsforman that's much harder. I don't see it as manipulation in the other direction, just well thought out deception. Though I used this only a handful of times. Fortunately, it's not an everyday thing. That would be exhausting.
I found myself laughing out loud at the content of this video. It's a the laugh of recognition of facts. The myriad of times that I have confounded the manipulator came rushing back across the decades. I used to amaze myself with my speed of thought and many people said that I'm not normal. Of course, in those days I didn't know why I was different. This subject is fascinating to study.
I remember somebody telling me I overthink things... As though it was difficult. I said let me give you an example of my thought process. "What is your name?" They looked at me strangely I said just humor me for a second and repeated the question. They said their name. I then asked "how difficult was that thought process and how complicated was it for you?" They replied it wasn't difficult at all it was simple I just said my name. I said exactly. That thing that you think I'm overthinking or that is hugely complicated appears in my brain is simply as your name appears in yours. Always had the ability to talk and listen at the same time and I try to explain to people that by the time the words are coming out of my mouth that has already been processed. I can focus 100% on listening as I'm talking. It's like writing a letter and then putting it in the mail. When you're reading the letter I'm not writing it anymore. So when I'm talking it's like the letter has already been written and you're just reading it. My brain is 100% focused on what you are saying. I have a friend who has the same ability. People will watch the two of us debate or talk and we would be talking 100% over each other. They always thought we were fighting and they would say you're not even listening to each other. We would both pause and say we're listening 100% to each other. We both had to learn when talking to other people how to not talk while the other person is talking. But it is incredibly frustrating because it just seems like a waste of time... Meaning this entire discussion could have had all the same points said in 1/3 of the time. If we both just say what we're saying over each other.
@@42roadsformanI'm gonna go out on a limb and say that the fact you (and your friend) LISTEN (to comprehend) makes the difference. Most people are waiting for the speaker to pause so THEY can speak, they are NOT listening to the words being spoken.
@@gary_dg yes, listening to comprehend. I can't tolerate those that listen just to wait to speak. Those kind of people just want to be right. I'd rather know I'm wrong so that I can correct myself if I have a wrong opinion.
bro one thing is for surethat most of the times i can see through others tactics . but i just keep it to myself because i get rid off anything that costs my peace
Having a consistent and disciplined routine of engaging with his most important, non-negotiable activities makes the Sigma male that much more difficult to manipulate and control.
I've spent my entire life considering myself to be something of a loner, with other people telling me I am weird. I've always known giving the appearance of acceptance whilst doing things the way I want to do them as long as it delivers the desired results, works best for me, and whilst I'm not afraid of confrontation, I reserve it for the times when it matters most to me. Turns out I might be a sigma rather than the derogatory things I've been called most of my life.
They need a better reading program. Typical lazy, mass produced video by someone who doesn't speak English. Probably plagiarized from some college students psych paper.
I’ve known since childhood that I’m a little different from everyone else and had little affinity with the normies, but didn’t have a word to describe myself until a few years ago.
You guys ever have someone claim you as a friend without your permission lol. I just say to myself "Poor guy doesn't even realize this is the last conversation we will have"😂😂😂😂.
I had a co worker introduce me as a friend to his group of friends. I said, actually, I'm just an aqiuntance. My circle of friends has remained unchanged for 30 years. He just stood there looking stunned.
That’s happened a few times but usually if anyone claims me as a friend it’s be I want them too i never claim anyone as a friend it’s easier to detach myself if need be
I’ve been trying to tell my youngins this and they just ignore me and try to pretend that they know it all… I’ve a Fox…. Not a wolf or bear or snake or hawk. I’ll watch you to see if you’re worth helping. As long as you don’t attack me in any way, I’ll help you find treasure. If you do attack me in any way shape or form, you’ll be your own down fall. It’s been this way my entire life.
This was a a really good one and I wonder if @WiseThinker would tell us where his source material comes from? Is there a Center for Study of Sigma Males?😂 I find your videos remarkably on target.
It's really about having your own 'respect' for yourself. I know why I've always being misunderstood, it's because many others don't understand my own personal strength, and independence.
I've used the ghosting technique many times throughout my life tbh, but i can disappear from a relationship for some time an return some time later an pick up right back where i left off as nothing ever happened to.
This outlines one of the very few ways i differ from the type, manipulations are not worth the time for me, be direct or get lost. My humor might seems like i may do the manipulation, but that is as far as it goes.
This just sounds like a grown man. I think millennials and younger never saw it up close growing up. Grown men who don’t cowtow to their wives act like this and almost every man prior to 1980 acted like this too.
Sigmas are not violent men! They always report these emotionally handicapped people and that's the only warning they get before he sinks them without a confrontation! He's always smarter that his trouble making haters.
what they don’t understand is that i do things because I want to not because they tell me or want me to. i can easily stop doing it because i didn’t want to and when you do they are on your ass or disoriented because they cannot get you to do what they want. they don’t get you. cant control me and if you try i won’t do nothing you think i would do or do the opposite.
Here's one Boss says well you would know this if you were here at 8:00 in the morning.. I look at him in front of everyone and say you're right and I do not avert my gaze...
That must explain why when I go anywhere, my movements are in slow motion for dramatic effect & influence on those around me. All that matters is, that thought made me laugh inside.
Imagine working at a NASA or DoD research site. Every male who does research is a sigma male. We are allegedly rare, but 30 sigma males on the same shift....
My son is a true Sigma. I gave him a lot of freedom to follow his path. A the same time when I set boundaries he knew better than to cross them. When he was young I told him to clean his room, he didn't. So I cleaned it for him. All he had was a bed and and couple pieces of furniture. He never complained to me. When I told him to clean his room he did it rather loose all his stuff. I gave him a lot of freedom, but, with responsibilities.
I grew up in Los Angeles----a city full of con artists and plastic people. So I've learned to put my guard up and really vet people before I allow myself to be friends with them. There was a time, years ago, when I would engage in conversations with con artists out of amusement. I would nod my head and pretend like I agreed with them. Then I would suddenly say something like, "I'm sorry, I have to go." And I'd walk away. They would get pissed me because they failed to con their way into my wallet. I don't know if I'm a sigma male. I'm just cautious and pessimistic because I grew up in a large city of full of people & politicians who were not trustworthy.
Malcious compliance is a good one. I laughed in their face when I got fired from a company that rewarded the bootlickers not the productive one. They offered a 6 week pay out if I signed this paper making my knowledge of that companies business their property. That was when I broke out laughing. 5 years later an opportunity came and I got them turfed out of a maintenance contract that paid good. It was better than sex. Do not mistake my lack of cussing and table manners for weakness. Wheñ someone leads with cussing they have jumped into the mud and they are not coming out clean. Never lower yourself to that level if you do you just lost.
How about losing a job because so-called alpha males are so threatened they lie about you. The last time it happened, confronted by my boss….. being fired. I said; It’s a complete lie but, I understand. here’s the keys, no hard feelings. Thank you for the time I was here. He was shocked and had second thoughts. Me” no, that’s OK. it’s not a financial burden I will be fine. Good luck and thanks again.” A good life is the best revenge. Possibly a sigma trait
Great response. Loved the "Good Luck" slap. He'll be second guessing the 'alpha' every step of the way forward. We ALWAYS have the leverage, and getting the opportunity to demonstrate it is one of life's simple pleasures.
Use this gifts in name of God Creator, never hate others just be aware of unrest people who want to feed their ego by abusing/controlling/using others. There is Alpha Sigma characters too, Who push back against unjust practices, defend others, show good life path to bad guys, change them in some extent and leave when feeling that was not enough.
Answer being, they are shallow empty minded selfish inward focussed of limited intelligence ‘people’. The old man was exactly like this. Hated him & left the house at age 18. He lost his tyrannical control then & never got it back. Punched him out at age 21 & he never again tried to re assert dominance. He passed in 2009 with no friends & no family. Since I was a young adult ( early twenties ) iv not allowed manipulation or control & have shown the Red Card to anyone who attempted it. Which has been 90% of other people. Not bothered by it tho, happy either The Scoobs & our peaceful country life. 😃👍
I don't feel like I'm a sigma male according this shallow description, but I hate so much when someone try to control or use me, that person easily can be left behind. And I never look back. I also question many things in our society. For example, religions, hypes, trends, fashion. These are superficial things in my eyes.
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HOW YOU THINGS LIKE TO CATEGORIZE EVERYTHING…ESPECIALLY THOSE THINGS YOU CLEARLY WANT TO CONTROL
I used to be a sigma male up to the point when my wife and i had children. Children need clear directions and often can't deal with the sublety of sigma males. So i had to adapt alpha an beta characteristics for them.
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You shocked me with this one mate. "Illusion of consent and control" is entirely my game. I've even gotten my family to do thing my way too. "Say yes, agree, then do whatever you were going to do anyway.".
A few years back in the pandemic my client company decided that I had to get vaxxed to come in to the premises. I agreed and told them that it was a very sensible strategy. I told them that what was also sensible is waiting for the official safety result to come in before I complied and got vaccinated because safety guidelines were well established. A very productive meeting, we both left happy. 2 months later he replied to the 'in writing' email where I agreed and wanted to check in, did I get vaxxed? I told him that the standard national 8 year clinical trial results were at 7.5 years in at that point but I'm still happy to comply providing he is still happy with the agreement he made in writing and... he left it at that.
The Pfizer jab would be judged as safe sometime around 2028, though based on contraindications, looks like there might be delays! Still happy to comply!
Um... no. I may later if I decide I want to.
I used to be so quiet- but became more at ease with myself over time- It's better not to even talk to 90% of the population- because they have nothing to say anyway!
the wise man speaks because he has something to say, the fool speaks because he has to say something
99%
Maybe it's better to be content doing things alone. Find peace in ourselves and all that?
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@@danehackett4883
A wise man knows when to speak like a fool, and that's always around people who consider themselves wise men. The art of deception is about convincing people you are weak. The wolf in sheep's clothing is well fed.
They mistake our kindness as weakness and are baffled when it just suddenly disappears.
You missed one . The just say no tactic. When someone tries to get you to do something you're not comfortable with just say "no". Then let them ramble , coerce, justify incentivize until they run out of breath. Don't interrupt but an occasional nod to let them think it might be convincing you. Then when they're done and winded just say "no" again . No counter-argument or discussion. Let them start all over again if they are so inclined and repeat the process. The dumber ones will do this a number of times until they eventually figure out that you are just playing with them. Remember , it takes two to argue . You can never win an argument with a moron .
That's me bru!! a subtle no.😊
I did this. I'm actually a sigma woman, but that is exactly what I did when my dad crossed the line, and my mom tried to coax me into accepting an ordeal of a situation. Just "No.", calmly. It lasted a whole hour, and I saw them go through all the stages of mourning ( this was nothing very important for them, just the keeping control ride was). Stupefaction, incredulity, bargaining, anger, threatening, drama, sulking, everything. Eventually they gave in.
The power of the just say "No." tactic is incredible.
😂😂😂 I do this
Silence is the highest level of contempt
Absolutely. My thing has always been to say "uh hu" every few seconds, then when they've exhausted themselves, wait a few seconds and say "yea, I'm not going to do that." It's devastating.
You hit this right on the head! Don't take my kindness for weakness...
sigmas are more selective than others about letting anyone get close. controlling types are kept at a distance from the get go.
Well said!! I do videos like him btw 😊
Sigmas can be very controlling themselves
@@wonkygustav4457
Not controlling at all. We Sigmas spent the time and work necessary to know ourselves. We don't change to conform to others.
@@wonkygustav4457 sigmas don't generally seek to control others. it's about self control, not controlling others. we will seek to control our environment, but only to maintain our peace.
controlling others is a waste of our time, it takes away from our self focused nature.
@@immortalis8580 I know, they’d only do it out of stopping others from controlling them but they are very persuasive and therefore able to control others
We can literally see through everyone.. 😊
😊😊 I do similar videos
We have clarity and see through bullsh!t.
Generally yes, BUT occasionally you'll run into a pathological liar...
So keeping your cards close to your vest is always smart. I've often confided in an office chum, a harmless item. To see if they run off to the boss with it. E.G. indicating I'm not enthused about a temporary assignment to run casework. When the selections are announced, I play the part of "ultimate team player", I salute and carry on. So I get high marks but not bitching, AND I score a few thousand in OT. IF you want to go TDY too often you will get passed over, because you arouse suspicion. They always want to maintain control. Let them have their illusion..
How else could we walk through them to get to where we're going without being slowed down?
Truth.
Nailed it , and thanks for remind me I am not asshole, Its my way of life
Keep doin what your doin.
😂👍
Agreed I used to question if I am being too blunt sometimes but it’s me being me. No fakeness
I've watched a number of these vids now. I wish I knew this decades ago. I always thought I was just strange compared to everyone else. And so did everyone else. Everything said makes me shiver, remembering things I did in the past.
I'm 70 and have been impossible to control my whole life, my mom said the biggest mistake she made with me is that she didn't break me. Self employed with few friends and don't take to control or rules I don't agree with.
Doesn't sound like a mistake to me. After we hit about 5yo, moms should really take a backseat to dads for raising boys.
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Kinda wish you were my neighbor.
That's OK, just understand these videos. It's about charting your own course... Because many want you to row their slave galleon. Not your own vessel. Ride it till it gets you where you want to be....
Amen!
We don’t undermine, we guide leadership through intuitive support.
As a contractor, I've worked for many companies. I found some leaders that I wanted to support. Been there over 10 years now. Still a contractor, my choice.
Yes! I've worked with a lot of type A personalities, when they're receptive to my personality we've been able to achieve great results. I actually enjoy this dynamic - it keeps me out of the spotlight and allows me to move behind the scenes. In fact, the best type A personalities I've worked with have understood my role to the extent that they've allowed me to somewhat undermine their authority within the group - understanding that doing so was in the interest of bringing along others who may not have been convinced of our ultimate goals.
We make people look good by working behind the scenes, yet if we get shafted or taken advantage of and stop, everything goes to rat pants fast.
I wish i heard about sigma years ago.
I've gone most of my life thinking i was alone. Turns out I've had like minded brothers all along 😁👍.
I believe I know how you feel...
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It's the isolation! 🤔
And sisters 💃🕺
Same.
I liked that ''stoic indifference ''. I think everything originates from that
True Jamali! I do similar videos btw ❤
One of my favorite things to say is, “I’m sorry if I gave you the impression I’m inviting a debate or discussion. I’m informing you of my intentions. Thanks.”
Agreed. I do videos like him btw
About 20 years ago at my college job, I went like 3 years without an absence or anything. I needed to take a couple days off for a wedding, and the boss tried to decline. I told him basically "I'm telling you I'm not going to be here on those days. What you do with that information is your choice."
Excellent response. 👍
@@adamb89 Exactly. 👍 😉
I’ll take things that never happened for $500
Control? Yeah ... good luck with that.
I like to let them believe they have a chance ... it's fun to see the desperation when they fail.
sigmas play the long game... They think they are winning against the sigma and then eventually what they end up doing they think is their idea. Wrong
@@42roadsforman that's much harder. I don't see it as manipulation in the other direction, just well thought out deception.
Though I used this only a handful of times. Fortunately, it's not an everyday thing. That would be exhausting.
I’m still so floored when it comes to this channel‼️ so spot on when it comes to me❤️🔥
I found myself laughing out loud at the content of this video. It's a the laugh of recognition of facts. The myriad of times that I have confounded the manipulator came rushing back across the decades. I used to amaze myself with my speed of thought and many people said that I'm not normal. Of course, in those days I didn't know why I was different. This subject is fascinating to study.
I remember somebody telling me I overthink things... As though it was difficult. I said let me give you an example of my thought process. "What is your name?" They looked at me strangely I said just humor me for a second and repeated the question. They said their name. I then asked "how difficult was that thought process and how complicated was it for you?" They replied it wasn't difficult at all it was simple I just said my name. I said exactly. That thing that you think I'm overthinking or that is hugely complicated appears in my brain is simply as your name appears in yours.
Always had the ability to talk and listen at the same time and I try to explain to people that by the time the words are coming out of my mouth that has already been processed. I can focus 100% on listening as I'm talking. It's like writing a letter and then putting it in the mail. When you're reading the letter I'm not writing it anymore. So when I'm talking it's like the letter has already been written and you're just reading it. My brain is 100% focused on what you are saying.
I have a friend who has the same ability. People will watch the two of us debate or talk and we would be talking 100% over each other. They always thought we were fighting and they would say you're not even listening to each other. We would both pause and say we're listening 100% to each other. We both had to learn when talking to other people how to not talk while the other person is talking. But it is incredibly frustrating because it just seems like a waste of time... Meaning this entire discussion could have had all the same points said in 1/3 of the time. If we both just say what we're saying over each other.
arent you special
youre so special
@@42roadsformanI'm gonna go out on a limb and say that the fact you (and your friend) LISTEN (to comprehend) makes the difference. Most people are waiting for the speaker to pause so THEY can speak, they are NOT listening to the words being spoken.
@@gary_dg yes, listening to comprehend. I can't tolerate those that listen just to wait to speak. Those kind of people just want to be right. I'd rather know I'm wrong so that I can correct myself if I have a wrong opinion.
Indifference has always been my savior.
It's the silver bullet
It's very effective because it's practicallly an unbreakable barrier.
Meh...
@@skunk12Outstanding comeback.
bro one thing is for surethat most of the times i can see through others tactics . but i just keep it to myself because i get rid off anything that costs my peace
No lies told, self preservation 101 😎
Having a consistent and disciplined routine of engaging with his most important, non-negotiable activities makes the Sigma male that much more difficult to manipulate and control.
Sigmas don't make fun of people
Sheesh!! I feel exposed right now, Ugh!!..🤣😂😅🤫🤫🤫
I've spent my entire life considering myself to be something of a loner, with other people telling me I am weird. I've always known giving the appearance of acceptance whilst doing things the way I want to do them as long as it delivers the desired results, works best for me, and whilst I'm not afraid of confrontation, I reserve it for the times when it matters most to me.
Turns out I might be a sigma rather than the derogatory things I've been called most of my life.
You're not a beta, you're a sigma. Let that fill you with the confidence to become the alpha.
Control me??
Don't make my socks laugh!😂
"Just when you think you have the answer, I change all the questions..." - Rowdy Roddy Piper
Ever take a test, that doesn't include the questions?
G'haust'ing? 😂
And why was item #8 billed as #9?
They need a better reading program. Typical lazy, mass produced video by someone who doesn't speak English. Probably plagiarized from some college students psych paper.
Me and my cow workers always make fun of the mispronounced words.
I have always had this thought, and strategic thinking. I couldn't prevent what you did, but you can't prevent me from what I am going to do either.
Agree! I do similar videos Ramon
Ha! 😁
SPOT ON !!!!
I’ve known since childhood that I’m a little different from everyone else and had little affinity with the normies, but didn’t have a word to describe myself until a few years ago.
It's a trip, isn't it!! I knew too, but it took time.
i always have to manage the team manager and johnny appleseed the teams direction.
You guys ever have someone claim you as a friend without your permission lol. I just say to myself "Poor guy doesn't even realize this is the last conversation we will have"😂😂😂😂.
Aw man yeah I've had people call me their best friend... Meanwhile I'm just being me...
I had a co worker introduce me as a friend to his group of friends. I said, actually, I'm just an aqiuntance. My circle of friends has remained unchanged for 30 years. He just stood there looking stunned.
That’s happened a few times but usually if anyone claims me as a friend it’s be I want them too i never claim anyone as a friend it’s easier to detach myself if need be
It's spot on 💯 brother
Thank you!
Not 100% but pretty close.
Malicious compliance is oh so sweet. Just CYA by documenting documenting documenting. Email was a godsend.
I’ve been trying to tell my youngins this and they just ignore me and try to pretend that they know it all… I’ve a Fox…. Not a wolf or bear or snake or hawk. I’ll watch you to see if you’re worth helping. As long as you don’t attack me in any way, I’ll help you find treasure. If you do attack me in any way shape or form, you’ll be your own down fall. It’s been this way my entire life.
God bless.
This was a a really good one and I wonder if @WiseThinker would tell us where his source material comes from? Is there a Center for Study of Sigma Males?😂 I find your videos remarkably on target.
And when you push one beyond boundaries - enemies may seem to just quietly disappear without a trace
Self sufficient
It's really about having your own 'respect' for yourself. I know why I've always being misunderstood, it's because many others don't understand my own personal strength, and independence.
Even with dancing lessons, a girl said, "o, you're different from what I expected".
I've used the ghosting technique many times throughout my life tbh, but i can disappear from a relationship for some time an return some time later an pick up right back where i left off as nothing ever happened to.
Apparently Sigma Males also have no use for the number 8 and instead choose to skip it going straight from 7 to 9.
Find the horizon quickly!
Eights are for Betas…
Do you have any eights ??? Go fish........ don't you have homes ???
This outlines one of the very few ways i differ from the type, manipulations are not worth the time for me, be direct or get lost. My humor might seems like i may do the manipulation, but that is as far as it goes.
Whoa...me 100%..
This just sounds like a grown man. I think millennials and younger never saw it up close growing up. Grown men who don’t cowtow to their wives act like this and almost every man prior to 1980 acted like this too.
They started putting Soy in the Food which has Betatized men
Make lead in petrol great again.
I think you're wrong.
Sigma males are the best and most powerful
Sigmas are not violent men! They always report these emotionally handicapped people and that's the only warning they get before he sinks them without a confrontation! He's always smarter that his trouble making haters.
As a Bartender (32 years), these tactics work very well for me.
It's the quiet ones you have to worry about. If a man stares straight through you, assume he knows something you don't.
2020 smelt very fishy to sigma males
Yep
Forever
meh
Never got the vaccine either and now I know why.
Didn't just smelt fishy it was fishy.
So accurate, I love it!
what they don’t understand is that i do things because I want to not because they tell me or want me to. i can easily stop doing it because i didn’t want to and when you do they are on your ass or disoriented because they cannot get you to do what they want. they don’t get you. cant control me and if you try i won’t do nothing you think i would do or do the opposite.
Real talk , pull upp🔥🔥🔥
These are all valid tactics but it's not just silence or subtle, sometimes it's blunt and direct, but it is always strategic.. 😅
Ghosting is great. Save energy, avoid drama.
It is not Judo, but Aikido = using the force of an enemy against him .. 😉
Now you know haha
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💯! Too true.
Ha ha love it. Never knew but spot on xx
Here's one Boss says well you would know this if you were here at 8:00 in the morning.. I look at him in front of everyone and say you're right and I do not avert my gaze...
That must explain why when I go anywhere, my movements are in slow motion for dramatic effect & influence on those around me. All that matters is, that thought made me laugh inside.
Funny, I find myself doing that same thing.
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I would also a shaming to the list...Silence wins every battle and war no one knows anything about.
Imagine working at a NASA or DoD research site. Every male who does research is a sigma male. We are allegedly rare, but 30 sigma males on the same shift....
I've actually stopped using sarcasm except for occasional one-off jokes. I was tired of dealing with the reactions. See #8 item, instead.
Great video!
Why you snitching on the gang🤣🤣🤫🤫
Never got the vaccine back then either and now I know why.
Yup
I can relate to this but at 61 I've managed without being called sigma, or any label.
My son is a true Sigma. I gave him a lot of freedom to follow his path. A the same time when I set boundaries he knew better than to cross them. When he was young I told him to clean his room, he didn't. So I cleaned it for him. All he had was a bed and and couple pieces of furniture. He never complained to me. When I told him to clean his room he did it rather loose all his stuff. I gave him a lot of freedom, but, with responsibilities.
So, my normal way of living . 👍
I never understood why I have no emotion. Thanks for these videos.
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Blessings all
How is it possible that you know so much about what makes me tick?
lol. I do videos like this one
@@MasculinityYTcongrats, your spamming successfuly put me off even checking your channel :)
I have to agree that's me
I grew up in Los Angeles----a city full of con artists and plastic people. So I've learned to put my guard up and really vet people before I allow myself to be friends with them. There was a time, years ago, when I would engage in conversations with con artists out of amusement. I would nod my head and pretend like I agreed with them. Then I would suddenly say something like, "I'm sorry, I have to go." And I'd walk away. They would get pissed me because they failed to con their way into my wallet. I don't know if I'm a sigma male. I'm just cautious and pessimistic because I grew up in a large city of full of people & politicians who were not trustworthy.
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When you say No they ask why, I have no words to explain to put it in a way that they will understand and just stay quiet and move on.
Hahaha😂 this is all my character
Malcious compliance is a good one. I laughed in their face when I got fired from a company that rewarded the bootlickers not the productive one. They offered a 6 week pay out if I signed this paper making my knowledge of that companies business their property. That was when I broke out laughing.
5 years later an opportunity came and I got them turfed out of a maintenance contract that paid good. It was better than sex. Do not mistake my lack of cussing and table manners for weakness. Wheñ someone leads with cussing they have jumped into the mud and they are not coming out clean. Never lower yourself to that level if you do you just lost.
How about losing a job because so-called alpha males are so threatened they lie about you.
The last time it happened, confronted by my boss….. being fired.
I said;
It’s a complete lie but, I understand.
here’s the keys, no hard feelings.
Thank you for the time I was here.
He was shocked and had second thoughts.
Me” no, that’s OK. it’s not a financial burden I will be fine.
Good luck and thanks again.”
A good life is the best revenge.
Possibly a sigma trait
Great response. Loved the "Good Luck" slap. He'll be second guessing the 'alpha' every step of the way forward. We ALWAYS have the leverage, and getting the opportunity to demonstrate it is one of life's simple pleasures.
I wouldn't want to be in the environment at all knowing a coworker lied on me to the boss... great response
Why don't you sue?
Forced reinstatement by court "
The alpha males can't stand the competition when you outperform them.
Use this gifts in name of God Creator, never hate others just be aware of unrest people who want to feed their ego by abusing/controlling/using others. There is Alpha Sigma characters too, Who push back against unjust practices, defend others, show good life path to bad guys, change them in some extent and leave when feeling that was not enough.
That first part though
Number 8 ❤
When you tell your coworker to sit down when he pees you have set a boundary on him acting like a man.
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The real question is why people try to manipulate so much.
Answer being, they are shallow empty minded selfish inward focussed of limited intelligence ‘people’. The old man was exactly like this. Hated him & left the house at age 18. He lost his tyrannical control then & never got it back. Punched him out at age 21 & he never again tried to re assert dominance. He passed in 2009 with no friends & no family.
Since I was a young adult ( early twenties ) iv not allowed manipulation or control & have shown the Red Card to anyone who attempted it.
Which has been 90% of other people.
Not bothered by it tho, happy either The Scoobs & our peaceful country life.
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Because they wish they were a sigma
Manipulation and control make them think they are superior
Hedonistic pleasure and insecurities
Was thinking I was a sigma, but #5 confirmed it. I definitely speak sarcasm fluently.
Problem for many people is that to them SARCASM is a 7-letter word 🤦, can be quite frustrating some times.
Every man that watches this think they’re one of these guys😂
Yup, it’s all really vague.
I had no idea what a "sigma male" was---and now?----same.
* firm glare *
Exits
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I don't feel like I'm a sigma male according this shallow description, but I hate so much when someone try to control or use me, that person easily can be left behind. And I never look back.
I also question many things in our society. For example, religions, hypes, trends, fashion. These are superficial things in my eyes.
HOW YOU THINGS LIKE TO CATEGORIZE EVERYTHING…ESPECIALLY THOSE THINGS YOU CLEARLY WANT TO CONTROL
Wow, i never knew this about me.
I’m not a sigma, I’m a wolf man.
You say that I should give a fuck what you think... Is my standard rejoinder if simply turning and walking doesn't cut it.
I followed the advice of my probation officer: "keep a low profile".
This is almost scary! Like you know me!????😮
This is me 💯💯💯
I used to be a sigma male up to the point when my wife and i had children. Children need clear directions and often can't deal with the sublety of sigma males. So i had to adapt alpha an beta characteristics for them.
It's usually they just ignore you, unless you go too far, and then things suddenly get violent.
😊 that's right, 👍... be ware