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Yes racism is alive and strong it seems like it’s worse now than ever it’s so sad that you and your children had to endure something like that I love you and your family I think you’re beautiful and I think you deserve better than being treated like that but unfortunately that’s what we’re all going through right as people of color its so sad I hope and pray that things get better but the way things are going I don’t know but I admire you for speaking on this I know that it isn’t easy I’ll be praying for you and your family, Love peace and light 🙏🏽🙏🏽
We feel your pain and know exactly what your going through. I am a grown white man and at tears most nights, laying in bed,seeing what my children go through.
Brought on sadly by grown adults.
I know all the pain your dealing with. Your fighting from the bottom all the way to the top. You go through ALL the bullshit channels to correct the problem like your INSTRUCTED and they all tell you to piss up a rope and into a fan and just deal with it. Pretty bad when a girl is afraid to defend themselves because they KNOW everything will be their fault even after being beat down by a group of racist boys. Security footage only exists for the narrative.
@@angeleyes8340 AMEN🙏
@@michaelmortag3536 Get real. Go live in North Korea, then you can see what suffering is. These people have a life of wanton luxury, that big man with the beard ain't here husband either, she ran off and deserted him.
I get it, you are 100%! My wife is black and I'm white, married 28 years now, and we get the looks and comments from both sides. We realize that some folks are just ignorant. Because of them we are stronger
I think every person should choose the best for yourself.
RIGHT ON ❣️
@Edward Jenkinson, stay strong, both of you. Respect to both of you.
Greetings from Hamburg Germany
That’s great to hear may you both grow stronger in Love and unity let know one hatred insecurity bitterness jealousy come between you two!
We get those looks too and me most.But the worst thing is to have to my children and make them aware of their color and the challenges they might face moving forward.
Sometimes I want to pack up and go back home(Kenya).
People are so ignorant and they make it their business to really make other people’s life difficult
I'll never understand why people dislike others based on skin color. GOD made us, we're all human! I'm so tired of the blatant racism & ignorance in this Country!
Your family is beautiful ❤️❤️
It’s nothing but hatred jealously we all bleed the same color, I do disagree all are not beautiful people but some are I wish all were other wise we wouldn’t be talking about this heart felt subject! Yes we all were created by The almighty God but he gives us a chose on who we going to serve theres some serving God and some who is serving satan himself point blank! The wicked one
It's so insane and a ridiculous waste of energy we are indeed all human!!!!
You are not that naive, are you?It’s not the color of the actual skin. It’s that a lot of Black people have a stigma of committing crime and violence. It’s statistics. And people become fearful of them.
@@ajsans9161 Racism goes both ways, a white in a black school is probably going to experience more racism than just being called names.
@@ajsans9161 all different races commit crimes & whites are just as far up there if you want to check your statistics again seems yours are a little out dated. you shouldn’t judge people on the color or their skin & assume who they are as people.
My wife and I are white. Of course our kids are white. They have NEVER heard the N word or heard any racism in our house. I have black friends that are like family to me. I showed my kids 12 years a slave when they were in junior high. They ugly cried and were so ashamed to see how black people were treated. They didn't understand and it brought them closer to their black friends. I admire the both of you.
I have a lot of admiration and respect for you and your family blessings to you all.
Awesome 👍.You took the 1 st step to breaking the chains of brainwashing stupidity on Both sides. However, tell your kids,no matter who it is,use discretion & BOUNDARIES(for safety reasons).
If your kids are that old, then they've, unfortunately, heard all words.
Thank you for sharing, because I always wondered did white family shared movies similar to this one in their household.
@@AllThingsNaturalHair I guess some do and some dont.
Would be great if more would .. 🙏
You are a very intelligent young woman and you and your husband are raising your sons correctly.
As a black woman who went to a predominantly white school during my formative years, you did the right thing moving 🙌🏾 I still wish everyday of my life that my family had moved.
Same here
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Can I say how BEAUTIFUL you are! Looking like a young, chocolate Halle Berry. You are wise beyond your years, and love how you AND your husband always put the well being of your FAMILY as a unit first no matter what.
The way you and your children were treated is totally unacceptable. I am so glad they have a strong mom that will stand up for them and remind them of the strong kings that they are. Brett did the correct thing by letting leave yet maintaining a healthy relationship with you. You are a blessed woman. ❤Keep up the good work.
You made the right decision. No child should have to go through psychological, emotional and verbal abuse. Great Job Mom!! 🎉🎉♥️
That makes me sad as a mom that your babies had to experience that. People really make me sick. Kids can be extra vicious. I’m white and my daughter (who is pretty small for her age) faced some of the meanest comments and bullying when she was in 2nd grade. I couldn’t believe it. Of course your issue was deeper and more troubling considering the circumstances. Anyway good move on your part mama. You did the right thing for your kiddos. 🙌❤️
Side note: I moved to a small town in Idaho for my husband. There are only a few black people here and its my number one dislike. I am constantly exposing and teaching my daughter about other skin colors and cultures whenever I can. It’s hard when you live in places like Iowa or here. As a white parent you gotta go the extra mile to educate your children about the beauty and the struggle of other races.
Priorities straight. We need more parents like y'all whom put their offspring wellbeing first. Those are very formative years. Y'all never know what you taught them until they too are grown. I thank y'all. Keep it up.
You are amazing and strong for putting your children first, and ensuring they’re not in an environment that hates them and is prejudiced against them just for being black. So sad you have to be doubly strong for your kids as a black mom. Huge hugs to you and your family.
I definitely can see your point. Raising my sons in a diverse neighborhood was essential for me. My ex-husband and I made a conscious decision to make sure our Sons who are biracial were raised in a community that valued them for who they were.
I respect you for being a young black women that is confident in your lifestyle. Racism has always and will continue to be around, no matter how we try to suppress it. The U.S. has always been a melting pot of different nations of people that has never taken the time to respect each other's cultures.
Keep your head up and remain confident and positive as you are. People can learn a lot from your family. There's nothing abnormal about your marriage. I love your content and pray you all stay blessed.
This video is cool because it shed light on the side of bi racial relationship that people don't think about. What's best for our family living in blk, white or mixed neighbor. The # 1 goal should always be making your family happy
@geegee2720 Except those experiences of racism never happened here in the US. It didnt happen until she went to Timbuktu
Good for you ,I was in a interracial marriage years ago with 3 kids My oldest child was not my husband ,but my other 2 kids were his, Anyway I experienced a lot of the same racial issues , But I truly admire your family and especially how your husband loves y’all and takes care of y’all and don’t care what others say and think .You have a very good exceptional rare man and I pray nothing but God’s best for y’all,Please don’t take what you have for granted because y’all together can conquer the world with God’s help. Stay Strong
I had the same three children, the oldest was not my husband's. When my youngest started kindergarten one mother told her son that he couldn't play with my son. I pulled him out of that ignorant school. This was in tehachapi, California. My son is half white/half Filipino. I wasn't playing that racist game there.
SMART MOVE! When I was in grade school I was bullied by an Asian teacher. She also allowed the kids to bully me. My mom knew she was prejudiced but chose to leave me their. It scarred me. I was alone in the issue and my mother didn’t really even bother to give me a much needed pep talk. What you did was a smart move. My husband is also a good man. I guess a lot of women don’t know what t’s like to have a man who is truly devoted. I agree that if I got to guard my man…then I don’t need him cause ain’t nobody for time for that!!
Breaks my heart you had to go through that nonsense without support.
Every parent cant afford to move their kids. Have more mercy toward your mom.
@@YouAdii ❤️❤️❤️
@@ceceprincess4758 I’m not angry at her. Just wished she would have explained to me what I was going through. It would have helped me understand that it wasn’t my fault, because I internalized it as though I deserved it somehow. That’s where the scarring came into play with my self esteem. Healthy self esteem is so important to have in this life. It’s unseen but so vital!
I also had a racist Asian teacher in second grade that treated me and the darker kids more harshly. It was an all-black school and the other kids were colorists including the Asian teacher and the adult staff. I would get beat up for being dark skinned and poor but the school blamed me for always getting bullied. So, racism is everywhere including diverse areas too.
You moving away for your children, shows the love and care that you have for them. I’m so sorry you all had to go through that. God bless and heal you!❤
Great choice sis! I recently moved from Modesto, CA (4.5% Black) to Smyrna, GA (33% Black) because of racism. I couldn't take watching my 14 year old daughter lose all her self-esteem trying to fit in with people who were never going to accept her. She was called the n-word at school and the kids would not stop touching her hair and saying all kinds of racist things to her. My coworkers would tell racist jokes and one of them asked me, "why would you want to live in a place where nobody looks like you?". The people I served called me the n-word so many times I lost count. My daughter thanks me all the time for moving us out of there because now she knows and sees that *Black is beautiful*. People are really kind to us here and we made new friends quickly. It did take sacrifice! I had to sell our home and leave a job with great benefits. My family tried desperately to talk me out of it. But I refuse to live like that! I can and will buy another home but kids only get one childhood. We have to do all we can to make sure they grow up in loving and supportive environments.
Also, I love your headwrap! Where did you get it??
So sorry you had to experience that. I’m in an inter-racial marriage of 7 years here in the UK. With 4 children. We are blessed to have never experienced any racism, whether in the city or the countryside areas.
I heard in the UK it’s more accepted interracial relationships are more common now then before in America though I have a cousin from the UK that was shocked to see there was not that many interracial couples here in the US since it’s so common in the UK
Thank you for sharing your story sis!
You have to protect your children at all cost, staying there would have been traumatizing. Moving and being long distance temporarily was an act of love and selflessness on the part of you and your husband. Glad to see y’all back together beautiful family
I applaud your mental courage, here in Philly the racism is quiet as a church mouse because they don't wanna be body slammed with the quickness
They don’t want to be body slammed?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Body slammed and then some
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You are so correct, they are to early in their formative years to be dealing with bs, that can taint their minds. This is the stages where they need to be built up and fortified, not broken down.
Wow! I'm so sorry that happened. I think you did the best thing. Ignorance has no bounds! You are a wonderful mother and I'm glad you have have each other. The children are going to be so well-adjusted because of their great mother and father. It warms my heart to see your husband interacting with his boys. They'll be great men.❤
When I was 3, my parents divorced. Neither of them acknowledged the damage this did to us kids, especially since we were constantly home alone after it. When I was in elementary school, my neglectful mother kept my thick, nappy hair shaved and it destroyed my self esteem. To this day I have self esteem issues even though I've cocktailed in worldclass casinos in Vegas.Its like anorexia but for your appearance- no matter what people say to me, I'm always "the ugly girl." It fed my heart to hear you guarding your children the way you do.
@@themagicians1122 My mother wouldn't take care of my hair and it turned into one giant dreadlock. Id see my father and step mother every other weekend and they would cut it- shave is not actually accurate,but it was cut about an inch or two in length, with no form or coherent style. I was terrified of my abusive father but we were forced to see him. Id come home crying and my mother would yell at 7 year old me for letting them cut my hair.
My youngest mixed granddaughter was taunted at school. She was the only mixed child in an all-white school. She confided in me that those little kids used to tease her mercilessly and tell her she was "Obama." My son removed her from that school because it was turning her bubbly personality to flat and lackluster. She's a grown up lady now and she handles racist encounters very well. Hey, your little baby looks just like, just like, just like your husband. Your skin is so pretty that you could do a skin care/beauty tutorial.
I'm glad that you looked out to the psychological well being for your children. 👏🏾Trust is foundational, unfortunately I had to leave my marriage of 11 years due to infidelity but peace of mind is priceless baby♥️. I'm happy to celebrate marriages that are thriving though 🥂
Bless you Sweetie you definitely handling it perfectly I'm white my children are mixed i have experienced Racism from my ex-husband family I chalk it up to ignorance I taught my daughter's love has no color those parents who have kids that say hateful racist things they learn that from their parents no one is born racist you are taught to hate Unity is the key and from the words of MLK do not judge a person by the color of their skin but by the content of their character Blessings Everyone ✌️🍀♥️💚💙💜
@Scarlet Red Magic - Well said!
Respect 💯🙏🏿
It takes a lot of courage to do what you did for your little ones. Glad it worked out for y’all. We’ve live in Mississippi for 30+ years,originally from Michigan. My daughter married a black man.We had no problem with her choice. They’ve had very few problems living in the south. Personally I think people in the south are less racist then up north. Go figure.
LOVE has ALL colors🙏🏽💚😇💯‼️
I’m not trying to be mean or rude and I get what your saying, but It would be better to say that love sees all colors rather than no color. Stating no color or I don’t see color is kind of a micro-aggression toward people of color. As a black Woman and a mother of an interracial mixed/race child…. The no color thing really bothers me because it’s annoying you don’t ever hear a black person state we don’t see you as white cause we do and it would be stupid to say that. Instead acknowledge all races and people for who they are and their color! All the best! 💕
I can totally relate was married to my kids father (high school sweethearts )who’s white for over twelve years. The looks and stares we will get; it took everything in me not to pop off.
That was along time ago so you will think people would have progress by now. But I made it a point to raise my kids in a diverse community and trust me it made a big difference. Our negative experience always took place in a mostly white community.
It's so strange to me that just because someone puts "some" of their life on UA-cam means that the viewer thinks they know it all...just crazy like for real. Although I do like the ability to comment (obviously 🙂), it still baffles me that people feel like they can have the whole picture. Just think about your own life, do you think even your friends have the whole picture all the time, nope they don't. The dirty house comment was one of the funniest though. Y'all are literally renovating your new home 🤣🤣🤣
Love your channel and love your family y'all are the sweetest and one thing you can definitely tell is how much love is in your lives and that is all that matters! ❤️
@kween of kings: I applaud you for putting your children first and removing them from an environment where they would continue to be verbally abused. I've seen stories where Blk children as young as ten have committed "s" due to what you described, and in those cases, I always wondered why their parents didn't remove them from the school instead making them go back day after day.
I think it was so cute when she said they stay on the phone all day I used to do that with my first love and Junior High we would sleep on the phone together to hear each other breathe we didn't want to hang up on each other that is so adorable I love their relationship
You're such a wise young woman and a fantastic mother and wife. Please keep inspiring others. ♥️
You made the best decision for your children. And it’s so lovely how you guys trust and love each other. Never allow anyone to come between you all.
Yes. Stand up for yourself & your family. I literally just stumbled on your page this morning & your good vibes are radiating through the screen!
Good for you Kween, standing up for your sons and trusting your husband! Glad to hear that you are reunited together as a family and Congrats on your new home. Keep your head up, don't let negative social media comments affect your decisions that you make for you and your family.
I love your stories! Single mom of teenagers and you inspire me so much!
I understand completely! I took my daughter out of high school and had her go online! Best decision ever
I'm black and my late Hispanic husband and I used to get "the look" from people while in public. One waitress asked my husband if he wanted to wait until his wife arrived before ordering while I was already sitting at the table with him. When I told her that I was his wife, she just said "Oh, I'm sorry." It was offensive to me as an adult and I can imagine what children go through. That kid's statement didn't just pop up in his mind to say because it sounded rehearsed, as though he's heard many times before (probably at home) and it flowed easily from his lips.
This is one of my biggest fears, as a Black woman married (newlyweds 🎉❤🎉) to a wonderful white man living in his safe but non diverse town. Bravo to you for your strength and courage and may your beautiful family continue to thrive!
If my children had that type of experience and I was able to, I would have done the same thing. I totally agree with you.
RACISM is so ugly! Sorry you experienced that and glad things are better for you and your family now ❤️🙏🏿!
100% right! Real masculine men do not cheat. They are secure in who they are within their family unit. I've been married for 35 years to my husband. We know that accountability for our personal choices comes with the cost of our own reflections. My husband, his career was my investment as well. Before that we were separated for over a year at a time due to desert shield/Storm. You are a team! It isn't always easy being selfless in making a family work, many times its tough. Frankly, it is what many families are missing and why many fall apart. Stay strong in your choices and never second guess.
Im crying. I pray where ever this town is my Daughter and her future Husband dont accidently move there. I worry all the time. My daughter tells me stories about how her and her black fiancé are treated at times. I wish racism would stop. This breaks my heart. Im so sorry.
Love you 😍 Queen ... thanks for uploading.. am a single Mom of 4 living in NYC. Love your channel
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I am so proud of you and your husband. If you don't agree together, you can not walk and work things out together. I thank God, what you both have is pure love and you know each other. I experience the color issue when my daughter was in school too. I went to the principal to address the issue and he sent for the teacher. I wanted to know when they start letting teachers use the " N " word. I politely let them both know, where I came from and how I was raised those were fighting words, so I don't play with it. I listened as she talked and she apologized. The problem got resolved after that. I think perishing for lack of knowledge is every where and you have to be mature enough to handle it right. To be honest, some was not taught correctly and I am not in a biracial relationship. They were just taught that, but what was cool in your house is not cook in mine. I have always taught my family, they are somebody and with the name calling, I did not raise that type of person. All I can say is when you a child, you think like a child but when you become mature, you are to put away childish things because it will take a grown up to fix it. We live and we learn, at least I hope we do. I am so glad that season for you and me is over.
I am so sorry you had to go through that. Kids are so mean. I know how you feel. My daughter is interracial and they thought I was her nanny. So rude. Keep doing what you are doing. The love you have for each other is what matters.
I’m so sorry to hear about the horrible racial injustice you and your family have experienced. I too had the same “Medicaid” experience!! I gave the pediatrician’s office my insurance card , a very common commercial insurance, and the lady was like “ What type of Medicaid card is this? What type of Medicaid are you on?” I responded “It’s not Medicaid. I’ve never had Medicaid, therefore I wouldn’t know the types of Medicaid. I said did you read the card? It’s a very common card. As a matter of fact it’s the same insurance card I’ve given you multiple times “.
Of course she looked stupid
My husband is Italian. We have been together for 18 years, married for 17.
I prefer to think of my family as ethnically blended instead of biracial. My mother raised me to believe there is only one race, HUMAN.
I wish all of you happiness a love.
Keep on doing what you are doing. 🥰
This is a beautiful family. It's great to see family loving one another. The children will benefit in a positive way having more people loving them.
You did what was right by your children. You and your husband trusted the process and look at yall now. Proud of you girly. 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽 continue to love grow and teach your children. I love it 💪🏽💯❤️
I completely understand
I live in Long Island in NY and I will tell you it is VERY SEGREGATED.
It’s been about 3 years since we’ve been blessed to upgrade our home to a WONDERFUL COMMUNITY. I LOVE our new home and am so grateful to be able to live here. Unfortunately,,, though the public school district is exceptional (in regards to academics) ,, we’ve opted to keep our children in private school because the public school is not diverse. There’s not ONE child of color in the school. I’m
Not suggesting they would have had any racial problems with the students and or the administration However,, we did not want to chance it nor did we think it was healthy for any child not to see representations of themselves. For that reason we continue to make the financial sacrifice to keep our children in a diverse catholic school. Giving up expensive clothing , trips and things is the sacrifice we’re willing to make for our children’s overall well being.
We as parents do what we deem is best for the safety of our children. That includes mental safety. We can not allow anyone or anything to damage them emotionally. It’s our job and we will protect them at all cost PERIOD
You are so right!! I'm from queens and my husband is from Suffolk county...I literally don't like being out there at all super segregated
Can hear in your voice that situation really got to you and that was a serious decision you had to make. You did right. Didn't need to expose your family to that. Glad you and your family are all good
You are BEAUTIFUL!! God Bless you!
KUDOS to you for protecting ur BEAUTIFUL brown KINGS.. Ur a Great Mom
God Bless and stay safe
MJD
Miss Rose, I listened to your story from earlier, about moving to Tim Buck too. You did your very best in Iowa. I give you so much credit for sticking it out as long as you did. Let’s just hope when the boys get older their memories will fade. You and your husband are amazing parents. Your boys aren’t spoiled, nor do they feel entitled. You give them what they need and not what they want. Your husband is an amazing teacher of young black boys. Hopefully racism will go away as they your babies grow up. Keep up the amazing job you both do. God No less you all.🙂😇🙏
I LOVE THAT YOU TOOK THAT STAND FOR YOUR CHILDREN!!! 🙌🏼👏🏼🙌🏼🎉🥳
You were absolutely right. 💯 You put that so eloquently.❤🙏
I love how you so eloquently and classy you share with us, thank you and keep doing what yall are doing!!🙌🏾🙏🏿🥰👏🏿
You did the RIGHT THING. Those children can't defend themselves from people like that. And it is your responsibility to see after them. I salute you.
Growing up in one of those small towns colored my young life and stunted it. It took me going to college and moving away to grow. Racism was and is strong in my home town and it made me hyper aware of racism. I was hoping it would all change when I moved to NYC, but I found racism there too and as well as a melting pot. I was hoping by this time of my life, racism would be in the rear view mirror. We see how that's been playing out. You did what you needed to do to protect you and your kids and your husband understood. No kids should have to face that, but it's better for them to know, not everything is gravy. We all experience it at some point and I can't trust a POC that says it's never happened to them. It's hard to have that kind of insulated world and dangerous if you plan on leaving it.
I like that you spoke on keeping light in your life. I too flourish in the light and you have that shine. Keep the glow!!!
The audacity of people (to me jealous evil people), to say hateful things like that to such beautiful children, or any black human being. Good, you did what you needed to do for you and your family. Thank you for sharing.
A first grader who's been taught that black people aren't beautiful when in fact all people are beautiful and my preference I have seen that the melanin and the skin makes it gorgeous glow it doesn't wrinkle it's just so beautiful how could anybody not see that?
They know that thats why they are jealous evil wicked people its sad he'll is waiting for these devils white people teach their kids hate and the kids turn on them
All people are not beautiful at all.
You are just being kind to whyte people.
@@ondolite3789all people are beautiful. Maybe not every single individual is beautiful looking to you, but all people are beautiful. There is more than one kind of beauty. Just like the is more than one color in the rainbow and they are all beautiful and necessary.
@@ondolite3789 Huh, what are you saying, have you ever heard one man's food is another man's poison? What is ugly to you is beautiful to others, besides the commenter above is white.
@@PopLife-hb3ks I completely agree with you.
All people need to realise that they are African derivatives tho'.
I moved back home to WV with my 2 biracial children to get them out of Richmond city where we were. I never dreamed after 25 years out of the state, racism would still be the same if not worse because of the political climate at the time. My 2 middle school kids have been through hell and now it’s a situation I can’t afford to leave and the cost of living is so high everywhere I couldn’t afford it if I could move. There are 19 black/biracial kids out of almost 700 kids in the entire middle school and you are sooo right about your brown babies being the problem and the amount of blame that’s put on these kids and mine were being called over sensitive because the N word they heard in the halls weren’t targeted at them specifically. No Linda they should feel safe at school. They’re in therapy now. 😢
You did what you had to do for your children and preserve your sanity. It is sad to me whenever I hear that a child has taken their own life because they were bullied or tormented in school. It happens more than it should. It’s important to keep a young mind healthy and guarded until they can fully think intelligently for themselves. They need and depend on you to protect their mental health while they are young so you did everything right for your children. I’m so glad that you both understood that this was best for everyone temporarily and having his full support was everything. It’s so easy to judge others when we aren’t walking in their shoes. I pray that you and your entire family will continue to be blessed!
Love this storytime ❤️ Peace and Blessings to You and your beautiful family Sister!!
Edit: I'm black and my Son's father is white and we've endured the struggle of blatant racism to the point where my Son was in tears hyperventilating. It is such an evil spirit but my Son is doing alot better now and he has grown to ignore the kids that would typically pick on him. It's almost like we've grown accustomed to deal with it. Still walking in love though.
You are absolutely right in not compromising your kids psychological health. I’m Jamaican and I’m married to a Caucasian Canadian. We live Jamaica where our motto is ‘ Out of many one people’ where we have melting pot of ethic group of people. We are just Jamaican not black, white or Indian. We have our issues as a country but I’m free as man and my kids don’t have grow thinking of racism. You have a blessed family love your content.
I tell people about our motto everyday here in the US. 🥰
I adore and respect both of you!!! Keep on doin’ what you do Mamacita!!🌺 Much respect & blessings to you and your family!!💙🕊️💙
Some people just jealous they have to babysit their husbands to keep them faithful! Thank you for sharing your story mama!!! ❤️ Beautiful family
I love that you did what you did for your children
Love your family! Hubby supported your decision because he loves you and your sons. I know you love your husband because it shows. Although you didn’t put your relationship above your sons mental well-being. In my humble opinion, you both showed awesome parenting. ❤😊🎉❤
Dear beautiful young Lady, ❤️ how can you say that you never had that kind of experience? it seems impossible. I lived in Nevada in a small town and even my so called Christian friends were calling my husband and the children the N word. My husband was a doctor by the way and people really questioned continually about him being a physician. One time someone though he was a butcher because he was wearing the white coat. Girl I made it through it and I sure fought them all. Oh, my husband now late husband, had your same color and I was a d still am like your husband. I end up home schooling be sure i got fed up with these people. You are better than them, don't even mind them, or anyone like them, because you are bound to find others like them. God bless you and keep on loving each other. Kiss your beautiful babies for me. Tell them an Italian grandma sends them all the way from Italy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am really disgusted at those people who would act like that. I am from Iowa, born and raised. We don't get down like that here in the Quad Cities. We are very diverse. From one Iowa momma to another mother. I am so sorry. Please know, we are not all ignorant in Iowa.
I saw your short clip about when you at your low point. God uses those times to prepare you, so you can appreciate his later blessing and handle it well. When you start to be feeling yourself and feel a lil special remember where you were and make room for apologizes and humbleness. Bless ya all
I'll never forget when I was in 3rd or 4th grade and a little boy (his family was from Spain) said I was "brown like doodoo"... To this day it hurts my heart.. I know it wasn't his fault but it still hurts me.. 😞
You are an amazing mother and woman for doing this for your family. I wish my parents would have done this
You're a amazing strong woman and i think that you made the right decision to leave .
I'm quite timid but because of what I had to deal with growing up I have NO tolerance for even the slightest bit of racism. I will get people all the way together. I don't go to any authority, I will let people know that they've met the wrong one & to learn some respect. I am not the one & today is not the day.
I been married to a black woman for 20 yrs now and when she lived in Atlanta we got the most hate from blacks people toward me and some her but we couldn’t relax and talk with out thinking when tne next argument is or or a fight will
Happen sucks people can’t let people pick for tnere own lives
Love how you protect your kids from this evil world 😘😘
All I can say about this is that I’m proud of you and how you put your young sons first. It’s important that are little boys learning how to respect themselves and to demand that others respect them to. It’s like you said it’s start while they are young. As for people saying that he will cheat on you please he is the fool not you. Because you are beautiful ,young and educated woman . Plus I wish I could do all those flips and splits like you girl.
Blessings to you and your family.
I’m glad you made a decision based on love and not fear.
Good Job Mama! You protected your children. The greatest sacrifice as a mother is doing the best thing for yourself & your children. Also, you let Papa know that you will leave in a heartbeat if the kids are in DANGER.
I had a similar experience at cracker barrel... smh...
I'm white, and my husband is mexican.. non English speaking.... so, therefore, I speak Spanish with him.. fluently...........
We came in the restaurant, and everybody in the whole place was staring at us.....and when they heard us speaking spanish? Oh forget about it... the white man and lady next to us didn't even BOTHER to hide the disgust on their faces..
Now. I don't give a DAMN what nobody says about me..but I felt really really bad for my husband.. I mean, really terrible.. bc it was my idea to go out,and I'm the one who picked the restaurant..
It was awful. And we haven't been back.
I have a white child, a mixed- half black half white child, and 3 mixed- half white,half mexican children.. (yes that's right, 5 kids lol) and I pray everyday that they don't ever experience anything like that.... I pray hard.. now, my kids know, that they're loved, that they're beautiful.. but... I know other people are not so understanding, open minded, dare I say, intelligent? Lol.. so.. I worry...
But I was blessed from God, and with the know how to raise great kids, and they're all wonderful children.... ❤
I'll pray for your children too. 🙏
Rose, you and Brett are Amazing. Thank you for your channel and allowing us to know you, Brett and your boys. God bless your family. Keep the videos coming. You're helping people too.
I am so sorry you EVER suffered. You are a beautiful woman and your children are absolutely gorgeous. Keep up with the videos , Queenie , your'e f***in killin it x
Queen you both made a great decision...love and trust will always save the day.good 4 you and the decision you both made...blessings
You don't need to report to anyone where your children are. It's none of their business.
You did the right thing and commend you and your hubby for protecting your kids. You knew your relationship was strong and that right there will overcome any of that disrespect. On another note...can I just mention how cute your little boy is...all your kids are beautiful. :) Love your strength girl! I remember my freshman year of college I was put in a room with a white girl that hadn't been around black people and her misjudgements really could have ruined my first college semester if we didn't have a dorm mgr that moved me out pronto ( to another roommate who was white but who had been raised right!) instead of allowing that to affect me& if I hadn't had parents that raised me to know my black is beautiful. I should mention I was raised in the country w the only blacks being my family so it was even more hurtful to be talked to as if i was different, black and ugly. Your kids are going to great and have open minds due to your household,
I'm a 56 year old black woman who grew up in an all white school and was tortured daily. My mom didn't have enough since to move and didn't give a damn. You definitely did the right thing sis❤
I thank you so much for posting this and bringing this out. I thought we were the only ones in the same dark tunnel.
It makes you feel all alone and begin to lose your mind.
Thank You!❤️
You are a strong woman and made a very wise and sound decision. I’ve done 2 long long distance moves away from my husband. Both times I went from Southern California to Wisconsin. First time we were apart for 3 years but he flew out every other month and I flew back home every other month. We took turns. But I had to help my mom when she got sick. The 2nd time was for about 8 months and it was when we decided that living permanently in Wisconsin was the best move for our family because we didn’t want our son to grow up in a really fast paced environment. I also wanted him to have a relationship with my Dad since he’s the grandfather that actually wants to be with his grandson. My father in law is a cool guy but just not the grand parent type. He likes to do his own thing. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his grandson I just honestly don’t even think he knows how to even talk to him. He was a workaholic and my husband actually didn’t even have a bonding relationship with his dad until he was 18. So yeah, when my husband finished the job he was on back in California he flew out here to be with us permanently and create a life with us here. We are happy, it’s fun living in a 4 season state. It snowed today and yesterday so that’s been fun.
Its SOOOO AWESOME that you are able to have that level of trust again, given the negative experiences from your previous marriage😊. Also, it’s good you know your limits and moved when you needed to in order to protect your kids❤
Kids are cruel in many ways. They mock handicapped kids and can be terrible. Keep your kids safe.
I’ve been married to my husband for 12 years and I moved to his hometown . Due to his job. And since I’m a nurse it wasn’t hard for me to find work. But his family treated me very badly at first. I guess they didn’t realize I was a fighter. But to make a long story short we are all doing great now and everyone gets along just fine. But moving from California to Lynchburg Va was hard. We are now in Washington DC and loving it.
You are so beautiful thank you gif sharing your family!! Honey you’re perfectly matched to Hubby so thankful to be a part of this journey. Adore you all.
You did right. Trust is the key. Beautiful couple, be blessed.
Yes protecting your children minds, esteem, world view. They don't need to be exposed to racism and it's negative effects
To those who think a man will cheat when he’s away, I’ve got news for you: A cheating man will cheat even when y’all live under the same roof. Bright side: A faithfulness man will remain faithful wherever he is. Anyways I support what she did because it was best for her kids. I’d protect my son’s mental health like that too if such happens to him. Racism is everywhere but it’s worse in a community like that. I wouldn’t even enjoy sharing the same oxygen with such a large number of racist people,ewww!
That baby boy looks like his daddy! 🥰 awwwww! He's so cute.