Yesterday sucked.

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  • Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
  • 98% of the time I don't let hateful comments get to me. But yesterday was the 2%. I let myself feel all the feels. The next day the sun came out again and here's my takeaway.
    You can see the comments I'm talking about on my tiktik or instagram. @littlelizziev

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  • @ugishadowdragon
    @ugishadowdragon 11 місяців тому +497

    Lizzie: you are loved.
    I appreciate you.
    I know millions of others do too.
    I don't speak for them.
    I speak for myself.
    I admire you and your work.
    From this one person. I wanted to say this:
    You are appreciated.
    You are admired.
    Thank you. From me to you. Thank you.

    • @janelincolne
      @janelincolne 11 місяців тому +16

      Aww what a beautiful heartfelt message ❤️

    • @bethlewis8731
      @bethlewis8731 11 місяців тому +8

      Your a beautiful girl full of life people are going to hate and be jealous !!! Sad but true 🙌❤️🥹 You sweet Girl pray for them because they have a sick heart if they mistreat you in any way your a beautiful young lady To God be the glory 🙏❤️🙌🥹❤️

    • @mayefizer4251
      @mayefizer4251 11 місяців тому +3

      The only way It can be done is with the Lord Jesus Christ, Amen ! Praise Jesus ! 🤗🤟🏽💐🌺🌸🌸🌼🌻

    • @RosaHernandez-fm6wb
      @RosaHernandez-fm6wb 11 місяців тому +6

      Dear Lizzie you are special God mad you special you are a love lady your better then at God Love you at all at made or Love Rosa H

  • @TheHonestGuys
    @TheHonestGuys 11 місяців тому +156

    So much respect from us at THG 🙏🏼 You’re an amazing woman and an inspiration. Unfortunately social media has made some people who hide behind their screens feel safe in being vicious, but there are far more good hearted people out there. Much love from Kev, Rick and Siân.

  • @tennaj1367
    @tennaj1367 11 місяців тому +86

    Don't let the few haters👎 outweigh the millions of supporters! 🤗
    Much love and respect from Detroit.

  • @greg6500
    @greg6500 11 місяців тому +43

    Have to admit, You handle this with a lot more patience and maturity than I ever could.

  • @kriskohnke3382
    @kriskohnke3382 11 місяців тому +426

    Thank you Lizzie. Bullying is NOT OK. You are standing up and it is making and WILL make a difference. ❤️🙏

    • @angelminaj617
      @angelminaj617 11 місяців тому +3

      What happened to her?

    • @jesussaves21
      @jesussaves21 11 місяців тому +3

      So true

    • @mas5867
      @mas5867 11 місяців тому

      LOL. How clever. Create a channel that will get views and money because of your deformity and then stir the pot when people comment about your deformity. Just bec you have a deformity does not mean you can manipulate people like you are. Maybe God made you like you are for a reason.

    • @poppymoon777
      @poppymoon777 11 місяців тому +2

      Agreed. She’s so strong❤

    • @bigbadvoodooMAGAdaddy
      @bigbadvoodooMAGAdaddy 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@angelminaj617 is what happened to her a disease or botched cosmetic surgery?

  • @jakecmoore
    @jakecmoore 11 місяців тому +342

    I’m watching this video and my five year old daughter walks in and asks, “who is that pretty lady on your computer?” You have a beauty and kindness that those people never will, and it radiates off of you.

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager 11 місяців тому +16

      ❤❤❤

    • @Brancaalice
      @Brancaalice 11 місяців тому +24

      That is nonsense lie, you created it, usually in that age, children dont care about lot things, they are centered in theirselves. "who is that pretty lady on your computer? it frase of adult people. 😏

    • @outback7092
      @outback7092 11 місяців тому +16

      @@Brancaalice Thankyou, Exactly! That child 100% said the opposite.! They are so honest.

    • @cecigrey3900
      @cecigrey3900 11 місяців тому +19

      @@Brancaalice how do you know it’s a lie ? Plus did you ever learn if you can’t say anything nice don’t say anything at all ? Why comment at all ?all beauty is in the eye of the beholders anyways.

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 11 місяців тому +5

      ​@@Brancaalice....unless the child is extremely sarcastic.

  • @MrDandanhesourman
    @MrDandanhesourman 11 місяців тому +67

    I am a man that tries to affect change in others as well. I make it a point to treat everyone as I would want them to treat me. Simple kindness. We've lost that in this world. You're beautiful, Lizzie! Physically, spiritually and mentally! You're gorgeous!

  • @Knottypine79
    @Knottypine79 11 місяців тому +43

    You're an inspiration. Sometimes humans can be terrible people.

  • @Aeizium
    @Aeizium 11 місяців тому +58

    I remember you Lizzie, you inspired me so much when I was younger. I can't believe people used to call you the ugliest woman in the world when you look absolutely beautiful inside and out. I will be here to support you as you appear on my UA-cam page. Much love.

  • @amill1563
    @amill1563 11 місяців тому +95

    We all admire you here Lizzie. You have a strength many of us don't have.

  • @brandivermillion3453
    @brandivermillion3453 11 місяців тому +31

    This is the first time I’ve ever seen a video of yours. You are a blessing to this world, and while your beauty may not be typical it radiates from your whole being. The kindness, compassion and understanding you share is by far the most beautiful thing you bring to the world.

  • @AntyTiff
    @AntyTiff 11 місяців тому +4

    As a teacher, I witness some kids being rude/cruel. I can’t stand it. Even though I talk/teach about leaving others alone, minding one’s own business, nobody is perfect, sharing my own stories of how I’ll never forget mean comments made to me as a kid, etc.

  • @396375a
    @396375a 11 місяців тому +120

    Look kid, you give others the hope and courage to face another day knowing how much you have to deal with hurt and pain like they do. Don't listen to the haters, they're all cowards hiding behind a keyboard. Stay strong my young friend!!!

    • @user-ou5se7oe4o
      @user-ou5se7oe4o 11 місяців тому +1

      Does your condition prevent you from smoking marijuana

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore 11 місяців тому +3

      She's not a kid.

    • @erinkinsella91
      @erinkinsella91 11 місяців тому +4

      Saying kid sounds so patronising lmao

    • @Sandyg1961
      @Sandyg1961 11 місяців тому +7

      Actually “kid” is an endearing term. Made popular in one of the most famous movie lines spoken from “Casablanca”. Give a look-see, I think you’ll enjoy it.

  • @alanunderhill9316
    @alanunderhill9316 11 місяців тому +124

    Thank you Lizzie, I use to be a teacher and had to fight against "bullying" of children many times. It is always supportive to have others doing the same. By the way, love the way you do your hair.

    • @RobtheAviator
      @RobtheAviator 11 місяців тому +5

      I’m glad teachers like you exist. Thank you for everything you did for us when we were kids.

    • @walkaminutewithme4787
      @walkaminutewithme4787 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@RobtheAviator100%❤❤

    • @floofqueen4156
      @floofqueen4156 11 місяців тому +1

      thanks for doing that. most teachers/faculty do absolutely nothing when it comes to bullying, and it causes life long scarring/trauma in children/adults.

  • @NewsNowVictoria
    @NewsNowVictoria 11 місяців тому +4

    They make hateful comments because they feel bad about themselves. A good person would never pick on me or you or anyone based on their appearance. There's also a lot of immature people that just don't know any better, they're not that developed yet that they would actually compute how to be a good person or what that truly means. But they'll grow into it and regret it in the future when they realize how wrong it was. I love your beautiful laugh! I think you're brave and beautiful.

  • @jenniferd2305
    @jenniferd2305 11 місяців тому +15

    I used to be a bully in grade school. I would imitate the slower students in my classes to get a laugh from people I wanted to like me. I look back now and realize I was only bullying to try to feel better about myself. My self esteem was so low that putting people "below" me made me feel better at the moment. As an adult, I would never be cruel to someone else just because they look different. Sometimes it takes time for bullies to learn to love themselves and learn to be kind. Know that it's not about you. Thanks for sharing your experiences. 💞

    • @phoenixfrau3909
      @phoenixfrau3909 11 місяців тому +2

      Thanks for that perspective. I’m happy you have grown into the person you are now. You are able to give so much to the world! 💜

  • @northernlitez1
    @northernlitez1 11 місяців тому +55

    Our society is so looks orientd. I used to be very thin, now I have gained weight and I am absolutely treated differently. Sad how superficial our world is, but this world is so mixed up. You have such a beautiful heart and a GREAT sense of fashion. You always look so nice Lizzie. I just love you. God bless you always!

    • @EmberFlames_Jag
      @EmberFlames_Jag 11 місяців тому +1

      I used to be overweight, and since losing weight, more people I don't know much are willing to talk to me and actually treat me with kindness. Some people see big people as intimidating, but I guess I did look intimidating but not on purpose. I am also over 6 ft tall

  • @shortymeystab
    @shortymeystab 11 місяців тому +141

    It's ok to feel sad sometimes.
    But You're bigger than that, Lizzie.
    We love you.
    (And your hair looks stunning! ❤️)
    Cheers from 🇧🇷

    • @robertdb5111
      @robertdb5111 11 місяців тому +5

      You should start praying for these people who try to tear you down, because they are so unhappy with themselves and their life. They have such a black heart that Karma is going to be the end of themselves and they just don’t know it yet, because of the human condition they we all have to deal with everyday! God is praying for them and so should we, with praying for them comes forgiveness for them and for us and that is the only way any of us so we will be able to walk through the gates of Heaven….Just Sayin

  • @Krader2121
    @Krader2121 11 місяців тому +7

    You have no idea how freaking motivational you are Liz. ❤

  • @user-zr3xc3xr4z
    @user-zr3xc3xr4z 11 місяців тому +35

    People like you are fantastic, I don’t think there’s a negative UA-cam comment in the world that could take that away from you. Glad you’re having a better day today x

  • @WhiteKitta
    @WhiteKitta 11 місяців тому +106

    Oh no, please please please ignore any negative comments, some people are just hateful and mean by nature and have nothing else to do in life and they don't even deserve to get your attention..... sending you hugs and kisses!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @manofpeace2953
    @manofpeace2953 11 місяців тому +39

    You are making a difference, you are teaching others how to react with kindness and love, and that’s the only thing that will break the cycle of cruelty.

  • @wouldyoukindly4978
    @wouldyoukindly4978 11 місяців тому +12

    Stay strong Lizzie! Don't let anyone else's water get in your boat!

  • @ChristysChannelYall
    @ChristysChannelYall 11 місяців тому +21

    You just randomly came up on my feed and now I want to read your books. I am a person who is tired of appearance being so elevated in our world. It is our soul, our inside person that matters. I hope you have a better day today ❤

  • @paulbutler1873
    @paulbutler1873 11 місяців тому +21

    Dear Lizzie. First off I have a bone to pick with you. You made me cry in public. I read your book Dare To Be Kind when I was on vacation in Mexico back in 2017. Unfortunately I read it while I was on the beach and my eyes just started watering.
    Your videos are truly inspiring and I think you are one of the most beautiful people on this entire planet. You’re absolutely right about looks being unimportant. I’m sorry you had a bad day but without them we’d never recognize the good ones. Keep up with your message of acceptance and kindness. You are loved and supported. I wish I could beat up whoever made you upset.

  • @Lunchladydoyle
    @Lunchladydoyle 11 місяців тому +32

    This was a FANTASTIC message !!! I was bullied nonstop as a kid. We moved alot so always the new kid, had a lisp and stutter, wore glasses, was the tallest kid in class including the boys ( Marfan syndrome ) and I was androgynous and visibly gay in small conservative towns. By the time I was an adult my self esteem was zero !! You’re a wise and beautiful woman. You always look like a million bucks and the people who can’t see that are the ones who have unhealed self hate. I love that you have become a public speaker. I started doing standup 16 years ago and it’s been very healing. Didn’t know you were an author. Will definitely get your books !! Bless you Lizzie you’re a certified Rock Star ❤

    • @Dragonflylane77
      @Dragonflylane77 11 місяців тому +2

      I’m a Conservative and I can’t imagine anyone being so mean.. well I can actually because I was severely bullied as a kid too.. moved every couple years and I was born cross eyed and pigeon toed for starters..I ended up on drugs for most of my life . But I’m doing better now and seeking God.. there are horrible people out there but we can’t give them our power..

    • @Dragonflylane77
      @Dragonflylane77 11 місяців тому

      I’m a Conservative and I can’t imagine anyone being so mean.. well I can actually because I was severely bullied as a kid too.. moved every couple years and I was born cross eyed and pigeon toed for starters..I ended up on drugs for most of my life . But I’m doing better now and seeking God.. there are horrible people out there but we can’t give them our power..

    • @Dragonflylane77
      @Dragonflylane77 11 місяців тому

      I’m a Conservative and I can’t imagine anyone being so mean.. well I can actually because I was severely bullied as a kid too.. moved every couple years and I was born cross eyed and pigeon toed for starters..I ended up on drugs for most of my life . But I’m doing better now and seeking God.. there are horrible people out there but we can’t give them our power..

  • @carolerobbins9522
    @carolerobbins9522 11 місяців тому +7

    Anyone who would disparage you has a lot of work to do on themselves. You’re one of the most beautiful souls I’ve ever learned about. ❤

  • @amyomeara2515
    @amyomeara2515 11 місяців тому +13

    There will always be some mean people but you will always be surrounded by far more loving, kind and appreciative people. Looking through your comments, I see a lot of appreciation and admiration for you. We are proud of you. Be proud of yourself too!

  • @MAGNUM05
    @MAGNUM05 11 місяців тому +38

    Don't ever let these lowlifes get to you, Lizzie. It's not worth putting up with their nonsense. They're just jealous that you're living a successful life and they're not. Oh well. That's their own fault.

  • @brandonwatsonmedia
    @brandonwatsonmedia 11 місяців тому +108

    You are more real than any of these trolls hiding behind their keyboards. You are awesome!

  • @TheRedDivaTv
    @TheRedDivaTv 11 місяців тому +6

    Beauty does come in all packages and you are gorgeous! Keep that energy and know that you are setting a great example for humanity!

  • @michaelparylak5649
    @michaelparylak5649 11 місяців тому +7

    I've known people with disabilities my whole life and too many of them use it as a crutch in life. So when I see someone like you my soul is inspired 🙂

  • @marcosemanuel9038
    @marcosemanuel9038 11 місяців тому +41

    We are here to support you❤️❤️❤️

  • @tracycolorado
    @tracycolorado 11 місяців тому +10

    You look beautiful baby girl , don't let them pull you down to their level . Nothing that ice cream and a movie won't fix. GOD loves you soo much , and you are perfect in every way , inside and out. 🎉

  • @lindanicholls3370
    @lindanicholls3370 11 місяців тому +3

    You are an inspiration to a lot of people. Including me. I was bullied for the way I looked all through childhood. I walked funny and was super skinny and then I became preoccupied with my appearance and thought I had to “ fix” it. It didn’t help or change anything. My husband left me for a woman who was obese. Then I went blind so I couldn’t see what I looked like or see the dirty looks people gave me. I got my sight back in one eye but I learned the lesson that it doesn’t matter what you look like on the outside. And by the way, I think you are beautiful on the outside and inside.❤️

  • @irenegeorge1438
    @irenegeorge1438 11 місяців тому +7

    Thank you Lizzie for being so brave and standing strong! You are so beautiful and such an inspiration to us all! It's so sad when people feel the need to say or do hateful things. What it actually does is say nothing about you but it says everything about them! Words do hurt so no matter how strong you are at the end of the day you're human too. Lot's of love to you! 😊💖

  • @bearheart2009
    @bearheart2009 11 місяців тому +22

    You are one of the people who remind me that our hearts are the light of this world; and yours shines particularly brightly -- blessings to you Lizzie!

  • @michaelherman8523
    @michaelherman8523 11 місяців тому +42

    I hope you enjoyed the Barbie movie! 😁 It was a really different movie! I will say, though, what makes you beautiful is your ability to express your feelings and thoughts so eloquently.

  • @tacknup
    @tacknup 11 місяців тому +4

    I wish we could forget about looks when it comes to getting to know someone. Some of the ugliest people, are beautiful on the outside, but many can't see it. Love you Lizzie!!

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 3 місяці тому +1

    Lizzie, I just watched your Ted Talk from 2013.
    Thank you for sharing your life with us. Thank you for your strength of character and for being an inspiration.
    Ignorance is NOT bliss. I have never understood why people bully because of our outside shell. We are all human. We are all equal.
    Your powerhouse messages and attitude are a breath of fresh air for me today. I'm glad I "found" you!
    Thank you for your authenticity & sincerity.
    This has meant a lot to me. ❤️🙏

  • @USArmyVet91
    @USArmyVet91 11 місяців тому +15

    Some people just suck. We love you, and appreciate you. It would be silly to tell you to “let it go” because these trolls that have negative things about you, make me want to scream. Stay amazing, your ability to bounce back is an inspiration to so many. *hugs*

  • @Lunakitz
    @Lunakitz 11 місяців тому +8

    Every time I watch a video of yours I am inspired by how your energy and positive spirit shine through. You have a light in you that cannot be defeated by the darkness. Keep shining Lizzie. You are beautiful!

    • @marychatrer6374
      @marychatrer6374 11 місяців тому

      Hi Lizzie, I think you’re a beautiful wonderful inspirational person. I am so glad I came across your video. I can’t wait to start reading your books. You really are amazing. You are just so sweet when I think of all the times I’ve been upset. I’m coming across your video today and hearing all your inspirational words it’s so heartwarming you are just so wonderful God bless you in everything you do.

  • @lourdesmirabal3287
    @lourdesmirabal3287 2 місяці тому +1

    Sometimes I don't have the right words to encourage you, because you are the one who encourage millions of people. As a mother of a kid that was bullied at school, it is heart breaking to see that little soul suffering. Just remember they are broken people, sadly is the only way to have attention from others, hurting. You don't need them. You are so much more!! You are Lizzy!! One of the most famous and awesome woman in the media right now!! We love you keep shinning. ❤️ 😊

  • @theproperty541
    @theproperty541 11 місяців тому +2

    I think her smile makes her look so friendly. I know she doesn’t have typical features but I think everyone can see how genuinely nice she is. She looks kinda.

  • @ryanwilliams6602
    @ryanwilliams6602 11 місяців тому +8

    Such an honest message. One thing I took away from your words is that the people expecting you to be strong all the time and never falter can be as alientating as the person directing negativity towards you. Deal with things the way YOU feel both humanly and positively channels your experience. You have a lot of genuine and relatable knowledge you can share with people.

  • @larissatavares4704
    @larissatavares4704 11 місяців тому +12

    You’re beautiful inside and out, Lizzie! 💛

  • @swanlove2002
    @swanlove2002 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this video, Lizzie! ❤
    As someone who is recovering from severe childhood bullying, I have heard a lot of “Just ignore them,” “Don’t let the bad get to you,” etc. I tried so hard to follow that advice, only to feel worse about things. It wasn’t until a friend helped me acknowledge the bad and allowed me to feel the associated anger, pain, hurt, and sadness when I sincerely felt better for the first time in a long time. And you posting this video confirms and validates how I’m handling things nowadays. ❤🌈

  • @marioalvarado31
    @marioalvarado31 11 місяців тому +2

    I’ve always been a firm believer that the best response to bullying is a hook to the jaw, but you ma’am, demonstrate more strength than I ever could.

  • @Flymochairman1
    @Flymochairman1 11 місяців тому +17

    Good on you, girl! Yes, we can't all have a 'positive outlook' all the time and we do have 'Bad Days', but taking it out on other people is wrong, on any medium. I welcome your outlook, Elizabeth. 'Don't let the detractors get you down' and 'The low points are something to rise to your usual, intelligent and happy self, from. Keep Well. Cheers! x

  • @tabitas.2719
    @tabitas.2719 11 місяців тому +10

    Some days suck - which sucks! 🙄
    You've got this; I'm praying that there are wonderful days filled with blessings ahead❣️
    I love and appreciate your openness, and beautifully encouraging words! ❤😊

  • @afriendlyfaceinthecrowd
    @afriendlyfaceinthecrowd 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤As salaam alaikum, Dear Sister Lizzie. Ma shaa Allah, you have the beautiful patience that Allah swt gives to the most important people. I believe that I'm never going to be tested beyond what I can endure. (And I've had cancer, my hijab pulled off, spat in my face by a stranger, kicked out of a "support group for women" because I am a Muslima) I just have to realize that I am not invincible, but Allah swt is and I have faith.
    Why am I saying all of this to you, a total stranger, and other people? Because I too had...I will say...a challenging time---and Allah swt showed me *_YOU_* ❤❤❤❤❤ ma shaa Allah!
    Today is a very somber day for Muslims in our calendar, Ashura.
    Seeing your beautiful face and hearing your encouraging words 💕 gave me strength. May Allah swt grant you complete blessings 🙌, happiness, and joy for all the wonderful gratitude you radiate! ❤ xxxx F.

  • @lydiatorres6109
    @lydiatorres6109 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, Lizzie, for being such an inspiration. You’re so wonderful.

  • @blovexx23
    @blovexx23 11 місяців тому +12

    This video came at such perfect time for me because I’ve been putting myself down about looks and other stuff ..I’ve been my own bully but your video made me feel better thank you 🙏🏽❤️

  • @Alf258
    @Alf258 11 місяців тому +13

    You are one of the most resilient people because not only you rise above ,you also reach out for helping others. You are who you are and you are great at being you . I have a theory about those who try to put you down...they do that because they know that they are beneath you and because they can't rise above they just crawl on the ground like snakes throwing poison. We become immune slowly but steady and we keep shinning❤❤.

  • @jademusic1211
    @jademusic1211 11 місяців тому +2

    😥💔 it hurts me so much that you're being bullied, hon'.🥺 You're such a courageous, beautiful, sweet soul. I'm sending you the biggest virtual hug ever, and so much love. Please remember just how special you are. These bullies will get what's coming to them. Karma is real. Stay strong, sweetheart.🤗❤️❤️

  • @shirleyfrank6280
    @shirleyfrank6280 11 місяців тому +1

    I love your intelligent comments Lizzie. You are on this earth for a special reason and you’re absolutely rocking it 👏👏💖💖💖🙏

  • @lawra89
    @lawra89 11 місяців тому +8

    You're such a wonderful person. I can't remember how I found you, but you're truly an inspiration. Dare to be Kind is a wonderful book and I recommend it to anyone.

  • @caroann
    @caroann 11 місяців тому +8

    You are such an encouragement to so many. ❤️. What a wonderful heart you have. Keep plowing.

  • @virginia3222
    @virginia3222 11 місяців тому +1

    Imagine what kind of POS would write bad things about someone’s looks. The problem with bullying is that it hurts the good people while it makes bad people feel great.

  • @babybirdhome
    @babybirdhome 11 місяців тому +3

    Hi Lizzie. Thank you for posting this video. I’ve been watching your stuff off and on for the last several years, and I want to thank you for this video because it’s the first time I’ve realized something because of what you pointed out here.
    I try to be kind and patient and understanding with everyone, and I always try to bring out the best in the people I interact with, but I’m human and I don’t always get it right myself, so sometimes what I respond with isn’t necessarily kind or thoughtful or respectful, and I see that as a bit of a flaw in myself that I keep working on. What I realized tonight while watching this video is that you’re right - it is very easy for me or for anyone else to write a mean, harmful, or hurtful comment or make a snide remark at someone and walk away and just go on living my life. But having also been on the other side of those kinds of comments (which is part of why I try to be nice to people and bring out their best), I also know for a fact that someone who’s on the receiving end of such a comment very rarely has such an easy time just walking away from it and going on just living their lives as if nothing happened.
    I think it’s valuable to always keep in mind that whenever any of us says something that’s unkind of mean-spirited, the burden on us is pretty low. But the burden on the recipient is quite often very high. It’s disproportionate, and that leads to a power imbalance between those who are unkind and those who are the targets (maybe a better word than victim?) of that unkindness. What that tells me is that whenever we’re being mean to someone else, we’re always “punching down”, even when we’re defending someone who that person was already punching down at. That’s never going to fix the problem, and it’s never going to move things forward, as you describe it.
    Knowing this, now, allows me to shift my perspective and change my approach in those situations going forward, and it gives me some insight into how I can handle those situations better. And since a lot of bullying comes from people who have already endured plenty of pain themselves, I now have some ideas for how to do that in a way that may help both the target of those bullies, as well as possibly at least a few of the bullies themselves - and I’m always looking for how to create a win-win whenever I’m interacting with other people, so thank you for helping me find some new ways to try to achieve that. I really appreciate your heart, your spirit, and your generosity in sharing what you’ve learned so that people like me can grow and help too.
    Thank you, ma’am! I hope you have a wonderful and awesome week. ❤❤❤
    EDIT: Oh, and I just realized I didn’t explain how I’m planning to handle those situations going forward. Instead of trying to “show” a bully the error in their ways by holding up a mirror to their behavior and pointing their words back at them, I think a better approach will be to just tell them what I really think and what I really want. What I really want is for them to be someone that I can like and respect and look up to and learn from, but that the way they’re conducting themselves at the moment makes all of those things very hard for me to do, so I’d like to invite them to try to make some changes that will make that easier for me and for others in their future.
    I know there are plenty of people who really don’t care what anyone else thinks, and I’m not sure yet how or if anyone will ever be able to reach those people and help them, but I also know that almost nobody ever starts off that way, so I may be able to at least pull a few people out of the toxic black hole orbit that they’re spiralling downward into before they’re unreachable or unsalvageable. I wish I could save everyone, but I guess I have to at least start with whoever I can still reach.

  • @summerdais325
    @summerdais325 11 місяців тому +11

    People can suck. If you knew me, that's a heavy statement. Seriously. It's my way of saying this one word sums up that I just am rendered speechless sometimes by the cruelty of other people.
    Good kn you, Lizzie, for working towards balance. As you said, you aren't superhuman or immune to cruelty and abuse. Of course, those words are going to penetrate that wall at times. Do be careful. That wall can get pretty high. Thanks for letting us in a bit. It's absolutely one hundred percent healthy to throw yourself the occasional "pity party".
    That you were able to start today after the party was over and make this video is so vulnerable and helpful. ❤️ 💙 💜

  • @aprilheise397
    @aprilheise397 11 місяців тому +7

    I didn't know you did the recording for the last book! I'm so excited to get it and listen. ❤ I'm so happy that you're living your best life.

  • @59markr
    @59markr 11 місяців тому +1

    How incredibly lucky I am to have come across you Lizzie. Such a powerful force for good in the world. Such a beautiful human being.

  • @rcelestefelix9299
    @rcelestefelix9299 11 місяців тому +1

    The more I see you and hear you speak, the more I appreciate your essence. The evil doers cannot penetrate the deepest part of you because you are resilient and strong. May God bless your beautiful, kind soul.

  • @doriangrey9702
    @doriangrey9702 11 місяців тому +4

    Hi Lizzie, I hope you are having a great summer. Really appreciate all of your videos. I understand where your coming from with this one and I will try to follow your advice and move forward. Unfortunately we all deal with bullies at some point in life. I wish I was as compassionate as you and could rise above and try to enlighten certain brain leaking individuals. On that note, I will just tell you how much I appreciate you and tell you, you are my inspiration ❤ Much love to you.

  • @ransomwarevirus3474
    @ransomwarevirus3474 11 місяців тому +4

    LOVE, HONOR AND RESPECT TO YOU, DREAM GIRL!❤🙏🏆

  • @xanderpage7622
    @xanderpage7622 11 місяців тому +1

    Lizzie I think are the exact opposite of the self obbessed thankyou so much you are truly an inspiration I wish you nothing but the best

  • @toolman67
    @toolman67 11 місяців тому +1

    Keep doing what you're doing, you ROCK, Lizzie, always and forever!! Sending positive vibes and energy your way!!

  • @zqinabb
    @zqinabb 11 місяців тому +13

    Im really sorry that happened to you lizzie :(

  • @Choedron
    @Choedron 11 місяців тому +3

    Bullies really often suffer themselves - unless they are sociopaths- and they take it out on others to feel good about themselves. It says more about the bullies, than about you Lizzie. Besides we all have bad days where other people’s comments gets to you. How we get through it, is the important part.

  • @Rambat
    @Rambat 11 місяців тому +1

    Girl I needed to hear your words of wisdom today! Thank you so much for being so beautiful and brilliant! 🙏🏻💕

  • @guitarjeff55
    @guitarjeff55 11 місяців тому +2

    Very good point bullying leads to not a very good outcome. This happened to my middle daughter because she was picked on and she was beautiful and smart. One thing led to the other and now she's dead. Please think about what you're doing when you bully other people.

  • @katiesandin7905
    @katiesandin7905 11 місяців тому +5

    Lizzie...if only most ppl could be as brave and kind as yourself, this world would be a MUCH better place. I hope you enjoyed Barbie 😉. Sending you only love and positivity ❤💞

  • @kobinsadvance
    @kobinsadvance 11 місяців тому +7

    Your voice is the prettiest! I love ur voice a lot. I could hear you all day long.

  • @timothyslaughter476
    @timothyslaughter476 11 місяців тому +1

    The reality is this woman has more self love and confidence and gratitude than anyone we probably know. All things we strive for and praise. She has.

  • @amethyst0285
    @amethyst0285 11 місяців тому +1

    A lot of the people doing the bullying are hurting themselves. They’re suffering. Any opportunity that they see to make someone else feel the same as them they jump on it. Seeing you confident, happy, and successful makes them even more miserable so they double down in their bullying because it hurts their feelings even more. Sounds cliche, but yep, they’re jealous. Keep being great. 👸🏻

  • @carmenpabon8839
    @carmenpabon8839 11 місяців тому +7

    Lizzy you have Class, and you're well educated❤ these trolls that go on your page could learn so much from you!!👊👍

  • @guycore5478
    @guycore5478 11 місяців тому +4

    Lizzie, you are a rare and brilliant expression of the universe. You're smart, creative, empathetic, insightful, and sexy. Your happiness is infectious and your diligence is inspirational. Please, never stop following your bliss.

  • @douglasthames175
    @douglasthames175 10 місяців тому

    You gave me courage to not give up!...I'm alone old and have nothing. I'm poor and Disabled have no friends but now I will make a great life. From here on out I love you my encouragement!

  • @debbilinnebur2075
    @debbilinnebur2075 11 місяців тому

    I've never heard of you. But you are a beautiful being. Be-ing. Fully and completely here, not phoning it in, but showing up HERE. Fully alive, when many fear to live. Lady, you have more going on than most people could handle. Complete respect!

  • @YlvaMe
    @YlvaMe 11 місяців тому +3

    You are an amazing woman ❤ Loads of love your way!!

  • @anadocheva453
    @anadocheva453 11 місяців тому +5

    I would give you the biggest hug if I could right now. You are a beautiful human being, my biggest inspiration. Your strength and resolve is inspirational.

  • @positivelyrogue7093
    @positivelyrogue7093 11 місяців тому

    Beautifully said!! I agree I'm the same way! I love this! We need more of this bravery and compassion in the world ❤

  • @TheAcadianGuy
    @TheAcadianGuy 11 місяців тому +7

    People who are insulting your appearance for no reason are just the reflection of their own insecurity.
    I'm aware of your condition, but I stopped paying attention to it after a while.
    Knowing your accomplishments over the years, all I wish is you to be happy with the people who truly appreciate you.

    • @MelB868
      @MelB868 11 місяців тому

      Sometimes my sister in law fat shamed me

  • @remargreg
    @remargreg 11 місяців тому +6

    Hey Lizzie don’t even give the haters the oxygen of mentioning them. You are beautiful on the inside and outside……. I’m 53 with Parkinson’s and I suffer from medication induced writhing and contorting - dystonia/ dyskinesias, I’ve been laughed at in the street and suffered nasty comments. But it’s just their ignorance xxx. Cyber hug Lizzie xxx

  • @cyndianderson7056
    @cyndianderson7056 11 місяців тому

    I remember being so inspired by your TED talk. I've been bullied for a good chunk of my life. As a kid, I was shy and weird. As an adult, it was my weight. I had developed an eating disorder due to childhood trauma. People are vicious. It used to get to me where I didnt even want to leave the house. As I got older, however, I realized the problem is with THEM and not me. I'm not saying it doesn't bother me because sometimes it does. But I fight back with words. It may not be the PC way to handle it, but it's how I handle it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don't have to swear, either. Although I sometimes do. Lol. You're a beautiful soul and I truly admire you.

  • @nancygervais3769
    @nancygervais3769 11 місяців тому

    Exactly! Don't let mean, ignorant, jealous people get you down, you are awesome!!!! We love you!!!!! 💝

  • @Kylie377
    @Kylie377 11 місяців тому +5

    Girl you are beautiful don’t let anyone tell you less and forget those people there just jealous because you are more beautiful than them

  • @drparvathyrajeev
    @drparvathyrajeev 11 місяців тому +3

    Liz lots of love and hugs . stay away from negativity. you are doing the best, inspiring all of us. There are people who respect you and love u for whom you are . take care and you keep going girl.

  • @kathleen7825
    @kathleen7825 11 місяців тому

    God Bless Your Beautiful, Precious Soul, Lizzie ! It's so nice to see you again ! You are a Hero for all women,
    and a true inspiration for me !!!! Love
    You, Lizzie 🙏💗🙏💗

  • @karenlacy8950
    @karenlacy8950 11 місяців тому +1

    We all have bad days Lizzie. It’s part of being human. Too many cruel people in this world. They don’t know or have kindness compassion or empathy for anyone. Please don’t valet it get you down. Blessings to you. You are awesome. Love snd light

  • @Dexpie
    @Dexpie 11 місяців тому +5

    awwww queen dont feel like that dont let these people get you we are here to support you ❤

  • @anadocheva453
    @anadocheva453 11 місяців тому +7

    Lizzie, your appearance has nothing to do with you as a person. In my opinion your positive nature is what defines you, beyond all odds.
    Thank you for your breavery, you a an inspiration!

  • @Ranstone
    @Ranstone 11 місяців тому +1

    I'd seen your story told before, but I didn't know you had a UA-cam channel.
    I think it is amazing that instead of having a pity party, you took things you're sensitive about and turned them into something that can help others.
    All of our looks will fade one day, but a golden heart is forever.

  • @samuelmoreno4971
    @samuelmoreno4971 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for beign an example of kindness and compassion, even in the toughest times. God bless you, Lizzie.

  • @zylo101-_-
    @zylo101-_- 11 місяців тому +2

    Aww. None of us is perfect. Your so pretty! Have a good time watching Barbie.

  • @frozenheart9999
    @frozenheart9999 11 місяців тому +2

    I hope everything gets better 🫶🏻🥺

  • @AImaniaX
    @AImaniaX 11 місяців тому +1

    Your beautiful inside and out Lizzie. There is always gonna be haters! But they can never ever take your strong spirit away! Your always gonna be a shining light girl. God bless you ❤

  • @danasmith6043
    @danasmith6043 11 місяців тому +2

    Bless you. Lizzy 🙏🙏🙏

  • @bobbybrettel5422
    @bobbybrettel5422 11 місяців тому +1

    You are a beautiful person. I just love everything about you and you made my day. People are cruel.......the only thing that really matters is how YOU treat others....not how others treat you. I have found that out myself many, many times. Keep the love