City to countryside: what I've learned about myself

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2024

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  • @Un-Cooked-fnm
    @Un-Cooked-fnm 3 години тому +6

    Thank you for this. I recently moved 8 miles outside the Tuscan city of Lucca-after being in the historic centre for more than two decades, here I am on top of a hill in a lovely village where the stars shout at night and birdsong fills the days. I put on eyebrows every morning and wear a lovely lipstick, put on my fancy coats and pretty woolies when I walk the dogs twice a day because I too, miss dressing up! That is the compromise I have made that gives me happiness. I wear pretty cashmere wool inside when cooking or potting, and when I garden, I have wonderful yellow boots that make me feel like I am bringing style to my outside duties! This move was essential to my wellbeing and it has proven to be the right thing. At the same time, there is a girl in me who needs her leather gloves and pretty silk scarves! Take care and best to you.

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +2

      Oh sounds like you look so stylish even in the country! Thanks for sharing!

  • @lisejacquelinerigault2575
    @lisejacquelinerigault2575 2 години тому +3

    Years ago, I worked in London where I was always well groomed, well dressed, mingled with classy types. But now, I am a real country bumpkin, I only make an effort when I go out and take trips to bigger towns and cities, or go to friends for parties. I enjoy the contrast.

  • @charlottecollins4470
    @charlottecollins4470 2 години тому +2

    Such a beautiful heartfelt video of art/ videography and inspiration Marloes! Thankyou with love from Canada 🍂

  • @mariaetheridge8343
    @mariaetheridge8343 29 хвилин тому +1

    A sweet look back at what you and Olaf have achieved - and it's a LOT! Thank you for sharing - those shoes look yummy!

  • @davidmiller-br4bu
    @davidmiller-br4bu 2 години тому +1

    I think that adversity…going through difficult things can often open a door so that we find something new about ourselves…an inner strength, becoming more creative thank you for sharing this you grandma would be proud of you 😊

  • @MesutEkener
    @MesutEkener Годину тому +1

    Thank you so much❤

  • @jokehalmans8872
    @jokehalmans8872 3 години тому +1

    Mooie vlog Marloes. Ook mooi dat je oma meenam in je verhaal! Schoenen zien er inderdaag mooi en comfortabel uit. Loved it💗

  • @noreenalexander3836
    @noreenalexander3836 Годину тому +1

    Thank you Marloes, your video was just the tonic I needed today.

  • @sunalouw348
    @sunalouw348 3 години тому +1

    Such a lovely story, thank you for sharing your loves and challenges and how you have grown, Marloes. It just goes to show that nobody's life is perfect, alrhough you are pretty darn close at this stage of having it , thanks to you and your hubbie's many years of hard work! 😊Enjoy every moment! 🎉❤

  • @Nynkesunshine
    @Nynkesunshine 3 години тому +1

    Thank you for this video Marloes
    So beautiful to hear your story.
    And the shoes are so nice they fits you very good.❤👍😍

  • @kimharding2246
    @kimharding2246 Годину тому +1

    Wonderful video. You made me think about my own life. Without going into too many details, I found myself and my son on our own when I was 33. So, I found that I had to be the “man around the house” as well as being a mom. I was always healthy and strong to do heavy outdoor work, fixing plumbing, working on my car, plus, cooking, cleaning and nurturing. 30+ years later, I find I have to pace myself, as well… can’t dig big holes to plant trees from morning till dusk anymore.😂 So, I understand the frustration you felt after your accident. But, I learned to ask for help now and again which is big for me who has been so ultra independent for so many years. And, by the way, love your sponsor, Vivia. They’re pretty comfy and cute, also made from recycled materials and are vegan. Pluses all around. Thank you for your video today. Have a fantastic day! ❤❤

  • @Be4Peace
    @Be4Peace 3 години тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Marloes! So much of what you said resonates with me. About your point of missing dressing up, I feel the same so I make it a point to create a balance by once in a while visiting a bigger city, dressing up and enjoying the theatre or a night out. I think you and Olaf have done a remarkable job with your home, and great achievement overall with your adventure! Bravo!

  • @Sherryskogstad
    @Sherryskogstad 3 години тому +1

    What a lovely visit. Thank you so much❤

  • @arlenecollins7279
    @arlenecollins7279 3 години тому +1

    Such a lovely video and story! Thank you!

  • @apscoradiales
    @apscoradiales 3 години тому +1

    Love your videos.
    Watch them all with antcipation with my wife.
    If we were in Croatia, as we planned to be several years ago, wife would be doing the gardening, cooking, shopping, and i would probably be fixing the house.
    Instead, we now live in the city, Montreal to be precise, and the only time we see the countryside is if we drive out.
    I miss living in the coutryside.

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +1

      Thanks. Happy to hear you enjoy the videos. Thank you for being here.

  • @AnnieTaylorChen
    @AnnieTaylorChen 3 години тому +1

    Yeah... for past two summers we did DIY renovation of our rooms and it was already hard work and we are in the city. You've done a lot and I bet you've also learned a lot. I wish I could be more handy like your husband... then it feels invincible!

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +1

      Yes I guess I always underestimate how much work it is!

  • @ВикторияКошикова-ь8б
    @ВикторияКошикова-ь8б 3 години тому +1

    Спасибо за такое чудесное видио.Очень приятно было познакомиться в вашим укладом жизни,как все у вас гармонично и атмосферно .Спасибо .

  • @lecabestan9468
    @lecabestan9468 51 хвилина тому

    Exactly the same thoughts since we Iive in Normandy, I left the south of Paris in 2013. Goodbye beautiful shoes, escarpins et ballerines et bonjour boots and crocks and jeans and cardigans !!! But I don’t regret at all, I love to live in the countryside soooo much, I feel I’m in the right place now , I’m me 😊

  • @debstrong3272
    @debstrong3272 57 хвилин тому

    Loved viewing this video. Thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences & achievements, thro moving to France.
    It's gives me joy & happiness you have a beautiful balanced lifestyle although always busy. Enjoy the moments.
    Deb'S nz

  • @charliegardner6804
    @charliegardner6804 Годину тому

    Lovely video thanks for sharing 👍.

  • @barbaracollignon5365
    @barbaracollignon5365 2 години тому +1

    😊nous avons quitte a folie du rythme de la vie parisienne en 2009 pour acheter en vendee une vieille maison de 1905 avec 5000m2 de terrain et dependances... Et nous aussi nous avons decouvert que la vie paisible que nous avons est jalonnée de plein de contraintes que la nature nous impose ... Nous avons du des.poules ...on en aura d autrs mais pas pour le moment. Nous avons un âne.. deux chats et on en a eu plus que deux a certains moments et surtout une maison a renover comme vous essentiellement nous même. Tout en travaillant a plein temps. Alors ca avance a notre rythme...parfois long mais c est pas grave la maison est loin d etre parfaite comme je l'avais imaginé ..mais j ai tjs pleins d idees en tete et pour rien au monde je ne retournerais vivre en ville. Qd j y retourne avec plaisir au bout de 3 jours ma nature me manque . Et oui j ai ausi le meme probleme avec les vetements avec ma.profession commerciale j etais aussi tres coquette mais en vieilissant je m habille plus casual...confortable... Mais je n arrive pas a me separer de ma.collection d escarpins que je ne porte plus!

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  2 години тому +1

      On peut les garder rien que pour les regarder et nous dire qu’ils sont magnifiques? Ca m’apporte du bonheur et en plus ces chaussures pour moi sont liées à tellement de bons souvenirs! Donc je ne les ai pas tous donnés, j’en ai gardé quelques paires

  • @hanneliewiese3477
    @hanneliewiese3477 8 хвилин тому

    I prefer and love the simple lifestyle - plain and natural - denims etc. One can dress up and wear smart things for very special occasions once in a while. By the way, you always look sexy and feminine in your plain everyday clothes.

  • @FrenchFifi65
    @FrenchFifi65 3 години тому +1

    Tell me what you did with all of your “professional” clothes. I have also wound down from an executive finance roll, I tried selling my clothes online, but I am over it. I cannot find a charity shop near me that sells professional clothing, I am not sure what to do with it all now:( How do I let go?

    • @AnnieTaylorChen
      @AnnieTaylorChen 3 години тому +1

      Have you tried online service, liked Sellpy or Vinted?

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +2

      I donated to friends and to charity both in France and in the Netherlands

    • @FrenchFifi65
      @FrenchFifi65 2 години тому +1

      @ Thank you, I jsut have to get right with donating high end clothing - I think i will look for a charity shop rather than a thrift store. Your slower lifestyle looks amazing!

    • @FrenchFifi65
      @FrenchFifi65 2 години тому +1

      @@AnnieTaylorChen I did, I listed on three different sites and it has been 2 years now, I have probably sold 50% of it, I am tired of online selling:)

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  2 години тому +2

      I know that in the Netherlands now there are a few places that help job seekers that can’t afford an outfit for their interview to look smart and they use donated clothes and shoes. Maybe Google if there is something like that in your area?

  • @NUL495
    @NUL495 3 години тому +1

    Alors maintenant, il faut parler Français...

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +2

      Regardez mes autres vidéos. Je parle français mais j’ai fait le choix de faire mes vidéos en anglais pour que le plus grand nombre de personnes puissent les apprécier.

    • @lisejacquelinerigault2575
      @lisejacquelinerigault2575 2 години тому +2

      Marloes parle très bien Français, mais pour ses blogs, l'audience est plus importante si ceux ci sont en Anglais. Les Hollandais, Suédois, Norvégiens, Danois, Irlandais etc parlent tous Anglais.

  • @JulesCruz-k1n
    @JulesCruz-k1n 3 години тому +2

    J'ai montré cette vidéo à ma grand-mère et maintenant elle veut aussi devenir blogueuse. On dirait que nous sommes dans une affaire de famille💞

    • @FrenchCountryLife
      @FrenchCountryLife  3 години тому +1

      Alors qu’elle se lance! Il n’est jamais trop tard de faire les choses qui nous passionnent!

    • @LT.77
      @LT.77 2 години тому +1

      Heel leuk om te kijken en je verhaal te horen. Dank je wel!