A Day In My Life With 2 Kids + A Renovation!
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2023
- A real, chaotic, cosy family and renovation vlog from a self-employed working SAHM mom of 2 kids! If you're struggling right now, please check out my sponsor betterhelp.com/murphy for 10% off your first month of therapy. You'll get matched with a therapist who will listen and help you work through things xx
FROM HOUSE TO HOME - all videos in the series so far including full room transformations and the empty house tour when we moved in, the 1 year renovations update vlog... • From House To Home!
Follow me on INSTAGRAM: melaniiemurphy... (Thank you thank youuu if you've been supporting me lately on reels! I'm over the moon to have found something you guys love that's also bringing loads of new people to my online family! Something FUN and DIFFERENT to what I've been posting for so long!)
" It's perfect, coz I chose it!", said Melanie's dad calmly - this is exactly the energy I'll be bringing going into 2024 and right now.
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“It’s better to have the space, than look for it” Another one for the Thomas wisdom book 😂👍
Happy Birthday to your Dad! I hope he has a wonderful 60th! We only see him every so often but it is clear he did such a amazing job of raising an introspective, kind daughter, and it is nice to see him interacting with his grandkids(who are lucky to have him so close by!)
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Discord is usually the go to for specific communities! But also I think patron is a good platform for people who are committed to an activity. I read the book "you're a badass at making money" and she mentions that even if you do stuff for free, a lot of people won't take it seriously - but if you charge like $1 or $5 the person spending the money is committed to this *thing*. It would be cool to have a patreon as the specific structured book club to interact with you, then have a general discord book club for people to access for free and do in their own time.
Also I would LOVE to see wardrobe videos - remember in like 2014 when people would upload the inspiration outfit change videos? I think that would be fun to bring back. I just wanna see fun outfit ideas 😅
I'm so glad you're feeling more freedom! 💚💚
Second the love of wardrobe videos ❤
Love these cozy updates, and it's inspiring to see your home change more and more to reflect you. Also, so much respect for how you've prioritized finding a home with space for your dad-it's nice to see progressive-minded people challenging individualism and prioritizing family! 💚
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 so so important to us to stay close to family! xxx
I love your cosy home renovation vids. Only just watched this now but belated happy 60th to your Dad. I love you built a home for him on your land. This is a renaissance of the culture society needs, intergenerational care and community. So happy for your Dad huge congrats. Plus love your cute cosy unpretentious house
This video felt so wholesome and calming. I woke up this morning with a terrible cold and couldnt get out of bed and waking up slowly with your video on has really cheered me up. Thank you 😊
This comment made me smile so, so much!
I don’t use patreon and I’ve never felt the motivation to but 100% would pay to support a film club or any work you chose to share on the platform. I vibe with your content and would love to support more 💚
Do a built in ikea pax wardrobe hack for your dressing room! That's what i'm planning on and if you have a handy bloke its a fraction of the cost. Lots on instagram of people hacking them to look built in by raising them up and using trim. Can also paint them if use the right kind of primer.
Love seeing all the house updates for yours and your dad's. don't know how you do it with kids the disruption, mental load of making so many decisions etc. is a lot and i don't even have kids! totally get the thinking you can do it bit by bit and realising everything is interconnected!
You’ve got the kindest heart Melanie ❤️ thank you so much on using your voice for innocents suffering. May Allah protect us all
I totally agree. You're the only person online that I've heard talking about the horrors happening and I can see how much its affecting you. You're such a great mum and daughter . I love watching your videos. ❤
a 46 min vlog?? YESSSSSSSS we need more of this!!
I ended my job at the nursery a month or so ago to move to medical school and I'm missing my babies like crazy 😭 everything is reminding me of them. Like one of my first girls had a big onesie coat like that, she loved it and she looked so snuggled in it
Happy 60th to your Dad! It will be a great time in his life coming up, with his new bachelor pad right next door to you guys!
In terms of the wardrobe, I love watching women self build wardrobes on TikTok. I’m such an ‘I can do that’ person 😂 I would consider looking at some kind of UV protection film for the Velux in the roof - I’m so paranoid about fading clothes in the light. But I love open wardrobes. We have a makeshift one at the moment and there is also a dust issue with the shoulder of the clothes facing outwards. Probably worsened by our renovations. I am also paranoid about weight bearing of the rails too as I’m a total overloaded, and then there’s never enough quantity of shoe storage. I am obsessed with meticulous storage because I’ve never had it!!
Just one thing to consider with open closets : it is in fact lovely to be able to see all your hanging clothes, however it is a huge pain to keep it dust free as well. Requires constant upkeep to keep the shoulders of blazers etc free of dust. If I'd do it again I'd go with doors in front of the shelving.
Oh yeah, melamina is very common in Argentina and it lasts decades. Very appropriate for a wardrobe, very easy to clean and maintain.
I liked this update!!
I really like Patreon! To me it's not about the exclusive content, but more about supporting my favorite creators and knowing they have a stable monthly income to help them be creative. I support Hannah Witton, Leena Norms and Ariel Bisset ☺️ (parasocial connection to a group of friends going strong, lol).
I love these humans so much 🥹😍 You have chosen wisely when it comes to parasocial relationships! I’ve only met Ariel at a couple of events but we’ve been virtual friends for years & keep up via IG, have met Leena a good few times but haven’t seen her since before the pandemic when we hung out in Dublin I can’t wait to see her again. Han and I try to see eachother and speak as much as possible. They are all doing such amazing things and I admire them SO much and I love that THEY TOO are friends! I’m sure you saw but Omg the pics of Leena in Canada with Ariel…my little heart! ❤️🔥
I support the same 3 ladies! LOL.
Always such lovely content from you all, Melanie 😊. It makes UA-cam/Patreon a very cozy and safe place for me ❤, especially now that I am in sick leave for burnout and anxiety 😕
My husband and I just bought a 1997 house that we want to renovate at least a little bit, and we love love this series for inspiration! All of our walls are currently white, and seeing all the gorgeous colours you guys have are making us very excited
EEEEEP SO EXCITED FOR YOU GUYS! The process of turning a house into one that reflects *you* is SO satisfying. We are proud of ourselves for being brave with colours! What we always remind ourselves is that it's just paint ... it's not that hard to change if you don't like it! xxx
Hi Melanie! My dad has a construction company. Melamine is a really good option, just know that it can chip way easier than wood and that some finishes get fingerprint stains (that are easy to clean). This last part is something my mom doesn’t really like so that’s why I’m mentioning it, it’s sort of like fingerprints on glass. I don’t find it annoying, but I think you won’t have much trouble bc you will be using it on a closet, I wouldn’t recommend it for a kitchen or bathroom ( idk if I’m making any sense). Hope this helps a bit.
This is actually SO helpful! The most informative ‘review’ thankyouthankyouuuuu ❤
Second this comment. We stupidly put it in the kitchen and I'm tormented cleaning it all the time. 😂
I used to watch a lot of cinema therapy on youtube, they show clips of films and talk about their takes on it as a therapist and a filmmaker, that style is pretty fun and i often paused the video and went away and watched the movie or just watched it if I'd already seen the film ☺️
Oh I adoreeeeee Cinema Therapy! xxx
A full size mirror at the back wall of the dressing room in proper doorframe trim would be so cool in the dressing room, granted I'm not fully up to date on the plan nor the original layout!
I do want a mirror down the end! Will reflect the bathroom entrance and it’s a really beautiful bathroom we don’t even really want to renovate the bathroom any time soon I am obsessed with the black and white tiles in there 😍
So much love and light for your Dad in his birthday!! 🎉have the best day and the happiest year
So glad you are doing so well you are such a genuine woman melanie love your videos you are stunning happ 60th birthday to you dad
Happy birthday to your dad!! 🎊
Such a great video, as always. I love watching anything you post, your energy, mindset and the way you are with your family members is just amazing to look at 💞
I have supported a few people on Patreon, for me it just depends on what the offer is for exclusive content! Love the idea of a film club
Happy Birthday to Papa Murphy! Hope he enjoyed his party! That shed is coming along so well! And I am excited for your closet to be done that soon! Wow I mean I know it's been a while but it genuinely is also like so much is coming along at pretty good paces and that is amazing for you all! I would love the idea of a film club! Patreon for that or to help you write more books would well be worth it to me I think! In full transparency though I'm not great with money so subscriptions aren't always my favorite, that also being said, I have supported another UA-camr who offered specialized content on Patreon in the past, I only stopped because I broke my wrist and had a massive pay cut. I have mostly gotten back to regular money and although I haven't gone back to that creator, it's more because of the specific content that he offered isn't relevant to me currently, whereas movies and books are always up my alley, especially movies!
I love how your videos reflect where you are in life! It feels like catching up with an old friend every time i sit down to watch 🥰💚💚💚
It’s making me so happy to see your new reels being so successful. I’ve been loving all of them 😍💚
Hi Mel, melamine is a pretty common material in most desks, tables, kitchen cupboards, etc in my country! Its super resistant and maybe worth exploring for your closet or any kind of pantry! The only negative i have found from my experience or friend's experience is that humidity can make it warp, though that only happens under serious humidity and abandon tbh. Hope this helps! 💚💚
Forgot to add that there are now melamine friendy paints! I discovered them when i wanted to freshen up my white melamine desk and so far i've had no issues with chipping and stuff!
Omg thank you SO much for sharing! I will keep this in mind as it’s next to a bathroom … will keep the new window open as much as possible! ❤
My Mum has had a new house built recently and wanted to avoid melamine like the plague- she was worried it was toxic as we’ve heard scary things!
@@GirlVersusWild ive never heard such thing, its a wood product, kinda like fake wood floors... here in Argentina and in many countries its a really used material and we seem to be alive and kicking :/
@@melaniemurphyofficialHi Melanie, I'm from Poland and just to let you know, Belmeb is known for their quality :) My friend who is a carpenter always works with their products. He made my wardrobe and I'm very pleased.
This has been so cosy to watch. I'm pregnant with my second and we're lightly renovating the upstairs to get ready and I didn't realise how much I'd missed sitting down with a vlog and seeing other people in the same boat. Although you guys have so much going on and I can't wait for some relaxation for you!
Happy Birthday Melanie's dad, have a lovely day!
Wishing your dad a veryyy happy birthday Mel! You are glowy and have that soothing energy as usual.. I'm so happy to see how far you are progressing.. And many more to go! You got this💚💚
I love the yellow your Dad picked! It’s such a warm lovely colour!
I LOVE the colours in your dad's place, I bought my house in beige and haven't changed it and now i'm itching to, because it looks so beautiful.
Love your content, idk how many years I've followed along but it's a few! Happy you're posting these once in a while. :)
Yes, yes, YES to the film club Mel 💚 I've been trying to suggest one in work for a few months now (a small theatre in Dublin) but an online one could be so much more convenient for everyone part of this community x
First order of business, message to Papa Murphy: 🎉🎂😎 Happy 60th Paul! I hope the year to come is filled with good health, great fun, and enjoying the fruits of your labour in your lovely new home!
To Melanie: 💚 watching your videos is one of my favourite ways to unwind, and they feel like a hug. Like catching up with a friend over a cup of tea in front of a cozy fire 🍁🍂🍃. I've got my mum hooked too, and she always gushes over your kids (today while puttering around the kitchen, she was delighted with your daughter's walking and sweet conversations with your son 😊).
On a personal note, doing okay, but it's getting into the "crunch time" of the semester (in my 3rd year of a 2nd degree) that I always dread, so anxiety's affecting my sleep. Trying to remind myself to get out and move - if only to hear the crispy leaves and feel the cool air on my face. And your videos are always a treat.
A movie club sounds like loads of fun! I dont have Instagram as I tend to keep my social media presence fairly minimal. So while id love to hear your thoughts and comment through UA-cam, honestly do whatever is most manageable and fun for you. Im so pleased to hear about the sucess of your reels, and how much youre enjoying the shorter form content. Whenever youve spoken about films and series you enjoy, I feel such a kinship with you because a love of stories is in my soul. Always such a pleasure to hear about your life, how you're doing, and your home reno projects! 💚
Ikea kitchens are all made from Melamine! It’s good, sturdy and hard to chip - can’t wait to see your Carrie Bradshaw wardrobe come to life 😍
This video was so nice. Happy Birthday to your dad! I don’t use instagram but if it’s on UA-cam I’d be interested in the film club.
So happy you enjoyed it 💖
Sending you lots of love
I always love watching your videos, they have something so cozy about them :)
Love your Dads new place, the wall colour is beautiful ❤ Happy 60th birthday🎉
A film club would be great. UA-cam is my favourite of all the platforms. Which ever option is the most fun and simplest for you. Those who are interested will join whatever the platform is. Just started reading Glass Houses last night, I didn't want it down. 💚
Aghhh I get so happy any time someone tells me they’re reading Glass Houses! 🥹🥹🥹✨
@@melaniemurphyofficial Yey! I was so excited to finally read it. I thoroughly enjoyed both of your other books too. 📚
I find your videos so relaxing. Thank you so much for sharing 😊
Happy 60th birthday, grandad! Hope it’s a lovely one! 💚🥳
Oh Melamine is the perfectly right choice for shelving! Most shelves are made out of the exact same material :)
Happy Birthday Dad! From some old kids in Canada! 🇨🇦
I think Patreon for a film club would be a great idea! Because it's a completely different thing than putting some of your content behind a paywall, as it would be for a very specific purpose. And if it would help you put time and energy into it as a passion project then all the better, as the people that would subscribe would be on a similar wavelength too!
HBD papa Murph! 🎉 Your a gem!
You had me at “comfy, cozy vlog”.- just all the seratonin knowing I get to cozy up and enjoy what I used to feel about wholesome Autumn nostalgia. What a gorgeous safe space! edit: oh the ghost nails squeeeee so damn cute
Your shed looks like my house 🙈❤ i love it!! Hope your Dad had a great birthday and delighted to hear the reels are flying!
Omg no WAY! 😍 I adore houses in this style! ❤️
Happy birthday to Papa Murphy!! 💚 May he be blissful:)
Very excited for you to have the wardrobe of your dreams Melanie!
As a cinephile, count me in for the film club! 😍📽
Happy 60th birthday grandad! 🥳
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Loved this video thank you for sharing I love watching the house Reno’s .. such a relaxed cosy one that I really needed .. ❤️🌺💚
Thank you for sharing little bits of your motherhood though! It's very inspiring!
I'm not a mother yet, but it makes me feel very-very cozy ☺️
Movie group sounds fun! I like the idea of hobbies)
All things considered I don’t think I could be in a better place, I’m just burned out! As most of us are 😩❤️ But looking at the state of the world I’m extremely grateful that I am safe, I am loved, I have a home and a beautiful family and a stable income, I have my health, my friends - many of whom are having their own babies which is so exciting, I can afford therapy, I really would not dare to complain. I offload to my therapist and talk through lifelong issues but yeah honestly being vulnerable online has brought me so much and has made me feel connected to so many so I’d never take any of it back! 💖 SO glad my vids give you a cosy feeling! 🥹 xxx
@@melaniemurphyofficial I'm sorry I wiped out my message, I didn't expect you to answer and thought it was rather rude of me to talk about it..
But, oh, I know the feel of being burned out, it weights on you.. but I can see, you have very cozy and joyful moments and I'm really happy for you!
You doing so great! You taught me a lot about being a proper adult and having "an adult" fun with it 😊
It really induced my anxiety too, so there're many reasons to want to be a grown up :D
Good video! Happy birthday to your dad🎉
Belated birthday wishes to your dad! Would you and Thomas ever consider making a video/Q&A video about Thomas' pilot journey? e.g. the intensity, the amount of prior knowledge needed, cost, difficulties during training etc (if you've not already done one that is haha).
So here for the movie-outfit-series!!😊
Omg that mustard wall is everything ❤good job PAPA Murphy !!
Isn’t it!?!?!?! 😍😍 He was very inspired by Caroline Winkler’s bachelor interior design video haha, I told her and she’s obsessed and we were fangirling 😅 Proper hardcore fangirling
Melamine is pretty common for cupboards in my experience. It’s super useful and affordable, plus it can sort of be used as a whiteboard (although you might get some staining if you don’t erase soon enough) - which could be cool for the kids room.
The only issue with it is that once it gets old I’ve seen it sorta separate from the chipboard underneath and look ick. That’s often in old houses with moisture problems. Should be fine for a wardrobe I guess - I usually see it messed up in kitchens and bathrooms.
LOVE the idea of a film club!
I loved this video!
Oooh film club! I’m excited! I’d be happy to do it in any format. An Instagram live would be fun. Patreon is such a great way to foster community but I see why free content is preferred. If it went towards you being able to keep creating books and films then I would be interested. It may be a great way to share passions you have that don’t feel like they fit on UA-cam or Instagram. 💙
Your vlogs are so warm and chill! I needed this🙏🏻
And the house for your dad is becoming so beautiful. I love the Mustardy walls all over in combination with that floor, gorgeous and so cozy :) Happy 60th bday granddad!🎉
I honestly love Patreon. And it's not as though you have to have tier rewards. Everyone could just do the lowest amount and get the same benefits as anyone who might have the disposable income to give more generously. Definitely consider all the monetary possibilities as well as how to go about a Patreon.
Also, many belated happy returns to your da! I hope he's doing very well. And I hope you and the rest of your fam are as well, given what's going on in your lives right now. Many hugs and kisses from Canada. 💚💚💚
When we built the extension on for my sister who has Down's syndrome I felt the exact same she will always have a place
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Happy Birthday Dad!
film club would be great😍will def join, great vlog as always , your voice is so calming ❤
I adore the style of your living room. Sooo cosy, especially this time of year. I'll finally be moving out and renting my own place with my own money this week and watching your home-making, lifestyle content increases my excitement. Even though I have little creative control over the house as a whole (sharing with two others I don't know), it's a chance to start new and design my space as much as possible to reflect my personality, wants, and needs. Today, I bought a duvet and duvet cover for my bed. And I'm excited to try to live minimally because I will have very little space so might as well try to see the plus side of it. P.S. Happy birthday to your dad! I like the idea of a film club and I'm not against you doing it the way that suits you best. I'd prefer free content, but I'm not against patreon in principle
yes, do that on youtube!!!!!! HB to your dad!
Happy Birthday Pappa Murphy 🎉 You’re a gem and Melanie is very lucky to have a dad like you so close.
I’d love a book/movie club, and while I’d love it to not be a cost, I get it if it is.
I don’t subscribe to any patreons, it is not in the budget. Maybe you could do one of those “buy a coffee” or something of that sort to help get funds for passion projects? Unsure, it is a tricky one.
It would be fun if you did UA-cam livestreams where we all talk about the film after we watch it! No editing required and super interactive 😄
Happy birthday Paul 🎉
Melamine is a material that is used a lot in kitchen and bathroooms here in Canada. It is super durable! I think it would be a good option if you are okay with the fact that it is not wood
i love the blue, don't change it, carry's is really dark as well!!
I am so down for a film club! what a cool idea!
Yes to the movie club!!!!
I love these long vlogs so much.
I’d also love videos about movies, maybe the book club could just be a UA-cam format?
Don’t like reels in general btw. But glad it’s working for you!
Patreon is perfect for passion projects!
I’m gonna answer the movie question first-
Love love love that idea!!
Brilliant.
As someone who adores film, I love talking movies, hearing others talk movies, and sharing.
As for where-
Im a UA-cam only person. No Facebook, no TikTok, no instagram, and I don’t even know what reels are 🤦♀️🤷♀️
Loved hearing you talk a about the experiment with the babies seeing their mothers face go blank. I was shook when I first saw it. Wasn’t even a mom yet and it struck me. I do the majority of my ‘phone’ time once she’s in bed also. And if I do it while she’s up, I try to have my back to her. I hate her seeing me in my phone.
Also,
My girl despised riding in the car for the first 8 months of life. It made me dread having to go anywhere. It made me resent all the endless trips to the Pediatrician they insist you go to while they’re infants. I was a mess each and every time. Just remembering those days gives me the shivers. So grateful it’s behind us now.
Cottage house looks adorable ❤
I'd love a film club, too! I did film education in college and really miss having to research the influences films have on us hehe. I don't have Facebook and never came across Patreon before, so would need to read into that. Instagram live or UA-cam sounds great for me though ☺💚
The idea of a film club sounds great. I have no idea how you'd do it, either though. I have not supported anyone on Patreon but I probably would consider it for the film club content or something extra.
Yes to the weird endings, Mel! 😂❤
So interesting that you brought up wanting to make content about movies and such. Earlier in the video, when you showed the castle tower candle holder and I saw all your fantasy books I was thinking that it's a shame that you don't make videos about your more nerdy interests which I share like videogames, fantasy movies, etc. So I would love the film club, dvd collection video and other similar videos! Maybe also a video about the movies you watched and loved the most when you were little.
Hey Melanie, great video as always. Can I ask where you got your coat? Love it and I've been on the search for something similar. Happy birthday Daddy Murphy 🥳
It’s not new but I am pretty sure I found it on ASOS 😍
Film club is a great idea 😊
Happy Birthday - avoid being led into open fields
I would LOVE a film club
My god i would LOVE a film club. Even on UA-cam, maybe having guests on videos where you talk about a certain film. So far, i have not supported anyone through Patreon, so i don't have much of an opinion on it. Any way you do it itll probably be grand 🥰
thank you, Melanie! 🇵🇸❤🩹
i would love a film club or a book club honestly 💚💚💚
Happy Birthday to your Dad! Hope he has a lovely day 😊
Really enjoying your vlogs and especially from house to home. I think the film club is a lovely idea, Patreon has a lot of new features that might support this but I also understand wanting to keep content free for all to watch. I use Patreon but personally I have chosen to support multiple people I enjoy watching at a lower rate so it is affordable for me and I can give a little bit towards people I enjoy watching. Obviously usually this means I don’t get all the benefits of higher tiers but I personally am not so bothered as I generally just enjoy watching their content. Unless you did something like Leena Norms where you have access to everything but can have a limit so you never spend more than you can afford. Just some thoughts I hope that’s helpful and I realise that I say this as some who’s never used discord although I hear it can be good but I am just unfamiliar with it and for Instagram although I like it, I find it addictive and try to limit my use of it.
Yess all for movie club ❤
Yeah! Film club, make a seperate channel!
Melanie where is your green turtle neck from its so nice!!!😊
I’d love a film club!!!
I waited for a Melanie Murphy Patreon for a long time 😄 I think its a very good place to make special content for people you know care the most :) And I love a good movie decrypting!!
I don‘t currently Support anyone on Patreon, but I would be more than happy to support anything you posted on there and I would looove a movie club!! I also know that Discord is a great place for such things, though, if you wanna keep it free for everyone. But I repeat, I‘d personally be more than happy to support you in a small way :)
Yeeees Crash Bandicoot!!
We are downloading the original trilogy of games as I type this! 😍💃
Patreon movie club sounds amazing! Perfect funding for the closet ;)
weird video ending was ao funnyyyy🤣🤣
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Happy 60th Birthday Grandad xx
Happy Birthday to your dad! I’m ok, just started an Open Uni course (is that available in Ireland?) and I’m still finding the swing of things. Personally I wouldn’t use Patreon but would love to be part of a film club, an Instagram live is a good idea or a Facebook group with lives?
When I was 5 my family all dressed as the Adams family. I loved it. BTW what blush are you wearing it's lush ?❤
It’s pixi sheer cheek gel in flushed over some Benefit benetint (I layered them only because when I’m on camera my makeup is very hard to see haha as I don’t wear much!) 💖