sex AFTER birth/kids...let's chat while I get ready!
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2023
- Today, I get ready & answer your questions about sex AFTER kids! & a freebie (!!!) - try out Beducated courses for 1 day (FREE access) then if you like it, you can get 40% off for the yearly pass with code 'melanie' HERE: beducate.me/bg2316-melanie (... best sponsorship ever amiright!?)
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How did having children impact YOUR sex life, if at all? Comment below!
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Justice for real talks like these! Even though UA-cam doesn’t like it we definitely do!! ❤🔥
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your honesty and transparency about motherhood is so so refreshing and helpful to me, thank you Melanie ❤
How have things changed downstairs in terms of tightness etc from the man's perspective? Does it feel the same? I've always wondered this as I don't have any children (yet), but it's something I've heard male friends talk about?x
Yep, I don't want kids. 😂
this really makes me not want to have kids
The joke about sitting on a co-sleeper’s couch 😂😂😂
Where is the rose water spray from 😊
I’m definitely a few years from this phase in my life but I still love hearing and learning. I feel like I’ll be so much better prepared for when the time comes.
the O question cracked me 😂💀
So relatable! After two kids and breastfeeding, I always felt so touched out. So constantly needed and pulled at. My body was wrecked and no longer sexual just a means to support two humans. It's probably the biggest issue for my husband and I in our marriage. He wants it all the time and I am in a whole other place physically and mentally. Thank you for being so honest 💚. It would also be interesting to hear Thomas' perspective on how you feel and some of these topics as a couple!
this video is so validating even though I have 0 kids haha, my libido definitely has its ups and downs (mostly downs) and while I know that it's normal and fine, I often feel like there is something wrong with my relationship like we have lost our "spark". We are still very much in love and spend as much time as possible together and we do a lot of physical touch, we just tend not to have sex or any sort of sexual intimacy as often as before. I know that this doesn't mean there's anything wrong with my relationship but I feel like I need to keep getting told it by different people in order for me to actually understand it
My sex drive was low in postpartum and it was hard to find the time but now our kids are 9 and 6 and our sex-life is thriving, has been since baby number 2 was over the age of 2 and a haif I'd say. It's in some ways better than before. ❤ And we discovered a new freedom after his vasectomy. This stage is so hard, but your libido and all the fun will come back. 💖
I LOVE videos like this because they help me with manage my expectations for motherhood one day. I've a bit of fear surrounding staying connected after birth because it's such a big change, but hearing you talk about your experience makes it seem so manageable and doable and actually fun in between the exhaustion. Thank you for your transparency and for remaining accessible to those of us who aren't in the same stage of life as you yet 💚💚💚
Thank you for this video.
So relatable as a mom of two who breastfed for 3 years. Thanks for being so honest ❤
Love your sincerity! So good to see a woman being open to talk about sexuality as normal as it should be. You are an example to us!
I don't have kids but part of my hesitations to have them one day is sex. I feel like we've been engrained this idea that if we don't provide sex enough to our partner's they will cheat or leave and for some reason this is one of the societal messages that has stuck with me the most.
I enjoyed this video so much I wanted to like it multiple times. I'm 4,5 months postpartum and I feel less alone now, thank your Melanie !
Love a chatty get ready with me! I don’t have kids myself (we’re undecided on them) but I’m glued to all your videos 😂