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1. Too many guy friends 2. Ungrateful/Never says thank you 3. alcoholic/other substance abuse issues 4. hits you/abusive/manipulative 5. Jealous/super extra emotional/rages easily/etc. 6. Doesn’t respect you/your boundaries 7. Materialistic 8. Low self esteem 9. Dumb 10. Uses body as a commodity(only fans/showing their body too much on the internet 11. Unsupportive/unloving
A woman with too many girlfriends could be problematic bc they could be heavily influenced and a follower. My cousin’s wife not only wanted to get married bc all her friends were, but she wanted to get divorced bc all her friends were, and she thought the grass was greener.
Another big red flag is someone who doesn't take accountability or cannot apogolize for their actions that hurt you or cross your boundaries. Leave. That person has no empathy whatsover and will always disrespect you
Unfortunately it took me dating someone for almost four years that had about 90% of these issues. Lesson learned and that mistake will never be made again.
Did you have the too many guy friends? I know a few girls like that, and all of them are less drama but not cheaters. So no idea why Alpha thinks it's a problem...
@@MrNicoJac not so much the guy friends but more of an attention seeker around guys and a sneak with her phone. The thing is if they have guy friends it depends on the type of girl. Attention seekers and guy friends are bad news.
1. Ton of guy friends 2. Doesn’t appreciate nice things 3. Can’t handle alcohol 4. Emotionally/physically abusive (manipulative) 5. Crazy jealous 6. Dirty fighter ?’ 5:08 ad end 7. boundary disrespecting 8. Materialistic 9. Dumb 10. Uses body as commodity internet obsessed Validation money seeking from attention 11. Doesn’t love or support
And another thing from my experience. Don't get with a woman that doesn't have a great personality that doesn't laugh is always to serious has no sense of humor. And don't get with a woman that isn't financially stable in her life. I've also met a few women who weren't financially stable. They would ask for to pay thier bills like rent, cell phone bills etc even help pay for thier kids they have with another man. So watch out for those type of women to guys. They are also toxic women and garbage.
A lot of the women who are financially stable are also women who are too serious and void of a sense of humor. Often times, you have to take one thing over another. Cant have everything
@@vinniemartinez6125 sure, but those women are in short supply. They oftentimes only date men who are richer than themselves too. Personally, as a financially well off man, Id rather have a non financially secure woman who stays in shape (a good bodyweight) and treats people with kindness and consideration.
I Didn't need this vid to know these red flags. I had one girl like this and broke off contact with her even tho I loved her and still love her, but I knew that my mental health was more important and that if she doesn't want to change despite my attempts and requests, it's time to say bye bye to her. I hope God gave me her as a lesson and in future he’ll give me someone who can help me forget about past and will love me regardless of anything as I loved that girl mentioned before. I felt fulfilled for some reason and it was very hard to go away
The fact that you need to change her means you shouldn't be with her. This applies the other way. Find someone you like and can accept wholly. The good AND the bad.
@@ub-4630 I mean I wanted to change what I thought was bad about her- her adiction to vaping, her mood-swings, overthinking and being rough to herself. I loved her no because some things but regardless of some things. I accepted most things but as a good maybe future partner (that was what I thought back then) I wanted to improve her
Hey Alpha, I was on this dating app called tinder and I got a message from this girl asking me if I wanted to bang and I declined her offer and told her that I do not believe in s3x before marriage due to my Christian beliefs and faith. Will that make the girl respect me more? And does it make me a quote on quote "Alpha Male" Because I turned her down due to my religious beliefs? I'm just curious. 🤔
The first thing I look for is are there any things in her life that will make me less than number one in her pecking order. ie: minor children, pets, addictions, other relationships etc.. Because if I'm not gonna be No.1 in your life, then you're not gonna be No. 1 in mine.
Hey @alpha.m needed this talk long ago. Messed with the wrong women cuz of those situations got myself into situations. Over the years I've been following your advice I'm just now gaining my confidence back n looking even better thanks Alpha.!!💪😎🔥 Ps. Dig your products
Dude, I married the toxic girl. Everything was amazing for the first year, but now I am stuck with someone who doesn't appreciate me and doesn't show me the love. But I cant get out because I have a young stepson who loves me like a father and I would never leave him with a mother who is not emotionally fit to parent, and his birth father is monster who will also not take care of him. So basically me and my son and I are trapped for another 8 years until I can get him out of the house and ready for the world, and I can restart my life.
Celebrating our 15th year of marriage. Always open doors and take lead, do dishes and cook food even if you don't want to; you are the glue that holds everything together in ever sense of life.
Ahhh yes -- the guy friends/male buddies BS....She's gonna explain that she just always had more guy frineds that female friends cuz chicks don't get along,; she's gonna swear to you that nothing's going on; she's gonna make you the bad guy & accuse you of being insecure & jealous...Guys, DO NOT fall for the BS. Get outta there!!!!
I've slept on your videos Alpha, I've been following for awhile and never really dove into your videos until now. This is my introduction to a better life and I thank you for the encouragement you give in your videos. This was very helpful for me.
When people who try to defend Andrew Tate say "kids dont have a role model" as a form to justify Andrews behaviour, they clearly have never seen Aaron.
also stay away from girls that love to travel, they’re not looking for a relationship, they’re looking for someone that sponsors her trips. They will never be a happy stay at home wife. Also, if you don’t have have children, don’t look for girls that do, know your worth, I’ll rather be alone.
This is the dumbest thing I have ever heard 😂 everyone loves to travel! Your ideal wife sounds like a really boring person to spend the rest of your life with 😂
One of the students in my university had her boyfriend come over from England last week and instead of greeting him at the airport she asked him to make his own way up to her house so she could save money 😡
Also, never date a woman who only wants money from men, asks you for money or ask you to pay for her nails or never date a woman that is looking for a sugar daddy!!
being alone or single is a far better deal than being in a destructive devaluating relationship or marriage. take advantage of that time to work on your self (Health, Character, Body, Buisness and goals), along the way you'll find good women
Although I think it’s skeptical for a girl to have guys friends, it’s actually a PROVEN FACT that a girl that has more guy friends lives happier and longer lives
Come on alpha. You are wrong: this stupido things about red flags. Everyone has problems, but even mad people can be great partners... you Just have to meet people.
We were together since she was studying primary school then we grow up as very close friends, but surprisingly we ended up fking. There is no such thing called a woman with a GUY FRIEND
Well, that pretty much sums up what most women are like these days. Slim pickins for good, single men out there. Thank God I married a good woman who has none of those toxic behaviors.
Truth be told, I'm pretty much through with women. I know that there are still good ones out there. But given how a lot of them act nowadays, especially women in my generation, (Gen Z) I don't want anything to do with these modern day brats. If they're expecting me to do everything for them, play guessing games with them, then just forget it. I have other things to focus on for myself anyway.
I hate being alone. But sounds like it ain't so bad considering ALL of my exs were those 12 girls. Nothing beats a woman who has her shit together. Keep shopping, gentlemen!
No matter how good she looks….somebody somewhere is sick of her shit. Someone smarter than me said that first I’m not sure who but once I heard it I couldn’t forget it. It’s true.
You said don't date materialistic woman. Does that mean it's a good thing I can't date anyone who wants a guy to own a car? Because I don't own a car lol
I knew that from my younger teen days, if has a lot of guy friends she will start to talk about them nonstop, best thing to do is either get you some female friends or simply cut her off.
I thoroughly enjoy alpha m videos but just remember rich cooper/entrepreneurs in cars has extended videos on red flags as well. Don't mean to take away from this great channel, but I want you all to be safe and enjoy your life. Knowledge is power. Have a good day reader
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Then what remains? Angels? Perfect woman? Bro we all are imperfects i mea common.
1. Too many guy friends
2. Ungrateful/Never says thank you
3. alcoholic/other substance abuse issues
4. hits you/abusive/manipulative
5. Jealous/super extra emotional/rages easily/etc.
6. Doesn’t respect you/your boundaries
7. Materialistic
8. Low self esteem
9. Dumb
10. Uses body as a commodity(only fans/showing their body too much on the internet
11. Unsupportive/unloving
👏👌
12. Daddy issues
I’m so happy there’s men with boundaries who still exist, everyone nowadays is becoming too tolerant of women acting irrationally
Facts
Well that's the way now, don't like it? Go fuc k a guy!
A woman with too many girlfriends could be problematic bc they could be heavily influenced and a follower. My cousin’s wife not only wanted to get married bc all her friends were, but she wanted to get divorced bc all her friends were, and she thought the grass was greener.
i think that falls under the categiry of Dumb, easily influenced and can't think for herself. right?
Okay 👍
Then it's not the friends who are at fault. It is the girl, she basically has nothing between her ears, she does what others do.😂
lol
@@TravisAndrews-lb1kk🎉🎉🎉😂😢😢🎉🎉😢😢🎉🎉🎉
Another big red flag is someone who doesn't take accountability or cannot apogolize for their actions that hurt you or cross your boundaries. Leave. That person has no empathy whatsover and will always disrespect you
Pretty much every single girl has these symptoms 🎉😂 Congo!! I'mma Be Single For Life
Be a passport bro.
Unfortunately it took me dating someone for almost four years that had about 90% of these issues. Lesson learned and that mistake will never be made again.
Did you have the too many guy friends?
I know a few girls like that, and all of them are less drama but not cheaters.
So no idea why Alpha thinks it's a problem...
@@MrNicoJac not so much the guy friends but more of an attention seeker around guys and a sneak with her phone. The thing is if they have guy friends it depends on the type of girl. Attention seekers and guy friends are bad news.
@@rsoxx74
Thanks for the reply :)
That's the nuance I needed for it to make sense!
Me too man, 4 damn years I've never been this happy. I feel much healthier mentally and physically now.
"If she doesn't love you like Alpha loves you, run away!" Good advice. 👌
1. Ton of guy friends
2. Doesn’t appreciate nice things
3. Can’t handle alcohol
4. Emotionally/physically abusive (manipulative)
5. Crazy jealous
6. Dirty fighter ?’
5:08 ad end
7. boundary disrespecting
8. Materialistic
9. Dumb
10. Uses body as commodity internet obsessed
Validation money seeking from attention
11. Doesn’t love or support
Bro this is probably 60% of all women. So better die alone ? 🥲
Dig Bick chad
Your a Legend, i always respect ppl who do things like this online✅👍🏻
And another thing from my experience. Don't get with a woman that doesn't have a great personality that doesn't laugh is always to serious has no sense of humor. And don't get with a woman that isn't financially stable in her life. I've also met a few women who weren't financially stable. They would ask for to pay thier bills like rent, cell phone bills etc even help pay for thier kids they have with another man. So watch out for those type of women to guys. They are also toxic women and garbage.
That is what im doing.!
Dump them fast there's plenty of fish in the sea to find the right woman to have in your life don't take no shit and don't put up with no bullshit 💯
A lot of the women who are financially stable are also women who are too serious and void of a sense of humor. Often times, you have to take one thing over another. Cant have everything
@@ghostridersinthesky21 true but sometimes you'll get lucky to get a woman that has both. Like I've been lucky to find for me 😁
@@vinniemartinez6125 sure, but those women are in short supply. They oftentimes only date men who are richer than themselves too. Personally, as a financially well off man, Id rather have a non financially secure woman who stays in shape (a good bodyweight) and treats people with kindness and consideration.
Unless you’re married, there’s no relationship that I take seriously 😂
Words of wisdom 🤣🗿
thats pretty sad tho
You need to have a serious relationship to get the marriage!
@@antoniofernandopinho9617💯💯💯
@@catchthewave2172💯💯💯💯
I Didn't need this vid to know these red flags. I had one girl like this and broke off contact with her even tho I loved her and still love her, but I knew that my mental health was more important and that if she doesn't want to change despite my attempts and requests, it's time to say bye bye to her. I hope God gave me her as a lesson and in future he’ll give me someone who can help me forget about past and will love me regardless of anything as I loved that girl mentioned before. I felt fulfilled for some reason and it was very hard to go away
God tests the poeple he loves. I hope you will find your true partner brother.
The fact that you need to change her means you shouldn't be with her. This applies the other way. Find someone you like and can accept wholly. The good AND the bad.
@@ub-4630 I mean I wanted to change what I thought was bad about her- her adiction to vaping, her mood-swings, overthinking and being rough to herself. I loved her no because some things but regardless of some things. I accepted most things but as a good maybe future partner (that was what I thought back then) I wanted to improve her
Dating 12 at a time sound impossible
Hey Alpha, I was on this dating app called tinder and I got a message from this girl asking me if I wanted to bang and I declined her offer and told her that I do not believe in s3x before marriage due to my Christian beliefs and faith. Will that make the girl respect me more?
And does it make me a quote on quote "Alpha Male" Because I turned her down due to my religious beliefs?
I'm just curious. 🤔
I agree...no man should ever date Taylor Swift!
how is she supposed to write songs without exboyfriends? Depending on your musical preferences, you might be onto something there
No man should ever date her fans either
I dated a stripper. She was working her way through law school. Big whoop. Didn't end badly either.
But it still ended. Constant beta L
The first thing I look for is are there any things in her life that will make me less than number one in her pecking order. ie: minor children, pets, addictions, other relationships etc.. Because if I'm not gonna be No.1 in your life, then you're not gonna be No. 1 in mine.
Hey @alpha.m needed this talk long ago. Messed with the wrong women cuz of those situations got myself into situations. Over the years I've been following your advice I'm just now gaining my confidence back n looking even better thanks Alpha.!!💪😎🔥
Ps. Dig your products
alpha can you do a video on a workout routine for guys over 40!
Dude, I married the toxic girl. Everything was amazing for the first year, but now I am stuck with someone who doesn't appreciate me and doesn't show me the love. But I cant get out because I have a young stepson who loves me like a father and I would never leave him with a mother who is not emotionally fit to parent, and his birth father is monster who will also not take care of him. So basically me and my son and I are trapped for another 8 years until I can get him out of the house and ready for the world, and I can restart my life.
Thanks Aaron! Great advice in this video, I agree with a lot of what you said in here
Who the girl on the left side of the thumbnail
I married a manipulative woman.
Worst time of my life with the divorce!! 😢
All right, I really love when Alpha drops the cuss words randomly in the video. It really does throw a punch. 😂😂
Amazing.. As WE think YOU are. You are a great man doing this for the people.
One of the best AlphaM videos!
Single mothers!!!! Freakin deal breaker!!! WAY to much drama from already made family who aint even urs!!!
You’re on the money with everything ❤
Celebrating our 15th year of marriage. Always open doors and take lead, do dishes and cook food even if you don't want to; you are the glue that holds everything together in ever sense of life.
Ahhh yes -- the guy friends/male buddies BS....She's gonna explain that she just always had more guy frineds that female friends cuz chicks don't get along,; she's gonna swear to you that nothing's going on; she's gonna make you the bad guy & accuse you of being insecure & jealous...Guys, DO NOT fall for the BS. Get outta there!!!!
so avoid any girl with a hot body? I'm taking offence because my body is naturally like the girl on the left.
Yes i would say taylor swift would be the last 'woman' any man would even waste 20 seconds on, great choice of thumbnail 😅
I stay away from the girls with the alcohol 🍸
*You cant be telling girls not to strip when you have picture links with your shirt off. Just saying.*
Spitting facts!
But simps or thirsty dudes will rather date those red flags than staying alone. Shame.
I've slept on your videos Alpha, I've been following for awhile and never really dove into your videos until now. This is my introduction to a better life and I thank you for the encouragement you give in your videos. This was very helpful for me.
I would also add a woman who is bad with money or is generally irresponsible. She will be a massive headache for you down the road.
I know guys that act like this 😂
AlphaM: "Never date Taylor Swift"
"Alright, I won't do it, just because Alpha said so"
Why shouldn't Taylor Swift be dated??? Does she fall into one of the categories in this video? I see no explanation.
I have quite a few male friends, we enjoy each others company and it makes me happy when I see them happy. Sorry that's such an awful trait...
When people who try to defend Andrew Tate say "kids dont have a role model" as a form to justify Andrews behaviour, they clearly have never seen Aaron.
Diamond would never😂😂😂
SHE USES THEM FOR MONEY ‼️
Bro every girl out there has at least one of these symptoms.
well this list pretty much covers most of the women I've ever dated, & probably most women on the planet
Thank you so much Alpha. You really are a great teacher, a great friend, and a father figure to all men. 😃😃💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
also stay away from girls that love to travel, they’re not looking for a relationship, they’re looking for someone that sponsors her trips. They will never be a happy stay at home wife.
Also, if you don’t have have children, don’t look for girls that do, know your worth, I’ll rather be alone.
they also bang random dudes on their travels
This is the dumbest thing I have ever heard 😂 everyone loves to travel! Your ideal wife sounds like a really boring person to spend the rest of your life with 😂
That Taylor Swift in the thumbnail.... Gave you thumbs up
One of the students in my university had her boyfriend come over from England last week and instead of greeting him at the airport she asked him to make his own way up to her house so she could save money 😡
Alpha I've seen a girl with those qualities you mentioned in video, she's my ex.
A went on a date yesterday and she blocked me right after it even though the date went well.. it’s fucked up how people are these days.
Also, never date a woman who only wants money from men, asks you for money or ask you to pay for her nails or never date a woman that is looking for a sugar daddy!!
i immediately unsubscribe when i saw taylor swift thumbnail
I have a feeling Alpha made this because of Jonah Hill and Ariana Grande. Thank you.
Dudes talking about 12 girls.
And here I can't find one 😢
being alone or single is a far better deal than being in a destructive devaluating relationship or marriage.
take advantage of that time to work on your self (Health, Character, Body, Buisness and goals), along the way you'll find good women
@@jungleking6743 man you're a brother from another mother 🗿
I've just realised I have to dump... myself!
Bro if a woman hits a man no one could care less, but when a man hits it's an automatic KO and his life is over
Pretty much every gf I've had. Friends over toxics.
One of them if you are asked if you know how to drive or have a car those women are bad news.
You are right😂😂😂😂😂
Uncle alpha dropping wisdom
That feeel when Cant even be picky
You got a nice energy been watching you for years rn
But alpha, no one loves us like you do.
Huge fan of you. Been following you since 10 years now.
Although I think it’s skeptical for a girl to have guys friends, it’s actually a PROVEN FACT that a girl that has more guy friends lives happier and longer lives
Those are called BETA orbiters that she uses for resources
ofcourse, she has servants
@@jackthetech5105I love that phrase. Because that's how it is. There's no real reason to be close to any woman while in a relationship.
Rofl that has to be a joke lmfao
I think I've dated 12/12!
Alpha has gone red pill it seems
STOP SIMPING!
Come on alpha. You are wrong: this stupido things about red flags.
Everyone has problems, but even mad people can be great partners... you Just have to meet people.
We were together since she was studying primary school then we grow up as very close friends, but surprisingly we ended up fking. There is no such thing called a woman with a GUY FRIEND
HAHAHHAHAHAH love this, so true
Well, that pretty much sums up what most women are like these days. Slim pickins for good, single men out there. Thank God I married a good woman who has none of those toxic behaviors.
Truth be told, I'm pretty much through with women. I know that there are still good ones out there. But given how a lot of them act nowadays, especially women in my generation, (Gen Z) I don't want anything to do with these modern day brats. If they're expecting me to do everything for them, play guessing games with them, then just forget it. I have other things to focus on for myself anyway.
Im gonna start a vote amongst your audience that if you keep posting these girls in the thumbnail (Left side) then we want them identified LOL
I hate being alone. But sounds like it ain't so bad considering ALL of my exs were those 12 girls. Nothing beats a woman who has her shit together. Keep shopping, gentlemen!
No matter how good she looks….somebody somewhere is sick of her shit.
Someone smarter than me said that first I’m not sure who but once I heard it I couldn’t forget it. It’s true.
alpha m., you're a king. Thanks for the information 💪
I take the taylor swift thumbnail, as another example which i shouldn't date.
I'm too damn amazing
You’re too loud !!!!
Love this video...
You said don't date materialistic woman. Does that mean it's a good thing I can't date anyone who wants a guy to own a car? Because I don't own a car lol
DUDE....No man is using ball powder ....WTF?
May be messed up to say, but don't date a woman with BPD.
Obviously
I knew that from my younger teen days, if has a lot of guy friends she will start to talk about them nonstop, best thing to do is either get you some female friends or simply cut her off.
What if I’ve never been able to find any girl that appreciates me?
Love you to bro 👊💙
Great wisdom, bit the great woman are chasing down the d bags so the selection is slim
a lot of truth youre throwing around in this vid. feel like all the young guys out there really need to hear this
Thanks Alpha
I do a couple of these things. Like the jealousy thing. Man I gotta shape up also the substance abuse thing me with the weed
Love your consistency bro💯💪
Summary guy?
Thank you
So spot-on
Never date woman who dumps you via text message hahahah
Thanks
I feel sorrow for this generation of young men. Good luck finding a girl who is (or is not) consistently one of these women.
I thoroughly enjoy alpha m videos but just remember rich cooper/entrepreneurs in cars has extended videos on red flags as well. Don't mean to take away from this great channel, but I want you all to be safe and enjoy your life. Knowledge is power. Have a good day reader