Perfectionism Can Kill You?!

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  • Опубліковано 14 лис 2024

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  • @_Isuuck.Draws_
    @_Isuuck.Draws_ 10 місяців тому +4

    Stairs :( bwomp

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  10 місяців тому +3

      If you know, you know hahaha 🥲

    • @JordanS-ww4eu
      @JordanS-ww4eu 2 місяці тому +1

      @@katiaaahhhyou’re very pretty

    • @JordanS-ww4eu
      @JordanS-ww4eu 2 місяці тому +1

      @@katiaaahhhI really like you you’re my best friend ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mathiaswilhelm1902
    @mathiaswilhelm1902 Рік тому +5

    Not only 2 years ago I wanted to be the CEO of life it self
    And then I realised I can have a good life without owning 500 private jets
    One would be nice

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому

      🤣🤣 one would definitely be nice indeed, although you are right, 500 is absolutely not needed for a good life or to find contentment 🙏 I’m glad you made that realization! 😁

  • @ExplorerChris
    @ExplorerChris 11 місяців тому +2

    First of all, I love the fact that you used Omori as an example!!
    Second, wowie wow this was really insightful. I've had my own struggles with perfectionism in the past, and even now I'm actively working to break that cycle, and this just reinforces the need to break it.
    Thank you for taking the time to make this video, it was very well-made! (May or may not have subbed lmao. x3)

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  11 місяців тому +1

      Aww I really appreciate you taking the time to watch the video 🙏😆
      It's always a constant struggle but there is always hope for improvement 😁 I'm really glad to hear you've been able to work on that here recently and that this message came in good timing!! I hope the journey continues to be fruitful, I know it's hard but we gotta keep going 💪

  • @ellecolleen
    @ellecolleen 4 місяці тому +1

    I was MIA from UA-cam for a while so here I am just binge watching your videos 🍿
    Loved this topic so much!! Sometimes I get so tunnel vision with perfectionism that it actually stops me from doing the things I want to do. I’ll say things like “okay once things are exactly like ____ THEN I’ll finally do the things I need to do” but then I can’t get it “perfect” so I delay everything 😭 but you aren’t alone! I’m so happy you shared this with us because it’s always comforting to watch videos like these.
    Also I loveeeeee the intro Death Note edit!! .. still haunted by that anime’s ending smh 😂 I can’t wait to play OMORI, you’ve completely sold me!! Great video as always, keep up the amazing work 😊

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  4 місяці тому +1

      Yes! Tunnel vision is the perfect way to describe it! It definitely sucks, I used to have issues like that at old jobs for quite some time, staying late and at worst, procrastinating, because I needed the project to be perfect. But to tie back to your most recent video, I don't think people care about that either just like the insecurities hahaha I am very happy to know I am not alone! I get the vibe we have a lot of similar struggles 💀💀
      You watch anime?! OMG that's so cool!! I mean, there's no way I could have guessed that from watching your channel but its a very welcome surprise :DD watching the last two episodes was a defining moment when I was a kid haha
      You definitely need to play OMORI, I actually have a very lengthy video coming out this Friday on OMORI funny enough! (lots of spoilers though lol) It is such a monumental game and the music too, it just keeps you obsessed for a long time haha

    • @ellecolleen
      @ellecolleen 4 місяці тому

      @@katiaaahhh I’m sorry I’m late replying!! Finally feeling a tad bit better 🤒
      I can’t even count how many times I overextended myself at previous jobs and for what 😭 and me too!! I’m noticing that the more I watch your videos the more I feel how similar we are lolol.
      And yes! There’s still a lot of anime I haven’t seen but I got a lot of the basics done. It’s actually been a while since I watched anything 😭 I still need to watch the final season of AOT but that was definitely one of my favs too. I also saw your new video dropped and added it to my watch later, can’t wait to watch!!
      I feel like we have so much common, I was looking for your social media but I don’t think I found any. But also I barely use it too so .. 😂 I just made one to make one hahah.
      Keep up the great work, your content is top tier 🏆

  • @Hinami2000
    @Hinami2000 10 місяців тому +1

    well this is another answer to one of my many questions about my life lol

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  10 місяців тому

      Lol if the shoe fits, right? 👀

  • @markmartinez1584
    @markmartinez1584 Рік тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @alemvi
    @alemvi Рік тому +1

    awesome video!!

  • @blockeontheleafeon
    @blockeontheleafeon 11 місяців тому +2

    Have you watched Bocchi the Rock? It seems like the kind of show that would be up your alley.

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  11 місяців тому +1

      I have not but after reading the description it’s gOtTa go on my list 😆👍!! Thanks for the recommendation!!

    • @blockeontheleafeon
      @blockeontheleafeon 11 місяців тому +2

      @@katiaaahhh No problem. Glad I can help you find something new. ^^

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  11 місяців тому +1

      Okay I watched the first episode and I feel so called out 🤣 Hitori definitely was me in HS except I never made friends or a band from my instrument. It was so relatable it hurt haha looking forward to seeing the rest!!

    • @blockeontheleafeon
      @blockeontheleafeon 11 місяців тому +2

      @@katiaaahhh Oh it's gonna be good. You haven't seen anything yet. And even the first Episode is full of crazy and relatable moments. ^^

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  11 місяців тому

      @@blockeontheleafeon I am so excited ☆*: .。. o(≧▽≦)o .。.:*☆

  • @josephperez6745
    @josephperez6745 Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🙏

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому

      Thank /you/, actually 😌🙏

  • @schtuff.8207
    @schtuff.8207 Рік тому +4

    The audio volume is a bit too out of whack for me to watch this properly I'm afraid - but otherwise it seems like an awesome video. I hope that doesn't activate your perfectionism, I don't mean it that way - it just seems like your voice compared to the sfxs aren't at a balanced enough volume so the sfxs are overwhelming

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому +1

      Haha no it’s totally okay, audio mastering has been one of my biggest challenges (somehow despite being a musician lol) 😵 I actually appreciate the honesty, I rarely get to hear from a viewer on something like that, so that really helps! 🙌🙏 thanks so much! I’ll be working on improving that for the next video 😆

  • @Loveyourself21072
    @Loveyourself21072 Рік тому

    good i dont wanna be alive anyways

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому +1

      That hurts to hear. I know life is difficult, sometimes the challenges that come our way can seem unbearable, and even sometimes the things that happen can seem absurd, disproportionally painful despite all the effort we put in. But I promise you there is beauty in this world, even in the pain and the challenges. I’ve been there before and it really does get better when you accept you have control and start little steps to move your life in a direction you can feel comfortable with.
      Sometimes comments on YT can be sarcastic or trying to be funny, so I apologize if that was your intent, but I wanted to take it seriously on the chance that you are indeed really hurting inside.
      This seems to be a pretty comprehensive list of resources (if you scroll down there’s a national list) if you’re really going through things, www.mass.gov/info-details/suicide-prevention-resources
      And of course there are people who love you and, you always have yourself too. You’re stronger on the inside than you think 🙏

  • @CryingDark
    @CryingDark Рік тому +1

    Oh no Could it

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому +1

      Haha technically yes, but it is unlikely to do so immediately. It’s just like stress, or really, it causes stress, and we all know stress is very bad for the health too 😮 but none of those effects are immediate. Don’t worry about it too much, I’m a perfectionist and I’m still here lol just be nice to yourself and catch the habit early if you can!

    • @CryingDark
      @CryingDark Рік тому +1

      @@katiaaahhh I started to playing piano and it gave me the moral that if I want to do something I can do that :D

    • @katiaaahhh
      @katiaaahhh  Рік тому

      Oh my gosh yay!! 🙌🙌😆! That’s so awesome, I’m so happy you started playing! You’ll have to keep me updated on how it’s going ☺️ I hope it continues to bring you joy and peace 🙏✨