She came on the show looking for a new man while her Husband was in the other room. This got deep.
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- She came on the show looking for a new man while her Husband was in the other room. This got deep.
Therapist: @love_Mcpherson
The fact that she lied about the reason she didn't want to move to a different place in the house is all that needs to be said.
Cuz a damn liar lol ain’t she getting defensive, a person telling the truth don’t get offended when they hear it.
The fact that your judging her is crazy!
@@Ralondat you would judge a man doing this in a second
@@Ralondat The fact that she has the audacity to look for a new man online while still married in the house with him next door is crazy. Whats even crazier is you even in the least bit defending this foolishness.
I know that I am late to this conversation , but yes I was like so you have your children put up in the bathroom???? This is an amusement park of mess! I can't even...If a man did this f^ckery, well we know how that would turn out. She is delusional !! Yeah, she should have gotten the dial-tone!!
She knows exactly what she is doing. People wind up dead off of this stupid stuff right here. Facts!
Say that again for the people waaaay in the back 👏
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I’ve heard too much of this craziness happening on fatal attraction
I was just getting ready to make this comment. She is going to say we don't know the whole story. We don't need to know. We know she is married and still living with her husband. She wants a divorce but he doesn't. You are trying to bring some other man in there which could probably get someone hurt or killed. You don't play like that. She knows full well she shouldn't be seeing another man with current situation.
@@krobinson8627 Excauly ! Play stupid games and when a stupid prize
She legitimately didn’t think this was disrespectful. Mental illness is real.
Yes, she needs therapy
Just shut up. You would not say the same thing about a black man.
So a married woman, who is still living with her husband, calls in trying to cheat on her husband ? And she’s viewed as the victim? Wow. 👀
And she gets a full apology, this is insane.
@@Lhoyte1 "you can't make this shit up" Kevin Samuels voice
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Im glad my eyes aren't the only ones seeing this 😡😮💨😒
@@jaelee6390 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆
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How?! Kendra laid into her so how is that making her a victim?
Something is wrong with this lady. It is unacceptable for her to date anyone( no matter the situation) when she isn’t single.
Girl exactly!!!!!!!
i think there is more to this. i think she might be getting abused or something. i hope i am wrong but you just never know what really going on.
@@getoffmygrass4857 she's being abused and the only thing she could think of was to call a dating show looking for new man? That's a stretch.
@@gman360 I’m with you on this Kendra can’t help her. She doesn’t look mentally stable, she needs to call the proper authorities.
I completely agree. She is completely out of pocket and wrong on so many levels.
Too much grace was extended here. She is a grown woman of 38 years and didn’t know this was disrespectful?! Disgusting behavior.
Sister said Kendra was being nasty for telling the truth. She called up a singles dating show and she's married like nothing is wrong with that.
very wrong
Fact
Very right
True that. But that women lucky. Kendra offered her some real support. Looks like has a younger women she needed that support at that moment.
@@last647 She definitely needs that help. Guys who act like her get dragged but they probably just need help too . Be safe out here y'all
Why folks saying “she need help and support!” She said out her mouth there’s no abuse, she playing a game that has led many men to they graves early, and even more into the hospital, and children in foster care. I feel for them kids.
She certainly needs help if she that it was ok to call this show
Notice all the sympathy even a trifling woman gets.....
It's because she's a woman bro we all know how it is
@@jfelton3583 yep a man won't have that same sympathy... That why I keep telling my son every day that the world doesn't need kind man
exactly
This is SUPER annoying. Kendra, boo, you GOTTA stick to your rules and HANG UP IMMEDIATELY on married/separated people. Give the REAL single people a CHANCE.
Her eye Twitch when she hears something or sees something she doesn’t like tells me everything I need to know. Stay far away from her yall
I peeped that too 🫣
Good catch
Facts
A whole monster
Finger circling my ear right now
I think this is foul AF. The woman stated several times that she was not in an abusive situation and that she was safe. If this was a man calling in while he was married, women would be letting his ass have it! There would be no question to the man about his safety. This is a complete double standard. This woman should not have been calling into a dating show while married, and if she was in any danger, her phone call should have been to the police. We, women, want to talk shit when a man does some foul mess but when we as women do it we want to hide behind safety and emotions. This show irritated the F out of me. I am holding her accountable for the fuckery and other women should as well. This is how we build trust back with each other by taking accountability for the Mess we create. Shot out to the Therapist who called her BS for what it really was.
You took the words right out of my mouth. I said the EXACT same thing. And then to come back and say well the reason isn’t abuse but I don’t want to tell because it’s a lot. Is it, it is really?!?! I highly doubt it.
@@Karena_Karena she herself is the bs!!!
Thank u so much for your honesty and holding women accountable... with women like you still around we as men still have hope!!!
I think Kendra was calling her out on it
Men also have a viable equal right to BELIEVE that they need to be safe when with their gf, wife, etc. Yes in many ways the double standard is held true to woman feeling safe when with their man.
Safe space is for both the man and the woman. Woman who believe otherwise are completely foolish and ridiculous in thoughts and actions
He probably don't even know they having problems.
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Agreed
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That part! 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
That’s exactly what I was doing and she act like it’s so top secret as if the question why your last relationship failed wasn’t going to be asked when isn’t a known question on this show!
This woman is trying to embarrass her husband. She's playing a dangerous game.
Indeed. Even the softest men can flip the switch if there pushed hard enough.
Disrespectful as hell
She's not embarrassing her husband. She's embarrassing herself.
@@eon001 hmmm….since she’s black, the chances of her husband being black is very high, so you’re saying he’s some one predisposed to handle a situation violently?
If she really wanted to embarrass him she would have put out the reason why she doesn't want him no more.. She is playing a dangerous game tough
This is what's happening everyday with folks. Nobody is taking the time to heal/grow from past relationships before jumping into something new. It's easier to "attach" to someone else than to reflect, grow, and work on self...
woww
Preach my lady. All facts.
Plus, she got young kids. I'm sorry kids too young. I'm not NO stepfather lol. Stop focus on comments lol. Ppl focus on the wrong things.
Yes ! This is accurate !!!
This is actually so scary
The fact that she wanted the comments off was the third red flag 🚩🚩🚩 in the first 3 1/2 minutes of this interview
Even if she was in a domestic violence relationship, she still don’t need anybody right now! I’m just saying. She has to heal from that.
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Why tf is she calling a dating site in the other room if dudes abusive !?! 😂😂😂🙄
@@dvcasey1 she wouldn’t be , her husband isn’t abusive , she’s trifling
@@sagittariuslady2846 this!
Watch again, she specifically said she’s not in a domestic violence.
She is the type to set you up to lose your life. You better wake up men. See the smile when she tells her how trifling she is. Hopefully her husband can use this in court to get away from this woman.
right very devious person..she want a man to come in the picture and fight or harass her husband..she high key love drama
That’s what’s out here
You hit the nail on the head with this comment 🗣️💯🎯
The rapper Trouble comes to mind💯💯
Kendra would be harder on a man, why? Naw, this lady needs that same energy. This woman is 38 and acing like a teenager. It’s like she never developed mentally or matured. This lady is the type of woman that gets dudes killed. Feel like she the type who would set her husband up just so she could get out of the relationship. Folk disliked Kevin Samuels, but he held people equally accountable.
This woman is a COMPLETE FOOL! How Triflin and disrespectful to do this to her husband! The audacity!
She’s trying to hop from relationship to relationship. She will not get a divorce til she has a backup. That’s why she’s on the show . Unfortunately there will still be someone to hit up her dms. They will sell her a dream . She will leave her husband and she will find out she’s just the fun girl .
Right... nobody should take her seriously
Literally
Them she will be crying about all men are trash and liars. But look at how she's presenting. Sneaky, a cheater, always planning her next move....she's so shady
And that's exactly what she deserves, to be played with.
If anything i she gonna be selling dudes dreams thinking she will get a divorce and never happens
Nope, stop trying to give this woman a out. She's trifling, that’s it. If she wasn't safe, she wouldn't be calling a damn relationship show. What the hell could you do for her? Y'all be jumping through hoops to avoid accountability.
Facts!!!!!!!
That Kryptonite 🪨 must be avoided at all cost. Modern woman will not only never hold themselves accountable, they will never even hold other women accountable for clear wrong doing, and will always try to find a way to make everything the man's fault (or the wrong justifiable for the woman). We're all abusers according to feminist. They're extremely sexist.
if she was in an unsafe situation and getting on the internet this is not the move...this would make any one go 730...her elevator definitely doesnt go to the top!!!!!!!!
Praying she gets all the assistance she needs.
This is one example of many showing why men won't marry, especially the men who have resources.
“Is she safe, Is she safe” Some people refuse to wrap their heads around a woman being the wrong doer & want to blame the man
She may not be in physical prison, it may be a mental prison. What she did was definitely irrational. She’s showing all the signs. Just because men aren’t allowed to feel and get as much empathy as she did doesn’t mean SHE doesn’t deserve it. Be mindful that Kendra also has more information than we actually do. But again it takes taking your own biases and disconnection and actually seeing through the video.
@@divinelyguidedone3368 as someone who has been mentally and physically abused , this woman is just trifling . 🤦🏾♀️ stop making excuses for her , she needs to be seeking a therapist and not a new man
@@sagittariuslady2846 Hey love, I’m not making excuses boo, I am a seer who has been where she was mentally. Abused or used people have distinct ques. Just made an observation. I’m usually the trailblazer anyways.. only few would understand
Did you watch the entire video??? She said he has laid hands on her before
Nahh I think Kendra was asking to make sure he wasn’t about to bust the door down and flip out because his wife is on a single’s show 😭
She’s playing a dangerous game 🙃
Agreed
Real talk
This behavior will get a person's wig split.
Very!
Is her husband okay? She got that “ I will poison him” crazy eyes
I saw that too, it kept twitching.
@@derrickrobinson6586 That eye had a lot to say whenever she lied.
I know I kept turning away. 😩 But I feel it's a psychological response cuz there's Soo much trauma involved in tht relationship. Maybe not physical abuse, but another form of abuse. Not sure who's the problem, but it's most likely toxic.
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Kudos to you, Kendra, for setting this woman straight! I think you handled the situation with the perfect measure of grace and sternness. She should have known better than to be putting herself out there in such a public way while she is dealing with a broken marriage. She needed to hear everything that you told her. She clearly seems emotionally vulnerable and needs to focus on getting her life in order before bringing someone else into her circle. That scenario can only spell chaos for her and anyone who may potentially deal with her.
ABSOLUTELY ABSURD!!! Trifling is not the word for this person, disrespectful to her husband and kids, she was not worried about being safe, she wants a replacement, that's it that's all..... U were not too hard on her she obviously needed someone to show her, herself dang girl
Kendra G hatred for MEN is clear
Oh come off your high horse, you have no idea what this woman is going through. Keep your trap shut if you have nothing better to say.
Thats why she wanted comments off. You would think she got better since saying she's a teacher. See what kind of teachers they have teaching yall chaps. Child Please; Just deplorable 🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️.
@@ChiChiGlamShop get outta here with that! Lol her trifling ass couldn’t even wait till he went to work to do this type of bafoonery, you ain’t concerned bout the man. She looking for another man and says it’s over, I’m sure he don’t know that? Lol. She said “there’s no type of abuse” she just looking for more….with two kids. I gotta ask where do folks buy audacity from these days? Not only did she have the gall to come on a singles show, she doing it while he still there. Why not she just talk to her husband about what’s going on? She don’t care. She doing this while he’s there!
@@TSCOTT-oz5vy emotional intelligence has left the building 🤷🏾♀️
It's all in the eyes. She seems off.
she’s VERY OFF!
shes sad
The eyes don't lie lol
She seems in a trance.
Not only it’s dangerous for her it’s dangerous for anyone who attempts to come into her life romantically. Hope she gets the help she needs to be able to move forward correctly.
She doesn't need help. She needs self-restraint to close that gap between her trifling legs.
A woman that’s getting abused isn’t going to come on a singles only UA-cam show, she’ll seek help to leave! This woman is just triflin
You never know that's why we was concerned. Now that's she's confirmed she's ok we know she's just trifling as hell.
Agreed going onto a single show if u have an abusive partner would give the person more reason to be more abusive not help the situation.
right lol she would be calling the cops not come on a dating show....aint no way she is scared coming on a dating show...
Exactly and with the man in the house as a SURVIVOR she wasn’t nervous he will snap on her?
Very ! the last thing on her mind should be a new man .
Man, I was already laughing 30 seconds in. This woman is doing activities that make people go missing. Kendra, this woman had the signs of "something's off" as soon as you asked her about going to another room. There was NO NEED for you to apologize because you were giving her factual truth and she was playing a dangerous game. She didn't think this one through. SMH
Interesting that if it was a man, no one would think that he is doing stuff that make people go missing.
If delusional and disrespectful was a person. She has not even begun the divorce process yet. Still married and living in the same home as her husband…yet looking for a new man to drag into this mess…smh.
Im also wandering why Kendra never considered the man’s safety. I hope she shows the same level of grace and compassion to a man that decides to pull this trifling card.
Yeah...I think we should consider his safety. She has the type of personality that is dangerous.
I think the reason why she did not ask about his safety is because she was the guest, not her spouse. If he was in danger, do you think she would have answered honestly? The average abuser does not acknowledge being one.
BIG FACTS BUT SHE WONT
I’m wondering why would Kendra go harder if it was a man in this situation. So you’re holding back because she a woman? Nah let her have it, this why men get killed because of women like her.
right, I’m getting spousal mrdr vibes.
I literally can’t believe what I just watched.
It’s very infuriating to me that she is literally breaking up her home with a husband and 2 kids and trying to cheat... but is being treated like a victim. She is not victim... she’s a cheater who has decided that she can do better and will find after her divorce, she will not have the outcomes she used to have.
And she did say her husband wanted to try to make it work an she still on the show...way to much
She literally said her husband used to physically abuse her.
@@ThaFonzz she’s lying in order to play victim. 🤦🏽♀️
@@kimberlyjackson6498 how do you know that? From the beginning of the video I said to my fiance, "she looks like she gets abused or something". The energy I get from her is that she's trapped and being controlled or abused somehow.
@@ThaFonzz from the very beginning she was acting suspicious like she was hiding something. I don’t see abuse... I see a cheater. I’ve noticed that women are quick to defend each other even when they do wrong. An abused woman wouldn’t have appeared at all. She would’ve been to fearful to risk it. She’s a cheater...
Men, pay attention……all these women are so concerned for her safety. I’m concerned for her husband’s safety. A woman that would come on such a platform to try and cheat on her husband, who’s still in the home with her, is capable of anything. But we shouldn’t be surprised, these are the same women that thought that what Will Smith did was justified. The same women that wouldn’t think twice about getting you into a violent altercation for them or twisting a situation to make it seem as if you dmn near beat their brains out. Be very careful out there.
Exactly. My wife cheated and even after I forgave get she was back at it. I had to start wondering if she would get me killed for insurance money. I took her off the benefits quick.
@@Gunshinzero keeping her was a big mistake.
@@Gunshinzero bruh....run, gtfo asap lol on church 🏃♂️💨💯😆
@@Gunshinzero it’s simps like you that give these women power!
@@Gunshinzero Cheating = DEALBREAKER. DON'T TAKE BACK A CHEATER.
She’s one of those woman that doesn’t know how to be alone. I bet she’s there for financial reasons.
Facts! If she really wasn't happy, why hasn't she moved to her own place smh
If she is being abused (physically) then she would literally be too scared to call in to a show on the internet (and not call the police)while her alleged abuser is in the very next room…she’s just done with the relationship and she’ll use any excuse (are you being abused?) people offer to her
Yup she's simply a bored hypergamous promiscuous sociopath. She us trifling she is trying to monkey branch to another relationship because she is bored . It's disgusting the vats majority of women do this . They never ekave a relationship until they already involved in another
That's the real answer. I been with a crazy man before. I wld not even pick up the phone if he was home for this show.
Ain’t no way. When you living with an abusive partner, it is a full time job convincing them you’re not cheating at all times. No way she’d be this bold if she was in an abusive situation.
I think every situation is different
I’m not going to call a singles show with a crazy man in the next room. Nope.
Kendra prove why she’s single… even when she tried to hold this woman accountable, the woman in her still got on code and tried to make this woman a victim.
She's Single helping others find love? She needs to take her own advice.
I noticed that too and it was kind of sickening to be honest. Kendra even admitted that she would have had a different tone if a man had the same scenario so this was bias and bs imho
Exactly, when she was calling her out for being triffling i ALMOST subscribed because most of these chicks barely hold each other accountable for shit but then when she started desperately to make the husband look like the bad guy when its obvious this woman is just no good i was like "Yup there it is🙄" and the part with her admitting she would of been harder on a man genuinely made me wish i was living on a different planet because society is beyond ridiculous and extremely one sided in these situations
@@shaylalewis6560 Facts💯
@@shaylalewis6560 Exactly! She went on air talking trash about how Kevin Samuels wasn’t married and is a “UA-camr” giving advice but yet she’s not married and has never been and she’s trying to give advice.. Ironic. 🤔
As a woman this is extremely disappointing that Kendra and others would actually extend her this much grace. This woman knowingly got on a singles dating show while her husband and children are at home. Absolutely disgusting and NOT okay. Then to bring on a therapist?! Are you serious?! Kendra even admitted that she would have treated a man differently and that’s what’s wrong with us women today. We give each other too many passes and try and find a way to blame the man for everything. I’m so irritated with how this situation was handled and how concerned she was about this woman’s safety. What dv victim would be so bold as to do something as trifling as this? Be fr. I’m learning more and more about why men are so tired of women these days, I cannot blame y’all.
It’s very odd because this is a public platform and if she was really scarred she wouldn’t be on here .
Kendra went in on her. She didn't offer her grace at all.
Exactly what fkn victim of a violent man would do this not one not one would be this stupid this is asking for an asswhoop in this is disgusting
THANK YOU! I feel terribly bad for the women who are in unsafe situations and I'm sensitive to the possibility of anyone treating my sisters or mom that way. It's heartbreaking to see. I cannot conflate the two situations as a consequence because it would be diminishing to the women who are actually suffering. This woman is purely trifling. She acknowledged the high likelihood of her HUSBAND AND CHILDREN discovering her infidelity with tacit disregard. This is not the behavior of someone unsafe. She's actually heartless because even if she had told her husband it's over, their marriage is supposed to be sacred and of course he's fighting to save it while she's looking for a new fling in the short term til she gets the initiative to actually file for separation. It's evil and her children will one day see this and rightfully learn to distance themselves from her in the sense of a role model (not as a loved one though, we can learn to love bad people).
Perfectly placed I agree and we need to hold our selves accountable and Vice versa...
She wants her husband to be upset so she can have a DV claim in the divorce. She was smiling while Kendra called her trifling.
she might get an innocent man killed too.
If that's her plan, that's straight evil
You know what!!!!! Wow that hit me you could be on to something that's really shady
@@FaithandNova YESSSSS that's sickening
Imo It was an awkward smile She seems a Lil off based on how she spoke and other facial expressions
I’m am a psychotherapist who treats individuals and couples and she has issues that have nothing to do with her husband and need to be addressed psychiatrically. No judgement. She needs help and you did a great job with her especially the follow up. You’re a class act, Kendra.
The eye twitching, the manipulation, lying, being sneaky by having headphones in so her husband can’t hear, entitled thinking she can have another man while married, it was far too much. She’s a certified textbook female manipulator
Let's use some common sense. If she was in a real abusive relationship, she would not be on Kendras live on 2 separate occasions. If anything the man is a simp walk over, and she feels she can get away with disrespecting him openly. This might be a calculated petty response. She might be as crazy as Amber Heard. I don't trust her at all.
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You on point with this statement. Some real simping going on my boyeee!!
When a person says it's a process to get divorced they are dragging their feet.
Uuh, It IS a process.
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You literally HAVE To be separated for a year… not to mention the court costs, scheduling issues, child custody, maintaining a double family household to single, or even parties involved not cooperating.. it’s so much!! Never been married but even I know that.. How ever still didn’t make what she did right, she was definitely wrong. Hurt people just continue to hurt other people creating a society of wounded human beings.. it’s just so much pain and healing is always put on the back burner. It’s time for us to heal!
It IS a process to GET divorced. It's not a difficult process to START divorce (unless you just don't have the funds)
She didn't hear anything Kendra said. She is completely checked out from reality 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Nobody has the husbands side of the story & it’s blowing my mind that he is being painted as a woman beater.
With absolutely zero evidence and the “victim” stated several times she was in no danger. This is how men get set up and killed.
Cause that’s how woman speak and view men… as aggressive abusers. Even though the black aggressive abusers fit in the alcoholic and tighter descriptions, it’s generally known that black woman or woman in general view black men as aggressive and abusers. It all starts somewhere (by the type of man) and sent from someone (the speakers) and all black men have to pay.
@@war.neverchanges Your statement is waaaaayyyyy too general. As a Black woman, I am offended.
@@sereneamani1713 what was offensive?
@@war.neverchanges Your generalization…. DUH?
I don't understand, why come to a show for people looking to develop relationships now when you supposedly "aren't looking for anything now". So basically, you're looking to string someone along until you're ready to be serious, whenever that would be. 🧐🤦🏿♂️ Any man who takes on that baggage deserves everything she gives him.
She looking to get them guts blown out lol on synagogue ⛪😆💯
Cardi B ft. Offset - Clout
That’s most ppl thinking when it comes to dating today, unfortunately
she a narc!!!
There goes the "tears" instead of taking accountability.....everytime these ladies are faced with reality they start to play the victim 🙄🙄🙄
She could’ve messaged a man privately instead of doing this.
So you're giving her plays to run out of a Cheater's Playbook ..... SMFH
@@kevinlee9929 but why embarrass her husband on a public platform. She clearly doesn’t care at this point so why should I…let her do her😂 she can destroy her family for all I care. It ain’t me and mine and that’s all that matters.
@@dionned.6176 Its best that she be exposed for who she really is. Than to get away with deceiving someone.
🗣Fellas notice how bad most women wanted to hear her say “HE BEATS ON ME “ , just to justify her actions 😤 . There was a PSA and a Professional brought on the show , just to find out the wife is just good ole fashion raggedy and trifling ❌❌❌❌❌
I'm a woman, and I totally agree with you 🤷♀️
@@larissawilliams7445 🤘🏾
Any Man still supporting this channel is dumb 🙄
This world sucks fr it's a overlap alright it's a overlap of bs
Absolutely correct ! Good ole fashion!
A situation like this would be so embarrassing to this man, her children and her entire family. This 1 is sad.
No woman that was in danger would come on live seeking to find a man when the person she’s supposedly in dander from in the next room.
Right
Kendra, I love your show but you have to be fair. Men are also victims of domestic violence. The next time a married man calls in, ask him if he's in a safe place and show concern like you did with her. It's only fair!!!.....
You are absolutely correct!
If KG doesn’t do it, I’ll never watch this again. It’s pathetic.
I agree 😎⚡️💪🏿🎯
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This is so triffling!!!! A man could never get away with this and have support. Smh the double standard is real
Kendra that’s love appreciate all you do for the community may God protect you always ❤️
It's mind blowing and worrisome that she didn't think about her safety before coming on this platform.
That’s how the end up getting harmed. It’s unfortunate
Maybe she knows her husband is a normal guy and not some weirdo like you people in the comments. Not every man is a violent maniac.
@@cali2468 exactly!!! He might be a push over, she has the nerve to be on live seeking another man! If she was crying for help she would’ve blinked
No man would take this woman seriously..
Beat and delete that's it
@@dialac1 lmao, she’s responsible for someone harming her? Yall are despicable
This shows exactly the difference between the treatment of men and women. This women snuck on a show looking for another partner while being married with kids in her husbands house and Kendra G not only acknowledged she would have treated a male significantly different, but she also paid for therapist for her. This is baffling.
I told yall that Kendra was fake 🤣
@@shaylalewis6560 Lmao
It’s the sisterhood code!
Absolutely correct. Women don't want equality until it benefits them
@@Nickswagger100 yep it's that sisterhood code. They never break rank and they cover for each other's BS.
She’s the first teacher I’ve seen on this show. And for her to come on here full of drama, is bold. If her students find this and pass it around the school, her job is now on the line. Schools want to uphold images and unfortunately most states don’t have unions for teachers; so they could easily fire her for this.
New Jersey does have a teachers union so she’s fine.
Everybody a teacher on the internet ..... there's some cda's just like cna's here in nj ... chicks. Be 60 credit subs too.... everybody scream teacher
What's wrong with some of these people. Who wants to deal with that drama. Get out of your situation all the way before jumping into a new situation and bring anyone else into your drama.
Drama attracts drama. That’s all she would get anyway.
I absolutely love that there was a therapist on this show!!!! Great & necessary add on!! And I love that Kendra connected her with the therapist b/c that woman severely needs help before she damaged someone else or her children
Do you have update shows....or like where are they now follow ups.???
This is the saddest display of low self esteem in a person I’ve ever seen. I hope she and the family get therapy.
this is not low self esteem...this is a person that wants others in a physical way but has it too good and will come off as the bad guy and doesn't want that.
What is wrong with ppl? Why would you come on the national interwebs and expose your audacity like this?? This is something else.I want to hear the whole story though.
Edit: She probably just had an argument with the husband. Her ego and feelings were hurt so, she called into the show....Kinda like a "well, I'll show him" move.
Does that make it not as bad though? I promise, I'm not coming at you, I'm seriously asking. I ask because as men, it would seem that ladies can literally do anything AND have most of the ladies support...JUST AS LONG AS she feels she has good a reason. We all know the guys that do this are wack, we don't even need a reason to justify it.
@@jesterarts734 Of course it's as bad. There's no excuse for this kind of behavior.
They said it was staged.
That's very possible. But if that's the case then out of spite, she jumped and permanently destroyed her reputation and life, with this stupid move. Along with possibly her kids lives too. People that know her and her kids and husband are gonna have a field day with this...maybe forever. This is a prime example that you should never make permanent decisions based on TEMPORARY emotions. And why you should only RESPOND (stop, think, let whatever high emotions that are currently present, subside first, think some more, then plan a response, then respond, not REACT (something happens, you just jump), to things.
Someone needs to relay this message to her. That girl is beyond lostt.
@@DrMathOfficial Those are are some wise words. Notes taken.✍
I love that Kendra called her out.
I feel like she's lying about the abuse. At first she said confidently that there's no abuse, now she's saying not now, but in the past there was abuse. Like she's just saying that because it was offered as a "get out of jail free card" and she didn't take it at first. I Agree with that other lady that came on later on, very smart.
If she was actually getting abused she would be terrified of getting caught by him. She’s a liar.
@@upsidedown584 💯 facts. An abused woman will be too scared to even try what this woman is doing
Get a divorce first before looking for a new man to occupy your time. Heal first then date.
@@queenivy8600 facts
@@upsidedown584 these new breeds of social media attention ppl you just never know anymore smh
Poor man could honestly be in the other room ill or on his death bed...whatever the case, this is sad 😔
Yup, EXTREMELY sad. This woman is literally a Psychopath.
Yes
I was actually thinking the same thing!!! And then I was thinking maybe her house wasn't presentable at the moment!
That’s a stretch but okay!🤣🤣🤣
Great advice, Kendra G!
Sweetness you’re calling the wrong line. You need to be calling a therapist… You look youthful now, keep that by just leaving and getting better mentally.
Yes she need to leave she is disrespectful
@@abasidyer3059 yea.
How about a Psychiatrist at this point? This action may be beyond therapist.
immediately
@@DEMediaDrive you may be right
ONLY A EVIL WICKED WOMAN WOULD PURSUE A MAN WHILE MARRIED REGARDLESS OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES. 2 KIDS UNDER 10. THEY NEED THEIR FATHER! SHE CAN LEAVE & LEAVE THE CHILDREN WITH THEIR FATHER.
Men do it all the time
@@mercedes5206 WOMEN FILE FOR DIVORCE MOST OF THE TIME. CHILDREN DO BETTER WITH A SINGLE FATHER THAN SINGLE MOTHER.
Agreed. Real deal sociopath.
Any circumstance outside of her getting hands put on her, I agree. She says that's not the case, and I'm not a therapist, so I'll take her word and assuming she just "outgrew" her husband like alot of these women claim.
@@mercedes5206 Negative. Men aren't out here breaking up their homes, no matter how much they're put through. Women are walking out way more than men are.
She was not in any danger she would not call into a single show to get out of danger.. Kendra that is so gullible to think that she was in danger to move the way she was moving if the guy was in the background and she was really worried about him the last thing she would do is call into a show to get another guy
So let me make sure I understand this. Sneaky married woman comes on a singles dating show looking for another man while her husband and children are in the house but she is treated like a victim? Where they do that at? Huh??? 🤔 The host does her damndest to pin a DV on the husband without even talking with the husband. The host even goes as far as bringing a therapist on to paint the picture of a damsel in distress. Not even once considering the disposition of the husband. If the husband was so violent but he never once thought to look for her while she was not in his presence and on a dating show letting his integrity and honor be destroyed.
What holy hell have we entered?
My thoughts exactly! The woman clearly said there was no DV. Kendra just can’t accept that this woman was just trifling.
Facts! She a whole mess! No good men would want to walk in this mess situation. Plus she got young kids. No and no!!
If this woman was a man do you think Kendra would extend her concerns to this degree? Where is the husband's version? This is the double standard men have to contend with.
@@lukedestiny7657 you have a good points!!
Plus a woman “ therapist “!!
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Kendra being “more sensitive “ to the women when they are even more scandalous than us is the exact problem with today. That’s y the perception of us men is so bad when in reality they do just as bad as us but no one keeps the same energy wit women smh
Yep😔
Who’s the divine appointed leader man or woman? How great are BM leading?
Because yall sit on the internet and cryyyy all day about something like thos. Yall whine and complain soooo much. Kendra went in on this woman and yall still whining. Blk men been weak Thats y yalls perception is so bad
@@Ash2beauty it doesn’t matter who the “divine leader” is. Eve fucked up Adams paradise n he was the only mf on the planet. Women naturally go against us always have. It’s not a problem of us leading. U can’t lead someone who’s gonna do whatever they wanna do….
@@Ash2beauty I dunno, Al Sharpton? As for how great BM are leading, considering one of us lead the country for 8 years out of a borderline depression, I'd say pretty good. Some people, like this BW for example, don't want to be led and are prone to choas. Even Jesus couldn't get everyone to follow him. Some people just want to fail, so I say let them 💯🤷🏾♂️
This therapist is right on point👍
Would love to see the reaction if a man was shitty enough to pull this crap. Would the comment section simply be telling him to leave the relationship and get therapy... or would he get absolutely dragged for being such a toxic human and doing this? This chick's elevator doesn't go all the way to the top.
I agree
For her to not see any wrong in calling into this show is crazy.
SUPER CRAZY. She's gonna get some innocent man deleted!
I don't believe for a second this woman is in any danger. This just allows her to change the narrative.
Most women claim abu'se to gain leverage. Many of them even fal'sely accu'se men of m'olest'ing their children. They are narcissi'stic.
I, overall, like KG but trying to give her an out by pushing a narrative that she was being abused is pretty jacked up... all to protect a trifling ass wife, you'd ruin a man's reputation. Let's believe her when she says she's not being abused. People scared of an abusive spouse wouldn't embarrass them careless online looking for something new while the spouse is in the other room. That's a high level of comfort with showing disrespect. If both parties have checked out. Cool. Finalize the divorce first. Allow someone new a clean slate shot. It's not fair to her or the person that may want too pursue. Based on the facts provided, she is 100% trifling. Not holding her accountable harms her more than helps her.
She was really stretching. Even when a woman is wrong, it must be a man's fault.
@@gman360 - Right! Casually throwing around words like abuse is dangerous to that man's reputation and possibly his career. That pissed me off more than anything.
I didn’t like that perspective either, she clearer has a lot of Issues. (Selfishness) I also think she’s playing into Kendra’s sympathy as a woman, manipulative…
I agree that was some BS... What person is abused goes on an IG live and doest get straight to the point by asking for help...
@Insuarance Agent. I got the same impression also. Kendra didn't need to get a therapist for free!
😱 no respect for marriage or the man, but we ask if she is safe? Is the man safe? Is she causing him mental stress?
In the streets, we call it “monkey branching “ before you release your past , you reach and grasp onto someone/ something else 🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿
This lady is WILD! and is not to be trusted! the sheer boldness of her to call a show like this! I can guarantee she’s still sleeping with him too!
Faaaccttss. The man is pure beta, and this feels like some petty way to get back at him. No abused lady calls in on live. A real victim would be playing with there lives. She's giving me Amber Heard vibes.
@@eon001 PRECISELY
What the therapist said about bridging is so true!!!! People find it easier to leave when there is someone else waiting on the other side. We do not know her situation but she could have handled this differently and not done it on the internet with being married still. I hope she finds help and healing so that she can be the woman she wants to be.
Any word of advice for her husband?
💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽excellent show! this hit home for me, thanks for sharing. she cleared it up with that bridge talk
Don’t bring no one else into your mess. And this is quite messy. Get the help you need first.
very! this is unacceptable
Kendra, you did more harm than good for this woman by not keeping her accountable for her actions. You going in code for someone who didn’t deserve it on a subject that could damage a man’s reputation when clearly innocent was mind blowing to me. This was giving “Let me divorce this man, so my girl Kendra can help me find another man ASAP to deal with more of my problems.” 🤦🏾♂️
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 still married with the dude in the other room... 🚮
Bloody red flags.
Get out of a current relationship/marriage before you try to look for someone new. Additionally, I believe people should remain single after a breakup for some time in order to heal and reconnect with yourself. This is a dangerous game miss ma’am is playing by calling into a dating show while living with her husband.
I agree, the guy could see this and out her. Very dangerous and immature move she made.
@@Nature-ep5cu no man in his right mind would willingly sign-up for this dangerous game. Kendra is right, this could truly set her husband off and get some innocent people caught in the crossfire.
Exactly! Like, she's taking all her bags from the dude she's with (baggage) and instead of going home and putting the bags away and sorting and putting away the stuff in the bags (staying single for some time), she wanted to drive *straight* to the new guy's house (aka jump into a relationship with a new person) and expect him to help her put her bags away.
Thank you Kendra! Glad you are guiding this Lady in the right direction to seek professional help!👍🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽
OH PLEASE! 🙄
I hope you're being sarcastic
Do these women have any self-awareness? What man in their right mind wants a woman that carries on like this? This can't be real. Pathetic.
“Do y’all split the bills or does he pays all the bills?”
-a woman when trying to justify cheating
She was trying to clarify more reasons why she's trifling.
@@crookedsmile4886 🤣🤣
He’s probably paying all the bills with her nasty a**
I think she trying to figure out if she has the means to leave
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I say this with the upmost Respect she needs to honestly heal before she deals. She’s desiring a new man to save her when all she will do is attract the same man she left, she reminds me of the type of woman that would be on one of the snap episodes or girl unlost he would take her out and have everyone feeling like it’s all his fault. Kendra your right double standard for sure thanks for giving real talk to her!!
Wow KG, this is a dating show not a full blown counseling session. In the name of equality kick her off your platform and keep it moving 💯
No..Kendra wasn't going to do that because she lacks integrity. She's only here for the drama. Look at how many of these mentally confused people come on this raggedy Show for Help.
"She belongs to the streets"
The Sun itself would die first before this show ever has equal rights and not be totally one sided due to gender lol don't have any false hope with this
She could have been trolling!!!
This is a wicked woman...SMH
Jezebel is her name.
She 38 and looks so dam attractive...she's glamorous.
Stop it with the hyperbole. She is average looking.
Let’s see if the ladies come in and hold her accountable like they would if Monique was a man doing this. Now if she is truly going through some abuse or something, then that’s one thing. If she is, this ain’t the time to look for a man! Get therapy!
Crickets...
From the jump I was annoyed with her
Kendra held her accountable.....
She is not been abused as she mentioned many times. Abuse is low on the list for the reason for divorce. I would love to know why she want a divorce
Know most women stay on code, she not doing anything wrong lol.
" this some triflin shit" 😂😂😂😂😂
She is the one creating a dangerous situation for herself and her kids. Some women have lost their lives for less. She should just get her grip and leave. She is No baby. SMH
6 mins in… i cannnnnotttt! Since when is stepping out ona marriage and openly looking for another man OKAY?!!! And nonchalant about it while he’s under the same roof! The freak, God help us! Not only that, she admitted, he still wants to pursue their marriage, and she just willy nilly looking for back up, later she go be asking where the good men at. Idk what she went thru but, sis definitely not right! And Kendra i’m glad you held her and her situation accountable
And if she wasn’t safe or was in a dangerous situation, dogonnit the last thing she would be on, is on some singles instagram live!!
lol
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This is the reason men are getting more and more hesitant to marry these days…
It’s no excuse idgaf. I’m a cancer ♋️ that’s a teacher too but she’s a June cancer 😷 lol!!
The healing is your bridge!! 🙏🏽
There was a former UA-cam and Instagram influencer that warned men about women like this but women didn't like his content because of his delivery. These women are a mess, a wreck, trashy, classless, and will do things to themselves as well as the next man to get them hurt and possibly worse. This ish is absolutely trifling and it's time for more women to start looking in the mirror and holding other women accountable.
Also Kendra, stop apologizing for telling the truth. We coddle women for being f'ed up and we beat down the men. This woman isn't in an abusive relationship, she's just quiet so she can sneak and be on the show. How many women do you know that gets beat on that'll get on an internet dating show for everyone to see while she's still with the abuser??? Let's be real. And I don't think it's fair to the man to keep assuming that he may be abusing her after she said over 5 times that he's not. I know that the seat that you sit in is complex because you have to handle these situations in real time so I respect that, but we went from her being trifling to assuming that she's being abused because she's being trifling, that ain't cool.
‼️Well said‼️ #KS4Ever❤️
@@Go-GetterWell said KS🕊
You can join kitten heels samuels in hell sir
LLKS🙏🏾
I can’t believe how much she was going on and on about safety… the double standard is unreal 🤦🏾♀️
Kendra is such a class act. I struggle with being confrontational, even at the expense of being honest with myself. This was a great example that taught me I can be confrontational and cordial. Thanks Kendra
How selfish to even bring someone into this type of drama
Hope her husband sees this and uses it in court, no fault divorce settlement ,she's obviously trying to cheat and probably fking men in the house when he's not home if she's that bold to call while he's home, and she's obviously not scared of him to pull that stunt, she probably got off on the disrespect of it. Trifling to the max
Doubtful even this would help him in court.
I saw a story where a guy had video of his wife having sex with a random man in her marital bed.
She still received the house, car, and half his 401k in the divorce. In addition to primary custody of the kids and child support.
A woman can be a crackhead, selling 🐱 for her next fix, and still, win custody.
Makes me sicc to my stomach
He mess around and be bi-sexual is what im thinking. Now how should she handle that?
@@toyamarti1251 Wow, you're reaching lol, she definitely wouldn't be scared to talk in his face then and not hiding lol, you and the sisterhood are delusional for real lol. If anything the way she's moving I wouldn't doubt she ate some 😻before as well lol,and it sounds like to teach that far you might have dealt with some bi dudes yourself and just projecting.
@@toyamarti1251 🤐🤫