Single Mom looking for a new man while the man she just slept with is still in her home

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  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 2 роки тому +2760

    The fact that she allowed a man she is not in a serious relationship with in a home with 3 little girls is what shook me to the core. One of the children was also in the kitchen listening to this trifling conversation as well. Overall, I was left disgusted by her behavior

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 2 роки тому +180

      Most women are like this unfortunately

    • @afro_buddha4977
      @afro_buddha4977 2 роки тому +161

      @@dialac1 breaks my heart. My parents have been together for over 45 years .. I couldn't imagine random men in and out the house, no Chile deserved that

    • @KingNBlack7
      @KingNBlack7 2 роки тому +102

      This is the MO with alotta single mothers, they’re literally have one man leaving while the other one is on his way.

    • @kenallen8213
      @kenallen8213 2 роки тому

      That was the 1st thing I noticed too. And this clearly wasn't the guy's 1st time there. This woman is bringing a man into her house who by her own admission isn't her "boyfriend" and is just her sex provider. How many other random guys has she brought home? What impact will this have on her children as her kids are well aware of their mother's sexual deviancy? This one was painful to watch. I'm sorry ladies, the sisterhood has to take an L here. There is no defending this low life baby momma.

    • @themessengerfromeast1434
      @themessengerfromeast1434 2 роки тому +46

      @@dialac1 correction: Most “Black” women!!!

  • @18ormorexox
    @18ormorexox 2 роки тому +909

    I think she wanted to send a message to the man she slept with because when asked why they weren't together, she said because he didn't ask.
    She wanted to show him she had options, but it backfired on her.
    She got embarrassed for the whole world to see.
    I know I'm embarrassed for her.
    Woman, do better.
    Also tuck your belly in!!! Jesus!

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 2 роки тому +54

      No, you’re not about to try to save her. She’s trifling, like a lot of black women. You’re trying to put it on something else to save face and that ain’t cool.

    • @justterrell956
      @justterrell956 2 роки тому +92

      She don’t need to tuck in her belly, she need to lose it.

    • @Faith-vu6qs
      @Faith-vu6qs 2 роки тому +69

      Exactly she wants that man but he doesn’t want her

    • @melw905
      @melw905 2 роки тому +27

      Yes it kind of seemed that way. She definitely needs help!

    • @karlbennett1886
      @karlbennett1886 2 роки тому +77

      “Tuck your belly in” 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @Alyssaj1236
    @Alyssaj1236 2 роки тому +2674

    People aren't embarrassed to get on a public platform looking crazy and talking about their degeneracy?!!? That part is just mind boggling to me 🤦🏾‍♀🤦🏾‍♀

    • @elichosen3931
      @elichosen3931 2 роки тому

      We Live in such a coddled, word soft society to where shame doesn't exist anymore. Women just think they can live in delusion forever and expect ppl to take there narcissistic minds seriously. Ppl dont check women anymore because they're afraid of push back, "cancel culture" or the "MOB". Seem like you can't point out an individuals inadequacies nowadays.

    • @mrsBieLamb
      @mrsBieLamb 2 роки тому +78

      I know ,presentation matters and you get what you present.

    • @afrovpunk8627
      @afrovpunk8627 2 роки тому +223

      Her stomach is all the way out. Like girl WTF LOL

    • @joannediaz8978
      @joannediaz8978 2 роки тому +61

      Its absolutely baffling. 🥴🥴🥴

    • @vickiev7341
      @vickiev7341 2 роки тому +52

      @@afrovpunk8627 😂😂😂 right ….just looking crazy

  • @munira5672
    @munira5672 2 роки тому +763

    I discovered this show yesterday and it’s an absolute hot mess but I can’t stop watching it 😂😂

  • @jjayphilly342
    @jjayphilly342 2 роки тому +418

    SHAME needs to be BROUGHT back in style and STAY.

    • @No.Service
      @No.Service 2 роки тому +8

      This has me screaming

    • @HumptyMcFly
      @HumptyMcFly 2 роки тому +2

      Shame does need to return but with todays group of people it won’t be effective. I present our favorite fugitive bri bri and Shaniya as exhibits A & B. We have to raise younger Gen Z and Gen A with that mentality.

    • @LUX_8
      @LUX_8 2 роки тому

      Too late for that.

    • @LUX_8
      @LUX_8 2 роки тому +1

      @@HumptyMcFly Both the entertainment and Rap music industry have plenty examples of BM having no shame. 😕

    • @Zen-cx5tc
      @Zen-cx5tc 2 роки тому

      Agreed

  • @Makeupsokayy
    @Makeupsokayy 2 роки тому +1013

    She has a guy she’s just “dating” around her kids like that. This is ratchet!!!

    • @MimiO23x
      @MimiO23x 2 роки тому +43

      hate that!!!!!!

    • @vadastateyours2489
      @vadastateyours2489 2 роки тому +11

      How do you know the kids are there? Wait her record didn’t look good so maybe you are right lol

    • @Mochalatte143
      @Mochalatte143 2 роки тому +107

      @@vadastateyours2489 she turned around and said something to the three year old minutes before booty call walked in to make his plate. You can see the top of his head as he walked away

    • @Mochalatte143
      @Mochalatte143 2 роки тому +7

      Hella smh

    • @MimiO23x
      @MimiO23x 2 роки тому +47

      @@vadastateyours2489 you see them in the background. walking by. right before they lost wifi & the man came. she even spoke to them. smh

  • @jea4783
    @jea4783 2 роки тому +537

    “My baby daddies don’t give me no problems… one of them I barely know, sooo…” ☠️ ma’am, what?!

    • @josegrullon024
      @josegrullon024 2 роки тому +14

      Lol I could guess what it was. First baby daddy 14 years = that baby daddy got all her work and all the drama. Second baby daddy was a one night stand. He got no drama as she overcame making first baby daddy life nearly impossible. These cruelas evolve.

    • @NewJerseysBrown
      @NewJerseysBrown 2 роки тому

      Sad

    • @majesticgirlgames
      @majesticgirlgames 2 роки тому +28

      Nah cuz I couldn’t imagine barely knowing someone I went half on an entire human being with 😂😂

    • @plantbasedunicorn7995
      @plantbasedunicorn7995 2 роки тому +13

      @@majesticgirlgames same. They say it so nonchalantly 😩🤣 whew chile

    • @KarmaTube5
      @KarmaTube5 2 роки тому

      My exact thought

  • @ceyarusbattle1496
    @ceyarusbattle1496 2 роки тому +156

    She was trying to make that man jealous and push him in a corner to be in a relationship. It blew up in her face now she is embarrassed.

    • @theeblkmermaid
      @theeblkmermaid 25 днів тому +1

      Now she embarrassed 😂😂😂

    • @outtheboxkenya9227
      @outtheboxkenya9227 День тому

      Honestly,I really don't like it when women try to make a guy jealous..it's so immature.

  • @visionsofasia1649
    @visionsofasia1649 2 роки тому +464

    Her posture, clothing choices, and man in her house all give us the indication she's NOT high value. This is a gutter ball.

    • @shaqatwinters3180
      @shaqatwinters3180 2 роки тому +18

      This is at least 50*% of the market men Encounter

    • @levianthony3944
      @levianthony3944 2 роки тому

      Her value is as good as a 7 dollar bill

    • @dexter9496
      @dexter9496 2 роки тому +8

      Look at her grill !!

    • @EarthAngel8989
      @EarthAngel8989 2 роки тому +1

      Iyanla Vanzant will call her a gutter snipe😂😂😂

    • @eriktharead8071
      @eriktharead8071 2 роки тому

      I wish she would tuck her stomach in. Looking 3 months pregnant 🤰 yikes

  • @msreen269
    @msreen269 2 роки тому +497

    “Dating” doesn’t mean you take every man to your home and sleep with them. Nor do you come on a dating site looking for an “honest” man while the man you sleeping with is roaming thru your home. 🤢 TRIFLING is the word for this one.

    • @oliverbiss2747
      @oliverbiss2747 2 роки тому +10

      This what men been seeing women do for years we all be having same experiences and grow standards

    • @valeriesonalas7164
      @valeriesonalas7164 2 роки тому

      How can she take somebody home unless they're willing to go home with her ? The g3nd3r that brags about being k1ngs and leaders but always available for seks with random womxn. .somebody just took him and ensl4v3d him and he has zero accountability on his own actions and his body is not his choice because be belongs to the streets and everybody is free to use him but since he's a kang you can't hold a gend3r accountable that wants to be seen as k1ngs but can't even stay out of different womxns bedrooms. He probably thinks he's the prize and a good womxn will be a submissive wife for him all he has to do is impregnated them..and then expect them to dedicate their life raising a kid and never ask for ch1ld support
      He's not any better than a married bm that asks for submition and sl4very from his wife without realising his teaching his daughters that they're worthless as compared to the sons
      Or the baby daddy's that think since they're m3n they can do anything...one night stands or marriage it's both a joke . They won't stop br33ding and some of these mayles have shamed the host of the show for chosing to be single and rejected this br33ding kinks of m3n...bm are poisonous snakes they'll bite the hands that feeds them

    • @FriesAreGood77
      @FriesAreGood77 2 роки тому +16

      @@oliverbiss2747
      Not all women do this just like all men don't do the same thing. It's an experience that you had with those people/person.

    • @misterhappy5462
      @misterhappy5462 2 роки тому +8

      @@FriesAreGood77 the exception is not the rule. for modern black women this is the norm...because you "queens" are empowered & independant, remember? lmbao don't forget; blackgirlmagic never includes blackgirlaccountability. =)

    • @misterhappy5462
      @misterhappy5462 2 роки тому

      @Marie Baker we already do. :D and btw my criticism of modern black women extends to most american women as well. thanks to feminism they have become mostly useless (& sometimes a liability) to most men. facts!

  • @roslandyeates9482
    @roslandyeates9482 2 роки тому +595

    When she stood up, with that belly out,and said she was cooking,and Kendra said well we know she can cook! 🤣

    • @DangerousDeon11
      @DangerousDeon11 2 роки тому +71

      Kendra is the Queen of shade 🫠 shit be going over all their heads too 😂

    • @ZsaZsaRodeo
      @ZsaZsaRodeo 2 роки тому +7

      IKR

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 2 роки тому +26

      She trying to catch somebody who will like that body 🤣

    • @cryptocandy333
      @cryptocandy333 2 роки тому +22

      Man! She pregnant

    • @anarsuazo
      @anarsuazo 2 роки тому +6

      How she said bad breathed

  • @YvetteSardonis
    @YvetteSardonis Рік тому +49

    This is pitiful and Kendra gave it to her good.

  • @mogetit5999
    @mogetit5999 2 роки тому +1000

    This was hard to watch truthfully because she is every stereotype we as black women should avoid perpetuating at all cost. Bless her and hope she reflects on this

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 роки тому +139

      but why was she so proud in displaying those stereotypes? Women encourage this behavior. If a man tried to correct her, we know how it would work out.

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 2 роки тому +77

      And there’s more just like her and WORSE!! Yet black woken say black men are bashing them when we talk about these types of women

    • @hospitaladministrator3359
      @hospitaladministrator3359 2 роки тому +13

      @Mel Oran man….you’re so right

    • @Mochalatte143
      @Mochalatte143 2 роки тому +85

      @@meloran2571 WOMEN do not encourage this behavior, other stereotypes do. Kendra is an example of a WOMAN that put her in check.

    • @TT-vx2wr
      @TT-vx2wr 2 роки тому +50

      @@meloran2571 if a woman encourages this it’s bc she is probably in the same situation doing the same thing. Otherwise women just shake their heads at it.

  • @bibicayman1790
    @bibicayman1790 2 роки тому +291

    The saddest part about this entire exchange is that she didn't think she was trifling. That should tell you she's definitely not all there.

  • @RoseLavay34
    @RoseLavay34 2 роки тому +281

    Her whole energy shifted when he came in the room 😂😂

  • @jeannineholmes4390
    @jeannineholmes4390 11 місяців тому +20

    I can’t continue to watch. Her view on life and not caring about her appearance is KILLING IT FOR ME!!!!!!!!

  • @StephSteph5
    @StephSteph5 2 роки тому +997

    Honestly, the callers can see how well put together Kendra is when she does the show. Callers please take notes! You shouldn't come on here looking sloppy. IJS

    • @JayDaReactor
      @JayDaReactor 2 роки тому +92

      That's the truth 10 fold. Its like Kendra is the nice restaurant and people come in there all dusty. But what do I know.

    • @bridgettducksworth8081
      @bridgettducksworth8081 2 роки тому +37

      Ohhhh this the message right here is IT Cause chile 👀

    • @Tokirus420
      @Tokirus420 2 роки тому +20

      I don’t think they always know ahead of time when they’re gonna get the call that’s why a lot of em look and act ill prepared

    • @kind2423
      @kind2423 2 роки тому +69

      @@Tokirus420 so be prepared

    • @Lavender_8497
      @Lavender_8497 2 роки тому +84

      @@Tokirus420 don’t push request then. It’s not like Kendra is calling them.

  • @Murza_X
    @Murza_X 2 роки тому +368

    “I’m big on teeth” 😭😭😭😭she needs to be stopped

  • @TheFNPodcast919
    @TheFNPodcast919 2 роки тому +579

    I saw that gut and smile in the first 20 seconds and knew this wasn't going to end well. Kendra and the painting behind her shared the same expression.

  • @J.I.0
    @J.I.0 Рік тому +228

    "I dont believe in abortion so she here" 😂😂😂😂😂 what a great reason to have a kid

    • @Msladyrae92
      @Msladyrae92 Рік тому +44

      And her kid will see this one day and feel so very loved and wanted 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @Iam123-i5j
      @Iam123-i5j Рік тому +22

      Just having kids for no reason

    • @lilwen3
      @lilwen3 11 місяців тому +9

      She needs to start believing in something else then, because this is not working

    • @ms.helpmeet4753
      @ms.helpmeet4753 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Msladyrae92I doubt the child would wish to be dead instead 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @thedreamer3454
      @thedreamer3454 11 місяців тому +2

      That's a good chunk of ppl ...... And she is ridiculous for putting that way

  • @mr.culturefreedom2073
    @mr.culturefreedom2073 2 роки тому +290

    As a man I took having children extremely serious. I waited until my career was off and going. I had a plan for my kids and executed the plan. Now they're in college performing at the highest level.
    So having a 1 night stand baby was out of the question.

    • @msthrillingcommentary1343
      @msthrillingcommentary1343 2 роки тому

      This is a fantastic comment. However you are an anomaly. I spent years celibate bc the men I met only wanted sex.

    • @S1lverspike
      @S1lverspike 2 роки тому +19

      Same bro was married first too.

    • @hurdyb1
      @hurdyb1 2 роки тому +7

      Real talk

    • @Five0Five
      @Five0Five 2 роки тому +25

      My husband refused to date women with children and once we got together we decided to only have children together even if we separated someday. We didn't want our daughter to have half siblings all over. I respect men that only lay with a woman who he respects and that respects herself.

    • @hurdyb1
      @hurdyb1 2 роки тому +13

      I was married when I had my only son. While divorced, I've never wanted to be that guy that had kids by multiple women. Honestly, no woman has come even close enough to convince me to have another kid. It's a responsibility many people take lightly.

  • @iammysistersmirror
    @iammysistersmirror 2 роки тому +640

    I believe she called in thinking it was going to somehow make the guy we saw on camera jealous or commit to her. I could hear hurt in her voice at one point. She wasn't looking for a date, she was trying to get that man's attention.
    Love your show Kendra. So sorry this situation upset you so much. 💕

    • @Calcium-mn9eq
      @Calcium-mn9eq 2 роки тому +31

      This is absolutely false. She didn't even know he had come into d kitchen until Kendra called her attention to the fact that a man was behind her. And then she couldn't speak freely until he left there.
      If anything, she didn't even want him to know that she was on such a call.

    • @SM7SM7SM7
      @SM7SM7SM7 2 роки тому +61

      @@Roccofan Yes. And yet she shot herself in the foot. Any chance of taking her seriously is out the window.

    • @iammysistersmirror
      @iammysistersmirror 2 роки тому +43

      @@Calcium-mn9eq You have your perspective and I have mine. Thanks for sharing.

    • @kenallen8213
      @kenallen8213 2 роки тому +123

      Guys like that who come through for booty calls don't even care whether or not she's on Kendra's show. Dude smashed and is waiting for his cooked food. Lol. This is just a friend's with benefits situation.

    • @Calcium-mn9eq
      @Calcium-mn9eq 2 роки тому

      @@Roccofan she left the room where he was and went to take the call elsewhere. Then he came to her in the kitchen. How does this prove that she wanted him to know she was on such a call?
      You're really so dumb. And I'm not saying that just coz of ur comment here; I've taken cognisance of you from various comment sections. Your perspective is almost always indicative of some dumb sh**.

  • @CosmicGlitterGoddess
    @CosmicGlitterGoddess 2 роки тому +857

    She is trifling. Anyone looking at this, listening to her and what she’s saying, can easily see that she’s trifling. I agree with everything.

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 роки тому +21

      Exactly!!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kenallen8213
      @kenallen8213 2 роки тому +33

      She's a 304, nothing more nothing less. And she don't care. She's gonna do her. I love how she's telling Kendra she's looking for a man but has a smash buddy. This trifling woman literally told on herself. She has a friend with benefits. So she smashes guys with no commitment and then wonders why she can't find a good man. You can't make this ish up.

    • @moniquewade884
      @moniquewade884 2 роки тому +12

      Lena, I saw your comment before watching the video. At first I was like “wow, harsh” but by 1/2 way through I see that you were spot on. Trifling…just Trifling!

    • @houston10
      @houston10 2 роки тому +11

      What makes her trifling? Having casual sex as a single woman and knowing it is leading nowhere so she seeks someone who can lead to more? Many ppl are sexually active while seeking more. Men literally do it ALL the time.

    • @hawdarkshooter
      @hawdarkshooter 2 роки тому +45

      @@houston10 what makes her trifling? You seriously asking that question 🤦🏾‍♂️.

  • @crisssyyy_
    @crisssyyy_ Рік тому +67

    Kendra's reactions when the girl answered when was the last time she was intimate with someone 🤣. Things just went downhill from there. Sis played herself..

  • @rayseyeoman7540
    @rayseyeoman7540 2 роки тому +147

    She came on a live show looking unpresentable first of all, then to have a little girl listening to this conversation and to look for a man while another man is in her house! Kendra, I agree with your sentiments

  • @vanessamoreau7207
    @vanessamoreau7207 2 роки тому +148

    Noticed how Kendra got louder when buddy walked in the video 😂 that took me out

  • @blossomfare7355
    @blossomfare7355 2 роки тому +431

    Kendra, I’m so proud of you! We need more women to hold other women accountable! Your parents raised you well!

    • @EsaFromtheVillage
      @EsaFromtheVillage 2 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @itssummer9891
      @itssummer9891 2 роки тому +11

      no they didn’t being judgmental and “ holding women accountable “ are 2 DIFFERENT things ! she sits around and gossips about these people but why continue to bring these types of people on your show ?

    • @samanthamakhafola3014
      @samanthamakhafola3014 2 роки тому

      Definitely

    • @Sheshelocs
      @Sheshelocs 2 роки тому +15

      They brought themselves to this show and you know how Kendra is so to expect her NOT to hold them accountable NOT judgmental whoever agrees that Kendra was wrong is another one of these women. Group yourself with her😂

    • @vibranthang13
      @vibranthang13 2 роки тому +1

      @@Sheshelocs👏🏽

  • @kennyg6159
    @kennyg6159 10 місяців тому +21

    I was listening to this while cleaning and just happened to look down…. Come on baby you need to take what you can get at this point 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @Robin_Banks
    @Robin_Banks 2 роки тому +59

    When I saw her stomach's hanging out I knew this was gonna be bad..... Y'all stressing Kendra out

  • @oaden0621
    @oaden0621 2 роки тому +284

    "Can't have jacked up TEEF"! She needs on a better outfit. Presentation is everything! 😂

  • @concertvids34
    @concertvids34 2 роки тому +1198

    Salute to the women like Kendra attempting to hold other women accountable. This is exactly why dating coaches are walking away from the matchmaking game because they honestly are trying to help people that are helpless and it can really be exhausting. This is the type of behavior that leads to cycles of broken homes and this young lady can’t even see how wild she looks because her eyeballs are glued to the asphalt of the streets she belongs to. The property tax she pays to reside in the avenue is loneliness, regret, and drama and hopefully one day those costs lead her to move a few miles up standards street to a better zip code.

  • @jeffking9202
    @jeffking9202 Рік тому +21

    You didn't go too hard; I think you didn't go hard enough. The level of delusion in some of these people, is unbelievable. Thank you, Kendra, for speaking out. I'm glad to see that people (women especially) are finally beginning to be held accountable for their own choices, their own decisions.

  • @BrianaKeitera
    @BrianaKeitera 2 роки тому +264

    I will never understand why some people do not like honesty. Everything that Kendra was trying to tell her was true!

    • @malcolmd7050
      @malcolmd7050 2 роки тому +19

      Ppl want that make believe fantasy that’s why

    • @denisegreen6878
      @denisegreen6878 2 роки тому +6

      They say the truth hurts

    • @1CHOZN7
      @1CHOZN7 2 роки тому

      Women hate it because they've been taught it since girls to hate truth.

    • @killdalamb3357
      @killdalamb3357 2 роки тому +9

      I’m not trying to start anything but most of the time it’s black women (not all). They’re just never wrong.

    • @KJ-kd5rx
      @KJ-kd5rx 2 роки тому +4

      I think it's her environment. For her to be shocked that Kendra would call her trifling means she's never been told that her ways are disgusted..

  • @Daug555
    @Daug555 2 роки тому +660

    The self esteem/respect is in the gutter with this woman. You attract what you put out. Her painful laughing said it all. Happy she hung up and hopefully she gets some help and collect her life. This was tragic.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 роки тому

      having a child from a one night stand is crazy....not to mention one night stand and the risk for HIV a child is the least of what couldve happened she couldve gotten a death sentence

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 роки тому +5

      I hear ya! Looking in the mirror, and being honest with oneself is extremely difficult for a lot of people - they just don’t have the courage to do it, truth hurts!
      But that’s the only way to really go about it… admit you have problems, and learn to deal with them - or learn to work on yourself, and actually try to be a better human being.
      Perhaps a productive member of the society… is that too much to ask? I guess for some people it is.
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.
      -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

    • @kisha4040
      @kisha4040 2 роки тому +39

      You don't attract what you put out. Lots of decent women attract dusties however the smart ones know to stay away from dusties

    • @automatic_systematic
      @automatic_systematic 2 роки тому +32

      @@kisha4040 lots of decent women choose dusties, bums, crooks, mama's boys, cheaters, beaters, scammers, junkies and psychos while curveballing decent men. That's unfortunately the way it is, was and will be

    • @ryarbrough1195
      @ryarbrough1195 2 роки тому +11

      This woman is a lost cause.
      Not worth your time.

  • @Llama_vet
    @Llama_vet 2 роки тому +193

    “The spin and belly slap” 😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣

    • @octobersveryown4861
      @octobersveryown4861 2 роки тому +17

      Lol that took me out too. I wondered if anyone else noticed. 😂😂😂😂

    • @Blair332
      @Blair332 2 роки тому +9

      😂 I couldn’t help but to laugh and cringe at the same time.

    • @TamaraInTanzania
      @TamaraInTanzania 2 роки тому +5

      Lmaoooo.....wow ....she trolling right

    • @S.T.G43
      @S.T.G43 Рік тому +8

      Buddy still dumped in her 😂🤭🤣

    • @ygmistique8155
      @ygmistique8155 Рік тому +3

      😅😅😅

  • @tamh8890
    @tamh8890 Рік тому +31

    I love how you hold these people accountable Kendra !!

  • @calikeisha365
    @calikeisha365 2 роки тому +318

    Class, decorum, and basic privacy is something that appears to not have been passed down to this generation. Everything doesn’t have to be shared with the world, from our previous indiscretions, to our unfavorable body parts. I am praying for this young woman, I hope she gets some loving guidance from an elder.

    • @ItsmeCR-g8j
      @ItsmeCR-g8j 2 роки тому +29

      I completely agree! Being honest doesn’t mean reveal everything.

    • @marcrose3403
      @marcrose3403 2 роки тому +6

      There’s no shame

    • @bronzetogold8940
      @bronzetogold8940 2 роки тому +8

      Kevin Samuels was right, I know a lot of bitter women mad at this video 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dantepanik6069
      @dantepanik6069 2 роки тому

      If our parents had social media back in the 80s and 90s, they would of done the same thing we're doing. We be acting like our parents were saints. They were hoes, sluts, and tramps like this generation was. The only difference was there was no social media and it was more hush hush back then.

    • @idomalion6167
      @idomalion6167 2 роки тому +4

      What annoys me is that classy women like yourself are not more pronounced to help these misguided sisters in the community. Why aren't your voices heard?

  • @manuelsilva6494
    @manuelsilva6494 2 роки тому +327

    This was sad to watch. She really couldn't understand how she's trifling and how a guy couldn't take her seriously. No one in they right mind would take her seriously. She's nasty.

    • @LotusFlower732
      @LotusFlower732 2 роки тому +11

      Truth hurts

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 роки тому +13

      No shame whatsoever 😩

    • @Briyonti
      @Briyonti 2 роки тому +30

      @@FaithandNova None at all!!! U see she kept getting up with her stomach all over the place🙄

    • @NunYaBiz1313
      @NunYaBiz1313 2 роки тому +16

      She 4 da streefs, Along With that gap

    • @aminah761
      @aminah761 2 роки тому +3

      Trifling

  • @brielax4441
    @brielax4441 2 роки тому +421

    This is so disheartening to witness. I'm praying for our community: just lost.

    • @teebee6199
      @teebee6199 2 роки тому +10

      No accountability

    • @TyWerks
      @TyWerks 2 роки тому +17

      Just her though not our community

    • @kisha4040
      @kisha4040 2 роки тому +61

      @@TyWerks No it's not just her. There have been many BW on here with babies by multiple men including one night stands. A lot of BM also come on here with multiple babymamas. Lets' face the truth. The Black community is a hot mess

    • @jw26
      @jw26 2 роки тому +29

      ​@@kisha4040 Yep our community is in shambles. Like KS or not, this was exactly what he was saying. You can't make this shit up.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 2 роки тому +4

      ​@@kisha4040 yea I know of a woman who has 4 kids and had a one night stand now pregnant and the guy just went ghost on her

  • @haitiandoll3218
    @haitiandoll3218 Рік тому +20

    I like when Kendra tells them the truth. Tbh some people have zero awareness. If Kendra didn’t point it out she wouldn’t have known

  • @chanelc4805
    @chanelc4805 2 роки тому +516

    I’m glad Kendra is straight forward and let’s people know the truth bc this is ridiculous and embarrassing.

    • @Yobachi2007
      @Yobachi2007 2 роки тому +74

      Kendra should have also been direct with her about having no shame with her flabby layered gut blubber hanging out of her midriff. It's not cute. It's not acceptable. It's way below the standard of Black women of old; but too many of y'all really don't wanna hear that forwardness.

    • @JoyT01
      @JoyT01 2 роки тому +2

      @chanel c Agreed! 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 2 роки тому +9

      She feels like she deserves a high value man for her & her children.

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 2 роки тому +9

      I mean these people don't want or listen though. And the silly black women who act like her are telling kendra to mind her business. So idk

    • @eugenecaldwell9619
      @eugenecaldwell9619 2 роки тому +19

      I'm not saying I agree with how the woman on the show is living her life but I think it was wrong for Kendra to insult her by calling her trifling. If she chooses to live her life that way. That's her business. Kendra's only job is to ask the questions and let the guest present the facts. Kendra always gets mad and takes it personal when a person is honest about their sex life if it's not the answer she wants to hear. Don't ask the question if you can't handle the truth. I think something happened in one of Kendra's past relationships that makes her get upset at other people because of what happened to her.

  • @levelupandmanuptradesman1349
    @levelupandmanuptradesman1349 2 роки тому +24

    Stomach hanging out her clothes, she has no respect for herself or her health. This woman needs a salad and not fried chicken.

    • @ivoryjena
      @ivoryjena 2 роки тому +1

      She needs baked chicken.. lmfao 🤭

  • @teebee6199
    @teebee6199 2 роки тому +89

    She said she's on the show to "put herself out there".. Well she definitely did that 🤦

    • @NickM_FirstofHisName
      @NickM_FirstofHisName 2 роки тому +3

      She flaunted the "curves" several times.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- 2 роки тому

      She put her titties and gut out there too.

  • @lovelight5553
    @lovelight5553 Рік тому +46

    I like Kendra on this one. She kept it real. No smiling and playing with her..💯

    • @thelegend90028
      @thelegend90028 10 місяців тому +1

      She learned that from Kevin Samuels. But when he did it… black women cried about it

  • @TheRealG2024
    @TheRealG2024 2 роки тому +133

    Kendra is 100% correct in her assessment of this mess. I wouldnt deal with her even if were homeless.

  • @Celebeauti21
    @Celebeauti21 2 роки тому +157

    I knew this was going left when she came on here looking all sloppy. She’s attracting exactly what she gets.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 2 роки тому +34

      She thought she look good that why she kept showing that Winnie the Pooh stomach

    • @KoffieConvos
      @KoffieConvos 2 роки тому +19

      She kept tugging on the tights but wasn’t covering up anything.

    • @MsTKO-le7us
      @MsTKO-le7us 2 роки тому +11

      Right put on a waist trainer and go to the gym then have a nerve to be frying chicken I can't with some of these ppl😂

    • @Hereforentertainment2
      @Hereforentertainment2 2 роки тому +1

      @@GETBIG4WARD 😂😂😂😂

    • @AnnnnnaQ
      @AnnnnnaQ 2 роки тому +7

      The stomach hanging out was super distracting...

  • @PipByMac
    @PipByMac 2 роки тому +148

    "Can he have kids already?"
    The fact she even paused before answering was insane. I mean, she has a kid from a one night stand and some other dude she barely knows from another one night stand just walking around...and she wants to judge MEN?

  • @oksure900
    @oksure900 Рік тому +71

    She could not handle the piping hot serving of REALITY that Kendra served her 😂

  • @emerald7938
    @emerald7938 2 роки тому +317

    That was perfect Kendra, you know she needed to hear that, hope she received it and gets healing

    • @IQscan51
      @IQscan51 2 роки тому +38

      She didn't receive it because she hung up on Kendra. Women can't take constructive criticism.

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 2 роки тому +13

      This is a lost cause.

    • @princessshenaniganspresent5538
      @princessshenaniganspresent5538 2 роки тому

      She didn't receive anything. She got in her feelings, hung up and went back to cooking for her fuckbuddy.

    • @IQscan51
      @IQscan51 2 роки тому +2

      @@hammertyme8392 Pretty much

    • @reemma7696
      @reemma7696 2 роки тому +18

      @@IQscan51 SHE can’t take constructive criticism. Misogynists group all “women” in the same category 🙄

  • @kc8747
    @kc8747 2 роки тому +75

    This is so sad. Like Kendra said, you get what you get. You come on here, gut out, with a man in the background who won’t be with you but will have sex with you. Multiple baby’s daddies. One night stands. You come on here requesting a man with no children and laughing like all this is cute. It’s disgusting! I feel sorry for her children.

  • @ItsmeCR-g8j
    @ItsmeCR-g8j 2 роки тому +441

    This segment can be broken down and dissected in so many different ways to learn from.
    From the casual “one night stand baby” with a chuckle and justifying it by saying it was everybody birthday and basically it just happened.
    To the presentation on camera… to being on a platform seeking a man while another one who you just got through sexing, is in the background getting his chicken … to admitting the only reason they’re not together is because he won’t ask her…. To the “I’m just being honest/transparent” justification and more.
    She really didn’t understand how what she presented was sloppiness, triflin and stank.
    For all the women who come on here chuckling while explaining “one night stand babies,” it’s not cute. Because I know know people will respond with “things happen” “don’t judge” “that don’t define a person,” no one has to allow one action to define their whole lives. However, if the person continues with the same line of thinking, it doesn’t allow for improvement.
    Imo, individuals are all about themselves and their immediate wants and desires. There’s no thinking about how and what you present to the world is perceived on a larger scale.
    Example: The 21 year real estate women from ATL.. The overall responses were along the line of “her parents did a good job.”
    When a parent graduates against all odds, the response is wow their children must be proud.
    When someone is a first generation graduate.. Response their family must be proud.
    You don’t just represent yourself. You literally represent so much more. This doesn’t mean you can’t live your life or make mistakes. Don’t sit and marinate in it.

    • @ulquiorra3104
      @ulquiorra3104 2 роки тому

      And when men tell women no it's "if you gay just say that" or "if you broke just say that" or "I know my worth". She's sloppy physically but there are women who look very attractive but is just like her in every way. Then they try to upsell the vagina asking for 100k or more, 6 feet or taller etc. 😒😒shit crazy but good luck

    • @nicolemaker2216
      @nicolemaker2216 2 роки тому +15

      Maybe she’ll do some reflecting later. Saw her comment to Kendra so I don’t know. She should watch the show. I wouldn’t want my kids to see me that way😯

    • @QueenAmour8888
      @QueenAmour8888 2 роки тому +6

      Agreed

    • @vanessabell7154
      @vanessabell7154 2 роки тому +18

      That was a beautiful outlook sis. Blessing 🙏🏾

    • @RipplesnWaves
      @RipplesnWaves 2 роки тому +25

      You read her TF up! This needs to be a pinned comment. And I’m still nauseous from looking at her stomach! 🤮🤢

  • @MrsBDatCreole
    @MrsBDatCreole 7 місяців тому +7

    You told her right Kendra.

  • @AJ803
    @AJ803 2 роки тому +242

    I love how you hold other women accountable! We have to do this more often. I love your show Kendra!!!!!! Kudos. ❤️

    • @nlm3223
      @nlm3223 2 роки тому +24

      @Scorrpio4Lyfe when the conversation is about black women, why do we need to change the conversation to talk about what black men need to do? Why can’t we keep the conversation on black women? Smh

    • @AJ803
      @AJ803 2 роки тому +14

      @Scorrpio4Lyfe you tried sis but wrong context, You hate to see a black woman hold another black woman accountable. And just by your statement this has nothing to do with the current video you watched so push that agenda elsewhere. Black men aren’t just sleeping with themselves it takes two to tango. It’s a lot of black women and other women in this world just like this woman in this video. AGAIN more women need to hold other women accountable.

    • @AJ803
      @AJ803 2 роки тому +2

      @@nlm3223 exactly!

    • @AJ803
      @AJ803 2 роки тому +4

      @td sims yeah that deflection shit don’t fly my way. So she can take that elsewhere 😂🤣

    • @jerseymostwanted
      @jerseymostwanted 2 роки тому +6

      I believe KS was doing the same holding women accountable 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @bernicejohnson851
    @bernicejohnson851 2 роки тому +41

    Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved ✌️🏾✌️🏾🤣

  • @KeyonaThesweetest
    @KeyonaThesweetest 2 роки тому +239

    I applaud Kendra because accountability and self respect is a MUST!!!

    • @PathllDiscovery
      @PathllDiscovery 2 роки тому +3

      @Scorrpio4Lyfe I don't think she's trolling. She was hurt by what Kendra said towards the end. You can see her demeanor change.

    • @michaelcharles6276
      @michaelcharles6276 2 роки тому

      She needs man how bout Dr.phil

  • @jetshark970shark4
    @jetshark970shark4 11 місяців тому +7

    I hope she is just trolling, this stuff can't be real 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lakeishag76
    @lakeishag76 2 роки тому +848

    I used to get so angry hearing the things KS said in his videos. But watching these is demonstrating that he was right on some fronts. At some point accountability has to be taken and self awareness has be attained.

    • @digigum5996
      @digigum5996 2 роки тому +106

      Thank you! We as a community on both sides need to start admitting we have flaws

    • @carl5438
      @carl5438 2 роки тому +176

      Well well well. From our point of view, a whole lot of fronts KS was correct.

    • @tiptip7
      @tiptip7 2 роки тому +95

      You see how she got mad & hung up when Kendra told her the truth. No accountability whatsoever. "Well im being honest" "It just happened" This is sad & crazy.

    • @overit5893
      @overit5893 2 роки тому +103

      Kevin Samuels is his name ..if you’re gonna give him his props then do it correctly

    • @jayschipp7529
      @jayschipp7529 2 роки тому +96

      @@overit5893 the Honorable Kevin Samuels! He would have a field day with this one.

  • @eon001
    @eon001 2 роки тому +223

    The only thing I'll give her credit on, is her requirements weren't that high, but it sounded like she wanted to trade one dusty, for another dusty. My heart goes out to the kids.

    • @karmahleone1196
      @karmahleone1196 2 роки тому +22

      😂😂😂😂 one dusty for another😯😯😯

    • @Magnolia3720Slim
      @Magnolia3720Slim 2 роки тому +48

      She IS the dusty! What are you seeing that the rest of us aren't?!?! 🤦🏿

    • @bry9895
      @bry9895 2 роки тому

      She’s a dusty as well

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda 2 роки тому +1

      @@karmahleone1196 😂😂

    • @Yobachi2007
      @Yobachi2007 2 роки тому +3

      They have no chance 😢

  • @RemIsNice
    @RemIsNice 2 роки тому +50

    The #1 "movement" black women should push is the "protect your womb" movement aka "marry before you carry".

    • @ALUCARDTWILLIGHT
      @ALUCARDTWILLIGHT 2 роки тому +3

      That's quotable if I ever heard one

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 2 роки тому +2

      Agree

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 2 роки тому

      @B Rizzle Sysbm bro sysbm the community is D. E. A. D. it died when they celebrated KS’s death

  • @ashk322
    @ashk322 10 місяців тому +4

    She really came on the show and did all that with a guy walking around in the background 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @meloniebaker7080
    @meloniebaker7080 2 роки тому +382

    She was trying to make that man jealous so he'll commit and it backfired. That was a Pisces in crisis 😩♓️💜

    • @Jt-kl1yy
      @Jt-kl1yy 2 роки тому +65

      Zodiac signs aren't real

    • @digigum5996
      @digigum5996 2 роки тому +73

      Yeah that zodiac shit is just an excuse for peoples ignorance

    • @autumnskai6383
      @autumnskai6383 2 роки тому +54

      Yes I thought the same thing... She wants him and was trying to make him jealous.
      It backfired big time 😩

    • @kayc7442
      @kayc7442 2 роки тому

      @@digigum5996 Or it's an excuse used to justify people's poor behavior. Your zodiac sign doesn't make you crazy, wild, emotional, imbalanced, vengeful, promiscuous, angry, petty, narcissistic or whatever else people try to say they are because of whatever position the moons and stars were when the doctor sterilized the c section tools

    • @thebxsavage
      @thebxsavage 2 роки тому +24

      blame her actions on the stars... NO ACCOUNTABILITY!

  • @DeniseV
    @DeniseV 2 роки тому +53

    “I’m big on teef and hygiene, so can’t have jacked up teef” 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @90Swampfox
    @90Swampfox 2 роки тому +226

    We need to have standards for callers as well as potential suiters. Trifling don't need help finding trifling. They doing good just on their own.

    • @dredey1971
      @dredey1971 2 роки тому +12

      This

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 роки тому +17

      not at all. Put them all on display. Let the world see what's out there in the dating market.

    • @ShequiraMoves
      @ShequiraMoves 2 роки тому +10

      Yes, there needs to be new rules. 🗣be presentable

    • @MimiO23x
      @MimiO23x 2 роки тому +6

      agreed but they just gunna lie, they trifling remember? let them come to light

    • @xtrey19x
      @xtrey19x 2 роки тому +4

      Nah keep it the way it is. When men talk about the nonsense we’re trying to avoid they call us “bitter”.

  • @007charlieangel
    @007charlieangel Рік тому +6

    How you want someone with great teeth and yours aren’t!! That’s wild!!

  • @azure8696
    @azure8696 2 роки тому +82

    I don't think you went hard at all, you were very polite, respectful and honest.

    • @ljthirtyfiver
      @ljthirtyfiver 2 роки тому +5

      Proof that it was never about tone but more about them jus not wanting any criticism

  • @reknowvator11
    @reknowvator11 2 роки тому +83

    dealing with this 5 nights a week is what killed KS

  • @gfirm456
    @gfirm456 2 роки тому +84

    I believe she did this out of spite, to get under that guy’s skin whom was present. Maybe to put fire under his behind to be in a relationship with her. Wrong or right it totally backfired…

    • @justfacts7560
      @justfacts7560 2 роки тому

      You are exactly right butshe so lost. If she had to do that she should already know he don't want her. He got everything he need sex roof to stay under for the night and a meal. What he need a relationship for.

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 2 роки тому

      Agree. Which also shows how stupid and immature she is. Just all wrong

    • @gbej1
      @gbej1 2 роки тому

      If that is her aim then she must be very stupid. You don’t put the cart before the horse. He will continue to smash and not commit and when he’s bored he’ll toss her aside. Worse case scenario they have a kid together shortly before he bounces. Then she’ll start going round saying “all men are thrash"

  • @dehende07
    @dehende07 2 роки тому +12

    Who came here from the Facebook post.... Cuz chileeee I had to come see if this s*** was real 🤯🤯🤯

  • @nightangel3578
    @nightangel3578 2 роки тому +41

    What saddens me the most is that she's a mother and legal guardian of her niece. Her self-respect is in the toilet so how will she teach those children?

  • @paulbartell
    @paulbartell 2 роки тому +42

    lmfaooo Kendra clipped this and posted it IMMEDIATELY 😂🤣

    • @triggerquean7097
      @triggerquean7097 2 роки тому +7

      I thought Kendra was going wait till the weekend but she rolled out of bed and ran into the editing room.

    • @personaliteeplus
      @personaliteeplus 2 роки тому +2

      I said the same thing 🤣😩

    • @cd6741
      @cd6741 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂 Right! They don't usually come up so quick.

    • @triggerquean7097
      @triggerquean7097 2 роки тому +2

      @@cd6741 you definitely right UA-cam never gets the straight out of the oven clips 😹

  • @karongittens
    @karongittens 2 роки тому +153

    You are what you attract!! As soon as people realize that the better off they will be. How you look, how you carry yourself, your attitude, how you speak, the energy you give off ALL matters. That goes for men and women but women especially because they seem to be more delusional about this then the men are.

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 2 роки тому +5

      Yes indeed!!!!

    • @GoddessBlueYozakura7
      @GoddessBlueYozakura7 2 роки тому +12

      False. Women will attract any dude that is thirsty.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 2 роки тому +12

      @@GoddessBlueYozakura7 you said it right “dude”not a man

  • @QueenDesire1
    @QueenDesire1 10 місяців тому +4

    what is wrong with this ladies thinking?

  • @Breezie51
    @Breezie51 2 роки тому +44

    The fact alone that she didn't know why she was messy or why no good men would want her... Is heartbreaking alone.

  • @ricojones76
    @ricojones76 2 роки тому +47

    It started to get too real for her and she clearly don’t want to be held accountable for her actions but shouting “transparency and honesty”.

    • @steelbltz
      @steelbltz 2 роки тому

      This is Black Women's main issue, if many started learning the skill of accountability, omg....the rings would be flying out the stores

    • @seamossperfumes793
      @seamossperfumes793 2 роки тому

      So true

  • @SH-mw1er
    @SH-mw1er 2 роки тому +38

    I cringed when she said, one of her baby fathers she barely know... how disgusting.

    • @cd6741
      @cd6741 2 роки тому +5

      Yes. I just shook my head when she said this. I feel for the children.

  • @tmichelle9669
    @tmichelle9669 10 місяців тому +9

    I think some of these women come on here to make the guy they’re sleeping with jealous. And 9/10 that tactic won’t work. They’re just embarrassing themselves 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @IFatima1
      @IFatima1 4 місяці тому +1

      And he didn't give a dam, he laughed at her. He was coming in the kitchen to see if the chicken was ready!😂😂

    • @African_Mermaid
      @African_Mermaid 3 місяці тому +1

      @@IFatima1😂😂😂

    • @IFatima1
      @IFatima1 3 місяці тому +1

      @@African_Mermaid He just as triflin, he smashing her nasty looking ass smh.

    • @IFatima1
      @IFatima1 3 місяці тому +1

      @@African_Mermaid He was completely unbothered. That laugh said it all!😂😂

  • @Itssimplyjackson
    @Itssimplyjackson 2 роки тому +15

    My mouth dropped. This was incredibly sad.. ma’am do better.

  • @Ms452123
    @Ms452123 2 роки тому +57

    This show is a mountain of low quality potential relationships partners, with a few good one sprinkled in here and there.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 роки тому +15

      the show is a reflection of the blk dating community in general.

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 2 роки тому +2

      @@meloran2571 thats what i was about to say. The ratio is whats out there in real life.

  • @BAFABA
    @BAFABA 2 роки тому +284

    At first I was surprised the kids were in the room while she was talking about having sex and then a whole man popped up 🥴 He didn't even care, just waiting for the chicken to get done cooking. They both need some decorum.

    • @FalaqX
      @FalaqX 2 роки тому +19

      What's wrong with him? He didn't know she was on the show.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 роки тому +45

      Homie knows the loose baby mama who's let him hit on the regular without commitment and throw down in the kitchen. I'd say he's a pretty smart guy as long as he doesn't knock her up.

    • @elichosen3931
      @elichosen3931 2 роки тому +17

      @@FalaqX dude didn't care he just getting non-committed "PSY" he just busting nuts simple. He can do this because of the type of woman she is, she knows that he not taking her seriously hence why she on the show looking for someone long-term. Little does she know no real man will take her serious she is NOT a decent vet for a wife.

    • @jimmiesmith932
      @jimmiesmith932 2 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @luvbig41
      @luvbig41 2 роки тому

      Dude is just there to F her. He doesn't care about what else she does.

  • @morganmoore26
    @morganmoore26 7 місяців тому +5

    SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO END THE CALL

  • @wheeltolive1117
    @wheeltolive1117 2 роки тому +53

    Kendra, we all thought the same thing as you. Thanks for being honest with the guest. At least she heard you and didn't leave her information.

    • @nicolemaker2216
      @nicolemaker2216 2 роки тому +1

      No. She replied in the comments how she really felt.

    • @perdybirdie
      @perdybirdie 2 роки тому

      @@nicolemaker2216 wtf what did she say? What platform did she respond on

    • @wheeltolive1117
      @wheeltolive1117 2 роки тому

      @@nicolemaker2216 Oooh, I missed her comments. Thanks for the update.

  • @RemIsNice
    @RemIsNice 2 роки тому +102

    Consider this woman and what you see across social media. I think a lack of shame is absolutely hurting our people. The outfit, the stomach, the bizarre ideas, the poor reasoning, etc. To get on a platform like this confidently, points to a lack of shame.
    Lack of shame typically means a lack of standards.

    • @Theresaburks0251
      @Theresaburks0251 2 роки тому +2

      Perfectly said

    • @idomalion6167
      @idomalion6167 2 роки тому +2

      Thrashy culture and it says alot about the standard of men breeding and coupling with such women. No class, self respect, responsibility or dignity.

    • @cvzdez
      @cvzdez 2 роки тому

      You are right

    • @bethanyalaina
      @bethanyalaina 2 роки тому +6

      Exactly! This was hard to watch but we need to stop giving women like this screen time. Let's take all this away.

    • @jbo6096
      @jbo6096 2 роки тому

      Thank you....That's why Kevin Samuels was necessary. That is the perfect answer to everything people don't like about his way of talking to these alleged black queens 👑. Lack of shaming got us to this point. As a black man raised by single mother who was nothing like this and now a father myself and have a daughter... I'm so ashamed of the average black single mother and woman bc majority I've seen are like this one ....and have the nerve to have damands and high standards. I already use them as examples for my daughter to not be like. It's sad. Embarrassing.

  • @cameron8500
    @cameron8500 2 роки тому +32

    Proud of you Kendra. She needed to hear what you told her

  • @thechoniclesofkratos
    @thechoniclesofkratos Рік тому +8

    This show gets me through the day at work. Thanks

    • @SunnyKayy
      @SunnyKayy 9 місяців тому +1

      ME TOO!!! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @kingtchala6832
    @kingtchala6832 2 роки тому +23

    This is painful to watch on so many levels.

  • @CourtneeG
    @CourtneeG 2 роки тому +53

    I’m a single mother and I haven’t had a man around her at all. Waiting for a solid God fearing relationship. Women out here are still having men all up in their kids faces with no commitment… insanity

    • @dijauneaiymuan9834
      @dijauneaiymuan9834 2 роки тому +12

      Same. Plus I don’t won’t my daughter thinking it’s ok to have different men in and out.

  • @racquels4529
    @racquels4529 2 роки тому +40

    You told her right Kendra! She's doing too much! And she needs to make sure her foot traffic isn't going to hurt her children! Some of these men are attracted to kids, some are very mean and deadly to kids!

    • @jamessmith8049
      @jamessmith8049 2 роки тому

      Yung Miami is preferred to her mother. Its common sense, sorry.

  • @ogmack3611
    @ogmack3611 2 роки тому +47

    I absolutely love how real kendra keeps it. Don’t matter if you a man or a woman she gonna tell you how it is… I’m glad this woman got to hear that she’s trifling and the look of embarrassment on her face was very satisfying

  • @Ebony_daughterofjudah
    @Ebony_daughterofjudah 2 роки тому +30

    Smh, she got her f buddy walking around in the background, the kids are clearly home and walking around, all while she’s online looking for “mr right”? Damn sis you messy🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @JSouth23
    @JSouth23 2 роки тому +94

    "I'm big on teeth"......She has to be a comedian to say stuff like that.🦷🦷🦷

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 роки тому +1

      Why you say that? There are some people with jacked up teeth out here, and try to hide it....

    • @Hostyl176
      @Hostyl176 2 роки тому +18

      @@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 But she says that with a Michael Strahan sized gap in *her* teeth. Some would argue that means *her* teeth are jacked up, white or not.

    • @bry9895
      @bry9895 2 роки тому +3

      @@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 because her teeth are jacked up

    • @jamesbeebee9970
      @jamesbeebee9970 2 роки тому +3

      @@Hostyl176 😭😭😭😭

    • @Va13chka
      @Va13chka 2 роки тому +15

      Having gaps doesn't equate to teeth being jacked up. The London look is a thing and not everyone has to find it attractive either.

  • @TrudyVanD
    @TrudyVanD 2 роки тому +50

    I’m disgusted. When someone says “they have needs” and yet is looking for something lifelong and meaningful, that tells me they have no control over their actions. She gets what she deserves and that is just a “Fboy”. Not to mention, what the hell was she wearing? Leave something to the imagination.

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 2 роки тому

      How do you think the first kid happened?

  • @marctipp
    @marctipp 2 роки тому +7

    💯💪🏾 You did right Kendra! No man looking for a serious relationship is going to want her after seeing that. She knows what your saying is true. I hope it hurt her enough to change her life in a positive way! There’s lil girls in that home as well…and this is what they see from their mom and aunt. It’s sad. 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @shelleypoo76
    @shelleypoo76 2 роки тому +24

    I'm just grateful you had grace with the situation because this was...something.

  • @ShequiraMoves
    @ShequiraMoves 2 роки тому +51

    We all knew this was going south when she kept showing the MUFFIN!! And she asked for everything of a man that she doesn’t have. This was all bad…

  • @YvesStVil
    @YvesStVil 2 роки тому +64

    That gut screams “yeah you like my outfit…don't even fake the deal…I thought you said you had your girl on the light bill” 🤣🤣

    • @unauthorizeduserr
      @unauthorizeduserr 2 роки тому +12

      Im weak 💀

    • @prodxmayfield
      @prodxmayfield 2 роки тому +12

      Damn you win lol not the project pat

    • @pennyp630
      @pennyp630 2 роки тому +3

      Loved that song!😀

    • @lorjorbor
      @lorjorbor 2 роки тому

      🎯 chickenhead

    • @CRYPTICB3AUTY
      @CRYPTICB3AUTY 2 роки тому +11

      Ayyyyy! “Always in my face, talkin this and that. Girl, I had to buy some rims for the Cadillac”

  • @tonyrobinson7211
    @tonyrobinson7211 4 місяці тому +2

    I can't dispute anything Kendra G said. That chick is just trifling!

  • @coliej6454
    @coliej6454 2 роки тому +71

    There were obviously no Mamas, Aunties, women that really cared to teach her. SHE REALLY DIDN'T GET WHERE SHE WAS GOING WRONG. SMH

    • @user-vg8ox3he1i
      @user-vg8ox3he1i 2 роки тому +13

      Having a disciplined and respectful FATHER would have helped more than all the aunties and random women in the world.

    • @nettaterrestrial86
      @nettaterrestrial86 2 роки тому +3

      @@user-vg8ox3he1i Bigger facts, set the foundation!

    • @Ghostmaker-c4u
      @Ghostmaker-c4u 2 роки тому +1

      Right! Why should he be your boyfriend if you are doing everything for him? They had sex now; she was cooking dinner. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @kingba111
      @kingba111 2 роки тому +1

      That's the problem, she doing what they taught her. 304 training starts at home. Eat the cake Annie Mae

    • @jamessmith8049
      @jamessmith8049 2 роки тому

      @@Ghostmaker-c4u you make no damned sense.

  • @dianemarie4399
    @dianemarie4399 2 роки тому +50

    So sad to see this woman has three children in that house, and they're watching the way she lives her life. The way she was so nonchalant about it makes me know that this is what she does on the regular, brings men home, sleeps with them and has them around her children. She has no self worth, no pride nor dignity and she's on here looking for a decent man when she isn't even a decent woman. The way she's dressed to come on this platform does not help either. Just sad 😥

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 2 роки тому +9

      This is a lifestyle believe it or not. This is what happens after hot girl summer that no-one talks about. A habit of Hooking up with random people doesn’t stop because theres babies around. Ive witnessed it too many times.

    • @mynameisirrelevant46
      @mynameisirrelevant46 2 роки тому

      Hopefully she’ll heal and change for the better ..There’s still hope.
      God’s blessing

    • @lzlz21213
      @lzlz21213 2 роки тому

      @@Fabrizio7171
      Same. I’m pretty sure this behavior is more common than single mothers actually putting in effort to keep their current d*ck out of the sight and minds of their children. They are too lazy to plan to get babysitters and go OUT so just bring him right in the house

  • @Josiah-X
    @Josiah-X 2 роки тому +48

    I love how you ended that explanation Kendra. I feel the exact same way. Many of our people are contradictory hypocrites, when it comes to being the best version of ourselves.

  • @rockrasheed7507
    @rockrasheed7507 2 роки тому +6

    AGAIN!!! SHE NEEDS TO FOCUS ON RAISING HER KIDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!