The Worst Advice On TikTok

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  • @IsaacButterfield
    @IsaacButterfield  2 роки тому +82

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    • @wingwong186
      @wingwong186 2 роки тому +1

      I agree

    • @millyd9891
      @millyd9891 2 роки тому +1

      butterfieldddd

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому +19

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @jakeDsnake06
      @jakeDsnake06 2 роки тому +1

      Do a video where U say what is good advice that's if you want to

    • @jakeDsnake06
      @jakeDsnake06 2 роки тому +2

      @Bruh Bruh stop it bot

  • @SardonicSoul
    @SardonicSoul 2 роки тому +696

    TikTok is litteraly *THE WORST* place for any advice.

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому +3

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @reecemartin453
      @reecemartin453 2 роки тому +26

      tiktok is literally the worst place in general

    • @themookshit
      @themookshit 2 роки тому +7

      and to think most young females are getting there information from tiktok about how horrible men are.

    • @DissTrackTed
      @DissTrackTed 2 роки тому +10

      @Truth Exposedo why tf are you spamming this link EVERYWHERE?

    • @TheCrazyfighter19
      @TheCrazyfighter19 2 роки тому +2

      Na Ifunny is worse

  • @genevievec.8002
    @genevievec.8002 2 роки тому +93

    Every guy I've ever "friend zoned" was either because I was in a relationship, or because their personality was lacking. The unfortunate thing is, most people who feel unattractive start pitying themselves, and frankly, having some dude who's like "ugh, well you'd like me if I was hotter" is not the kind of person I want to date. I genuinely had a guy say something like that to me once, and I had such a hard time preventing myself from asking him if it'd feel better if I told him it's because I hated his personality.

    • @wtr3059
      @wtr3059 2 роки тому +7

      If you like the person but are already hitched, fine. Why are you friends with someone who's personality you hate? Why are you lying to them like that? I'm not saying you're wrong for rejecting them, but by "friendzoning" them, the signal it sends to them is that you do like these people, but find them unattractive, which most people see as being ugly. It's not surprising then when they think "you'd date me if I was hotter". I don't think that's really productive going forward, but that's just my two cents.

    • @cbrown6848
      @cbrown6848 2 роки тому

      Sorry... but gonna have to call major BullS#$% on that one, luv...
      Every single guy ever you friendzoned was due to a personality flaw and nothing at all with his looks or how attracted you were or not?
      OMG what a load of donkey dung...
      Luv, no offense... but you know that is insanely untrue and tbh kinda offensive to someone's IQ if you expect anyone to buy that... I mean super simps will pretend to but we both know no one... including you believes that...
      Again nothing personal... but expecting someone to buy that fairytale of malarkey is somewhat offensive... let's call it common sense or reality shaming...
      A dude that lived in a cave all his life never having met a female wouldn't buy that 1, luv... so quit it! Ty.

    • @KanzlerOttoVonBismarck
      @KanzlerOttoVonBismarck 2 роки тому +8

      I mean, I think being upfront and saying that you hated his personality certainly would hurt at first, but would be better for both of you in the long run. He wouldn't feel cheated, he would actually know there are faults with him that he can correct and, well, you wouldn't be with a guy you didn't like

    • @josephjoestar953
      @josephjoestar953 2 роки тому +3

      @@KanzlerOttoVonBismarck Honesty is the way to go, it'd suck for the dude but it's way better actually knowing your flaws than just moping around and exaggerating all of your flaws in your head.

    • @rallyfeind
      @rallyfeind 2 роки тому +5

      Men don't respect the women that let us down easy. It takes absolutely no spine to just not be honest and string anyone along. The rule is always would you rather it be done to you by them. So I ask you would you really prefer a man treat you the same as you described? Would you like someone to take you on a date only to reveal you are just being put up with (as the basis of even friendship) for a self-soothe to their conscience?
      Just saying I love how often head games is the "considerate option" when it is being retold how you Knew you were stringing someone along.

  • @漠
    @漠 2 роки тому +249

    Best advice for TikTok users?
    Just don’t use the damn app :P

    • @shadowlogical3978
      @shadowlogical3978 2 роки тому +4

      Ethan Armstrong

    • @漠
      @漠 2 роки тому +4

      Thomas Williams

    • @Conssumed
      @Conssumed 2 роки тому

      Quandale dingle

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

  • @GradyRisley
    @GradyRisley 2 роки тому +373

    Yeah! Bro. Been married for 25 years and me and my wonderful bride have never had a fight. Probably because I told her before we got married that "the bed was mine, if we fight, you get the couch". Well, that and the fact we don't have a couch has led a a woderful marriage. I would finish with. Lol. But... I'm not kidding.

    • @theoldcrow6975
      @theoldcrow6975 2 роки тому +21

      That’s good to hear mate! I thought I was the only bloke left who’s in a long happy marriage! 🤣👍
      Most of my friends didn’t make it past the 2nd year… some in their 2nd and 3rd marriage… so congratulations to you mate! Good to hear some good shit for a change!
      😃👍

    • @lunaballuna
      @lunaballuna 2 роки тому +37

      Same with my husband and I. We didn't play any games while dating and it was still interesting and fun. Never fought, spend tons of time together, it's easy to compromise with each other, and we're still madly in love after 8 years. Even though I sleep on the sofa because he snores like a damn bear, I'd still give him the world and he'd do the same. Just had our first kid and people always said "you'll never have sex again" and "your relationship will fall to pieces" and both were so wrong. Marry your best friend and the rest just falls into place. Good days, bad days, they are all wonderful.

    • @theoldcrow6975
      @theoldcrow6975 2 роки тому +14

      @@lunaballuna “you’ll never have sex again” 🤣 I remember all my friends saying the same thing to me 20 years ago when we got married…
      Oddly 🤔 all those friends that said that are on marriage 2 or 3 or back at home with mum and dad swiping away on tinder 😂
      I put a dab of lavender oil on my temples before i go to bed. The wife is convinced it’s helped to stop my snoring 😴

    • @Daniel-nt5uc
      @Daniel-nt5uc 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂

    • @kyleyoung297
      @kyleyoung297 2 роки тому +5

      Bro I’m gonna start a go fund me for your couch

  • @YourSavant
    @YourSavant 2 роки тому +96

    If I was on a date and a woman asked me "do you need help with that " I'd be like yep, sure do. Why thank you.

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому +1

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @YourSavant
      @YourSavant 2 роки тому +4

      @@lauralee6628 Huh?

    • @rypaulie1475
      @rypaulie1475 2 роки тому

      Exactly

    • @SchloopDeFloop
      @SchloopDeFloop 2 роки тому +1

      @@YourSavant probs the Scottish land thing

  • @EvgeneXI
    @EvgeneXI 2 роки тому +192

    I want to be shocked that an app designed to be nothing more than a mind-rotting, Chinese spyware tool is full of bad advice, but I’m not.

    • @markgallagher1790
      @markgallagher1790 2 роки тому +17

      They even banned it in their own county and put in a much better version

    • @DarkAquaVII
      @DarkAquaVII 2 роки тому +5

      @@markgallagher1790 yep!!

    • @toonnoon19
      @toonnoon19 Рік тому

      Its poison. Its almost exclusively responsible for the chaos in this nation.

    • @MrClobbertime
      @MrClobbertime Рік тому

      They use tik tok to rot away morals and intelligence but for spying chances are your phone is doing that for them.

  • @shannonn2920
    @shannonn2920 2 роки тому +14

    I've been married for almost 6 years. We never argued, are best friends. Eventually once we had our twins things got a bit turbulent. Sometimes I didn't like my husband but I still loved him. It's important to remember to take time for each other after kids too. Even just chatting for a few minutes a day.

  • @debbylou5729
    @debbylou5729 2 роки тому +130

    It’s a fact that females do not want semi strangers to sit next to us. The preferred and comfortable approach is to face them. This allows the woman to evaluate the situation and having a buffer. Great advice

    • @omnigar9611
      @omnigar9611 2 роки тому

      get over it, not everyone is out to rape you. you make your own problems half the time.

    • @haydenprice2141
      @haydenprice2141 2 роки тому

      Nope. Nopee nope. Nope. Nope. Never, ever; ever.

    • @flightographist
      @flightographist 2 роки тому +3

      Imagine a world where this neurotic belief is a reality. You wouldn't be able to leave your home, or, at the very least, your movements would be ridiculously curtailed- careful what you wish.

    • @Whooso
      @Whooso 2 роки тому +5

      Men should stop dating women all together. Modern women are ridiculous.

    • @commieslayer6740
      @commieslayer6740 2 роки тому

      The average Modern American 304 wahman lives in a country where she has the right to lethal self defense but vote for the trash politicians who want to take that right away

  • @ReikerForge
    @ReikerForge 2 роки тому +54

    Hands down the worst advice someone can give you on Tiktok is to stay on Tiktok
    Then again, if you're looking for advice from Tiktok in general you might be a lost cause

  • @zzmac7541
    @zzmac7541 2 роки тому +451

    The best advice I was given to get a woman interested:
    offer her a piece of cheese to spark her interest

    • @rowancarpenter5642
      @rowancarpenter5642 2 роки тому +1

      i tried this advice a few years ago and got FUCKING MACED. i shit you not, i offered her a nice wheel of camembert at a club, and she pulled out a can of mace and sprayed me. shoulda known she was a crazy bitch.
      she even took the cheese after :(

    • @TipZ_TV
      @TipZ_TV 2 роки тому +34

      This is valid

    • @lunaballuna
      @lunaballuna 2 роки тому +68

      As a woman, I agree. We just want a piece of cheese. My husband stepped it up and handed me a cheese wheel for our first date. It's why I married him.

    • @excruciatingorgasm9976
      @excruciatingorgasm9976 2 роки тому +23

      @@lunaballuna How romantic

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому +23

      You may supply the cheese, but she supplies the trap.

  • @The_Real_Ozmerican
    @The_Real_Ozmerican 2 роки тому +519

    Try to remember these people are not themselves this is Tiktok, the algorithm got these people, they're now part of the matrix and are the equivalent of a video game NPC

    • @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA
      @ZACHANDJACKSZACHSMAFIA 2 роки тому +3

      Paranoid On Brought Dillusions -JACK

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @themookshit
      @themookshit 2 роки тому +13

      correct nothing more then a empty vessel lost in the system.

    • @TheShadowKnight4.0
      @TheShadowKnight4.0 2 роки тому +6

      Facts

    • @JustTooDamnHonest
      @JustTooDamnHonest 2 роки тому

      So basically they are themselves then. There is such a thing as becoming your character you know.

  • @DarkAquaVII
    @DarkAquaVII 2 роки тому +55

    This made me laugh and I can't believe the relationship advice these people are giving... I'm in a wonderful relationship now, have been for 2 years and my partner is absolutely wonderful, maybe hes not everyones cup of tea, but thats what makes him special to me beauce hes definitely my cuppa tea, if that makes sense, lol. That's the thing, it's different for everyone and the most important is - BE YOURSELF. There is only one person out there for you. Stop trying to fake it and being someone you're not. Stop looking in the wrong direction, stop having high expectations and stop over thinking it. Go for someone who is more compatible with you and absolutely adores you. Hell, I am nerdy, goofy and weird, no one liked me for my true self, but my partner loved it when he first got to know when we were friends for along time. He still loves it now and I love him for the way he is, because he's just as goofy as I am. Sadly, sometimes you do have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince and to appreciate what you have, whatever the saying is, but that's life. When you meet the right one, no matter what, they'll love you for who you truly are! ❤

    • @jayclark8284
      @jayclark8284 2 роки тому

      😂 There's one person just for each of us 😂😂 you've probably never listened to Tim Minchins "If I didn't have you" or "Up Against the Wall" by the Whitlams 😉

  • @intensity.density2208
    @intensity.density2208 2 роки тому +303

    Yeah... I'm totally going to be interested in a woman that deliberately ignores me, or I'm totally going to win her over by ignoring her.
    These people are ridiculous 🤣

    • @kellysouter4381
      @kellysouter4381 2 роки тому +23

      If I'm ignored I assume the ignoring person I not interested in me.

    • @parisfrance6483
      @parisfrance6483 2 роки тому +3

      Lmao 😂 ....life hacks ?

    • @intensity.density2208
      @intensity.density2208 2 роки тому +4

      @@kellysouter4381 spot on

    • @icyhotremy
      @icyhotremy 2 роки тому +4

      If I’m being ignored, I would cry. That’s it. I would cry. Clearly I did something wrong to be ignored. 🥹

    • @JimAirborne25
      @JimAirborne25 2 роки тому

      "That is a lot to unpack." Which is what every psychotherapist she's ever seen has said after the first visit. After probably getting this act during the dinner, I will absolutely take an offer, pissy or not, to "take help" for the bill. "Not for my half, but I wouldn't want to deny you the opportunity to prove just how strong and independent you are. EQUALITY!" When a woman can prove she does the infantry job in any nation's military, held to the male standard, I'll buy women can do it better. And, after a day of that, men can come home, throw the eggplant around, doing all the work on top, holding legs in awkward positions. All the while you're saying, "Deeper! Harder! Faster! Don't stop" while we're cramping and sweating trying to keep from nutting. By the way... ever try waking dude up five or ten minutes after he goes to sleep after exploding? That's a quick recharge for most guys. He'll be ready to go again.
      UUUUGGHHH! The broad with the mic, the claws, and the nausea inducing camera movements... how can I take her seriously?! I can't. I've seen too many of her vids... and, not the spicy kind. I'm guessing she's got that kind of content.
      Maybe he's trying to get to know you, for real. Like people used to. "Show me who YOU really are first..." Why? So I can have you leave me financially ruined when you divorce me and I finally see YOUR real self?
      "Don't be self-deprecating... I'm the only one who should be seeking validation."
      "It works 90% of the time." Yep! Because we cast out the cock line and hooked you. WHIIIZZZZZZ!

  • @darthkittenn
    @darthkittenn 2 роки тому +50

    Dude you’re fkn hilarious😂. FINALLY someone who’s not totally up their own arse. Yes. I can not begin to articulate how much I agree with everything you said. 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @josephkimindiri2613
    @josephkimindiri2613 2 роки тому +5

    The "How you going, wanna tickle mi pickle" got me 🤣🤣@6:00

  • @chad0170
    @chad0170 2 роки тому +18

    I usually find Isaac humorous, but in this video I found his jokes genuinely funny with me laughing out loud throughout. Well done mate.

  • @dadocta5168
    @dadocta5168 2 роки тому +96

    It's because everyone has a camera that makes them on par with proffesional news reporters.
    It's dillusional.

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому +1

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @lesterparker1594
      @lesterparker1594 2 роки тому +8

      In their defense, the “professional” news reporters are pretty shite these days

    • @JessG_20
      @JessG_20 2 роки тому +2

      They actually are on par with news reporters when you consider the state of journalism and news reporting these days 😭🤣

    • @Watsupyoutube
      @Watsupyoutube Рік тому

      Professional? That ship sailed a long time ago.

  • @nobalkain624
    @nobalkain624 2 роки тому +10

    Love ya Isaac, your a funny dude. Thing is besides the 'be yourself' part my experience is almost completely different then yours and I just had my 20 Wedding Anniversary on the 20th. My Wife and I dont share many things in common and do have fights every now and again. The thing is you have to accept that things are not always going to be great. The "Honeymoon Period" will fade. As time passes you will see distance grow between you both. The key is to notice it and address it. When things get hard talk about it and work through it.
    There are many ways people come together and decided to Marry, but regardless the only way any couple stays together is through communication. I hope you are both together till the end.

  • @burtleturtle0012
    @burtleturtle0012 2 роки тому +125

    I love nothing more than women saying "just be yourself" while caking on makeup. Priceless.

    • @agiksf.8998
      @agiksf.8998 2 роки тому +3

      Don't you dare make up shame them 🤣
      True story, somebody said this to me once after pointing out 5 layers of make-up is like wearing a mask.

    • @burtleturtle0012
      @burtleturtle0012 2 роки тому +2

      @@agiksf.8998 I've said the same myself; what do you do if your actions are nefarious? You put a mask on.

    • @nothing-jl2dz
      @nothing-jl2dz Рік тому +1

      And plastic surgeries and fillers

    • @WK-47
      @WK-47 9 місяців тому

      TBF, behaviour/disposition/personality and all that stuff are a little different to wearing makeup, which is (supposed to be) a matter of appearance, so how you present yourself vs. how you carry yourself. A girl putting on a little (and I do mean a little) makeup or doing her hair to a date is pretty much just like a guy wearing some of his better clothes and going in with a wee cologne on him, if we're being real.
      If we're talking cakeface levels of makeup where you can't even imagine what they look like in the morning? Forget about it. Like the other comments, you usually only wear a mask to hide something, and if that's how you go out in public like all the time, that something has to be sus. Add to that spouting cliches about being yourself, loving yourself as you are, or not being superficial, and you're dealing with not just a hypocrite but a vain and disingenuous one.
      I believe the idea that the reason girls start wearing makeup at school even before they're interested in boys, or why women overdo it even when they won't be in a situation where there'll be guys checking them out, is because they're competing with each other, and that comes first before attracting prospective mates.
      That's another rabbit hole, but it'd explain why even girls who don't have some issue that makes them feel they need to overdo it, despite how many guys prefer minimal/moderate makeup and can even get put off by cakeface. Personally, I don't just find minimal or even zero makeup more attractive, but it actually makes me admire the girl for not being so damn fake, maybe even more trustworthy since you can actually tell what they look like in the morning.
      tl;dr: You can run (to a mirror to get cakefaced), but you can't hide (your problems from yourself or others). Keep it real and best of luck out there if you aren't hitched yet, bros.

  • @miguelpadeiro762
    @miguelpadeiro762 2 роки тому +5

    Spending so much time on the internet, your videos of simple and sensible common sense are almost cathartic
    Keep it up

  • @byronroberts980
    @byronroberts980 2 роки тому +28

    Isaac is now in the top 1% of all people on the planet, its not easy to get married AND become a lord all in the same month

  • @ellam422
    @ellam422 2 роки тому +18

    He's right, if you like someone but you cant talk at that moment just explain your busy at the moment, offer to help pay, laying a serviette on someone's lap that you have know for half an hour is creepy, If you are in to specific things tell that person what you want, sitting opposite a person means that you can eat and have eye contact without turning your head, not answering questions is a dick move and it shows you're not interested in that person

  • @wingwong186
    @wingwong186 2 роки тому +44

    me seeing a Butterfield upload before I fall asleep: Y'know, sleep can wait

    • @jakeDsnake06
      @jakeDsnake06 2 роки тому

      What time do you go to sleep at

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @civilbuffalo8790
      @civilbuffalo8790 2 роки тому

      @@KalebPrentice different time zones

    • @MrBobbyCrane
      @MrBobbyCrane 2 роки тому

      @@lauralee6628 What? No, you are wrong because legally you become the full, not partial owner of 1sq-10sq ft of land. It is in my home town of Aberdeen that these plots are and there are 200,000 of them so you are really way off lass. It is literally Common law and it was all over their newspapers and TV in 2016 because people were trying to get a Coat of Arms and that is illegal for a non citizen. They are legally Laird, Lord or Lady and the normal reason, Credit card details... Study harder, hater..

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      @@MrBobbyCrane once you are a part owner of a land title you cannot be denied possession of your land by the other part owners - so that means you have access to the entire title of ?? size - no hate here - just concerned that butterboy is tied up in a hoax/scam conning people out of their money for no good reason = are you part of this little enterprise??? what is your interest ???

  • @gumnut6922
    @gumnut6922 2 роки тому +23

    These ugly hearted people now have an audience of thousands to warp the perceptions of, im so proud of our society.

  • @debbylou5729
    @debbylou5729 2 роки тому +8

    Any hole is the goal….dying laughing. I am going to needlepoint that on pillows to give my granddaughters

  • @ghsty95
    @ghsty95 2 роки тому +5

    sitting next to eachother makes it seem like you're open to other people joining the table lol

  • @cameronchappel9286
    @cameronchappel9286 2 роки тому +386

    if there was a wage gap, wouldn't every company in the world only hire women

    • @nami141
      @nami141 2 роки тому

      I guess businesses hate women so much, they would rather pay the extra x cents a day to get a man in for that same job.

    • @Carey86
      @Carey86 2 роки тому +9

      💯

    • @mutatedburger5193
      @mutatedburger5193 Рік тому +10

      W comment right here

    • @mangofrugtmos
      @mangofrugtmos Рік тому +6

      Good point

    • @Gunnerb52
      @Gunnerb52 Рік тому

      I heard a liberal respond with no...Because men hate women...So they don't want them working. Yeah...They are not the most intelligent. I had a college class and in the text book it had a chapter on wage gap saying it was real. It was the worst put together mess I have ever seen. It provided jsut enough information to support their conclusion. One of them was that male truck drivers make more than female truck drivers. What they did not also discuss was the sub fields for truck drivers that decide pay. Far more men will be long haul truck drivers which pay more. Far more truck drivers will do the hazardous routes such as Ice Road or whatever that show was called. Very few young women will start driving trucks so men have been driving longer so more experience. More men will buy their own trucks instead of working for someone.
      Then they tried the doctors category saying male doctors make more than female doctors. They did not mention that male doctors order far more tests in general than female doctors. More tests means more money. Male doctors are far more likely to be solo practice or in a small set of doctors that they are their own bosses. Female doctors are far more likely to work for a hospital which pays less. Male doctors are far more likely to go into specialties such as cardiologist or neurologist which pays a lot more then family medicine which more females tend towards.
      We had to do a paper on that chapter and I said it was the worst example of "academia" I have seen because it limited their information to fit their conclusion. I researched the rest of the information and proved that male/females in both fields made pennies difference in income.
      I then added fields such as modeling, waitressing and others that beauty ten d to influence and showed that women make far more than males in those fields even when they are comparable in looks. Remember when Fabio was the rage? Even at his prime he made far less than the top female models. It has been a while but I think he made something like 60% of what top female models made.

  • @denimdreaming
    @denimdreaming 2 роки тому +7

    The only good advice I got from TikTok is mixing a double espresso and vanilla milkshake from McDonald’s

    • @tayh.6235
      @tayh.6235 2 роки тому +1

      Okay that does actually sound like good advice

    • @sweetlifeofHoney
      @sweetlifeofHoney 2 роки тому

      Definitely Gunna have to try this

  • @GuardianAngle93
    @GuardianAngle93 2 роки тому +14

    It always amazes me how many people fight with their spouse. Like. Why are yall together.

    • @TCAPChrisHandsome
      @TCAPChrisHandsome 2 роки тому +3

      I don't speak for all of them, but for a lot of couples that hate each other, but don't get divorced it's religious reasons. My family is a branch of Christians, they're called Pentecostals, but they believe that you make your vows to God when you get married, and because of that, you can never divorce your spouse. If you do, then you've lied to God. And to be honest, some people just grow apart, just like friends you had in high school, you may be best friends, but in 10 or 15 years, you might be different people, and the love's just not there anymore.

    • @GuardianAngle93
      @GuardianAngle93 2 роки тому

      @@TCAPChrisHandsome that's a weak ass excuse for not putting effort into your marriage

  • @elliottberkley
    @elliottberkley 2 роки тому +2

    Funny stuff. Also pretty down to earth when you are sincere. If I have anything to add it's this, where you are looking matters. If it's at a party or bar, you have no idea what the other person is about other than partying. If you meet them at the gym, you know they are concerned about fitness. If at school, education. If at work, money. Excreta...

  • @bopply2616
    @bopply2616 2 роки тому +15

    I'm someone who goes into relationships wanting a friendship. Then I let a relationship blossom from that. If I see them as a cool person but I don't have that kind of feeling towards them, I try not to develop a sexual relationship with them. Nothing kills a friendship more than getting romantic and then breaking up.

    • @Dxntoo
      @Dxntoo 2 роки тому

      Isn't that the 'normal' way? I can't see a long lasting relationship otherwise.

    • @bopply2616
      @bopply2616 2 роки тому +2

      @@Dxntoo I dunno. My friend goes to girls wanting to get with them. Like, proper. It always ends up where they're together for 2 months then it just ends

  • @alexkirschner9672
    @alexkirschner9672 2 роки тому +1

    "If she's ugly put it over her face" had me rolling lol...love these videos

  • @moonimaalam1127
    @moonimaalam1127 2 роки тому +5

    In our first date, my now husband asked me what did I find attractive about him,and I just upfront told him he was physically attractive and I liked that his career path and aim matched with mine. He appreciated it greatly. He later told me that he felt that I was someone who would understand his struggle and worth. We were way too old to play "hard to get" game.

    • @Giraves
      @Giraves 2 роки тому +1

      Hard to get game is for people who like drama

    • @MrReef90
      @MrReef90 2 роки тому

      That's gold mate hahaha

  • @Anytth1ng
    @Anytth1ng 2 роки тому +1

    That last message was perfect buddy! Great vid man as always

  • @jorjajaye
    @jorjajaye 2 роки тому +4

    Another thing that people don’t know is the difference between disagreeing and arguing/fighting, people say all the time “oh I had a fight with such and such because they didn’t like something or agree with something that I agreed with” ITS BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS OPINIONS, you can still be a couple and be friends and have different opinions about things ITS OKAY!

  • @jbotts1316
    @jbotts1316 Рік тому +18

    So I was getting ready for work while watching this video and so happened to be putting on eyeliner when you made the roofie joke, I cackled so hard I poked myself in the eye with the eyeliner 😂🤦‍♀️

  • @thedonschannel7800
    @thedonschannel7800 2 роки тому +23

    on the bright side of life, with all these tips we wont have to worry about the world being over populated lol

  • @dogpug11
    @dogpug11 Рік тому +1

    As a woman who's been training in martial arts for more than half my life, and as a 2 time 2nd Degree Black Belt, I face the door!

  • @McSmurfy
    @McSmurfy 2 роки тому +10

    In a world where staying single makes the pockets jingle is a much better life.

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @randybobandy9828
      @randybobandy9828 2 роки тому +5

      @@lauralee6628 wtf are you on about?

    • @themookshit
      @themookshit 2 роки тому

      @@randybobandy9828 its a bot

    • @mistertwist
      @mistertwist 2 роки тому

      @@themookshit I reckon she's one of those tiktok THOTs

  • @ClaudiaMihaela1990
    @ClaudiaMihaela1990 2 роки тому +1

    "That will get her moister than an oyster" omg 🤣🤣🤣😂😂

  • @ThePdeHav
    @ThePdeHav 2 роки тому +3

    Uncle Peter’s type for pulling birds. Go out on the street. Pull pants down. Helicopter Willy. Lady cop will be along shortly.

  • @ThePointlessDeath
    @ThePointlessDeath 2 роки тому +9

    Me and my misses met in 2009 at work. She's into happy hardcore and I'm into death metal.
    It worked that well we now have a 7 year old son. Fuck the dumb advice, just talk to people you like.

  • @teamzero-tag1302
    @teamzero-tag1302 2 роки тому +20

    I got insulted on TikTok and I didn’t know cause I don’t use TikTok .

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @greebj
      @greebj 2 роки тому +2

      and because it was on Tiktok nobody remembered it beyond the next stupid 10 second long wannabe meme video

  • @lukycharms9970
    @lukycharms9970 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve never seen a video just so full of 100% facts hahaha absolutely perfect.
    Everything in this is just perfect **cheffs kiss**

  • @somagai467
    @somagai467 2 роки тому +17

    Last date i was on, the woman stole my hot wings. I really wanted those wings.
    Havent been on a date since.

    • @quickman2663
      @quickman2663 2 роки тому +1

      Damn, i can't believe she did something so horrible! 😤

    • @miguelpadeiro762
      @miguelpadeiro762 2 роки тому

      Holy crap, this is why we need capital punishment, that's awful

    • @Exclusive1011111111
      @Exclusive1011111111 Рік тому +1

      Bruh do u need a gun I can send u one so u can defend your wings next time. 😉

    • @somagai467
      @somagai467 Рік тому

      @@Exclusive1011111111 No thank you.

  • @Gibson343088
    @Gibson343088 Рік тому +1

    That ending bit really is good advice. Work on yourselves guys, good shit will follow when you aren't worried about your own shit. It instills confidence, and confidence is sexy.

  • @cathycallaghan3744
    @cathycallaghan3744 2 роки тому +6

    I can't believe this awesome video was necessary but here we are...as always you're a breath of fresh air amongst steaming piles of internet shit. Kudos 👏

  • @gregbushell4613
    @gregbushell4613 2 роки тому +2

    You are wise beyond your years Lord Butterfield, stay awesome

  • @amandahanks4493
    @amandahanks4493 2 роки тому +16

    Been with my husband 18 years and have 4 kids. Believe me when I tell you that these tips are all stupid. Be genuine.

  • @garnix6390
    @garnix6390 2 роки тому +8

    The Worst Advice on TikTok?
    Take advice from TikTok!

  • @lydiaives733
    @lydiaives733 2 роки тому +2

    Dating is just common sense.
    If you have emotional baggage, dont dump it on them,
    Try not to be clingy
    Do not obsessively pry into their life, it will naturally happen.
    You dont have to jump and drop everything when they text you, reply when you have time and maybe explain if it was a fair amount of time that you hadnt replied.
    You cant tick every box, no point trying, doing so gives the potential partner impractical expectations that you wont hold up to for long.
    Answer genuine questions they may have with genuine honesty.
    Take pride in yourself, hygienic practices show you are taking pride in yourself.
    You dont have to talk to them everyday, if you have to do life stuff take care of yourself, if it naturally happens then go with the flow.
    You wont always know what to say or what to do, theres no time limit on thinking on these things, no rush.
    If the person doesnt seem interested, ask them if they are, if not then just move on. Trying to change their mind by chasing them only works to a point, know when to quit.
    You meet people along the way in life, e.g. joining hobby groups that interest you, social group events etc. Try not to come across as desperate.
    Remember you dont have to be perfect or tick other peoples boxes. You only have to be respectful, not overshare to quickly as it happens overtime. You should try to have patience, you dont have to be a people pleasure or an asshole.

  • @mattdefreitas525
    @mattdefreitas525 2 роки тому +6

    Thank god
    Thank you Issac. Man it feels good to hear someone speak sense about this shit. Dating is so hard, I'm just like you Issac so I'm sure I'll meet someone beautiful like you're lady.

    • @davidhumberdross3387
      @davidhumberdross3387 2 роки тому

      Your

    • @pascalswager9100
      @pascalswager9100 2 роки тому +1

      Apparently You've gotta hang around macas when the pubs close 😁 all the best to You mate, There's someone out there that'll give You all those warm fuzzy feelings 😊

  • @KiwiNotPG7873
    @KiwiNotPG7873 2 роки тому +2

    your comment about the napkin had me laughing so hard for some time I had a painful gut for 10 min after i finished.
    and after i finally could watch the rest of the video again killed me with the smile response tip.

  • @Dani.P.F.
    @Dani.P.F. 2 роки тому +4

    Do not not answer questions. A guy did that to me and I lost interest pretty quickly. I want a conversation, not be ignored.
    Same with waiting 48 hours. That's just the end of the conversation. It's just rude.
    It's fine to take a break from texting, everyone needs time for themselves. But again, ignoring the person/putting in no effort shows a lack of interest.
    Don't play games. It's dumb. People aren't achievements to gain.

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 2 роки тому +6

    My husband and I have been together over 19 years, married 18 on Aug 25. Yeah, we do argue. But I've argued with my female best friend, too. But we learn how to compromise. We respect one another, and we keep each other as a priority. Despite raising sons, we keep the other a priority, which includes our intimate life. Maybe we work because we met in 2002... Married in 2004. And we'll stay married forever, even if only to avoid modern BS dating 🤣💯💞

  • @Shocker-f6z
    @Shocker-f6z 2 роки тому +1

    14:29 I don’t rly care about the whole like crush thing, I still think we should just give out more compliments to strangers just because everyone should aim to be a bit nicer with no agenda attached to it

  • @stevennott6139
    @stevennott6139 2 роки тому +8

    If all those people are the gene pool of tomorrow, there needs to be a sign that says don't jump in or you'll break your neck and be paralysed it's that shallow 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AlmostEthical
    @AlmostEthical Місяць тому

    Lord Butterfield's relationship advice seems pretty spot on. A new career awaits.

  • @johnxforce4
    @johnxforce4 2 роки тому +8

    Scotland must be desperate if they are selling off bits of land so people abroad can call themselves Lords 🤣

    • @KiwiNotPG7873
      @KiwiNotPG7873 2 роки тому

      It actually giving titles for owning some piece of natural heritage site land that they using the funds to keep it ecological protected as much as possible but also benefit other people by giving them a title that in the clause of the contract means it a true title name with no power, not done it for my self yet but have marked to do as gift to me and my partner anniversary .

    • @johnxforce4
      @johnxforce4 2 роки тому

      @@KiwiNotPG7873 I get that and that’s great to do but why do it so you get a piece of paper that’s says you have a title that’s isn’t worth the paper it’s written on.. in the UK and can pay for a tree that is planted in your name..

    • @KiwiNotPG7873
      @KiwiNotPG7873 2 роки тому

      @@johnxforce4 For that reason, to help protect some nature, if you wanting to spend a little money to help protect some nature reserve it nice that you get some thing back to, and you can Legally call your self a Lord and have that title in front of your name. so not bad. But I would not do it if I was just wanting the title and what it means.

  • @Jack-kz4nb
    @Jack-kz4nb 2 роки тому +1

    1:56 literally best couple out there

  • @brittyluvzruben
    @brittyluvzruben 2 роки тому +13

    Hey Mr & Mrs Butterfield congratulations on the beautiful wedding . Love you 2 …

  • @doones4649
    @doones4649 2 роки тому +2

    Never had a fight with the missus Isaac ? , just you wait mate .😂

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 2 роки тому

      It's still the honeymoon phase with out any little Buttlets running around the house and breaking things.

  • @nevada8462
    @nevada8462 2 роки тому +6

    I so love this attitude. Add humor and curse words, and I have found my people. Isaac and Claire are truly admired and should be seen as poster perfect examples of what everyone should want.

  • @jjlpinct
    @jjlpinct 2 роки тому

    Wonderful advice as always

  • @Toby-Wan_Kenobi
    @Toby-Wan_Kenobi 2 роки тому +4

    Best rule of advice: people are more different than each shuffle of a pack of playing cards so advice on what people like is horribly inconsistent.

  • @Srt_resium
    @Srt_resium 2 роки тому +1

    14:53 my tea came about my nose when I heard that

  • @AyoSword
    @AyoSword 2 роки тому +4

    When you're really early to the upload and don't know what to comment.

  • @donjohn2065
    @donjohn2065 2 роки тому

    LOL, "Any whole is a goal"🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rocktag0nal
    @Rocktag0nal 2 роки тому +3

    honestly the Roe v Wade question is valid. from a male's point of view it's a great idea to ask the divisive questions early.

  • @ScienceChap
    @ScienceChap 2 роки тому +1

    The Butts has simply validated my decision never to let my kids go anywhere near TikTok.

  • @Max-mr5dl
    @Max-mr5dl 2 роки тому +7

    Hey i love your videos isaac you always make me laugh ❤

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

  • @V1LL1N
    @V1LL1N Рік тому

    "And if she's ugly put it over her head!" I enjoy your tips waaay more

  • @susanwojcickisnicetwin
    @susanwojcickisnicetwin 2 роки тому +4

    1. Be attractive
    2. Don't be unattractive
    Tutorial over.

  • @troubledesnoyers7017
    @troubledesnoyers7017 Рік тому

    I swear… the “your arsehole smells like vanilla”… lmaoooooooo
    I *died* laughing…

  • @churchofthelambofsat
    @churchofthelambofsat 2 роки тому +5

    As an attractive barely legal teen I personally only sleep with the first guy to run out into the hallway in response to any loud noise.

    • @buddycider3670
      @buddycider3670 2 роки тому +1

      5 hours and no creepy comments. Well done UA-cam community!

    • @josmclove4426
      @josmclove4426 2 роки тому

      😀😀🥂

  • @matthewodonnell766
    @matthewodonnell766 29 днів тому

    'the best way is not to be ugly'
    fucking hilarious

  • @Padlock5219
    @Padlock5219 2 роки тому +4

    Well done on the wedding wish you well to what comes

    • @lauralee6628
      @lauralee6628 2 роки тому

      PITY you are partaking in a hoax/scam = according to common law the part owner of land is entitled to occupy the whole title - POOR ADVICE from BUTTERBOY

    • @Padlock5219
      @Padlock5219 2 роки тому

      @@lauralee6628 fuck how did you know

  • @CaptainCrab414
    @CaptainCrab414 2 роки тому +1

    4:27 I spat me water out lmfao🤣

  • @XX-121
    @XX-121 2 роки тому +10

    i've lived with girls in multi year relationships and when we'd go out to eat and it was just the two of us we always sat across from each other!
    guess like everyone else is saying, don't look to tiktok for dating advice. just be yourself and if the other person doesn't like it, move on.

  • @aysinduarte
    @aysinduarte Рік тому

    Love your sarcasm Isaac. You are a gem 😂😂😂😂

  • @iluvrolaz
    @iluvrolaz 2 роки тому +5

    Probably 85% of my relationships, (95% of my long term ones), were with long time friends... I'm one of the few women that promotes from the friend zone lolol... I hate the awkwardness of new, n having to learn them n let them learn you... I prefer the comfort of familiarity.

    • @ChaosTherum
      @ChaosTherum 2 роки тому

      Yeah wish more women did that. I've never once had a friend say yes when I asked them out.

  • @Angelic_Reaper
    @Angelic_Reaper 2 роки тому +1

    i love how the title is the worst advice on tiktok, and hes trying to actually give good advice in the process. thats good content

  • @benmasta5814
    @benmasta5814 2 роки тому +6

    It's actually kinda awkward to sit side by side with someone you don't know. It's hard to gauge their reactions to what you are saying when u constantly have to turn your head. It makes it look like you are constantly checking on how things are going when you cant gauge it with a glance.

  • @crystaltanner1489
    @crystaltanner1489 Рік тому

    "your butthole smells like vanilla" omg i spit my drink everywhere

  • @hybridhd7436
    @hybridhd7436 2 роки тому +8

    My GF was the one that asked me out on a date because I didn't have the balls to ask her out first. Us men are simple simple creatures and we let basically everything over our heads so if you like us ask us out plain and simple or else we won't know.

  • @distanceyaself8975
    @distanceyaself8975 2 роки тому +1

    That "guy" at 15 mins in is 100% a person who brings an acoustic guitar to a party and says he can heal any pain for anyone because he is a Reiki expert.

  • @Lyndonmaman
    @Lyndonmaman 2 роки тому +4

    People on TikTok are like people who are actively religious; anyone that monumentally brain damaged isn't anywhere near a position to be giving advice to anyone.

    • @tonyfilla2246
      @tonyfilla2246 2 роки тому

      More than half the human population is religous including me.just like a progressive to hate people over a disagreement.

    • @Lyndonmaman
      @Lyndonmaman 2 роки тому

      @@tonyfilla2246 Then more than half the human population, including you, are unfortunate fools that have been suckered in by an archaic and outdated institution designed to control you with easy answers to hard questions. And I don't hate people who are religious, I hate religion as an institution. In fact I'm not a fan of anything that people use to proclaim their superiority over others, or to justify countless and continuing atrocities like war, persecution, slavery, child abuse, racism, torture, or anything like that. Maybe to half the human population, including you, those things are worth your peace of mind regarding the big questions in life, but not to the rest of us.

    • @tonyfilla2246
      @tonyfilla2246 2 роки тому

      Funny how Knowone ever has any fucken balls to respond to me in these circumstances.

  • @lorrainechamberlain7818
    @lorrainechamberlain7818 9 місяців тому

    I love yr commercials for Established Titles, My Lord. ♥️

  • @oldscooljoe6194
    @oldscooljoe6194 2 роки тому +3

    Why is it that i feel like i get the best advice from right winged channels, not just for dating, but life in general. Like: "every hole is a goal" you dont hear that good stuff on the side of far left feminism.

    • @ginismoja2459
      @ginismoja2459 2 роки тому +1

      Butterfield is hardly right wing lmao are you serious?

    • @oldscooljoe6194
      @oldscooljoe6194 2 роки тому

      @@ginismoja2459 i am european, compared to here, i'd say he is centrist, but i like exacgregated for the joke

    • @ChaosTherum
      @ChaosTherum 2 роки тому +2

      Butterfield is definitely far from right wing. At most he's a centrist.

    • @ginismoja2459
      @ginismoja2459 2 роки тому

      @@oldscooljoe6194 I'm also European. He is centrist at most.

  • @TheKrispyfort
    @TheKrispyfort 2 роки тому +6

    Issac's dating game play: don't play games with the other person when dating.
    People are friends, not toys
    Psychological abuse and manipulation as a dick-wetting strategy?
    Sure, why not?
    Because it's fucked up!! That's why.
    I don't want a bloke that obsessively needs to sit in the chair that allows him to see the exits. I like that seat too.

  • @mysteryguitarhaziq
    @mysteryguitarhaziq 2 роки тому +1

    The worst advise of tiktok but the best advise from a married man

  • @mikemontemurro8088
    @mikemontemurro8088 Рік тому +1

    The best dating advice from TikTok, is to not to listen to any of it, and do the complete opposite.

  • @akithhettiarachchi6367
    @akithhettiarachchi6367 2 роки тому +8

    First

  • @MrAnderson5157
    @MrAnderson5157 2 роки тому

    I love him, "No...not ding!"

  • @mat2000100
    @mat2000100 2 роки тому +26

    Bashing TikTok, Trans people, and vegans is getting repetitive. When are you bringing back the Butterfield broadcast news service system?

    • @steibz3262
      @steibz3262 2 роки тому +11

      I'm still enjoying it. Tiktok is the gift that keeps on giving!

    • @wastedpotato4555
      @wastedpotato4555 2 роки тому +12

      Don't let the door hit you on the way out

    • @zbatchDOC
      @zbatchDOC 2 роки тому +5

      The first 15 seconds of this video was made for OP

    • @lokiloki1138
      @lokiloki1138 2 роки тому +3

      Trans is by far the funniest don't even need yo bag them just post there vids they do it them selfs

    • @lordfeff2867
      @lordfeff2867 2 роки тому

      The same with the pushing trans crap and vegan crap when are they gonna stop and stfu? That’s gotten boring and beyond repetitive

  • @schindlerteejay94
    @schindlerteejay94 2 роки тому +2

    Now i see why TikTok is worse for getting advice on relationships than facebook.

  • @kuitaranheatmorus9932
    @kuitaranheatmorus9932 2 роки тому

    TikTok in a nutshell advice nobody should listen to and will never,but the best advice here is Isaac Butterfield and I love it

  • @grayzo105
    @grayzo105 2 роки тому

    I have avoided all bad advice and found the good advice to help motivate and improve my self worth

  • @InterlectualSpoon
    @InterlectualSpoon Рік тому

    You know what's better than most advice? Try, fail, learn