I tried it for about a year and realized most of the women I encountered on these apps weren't really the type of women I'd really want to be with anyway. I dropped the apps and focus on more important things now.
You hit a lot of the key points here. In the long term men's self esteem just gets annihilated from these dating apps. It just ain't worth it. Solid video bro!
I get a bunch of matches on tinder although these days I don’t peruse many dates from said matches. But I’ve found success in my profile with pictures showing social events, hobbies, slight peacocking, and most importantly I feel is some self deprecating humor. So far it’s worked for me.
Perspective. I find it interesting how there can be two people that can complain about the same thing but if those two ppl were put to together they’ll dawg each other. You’re saying what many men & women say.
Bro I know you just uploaded this. But I just wanna say I have this one dude at work that scrolls around like 4 dating apps all the time he's already been scammed twice. I wanna feel bad but at the same time I can't cuz we tell him all the time.
An opinion from a women: You guys think we have 100 or more likes but majority just want to hook up or they have girlfriends or wife and are there to cheat on them .. I even got cheated on because my ex was on tinder , bumble and other dating apps so when I hear a guys opinion I don’t understand because I never found love on a dating app even with 100+ likes and I never felt myself because after talking to a guy they don’t care about the personality they just want sex or they are cheating or they are trying to get over their ex of course I’m not talking about 99% of guys but that was my experience …
What’s the point of having hundres of matches if 1 you guys just want sex 2 half of guys are there cheating on their partner ?? It’s not a dating app it’s hook up apps with the name of dating apps
@@lookingfora6795 not all people are on the apps just looking for sex and not all men cheat on there partners don't generalize an entire gender that's immature
@@lookingfora6795 awww poor you all these guys at your disposal and you make yourself the victim, let me explain what it's like for the average guy on tinder; it's a wasteland, if we do get a match it's some scam artist or women who wants you to join her onlyfans - you have no concept and no idea how lonely it is for an average man nowadays, your comment sounds entitled and self-righteous.
@blacksmith7766 she has no idea, complaining about too many matches that aren't up to her standard, meanwhile generally most guys get zero matches or one match a month if they're lucky and most of the time the matches ghost them, she's stuck up!
I had success using it over the course of a year. A girlfriend for a few months and several first dates. Overall I would only ever use them again if I wanted to get laid. I think the success rate for finding a gf/bf is very low. Even then it's very artificial attraction, entirely based on appearance. I never got flaked on and most dates were enjoyable, but at the end of the day I didn't have much in common with most of the girls I dated.
I actually like dating apps. I believe you have to let the person know what your about from the BEGINNING. To get rid of the time wasters and the weirdos. I've done that and I've met some amazing people who I'm still friends with.
Hope this makes it to you. Real men are ment to be alone. Find what makes you happy, forget all the rest. Don't worry about other people, both who they are and what they have.
I’ve have a good experience on these apps mostly tinder, have used the payment service version of the app and the free version the paid version is better only in that you don’t have limits per day
The black pill youtuber Wheat Waffles touched up on this subject a few times. Unless you're a well above average good looking guy, stay off those apps. You're better off meeting a girl in real life who has real life expectations that match your own.
I’m above average looking. So are a few of my friends. We don’t do well on dating apps either lol 10ish years ago dating apps used to be great. Now it’s all bots, hookers, or attention-seekers.
@@HiGlowiethen your not above average day 1 on tinder and I usually get 7-9 matches consistently. It’s easy but the thing is even most of the very good looking women are on the app only for validation. Take the app as an attraction scale for yourself if you don’t get matches and likes your probably overestimating your attractiveness.
I can tell you know what youre talking about because i did dating apps (tinder, hinge, ok cupid) 19-21, and although I got many matches, 80% of them would actually last more than 3 messages. I actually counted and of the 181 Tinder matches I only got 26 dates.
11:55 that’s dead. You have to be pansexual or bisexual to get the “baddies”. Women you want have been awakened to how men use them. Your approach is often used by males who have no play. Like a beginner. It’s a game to dating apps...
i met my gf on tinder and been together for 2 years, she has 1 best friend and doesn't drink or go to clubs like me, focus on the not party girls and you should be fine
I tried it for about a year and realized most of the women I encountered on these apps weren't really the type of women I'd really want to be with anyway. I dropped the apps and focus on more important things now.
Single moms that's bitter and have high expectations 😅 but they themselves don't meet ip to that standards lol
You hit a lot of the key points here. In the long term men's self esteem just gets annihilated from these dating apps. It just ain't worth it.
Solid video bro!
You are appreciated every day, your video over friends cut me up. You may feel alone sometimes but we arent brother, we aren't.
Hey man! Just found your channel, keep it up. Really like your takes on stuff + you have a very relaxed voice.
As i said, keep it up man!
professional photos in a suit with a rolex the man his ego was so high
I get a bunch of matches on tinder although these days I don’t peruse many dates from said matches. But I’ve found success in my profile with pictures showing social events, hobbies, slight peacocking, and most importantly I feel is some self deprecating humor. So far it’s worked for me.
Perspective.
I find it interesting how there can be two people that can complain about the same thing but if those two ppl were put to together they’ll dawg each other. You’re saying what many men & women say.
Them dating apps are unreal 😭😭 ian even try it but my friend did and he said it’s a no go
Women on these apps are just seeking validation.
Exactly. Most are just on there for attention and play games.
Don’t get on dating apps if you “just want friends”
facts or "just want to go out" and "travel" like it's sad they are looking for men that they will treat like pets@@HiGlowie
Bro I know you just uploaded this. But I just wanna say I have this one dude at work that scrolls around like 4 dating apps all the time he's already been scammed twice. I wanna feel bad but at the same time I can't cuz we tell him all the time.
Very mature of you to realize it's his fault if he doesn't listen to your warnings
How old is he sounds desparate
@@jawatu632645
The scammers are very obvious.
guy gets 10-20 likes? more like 2-5, 5+ if youre lucky
An opinion from a women: You guys think we have 100 or more likes but majority just want to hook up or they have girlfriends or wife and are there to cheat on them .. I even got cheated on because my ex was on tinder , bumble and other dating apps so when I hear a guys opinion I don’t understand because I never found love on a dating app even with 100+ likes and I never felt myself because after talking to a guy they don’t care about the personality they just want sex or they are cheating or they are trying to get over their ex of course I’m not talking about 99% of guys but that was my experience …
But you guys do get like hundreds of matches that's plain facts
What’s the point of having hundres of matches if 1 you guys just want sex 2 half of guys are there cheating on their partner ?? It’s not a dating app it’s hook up apps with the name of dating apps
@@lookingfora6795 not all people are on the apps just looking for sex and not all men cheat on there partners don't generalize an entire gender that's immature
@@lookingfora6795 awww poor you all these guys at your disposal and you make yourself the victim, let me explain what it's like for the average guy on tinder; it's a wasteland, if we do get a match it's some scam artist or women who wants you to join her onlyfans - you have no concept and no idea how lonely it is for an average man nowadays, your comment sounds entitled and self-righteous.
@blacksmith7766 she has no idea, complaining about too many matches that aren't up to her standard, meanwhile generally most guys get zero matches or one match a month if they're lucky and most of the time the matches ghost them, she's stuck up!
I had success using it over the course of a year. A girlfriend for a few months and several first dates. Overall I would only ever use them again if I wanted to get laid. I think the success rate for finding a gf/bf is very low. Even then it's very artificial attraction, entirely based on appearance. I never got flaked on and most dates were enjoyable, but at the end of the day I didn't have much in common with most of the girls I dated.
Have you found some friends and how is your social life now?
I actually like dating apps. I believe you have to let the person know what your about from the BEGINNING. To get rid of the time wasters and the weirdos. I've done that and I've met some amazing people who I'm still friends with.
Ur a girl so dating apps are easier for u
no one
Did u meet girls or boys?
@@SPEAKERMOB no one did what?
@@dont5397 men.. not boys. I'm a grown lady.
Hope this makes it to you. Real men are ment to be alone. Find what makes you happy, forget all the rest. Don't worry about other people, both who they are and what they have.
I’ve have a good experience on these apps mostly tinder, have used the payment service version of the app and the free version the paid version is better only in that you don’t have limits per day
Sad.
The black pill youtuber Wheat Waffles touched up on this subject a few times. Unless you're a well above average good looking guy, stay off those apps. You're better off meeting a girl in real life who has real life expectations that match your own.
I’m above average looking. So are a few of my friends. We don’t do well on dating apps either lol
10ish years ago dating apps used to be great. Now it’s all bots, hookers, or attention-seekers.
@@HiGlowiethen your not above average day 1 on tinder and I usually get 7-9 matches consistently. It’s easy but the thing is even most of the very good looking women are on the app only for validation. Take the app as an attraction scale for yourself if you don’t get matches and likes your probably overestimating your attractiveness.
Even its a trap larve it alone
@@gavinbrown1159no its trash
Professional dating app pics are corny as hell
Hey, I ain't no genius, but why don't you try replicating the same thumbnail as your successful video?
I can tell you know what youre talking about because i did dating apps (tinder, hinge, ok cupid) 19-21, and although I got many matches, 80% of them would actually last more than 3 messages.
I actually counted and of the 181 Tinder matches I only got 26 dates.
Bro l got 1 date in like 300 matches and she blocked me so lm just done with dating in general not for me
@@lsivion9867 please don't use dating apps as a reflection or reference for real dating. The apps are fake!
My buddy gets a new girl like every weekend off hinge.
Nahh😂 I actually did have that app for a time but I decided to get rid of it
waste of time for women too 😢im upset ill never get a boyfriend im 26 already
Do u wanna be my egf
26 already? You’re acting like that’s old lol. You’ll find someone in the next 10 years I bet maybe even in less time
No like fr😂😮 I'm sad😂😂
Cash grabs
11:55 that’s dead. You have to be pansexual or bisexual to get the “baddies”. Women you want have been awakened to how men use them. Your approach is often used by males who have no play. Like a beginner. It’s a game to dating apps...
Bro what are you even saying
i met my gf on tinder and been together for 2 years, she has 1 best friend and doesn't drink or go to clubs like me, focus on the not party girls and you should be fine
Bruh howwwwwww
I really was thinking bout Christian mingling or sum lie that 😂🫣💀