I divorced my wife because the male cashier accidentally touched her hand while taking her credit card. I can’t see my kids, but at least I wasn’t a cuck 🤪
All we have danced in a social setting know that dancing with somebody, doesn't matter if it's a friend, wife or gf of a friend, is something natural and you don't even give it a second thought
As a Latino and going to family parties my whole life; you will literally dance with your mom, your grandma, your cousins, your sis, your aunts, female friends, etc. Like there is difference between dancing together and grinding. And as an unspoken rule, as a man dancing with another woman (like dancing salsa and not grinding) don't wrap your fingers around their waist, just use your palms. It's not a huge deal, but it is a sign of respect.
not true, if your dad likes to get cucked, or if your uncle likes to get cucked then that is their problem. We real men put standards, My woman aint dancing with no one BUT ME. Period.
I love that Aba and Preach used this as an opportunity to talk about their love of dance. It can really be a huge benefit socially culturally and physically
@@unconcernedcitizen4092 Dance is something you actually go do and experience.. AND since this is a conversation, let me ask; Do you go out to SPECIFICALLY dance and meet people? Or do you go out to bars/clubs to drink only and meet people that way? The issue here is that many people feel the need have alcohol as the basis for them to go to these places, AND 9 times out of 10 will only step onto the dancefloor after they've drank enough. Recognize those in these spaces more often contribute to being socially awkward than meshing and mingling with others. You'd be very surprised on how important it is to share movement with some stranger on the dancefloor. That's all I'm saying---- Ya ain't ready for that conversation
It’s not the fact that you danced with his wife for me lmao. It’s the fact that Destiny looked uncomfortable as fuck that I think is probably why it went viral 😂
You dont go to your friends house and dance with his wife while he sits silently in a corner. Fu*kin disrespectful. He only did this because he knew Destiny wouldnt do sh*t.
Y'all, I felt this one. Grew up a competitive Irish dancer for 15 years, took swing dance classes, tap, the whole gambit. And Preach, you hit it on the nail. I was interacting with people way older than me, way younger, different backgrounds, people who I never even would've met without dance. I owe a lot to dance. And that's why the over-sexualization and rhetoric of "that's gay" around any kind of dance has always driven me crazy. Appreciate you guys for speaking on this.
Deadass I appreciate how humble you are about your technique because I've been watching for over five years and not once have I seen you show what you got and you are very talented.
When you dance a specific genre for yrs then stop for yrs it doesn’t matter it is like riding a bike and muscle memory give it a minute and it comes straight back ❤❤❤
This has actually made me really interested in learning how to PROPERLY dance now, thank you for this honestly. I never really realized how important this stuff can be to just helping you get comfortable around women in general, and just have fun platonically.
Just don't take it too seriously in the beginning, and by that I mean be comfortable to look ackward in the beginning, make mistakes, don't appologize for every missed step, I assure you we have all been there and looked terrible at the starting line, just take it with humor and enjoy the ride. It will get better with exerience! What it also does, you automatically tend to care a bit more about your appearance, which is also good. And then look out for times when people meet (often for free in bigger cities), just go there, even not yet being a pro, being there and observing people you can learn too and you will be in the community of others not alone. There was never really even one time that I thought, nah I shouldn't have come, I always went away with a good feeling. Sadly for myself my dancing times are over as I'm walking on a rollator now because of illness and cannot stand straight anymore, and I dearly miss it.
We had ballroom dancing in school, and rock and roll it was a lot of fun, plus all the other cultural dances and some hip hop and stuff on the stage, really makes a difference with your confidence, I am not a good dancer, mostly mid with most dances and only good at some, but I use to get a lot of compliments at parties, clubs and stuff, and not just from women, if your friendly and stuff a lot of dudes appreciate someone breaking the ice and don't always see you as some sort of threat or someone to get jealous of.
You guys are the most insecure losers ever. Making it seem like she's getting grinded up on.. If anything made him lose his girl it's letting her have sex with other men, not a classy ballroom dance.
@@Abdullah-vg1uc the fact she is a ballroom dancer and Aba wasn't making any moves, no, I don't see anything wrong with their interaction. I go to social dances and dance with other women's husbands, and my husband dances with other wives. There is nothing sexual about it. The only way to improve your dancing is to dance with other people, experience their frames, their footwork, etc. Aba and these people were friends, again nothing wrong with it.
@@Abdullah-vg1uc The fact that you think dancing is a sexual thing means you need to go back to school. Or, better yet, go to school when in the mid 1900's and learn what real dancing is, and how actual social interactions happen. Jesus fucking Christ.
@@katieinhops5163 i never said that there is anything sexual about it. And yes you go to a dancing event where people dance with each others partners obviously its not going to be a problem. Thats equivalent to going to a sex party or swingers club. the point is that yall are there to fuck people. Aba was not at a social dance event. Therefore you cant just assume that destiny would be okay with it because he is not in the dancing culture.
Knowing how to engage and disengage with people in different contexts is a healthy and important social skill to have.... even in the dating world! To be able to make a light compliment (like "nice shirt", "nice dress", "looking good!" ) to someone and move on without even waiting for an answer is how you get to create positive contact. People will react positively to you later on. Even you get to feel better from it. edit: dancing with strangers with no other attachment is a very good way to do that
I feel like 90% of the people dragging them are either kids or have the maturity of kids online. Totally middle school gossip vibes. I guess when you’re hated online, anything you do, people will try to project all the extremes to tear you down. The internet has made everyone insane,unreasonable. Appreciate you guys showing your life experience and grounding us in reality
Wow, your wife shouldn’t dance with other men only family once together unless you want a wife who doesn’t respects you, there’s nothing wrong with respect in a relationship on both ends
@@treychapo1898 if that's your boundary then that's cool, definitely agree that respect is important. But we all have different boundaries and what's disrespectful to one person could be totally acceptable to another. And it'll always be a hard sell to impose your values onto others. I'm not gonna feel disrespected over someone two stepping with my girl lol. To put it in perspective, a man would just out himself as a ****ing lame if he thought he violated me by two-stepping to no music with my lady 😂🤣💀 noone is gonna give him props or validate that. It's weak.
@@seasons365 No one said it was Aba’s fault. People just find it so funny to look back on cause it was a red flag their relationship was going down before it did. Knowing what we know now, that’s why we say things like “this didn’t age well.” 😂
Lmaoo yall are assuming is was because of Aba… not once did he say who’s fault or called Aba out specifically lmaooo yall just put it out there on blast by saying it’s not Aba while not once the original comment points too it. lol and yes I do believe home boy smashed and later he felt awkward about it
As a Dominican, it is SUPER COMMON to arrive at a family function with friends and neighbors included, beginning to dance the minute we get there. It's very common to share partners for dancing in majority, if not, 99% of the Latin countries/cultures.
I'm Haitian and same, people will dance with random people at events, family, friends, random people, kids with adults, elderly women and young men etc. Yes there are certain styles of doing the dance that can be more intimate/sexual, but dancing itself is not in any way. This reeks of 1. cultural ignorance, 2. social ineptness. Because even if you aren't latino/caribbean etc, if you're someone that goes out to more than just night clubs, you would have come across people from different cultures dancing or even if you're just a white american, line dancing is quite literally a thing as well that sometimes 2 people will do together.
@@MunkeyyCANA it doesnt have to be another men touchong your girl It could be a women dancing with your girl Espeically if u got a hot prinses that looks like gigi hadid or barbara palvin. Aint gonne let my girl get touched
YES! As a Puerto Rican, we dance with everyone! This was so stupid!!! I dance with my cousins like that! Nothing sexual about it unless you make it sexual.
It's so cool to see you guys talking about social dance. When people introduce their romantic partners to their friends at a social dance, their friends will all want to dance with them, because it's all just about dance. There aren't motives behind it. Partnered social dance is amazing for all sorts of reasons, and the fact that Aba understands what the pandemic did to social dancers just makes me appreciate him more.
@@jimmythecrow As a hardcore raver, most of my raver friends with the same mentality as you ended up with COVID. Some even passed away from it. Even if the government didn't pass a mandate, if I'm sick or others are sick, I don't go out to spread/catch anything. That's just common sense.
Pretty sure they were trolling , since destiny is in an open relationship..and people like to call him a cuck because he lets his partner mess with other people Hes only a cuck if he doesnt mess mess with other people as much..or more . I dont know their dynamic though . He could be a cuck and they just call him that every time his girl interacts with another guy in a way that comes off as friendly.
@@lynnespinoza4736 Common sense ain't that common anymore. These are the morons that would still be spreading the plague if it was as prevalent as it used to be, how did these dummies think diseases like that got stamped out?
@armondtanz why wouldn't he? You so insecure you couldn't handle seeing your wife ballroom dance with another man? Bet you're a petty bitch that gets mad when a guy asks your wife a question.... like "don't give that dude nothing, not even information." Lmao what a loser.
I'm from the Philippines and when we party, we dance with everybody. And when I say everybody, I mean EVERYBODY. Dads, Moms, grandparents, cousins, neighbors, neighbor's cousin, neighbor's kids, neighbor's friend's third cousin. No malice, just pure fun and happiness. This woman was just showing Aba how to dance, yeah no shit because she's a BALLROOM DANCER. I'm a singer-songwriter, I jam with friends or anybody I meet that happens to like to sing too, it doesn't matter if they have a girlfriend or wife or whatever, we're both enjoying music and singing. It's the same thing.
Seniors dancing is one of the most wholesome things you can ever see from another person. The ails they deal with in their later or even Twilight years but they can still become 25 again in the right environment is just beautiful. It simply elevates the spirit.
There’s an older couple that comes to Latin nights at the club I frequent. They are so cute and it’s so uplifting watching them dance. They don’t even do anything complicated. Just the simplest movements but you can tell they enjoy it and really love each other
Yes as a goan, seeing the old folks just forget about their problems and run to the dance floor when the right song comes on is just awesome. And they r damn good at it too. Shame im not very good at jiving myself
@@omar619kamis You're that insecure? Hey, don't worry about it. After you finish going through puberty and then learn how to use it properly, you won't have girls cheating on you all the time. Then, hopefully, you won't get PTSD over something so insignificant any more.
You guys know how to cheer a brother up, thanks for putting a smile on my face. Alot of ppl could use some smiles and just have some fun, bless you two.
Bless you too, have a wonderful day/night and be prosperous in everything you do. Take a deep breath when things get hard and keep being a great person. Much love!
As a young black man that can’t dance for the life of me, these brothers just marketed this style of dance without even trying. I have to get into this one day and learn my own groove!!!
You should learn. It's important to know how to dance with a woman outside of a two step or grinding. My mom taught me and my brothers how and every girl I've danced with has been impressed that I know
@@FoulOwlxno because he was literally a cuck that was in an open marriage letting his wife get smashed by other guys and she left him for a nigga she fell in love with because he was busting them walls down
It aged fine. Their divorce isn’t because she danced in front of her spouse on live. That’s lame. If you can’t trust your friend or your partner right in your face then you shouldn’t have either of them.
@@seasons365 Oh I know, she keeps blowing the case wide open. It's simply amusing that face of his, knowing the context of how well open relationship went for him now. I could see him wonder "Is she really gonna try to fuck one of my friends?" I do feel for Destiny, especially with her now badmouthing him to their friends and such.
It’s really cool how you guys turned a “controversy” into a talk about the love of the art of dance. I don’t think I would’ve know you guys danced like that otherwise
I didn't know this either. I am not a very active person. But dancing would probably a great exercise.. i have two left feet tho.. i think it is a talent innate to some individuals
@@hanjesse31 there are some easy dance forms that are for two left feeters. Some dances are so formalized that you don't even need dancing feet, they teach you everything! Country swing, formal Bachata, line dances, and waltz are examples of these. Then you can move to west coast swing, salsa, and two step!
People like Tate do not understand the concept of community. Personal connections with all walks of life is how to become a better human. I met my wife doing community theatre.
If you social dance, you know that non-dancers don’t get it. I learned to dance by dancing with everyone in the room. If you are dancing to date, you are in the wrong community. If you happen to find someone while doing something you love, it is a bonus.Thankfully, I am starting to see people give props to the creators and cultures that invented the dances. Dance is culture. It is wonderful
I grew up with Puerto Ricans, and learning to dance at backyard parties. I thought I would’ve forgotten everything I learned, but I recently went to a Latin club, and it all came back. Best time I’ve had in recent memory. And every single man that asked me to dance was so unfailingly polite and respectful, even returning me to my friends after the song. I can never go back to regular clubs again, where random dudes think they can just come up behind you and hump your leg. Nasty.
Same! My friend grew up in PR and whenever someone in the family has an event he dances bachata with the women and he literally does it just to be polite and sometimes those women even kiss his cheek and thank him for the dance. There was even a time he danced with an older woman who had a handicapped husband and he even thanked him because she was so happy to just dance!
It's strange how we've become so hypersexualized as a society to then frown on the idea of simply touching, dancing with or hugging another person that isn't your spouse/partner or family.
Yea unless it's with a member of my family...my wife isn't "dand8ng" or "touching" or "hugging"....any other man. And what Abba and Preach don't say in this video is that Destiny and his girl are polyamorous!!!!
A man with proper dancing moves will exponentially increase his chances of meeting someone. Not saying ALL women gonna fall for it, but it will garner attention in a good way.
Hello darkness, my old friend I've come to talk with you again Because a vision softly creeping Left its seeds while I was sleeping And the vision that was planted in my brain Still remains Within the sound of silence
As a Christian woman, I checked with one of the Elder women at my church regarding Ballroom dancing (I ballroom dance) and if it is a sin. Her answer was “no, it’s not sin until it is” So, I can ballroom dance without guilt. Trying to get my boyfriend to try but he doesn’t mind that I dance with other men.
Dance is amazing. I'd love to hear a conversation about how salsa changed the definition of masculinity. At 22 it made a huge change for me and normalized the opposite sex and broke a lot of stereotypes that was inherent in growing up as a New York kid. I could really relate to that comment Aba made in this video. The NYC salsa scene made a major impact on my life and I'm grateful for how it changed me as a man. Today it's also super rewarding to watch beginners progress, because you get to see not only how they improve and feel better about themselves but also how they grow into more well rounded adults.
Shout out to you for being very respectful where you put your hands while dancing. Gave destiny and her that respect while still having fun. I think it was perfectly normal, no cuck shit.
To be fair, that's where your hands are supposed to go if you want to be able to lead. A hand on a follow's waist, for example, can't lead much of anything.
Omg 🤦♀️ I grew up in a Latina household and I’ve seen my mother dance with my aunts , cousins , uncles, friends .. this is the way IT IS! You’re showing love and appreciation and happiness to the Art of dancing 💃🏼
Yall are missing the whole point. Context matters dancing at a family event where evryone is there to have fun is not the same at dancing at your feinds room where the plan was not to dance
Learning to dance was one of the best things I learned. I courted my wife by having her be my dance partner when I taught swing dancing. She actually got the same $50 an hour to teach as I did. Later on, when we were married, she would go out contra dancing on Thursdays by herself because I had to teach school the next day. I wasn't going to stop her from dancing just because I couldn't.
This is because you are a secure man in both yourself and your relationship, and realise dancing isn’t sexual unless you make it that way. Plus you are mature enough to understand that just because you can’t do something you enjoy in the moment doesn’t mean you have to stop other people doing the same activity. Well done my man 😊
@@debwilson1436 imagine letting your girl dance with other men when throughout most of time in most cultures and in most religions that’s seen as somethings thats completely not allowed, you western people are truly degenerate and have lost it all
man I can't dance to save my life, but I watched this live and had no reaction to it at all. It wouldn't even cross my mind that this is something to be concerned about.
You know what's funny... I remember being a young, ignorant teenager and making fun of people for their lifestyle choices. Then I started to learn about different cultures and ways that people express themselves. Then I quickly realized that making fun of people for harmless lifestyle choices was extremely immature and pointless. I was a little embarrassed that I didn't realize this until my teenage years. Fast-foward 20+ years later, and I still see grown men who can't grasp that basic concept. It's crazy to me that people out here really think it's cool to project their standards of a relationship on to a man who is living by the standards and boundaries that he WANTS to live by.
Not all standards are the same and some are inherently embarrassing and pitiful. Don’t act like cuckery or financial domination are anything close to healthy stable relationships worthy of respect
@@bobbilly87 Thank you for proving my point. You just gave a textbook example of what it means to project on to others. You're defining what's "inherently" embarrassing and pitiful based on your own subjective feelings. Also, notice how I didn't say anything about healthy relationships or respecting relationships. But you still felt the need to bring that up. I hate to say it... but you're acting just like I did back when I was a young, ignorant teenager.
One of the most humbling and exciting experiences I've ever had was when I took dancing classes. I lost a bet, which was why I took them, but hands down, the best thing ever. Made life long friends from it too. 🙏
As a mexican woman who didnt get comfortable woth dancing till recently, i advise yall to learn and dont be embarrassed. Didnt help my self esteem when all the other girls were so good at it and i was awkward af 😅 but its so nice to be able to dance with your person. Nothing worse than knowing they want to dance and youre just being a party pooper.
I do agree with you here, but just a point with the internet as vast as it is, explore! use it as a learning experience at your fingertips not just staying In the little niche arena that makes you comfortable. Use it to educate, to learn about things to find out why people think and do things with the comfort of knowing you can turn it off if it is obscene, but at least try to expand your mind with it. Both your brain and being online have unlimited possibilities if you are open enough to the potential of it all
I do this on occasion, but put a spin on it did you at least learn something new or something different? Yes the internet can be a waste of time if you choose to use it that way it can also be used as an individual/independent classroom
This really helps. I feel like i need to take some classes to get out of my shell. I feel like alot of people especially younger generation that we are just distant and lack of community. I feel so jaded and dislike people but this video really restored my desire for connection.
@mr.m6038 i know but we owe to ourselves to find SOME outlet. Something. This disconnect and lack of community just isn't worth it. I'm not saying it's easy.
I can’t help but to think that anyone who reacts like that to a man and a woman dancing, never interact with the opposite sex outside of a sexual context. They’re not making it easier for themselves to learn how to connect with women/men when they make it so dramatic
Problem is they don’t wanna learn how to speak to the opposite sex. Then you have these red pill idiots and Andrew tates only prioritizing sex and boys never learn how to actually speak and interact with women. It’s so sad
Nah ok. Depends. If it’s someone like Aba dancing with my girl. I would know there’s no malicious intent behind it. But some ppl really be sneaky. Anyways, I haven’t had a gf in years but I don’t think I would react positively to that. Is it a problem? Maybe but that’s how I’ll instinctively feel.
@@wespicedmemes You gotta get over that. If a girl feels you sweating over something so inconsequential, YOU'RE going to be perceived as insecure. Yes, there ARE sneaky guys out there, but you've gotta trust your partner to respect you and shoot down those advances. My wife has danced with guys like that and she just points to me in the crowd and says, "that's my husband". If the guy keeps advancing, she just walks away. She's a grown woman who can handle herself. Meanwhile, I just wave and laugh at the guy desperately trying to get somewhere that he's not going to get to. You gotta understand, my wife LOVES dancing! She's a dance instructor! She's no stranger to this type of behavior, but it honestly rarely ever happens. In the years we've been together there's maybe been like 1 or 2 guys that have acted like this. And the entire club knows who those guys are because it's not just my wife that they try their stupid shit on, and they usually get ostracized by everyone at the club and end up at the bar alone because nobody wants to talk to a guy trying to wreck relationships.
As a dancer it’s really sad to see this. I have loved dancing for a long time and it’s sad that there are both men and women that throw fits when situations like this come up.
@@Tave510 it isn't. There's a long range between twerking on a dude and ballroom. Even between sensual Bachata and formal Bachata. Most of the time dancers are thinking about the music and dance form, not how they want to bang that person.
As a professional dancer myself - I appreciate this conversation because far too many times people assume me dancing with partners or something is always sexual OR me and that person is hooking up and it’s so annoying. That is never the case. It’s two people who share a common skill of dance. Also - dance is the most strenuous activity of them all because it requires you to use every single part of your body and it improves flexibility, stamina and overall mental health. For me personally, when I felt depressed and wanted to end it all, I turned to dancing and it literally distracted me from all bad in my life. I met great friends. I had life changing experiences. Dancing is also great networking and money making opportunities.
The more annoying this for me however in this manosphere is that if I tell a dude I am a dancer - he automatically assumes I’m a stripper. Relax. I am not. There are several different types of dancing that doesn’t require me having money thrown at me and me being naked
@@DestiniKristal In all fairness….if you don’t clarify, then it’s reasonable for anyone to believe that you’re a stripper if you say that you’re a “professional dancer.” That is the first thing anyone who does not know you would think. It’s not just the manosphere
I come from a ballroom background and currently socially latin & swing dance, and I 100% agree with them on this. Many non-dancers just don't get it, and tend to think dancing is more than just dancing. Honestly feel like people miss out, on this special connection of dancing with others enjoying the company, the music and everything, definitely glad to have dancing in my life.
Say between these two, which one would you rather choose to do for the entire month : A) You dancing with your partner ONLY B) You dancing with other people ONLY
It's sad that you don't understand that Destiny is cuck who's in an open marriage. He lets other dudes fuck his wife so him letting other dudes dance with his wife has other, less pure implications.
out of the topic but i just gotta say, i love how you guys let each other take turns and even ask each other if they want to say something. it speaks a lot about how you are willing to listen to each others take.
8:17 OOOHHH SHIT!?!? Aba got the moves!! Been watching you guys content for a while. As a fan I knew aba does dance but that was cool to see it! My sisters were in dance since they could walk. I’ve taken dance classes before. People are there for fun, to learn something new, or to get better. You did nothing wrong my man and people are crazy for thinking that you did anything with a grain of disrespect.
Youve made me want to take dance classes guys! I've thought about it my whole life and you've just lit a fire in me to go look for some local classes ❤
Me too, I love to move to music, but never did formal dancing apart from barn dancing at school. Lessons would get me out too, better use of time than the pub😂
Seriously. I'm not some alpha male gigachad but I've had a few hookups happen because they saw me dancing and figured I was confident. Not that I really am but thats besides the point lol.
Dancing is one of my favorites loves in this world and Church dances help me have confidence talking to women in general and when I’m on the dance floor I do become a different person a little and dancing in my parents house to salsa and Caribbean and all types of music makes me happy and get my body moving different muscles and stretching them out as well
@@AP-ji8qu It didn't cause the guy said he was fine with his wife sleeping with others so in otherwords the video is made to mock people for being right before the divorce.
I’m Mexican been watching you guys forever and damn this one actually hit an aspect that I’ve dealt with with my whole life. I’m from Mexico City and we like to dance all genres of music there. Growing up around Mexican Americans in the USA it was hilarious to me they thought I was taking their girls or playing some gay card 🤣 but they didn’t realize I was putting them and their girls on to game that was instilled from my parent’s. 💃 🕺
It’s cause most Americans (mainly the straight guys) have no idea how to dance, they’re too awkward. so when they see a good dancer dancing with their girl they see it as a threat cause she’s clearly having a good time with another guy, and he refuses to get any better at dancing as to actually be able to do anything more than a 2-step with her 😂
Preach! Grew up dancing banda with the tias and took that to the club! Lol people are so repressed in the US and im from here! Think everyone is trying to pick up their girl 😂
Quarantine has thrown off so many people’s social gathering/dancing/events skills it’s actually scary. A perpetually online culture and a generation of kids who don’t even know how to use their words. Eventually, clubs will turn in to middle school dances. It’s already happening in college.
And, young people's social meters are so off they often now accuse the smallest shit of being perverse or stalkerish but then defend the WORST predators locally or influencers. I've noticed this in my local dancing scenes, where younger men and women will defend actual narcissistic rapists while calling random respectful dudes creepy. Put these people back into social training fr
@@tobilekan4826 it's been much more prevalent in the last three to four years as the TikTok generation comes of age. Before that, it was relatively an open and calm community with standards of interaction and enforced boundaries towards those actually acting out.
No he didnt, if the girl didnt want to dance in order to respect Destiny or not making him feel unconfortable she is the one to say it, Aba has no bussiess asking Destiny. That would even look like Destiny has some power over her or something so he approves or denies that type of thing.
That makes it super weird. You immediately sexualise it by asking if it's ok, the question of if it's ok or not wouldn't have even crossed my mind but I'm not american
To buttress the point, dance is a language that can be sexual but isn't sexual in its nature. You can tell a whole story, have a dance chat and even give sogns of encouragement with the language of dance. Keep dancing Aba. You gave that lady a whole lot of information she needed for her dance journey.
Thank you for this one. I took Latin dance classes for a few years and really got out of my shell. People are lonely and unsure these days, and this must be one of the easiest bridge building activities you could do to turn that around. Actually I need to get out there, I miss this stuff!!
This is absolutely true. I live in Latvia and was recently at my mom's sister's 50th birthday party. And guess what? EVERYONE was dancing with EVERYONE. I'd say I'm surprised that there are so many overreacting, but at the same time, I expected it. I was watching the stream when it happened and Destiny's entire chat was alluding or straight-up saying that it's cuck behavior. Ridiculous.
Yeah I know this from my polish family as well anf from pretty much all events in poland I've attended. I danced with the sister of my ex at her wedding 😂 so what?
I think ABA and preach are kinda lying here when they say people are mad. They just making jokes it's not serious. I have seen the memes of ABA ruining another lesbian relationship. It's a JOKE. Not is actually serious.
Props to you guys for this video, the maturity of this argument is something a lot of people online aren’t ready for, but sorely need! Dancing is fun, dancing is communication, dancing isn’t always sex. It’s like talking, you can talk friendly with someone or you can talk sexual or flirtatious with someone.
.. the clear flirtatious of thise woman in an open marriage says it all.... but i suppose you are ok with your women clearly acting flirtatious...........
Funny enough I do ballroom dance classes, and one of the first things I learned is that in group lessons you switch partners constantly. The guy stays and the girls move down to the next ,and circulate. You inevitably dance with other peoples wives, husbands and they know so its not an issue. On top of that its respectful and understood. Your there to learn. Also dancing with different people constantly is one of the best ways to be a better leader, and follower instead of getting used to just one partner.
@@speedmetalmassiah567 that's the literal point. You dance so you can dance with everybody and have fun. It's enjoying other people's company and socializing. It's like you're saying you wouldn't let your partner out the house for fear that other men might look at her gtfoh
@@speedmetalmassiah567 Its becouse you never danced with anyone. He barely touched her. Was completly fine and polite. When theres tension between the dancing couple they thing its completly different by the way... they get mor close, men hand of the back of the women has a GRIP not a open hand etc.
As a person who is on the salsa scene heavy in NY this is totally accepted. Salsa dancing, especially socially is very much respected where peoples husbands/wives dance with other people. It is a respected environment that doesn't warrant judgement. Its just pure enjoyment of the music and the culture without all the criticism of closed minded people who don't frequent the scene. Its the mindset of people who don't go out and experience the culture who can't understand this. Get out of your box and live life for all those who have an issue with that. Lowkey i see you Aba with your steps...LoL you took a few partnerwork classes LoL
The responses to this comment are kinda crazy, y’all never take ur lady out and just dance?l with different people? When you hang out wit friends, they not allowed to just have fun and dance wit you lady and vice versa? That’s a crazy and stressful space to live in
@@treychapo1898 You're insecure as fuck. If thats all it takes for a woman to make you think she's fucking somene else, then you don't know how to fuck and thats the least of your problems kid. I can tell that your knowledge of what a woman respects or not came from the internet, not your own experience. Bet you're not even 30, both in age and body count. At least i would hope so, with that High School level of frail confidence you portraying. Go touch grass and talk to some people instead of talking to your bedroom poster of Andrew Tate.
@@treychapo1898 why would we ever listen to someone who has timberlands as their profile picture. You think to dance with someone mean to twerk and grind. If your wife is doing a Waltz with her brother or a male dance teacher, you’re going to be having a panic attack in the corner?😂 it’s giving insecure, it’s giving “I think literally any man can steal my girl because I’m not good enough”
You guys hit it on the head, it’s culturally driven based on how you were raised. Furthermore some are raised in a social vacuum, so as to say everyone may not be comfortable with someone dancing with their significant other. Me personally I was raised not to visit a woman if her husband isn’t home, something like that can easily bleed over into something as benign as dancing.
I was raised and also just instinctively know not to be around other women’s husbands or SO’s out of respect and because people gossip. I just don’t personally feel comfortable being around another woman’s man. I have respect for the relationship and don’t want anything misinterpreted. Once, my friend insisted her husband drive with me to an area as she and her children were in another car and her husband liked talking to me as I am funny and we had depression in common to talk about. I didn’t want to, but he hopped in the car and the next thing I knew he put his arm around my shoulder (I am NOT a touchy person) and I absolutely cringed and quickly said yo, I’m not (name of wife) maybe you’re getting confused!! You must be tired! And made it into a joke. He may not have meant it in anyway, but sometimes awkward crap happens and can be misinterpreted. I truly don’t think he meant anything by it but I was uncomfortable and if anyone else saw it, it would’ve caused drama. So bottom line: stay away from someone’s SO (dancing is fine) so long as the other person is in same room.
@@lampad4549 I never said it has anything to do with the Ada situation. And did you forget that destiny and his wife are not in a monogamous relationship so saying that is irrelevant, the reason why they getting the divorce is because the open relationship they bragged about backfire on them with the new guy his wife is with.
Edit 2 [Im done responding to this thread because I made my point clear. If you disagree, so be it. There will be others that agree and you can debate with them.] To be perfectly honest, I can’t help but laugh at this. 😂 People are so socially inept that they think dancing is inherently sexual. Edit: I think I need to make this clear. I’m not saying dancing CANT be sexual. I’m saying dancing as a whole is not INHERENTLY sexual. And to translate im saying “If you want to dance with someone, that does not immediately mean you are wanting to be sexual, the dance is sexual, or trying to seduce the person .” There are plenty of dances not meant to be taken in a sexual manner and many separate intimacy from dancing unless they want to be intimate with said person. They are performers or people just wanting to dance. If an actor Kisses another actor while dating or being married, that does not suddenly mean said actor is in love with another person. It’s a performance. Whether the partner is okay with that type of stuff or not is up to them, but as it stands it is just a performance. Ballet from my understanding actually hated the fact that their dancing form was being overly sexualized by the public and media, leading to many cases of grooming and sexual harassment.
Nah thats just the kind of energy you invite when you annouce to the world that ypur lady gets piped out by other dudes. Any dude she talks to, people are wondering "did he hit too?"
@@shihoblade that’s completely fair but I do think people jumped the gun with the whole dancing thing. I do think people take dancing as inherently sexual more often than not. Purely due to the trends passing by.
I remember once I went to a live performance. Everyone was dancing and I got up to dance by myself (my friends were shy, I wanted to enjoy myself) and an older Hispanic lady that was nearby thought it was lacking some etiquette and told her partner to dance with me lol. It’s respectful and fun to dance with others once it’s done in an appropriate manner. 🙆🏾♀️
Honestly, i was so shy and social awkward all my life. But after taking dance classes, i definitely felt like i was part if a genuine community and no longer shy and made awesome friends and everything at 14:08
Any community where different genders regularly interact in close proximity plutonically are usually very militant about fostering a safe, non-creepy environment. I can tell you in the martial arts community, if any guy is ever inappropriate with a girl while grappling, we shut that down real quick. Unacceptable.
Every person in the year 2005-2010 watching any dance show competition that came out knew exactly where the world was headed. Was getting to the point people felt they were just watching two individuals dry hump eachother for a whole song. -- Now a huge chunk of the world looks at dance as a sexualized act decades later. It is crazy being born in the 90's, and hitting that benchmark (30) where you can truly spot the differences the world has made over the years. Can't imagine how my brain is going to process the topic at 60.
"Now a huge chunk of the world looks at dance as a sexualized act decades later. This is a dumb ass comment. Now? Dance has always been sexualized. The Charleston was considered a dirty dance. The waltz was considered to be for prostitutes. Pick a year, any year, and people had a problem with some dance they deemed to sexual. Especially if women were dancing. But, yeah somehow only recently dance has been sexualized.
@@user-lt1jd1ye3vit all depends on the chemistry between the 2. But honestly I'm from Mexico. Unless y'all single. You can't get another man's women and dance with her. If you do everyone in the community will look at the man like a player and the women a dirty rag.
I'm 33 and man I couldn't of said it better... before same sex marriage was legal in the states.. what was it? 2010? 2011? And 10 years later they now want to steal our kids and change their sex and it's blasted every fucking where with the flags.. so glad the internet wasn't a thing when I was in school
I just read an article on people addicted to drama ( especially those who claim to hate drama) and it's basically people who need to feel important so they manufacture intent/narratives in order to be outraged over, and use their involvement to feel important/relevant/get attention. They insert themselves so they can feel like they're a part of something. And because they're big ol drama queen gossips, they will literally invent conflict. This? This is a perfect example.
Sad...Hell, I arrived at this conclusion years ago just by witnessing the overly dramatic go about their lives. In short. I discovered this concept in the wild, during "field research".
I picked up Latin dancing about 6 months ago, it’s been life changing. I was quite the homebody before, now I’m going out dancing several times a week and traveling for festivals/congresses around the US. I’ve shared amazing moments with people, made good friends, met and clicked with beautiful women, and dancing itself is just fun…simple as that. Plus if ur anything like me, you’ll get obsessed with getting better at it
@@juntoringo I'm not the person you're asking, but bad man! Everyone is when they start, if you think you're gonna look like a fool, you probably will, but no ones there to judge you man its just something you gotta learn!
@@juntoringo As far as knowing how to dance, I was at 0. You’d never catch me on the dance floor. I did pick it up quickly, but everyone goes at their own pace. I know people who’ve only been dancing for 3 months and they’re better than me. Just enjoy the ride brotha
@@KingRakyat thanks bro, I’m looking forward to my next 6 months - glad to hear it meant a lot to you and excited to see where its gonna take me. Signed up already too :)
I was best man at a wedding years ago and the parents of the bride (both in their late 60's) were just tearing up the dance floor - nothing flashy or anything like that just full on in sync dancing with each other like they have been doing all their life, old school. Most amazing thing I have seen.
I remember last year me, my now fiancee, and his friends/family went out to a bar to celebrate someone's birthday and some random older gentleman asked me to dance bachata with him. I accepted because it sounded like fun and i wanted to be polite. We danced a total of three times that night, all three times my fiancee (bf at the time) was watching and enjoying the view while his friends were the ones bitching and making a fit about it. The gentleman even came up to my fiancee and complimented us as a couple and thanked us for a good time. Moral of this comment, quit making a huge fit over something that doesn't involve you...as long as all parties were comfortable with what happened, all is good
@@LatinaSoldier15 Going straight to your channel to see. Lol. (edit- I thought it was dancing videos and it was not. Kinda disappointed but then again that w as an assumption)
I couldn't agree more with this video. I got into dancing right before the pandemic hit because of a bad dancing experience I had at my Senior Prom. It was amazing and completely changed my perspective on life. I got to speak with new and amazing people, as well as interact and be a part of my community. Id recommend that everyone go to at least one dance class or event. If it's not for you, it's not for you, but at least you tried it.
Bro you're describing exactly what happened to me, except I took it as far as I could and became a professional dancer in the industry for a couple years (I live in LA, good fortune). The social aspect was by far the greatest and most fulfilling aspect of learning how to dance. It opened my dating options, allowed me to meet other creatives, and gave me an identity that non-creatives/citizens admired and respected. Long story short I co-sign the hell out of your recommendation 💯
I dance salsa. While the dance itself is not inherently sexual, you leading his wife in a dance, especially if he cannot dance, and her enjoying it can come across in a way that immaculates him.
I'm ngl this video really came in clutch for me. I just started dating a Latina girl and she and I have been going great for a month so far. But one thing I've noticed which connects to this video, is that she loves to dance salsa, pachata, etc. My family is middle eastern, and for us if you touch a girl that isn't your wife/gf you're practically cheating. I'm being slightly hyperbolic when I say that but at the same time it's really not far off from the truth. So when my girl told me that she has a group of friends that she goes dancing with in these kinds of events, I was initially thrown off. I was more uncomfortable when I found out that some of those friends were guys. But she had reassured me that she's been doing this shit for years and that there was nothing sexual going on between her and these friends. I've been skeptical about it until last night when we had another talk about it with her, and after I watched this video. It definitely gave me a bit of context to my gf's culture and helped me understand that not everything involving dancing involves sex. Thanks for the video you two, it definitely helped put me at ease.
Goin to teach you 2 things... if their body dont touch your know the whole body, and it the men hand at the women hip its open. Its totaly fine and natural. Now it they are rubbing tights and croths they are in for a hardcore sex hahahaha.
I’ll say this from first hand and second hand experience, Hispanic culture goes both ways, people who love to dance and it’s very normal and don’t get offended by it and there are some who do. Both my parents are from Mexico, two different cities, and both from both sides of the spectrum, my dad from the side of no woman should dance with anyone but her husband and my mother who grew up with family and friends who all danced with each other and it was normal. I also grew up dancing, I didn’t love it as much as my mother so I didn’t stick it with it or cared to fight for it when it came to partners, however my mother LOVED it, she still loves, but my father never changed his mindset and he also doesn’t like dancing himself, so for the last 43 years she has basically given up one of her most favorite things she has always loved to do, and there is nothing more tragic then seeing someone who loves to dance at a get together, like a wedding, a birthday, special event, who you can see glowing in the face who wishes she can dance but has to say no, to family members, friends, etc, im just saying, despite cultural differences or even personal preferences, if your partner has a love for something and it brings them joy, don’t kill that for them, at least try and be understandable, otherwise your just making a big part of your partners life miserable that would have made them extremely happy if it wasn’t for you.
I love when you guys mention your dancing background, I started taking salsa and bachata courses back in 2018/2019, and it gave me such confidence and comfort within my body and how I hold myself my head a lot. It’s amazing how much better I felt about myself after taking my first month of classes.
Ya'll have it right once again. If you're a shy guy maybe awkward or insecure signing up for a dance class is actually a good way to get you in the right mindset. And the thing is that in the context of just platonic dancing, you're actually very unlikely to be rejected. In fact guys have all the power in this context, I have never heard of a girl rejecting a dance. So you kill two birds with one stone, you get to interact with the opposite sex without any sort of expectations and you get to build your confidence while having fun.
Yeah, swapping dancing partners at a family get together or dance event or party is different than dancing with your friend's wife at his house while your friend silently sit in the corner looking awkward as hell.
@@dipset4016 plus she was reluctant too, he coerced her into it. He didn't even ask destiny if he was cool with it. Body to body dancing is an intimate. And don't even use the latino culture cop out cuz none of them are even from that culture and in those cultures when u switch partners u gotta ask the partners partner before switching. And the person is dancing with someone not just sitting there watching u dance with his girl. Like that doesn't happen at all
@@dipset4016 This is a logical fallacy called slippery slope. “Well he touched her hand a little bit which leads to hugging which leads to kissing which leads to sex.” And even if it at some point DID ever lead to that, how does that make Destiny a cuck now? Think.
@@Eking-su3tr 1. This isn’t body to body. Rewatch the video. 2. You can partake in other cultures without being a part of that culture. Such a weird thing to have to say. He even threw clips in of him dancing in front of a pretty sizable crowd with another partner, so it’s not like he’s new. 3. You don’t ask permission in a salsa. You clearly don’t dance things like this. I’ve never done it either, but I used to know a little bit about this kind of stuff as I was a dorky theater/choir nerd. Asking permission in a salsa would stop the entire flow, which is the point of a salsa. Stop saying random stupid shit.
I'm so impressed by Aba. He's got some skills! Not at all inappropriate and if her husband truly had an issue he wouldn't have other men around his wife.
Lmaoo ofc a woman says this. If my wife/serious gf wants to dance with another man the way THEY were dancing, he can have her. Go look at destiny’s face through tht whole thing😂dude looked awkward and annoyed asf. Any man in an open relationship with his woman is automatically a cück
@@mutedimagination666you people broaden the definition of a cuck so much that it's going to lose its meaning. An open relationship isnt a cuck relationship, theyre completely different things. An open relationship just means that both parties are allowed to fuck other people. A cuck is a fetish where you want to be demeaned and watch your girl get railed by someone. These are completely different things
For the people in the back, you can use your bodies for things other than sex and have a good time. I want to say that this is more of a culture shock than anything else because I've seen it personally as a Latino (Mexican) myself. We're a very socially outgoing culture where our fiesta's, quinceaneras, weddings, etc all have dancing at their core with bandas and mariachis going on all night. Its common to see people dancing with different partners even without them being in a relationship because its just supposed to be a fun pastime. Move around guys, its genuinely a great time!
@@Abdullah-vg1uc that's not what happened here. The girl's guy is sitting right there. It's not like Aba took her in the back room and fucked her after.
First of all, this is not sexual! Especially for Hispanics. We love to dance and we love dancing with everyone. It’s part of our culture. It’s not sexual. And Destiny is Cuban. He understands that. This is not cuckery… also, shout to to Aba finally showing us his dancing skills!!
Every young man should take ballroom dancing, It taught me how to be a better leader, be confident, a better follower, and handling rejection. It teaches some men to not expect anything more then the dance you’re receiving in the moment and to thank your partner for the time. I only did it for a period of a couple months, but learned so much.
@Mr. M unfortunately not, you may be able to find a class at a local community center or something, but I paid 60 dollars for 45 minutes of a private lesson. I did them at my leisure. Some venues that have Latin nights or other nights sometimes do a dancing class prior to the event, so you could learn a move or two
@Mr. M I get it man, the thing about high expectations, is that it sets you up for big disappointment. Start small, get your wins, and work your way up to those big expectations. Metaphorically speaking, a house with no foundation will inevitability fall. Build it with manageable expectations. You'll get to where you wanna be eventually, you're running your own race and you will win eventually. Life sucks when you're constantly comparing yourself to what others have
I'm a hairstylist and there are women who will literally hover over me while I'm cutting their husband's hair because they are so insecure because We have close contact .it's like i'm cutting his hair.smh. I can't even imagine that type of person if their spouse was dancing with somebody even nonsexually.
I find this hard to believe but on the other hand, the type of wife who’s gonna go WITH her husband to get his haircut is prob the type who’s gonna hover. Still, I understand why a lot of wives want their men to go to the barbershop or husbands prefer their wives have a woman masseuse 🤷🏼♀️
I know women like that. They also constantly call their SO to make sure he's where he's supposed to be. They are helicopter wives because they don't trust their husbands. He's going to cheat if he really wants to. And if you're going to accept it and stay, then let him cheat in peace. Can't control anybody.
@@scarletsletter4466 so in your view, women can’t be insecure just like men. And even when someone with clear experience of when they are, you don’t believe them
My mom was a ballroom dancer. My dad learned to dance for her. It probably saved their relationship and you can tell they love it when they are on a cruise or something and they get to show off their dancing haha. All the younger pwople want to dance with them. It 100% has given them a better relationship
@@PinChE_LoCo orrrr maybe it was about spending more quality time together, taking an interest in each other's passions, and connecting and having fun.
@@PinChE_LoCo i dont think so. But i can tell it meant the world to my mom that he actively wanted to learn and take her dancing properly. i think he likes it a lot now too just for the attention haha and when they look at each other while dancing, you can tell that their is an infinite amount of love between them. Its a really good way for them to spend quality time together now that they are older. I think its their way of holding onto the younger part of their relationship if that makes sense?
@@PinChE_LoCo... or maybe the fact he took time to involve himself in smthg his wife loved? Maybe when you take dance class with your So there is more than the class dance?
I divorced my wife because the male cashier accidentally touched her hand while taking her credit card. I can’t see my kids, but at least I wasn’t a cuck 🤪
It's that extreme in this day and time.
This is definitely trolling to be Pin of Shame'd 😂
Most based and redpilled man ever
That's funny as hell. I see a situation like that happening soon.
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I see what you did there, good sir
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People are socially retarded online, never been to any dance event. 😂
@abanpreach What is that song at 3:40?! It's amazing!
Actual clowns in the comment section. Shit is funny asl
Fr 😂 you dont fill your card with one person. Thats a boring as$ night. Wait till they hear about square dancing 😂😂😂
All we have danced in a social setting know that dancing with somebody, doesn't matter if it's a friend, wife or gf of a friend, is something natural and you don't even give it a second thought
Destiny a cuck low-key 😂
"they are lesbians" im so mad at you Aba.
i laughed much longer about this than i wanted to.
The irony being, that Destiny does actually let other guys sleep with his wife
Abba needs to hold himself in a higher regard, his gay sounding friend needs to stop condoning this shit, they busters for this one, cuck or not!
I like how nobody is seeing this comment wth
huh?
and his wife lets him sleep with other women so its not that bad,
@@Alvah707we all know his wife’s the only one getting any action like that bro be honest😭😭
It’s sad man. People get upset over nothing. And are cool with things they should actually be upset about
It’s called self respect.
Your friend dancing with your wife for 30 seconds is lack of respect..? Yall really are weirdo virgins lmao
@@scumitarop6707 your wife (probably don't have one ) will be getting bang 😭😔
@@scumitarop6707 it’s called insecure incel syndrome
Parce que tes vicieux
As a Latino and going to family parties my whole life; you will literally dance with your mom, your grandma, your cousins, your sis, your aunts, female friends, etc. Like there is difference between dancing together and grinding. And as an unspoken rule, as a man dancing with another woman (like dancing salsa and not grinding) don't wrap your fingers around their waist, just use your palms. It's not a huge deal, but it is a sign of respect.
🤝Tʜᴀɴᴋꜱ Fᴏʀ Wᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ,
Sᴇɴᴅ ᴀ Tᴇxᴛ Oɴ Wʜᴀᴛꜱᴀᴘᴘ Wɪᴛʜ Tʜᴇ
Nᴜᴍʙᴇʀ Aʙᴏᴠᴇ.📊
nah but the context is destiny is a cuck and his wife loves BBC...so it changes everything 😂
EXACTLY.
Well the way he danced with her had nothing wrong... was completly polite, and respectfull. PPL online never danced in their life...
not true, if your dad likes to get cucked, or if your uncle likes to get cucked then that is their problem. We real men put standards, My woman aint dancing with no one BUT ME. Period.
I love that Aba and Preach used this as an opportunity to talk about their love of dance. It can really be a huge benefit socially culturally and physically
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A lot of people aren't ready for that conversation
@@willh7352what?
@@willh7352 Okay, chill. We’re talking about a conversation concerning dance, not a worldview-challenging, ethically confounding thought experiment.
@@unconcernedcitizen4092 Dance is something you actually go do and experience.. AND since this is a conversation, let me ask; Do you go out to SPECIFICALLY dance and meet people?
Or do you go out to bars/clubs to drink only and meet people that way?
The issue here is that many people feel the need have alcohol as the basis for them to go to these places, AND 9 times out of 10 will only step onto the dancefloor after they've drank enough.
Recognize those in these spaces more often contribute to being socially awkward than meshing and mingling with others. You'd be very surprised on how important it is to share movement with some stranger on the dancefloor. That's all I'm saying----
Ya ain't ready for that conversation
It’s not the fact that you danced with his wife for me lmao. It’s the fact that Destiny looked uncomfortable as fuck that I think is probably why it went viral 😂
Tbf he looked uncomfortable the entire time. Dude always looks awkward. This isn't the first time aba has been on his stream.
destiny always looks like that, hes just awkward. i think people have speculated hes a little tistic, but uh, thats speculation.
You dont go to your friends house and dance with his wife while he sits silently in a corner. Fu*kin disrespectful.
He only did this because he knew Destiny wouldnt do sh*t.
Nah...tht guy looked salty😂and very uncomfortable. Anyone with two eyes and a brain could sense it😆. You're right Nate.
@@thaimperial97 he looks like someone is dancing with his wife even when he’s alone trust
Y'all, I felt this one. Grew up a competitive Irish dancer for 15 years, took swing dance classes, tap, the whole gambit. And Preach, you hit it on the nail. I was interacting with people way older than me, way younger, different backgrounds, people who I never even would've met without dance. I owe a lot to dance.
And that's why the over-sexualization and rhetoric of "that's gay" around any kind of dance has always driven me crazy. Appreciate you guys for speaking on this.
I did Irish dancing with eldery comunity really fun and low pressure. Very nice environmnent and very forgiving of my two left feet.
So were you into men before dancing or did it happen after?
@@brownehawk7744 good troll attempt haha
@@avgriffinit was pretty funny
Do you have any videos of your dancing??
Deadass I appreciate how humble you are about your technique because I've been watching for over five years and not once have I seen you show what you got and you are very talented.
Yyeeeaa, they’ve got some serious skill. I haven’t ballroom danced in years but i miss it everyday
nah but the context is destiny is a cuck and his wife loves BBC...so it changes everything 😂
When you dance a specific genre for yrs then stop for yrs it doesn’t matter it is like riding a bike and muscle memory give it a minute and it comes straight back ❤❤❤
We need more of these. With both aba and preach.
This has actually made me really interested in learning how to PROPERLY dance now, thank you for this honestly. I never really realized how important this stuff can be to just helping you get comfortable around women in general, and just have fun platonically.
Yeah it's a great thing to get some experience in
Just don't take it too seriously in the beginning, and by that I mean be comfortable to look ackward in the beginning, make mistakes, don't appologize for every missed step, I assure you we have all been there and looked terrible at the starting line, just take it with humor and enjoy the ride. It will get better with exerience! What it also does, you automatically tend to care a bit more about your appearance, which is also good. And then look out for times when people meet (often for free in bigger cities), just go there, even not yet being a pro, being there and observing people you can learn too and you will be in the community of others not alone. There was never really even one time that I thought, nah I shouldn't have come, I always went away with a good feeling.
Sadly for myself my dancing times are over as I'm walking on a rollator now because of illness and cannot stand straight anymore, and I dearly miss it.
We had ballroom dancing in school, and rock and roll it was a lot of fun, plus all the other cultural dances and some hip hop and stuff on the stage, really makes a difference with your confidence, I am not a good dancer, mostly mid with most dances and only good at some, but I use to get a lot of compliments at parties, clubs and stuff, and not just from women, if your friendly and stuff a lot of dudes appreciate someone breaking the ice and don't always see you as some sort of threat or someone to get jealous of.
Go get some man. You want an easy way to get laid, learn latin dance, ballroom helps too
@@skarbuskreskathank you for the advice. It’s real nerve wrecking to suck.
6 months later they divorced
The divorce has nothing to do with this
@@AP-ji8quit has everything to do with it, once you dance black you cant dance back
@@AP-ji8qu sure. i just let everyone dance with my wife. oh wait, no i dont, we're still together
@@isturbo1984Dude, stop using logic! You're going to offend them!
You guys are the most insecure losers ever. Making it seem like she's getting grinded up on..
If anything made him lose his girl it's letting her have sex with other men, not a classy ballroom dance.
I'm a ballroom instructor, this was very politely done and a whole bunch of nothing wrong.
doyou not see anything wrong with just dancing with someones wife ?
@@Abdullah-vg1uc the fact she is a ballroom dancer and Aba wasn't making any moves, no, I don't see anything wrong with their interaction.
I go to social dances and dance with other women's husbands, and my husband dances with other wives. There is nothing sexual about it. The only way to improve your dancing is to dance with other people, experience their frames, their footwork, etc.
Aba and these people were friends, again nothing wrong with it.
@@Abdullah-vg1uc The fact that you think dancing is a sexual thing means you need to go back to school. Or, better yet, go to school when in the mid 1900's and learn what real dancing is, and how actual social interactions happen. Jesus fucking Christ.
@@katieinhops5163 i never said that there is anything sexual about it. And yes you go to a dancing event where people dance with each others partners obviously its not going to be a problem. Thats equivalent to going to a sex party or swingers club. the point is that yall are there to fuck people.
Aba was not at a social dance event. Therefore you cant just assume that destiny would be okay with it because he is not in the dancing culture.
@@katieinhops5163 The problem here was that aba was disrespectful not that it was sexual
Knowing how to engage and disengage with people in different contexts is a healthy and important social skill to have.... even in the dating world! To be able to make a light compliment (like "nice shirt", "nice dress", "looking good!" ) to someone and move on without even waiting for an answer is how you get to create positive contact. People will react positively to you later on. Even you get to feel better from it. edit: dancing with strangers with no other attachment is a very good way to do that
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good point
I feel like 90% of the people dragging them are either kids or have the maturity of kids online. Totally middle school gossip vibes. I guess when you’re hated online, anything you do, people will try to project all the extremes to tear you down. The internet has made everyone insane,unreasonable. Appreciate you guys showing your life experience and grounding us in reality
I think the internet simply gives everyone a voice, including miserable people. The problem is social retards apparently have a loud fucking voice
Andrew Tate posted about it bra 😂😂😂😂 I was like wth
Wow, your wife shouldn’t dance with other men only family once together unless you want a wife who doesn’t respects you, there’s nothing wrong with respect in a relationship on both ends
@@treychapo1898 its just dancing
@@treychapo1898 if that's your boundary then that's cool, definitely agree that respect is important.
But we all have different boundaries and what's disrespectful to one person could be totally acceptable to another. And it'll always be a hard sell to impose your values onto others.
I'm not gonna feel disrespected over someone two stepping with my girl lol. To put it in perspective, a man would just out himself as a ****ing lame if he thought he violated me by two-stepping to no music with my lady 😂🤣💀 noone is gonna give him props or validate that. It's weak.
This aged so well…
It aged fine. It doesn’t matter if they ended up divorced. That has nothing to do with this.
@@seasons365 No one said it was Aba’s fault. People just find it so funny to look back on cause it was a red flag their relationship was going down before it did. Knowing what we know now, that’s why we say things like “this didn’t age well.” 😂
Lmaoo yall are assuming is was because of Aba… not once did he say who’s fault or called Aba out specifically lmaooo yall just put it out there on blast by saying it’s not Aba while not once the original comment points too it. lol and yes I do believe home boy smashed and later he felt awkward about it
@@kadebebesis4204there was no "red flag".
@@DimitriKendrison their whole "poly" relationship was a "red flag", no wonder it went bust.
As a Dominican, it is SUPER COMMON to arrive at a family function with friends and neighbors included, beginning to dance the minute we get there. It's very common to share partners for dancing in majority, if not, 99% of the Latin countries/cultures.
I'm Haitian and same, people will dance with random people at events, family, friends, random people, kids with adults, elderly women and young men etc. Yes there are certain styles of doing the dance that can be more intimate/sexual, but dancing itself is not in any way. This reeks of 1. cultural ignorance, 2. social ineptness. Because even if you aren't latino/caribbean etc, if you're someone that goes out to more than just night clubs, you would have come across people from different cultures dancing or even if you're just a white american, line dancing is quite literally a thing as well that sometimes 2 people will do together.
First thing that came to mind hell you’ll dance with a whole family
@@MunkeyyCANA it doesnt have to be another men touchong your girl
It could be a women dancing with your girl
Espeically if u got a hot prinses that looks like gigi hadid or barbara palvin.
Aint gonne let my girl get touched
YES! As a Puerto Rican, we dance with everyone! This was so stupid!!!
I dance with my cousins like that! Nothing sexual about it unless you make it sexual.
@@Moesie youre never going to get a good woman with that type of mentality, so you dont need to worry about any1 touching her lel
It's so cool to see you guys talking about social dance. When people introduce their romantic partners to their friends at a social dance, their friends will all want to dance with them, because it's all just about dance. There aren't motives behind it.
Partnered social dance is amazing for all sorts of reasons, and the fact that Aba understands what the pandemic did to social dancers just makes me appreciate him more.
you actually listened to the government? lmfao
@@jimmythecrow As a hardcore raver, most of my raver friends with the same mentality as you ended up with COVID. Some even passed away from it.
Even if the government didn't pass a mandate, if I'm sick or others are sick, I don't go out to spread/catch anything. That's just common sense.
@@jimmythecrow It's not about what one person did. Entire dance communities shut down and it was impossible to attend events.
Pretty sure they were trolling , since destiny is in an open relationship..and people like to call him a cuck because he lets his partner mess with other people
Hes only a cuck if he doesnt mess mess with other people as much..or more .
I dont know their dynamic though . He could be a cuck and they just call him that every time his girl interacts with another guy in a way that comes off as friendly.
@@lynnespinoza4736 Common sense ain't that common anymore. These are the morons that would still be spreading the plague if it was as prevalent as it used to be, how did these dummies think diseases like that got stamped out?
this is low key inspiring aba. thank you for sharing your dancing with us man! very wholesome. makes me want to have these pure social interactions.
High key
It's actually made me interested in dancing
I'm not gonna lie, he's really good.
I wonder if he wulda done the same with a big ass UFC fighters wife.... hmmmmm.
@armondtanz why wouldn't he? You so insecure you couldn't handle seeing your wife ballroom dance with another man? Bet you're a petty bitch that gets mad when a guy asks your wife a question.... like "don't give that dude nothing, not even information." Lmao what a loser.
I'm from the Philippines and when we party, we dance with everybody. And when I say everybody, I mean EVERYBODY. Dads, Moms, grandparents, cousins, neighbors, neighbor's cousin, neighbor's kids, neighbor's friend's third cousin. No malice, just pure fun and happiness. This woman was just showing Aba how to dance, yeah no shit because she's a BALLROOM DANCER. I'm a singer-songwriter, I jam with friends or anybody I meet that happens to like to sing too, it doesn't matter if they have a girlfriend or wife or whatever, we're both enjoying music and singing. It's the same thing.
Seniors dancing is one of the most wholesome things you can ever see from another person. The ails they deal with in their later or even Twilight years but they can still become 25 again in the right environment is just beautiful. It simply elevates the spirit.
completely unrelated and perhaps controversial, but I feel like golf is the same way.
There’s an older couple that comes to Latin nights at the club I frequent. They are so cute and it’s so uplifting watching them dance. They don’t even do anything complicated. Just the simplest movements but you can tell they enjoy it and really love each other
Yes as a goan, seeing the old folks just forget about their problems and run to the dance floor when the right song comes on is just awesome. And they r damn good at it too. Shame im not very good at jiving myself
Bruh I ain't letting some mf dance with my wife tf
@@omar619kamis You're that insecure? Hey, don't worry about it. After you finish going through puberty and then learn how to use it properly, you won't have girls cheating on you all the time. Then, hopefully, you won't get PTSD over something so insignificant any more.
You guys know how to cheer a brother up, thanks for putting a smile on my face. Alot of ppl could use some smiles and just have some fun, bless you two.
Bless you too, have a wonderful day/night and be prosperous in everything you do. Take a deep breath when things get hard and keep being a great person. Much love!
As a young black man that can’t dance for the life of me, these brothers just marketed this style of dance without even trying. I have to get into this one day and learn my own groove!!!
You should learn. It's important to know how to dance with a woman outside of a two step or grinding. My mom taught me and my brothers how and every girl I've danced with has been impressed that I know
The salsa Dane is very fun 💪🏿🔥🔥🔥
Learn salsa and bachata and enjoy life.
Are you really black if you can't dance though?
I recently started learning and it’s definitely worth it.
It’s like the world’s dance, it’s everywhere like football.
This aged like a fine wine
Is it because of the divorce?
@@FoulOwlx yes
@@FoulOwlxno because he was literally a cuck that was in an open marriage letting his wife get smashed by other guys and she left him for a nigga she fell in love with because he was busting them walls down
It aged fine. Their divorce isn’t because she danced in front of her spouse on live. That’s lame. If you can’t trust your friend or your partner right in your face then you shouldn’t have either of them.
@@seasons365 Oh I know, she keeps blowing the case wide open.
It's simply amusing that face of his, knowing the context of how well open relationship went for him now.
I could see him wonder "Is she really gonna try to fuck one of my friends?"
I do feel for Destiny, especially with her now badmouthing him to their friends and such.
you guys are good for the people in this day and age, keeping it straight. thanks
It’s really cool how you guys turned a “controversy” into a talk about the love of the art of dance. I don’t think I would’ve know you guys danced like that otherwise
I didn't know this either. I am not a very active person. But dancing would probably a great exercise.. i have two left feet tho.. i think it is a talent innate to some individuals
@@hanjesse31 I NVR go the gym to work out, only to use the dance studio lol
In quite a few of their other videos Aba mentions briefly about his involvement with the dance community
@@hanjesse31 there are some easy dance forms that are for two left feeters. Some dances are so formalized that you don't even need dancing feet, they teach you everything! Country swing, formal Bachata, line dances, and waltz are examples of these. Then you can move to west coast swing, salsa, and two step!
@@hanjesse31 no such thing as talent! you just gotta learn and apply yourself. if it interests you, go for it!
People like Tate do not understand the concept of community. Personal connections with all walks of life is how to become a better human. I met my wife doing community theatre.
He doesn’t even view women as people who can be connected with.
@@vee_grave you are reaching
@@yabyflamie7996 No she's not.
@@vee_graveYeah it isn’t like Tate is the most informed about these dynamics 😂
That’s we should watch Bottom G instead !
If you social dance, you know that non-dancers don’t get it. I learned to dance by dancing with everyone in the room. If you are dancing to date, you are in the wrong community. If you happen to find someone while doing something you love, it is a bonus.Thankfully, I am starting to see people give props to the creators and cultures that invented the dances. Dance is culture. It is wonderful
Exactly. If you’re trying to hook up, go to a regular club. I’m social dancing cause I want to get good.
Haha this isn’t social dancing.
Like saying girls and guys can just be "friends". Lmaooo
I grew up with Puerto Ricans, and learning to dance at backyard parties. I thought I would’ve forgotten everything I learned, but I recently went to a Latin club, and it all came back. Best time I’ve had in recent memory. And every single man that asked me to dance was so unfailingly polite and respectful, even returning me to my friends after the song. I can never go back to regular clubs again, where random dudes think they can just come up behind you and hump your leg. Nasty.
That’s for sure!!! 👏
Same! My friend grew up in PR and whenever someone in the family has an event he dances bachata with the women and he literally does it just to be polite and sometimes those women even kiss his cheek and thank him for the dance. There was even a time he danced with an older woman who had a handicapped husband and he even thanked him because she was so happy to just dance!
Well you are not a good example…y’all are way to sexual and always ok with it
but why are men and women dancing? why can't you dance with other women?
As an 🇺🇸 Born, 🇵🇷 Raised you got my respect if you can dance 💃 Salsa that's the Main Music Genre that Identify us Puertoricans
It's strange how we've become so hypersexualized as a society to then frown on the idea of simply touching, dancing with or hugging another person that isn't your spouse/partner or family.
Only in America
Perhaps because dancing has been one of the main ways of flirting since - well, FOREVER.
dude destiny is a cuck lmao there's a good chance aba has already hit that
@@goldeneddie ya you’re so right because when I dance with my mom I’m definitely trying to flirt with her 👍
Yea unless it's with a member of my family...my wife isn't "dand8ng" or "touching" or "hugging"....any other man.
And what Abba and Preach don't say in this video is that Destiny and his girl are polyamorous!!!!
These two dudes got me wanting to take dancing classes. I feel like I am missing out now. Good work gentlemen!
Same
literally started looking up salsa classes near me 😂
You would be surprised how much dancing tutorials are on YT. You don’t even need a dance class.
Do it! It’s a really good way to meet and connect with people. It’s a great time investment
A man with proper dancing moves will exponentially increase his chances of meeting someone. Not saying ALL women gonna fall for it, but it will garner attention in a good way.
Hello darkness, my old friend
I've come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains
Within the sound of silence
In restless dreams i walked alone
@@briangriffin9229narrow streets of cobblestone
Shout out to you guys for shining a light on the dance community. Hopefully you guys continue to educate and inform people on our world.
As a Christian woman, I checked with one of the Elder women at my church regarding Ballroom dancing (I ballroom dance) and if it is a sin. Her answer was “no, it’s not sin until it is” So, I can ballroom dance without guilt. Trying to get my boyfriend to try but he doesn’t mind that I dance with other men.
@@qesther1241 why would be ballroom dancing be a sin or considered one?
Dance is amazing. I'd love to hear a conversation about how salsa changed the definition of masculinity. At 22 it made a huge change for me and normalized the opposite sex and broke a lot of stereotypes that was inherent in growing up as a New York kid. I could really relate to that comment Aba made in this video. The NYC salsa scene made a major impact on my life and I'm grateful for how it changed me as a man. Today it's also super rewarding to watch beginners progress, because you get to see not only how they improve and feel better about themselves but also how they grow into more well rounded adults.
@@qesther1241 Dancing isn't a sin as long as it's not sexual with anyone who isn't your romantic partner. Something like twerking would be a sin.
Would you dance with a man or only with the opposite sex, if this is a benign activity?
Shout out to you for being very respectful where you put your hands while dancing. Gave destiny and her that respect while still having fun. I think it was perfectly normal, no cuck shit.
Never danced so no idea.
To be fair, that's where your hands are supposed to go if you want to be able to lead. A hand on a follow's waist, for example, can't lead much of anything.
Ive come to like destiny but he is cucked out fr. But thats his thing.
@@GoldLBS And? It's mutual
Yeah, Tate's a euro. He should know better. Also, Aba is a damn good dancer. Did not expect that.
Omg 🤦♀️ I grew up in a Latina household and I’ve seen my mother dance with my aunts , cousins , uncles, friends .. this is the way IT IS! You’re showing love and appreciation and happiness to the Art of dancing 💃🏼
Yall are missing the whole point. Context matters dancing at a family event where evryone is there to have fun is not the same at dancing at your feinds room where the plan was not to dance
@@Abdullah-vg1uc DANCING IS DANCING! You sound dumb
aba & preach spin this greatly never seen a whole comment section okay with your wife dancing with other men 😂
@@Abdullah-vg1uc careful abdullah, you might go as far as restricting women from driving too lol.
@@ChaosSpectator2020 indeed
Well well well 😂
Indeed. Destiny's 300000 IQ argument about how his open marriage is beyond everyone's understanding has slapped him in the face.
@@NervousNoodlesBy his own friend who was openly against it no less. Everyone here looks mad Hollywood now
?the divorce has nothing to do with this
Learning to dance was one of the best things I learned. I courted my wife by having her be my dance partner when I taught swing dancing. She actually got the same $50 an hour to teach as I did. Later on, when we were married, she would go out contra dancing on Thursdays by herself because I had to teach school the next day. I wasn't going to stop her from dancing just because I couldn't.
This is because you are a secure man in both yourself and your relationship, and realise dancing isn’t sexual unless you make it that way. Plus you are mature enough to understand that just because you can’t do something you enjoy in the moment doesn’t mean you have to stop other people doing the same activity. Well done my man 😊
@@debwilson1436 imagine letting your girl dance with other men when throughout most of time in most cultures and in most religions that’s seen as somethings thats completely not allowed, you western people are truly degenerate and have lost it all
man I can't dance to save my life, but I watched this live and had no reaction to it at all. It wouldn't even cross my mind that this is something to be concerned about.
C U C K
You know what's funny... I remember being a young, ignorant teenager and making fun of people for their lifestyle choices.
Then I started to learn about different cultures and ways that people express themselves.
Then I quickly realized that making fun of people for harmless lifestyle choices was extremely immature and pointless. I was a little embarrassed that I didn't realize this until my teenage years.
Fast-foward 20+ years later, and I still see grown men who can't grasp that basic concept.
It's crazy to me that people out here really think it's cool to project their standards of a relationship on to a man who is living by the standards and boundaries that he WANTS to live by.
could neva be me dawg
Not all standards are the same and some are inherently embarrassing and pitiful. Don’t act like cuckery or financial domination are anything close to healthy stable relationships worthy of respect
Sounds like you a cuck can't wait to tap your wife
@@bobbilly87 Thank you for proving my point. You just gave a textbook example of what it means to project on to others. You're defining what's "inherently" embarrassing and pitiful based on your own subjective feelings.
Also, notice how I didn't say anything about healthy relationships or respecting relationships. But you still felt the need to bring that up.
I hate to say it... but you're acting just like I did back when I was a young, ignorant teenager.
The Bible let;"s you know that what he did is wrong! The fact that y"all justify what he did shows you how WICKED the world really is!
One of the most humbling and exciting experiences I've ever had was when I took dancing classes. I lost a bet, which was why I took them, but hands down, the best thing ever. Made life long friends from it too. 🙏
you learned how to dance ironically?
I wanna know what the other person woulda had to do 😂
Did you go in a couple or by yourself? I want to learn but I'm not in a couple
How was it? I'm considering it.
@@marvvorin8172 🤣 ironically yes. Had a blast.
You cannot tell me this man is comfortable with his wife sleeping with other guys but not okay with her dancing respectfully? 😂 people are wild!
Props to you gentlemen, I learn a lot from you two in a plethora of ways! thank you!
As a mexican woman who didnt get comfortable woth dancing till recently, i advise yall to learn and dont be embarrassed. Didnt help my self esteem when all the other girls were so good at it and i was awkward af 😅 but its so nice to be able to dance with your person. Nothing worse than knowing they want to dance and youre just being a party pooper.
You're not an expert though, so I'll pass
Dancing is a dumb reproduction ritual
Agree, but if someone doesn’t wanna dance they’re not being a party pooper, they just don’t want to dance. And that’s okay
Hm.
@@alskarmode yeah...it's okay to be a party pooper...
Being terminally online is a real thing and it is an absolute blight on our social development right now 😂
I agree. It's a problem millennials and zoomers share.
I do agree with you here, but just a point with the internet as vast as it is, explore! use it as a learning experience at your fingertips not just staying In the little niche arena that makes you comfortable. Use it to educate, to learn about things to find out why people think and do things with the comfort of knowing you can turn it off if it is obscene, but at least try to expand your mind with it. Both your brain and being online have unlimited possibilities if you are open enough to the potential of it all
Just wasted my only day off on UA-cam… it’s sad really
Can I dance with your wife?
I do this on occasion, but put a spin on it did you at least learn something new or something different? Yes the internet can be a waste of time if you choose to use it that way it can also be used as an individual/independent classroom
This really helps. I feel like i need to take some classes to get out of my shell. I feel like alot of people especially younger generation that we are just distant and lack of community. I feel so jaded and dislike people but this video really restored my desire for connection.
@mr.m6038 i know but we owe to ourselves to find SOME outlet. Something. This disconnect and lack of community just isn't worth it. I'm not saying it's easy.
I can’t help but to think that anyone who reacts like that to a man and a woman dancing, never interact with the opposite sex outside of a sexual context. They’re not making it easier for themselves to learn how to connect with women/men when they make it so dramatic
Problem is they don’t wanna learn how to speak to the opposite sex. Then you have these red pill idiots and Andrew tates only prioritizing sex and boys never learn how to actually speak and interact with women. It’s so sad
And nothing wrong with that. It’s all a woman is good for.. sex
Nah ok. Depends. If it’s someone like Aba dancing with my girl. I would know there’s no malicious intent behind it. But some ppl really be sneaky. Anyways, I haven’t had a gf in years but I don’t think I would react positively to that. Is it a problem? Maybe but that’s how I’ll instinctively feel.
@@wespicedmemes fine, find a woman and tell her this, if she agrees to this boundary then its ok.
@@wespicedmemes You gotta get over that. If a girl feels you sweating over something so inconsequential, YOU'RE going to be perceived as insecure.
Yes, there ARE sneaky guys out there, but you've gotta trust your partner to respect you and shoot down those advances.
My wife has danced with guys like that and she just points to me in the crowd and says, "that's my husband". If the guy keeps advancing, she just walks away. She's a grown woman who can handle herself.
Meanwhile, I just wave and laugh at the guy desperately trying to get somewhere that he's not going to get to.
You gotta understand, my wife LOVES dancing! She's a dance instructor! She's no stranger to this type of behavior, but it honestly rarely ever happens.
In the years we've been together there's maybe been like 1 or 2 guys that have acted like this. And the entire club knows who those guys are because it's not just my wife that they try their stupid shit on, and they usually get ostracized by everyone at the club and end up at the bar alone because nobody wants to talk to a guy trying to wreck relationships.
As a dancer it’s really sad to see this. I have loved dancing for a long time and it’s sad that there are both men and women that throw fits when situations like this come up.
y r we gonna act like dancing isn't intimate? & it's extra weird if u can't dance too.. idk it's crazy
He was literally emasculating destiny and flirting his wife while he was visibly extremely uncomfortable in the parts of the video he cut out
@@Tave510 it isn't. There's a long range between twerking on a dude and ballroom. Even between sensual Bachata and formal Bachata. Most of the time dancers are thinking about the music and dance form, not how they want to bang that person.
@@blacksabbath6227 lmao stop and go outside
@@darkriku12 did you watch the full interaction or just the part Aba clipped to make himself look good?
As a professional dancer myself - I appreciate this conversation because far too many times people assume me dancing with partners or something is always sexual OR me and that person is hooking up and it’s so annoying. That is never the case. It’s two people who share a common skill of dance.
Also - dance is the most strenuous activity of them all because it requires you to use every single part of your body and it improves flexibility, stamina and overall mental health.
For me personally, when I felt depressed and wanted to end it all, I turned to dancing and it literally distracted me from all bad in my life. I met great friends. I had life changing experiences.
Dancing is also great networking and money making opportunities.
The more annoying this for me however in this manosphere is that if I tell a dude I am a dancer - he automatically assumes I’m a stripper.
Relax. I am not. There are several different types of dancing that doesn’t require me having money thrown at me and me being naked
@@DestiniKristal so clarify that instead of just saying dancer 😂
@@kararal9834 or stop being ignorant and assuming all women are strippers
@@kararal9834 or just don’t assume someone is a stripper unless they tell you “I’m a stripper”
@@DestiniKristal In all fairness….if you don’t clarify, then it’s reasonable for anyone to believe that you’re a stripper if you say that you’re a “professional dancer.” That is the first thing anyone who does not know you would think. It’s not just the manosphere
I come from a ballroom background and currently socially latin & swing dance, and I 100% agree with them on this. Many non-dancers just don't get it, and tend to think dancing is more than just dancing. Honestly feel like people miss out, on this special connection of dancing with others enjoying the company, the music and everything, definitely glad to have dancing in my life.
I'm sad about this one.
Say between these two, which one would you rather choose to do for the entire month :
A) You dancing with your partner ONLY
B) You dancing with other people ONLY
It's sad that you don't understand that Destiny is cuck who's in an open marriage. He lets other dudes fuck his wife so him letting other dudes dance with his wife has other, less pure implications.
latin has very high crime rate and murder stats
@@thegreatimu how is this relevant?
out of the topic but i just gotta say, i love how you guys let each other take turns and even ask each other if they want to say something. it speaks a lot about how you are willing to listen to each others take.
8:17 OOOHHH SHIT!?!? Aba got the moves!! Been watching you guys content for a while. As a fan I knew aba does dance but that was cool to see it! My sisters were in dance since they could walk. I’ve taken dance classes before. People are there for fun, to learn something new, or to get better. You did nothing wrong my man and people are crazy for thinking that you did anything with a grain of disrespect.
Aba made me want to start dancing cause whatever the snippet was of him was 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wish he had added some snippets of preach's dancing clips too.
Gahd daymn
SAME!
Same. It looks fun
Cant lie, same
Bro can cut a rug
Youve made me want to take dance classes guys! I've thought about it my whole life and you've just lit a fire in me to go look for some local classes ❤
Me too, I love to move to music, but never did formal dancing apart from barn dancing at school. Lessons would get me out too, better use of time than the pub😂
Thats awesome
There’s something heartwarming seeing Aba dance so gracefully and happily
Dancing ballroom style for 15 seconds= you stole his wife how dare you!!!!!
-just sad man, what people will resort to
Seriously. I'm not some alpha male gigachad but I've had a few hookups happen because they saw me dancing and figured I was confident. Not that I really am but thats besides the point lol.
Dancing is one of my favorites loves in this world and Church dances help me have confidence talking to women in general and when I’m on the dance floor I do become a different person a little and dancing in my parents house to salsa and Caribbean and all types of music makes me happy and get my body moving different muscles and stretching them out as well
It's people who haven't seen the sight of grass for a while lol
They're projecting.
@@vindikaktus You're disproving Abas point that dancing isn't sexual lmao
You guys are some of the best on the internet at turning other peoples' ignorance into a teachable moment.
Hundred percent
Absolutely, went from laughing to learning like that 🫰🏽
Nah bruh aba definitely cucked him. I don't mind though cuz I don't like destiny.
@@WoozyASAP coom brain
@@adamcummings20 that’s what a cuck would say
This aged well....
It did. It has nothing to do with the divorce
@@AP-ji8qu It didn't cause the guy said he was fine with his wife sleeping with others so in otherwords the video is made to mock people for being right before the divorce.
@@ArchTerran he was also sleeping w others lmaoo
@@AP-ji8quLol, then there was no point in the divorce if that were true.
I’m Mexican been watching you guys forever and damn this one actually hit an aspect that I’ve dealt with with my whole life. I’m from Mexico City and we like to dance all genres of music there. Growing up around Mexican Americans in the USA it was hilarious to me they thought I was taking their girls or playing some gay card 🤣 but they didn’t realize I was putting them and their girls on to game that was instilled from my parent’s. 💃 🕺
Average American moment tbh. Good on you for not letting them infect you with their stupidness
It’s cause most Americans (mainly the straight guys) have no idea how to dance, they’re too awkward. so when they see a good dancer dancing with their girl they see it as a threat cause she’s clearly having a good time with another guy, and he refuses to get any better at dancing as to actually be able to do anything more than a 2-step with her 😂
Preach! Grew up dancing banda with the tias and took that to the club! Lol people are so repressed in the US and im from here! Think everyone is trying to pick up their girl 😂
I'm 57 and when I saw them dancing I was wondering why he wasn't closer because they were dancing the salsa. I'm African American 😂
@@CaulkMongler To be fair, a man who dances well is a threat 😂 women will sleep with a guy just because he's a good dancer
Are we gonna ignore that Aba killed it dancing on that stage 😮🔥🤣
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i forgot he use to rock that Afro lmao
Simp
And I mean killed it
I thought it was a random clip of a random people on social media at first😂
Quarantine has thrown off so many people’s social gathering/dancing/events skills it’s actually scary. A perpetually online culture and a generation of kids who don’t even know how to use their words. Eventually, clubs will turn in to middle school dances. It’s already happening in college.
And, young people's social meters are so off they often now accuse the smallest shit of being perverse or stalkerish but then defend the WORST predators locally or influencers. I've noticed this in my local dancing scenes, where younger men and women will defend actual narcissistic rapists while calling random respectful dudes creepy. Put these people back into social training fr
@@darkriku12 I don’t think that’s on the young people I’m sure you’ll find people of all ages with this mentality
@@tobilekan4826 it's been much more prevalent in the last three to four years as the TikTok generation comes of age. Before that, it was relatively an open and calm community with standards of interaction and enforced boundaries towards those actually acting out.
This has been around since before quarantine
its not quarantine its just americas retarded mix of puritanism and degeneracy.
To be fair, Aba, I don't know your relationship with Destiny. But you could have atleast asked him for permission as a courtesy and a sign of respect.
No he didnt, if the girl didnt want to dance in order to respect Destiny or not making him feel unconfortable she is the one to say it, Aba has no bussiess asking Destiny. That would even look like Destiny has some power over her or something so he approves or denies that type of thing.
@@arturoliera4531 - This is overthinking. of course
I'm more traditionally inclined. For me, its is a matter of courtesy.
That makes it super weird. You immediately sexualise it by asking if it's ok, the question of if it's ok or not wouldn't have even crossed my mind but I'm not american
To buttress the point, dance is a language that can be sexual but isn't sexual in its nature. You can tell a whole story, have a dance chat and even give sogns of encouragement with the language of dance. Keep dancing Aba. You gave that lady a whole lot of information she needed for her dance journey.
Buttress deez nuts
I too enjoy butt resting points
@@Lhoyte1 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for this one. I took Latin dance classes for a few years and really got out of my shell. People are lonely and unsure these days, and this must be one of the easiest bridge building activities you could do to turn that around. Actually I need to get out there, I miss this stuff!!
This is absolutely true. I live in Latvia and was recently at my mom's sister's 50th birthday party. And guess what? EVERYONE was dancing with EVERYONE. I'd say I'm surprised that there are so many overreacting, but at the same time, I expected it. I was watching the stream when it happened and Destiny's entire chat was alluding or straight-up saying that it's cuck behavior. Ridiculous.
Yeah I know this from my polish family as well anf from pretty much all events in poland I've attended. I danced with the sister of my ex at her wedding 😂 so what?
@Femto maybe cause he got invited? You're the weird dumbass here bro😂
Destiny's chat was saying that to troll tbf. Destiny literally has an open relationship. Why do people think dancing would bother him lmaoooo
@Femto in some Latin American cultures, there's couples that switch partners after every dance. The majority do it but it's also optional.
I think destiny chat where fucking whit him lol
As a Dominican, if you didn't dance at a party, you were the weird one. Everyone danced, with everyone else.
I think ABA and preach are kinda lying here when they say people are mad. They just making jokes it's not serious. I have seen the memes of ABA ruining another lesbian relationship. It's a JOKE. Not is actually serious.
@HouseofHas there are people in the pinned comment saying wild things. If you don't dance there are people that think just that.
Props to you guys for this video, the maturity of this argument is something a lot of people online aren’t ready for, but sorely need! Dancing is fun, dancing is communication, dancing isn’t always sex. It’s like talking, you can talk friendly with someone or you can talk sexual or flirtatious with someone.
.. the clear flirtatious of thise woman in an open marriage says it all.... but i suppose you are ok with your women clearly acting flirtatious...........
Uhm no? How about your women dances with another women?
I dont see why another ment needs to touch ur girl
It's Salsa too so there's no intimate or sexual tension there. It's very casual and open. These upset snowflakes are weird.
@@Moesie because you're a loser who doesn't interact with women or see women are other people aside from objects 'belonging' to their man.
@@Moesiewhat are you, Muslim?
There's nothing wrong with it, but the way Destiny's just sitting there in the foreground looking all disjointed makes it hilarious.
Yeah its a hilarious meme
this is exactly what is sending me. Like why is he making this face?
It really does, he is clearly uncomfortable with this and he's not even remotely trying to hide how he feels 😂
Maybe he needs to take up ballroom dancing :)
@@Delimon007nah Destiny just be looking like that. Like go watch stuff with him in it. That is his resting face.
This situation didn’t age well for Destiny XD
explain pls
@@sametschki496 She divorce him
Situationship lmfao
It did and has noth to do w the divorce
@@WhiteTrash308He divorced her, because she overstepped his boundries.
Funny enough I do ballroom dance classes, and one of the first things I learned is that in group lessons you switch partners constantly. The guy stays and the girls move down to the next ,and circulate. You inevitably dance with other peoples wives, husbands and they know so its not an issue. On top of that its respectful and understood. Your there to learn. Also dancing with different people constantly is one of the best ways to be a better leader, and follower instead of getting used to just one partner.
Yeah that’s a class setting obviously it’s nbd, but would you be cool if a random guy asked your wife to dance and she went with him?
@@speedmetalmassiah567 that's the literal point. You dance so you can dance with everybody and have fun. It's enjoying other people's company and socializing. It's like you're saying you wouldn't let your partner out the house for fear that other men might look at her gtfoh
@@MarmaladePeaches Guys can look all they want, it’s the touching I don’t like.
@@speedmetalmassiah567 Its becouse you never danced with anyone. He barely touched her. Was completly fine and polite. When theres tension between the dancing couple they thing its completly different by the way... they get mor close, men hand of the back of the women has a GRIP not a open hand etc.
@@ArantyrDarkhand I wasn’t talking about Aba dancing with Destiny’s wife, that was literally nothing. You read what you wanted to read on my comment
As a person who is on the salsa scene heavy in NY this is totally accepted. Salsa dancing, especially socially is very much respected where peoples husbands/wives dance with other people. It is a respected environment that doesn't warrant judgement. Its just pure enjoyment of the music and the culture without all the criticism of closed minded people who don't frequent the scene. Its the mindset of people who don't go out and experience the culture who can't understand this. Get out of your box and live life for all those who have an issue with that. Lowkey i see you Aba with your steps...LoL you took a few partnerwork classes LoL
These comments are sad how anyone is okay with other men dancing with your wife/ GF is crazy no women respects her man doing this just know that
You sound like a real culero.
The responses to this comment are kinda crazy, y’all never take ur lady out and just dance?l with different people? When you hang out wit friends, they not allowed to just have fun and dance wit you lady and vice versa? That’s a crazy and stressful space to live in
@@treychapo1898 You're insecure as fuck. If thats all it takes for a woman to make you think she's fucking somene else, then you don't know how to fuck and thats the least of your problems kid. I can tell that your knowledge of what a woman respects or not came from the internet, not your own experience. Bet you're not even 30, both in age and body count. At least i would hope so, with that High School level of frail confidence you portraying. Go touch grass and talk to some people instead of talking to your bedroom poster of Andrew Tate.
@@treychapo1898 why would we ever listen to someone who has timberlands as their profile picture.
You think to dance with someone mean to twerk and grind. If your wife is doing a Waltz with her brother or a male dance teacher, you’re going to be having a panic attack in the corner?😂 it’s giving insecure, it’s giving “I think literally any man can steal my girl because I’m not good enough”
You guys hit it on the head, it’s culturally driven based on how you were raised.
Furthermore some are raised in a social vacuum, so as to say everyone may not be comfortable with someone dancing with their significant other. Me personally I was raised not to visit a woman if her husband isn’t home, something like that can easily bleed over into something as benign as dancing.
I was raised and also just instinctively know not to be around other women’s husbands or SO’s out of respect and because people gossip. I just don’t personally feel comfortable being around another woman’s man. I have respect for the relationship and don’t want anything misinterpreted. Once, my friend insisted her husband drive with me to an area as she and her children were in another car and her husband liked talking to me as I am funny and we had depression in common to talk about. I didn’t want to, but he hopped in the car and the next thing I knew he put his arm around my shoulder (I am NOT a touchy person) and I absolutely cringed and quickly said yo, I’m not (name of wife) maybe you’re getting confused!! You must be tired! And made it into a joke. He may not have meant it in anyway, but sometimes awkward crap happens and can be misinterpreted. I truly don’t think he meant anything by it but I was uncomfortable and if anyone else saw it, it would’ve caused drama.
So bottom line: stay away from someone’s SO (dancing is fine) so long as the other person is in same room.
Then fucking open your Mouth and say something.
@@Curiamacabre no one is reading that lil bro
@@clayparker9197 illiterate moment
@@clayparker9197 you must be a child
Surprised from the future destiny and his wife is getting a divorce
That had nothing to do with this, people in monogamous relationship dance with each other all the time.
@@lampad4549 I never said it has anything to do with the Ada situation. And did you forget that destiny and his wife are not in a monogamous relationship so saying that is irrelevant, the reason why they getting the divorce is because the open relationship they bragged about backfire on them with the new guy his wife is with.
@@lampad4549 u got wrecked xD
Edit 2 [Im done responding to this thread because I made my point clear. If you disagree, so be it. There will be others that agree and you can debate with them.]
To be perfectly honest, I can’t help but laugh at this. 😂
People are so socially inept that they think dancing is inherently sexual.
Edit: I think I need to make this clear.
I’m not saying dancing CANT be sexual. I’m saying dancing as a whole is not INHERENTLY sexual. And to translate im saying “If you want to dance with someone, that does not immediately mean you are wanting to be sexual, the dance is sexual, or trying to seduce the person .”
There are plenty of dances not meant to be taken in a sexual manner and many separate intimacy from dancing unless they want to be intimate with said person. They are performers or people just wanting to dance. If an actor Kisses another actor while dating or being married, that does not suddenly mean said actor is in love with another person. It’s a performance. Whether the partner is okay with that type of stuff or not is up to them, but as it stands it is just a performance.
Ballet from my understanding actually hated the fact that their dancing form was being overly sexualized by the public and media, leading to many cases of grooming and sexual harassment.
Nah thats just the kind of energy you invite when you annouce to the world that ypur lady gets piped out by other dudes. Any dude she talks to, people are wondering "did he hit too?"
Chronic coomers can't see any interaction between a man and a woman without thinking of p0rn and sex.
@@shihobladewhat are you talking about? Are they in an open marriage or are you just making shit up
@@shihoblade tell him I guess to many simps like to leave this little detail out 😂!
@@shihoblade that’s completely fair but I do think people jumped the gun with the whole dancing thing. I do think people take dancing as inherently sexual more often than not. Purely due to the trends passing by.
I remember once I went to a live performance. Everyone was dancing and I got up to dance by myself (my friends were shy, I wanted to enjoy myself) and an older Hispanic lady that was nearby thought it was lacking some etiquette and told her partner to dance with me lol. It’s respectful and fun to dance with others once it’s done in an appropriate manner. 🙆🏾♀️
Honestly, i was so shy and social awkward all my life. But after taking dance classes, i definitely felt like i was part if a genuine community and no longer shy and made awesome friends and everything at 14:08
thats good, dance can be great for your mental health.
Any community where different genders regularly interact in close proximity plutonically are usually very militant about fostering a safe, non-creepy environment. I can tell you in the martial arts community, if any guy is ever inappropriate with a girl while grappling, we shut that down real quick. Unacceptable.
@@MusMasimaybe if u have no mental health problems
Every person in the year 2005-2010 watching any dance show competition that came out knew exactly where the world was headed. Was getting to the point people felt they were just watching two individuals dry hump eachother for a whole song. -- Now a huge chunk of the world looks at dance as a sexualized act decades later.
It is crazy being born in the 90's, and hitting that benchmark (30) where you can truly spot the differences the world has made over the years. Can't imagine how my brain is going to process the topic at 60.
"Now a huge chunk of the world looks at dance as a sexualized act decades later.
This is a dumb ass comment.
Now? Dance has always been sexualized. The Charleston was considered a dirty dance. The waltz was considered to be for prostitutes. Pick a year, any year, and people had a problem with some dance they deemed to sexual. Especially if women were dancing. But, yeah somehow only recently dance has been sexualized.
@@darnarxz Okay tulip.
I don’t care what anyone says, most social dancing is not sexual and it’s completely platonic
@@user-lt1jd1ye3vit all depends on the chemistry between the 2. But honestly I'm from Mexico. Unless y'all single. You can't get another man's women and dance with her. If you do everyone in the community will look at the man like a player and the women a dirty rag.
I'm 33 and man I couldn't of said it better... before same sex marriage was legal in the states.. what was it? 2010? 2011? And 10 years later they now want to steal our kids and change their sex and it's blasted every fucking where with the flags.. so glad the internet wasn't a thing when I was in school
I just read an article on people addicted to drama ( especially those who claim to hate drama) and it's basically people who need to feel important so they manufacture intent/narratives in order to be outraged over, and use their involvement to feel important/relevant/get attention. They insert themselves so they can feel like they're a part of something. And because they're big ol drama queen gossips, they will literally invent conflict. This? This is a perfect example.
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Wow, this makes so much sense... really explains a lot about today's society
Sad...Hell, I arrived at this conclusion years ago just by witnessing the overly dramatic go about their lives. In short. I discovered this concept in the wild, during "field research".
That sounds like dsp
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I picked up Latin dancing about 6 months ago, it’s been life changing. I was quite the homebody before, now I’m going out dancing several times a week and traveling for festivals/congresses around the US. I’ve shared amazing moments with people, made good friends, met and clicked with beautiful women, and dancing itself is just fun…simple as that. Plus if ur anything like me, you’ll get obsessed with getting better at it
How good were you when you got started? Seems so fun!
@@juntoringo I'm not the person you're asking, but bad man! Everyone is when they start, if you think you're gonna look like a fool, you probably will, but no ones there to judge you man its just something you gotta learn!
@@juntoringo As far as knowing how to dance, I was at 0. You’d never catch me on the dance floor. I did pick it up quickly, but everyone goes at their own pace. I know people who’ve only been dancing for 3 months and they’re better than me. Just enjoy the ride brotha
@@cccccccccccccccccccccccccc8412 thanks for responding, honestly helped me made up my mind and take the leap. Appreciate it
@@KingRakyat thanks bro, I’m looking forward to my next 6 months - glad to hear it meant a lot to you and excited to see where its gonna take me. Signed up already too :)
I was best man at a wedding years ago and the parents of the bride (both in their late 60's) were just tearing up the dance floor - nothing flashy or anything like that just full on in sync dancing with each other like they have been doing all their life, old school. Most amazing thing I have seen.
The gaslighting is crazy 😂
I remember last year me, my now fiancee, and his friends/family went out to a bar to celebrate someone's birthday and some random older gentleman asked me to dance bachata with him. I accepted because it sounded like fun and i wanted to be polite. We danced a total of three times that night, all three times my fiancee (bf at the time) was watching and enjoying the view while his friends were the ones bitching and making a fit about it. The gentleman even came up to my fiancee and complimented us as a couple and thanked us for a good time. Moral of this comment, quit making a huge fit over something that doesn't involve you...as long as all parties were comfortable with what happened, all is good
you don't respect your man you could have declined it, would you feel the same way if he did it with another woman u literally cucked you man
@@johnsmith3859 lmao shit i made when i was a kid. I'm surprised they're still up, i thought they were all taken down
@@LatinaSoldier15 Going straight to your channel to see. Lol. (edit- I thought it was dancing videos and it was not. Kinda disappointed but then again that w as an assumption)
*older gentleman who probably don't want to have s3x with you*
Brother likes to watch, good for him ‼️‼️
I couldn't agree more with this video. I got into dancing right before the pandemic hit because of a bad dancing experience I had at my Senior Prom. It was amazing and completely changed my perspective on life. I got to speak with new and amazing people, as well as interact and be a part of my community. Id recommend that everyone go to at least one dance class or event. If it's not for you, it's not for you, but at least you tried it.
Bro you're describing exactly what happened to me, except I took it as far as I could and became a professional dancer in the industry for a couple years (I live in LA, good fortune).
The social aspect was by far the greatest and most fulfilling aspect of learning how to dance. It opened my dating options, allowed me to meet other creatives, and gave me an identity that non-creatives/citizens admired and respected.
Long story short I co-sign the hell out of your recommendation 💯
@Mr. M still got a chance bro. Just start dating high school girls and hope they ask you?
@mr.m6038but if you go to ballroom classes maybe you’ll be able to dance with girls after that. Rizz em up 🕺
Same! It is so much fun and it’s such a wholesome community! And everyone has always been super respectful, whether you’re single or not
@Mr. M Don't listen to them young man. You don't know until you try. I'm 57 and fully encourage doing things even if you a little uncomfortable.
This is how the dance community works. People shouldn't talk about things they don't understand.
Then be quiet
I dance salsa. While the dance itself is not inherently sexual, you leading his wife in a dance, especially if he cannot dance, and her enjoying it can come across in a way that immaculates him.
I'm ngl this video really came in clutch for me. I just started dating a Latina girl and she and I have been going great for a month so far. But one thing I've noticed which connects to this video, is that she loves to dance salsa, pachata, etc. My family is middle eastern, and for us if you touch a girl that isn't your wife/gf you're practically cheating. I'm being slightly hyperbolic when I say that but at the same time it's really not far off from the truth. So when my girl told me that she has a group of friends that she goes dancing with in these kinds of events, I was initially thrown off. I was more uncomfortable when I found out that some of those friends were guys. But she had reassured me that she's been doing this shit for years and that there was nothing sexual going on between her and these friends. I've been skeptical about it until last night when we had another talk about it with her, and after I watched this video. It definitely gave me a bit of context to my gf's culture and helped me understand that not everything involving dancing involves sex. Thanks for the video you two, it definitely helped put me at ease.
Well from a place where women cant even shake a man hands i understand skepticism
Goin to teach you 2 things... if their body dont touch your know the whole body, and it the men hand at the women hip its open. Its totaly fine and natural.
Now it they are rubbing tights and croths they are in for a hardcore sex hahahaha.
@@grade3328 Or show ankle or hair.
I’ll say this from first hand and second hand experience, Hispanic culture goes both ways, people who love to dance and it’s very normal and don’t get offended by it and there are some who do. Both my parents are from Mexico, two different cities, and both from both sides of the spectrum, my dad from the side of no woman should dance with anyone but her husband and my mother who grew up with family and friends who all danced with each other and it was normal. I also grew up dancing, I didn’t love it as much as my mother so I didn’t stick it with it or cared to fight for it when it came to partners, however my mother LOVED it, she still loves, but my father never changed his mindset and he also doesn’t like dancing himself, so for the last 43 years she has basically given up one of her most favorite things she has always loved to do, and there is nothing more tragic then seeing someone who loves to dance at a get together, like a wedding, a birthday, special event, who you can see glowing in the face who wishes she can dance but has to say no, to family members, friends, etc, im just saying, despite cultural differences or even personal preferences, if your partner has a love for something and it brings them joy, don’t kill that for them, at least try and be understandable, otherwise your just making a big part of your partners life miserable that would have made them extremely happy if it wasn’t for you.
@@SeIene thank you for the comment. I genuinely appreciate it
I love when you guys mention your dancing background, I started taking salsa and bachata courses back in 2018/2019, and it gave me such confidence and comfort within my body and how I hold myself my head a lot. It’s amazing how much better I felt about myself after taking my first month of classes.
I’m thinking of taking dance classes but i’m so awkward and have no coordination.
@@junior17medval Same here, but we'll be shit at it for a bit vs forever if we don't try
@@placate9051 you’re right, we all have to start somewhere.
I agree. I am not good at it. But it does push you to actually do uncomfortable things and be ok with it
Alternative title: "American kids who don't know what dancing is treats any physical contact as sexual intercourse"
Ya'll have it right once again. If you're a shy guy maybe awkward or insecure signing up for a dance class is actually a good way to get you in the right mindset. And the thing is that in the context of just platonic dancing, you're actually very unlikely to be rejected. In fact guys have all the power in this context, I have never heard of a girl rejecting a dance. So you kill two birds with one stone, you get to interact with the opposite sex without any sort of expectations and you get to build your confidence while having fun.
Yeah, swapping dancing partners at a family get together or dance event or party is different than dancing with your friend's wife at his house while your friend silently sit in the corner looking awkward as hell.
Imagine having to explain dancing isn't automatically cheating to chronic basement dwellers. Man just shattered their whole reality.
hahahaha
And shattered the Mountain Dew castle they built and perfected in the past year or two 😂
@@edunlap6594
Such great *architecture* lost to the ages 💀
Basement dwellers dont get the concept of an interaction with the opposite gender, that does not involve sex or pre sex activities.
You're delusional if you think this changed anyone's mind lol
Thats what you call socializing, something that these people have told us directly that they know nothing about.
@@roxxybaybee8807 what?
It’s almost impressive how people can twist nothing into something 1,000x bigger than it ever was or should’ve been
Honestly, this is reaching 🙄
I mean, Aba did break the touch barrier. This is how affairs start
@@dipset4016 plus she was reluctant too, he coerced her into it. He didn't even ask destiny if he was cool with it.
Body to body dancing is an intimate. And don't even use the latino culture cop out cuz none of them are even from that culture and in those cultures when u switch partners u gotta ask the partners partner before switching. And the person is dancing with someone not just sitting there watching u dance with his girl.
Like that doesn't happen at all
@@dipset4016 This is a logical fallacy called slippery slope. “Well he touched her hand a little bit which leads to hugging which leads to kissing which leads to sex.” And even if it at some point DID ever lead to that, how does that make Destiny a cuck now? Think.
@@Eking-su3tr 1. This isn’t body to body. Rewatch the video. 2. You can partake in other cultures without being a part of that culture. Such a weird thing to have to say. He even threw clips in of him dancing in front of a pretty sizable crowd with another partner, so it’s not like he’s new. 3. You don’t ask permission in a salsa. You clearly don’t dance things like this. I’ve never done it either, but I used to know a little bit about this kind of stuff as I was a dorky theater/choir nerd. Asking permission in a salsa would stop the entire flow, which is the point of a salsa. Stop saying random stupid shit.
Aba and Preach need to prove that dancing isn't sexual by ballroom dancing together.
It can be gendered and NOT sexual.
You can dance with your mom or grandma and it's fine.
But doing that with your dad would be weird.
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I'm so impressed by Aba. He's got some skills! Not at all inappropriate and if her husband truly had an issue he wouldn't have other men around his wife.
well that would be due to the fact that he lets other men fuck his wife
Lmaoo ofc a woman says this. If my wife/serious gf wants to dance with another man the way THEY were dancing, he can have her. Go look at destiny’s face through tht whole thing😂dude looked awkward and annoyed asf. Any man in an open relationship with his woman is automatically a cück
@@mutedimagination666you people broaden the definition of a cuck so much that it's going to lose its meaning. An open relationship isnt a cuck relationship, theyre completely different things. An open relationship just means that both parties are allowed to fuck other people. A cuck is a fetish where you want to be demeaned and watch your girl get railed by someone. These are completely different things
@@ryanrich7133he was a cuck before she danced with aba tho.
@@ryanrich7133 coming from a woman, I hope your lady does take that dance and leave you. You sound lame and insecure.
For the people in the back, you can use your bodies for things other than sex and have a good time. I want to say that this is more of a culture shock than anything else because I've seen it personally as a Latino (Mexican) myself. We're a very socially outgoing culture where our fiesta's, quinceaneras, weddings, etc all have dancing at their core with bandas and mariachis going on all night. Its common to see people dancing with different partners even without them being in a relationship because its just supposed to be a fun pastime. Move around guys, its genuinely a great time!
Hell, it’s the same lots of parties I’ve been to in the UK! And we’re supposed to be the most uptight people in the world 😂
Nah, destiny was utterly embarrassed.
How would you react if you want in a room and found your girl friend dancing with your friend
@@Abdullah-vg1uche’d probably be fine😂 not uncommon. If you got a problem that says more about you than other people
@@Abdullah-vg1uc that's not what happened here. The girl's guy is sitting right there. It's not like Aba took her in the back room and fucked her after.
First of all, this is not sexual! Especially for Hispanics. We love to dance and we love dancing with everyone. It’s part of our culture. It’s not sexual. And Destiny is Cuban. He understands that. This is not cuckery… also, shout to to Aba finally showing us his dancing skills!!
L Cuba , Zestiny
Depends on the person
I didn't see a single hispanic person in that room.
@@SCrEenNaMe-i9h their saying it shouldn’t depend, that your too sensitive otherwise (which is fair)
Didn't know destiny is cuban, that's cool.
Damn it only took 6 months after this situation for the end to come 🤣
Cuz it has nothing to do with this lol
2:40 Preach damn near killed me with that comeback 😂
Every young man should take ballroom dancing, It taught me how to be a better leader, be confident, a better follower, and handling rejection. It teaches some men to not expect anything more then the dance you’re receiving in the moment and to thank your partner for the time. I only did it for a period of a couple months, but learned so much.
I hear those classes are filled with men and they struggle to find women
@@dipset4016 lmao it is only gonna be even more filled with men hoping to bag.
@@Oakland510 they will be playing a very long pass the parcel in those ballroom dancing classes, both on and off the ballroom.
@Mr. M unfortunately not, you may be able to find a class at a local community center or something, but I paid 60 dollars for 45 minutes of a private lesson. I did them at my leisure. Some venues that have Latin nights or other nights sometimes do a dancing class prior to the event, so you could learn a move or two
@Mr. M I get it man, the thing about high expectations, is that it sets you up for big disappointment. Start small, get your wins, and work your way up to those big expectations. Metaphorically speaking, a house with no foundation will inevitability fall. Build it with manageable expectations. You'll get to where you wanna be eventually, you're running your own race and you will win eventually. Life sucks when you're constantly comparing yourself to what others have
I'm a hairstylist and there are women who will literally hover over me while I'm cutting their husband's hair because they are so insecure because We have close contact .it's like i'm cutting his hair.smh. I can't even imagine that type of person if their spouse was dancing with somebody even nonsexually.
living with a woman like that must be exhausting, had a few break ups over jealousy but none as bad as that.
I find this hard to believe but on the other hand, the type of wife who’s gonna go WITH her husband to get his haircut is prob the type who’s gonna hover. Still, I understand why a lot of wives want their men to go to the barbershop or husbands prefer their wives have a woman masseuse 🤷🏼♀️
I know women like that. They also constantly call their SO to make sure he's where he's supposed to be. They are helicopter wives because they don't trust their husbands. He's going to cheat if he really wants to. And if you're going to accept it and stay, then let him cheat in peace. Can't control anybody.
@@scarletsletter4466 so in your view, women can’t be insecure just like men. And even when someone with clear experience of when they are, you don’t believe them
It's weird when people act like "she touched his wrist, obviously the next step is she's gonna sit on his face!" It's insanely insecure.
This aged well
It did. It has noth to do w the divorce
@@AP-ji8quhis cuckness did
My mom was a ballroom dancer. My dad learned to dance for her. It probably saved their relationship and you can tell they love it when they are on a cruise or something and they get to show off their dancing haha. All the younger pwople want to dance with them. It 100% has given them a better relationship
Aww, that's cute 💃
So if your dad didn't dance, was your mom going to leave your dad for a dancer ?
@@PinChE_LoCo orrrr maybe it was about spending more quality time together, taking an interest in each other's passions, and connecting and having fun.
@@PinChE_LoCo i dont think so. But i can tell it meant the world to my mom that he actively wanted to learn and take her dancing properly. i think he likes it a lot now too just for the attention haha and when they look at each other while dancing, you can tell that their is an infinite amount of love between them. Its a really good way for them to spend quality time together now that they are older. I think its their way of holding onto the younger part of their relationship if that makes sense?
@@PinChE_LoCo... or maybe the fact he took time to involve himself in smthg his wife loved? Maybe when you take dance class with your So there is more than the class dance?