Dude in the middle is very responsible and mature..He knows how to be in a healthy relationship because he’s in a space of creating a healthy relationship with himself first..#Respectfully
I agree with him where that you should work on yourself first but where he goes wrong is like Rico said giving too much too soon to those who don’t deserve that yet.
If you were playing in a field where many women thought like you, then I’d understand. In that situation you can find your match quickly. But many of us been there and they eat men like you up and spit you out. You’re too damn nice. (I say that with love homie) But it’s clear you need to touch the stove a few more times, thinking one day it’ll stop burning you. Rico and Esso was spot on and I felt so bad to see you wasn’t rejecting their super super solid advice. Gosh!! It really hurt to see good people who need to waist years and learn the hard way. But hey I hope it all works out. All the best my friend.
We're proud of you brother (Rashaan Ali) You have the mind of a growing King. You have integrity, morals, self esteem & values. You are the one that will succeed in life, in real love & grace. There are true Queens out here with your same mindset, I personally know quite a few of them, we're here King. Do not let the weak reckless loose ones lead you to destruction. We are glad that you're not reckless nor immature🙏🏽 Stay strong and stay true King👑
Rahaan you have my utmost respect. Live in your truth. I looovvee the way you kept your own. Do not get pressured into being someone you are not. You give me the confirmation that good man are out there and not just 'packs of wolves/ dogs'. A very important point was brought up about women bēng too bossy when the man step back....something both partners can sit and talk about without fussing. Bottom line, we are all a work in progress..meet each other halfway. It's about quality relationships not quantity.
@@Sir_RashaanAli Thank you for receiving. Would it be possible to do a continuance or a part two of this discussion?...all male....#one of the best sittings so far.
My parents have been married for 32 years and my dad says "Never trust a man who stays married but encourages other men to be a hoe. Either his words or his life is a lie, and either way he can't be trusted." Rashaan, keep healing, love!
But he didn’t say don’t get married. He simply said it was hard. Marriage is hard for both parties, and there’s a different for giving his honest truth and telling some one DONT GET MARRIED, which he never said. He just said the hardest thing is trying to get on the same page with another woman. Rashaan encourages marriage and has one divorce already, so am I suppose to listen to him? Lol not saying he’s wrong or right either just saying stop listening just for argument points and listen to what was actually said
Why are they laughing at him because he's still healing? Why's that funny? Relationships can really damage you PERMANENTLY so if it takes you 5 years to heal then so be it... as long as you heal. Not everyone gets over things in the same time frame and them laughing at him, in MY eyes is the same thing as "Men aren't supposed to cry." or show emotion. That's stupid.
@@Knowledge-vs6ti I pray for the return of your joy and happiness. Forgive her for what she did to you and how she treated you. Forgiveness allows you to let go of it because if you hold onto it it will hurt you even more and she wins. Its like carrying 20 heavy grocery bags in 1 hand. All that pressure on that one hand will cause the hand to hurt as long as you're holding on. When you let go and put the bags down, you feel no more pain. Forgiving someone that hurt you is the best form of self care. Not everyone is like her. You'll meet someone else and they're going to be totally different.... that is IF you learned the lesson from the last one. There is a lesson in that heartbreak. Be thankful for the lesson that she taught you and use it to make you a better man.
I love the fact that he has his own mind, that’s what makes you strong and a leader! What works for you don’t work for me. It’s a difference in a male, a man, and a grown man! He is a grown man and I can recognize that. And it’s beautiful 😍
Yes most definitely. I feel in love with hiiiim. he's the kind of guy I want to be with 24/7 and I promise sex won't cross my mind. I want a man just like him on a different level
I have mad respect for Rashaan!! I can see just from what he expressed in this video that he has really grown as a man and is in a different season of his life💪🏾💪🏾💜
Dude in the middle morals is a cut above the norm. He standing on his principals tough. And even while being attacked he respectfully disagrees with pov’s that don’t align with his. Definitely a W for buddy in the middle. 💪🏾 💯
I thought this was a judgment free zone. Healing is a personal thing. I'm still healing 7 years after my husband's passing. Yall chill cos this the same reason why black men shut down. This was a good topic for real😏😏😏😏
@ChinkChink Thank you for your kind words. I just never thought I would be a single woman at 46 but in the midst of life there is death they say. Much love sister😍
Please don't listen to those other guys At the end of the day you have to do what works for you take as much time as you may need Rashann's to heal and don't let nobody tell you other wise I hope you find what you are looking for once you are heal 🙏🏻😊
@@reihannahherring8605 I know... i'm sure she's one of those stuggle love wife that settled. Ain't nothing special about that. He seem like a headache and always frontin' rico too
Dating won't be healing. It's taking time to know your weakness and strength and being sure of what you looking for before jumping to an other date that sure helps to heal.
Ima need esso and Rico to let rashaan finish his sentences. He gives them the time to speak but when it’s his turn they interrupt. I do agree with them though, spread your wings rashaan don’t settle for marriage just yet
Leads you into shxt and then tell you that "personally, I wouldn't do that." We don't have time for bravado, let's just be truthful and let the chips fall where they lie.
I hate how they’re clowning and then giving him bad advice at the same time. The difference in a grown man vs a grown boy. I applaud him for trying to heal and not bringing that baggage in the next relationship. Let the man heal in peace. @TonyGaskins where you at? #TonyGaskins It’s a young man here who needs help.
I commend Rahaan. Don't listen to these other two. It's important to be a man integrity when you're looking for a good woman. Thank you for being a man and gentlemen.
Rashaan is very self aware, confident , responsible and that’s an awesome thing. I’m happy he is showing men all over who watch this that’s it’s ok to sit back and see where youuu went wrong & more important that it’s okay for Men to seek help.
Rashawn please don’t take Esso’s advice. He’s emotionally immature. Part of loving or having real love in life means that we may get hurt but it also allows us to grow as human beings. You’ll meet someone who will give you exactly what you need when you’re supposed to have it.
I’m here for Rashaan! I don’t think he should change at all but I agree he may be doing these things for the wrong women. Women are looking for men with his mindset. Unfortunately, many give into their friends’ advice and change up.
If someone thinks marriage is the hardest thing they have ever done in life, then maybe marriage isn't for you?? Mad respect for Rashaan for approaching his feelings and relationships seriously. There isn't a due date on healing, especially if you are continuously working on yourself. In my opinion, sex doesn't help in the healing, it is a temporary fix b/c after the session, the pain, thoughts, bad feelings are still there. One has to dig deeper into yourself to heal and to eventually find the right person for you.
You get to choose to participate in the way people love and Rashaan is on the road less travelled...its a privilege to thrive in a relationship these days as two distinct individuals
This video highlights why the world is the way it is. It seems like self love, discipline (physical/sexual), are all something that isn't common. It's quite unfortunate. It seems that Rashaan recognizes the cycles that he has been in with relationships isn't working. He knows that he needs to try something new, however, he is still a bit misguided. I think they all are operating out of their own desires without knowing and loving themselves first.
People don't realize that you need to take time out to heal. Going from one relationship to another is not healthy for males or females. You may end up treating your next the same or not dealing with things you need to deal with. Your body and mind need time to heal.
@@houseofmatrix6174 Yes I'm on my journey of healing. Unfortunately my man passed away unexpectedly so it wasn't a break-up technically but I can definitely see where Rashaan is coming from. I hope everyone the best 🥰
@@nikkistaton2961 I’m sorry for your lost 🤍🕊.I can’t imagine what your going through I pray you get all healing stay close to family& friends. Here’s a song I think you will enjoy ua-cam.com/video/RgKAFK5djSk/v-deo.html
"I tried that way and it didnt work for me." Nuff said. Let the man have HIS experience. He respects himself AND the women he deals with and the yall acting like that's a problem... make it make sense.
Best episode I’ve ever witness on this channel. Period. Idk if it’s Bc it speaks to my FUCKING soul rn but there are 3 perspectives on this panel and I been through ALL THE FUCKING THEM. I’m 30. I’m married. I’m considering divorce Bc this the hardest goddamn shit I ever did - ever. Period. And all these problems are so familiar to me that it’s so damn refreshing to hear men like myself on a mission in life trying to balance my grind with my love life. Thank you. Only thing I’d like to hear is GWAPO 2 cents but these 3 ppl right here are speaking life into me.
I agree. REAL topics (not that shallow nonsense) and REAL, sincere people with responses is much more relatable and interesting that all the frontin that usually goes on on this show. With that being said if she is a good woman, do what you must to make it work. Unless she deserves better and you're not willing to be that, let her go. If she's a mediocre partner, let her know what she needs to work on & how it's tearing you guys apart. If she's no good or if yall never belonged together in the first place, leave her. Follow your heart. You know the right thing to do. 🙏good luck
That baby Rico needs to go to therapy, that’s all I hear when he make excuses for why he do what he do. Now that you know why you are the way you are seek help to be better!
Healing doesn’t happen overnight! It’s a process. When healing from anything it’s best that you see the things that you are healing from ! Write it down and talk about the things that you are going through !
Rashaan thanks for sharing your story, you are human. I think sometimes we forget that men has feelings, heart and soul. Healing is not easy’ it takes time and a lot of self-awareness and accountability.
The process of healing for starts with yourself, re-examining/Re evaluating your heart posture. I’m learning healing is the process of CHOOSING to forgive and love you first then the one that hurt you! Self Love is self maintenance!
Rashaan is such an open honest vulnerable sweet trying knowledgeable man. He is honestly ginuine. He's the kind of man that iiii can see my self with for a life time!! He has a subtle calm loving kind of spirit to him. I feel in love the more I hear him talk and actually express himself!!!
To rashaun continue to stand your ground, follow your heart, continue to treat women as the queens they are. You Will find your person. One thing ppl must realize chasing paper is not the main factor of a successful beautiful joyful healthy wealthy life. Seeking purpose in all you do with love so that you can receive in abundance of that which you give.
I love this episode. I feel like this a real conversation between friends (you may not be but it's what it felt like). In a friends group, you got yo thot friends, your romantics, and ones that's a little bit of both. All stood their ground while keeping it light and fun. Great job fellas.
Loved this episode more than any. Please keep just the man. It’s not loud. Everyone was able to talk. Everyone listened. Everyone laughed. I love listening to men’s perspective instead of women. Why? Cause I’m married to a man, so I’m intrigued by how men perceive the actions of women, and this is some good stuff. There isn’t enough talk shows with all men.
The men don't understand that it's a new contract with different terms and conditions once you become a HUSBAND. The men wanna act single while married , are yall hearing this???💀
Let’s stop the cap!!! We go through ups and downs with a woman… if she cheat it’s because we cheated in the past.. if she official! Me and wifey been together for 15 years through all the BS!!! On both parties!!! But through forgiveness on both sides and trust me Ima die with some shit she will never know. I’m sure she she will as well. If I would have left in 2008 I would have never got to know the 2021 version of her nor would she have me. A relationship is a struggle just like the hoods many of us grew up in. It’s how you conquer it that determines who we will be. We just came back from Orlando today and we both said… I’m happy I saw you though and didn’t leave back then because… our bond is real and we grew together. Everyone makes mistakes but… if I have a bad game but I’m an MVP do you trade me??
dawg they funny asab , at least hes laughing at it -- rico is completely right-- bein a hopeless romantic is dangerous u have to POLICE those feelings-- sorry everybody dont deserve that upfront --
I’m the other way I’m one way until I get you once I get you and you’re mine I wanna go even harder not start lacking or get comfortable cause I wanna keep you now that I have you. Without you being mine I might fall back or not be consistent cause at the end of the day you’re not my man and it can be hard to find a balance sometimes
Rashaan is the beacon of hope for dating .... seems like the other two tryna turn him into an “asshole” but I hope he stays the way he is cause we need more considerate, courteous, black men who are willing and capable of courting lady’s cause we’re not all thots out here. 💁🏾♀️ period.
Esso just telling real facts. I been married I got when being nice guy just like man in the middle. After I divorce . I woke and saw the light it change me. I respect Esso raw and realness. Women flip on you on drop of dime.
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Dude in the middle is very responsible and mature..He knows how to be in a healthy relationship because he’s in a space of creating a healthy relationship with himself first..#Respectfully
Why he look like the drunk dude in the kitchen in that house party movie
I agree with him where that you should work on yourself first but where he goes wrong is like Rico said giving too much too soon to those who don’t deserve that yet.
He is taking a long time tho 🤣
Thank you queen 🖤
@@Sir_RashaanAli You’re welcome ❣️
Thank you for tapping in. I’m still healing 🖤
If you were playing in a field where many women thought like you, then I’d understand. In that situation you can find your match quickly. But many of us been there and they eat men like you up and spit you out. You’re too damn nice. (I say that with love homie) But it’s clear you need to touch the stove a few more times, thinking one day it’ll stop burning you. Rico and Esso was spot on and I felt so bad to see you wasn’t rejecting their super super solid advice. Gosh!! It really hurt to see good people who need to waist years and learn the hard way. But hey I hope it all works out. All the best my friend.
I meant: “I felt so bad to see you was rejecting their advice….”
@@bayosimmonds330 thank you for your opinion bro. I really appreciate your thoughts strongly disagree but that’s cool. I’m glad you have an opinion.
We're proud of you brother
(Rashaan Ali)
You have the mind of a growing King. You have integrity, morals, self esteem & values. You are the one that will succeed in life, in real love & grace. There are true Queens out here with your same mindset, I personally know quite a few of them, we're here King. Do not let the weak reckless loose ones lead you to destruction.
We are glad that you're not reckless nor immature🙏🏽 Stay strong and stay true King👑
@@Sir_RashaanAli It was fresh air watching you. Do you have your own channel. If not you should.
He was being vulnerable and honest that ain’t easy nothing but RESPECT for dude.
I appreciate it beloved 💪🏾
Rahaan you have my utmost respect. Live in your truth. I looovvee the way you kept your own. Do not get pressured into being someone you are not. You give me the confirmation that good man are out there and not just 'packs of wolves/ dogs'. A very important point was brought up about women bēng too bossy when the man step back....something both partners can sit and talk about without fussing. Bottom line, we are all a work in progress..meet each other halfway. It's about quality relationships not quantity.
🖤🖤🖤 thank you
@@Sir_RashaanAli Thank you for receiving. Would it be possible to do a continuance or a part two of this discussion?...all male....#one of the best sittings so far.
@@fiat3144 sure we will look into that we def luv this segment
I hope he finds someone good 🙂 He seems very mature unlike the other two!
@@brittanyb5942 🖤🖤
Rahaan is so transparent and mature. A good man 🔑
Apdta I appreciate your compliment queen
My parents have been married for 32 years and my dad says "Never trust a man who stays married but encourages other men to be a hoe. Either his words or his life is a lie, and either way he can't be trusted."
Rashaan, keep healing, love!
But he didn’t say don’t get married. He simply said it was hard. Marriage is hard for both parties, and there’s a different for giving his honest truth and telling some one DONT GET MARRIED, which he never said. He just said the hardest thing is trying to get on the same page with another woman. Rashaan encourages marriage and has one divorce already, so am I suppose to listen to him? Lol not saying he’s wrong or right either just saying stop listening just for argument points and listen to what was actually said
Rashaan is emotionally intelligent! Keep healing boo
I appreciate the compliment queen apdta
Why are they laughing at him because he's still healing? Why's that funny? Relationships can really damage you PERMANENTLY so if it takes you 5 years to heal then so be it... as long as you heal. Not everyone gets over things in the same time frame and them laughing at him, in MY eyes is the same thing as "Men aren't supposed to cry." or show emotion. That's stupid.
Man fr I’m a street dude just hit 27; got my first heart break still healing don’t trust females now
@@Knowledge-vs6ti I pray for the return of your joy and happiness. Forgive her for what she did to you and how she treated you. Forgiveness allows you to let go of it because if you hold onto it it will hurt you even more and she wins. Its like carrying 20 heavy grocery bags in 1 hand. All that pressure on that one hand will cause the hand to hurt as long as you're holding on. When you let go and put the bags down, you feel no more pain. Forgiving someone that hurt you is the best form of self care. Not everyone is like her. You'll meet someone else and they're going to be totally different.... that is IF you learned the lesson from the last one. There is a lesson in that heartbreak. Be thankful for the lesson that she taught you and use it to make you a better man.
It will PERMANENTLY damage you if you let it! All the solution or lack of it is in your mind. Be logical and snap out of the self pity
Because low value dudes only see themselves as man when they're reckless and sleeping with mulitple women which is very sad.
I love the fact that he has his own mind, that’s what makes you strong and a leader! What works for you don’t work for me. It’s a difference in a male, a man, and a grown man! He is a grown man and I can recognize that. And it’s beautiful 😍
I appreciate the luv for sure 🖤🖤🖤🖤 thank tou
Exactly. Weak minded people allow the majority to force their opinions on others and that weak to agree when you have your own mind.
Yes most definitely. I feel in love with hiiiim. he's the kind of guy I want to be with 24/7 and I promise sex won't cross my mind. I want a man just like him on a different level
I have mad respect for Rashaan!! I can see just from what he expressed in this video that he has really grown as a man and is in a different season of his life💪🏾💪🏾💜
Dude in the middle morals is a cut above the norm. He standing on his principals tough. And even while being attacked he respectfully disagrees with pov’s that don’t align with his. Definitely a W for buddy in the middle. 💪🏾 💯
I thought this was a judgment free zone. Healing is a personal thing. I'm still healing 7 years after my husband's passing. Yall chill cos this the same reason why black men shut down. This was a good topic for real😏😏😏😏
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Obhi dead
@ChinkChink Thank you for your kind words. I just never thought I would be a single woman at 46 but in the midst of life there is death they say. Much love sister😍
I love Rashaan’s perspective. Don’t listen to those other dudes. Honor your healing journey and do what works for you. Much respect.
Thank you queen 🖤
Please don't listen to those other guys At the end of the day you have to do what works for you
take as much time as you may need Rashann's to heal and don't let nobody tell you other wise I hope you find what you are looking for once you are heal
🙏🏻😊
We're proud of you Rashaan. Continue to heal with maturity not intimacy. You're a true King with integrity. Keep up the good growth my brother 👑
Esso already let’s me know he is emotionally immature. He hiding all his pain pretending. Can spot it a million miles away.
I’m hearing he is married tho
You right because dudes that act like that be the most emotional use to be like that
@@reihannahherring8605 sounds like projection tbh
@@reihannahherring8605 I know... i'm sure she's one of those stuggle love wife that settled. Ain't nothing special about that. He seem like a headache and always frontin' rico too
Dating won't be healing. It's taking time to know your weakness and strength and being sure of what you looking for before jumping to an other date that sure helps to heal.
FACTS dating isn’t really healing it can help you find yourself which can guide someone to their best processes of healing.
Lmkkk
I respect his maturity. It’s so refreshing. I value his approach to love and relationships. Thank you for standing in your truth.
Thank you so much I appreciate your kind words for sure 🖤
Ima need esso and Rico to let rashaan finish his sentences. He gives them the time to speak but when it’s his turn they interrupt. I do agree with them though, spread your wings rashaan don’t settle for marriage just yet
Exactly. The judgment for this brother is real.
Rashaan still has his morals, he hasn't been broken yet.
Esso seems the type of guy who gives bad advice, but he wouldn't do that himself. #respectfully
Leads you into shxt and then tell you that "personally, I wouldn't do that." We don't have time for bravado, let's just be truthful and let the chips fall where they lie.
Naw Esso the OG who told you not to love these hoes and you disagree then you find out he was right
You’re giving him too much credit
I just said that fr he be acting use to be like that
I hate how they’re clowning and then giving him bad advice at the same time.
The difference in a grown man vs a grown boy.
I applaud him for trying to heal and not bringing that baggage in the next relationship.
Let the man heal in peace.
@TonyGaskins where you at?
#TonyGaskins
It’s a young man here who needs help.
Love the Honesty and Transparency...The Gentleman in the Middle makes the most sense to me.
Healing is important y’all… Rashaan is right!
Thank you 🖤
He's definitely got his eyes open on this one
I commend Rahaan. Don't listen to these other two.
It's important to be a man integrity when you're looking for a good woman.
Thank you for being a man and gentlemen.
Peace queen I appreciate that apdta
When he said "im a hopeless romantic"🥰🥰
Rashaan is very self aware, confident , responsible and that’s an awesome thing. I’m happy he is showing men all over who watch this that’s it’s ok to sit back and see where youuu went wrong & more important that it’s okay for Men to seek help.
Esso like 60 acting like he’s still in his late teens. Grow up gramps.
Gramps😂
word he blew mines smh I would be embarrassed if I was his wife
😂😂
@@tinar.6549 I’m most certain she is.
Thank you
Rashawn please don’t take Esso’s advice. He’s emotionally immature. Part of loving or having real love in life means that we may get hurt but it also allows us to grow as human beings. You’ll meet someone who will give you exactly what you need when you’re supposed to have it.
I agree!!
Esso speaking Factz I lose a girl I went get some 🐱 I felt instantly better
I’m here for Rashaan! I don’t think he should change at all but I agree he may be doing these things for the wrong women. Women are looking for men with his mindset. Unfortunately, many give into their friends’ advice and change up.
Same!
Very true!!
Thank you for your thought queen I really appreciate it 🖤
Y’all ain’t gonna do right by that guy. He’s a walking target fasho.
@@ryanmcdaniels5014 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Healing doesn’t have a set timetable and everyone’s journey is different. Take your time G
I appreciate that 💪🏾
If someone thinks marriage is the hardest thing they have ever done in life, then maybe marriage isn't for you?? Mad respect for Rashaan for approaching his feelings and relationships seriously. There isn't a due date on healing, especially if you are continuously working on yourself. In my opinion, sex doesn't help in the healing, it is a temporary fix b/c after the session, the pain, thoughts, bad feelings are still there. One has to dig deeper into yourself to heal and to eventually find the right person for you.
You get to choose to participate in the way people love and Rashaan is on the road less travelled...its a privilege to thrive in a relationship these days as two distinct individuals
This video highlights why the world is the way it is. It seems like self love, discipline (physical/sexual), are all something that isn't common. It's quite unfortunate. It seems that Rashaan recognizes the cycles that he has been in with relationships isn't working. He knows that he needs to try something new, however, he is still a bit misguided. I think they all are operating out of their own desires without knowing and loving themselves first.
Thank you for your thoughts queen I see what your saying 🤞🏾
They need to let Rashaan talk
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
People don't realize that you need to take time out to heal. Going from one relationship to another is not healthy for males or females. You may end up treating your next the same or not dealing with things you need to deal with. Your body and mind need time to heal.
Exactly 💁🏾♀️
I am Rashaan and my best friends are Rico with the outside analogy. We just literally had this convo a couple of days ago. I enjoyed this topic.
I hope your heal take all the time you need. I would say for men we need smash other women but for women y’all need spirtual healing.
@@houseofmatrix6174 Yes I'm on my journey of healing. Unfortunately my man passed away unexpectedly so it wasn't a break-up technically but I can definitely see where Rashaan is coming from. I hope everyone the best 🥰
@@nikkistaton2961 I’m sorry for your lost 🤍🕊.I can’t imagine what your going through I pray you get all healing stay close to family& friends. Here’s a song I think you will enjoy ua-cam.com/video/RgKAFK5djSk/v-deo.html
🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🖤🖤🖤
"I tried that way and it didnt work for me." Nuff said. Let the man have HIS experience. He respects himself AND the women he deals with and the yall acting like that's a problem... make it make sense.
Best episode I’ve ever witness on this channel. Period. Idk if it’s Bc it speaks to my FUCKING soul rn but there are 3 perspectives on this panel and I been through ALL THE FUCKING THEM. I’m 30. I’m married. I’m considering divorce Bc this the hardest goddamn shit I ever did - ever. Period. And all these problems are so familiar to me that it’s so damn refreshing to hear men like myself on a mission in life trying to balance my grind with my love life.
Thank you. Only thing I’d like to hear is GWAPO 2 cents but these 3 ppl right here are speaking life into me.
That shyt is real fam! Building a life with someone is so damn hardddddd. Are you in counseling?
I agree. REAL topics (not that shallow nonsense) and REAL, sincere people with responses is much more relatable and interesting that all the frontin that usually goes on on this show.
With that being said if she is a good woman, do what you must to make it work. Unless she deserves better and you're not willing to be that, let her go. If she's a mediocre partner, let her know what she needs to work on & how it's tearing you guys apart. If she's no good or if yall never belonged together in the first place, leave her. Follow your heart. You know the right thing to do. 🙏good luck
Peace king thank you for watching and we glad we can relate with you
@@summerrain6125 This piece of advice that you've given is on point. Logical, mature & clear 👑
@@TT-th1gb Thanks 😊.
That baby Rico needs to go to therapy, that’s all I hear when he make excuses for why he do what he do. Now that you know why you are the way you are seek help to be better!
Naw men are different
Healing doesn’t happen overnight! It’s a process. When healing from anything it’s best that you see the things that you are healing from ! Write it down and talk about the things that you are going through !
Rashaan is such a gentleman and has such a beautiful soul.
Listening to Rashawn speak was refreshing and gives me a little bit more patience when dealing with people who I might want to get to know better
Esso can’t believe your married😳
Alot of marriages are like his this ain't a fairytale lol
Truth
He a realist, but seem loyal
Esso is that toxic friend who gives theeee worst advice..
He that toxic friend that tell his friends to do stuff that he don’t do.
Exactly 🤦🏾♀️
Yall not men I'm sure more men would agree with Esso more than disagree. Boul in the middle is old lonely and emotional 🤷🏾♂️
@@nerdfitness5435 You don't have to be a man to recognize toxicity.
That's why AIDS out here so bad, because of people like this
Rashaan thanks for sharing your story, you are human. I think sometimes we forget that men has feelings, heart and soul. Healing is not easy’ it takes time and a lot of self-awareness and accountability.
When esso said Im not judging I’m laughing 😂😂😂
Thank you for being strong to say that!!!!! Love it , thanks
Thank you for taking the time to watch our show 🖤
sir Rashaan your a good man, i hope you heal soon.blessings
If it's an entanglement, the goal isn't marriage.
I love this guy's..we need more of us men talking about this
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The process of healing for starts with yourself, re-examining/Re evaluating your heart posture. I’m learning healing is the process of CHOOSING to forgive and love you first then the one that hurt you!
Self Love is self maintenance!
"No judgement zone" they said.
Didn't Esso tell the story about his sister dying of AIDS and now he's promoting sleeping around?! I'm confused 🤔🤔
You Can be safe
That's just nasty and bad advice,..
Rashaan is such an open honest vulnerable sweet trying knowledgeable man. He is honestly ginuine. He's the kind of man that iiii can see my self with for a life time!! He has a subtle calm loving kind of spirit to him. I feel in love the more I hear him talk and actually express himself!!!
when i saw rico. i directly hit the thumbs up and subscribed and click the notification bell...OMG your so pretty boy rico.. im falling 😍😍😍
I make sure I relay the message to him 🤣🤣🤣
Rico and Esso be capping like crazy these niggas is not that tough. That man is healing and everyone has to heal to move forward.
To rashaun continue to stand your ground, follow your heart, continue to treat women as the queens they are. You Will find your person. One thing ppl must realize chasing paper is not the main factor of a successful beautiful joyful healthy wealthy life. Seeking purpose in all you do with love so that you can receive in abundance of that which you give.
Rico and Esso get on my last. Those 2 are the reason I dont watch the show as much. Rashann stay focused, we need brother's like you.
Go towards the healing bro💯😂
I got 30 mins left to my shift this video came in clutchhhhh thank you god cause I’m weak AF 😂🤣 I love this channel .
Glad we could help you out on your last 30min lol
I love this episode. I feel like this a real conversation between friends (you may not be but it's what it felt like). In a friends group, you got yo thot friends, your romantics, and ones that's a little bit of both. All stood their ground while keeping it light and fun. Great job fellas.
Loved this episode more than any. Please keep just the man. It’s not loud. Everyone was able to talk. Everyone listened. Everyone laughed. I love listening to men’s perspective instead of women. Why? Cause I’m married to a man, so I’m intrigued by how men perceive the actions of women, and this is some good stuff. There isn’t enough talk shows with all men.
I appreciate SirRashaanAli in his maturity & integrity..., it's honorable. He has daughters & want a man to treat them accordingly!!
See how complicated relationships are #Indecisiveness #Narcissistic Traits We All Carry #DEEP #DOOOOOMMED
I feel every word he says. I’m In the process of healing too
I fucks wit my man Esso! He talking real shit! Don't let the shit he talking about go over your head!
Young dudes got it bad!!
Esso be straight truth telling!!!
The men don't understand that it's a new contract with different terms and conditions once you become a HUSBAND. The men wanna act single while married , are yall hearing this???💀
Oh snap Rico on here with good advice. He's right not to give too much too soon. And excellent "go outside"/get back in the game analogy.
Dating is collecting data to process to see if we are moving forward together or apart
This is was nice. It was refreshing to listen to the mens' opinions without the women interrupting every 2 seconds and trying to out talk them.
My opinion: they guy in the middle is definitely mature.. this would be a good show if a lot of the cast was more EVOLVED 💎🔥
Yo Big Facts!
Let’s stop the cap!!! We go through ups and downs with a woman… if she cheat it’s because we cheated in the past.. if she official! Me and wifey been together for 15 years through all the BS!!! On both parties!!! But through forgiveness on both sides and trust me Ima die with some shit she will never know. I’m sure she she will as well. If I would have left in 2008 I would have never got to know the 2021 version of her nor would she have me. A relationship is a struggle just like the hoods many of us grew up in. It’s how you conquer it that determines who we will be. We just came back from Orlando today and we both said… I’m happy I saw you though and didn’t leave back then because… our bond is real and we grew together. Everyone makes mistakes but… if I have a bad game but I’m an MVP do you trade me??
That's real. Unfortunately, people are not realistic about what marriage is and what it may or may not entail.
Why are they laughing at him?! Are the other two that immature and cold hearted 😑 I guess so 🤷🏾♀️
U r too fine, smart and brave enough to try again
This is a great convo
Homie in the yellow hoodie look like a yng Samual L Jackson ✊🏿 good conversation absolutely fellas
Not I look like Samuel Jackson I’m crying
Yooooo. They clowning my guy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. It’s been 6 years and you still healing.
He has daughters that changes minds.
Esso said “bitch stop playin wit me 🤨” lmao 😂
dawg they funny asab , at least hes laughing at it -- rico is completely right-- bein a hopeless romantic is dangerous u have to POLICE those feelings-- sorry everybody dont deserve that upfront --
Thank you for your thoughts queen 🖤
@@Sir_RashaanAli ur the kind of guy some of us wish they had-- stay dangerous tho
@@honeylala9906 🖤🖤🖤
I’m confused why they trynna change his mind
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it didn’t work tho lol
I’m the other way I’m one way until I get you once I get you and you’re mine I wanna go even harder not start lacking or get comfortable cause I wanna keep you now that I have you. Without you being mine I might fall back or not be consistent cause at the end of the day you’re not my man and it can be hard to find a balance sometimes
Really I feel like that's so childish. You don't know if you really like someone until sex. Much respect for the guy in the middle.
Apdta thank you queen 🖤
Haha I love being alone too, that’s the problem. I totally relate 😅🙌🏽
I respect you rashaan
lol This was fun! Leave Rashad alone lol. He ok; will be better than ok and finds the right woman. Much blessings to him on his journey.
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i love this coversation
I do like Esso managing advice.
A love rashaan maturity and intelligence
Apdta I appreciate it king
Oh I wish I could speak on this 🙏🏼🙏🏼
What’s your thoughts on the subject ?
The one in the yellow still need to heal .. as you heal it come with a level of maturity and a different outlook on marriage
Rashaan is the beacon of hope for dating .... seems like the other two tryna turn him into an “asshole” but I hope he stays the way he is cause we need more considerate, courteous, black men who are willing and capable of courting lady’s cause we’re not all thots out here. 💁🏾♀️ period.
im dying when they laugh about the healing part... I keep repeating lmaoo
Esso just telling real facts. I been married I got when being nice guy just like man in the middle. After I divorce . I woke and saw the light it change me. I respect Esso raw and realness. Women flip on you on drop of dime.
Rashaan is my twin flame, or whatever they call it 😂 he literally is the male version of me !
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There’s no set time for healing @SirRashaan I commend you.
He is me .🥺
Then you is me 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾